Scorpio women love Aquarius men
A funny trend I have noticed in Hollywood is powerful, gorgeous, desirable Scorpio women falling head over heels for goofy Aquarian men. Julia Roberts is happily married to cinematographer Danny Moder. Rebecca Romijn walked down the aisle with longtime partner Jerry O’Connell. And though it didn’t quite work our, Demi Moore married her young lover, Ashton Kutcher.
In astrology this is not a traditionally advisable match, for these are two fixed signs that are square to one another. And at first blush, these are not the type of men you would think a sexy, controlling Scorpio woman would be interested in. They were not necessarily the most popular guys in high school, they are quite a bit off from the ‘norm’ and have strange habits. Don’t ask me what they are.. only them, and presumably by now their Scorpio wives, know what I’m talking about. But let’s face it, they are brilliant. Again it is possible that only their wives see this, but the astrologer sees it too. These men are visionaries, they are creative and talented, seemingly on an entirely different level than everyone else. They are inventors. They see the possibilities and then make them happen. They are mad scientists, in the realm of film and television in this case. And clever Scorpio ladies are just the type to spot this kind of talent a hundred miles away and hone in like a guided missile.
After all Scorpio ladies have been through their fair share of dissapointment. It is absolutely worth noting that all three of these women have been married before. Julia to fellow Scorpio Lyle Lovett. Demi had been married twice, briefly to a random musician, and then to Pisces Bruce Willis. And Rebecca was married to Leo John Stamos. These are more the type of men you would expect a Scorpio lady to fall for… passionate Scorpios, sensitive Pisces or brazen Leos. And they did fall for them, long enough to realize that this was not their perfect match. They each needed someone just as intelligent and interesting, but more aloof and unconventional, like an Aquarius. Scorpio women are, truth be told, very unconventional.
It is also worth noting that all three of these ladies have their moon in fixed signs as well. Julia’s moon sign is Leo (of course). Demi is a full moon baby, her moon being in the sign opposite her sun, Taurus. And Rebecca is a double Scorpio. These women have very fixed personalities. They know what they like, they know what they don’t like and they know how they want their lives to be, and they gracefully, sometimes forcefully, will it into being. I have a theory about fixed sign people, especially double fixed sign people, that they secretly have difficulty respecting non-fixed sign people. It is like they are so set in their life and their path and their convictions (only sometimes in a negative way) that they see other, especially more mutable types, as entirely flakey, wishy washy and weak. While Aquarians are unpredictable, they are very fixed in their unpredictability, and that is ok by these Scorpio ladies. (Again if you are not an Aquarian man or a Scorpio woman who loves one, it is likely that this will make no sense to you at all.) More obvious is the fact that Aquarian men are usually happy to stand in the wings and let their ladies call the shots, and this is very, very important to a Scorpio woman.
Another beautiful Scorpio actress has also married an Aquarian man. Aishwarya Rai, the crown jewel of Bollywood and arguably the most beautiful woman in the world (Julia Roberts herself is said to feel this way) married last April Bollywood scion Abhishek Bachchan. Aishwarya has neither been married before, nor has her moon in a fixed sign (her moon is Capricorn) but having had her pick of the subcontinent and settling on an Aquarian, she most definately belongs to this illustrious category.
Hi,
Aquarius male here. Left-handed and introverted; very cerebral as the sign would have it. I wanted to share my situation because I am a bit confused and this is strange to me because normally I consider things to be fairly evident and obvious. My situation is this:
About five years ago I met a girl. We worked together and spoke casually when we shared shifts. At the time if I remember correctly she was single but I didn’t ask her out, although she had mentioned that we should hang out sometime. I remember sometimes I would look for her name on the shift sheet to see if we would be working together that week and being sort of excited if she was. However I didn’t ask her out because I was intimidated by her, because she is the most gorgeous girl I have ever seen and while I consider myself a fairly decent-looking fella and have never had problems with getting girls, I had never met someone that had that impact on me to the point where I was too shy to ask someone out.
I left that job after a short time and fast forward about five years later, we had remained friends on facebook but rarely spoke until about a week ago. During this time she met someone and they are dating now, and have been for a few years. Then last Tuesday she invited me and a few mutual friends to an event which was posted on facebook. I don’t want to give too many details for privacy’s sake but I will say that the event was a marathon to be coming up in a few months. We are both physically fit but I don’t like to run so I wrote back, to paraphrase, “It’s no secret that I think you are absolutely the most gorgeous girl I have ever met but there has got to be an easier way to hang out with you than to run a marathon to do it!” It was tongue-in-cheek but she wrote me back calling bullshit saying we have had five years and I never initiated anything, which is true. I responded by saying I wasn’t lying and that the reason I didn’t was because she’s the only girl I have ever met that I’ve felt too intimidated (or even intimidated at all) to ask out.
We began texting shortly after this exchange, the same night, and she pressed me on why I was so intimidated. So, I told her I had never planned on actually telling her any of this but since she asked, and since I feel honesty, openness, and communication is important over almost everything else, I revealed to her that in all my life I had never met anyone quite so uniquely beautiful as her. I told her that to me she is the epitome of beauty. I told her that if I could ask god to create the image of the perfect woman for me, she would be it. And Scorpio ladies reading this, I even told her that I never knew what the woman I wanted to spend the rest of my life looked like until I met her and that I haven’t met anyone else that has changed my mind since. After telling her all this I asked if I was weirding her out because I felt like a total creep and she just replied that no, just that nobody had ever said anything like that to her before. My response was that that was funny because I had never said that to anybody before, because I have never felt that way about anyone before her.
So we’ve been texting every day since that night and I’m not quite sure what to make of it. She has a boyfriend as I mentioned and only mentions him in the context of when she has to do something that is him-centered and it’s unavoidable to mention him. In other words she is deliberately not mentioning him and I am deliberately not asking about him, nor am I mentioning anything about my exes or any relationship discussion for that matter. I honestly have no clue whether they are very happy or on the rocks. I have casually thrown out “I know you’re happily taken” in the context of our opening discussion just because it seems she is happy with him (happy enough, at least on facebook) but she completely disregarded the comment as though I had never said it. So this way the conversation stays light and innocent enough, and to be honest it’s nice that way because I am not interested in hearing about her exes or current and I’m also not interested in talking about mine. I’m only interested in us and our relationship, novel as it may be, and that’s it.
The reason I’m writing this is because I’m not sure why she is choosing to continue to text me every day (she initiates which is nice because I don’t want to bug her) but at the same time she doesn’t talk about anything that she feels for me, if anything at all. That’s fine with me because my gut tells me right now she is very cautiously and carefully feeling me out, especially taking into consideration her situation with her boyfriend. But I’m not naive to the fact that she could just be considering me a friend, perhaps feeling somewhat obligated to talk to me after I was so honest about what I still thought of her after all these years. But I’m not a dummy, and I just find it hard to believe she’s not at least contemplating the possibility of something down the road.
Scorpio ladies, what is going on? As an aquarius it’s true I have no problems leaving people in the dust with hardly a second thought but the whole reason I write this extremely long post is because to be honest, even though I don’t know her very well, I feel this desire, this attraction, almost a craving to be with her, like I need her somehow… over all these years even though our only contact was on facebook, when I would see something she posted or when I’d occasionally go through her pictures it always just hit me every time, like god, there is just something about her… The stereotype for aqua is that we are incapable of true love but the truth is I feel that applies to emotionally undeveloped or immature aquariuses. I used to think I felt so isolated from most people that I would never find a soul mate but lately I’ve been feeling that I’m ready. I feel like I have a lot of love to give to one special person, and as cynical as I am I have this weird feeling about this girl, like maybe she is different; I know he is different but maybe she is the one. I suppose only time will tell.
What’s the status now ItsJustMe?
We just sort of stopped talking. I’m sure maybe we will bump heads in the future but I’m not pursuing anyone in a relationship. So, while it was nice to talk to her here and there for that brief period, I’m also fine with the way it is now.
I am Scorpio female off and on with aqua male for four years and now we are off again but this time I’m pregnant! We just fought way too much and he also battles an addiction which in aqua stubbornness refused to see he had a problem until I was packed and leaving ( perfect timing) he also pursued another women who app is some sort of past lover which I have noticed that aqua males do this a lot , run back to someone from their past when things get tough with current women. Anyways I don’t know of he is still with this women we have a dont ask don’t tell policy right now. But he texts me everyday and I make are he is the one to text first. He asks how my ” tummy” is on a daily basis and is always asking if I need help with my new place and has been a help financially and the baby isn’t even here yet. He wants to remain friends. There are times when I find this something I just can’t do because I still have feelings for him so I tell him I need to take some time off talking to him everyday. This only makes him text more. I don’t understand his intentions and am really scared and weary. He doesn’t flirt at all but he does give me hugs everytime we see each other and the other day told me i ” look nice” we had a really intense passionate true love relationship but alcohol ruined it and now eve split and it feels different from before. Usually we sill are intimate and hang out but this time we haven’t. Chalk it up to both being too scared to go down that road again. But honestly why is he being so nice to me now and texting very say asking how I am and if I need help and everything else? I feel like we are drifting and again if he is still with this women then why text me everyday? There is a line between being civil with coparenting and texting every single day like that . It’s all very confusing . A part of me thinks he sill has feelings but the other part is telling me different like he just feels badly for me or something. what gives? We are also 1 and 5 life path which is supposed to be the best you can get . So why is he being so nice now and not make this effort when we were together? I can’t bare him coming over to see me and the baby and then go home to another women if not now then edventually. should I be his friend or just let him go and be civil for the child. I still love him but at this point have no idea where he stands . I sometimes feel that he is over me and doesn’t feel that way finally anymore so why the daily texts? I’m so confused !
I think you’re a bit off. In reality, women identify more with their Moon and Venus signs, while men identify with their Sun and Mars. What you have there with Ms. Roberts is her Leo Moon opposite his Aquarius Sun. Sun-Moon conjunctions and oppositions are the strongest indicators of marriage and long-lasting romance in synastry, especially when the contact is between the woman’s Moon and the man’s Sun.
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Ya’ll, I feel like after a whole decade of only having aquarians as friends and lovers that I owe the world some insight ( from scorpio-self) to all of you scorpios struggling so much with them. Earlier up here I wrote down all of the plus points and what an aquarian responds to and needs and feels like ( look up ” misty” ) but now I am going to reveal some harsher facts, and of course I’m going to pretend like people’s natal charts don’t exist because the natal chart DOES matter ( specifically the angles the planets form to eachother like ‘ sun sextile moon’, which you could figure out on http://www.astro.com by looking at any profile of a natal chart on the bottom of the page and then google those angles. It is the ULTIMATE reveal of someone’s psyche.) For the sake of giving the struggling scorpios a bit of a reality check and maybe expose some Aquarius stereotype-rules I will pretend everything is easily generalizeable. I hope Aquarians don’t take offense to this but they might. However, a scorpio’s main desire is to protect so here is me protecting my fellow man lol.
Look. All this business about being so emotionally and spiritually wound up in your Aquarius mystery has a hell of a lot more to do with your own development and your own psyche and your own emotional development than it does the handsome Aquarius. Aquarians are naturals at manipulation, naturals at detachment, naturals at paradoxical insanity, naturals at repression of emotion and the emotions most readily available to them in an honest way are anger or ego. When you see them being sweet, giving you attention, opening up about something that isn’t a cerebral thought, they are playing somewhat of a game because they know it’s sort of required to interact with you to get whatever it is they need to get in the interaction, even if just IS to be stimulated. They like that, stimulating themselves. They are also mystically tied to you scorpios because deep down, DEEP.DOWN. their core is much like your outer layer. Inverted versions of each other, if you will, except they will always have more power than you. Because they will always have the control, because they will always care less, they will always be less vulnerable, they will always find your vulnerability confusing or silly and if they display something otherwise ( as a ROMANTIC partner, as friends they are amazing and sweeter than God) it’s either entertainment they’re producing or some sort of semi-socioapthic need they are fulfilling. An aquarius generally finds themselves into a scorpio’s life when the scorpio needs:
a) good sex
b) good conversation with someone who likes intellectualizing things
c) chivalry
d) seduction
e) the image of themselves they cannot currently uphold or not currently at peace with.
That last one is the big one. Aquarians are master blank canvases, for which you can easily paint and project whatever you ultimately need to see on – and they know this, too which is half the reason why they don’t believe your love and accuse you of just being irrational or in lust instead. Because they know they’ve delivered a bit of a mirage that both of you have created. Do they love? Sure. If they’ve rationalized a practical need for it. It will never, literally never be the definition of love you, as scorpios, compute as love.
So then you sit there going, where does all my passion come from then?? They are so greeeeeeat, etc etc. Yes they are great. They are total appeal. They are smart. They are funny. They think you are those things too. They are sexy and they are powerful , but their internal makeup is anywhere from a total deception to you/under your standards, to your own self-deception and if you try getting the Aquarius to get close to themselves and close to you and all that that your true Scorpionic nature will want to do, they will just resent you for it and self-preserve even more in some sort of perverse way.
That is their beauty, mind you. Being perverse. If you have ever been privvy to the true psyche of an Aquarius you would be pretty disturbed, especially if you are still wrapped up in nothing but your own, very driving, very strong motivations and desires towards the Aquarius.
And let’s face it, if they did not know how to give you, and EVERYBODY/anybody the desired reality you seek and have a void of, and if they didn’t know how to fuck you erotically as if you are finally loved, you all wouldn’t be here analyzing the shit out of someone who really seriously doesn’t ever want to analyzed – again, unless it’s to be a little amused or fascinated.
Until you work through your demons, mature emotionally, strengthen your spirit and not let sex control you, you will continue finding Aquarians to be your soulmates. As friends, they are. As lovers, the truth of it is faaaaaaaar from the beauty you seek. The trick about Scorpios is they never realize how much darkness or perversion they’re actually attracted to or actually have themselves, until they get faced with it repeatedly with someone who hides it the best: An Aquarius.
If you want to marry a magician, marry an Aquarius. If you want someone to be with you out of strategy and friendship or mild fascination on their part, be with an Aquarius. If you want someone who can build you up but break you down, support your mind but rip open your heart and get you in touch with your rawest of weaknesses, then choose an Aquarius. If you want to discover the intense game of the human psyche, study an Aquarius.
But if it’s sanity or love you’re looking for, get off this thread and find yourself someone who’s soul is actually EQUIPPED to worship you the way you need. If that doesn’t appeal to you, then I believe it is time to admit your own self-loathing.
Sorry for being so blunt. I say this all with love. I know what it’s like to constantly run into your dream-mate in your mind only to really see that in reality it’s pretty much a friendly and diplomatic narcissist.
ALSOOOOOOO: if an Aqua wants you, for whatever reason, they will do something about it. They are not shy or meek individuals, all this bullshit about them getting scared is another way of them being in a mode where they are simply not as interested. They’re kind of like sophisticated kids. Ambitious and controlling at that. You won’t know this until you get closer, though. When you are worthy to them, they won’t even be able to control getting a hold of you. Just don’t expect stability in that affection, that’s simply not their thing — especially not with a worldwind of expectations and passions as you, dear Scorpios.
Much love. Good luck.
i’m aquarius and this doesn’t descibe me sorry you didn’t meet any good ones.
I’m an Aquarius, and my question is how you manage to figure an Aquarius down to the T. That was pretty amazing, and I’m pretty impressed. Yes we are the master of deception and manipulation we will get what we want, whatever it takes. also I’ll like to add. To any relationship or woman we meet It’s very hard for us to differentiate the difference between friendship and romantic love. Oh and we will flee at the first sign of any trouble. I dont know why it’s like that but it’s like that.
You are so right…. I only learned who they were truly after seven years of being with one. Met another aqua man who hates me now cause I didn’t fall for the B. S. I slept with him and told him we were only attracted to each other and if he wanted to continue any relationship it would have to be fun and sexual no commitments involved . See he wanted me to be crazy about him chase call but I have already been there done that.
And TRUTH at the bottom has no clue about scorpio if u said we are not self perceptive. We are very intuitive. Intuned with outside surroundings and with ourselves.
Im a scorp woman and i just recently met an aqua guy. I have to say i find him very intriguing. He’s playful and exciting but also very smart and a good decision maker. Hes a social butterfly but he always comes back to make sure im fine. Very non-judgemental,so i can really say or do anything and he wont be overly shocked. Ive dated other aqua men where it didnt work but i still like this combo. The key is communication. And if both parties willing scorpio and aquarius can have great communication and understanding of each other.
I find this very true. Aquarius men are just so attractive, in a way. Though Scorpios are more compatible with Capricorns, I tend to get bored with them. Seriously, they really need to spice up their lives more. This is the reason I broke up with Peter, a Capricorn, and got together with Henry, an Aquarius, instead. Me and Henry been together for 8 years and counting, and I’m very happy with him. He’s just so different, standing out and all, and Scorpios like different.
I AM A SCORPIO AND I HAVE BEEN WITH AN AQUARIUS MAN AND IT WAS GREAT. BUT THE STERIOTYPE THAT AQUARIUS MEN HAVE SEX FOR NEED IS TRUE. ( I ALMOST DIDNT BECAUSE OF A JELIOUS FRIEND BUT IM GLAD I DIDNT LISTEN TO HIM.)
ok i just read at apparently scorpio women think all me think they’re hot and as a scorpio woman myself i can honestly say that is BS. i dont think all men think i’m hot and wouldnt even describe myself as pretty. i do have an aquarius boyfriend and we work perfectly together. we’re totally equal and neither of us ‘wears the trousers’. we make decisions together and talk things through clamly and openly. and in fact all our friends tell us they’re jealous of our relationship because it’s just so easy for us to get on together, have a laugh and go out together. i personally feel like the luckiest girl in the world. you cant place compatability on star signs, there are so many other factors and not everyone is typical of their sign.
I am in an unsatisfying marriage currently with an aquarius man from the beginning I could fell the detachment was there in our lovemaking…I felt as if something was always missing and still is he is very secretive and has been caught talking and entertaining his ex wife….He has to be in control all the time even though I am very submissive he treats me badly and I don’t know how much more I will put up with…I have tried to be a good wife but he is always telling me he has his individuality but I feel we are as one…I am not resigned to withdrawing from him emotionally and seeing things his way as sex…I like romance he is no longer that especially since I hacked into his facebook account and found out he was still communicating with his ex wife …I told him “she is an ex for a reason” The thing is he feels since they were together children or not they should still be in communication with each other…I know that he is still keeping in touch Aquarius men are ruthless ,controlling bastards they think they know every little thing…Also, they are way too materialistic I feel they no nothing about love or care to know…They feel whatever is their is their and vice versa!!!!
Self centered, look at the overview of the man’s life, a man who handled his marriage in the same disconnected emotional manner as he is handling you. Sense it breaks rules; it’s more intriguing for him to engage now relationally with his ex, now you get the cold disconnected treatment she got for the years of their marriage…the abusive behavior. Does he apologize….never? See anything wrong? ….not….You or I would think that things that happen to us or that we go through are learning experiences to understanding, not this self centered deceiver.
If you were the wife, (You are now)…. and he never connected to you for 20 some years of a marriage, or participated in raising children, and virtually rarely if infrequently had a partner in life or the intimacy of a partner or talked (connected with you) and spent time….quality time….cared what you thought….or what you were thinking…or what you wanted to do…This man is a big absentee, called abandonment…..this wife finally wanted a life…cause she did not have one with this guy. She is the victim of his abusiveness in all areas. He is no victim, he married living single out there, and very detached from home life and wife. But don’t let anyone find out. Uses his job to legitimize his absences…but you can bet he has hit and run sex all along the way. Although no one would think that about him. He’s such a mystery, and no one in family looks up and questions. He was safe apparently the first marriage. They don’t like to get caught. They run for the hills when someone knows them better then they thought. Cause they take special care to not let that happen.
They say if it’s too good to be true usually it is. There is more than meets the eye. Do what you have to in order to stay attached to your own groundedness and common sense. Get counseling now. They are not necessarily as innocent as they portray themselves to appear. Remember there was a wife before you and this leopard has not changed his spots. Plus, they will always frame things so that the wife or the other person looks like the bad guy to everyone else in the family. They do everything to come out smelling like a rose. Like they are so nice, how could they be the one…and this male detached and abandoned as yours is from you right now. Question everything, see what you see and what you don’t . You are not crazy. Trust yourself. Build yourself up Hopefully before you have children. Use your common sense. Talk. Find mentors. Go to church. So you can save your own life while you still have your mind and turn blame on yourself. If you are not the problem you can’t fix it. Don’t turn in on yourself emotionally. It’s not about you! So don’t doubt yourself, even a little bit…the wife should have been questioning and getting louder all along. Once there are children a wife will do all to what……save the family……in this case….it seems like you have to save your own self first, in order to really save everybody else. I watched this same scenario in family lines for generations, it doesn’t change till the wife catches on and discovered waht she married. Think about it, pray about it.
me and my husband are as strong as they come.
Don’t put your love and life in the hands of an astrological sign lol
Scorpio with Aqua
Wow that’s a load of BS I read about Scorpios and Aquarius (males) being a good match… first off, Scorpio (together with Libra) is said to be the most ”common astrological sign” in the western world (at least) and there are some statistics proving that most babies are born in October and November.
Second of all, Aquarius men are generally CURIOUS about anything and anyone, whether an incompatible manipulative Scorpio or a quiet and reserved Capricorn. It won’t matter to them. Aquarians are analyzers and deep thinkers. They will naturally be drawn to Scorpio since the odds are higher of females being born under that sign. Pretty please. Scorpios are everywhere! But as far as compatibility goes, Aqua + Scorpio are the worst together. And You all know it, otherwise, you won’t be here ranting, analyzing, expressing, writing dozens of stories about your personal experiences on how Scorpio and Aquarius relationships are problematic. You won’t see that many posts about Aquarius & Libras for instance, since they are totally compatible and totally problem free compared to Aquarius & Scorpio pages. All I see here is Scorpio women’s delusions about Aquarius males. Scorpio women think all men find them “sexy” and that all men want to be with them. Hell no! It won’t take long before your Aquarius male will leave you for an honest and kindhearted Leo girl that has more sex appeal & power than a Scorpio, or a charming Libra that will be strong enough mentally and emotionally to deal with his eccentric ways. So you see, Misses Scorpios, you should look love elsewhere, and NOT with a water Bearer. I can guarantee you that they will 1)cheat on you and 2)find a better mate that isn’t a Scorpio. After all, it is well known (FACT) that Scorpio females get cheated on constantly due to their lack of self perception and TERRIBLE KARMA (yes, you Scorpios get “kicked in the butt” by Karma). Just look at your terrible and out-of-date examples of Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore (good match My @ss). And let’s not forget how Hillary Clinton got cheated on… as well as Maria Shriver and her Arnold… Leos are the only ones that can deal with Aquarians and vice versa. Not Scorpios!
BTW Julia Roberts is with her Aquamale because of her LEO MOON and not because she is a Scorpio!
If you are a Scorpio with an Aquarius or a Leo, get OUT of that relationship. Instantly! It just won’t work and you, Scorpio, will end up hurt, devastated and worn out. The only sign that cannot & will not submit to your so called “plutonic” power (lemme laugh) is Leo and Aquarius.
Scorpios should stick to their fellow water signs and Earth signs cousins. And not Masculine signs. Scorpios like to play with “fire” and “air” but they aren’t strong enough to handle them. They are “masculine signs wannabes” or “fire sign wannabes”
“The only sign that cannot & will not submit to your so called “plutonic” power (lemme laugh) is Leo and Aquarius. ”
And I see this as BS, as with most of your response. And you’re quite wrong on the Leo not submitting. Please. I have so many Leos on my tail it isn’t even funny, and they won’t go away no matter how truthful I am to them that I do not want them.
@Scorpio, oh you are such a typical conceited delusional Scorpio but also a rarity that thinks that Aquarius or Leos submit to Scorpios (major big LOL). You Scorpios online are so delusional that it’s laughable. You all know Leos are the only ones that aren’t scared of you guys and it kills you to know that you ain’t that “powerful”. FACT. Live with it and stop pretending you got “leos on your tail”.
Merry Christmas
LOL at this TRUTH guy…please don’t be an asshole and bash any certain astrological sign
I have been married to my Aqua for 5 years. Maybe he’s just different, we only had one argument that i can think of which was more than minor. Other than that we compliment each other. I support him emotionally when he can’t he brings out my freedom risky side. We gel like glue. A relationship is what you make of it. He’s the man for me, I’m the woman for him.
It’s all about patience, learn to trust and learn to love.
You sound very very very jealous of Scorpio Women. Wow. You should have reread what you wrote before you went off on a rant like that. You sound fearful of Scorpios.
wow you sound so bitter and negative. Poor thing, Sounds like a scorpio broke your heart. Everybody is not the same sweetie. Grow up.
Hi there!
I’ll freely admit I did not read all of the comments posted, but I’ve skimmed through and it seems this combination has either worked tremendously or failed begrugingly. I guess people would not have come to this site without an already somewhat strong intuition regarding the answer. Here is my two cents:
First of all, I’m a Scorpio woman(on the Sagittarius cusp), with moon in Leo and ascendant in Virgo or Libra (I am still not sure of this).
My fiance is an Aquarius man, with moon in Scorpio and also an ascendant in Scorpio if I am not mistaken.
He is definately an introverted person, and even though I sometimes am so used to being close to him, I forget the ever-so-quiet man that I first met, and as a Scorpio, my reflex is to automatically think something is wrong when he becomes silent.
We have a very strong and emotionally communicative bond, and I think this is key, he does not usually go quiet on important stuff, he does so randomly.
The best advice I can offer is to not overanalyze it. If something bothers you, always be straightforward. You do not need to play games with this one, and honesty and open communication especially when dealing with emotions, is best.
I have never been happier, and my Aquarius is a loyal, kind, trustworthy and highly intelligent man. Definately worth putting trust into, which for me (and Scorpios in general) is a pretty huge deal.
Also, we started out by being very good friends, and we are also both philosophy students.
I guess you’re lucky. A lot could also depend on the Moon sign and other planets. For some of us, the Aquarian men just disappear. I was direct on the issue of relationship, but perhaps precisely because of this, he vanished without a trace. I just put it down to the fact that the guy was commitment-phobic, and moved on with my life. Ultimately, if a woman is looking for a permanent relationship, a commitment-phobic Aquarian male or a male of any other sign doth no good.
@lorelei All of that good things out of your compatibility is due to him having Scorpio in his chart and you having Leo (the absolute best match for Aquarius and we all know that) moon and Libra rising. Leos and Libras are Aquarian’s best matches and anyone having these 2 signs in their chart is bound to be with a Water Bearer. And yes, Aquarians get overly emotional, extremely romantic and super duper “soft” with anyone having Leo in their chart.
Anyways, I wish you the best with your relationship and wish you a Merry Christmas.
Lydia,
I agree with you. If they act this way then doubts come to mind and you start to question yourself. Its not something anyone wants to go through..we all want a happy fun healthy relationship and it’s really difficult to find someone you can actually genuinely click with. I felt exactly the same way and thought maybe he has lost interest but sometimes randomly he would text me and we would have a great fun conversation and it just ends after that. I know he likes me..and he knows I like him to. Its just that the circumstances we are in its not working.
I want to obviously keep him keen and interested and him being an Aqua he is difficult to understand what he’s feeling. Right now all im doing is keeping myself busy and not focus too much on him..over thinking this wouldn’t really go no where.. things always happen for a reason.. if its ment to be..its ment to be..
I got to know an Aquarian guy on an online dating site about 2 months ago. I’m in Asia and he’s in the other part of the world. We hit it off well and were exchanging long letters every one/two days. At the start I exploded at him because I doubted his sincerity; I thought he might be playing with me. He disappeared for a while, but came back a few days later. Soon, everything was well. In fact, better than before. He’s said more than once that he likes me a lot … … .
I tried to make plans when we could meet up. After all, he’s said more than once he wants to meet up too. I asked him if he could come over to Asia next year, but all he said was that he was quite content with the way things were and wanted us to continue like that before we made plans. I became upset. Everyone knows that a long-distance relationship can’t be sustained without a meeting once or twice a year. I told him so and asked him how serious he was about the relationship. I even offered to fly over to his part of the world if he isn’t prepared to come over, assuming he’s sufficiently serious about the relationship, of course.
Not only was there no reply, he deactivated his online dating account. I don’t know what to make of this. In return, I deleted him from Facebook friends. (Whether he knows this or not is another matter.)
I think he may be having family and work difficulties as well.
Is this typical Aquarian behaviour? Is he likely coming back, or is this over? Should I try to pursue him? There’s only one channel of communication left, which is e-mail. If he gets riled and blocks me, that’s it.
Lydia,
Its easy for me to say this but it’s a situation you have to deal with. From what I’ve noticed Aqua’s are hot and cold which makes if difficult for us to understand them. My advice is just carry on with what your doing. Don’t focus too much on this guy. If he’s interested and really into you, he will contact you. Long distant relationships don’t really work if there is a lack of communication. I can understand you really like this guy but don’t work yourself up over this.. its just going to build up unnecessary tension. Get to know other guys. Its not like your in a serious relationship so there is no commitment its just dating..
If they keep blowing hot and cold like that, I’m not quite sure how one can get a commitment from them.
Besides, it’s always a mystery when a guy grows cold. One doesn’t know if (i) the guy is just testing you to see how interested you are, (ii) he’s lost interest, or (iii) he’s just playing/manipulating you. It’s pretty much a guessing game and if you guess wrongly and give the wrong response, you get dunked.
How’s it been with your guy? (I’m pretty much in the same boat as you re ” I’ve had shitty experiences when it comes to finding the right guy that I’m comfortable with. I finally find him and the one thing that’s ruined it is the long distance. I want to give him his space but I just hope he doesn’t loose interest in me.”)
@ Lydia
I really sympathize with you because something similar happened to me with online dating. One time with an Aries and second time with an Aquarius. They were both liars and that is why they didn’t want to meet in person. I didn’t give up, I flew over to their countries and cities and found out who they really were. The Aries dramatically lied about his height and life style but the Aquarius lied about EVERYTHING. I busted him so good that he couldn’t believe it. Like yours, he ended his accounts and found some lame and stupid excuses for not wanting to meet me. He kept me hanging on by promising me we would meet , he even sent me a gold ring (very manipulative) and then when the planned dates approached, he acted all weird and erratic. I made a real detective work and found out that he wasn’t who he said he was and that he was taking his own son’s identity in order to chat with younger females, that he was married and god damn ugly (I finally got a real picture of his face). I was just too good for him and it would have been embarrassing for him to come clean.
Anyways, no matter what sun signs he (or she) has, if a guy (or a girl) you meet online isn’t willing to meet you offline (in real life), it means that he (or she) is hiding something major about themselves or that they aren’t taking this seriously and only playing with people’s emotions (some people are sick enough to do so). Since Aquarians have the ability to master their emotions, they can be more prone to emotionally manipulate a person just for the “fun of it”. They like to experience and see consequences. Then they get their own conclusions and you have been merely fooled and played. So my advice to you is, lay low, do not date online (unless if the person has shown real signs of seriousness) and block that dude.
There is a meaning with everything in life.
And another thing: do not email him. you will appear as clingy and Aquarians absolutely hate that. If he really likes you, chances are he will write you back and take a greater initiative without you asking him for it. Aquarians are like that. Very stubborn and unpredictable. If you have patience, things will work out. Otherwise, don’t bother this dude. Find yourself a reliable January born Capricorn instead. They have almost the same emotional characters as Aquarians except they are fond of commitments and they are sensitive.
Best of lucks to you and Merry Christmas!
Hey I’m a scorpio too and my boyfriend is an aquarian and he is so hard to read ..now he has his job and he’s away and he does nothing to make me feel better although he knows how insecure I feel ..and even when he’s right here with me looking into my eyes its like his mind is somewhere else..I just don’t understand why he’s like that and I constantly feel like he’s not telling me everything..and when I ask him too many questions he gets really irritated and starts to avoid me. He doesn’t even know how to comfort me when I’m depressed and I start to think why did I even fall for him in the first place when I knew he wasn’t good enough for me. But I also know he loves me, he’s made that very clear in the past two years that we’ve been together, but then again I can’t help feeling insecure. I just don’t know what to do. Please help.
sorry hun but only Aquarian could be more patient with you.
You sound like very insecure girl and this is what puts all male off regardless sign.
You have a long time befor getting there Read some self help it is you not him or them.
or some bits how to katch and keep him..:)
Double aquarius man here. I will always love my scorpio woman and will never forget her. We were an unforgettable match. We’re not together, but I know that’s the type of woman I need.
yes yes yes officially its meant for disaster but i love being around scorpio woman,ive been in two relationships with the scorpions ha ha and i loved it one was for four years now i promised i would stay clear even though we are still in regular contact even though were overseas but by chance another scorpio lady found me and i was wary at first as we were both travelling but what i still dont understand about this relationship was it was a complete role reversal when it came to making decisions as that she was being aloof and i was taking some of her star sign traits and we couldnt get the ball rolling further even though it was if we were together years both of us being very open and receptive at the time, anyone one else with anything similar because i found it very strange indeed,
I wouldnt say it ended in disaster as i knew the difficulties between our two star signs but i kinda feel bad not sure she was ready for an Aquarian man,it must be torture for ye ladys but dont give up on us when we go off on a tangents as we often do and forget about ye (sorry) trust me even though we dont show it at those times your still number one even though we cant explain how we can justify this – ill still be wary of a next scorpio encounter but its hard to fight off that connection or energy
any other aquarian man like to confuse there scorpio ladys just little things just to watch the wheels turning in there heads as they try to recover there dominance even if it lands you in hot water lol
i look foward to hearing from ye
Hey,
I was reading the above posts and I can relate to them so much. Recently I was chatting to this guy (Aqua) on fb and we instantly clicked. it was just messaging each other, I could feel that vibe and I was enjoying chatting to him. We exchanged numbers chatted away again and it was so comfortable and easy. I was really opening up and chatting to him like he was my best mate. After a few days we linked to watch a movie and we were just chatting away for ages..when we were at the cinema waiting for the movie to start we were messing about cussing each other..and strangely it was fun and exciting. Then when the movie started I was watching it but I noticed he was looking at me at times..It felt nice in the moment that this guy is noticing me. Felt really special. We were whispering to each other then after he said he really wants to kiss me..i teased him a bit then we had this amazing kiss.. through out the movie we kept touching each other, holding hands and kissed at random times.. the movie ended and we went back to the car. We just couldn’t take our eyes off each other.We messed around again and went a bit far and that’s soo not like me. I’ve never been like that ever. He brought out this amazing wild side out of me. He said he likes me and he know I like him as well. He gave me that full on attention which I’ve always wanted from a guy. Well after that the following days he didn’t message me much and I completely understood because he was packing to go to Uni. Even though I knew this I just wanted some re assurance that what’s going on..where do I stand etc. He messaged me when he got to Uni that it would be best if we stayed as mates because it would be difficult for him to come and see me vice versa. I have given him his space. He has message me first sometimes. I have mentioned twice on occasions that I miss him.. miss chatting to him and he said he misses me too but cant do much.. I just need some advice. I just worry that will he lose interest in me? How can I keep him interested in me? I’ve never felt this way about anyone before and since I found out he’s an Aqua, I’ve been reading the characteristics and they make sense. I’ve had shitty experiences when it comes to finding the right guy that I’m comfortable with. I finally find him and the one thing that’s ruined it is the long distance. I want to give him his space but I just hope he doesn’t loose interest in me.. : (
They are liars, point blank! Will tell tall tales, out of the ordinary stories and paint a pretty picture to win you over, then drop off the face of the earth before you can expose them for the true liars that they are. I’m sure ALL these men aren’t liars, but this one of mine who is an older man, told very tall tales. I think there were some psychological issues now that I think back on our relationship and all the things he would do and say.
Iam an aquarius man, dated a few scorpio women (brief dates) YUK, Id rather jump in a snake pit.
id rather eat snake than have an aquarian man again they’re psychotic narcasists
Miss Scorpio
Thanks for the response. I think you are absolutely right about disappearing for days and weeks without contact. In my earlier post i did speak about that. Although i doubt he would do that after marriage, It is still no excuse to not even contact for weeks and months. You have every right to take any action appropriate for you and your life in relation to your aqua.
But i was speaking in general where a woman is living with an aqua man under one roof and the aqua man got something engrossed on his mind. Then they have a way of detaching from their surroundings and being in their own world. Another person seeing this would think as some kind of deliberate act due to hate or he doesn’t want the other person near him.
This issue has also been raised in a few of the above posts and has portrayed as some kind of a very bad and annoying trait which makes an aqua some kind of a bad person who cannot be lived along with. Once again i want i want to remind you about the weeks/months long disappearance. But that it is an aqua trait to get engrossed by an issue and won’t be his ‘non-detached self till it is resolved in some way. For example, i say in an earlier post where the aqua was a great person one day and act as if he hate you the next. this was interpreted as insensitivity and not caring for what the other person want. Yet another post claimed aquas detached (mentally) way of acting on occasion as a probable sign that he is cheating or had enough of the relationship. It is to these category of post that i am especially replying. I don’t think that you have become any less important to them during these periods but just as i mentioned before.
Aquas too want someone who understands their needs and ways and from my point of view ( being an aqua myself ) then alone an aqua open up to the other person with whom he can be himself. I am sure you scorps want the same. Only maturity and empathy transcending the ego can make these relationships succeed.
Of course i am speaking generally and may not be applicable to you particular situations where there might be other parameters not considered here.
I am tired. Any thing else later.
GOOD LUCK.
To IND:
Thanks for sharing, but what I don’t get is you want us to understand and emphatize (sp?) with the detachment periods, but the entire time I was with my aqua, if I didn’t contact him within a few hours he would call, email or text and ask had I forgotten about him. He always did this, but yet, he can disappear for weeks and expect me to understand? I can’t entertain those qualities in a person, do as I say but not as I do … you can forget me but I can’t forget you? But I guess in his mind during this detachment period he hasn’t really forgotten about me, he just ceases all communication with me and I’m supposed to assume I am still a a part of his life and that he hasn’t bounced on to the next girl. I have come to the conclusion this isn’t the kind of person I want in my life on a permanent basis, no matter how smart, charming and amazing he may have been during the time we were together, weeks of not speaking to me would be aggravating. What happens if we get married and he goes into these kind of mood swings/detachment periods and we live under the same roof? That would be hurtful. Scorpios like to show our love for others in many ways, mentally and physically, at all times….no we don’t like to be smothered 24/7, that would be aggravating, and I understand the whole needing space thing, but weeks and months of “space” is ridiculous. It’s not right to treat people this way especially when they pursued you fiercely, proposed marriage, then poof, they are gone. Never seen anything like it.
i can’t speak for all the aquas but but the occasional detachment is not a joke or a game but is an essential part of their personality. Okay i get the whole disappearing for months thing which is surely be annoying and i don’t blame the others for it. But over here i found people getting annoyed or irritated with occasional detachment (moodiness) where they are right at home with you but have a moody phase where they engrossed with something in the head or just having a mental rest. I am not married or ever been in a relationship but i do have these phases from the time i can remember. my family knows about these phases and think of it as odd (i am a young Aquarius) but i don’t know any other way of being. My point is these phases is not some mischief he is playing with any one or avoiding a person because they are repulsed the way the other person is. Of course it might vary with different aquas. But it is an essential part of their being.
If you can’t adjust to this then life with an aqua could more than likely be impossible. I am not saying you should dance to his tune but just be considerate to how he is as it is a trait which could be annoying but not evil. I am sure you scorps also love your me time where you want to do things which you wanted to do and don’t want your partner controlling you or restricting your movements or not giving you the occasional mental peace by being too clingy or controlling then you would resent it and very likely dump him in the long run. So you scorps should be able to empatise with these occasional moods of the aquas.
If not i cannot see a relationship in the long run even possible even though everything else is perfect as it requires heartfelt and soulful understanding of each others traits (especially the annoying ones). I am not says about those immature aquas who disappear for long time with no contact whatsoever. I am just saying an aqua can be devoted to you and still have these mood changes because that’s who he is. If you hate this about him then you hate him in the long run. If someone i live with has a problem with this trait of mine i would be naturally shocked as i would not understand what is annoying them because i am being myself and done nothing to hurt them. Maybe i can adjust for some time but i don’t think i can do that in the long run. Others criticizing me of this trait is like they don’t really like me and rejecting me and i am forced to live up to some image the other person want me to be which is not really living at all. I am a grown up adult and i don’t want a parent but i want a partner who understands me and love me for who i am as they expect the same from me. otherwise a relationship is simply not possible.
I have written what came to my mind on different people said about aquas and being really annoyed by an occasional detachment. I expect the scorps at least who are said to be independent people who live the life they want and also for their me time to understand.
Best of Luck to all of YOU.
jobstore. you must be hurt by a scorpio, for you would not say such mean things about us. we can be the very loyal and we stick up for those we care about. we are passionate people and intense and can stir excitement in others. we can wear our emotions on our sleves and we put alot of ourselves into relationships and we expect it from others.
if things go bad, as it seems in your bitter case, it is the fault of BOTH people, not the scorpio alone, but its just the scopio’s sting can hurt badly, and they sting ONLY when they are hurt themselves, or protecting themselves. it is better to have a scorpio on your side than to have one against you. for you to say such horrible things makes you no better than the person (who happens to be a scorpio) that you so vilely hate.
wishing you well!
dear jobshore,
Please no bad mouthing of any zodiac sign. If the scorps truly have some the bad traits you mentioned they have hell of a lot of good in them to more than make up for it. if you had bad experiences with a scorp or heard of them many had good experiences with them to. hope next time you meet a scorp you don’t approach him/her with such pre-concieved notions for your experience might turn out to be very different. Aquariuses have many traits annoying to many people so they should understand.
I am an aquarius by the way.
Jobstore:
had there been no scorpio on this earth, our planet would have been much more peaceful. these “mean” scorpios are the inventor of fight, jealousy, recentment and disharmony in the society. * note 1 more true fact. there are more scorpio prostitutes then any other 4 sunshines combined on this earth. do not trust these horny bitch. if u marry a scorpio you are at risk unless you are a extremely open minded person.
I was kind seeing/ fwb this aqua man for half a year and everything was going great, I really like him, he’s one of the most amazing men I’ve met. Truly a good man, although it took me a while to see this, as he is typical aqua flirts a lot, looks at other women, makes comments on other women aloof and distant at times lol etc but anyway got past any of that small stuff and just appreciated him for him. However I had a lot going on jobs focus on career and I’m the type of woman who is used to dealing with things independently and I didn’t want to get him involved as I thought it would be unfair on him and didn’t think he’d understand how confusing things were for me. So I said I needed space etc and asked him not to talk to me until I’m ready and he said ok. I miss him a lot I really hope I we see each other again. I said we could still talk until if we meet again and texted this but he hasn’t bothered. I guess he didn’t think I was worth the wait? Moved on? Or just respecting my wishes… What do you guys think? Will he be back? We got back previously after space.
To Mr. Aquarius, you say you have written the scorpio lady but she hasn’t responded, any chance that you did this to her before all communication was cutoff? Being a scorpio woman myself, we treat you exactly as you treat us…cut us off and we’ll cut you off, after awhile we just don’t want to be bothered with the whole “detachment” period you aquarius guys are known for and call it quits for good. Our patience runs very thin with that and we just move on to the next one and not bat an eye. We don’t like to be ignored either, can get pretty vindictive when that happens…just saying. My suggestion to you is stop trying to contact her, if she wants to start back communicating with you she will, but go on living your life, could be weeks, months, years, if ever, depends on how you broke up.
Miss scorpio
I totally agree! Im a scorpio gal too. And have been hurt by an aquarious who called for a “break” – the second time and again is doing the whole silent treatment thing. I feel it is immature and that the aquarious is so detached from emo and feeling that they cannot handle real situations and respond by not responding and keeping quiet. Its been a few weeks and yes, I feel done with this. Only thing is, I know how the aquarious is feeling right now – bet he is saying how come she isnt talking to me at all or contacting me? Even though He called for the break.
Wow! Luv this site…so I met an aqua man last year while I was in a relationship…the connection was there. After my relationship ended I noticed him trying to get to kno me more….finally one night we kissed. After that there all kinds of good nights out with him and his friends, then he would completely ignore me. He always wanted to kno what I would doing after the club but never acted on anything. I would invite him to gang out with me at the movies, with my friends, or even to come to my house but nothing. Then not too long ago we finally semi-hooked up. We played a “game”…it was kind of juvenile. His friend keeps telling me he’s into to me but is afraid that I’m gonna try and make it something serious….I just want to continue having fun with him..wut do I do?
I did the same w an aqua man. Just told myself I knew he wasnt the commitment type and told myself I would be ok with just having fun with him. eventually I noticed in my everyday life I would easily get aggitated with things or others or something would annoy me – finally I realized it was cause “just having fun” with him did not sit well with me – I wanted more , something real and deep (hard from an aqua man) Im a scorpio.
Well finally I brought it up. Well he, like every aqua man, retreated into his quiet place and said we shouldnt talk or hang out for a couple months!
I say its not worth it, no matter the magnetism toward him, if you know you eventually want something serious – he is just a dead end.
This will be my last time to post here..
I just want to tell you my conclusion after days and days of logical and attentive search. I won’t tell you all I know, just a bit..
dear scorpios and aquarius the relationship between you is an Abuse of power. The great power that all water signs have upon air signs. The same that air have upon earth and earth have upon fire and fire have upon water. The power scorpios have upon me as an aquarian is the same I have upon taurus. I could beat a taurean at ease. When the weakness of aquarius is emotions, scorpios master it. When taurus is weak intellectually and slow aquarius is fast and intellectual. When leo comes greatly impractical because of his pride and awkward principles, taurus comes the master of practicality and when scorpios come weak at action and confrontations leo is the master of it. This relationship is great so long it’s not commitment if not, manage to keep it just friends cause scorpio is likely to abuse power greatly. The Creator created a marvelous system, that is beautiful consistent and fair in the same time. None is better, we are all better when we seek imporvement. Aquarius must learn to refrain from change, to embrace some traditions and learn to take action at time. You’ll get the best girl once you learn these lessons. Hope your learning trip will be nice
Farewell…
What if I’m a Taurus 3 with sun, mercury, venus, jupiter in the 11th house of aquarius. That being taurus sun, and a gemini stellium. Then neptune, uranus, saturn in the house of work. Would I beat aquarius then? Or no. Match an aquarius?
ok so need help here. So for about 2 yrs there has been an aquarian man in my life. We started off getting to know each other as with a bunch of friends. The attraction was there but not right away from me. And maybe not him either. We joked then flirted and finally kissed and things were wow. Thing is when someone really likes you they cant get enough of you… you see each other more often. That happened for about 2 weeks. There was surrounding drama with our friends. When finally it was just us… he seemed to back off. Yea I wanted to know where I stood while he was fine with how things were. We stopped talking for 6 months. Then he comes back. Physical again. I try to deny to myself that I want more and try to look for others as a single gal all the while hanging out and making out with him.
I got so frustrated in trying to accept a situation I know I dont accept then I blew up at him… lost my temper for something menial. It wasnt him – I know how he is – I just tried to deny my scorpio self and it didnt work. I can let him carry on thinking Im mad at him and cazy or shall I explain myself?
How do I repair once I lost my temper? I know aquarians dont like this and turn away fast and feel unappreciated.
Scorpios are just better as friends, they can notice things you don’t even imagine they are there and they got sharp minds can be loyal and good listeners.
I thought I would always have her tied around my neck ,she was very tender or so she seemed when I need her sadly she got tricked by someone to make her cheat. Also I have a friend who’s scorpio, jobeless, uneducated and appears completely lost yet he claims he will marry a very beautiful rich woman and believes what he claims! lets run man
Mr aquarius, what you said is so true, but you forget that they don’t have emotions for the person but for themselves. I have few friends that are male and scorpios and they are so shallow that they never seem to care for the girl but for her money or clothes or her apparent behaviour. However I can’t stop myself from admiring their illogical but enormous capacity of being confident about themselves. I been with a scorpio girl who is bad looking; 5’1 ft length, bad features, curly hair, bad skin bad talker, annoying general look, exceptionally nervous, exceptionally childish, doesn’t know how to please, however she behaves as if she’s Josie Maran or Penelope Cruz
Hi Scorpie, I got a similiar situation – only I’m “on the other side of the coin”. I’m an aqua guy and I got a this situation, when I’m writing to her and she doesn’t answer – it makes me so damn frustrated! We hadn’t been in touch for a while, so I don’t really know what’s going on.
Any advice, how can I know if she still cares about me? And the most important – how can I make her to stop ignoring me?
She’s my first real crush – and I’d do anything to make her my last.
Btw, I can only mention, that as an aqua, I hate to be ignored – being adored is nice, but too much of it would meke me lose my interest; being in conflict – sort of interesting, because I like to be involved; being ignored – if for too long – than it’s definite “game over”. Though, I think you should still show him that your not a “second coice”… just so he knows, how you feel.
lol I just wish scorps would be more open with showing their feelings, otherwise it’s to damn hard to figure out what’s going on…
I am a scorpio woman and I am not totallly sure what moon I was born in but my bday is 11-8 so if anyone knows please let me know. Well I have been seeing this Aquarius man for about a month or so now and we actually went to college together but were just friends. I recently ran into him while hanging out and it has been such a strange thing since then. He would send me text messages here and there with funny messages and after doing that for two weeks he called and came to hang out with me and a friend. I would hear from him every few days and I was so confused whether he was interested in me or not. I would ask me to come over and we would just watch tv and he would go to sleep (lol I told him I must be his sleeping pill) but I saw it as he must feel really comfortable to fall asleep in my presence. At the same time I was comfortable because I felt no pressure while sitting there in his presence. So for the next few weeks it was a lot of off and on calls or text and an occassional visit. On one visit there was a little more which was so unexpected. Still I would hear from him every few days and just recently he has been calling regularly and I have been seeing him at least twice a week. I decided that I wouldn’t put any pressure on him and give him his space which has been a good thing for me even though I have my scorpio moments and get suspious. I still can’t figure him out. I believe he likes me but he is hard to read. He treats me with respect and our bedroom activities are interesting to say the least. I am not very aggressive with him, I let him initiate communication and pretty much everything else. He is so gentle and I swear I feel this unspoken communication between us at times. Am I crazy or is this guy falling for me or is it that I want him to fall for me. Help!
aqua man here i reckon you should def go for it from what ive just read you ve set him up nicely but also set up the starts for a very good relationship forget about trying to figure an aquarian out sure i cant figure myself out and anyway if you do he ll know and and re invent another mystery for you and watch you try and figure that out too enjoy just go easy with that tail of yours
@Scorpie
Umm, as I am an aquarian, I could perfectly understand where your aquarian is coming from. From what I understand he simply was telling the truth. Do not ignore him! He really likes you and just told you the truth. He could have lied and told you that he doesn’t even think of his ex at all, but the he’s an aquarian and aquarians are honest about their feelings.
My advice for you would be to try and give him a chance, he probably doesn’t even know that he’s hurt you.
I have been reading comments of many people, and this website gave me lots of insight! I was really able to understand actions of my scorpio crush whom I truly liked. She is full of mysteries and emotional intensities. We have known each other for about eight months, and I never really saw her as potential partner until couple of my friends joked about us being couples lol..that’s when I was like “Ohh…right, she is a female alright.” LOL, its not that I saw her as a male friend; we, aquarians, simply don’t have a prejudice on our typical friends whether they’re male or female. Looking back at my chat messages, I could read her actions clearly and laugh about how silly I was. I could go on and on with my story, but I’m really in a hurt mode..my scorpio went back to her home country, and we won’t see each other for two years, living in two different continents. I could have stayed loyal and told her so, but I am assuming that she probably was afraid that I wouldn’t stay loyal or she would change her feelings and end up hurting me. Realistically enough, I could say that it was a good decision, but man..its not so easy to pull away all your feelings when you truly thought you found the “one”. Oh well, I just wish that I knew how she felt.
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Aquarius man PLEASE PLEASE PLEEEZ HELP!?
I met this Aqua man in undergrad. We met in class and it was obvious that he liked me. He insisted on driving me to school everyday even tho I lived in walking distance. I graduated first and we kept in touch. He was ALWAYS very generous with compliments and flirts and always makes clear how fascinated he is with me a Scorpio woman. Recently he spontaneously flew to see me after two years of not seeing each other in a school setting. We spent five days holding hands/kissing/making love/cooking together/ watching movies/ smoking hookah/ going to museums and just spending alot of quality time. I think he was impressed and entertained. One day we spent like three silent hours me in his arms listening to music and watching the rain. I even took him to see my best friend front this band (he loved the live music and purchased a CD) I brought him a comic book when he left as a parting gift since he is developing a comic book of his own. He really took it to heart. It’s been a month since the visit. He calls/texts or skypes almost everyday. Last night he called and I KNEW what was coming before he parted his lips. He said that all this time he had been waiting for me to ask him where things were going but since I did not he wanted to know my expectations. I told him I really liked him but that if he asked me to be with him the answer would be yes and if he only wanted to be friends the answer would STILL be yes. He said that he takes relationships very seriously/that I was only the third woman he’s been with (he’ll be 24 in and I’m turning 25). He said that he doesnt want to love his ex but it’s easier said than done. He said that he has never felt this way/ he REALLY likes me/ I make him happy and that he enjoys me more than his ex. He said he wanted to go very slow and that he hopes this is not the end and that Im not mad as he cant stop thinking about me. I am a Scorpio woman who was prepared for the worst as he is my first Aquarius man. Im hurt. I gave him lots of space and freedom and only communicated with him when he called me. I erased his number from my phone since our conversation but he has already texted me like five times. What will happen if I start ignoring him and withdraw from him? or should I be his friend even though I feel Betrayed
Wow I do have a problem respecting people that are not fixed in their way. I am a Scorpio Sun and Leo Moon (Aquarius Rising if it makes a difference) and I Have always fallen/ been involved with Aquarius men despite the fact that they are very out of the norm. I am now involved in a relationship with a Scorpio and Sagittarius moon and it was great in the beginning but I am finding it hard to commit myself entirely because there is an Aquarius man in my life still that keeps drawing me in closer I am stuck in a triangle and gasping for my life back. bless these lovely ladies they were brave to get through those divorces and stay with their goofy love match.
Hey everyone..
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Back with more to tell
My last message was the result of my built-up anger on my ex, don’t ask me why scorpio girls. You certainly know..
I like to comment on what scorpio23f, had to say.
“scorpions need alot of asurance and if it isnt in abundant we can get very confused”, and when you get confused you confuse the aqua so he’ll do something wrong, what confuses you more and there you go…A cycle of confusion ugh
“iv been with other partners in between and so has he but we always come bk to eachother because everything else with other partners is boring in comparison lol”.
There is something important here, Aquas and Scorps have very different concepts of cheating. Idealistic aqua will not forgive his girlfriend for loving another man even after he breaks with her. To him things are like that: He tried to make her notice that she is harming his life in every possible way. In Vain. But he still loves her. Therefore he cannot hurt her so he screams for a break. He intends to give her time to think about her mistakes and correct her behavior. Therefore poor aqua is not expecting her to fall for a random guy as you scorpio girls do.
On the other side, practical Scorpio want something she can touch, something she can make sure of, something practical so she would define cheating as, to see her boyfriend with another girl, while they are together, or whatever.
So scorp23f, your aqua will always feel cheated and his heart will always be broken when he knows you been with other partners during the offs. He might not show it. But, trust me, it is there.
“i am a very emotional scorpio and i need alot of reasurance even tho i know im beautiful its just nice to hear him compliment me and say the words”
Here am confused, seriously because all astrology sites tell me that scorpios hate flattery. And all the scorpios that I know report that they hate being flattered. And they themselves rarely if not never, say a compliment.
Also, trust me, when it comes to words, aquas are the Phds, the masters of flattery. Maybe it’s just your boyfriend but seriously, aquarian is good at making girls hear all they want to hear. Air sign (communicators)
Finally, scorpio23f, if you really still don’t know how to support your boyfriend after 7 years of dating then you must forget it, just be happy and let him face the world in peace. It would be nice of you if you don’t kill him ;p
Enough for now, because as we all know, it is the dose that makes the poison. But before I go I like to advise all aquarians to drop the libra girl thing, and go for our soulmates, sexy and funny Geminis. For I discovered that I can’t really stand libran girls, so empty and light
@Aymen: I bet either the Gemini will cheat on you or you will cheat on her pretty quickly with a Leo. Soon, you will call your “sexy and funny Gemini” a crazy bipolar ex. Yeah, I know guys like you never willing to accept his part in a break-up. Talk about double standard.
@ LaVette – I’m in the almost VERY same boat as you… so in love with an Aquarius man – from what I’ve learned about these men is that if he tells you something – please believe it – even if it doesn’t make any sense to you (if you keep nagging him or keep trying to ask him the same question but in different ways he’s going to pick up on that and he’ll probably lie to you but not to be maliscious but just to trick you!)
You’re gonna have to be the “gentle” pursuer with him and you must must must be patient! An Aquarius is NOT for the weak – so I can understand why a scorpio would actually be a good match. They also take things quite literally and do not express themselves emotionally – not saying that they don’t have emotions – they just rather not deal with them because, lets be honest, emotions can at times make no sense whatsoever…
Some advice to woo him even more: (although it seems like he does indeed like you though) – be aloof too – not like you don’t care, but like him not contacting you for a few days does not bother you at all – the fact that he DOES reach out to you again is what you should focus on because that means you keep his interest! If you have some interesting hobbies – let him know!!! Be interested in his hobbies too (and I’m sure your guy has a few!)
But THE most important thing – be his friend! See him as a friend, treat him as one and try to understand him as one – when you feel comfortable enough, make your “move”!!!! …because he most likely won’t! Take his hand and place it on your body… then you will see (and know for sure) how much he REALLY wants you!
thanks misty! you really helped me that much in understanding them and yeah, i just remembered my bestfriend (female) is an aquarian and she loves me so much that eventhough she’s down and have problems she’s always there for me..i really love them
it was just this past few days i’ve noticed i have a lot of aquarius friends..
it’s just that it becomes different if you involve yourself romantically in an aquarius..
i really love them..
thanks misty and also to pp
lovelots!
Scorpy girl
wow this is Amazing.. I am a Scorpio female 10/29/77 who is totally head over heels in LOVE with a male Aquarius 2/12/81. He just recently started working at my job, and I was instantly attracted to him. Im used to guys pursuing me, but I realize that I am chasing him. I told a coworker that i was interested which she in turn made him aware. we started chit-chatting & eventually exchanged numbers. he immediately txt’d me & we continued are convos that way. One day casually over txt I told him that i prefer verbal communication & he responded “yeah, I like to talk face to face too” & i said oh maybe u didn’t understand what i meant, i mean talk over the phone & he responded “I understood” so I was highly offended, but we continued to txt, & than he goes missing for a few days!!! So i left his ass alone, & than he would eventually txt again.. I DON’T GET IT. while @ work we flirt non stop w/each other, but he’s very quite & shy. He said he doesn’t want ppl @ work in his Business which I totally understand, I myself am a very private person. But I feel I want so much more from him, he’s very distant. I asked if he had a girl & he replied NO, I even joked one day @ work If his “girlfriend” cooked him lunch & he again responded “what girl”?… So he’s had several opp’s to let me know if he was in a relationship or not. Its just confusing b/c he has called me beautiful said he was attracted to me, likes me & I have done the same. I really laid my cards out with him which is something i NEVER do, esp this early in the game! any advice??? I actually have (wet) dreams about him
hmm…you know, i have an aqua male friend and he is very determined in doing things that would cost his future…
if he said he is busy for work..trust him..
he’s telling the truth
they are very loyal that we Scorpios should stop overanalyzing
just relax and make the days you’re not with him be more productive..you know the advantage of having a relationship with an Aquarius is that they give you freedom for they understand that freedom is also an important aspect of life
just don’t overanalyze or overthink
he loves you and if he says he loves you..trust that sweetie
Misty – That was so beautiful what you wrote. The aqua man that finds you will truly be lucky
Scorpygrl – Give your aqua some space to sort things out. He’ll come around when he’s ready….in the mean time, take care of yourself.
p.p.s. To all aquarians who have a pet peeve about poor grammar ( a lot of you do) I apologize deeply for the many errors typed above. hahaha
p.s. try to avoid aquarians who do a lot of drugs. They’re already unpredictable, volatile, erratic, ever-changing, off-beat, semi-dark, semi-judgmental, semi-insecure, semi-perverted, semi-manipulative people with delusions of humanitarian grandeur and a distaste for authority figures—if you put reckless drug intake ontop of that, you WILL see the worst and most impossible side of an aquarian that can only be described with psychological disorders like borderline personality disorder or psycopathy.
I learned to love them intensely after all, through experiencing the best, the mediocre, and the worst ‘forms’ of them.
it’s all about finding one ( same goes for aquarians to scorpios..i can’t even imagine a scorpio on drugs) who is relatively as evolved as you. You guys have to be on coordinate points on the development line—otherwise one of you will intimidate or aggravate the shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit out of the other.
and then all you COULD do is have violent dirty sex ( and as dirty as scorpio’s ever get, they do nOTTTTT have the hearts to handle heartless sexual affairs) ( ever) ( their egos and body parts want to do it, but their hearts regret it every time) and maybe some scintillating arguments if one of you , or both of you, enjoy polemic.
Basically if you if misinterpret either an aquarian, or a scorpio, you will be surely convinced you are dealing with a sociopath. Which isn’t true. or fair.
work on not misinterpreting. Try to pick a good apple. These fruits are already kinda crazy.
Well considering the fact that you scorpios talk too much and never listen I advise you to just stick to your fellow water signs because only them can lower themselves enough to try to understand you or go with your bs
You say we are sociopaths looooool
Everyone knows who are the sociopaths of the zodiac so stop throwing your bad repuatation at me for I really never met a scorpio who’s typically characterized by their good mentality and all the ones I know smoke and do drugs when I don’t, that’s the first point.
Now come on, you are a feminine introverted sign, you lack the ability to face difficulties, and you have very little dignity and common sense, morals, etc…All in all aquarius are not looking for all that.
Just look how “TRUTH” made you look so stupid and you couldn’t confront her or even argue. I swear to God you are so meek
All you do is complain like brats about men who never gave you the time of the day also water signs are not known for their strength so stop playing tough online we know it’s a mask, you are really not the even close to being tough. You talk about your ego ahaha nice joke indeed which ego?!! Please don’t even start me
Only aquarius’ outstanding curiosity could explain why some fellow aquarius can keep up with this bs ARRGHH! I only wasted my time in a relationship with a scorp for 2 years, because I was completely inexperienced (17 year old) and because my cultural background didn’t allow me to have sex before marriage which blinded me from the fact that she’s a… but I made her beg me, I made her cry, I made her lose the little amount of water-sign-dignity she has and I’m proud of it. Not because I don’t respect women (I’ll let you know how much I respect the woman who’s worth) but because she’s a…
I hope the administrator of this site doesn’t ban my comment because we have the right of response come on
BTW remove all the semi’s from your description and you’ll get the one of scorpios
(need to explain because most of you take much time to grasp info) i.e. you are unpredictable, volatile, erratic, ever-changing, off-beat, judgmental, insecure,perverted, manipulative and I add oversensitive, feeble, dim-witted and the greatest wannabes. Ever considered that?
Enough now I’m in a hurry, I have a great life to carry on with
Scorpio Girl here about to divulge a lot to all Aquarians ( male and female). I have no idea if my experience with them is unorthodox to what is ‘ supposed’ to happen but here goes:
The most intimate, mystically satisfying, spiritual, high minded, erotic, perverse, profound, evolving, meaningful moments of my life were alllllllll with aquarians. of both genders.
The most natural moments of my mind’s nature, heart’s nature, body’s nature, and life path crossed with aquarians.
I’m pretty sure my entire development as a human being was catered around aquarians, and not surprisingly the people who always stay in my life are aquarians.
They unite me with my provocative side. My sensual side. My dualities. My philosophical side. My inner child/youthful/innocent/free-going side. Maybe I just love them too much, I don’t know. But they ‘ happen’ in my life more often than anything else does.
I can’t really figure out why ( I’m a capricorn moon, venus in scorp..soooo preeeeetty intense/emotional) they never totally disappear even after I’ve been as incompatible to them as possible ( because our cores are actually very much the same)
Whenever they get a bad rap for being too lofty or wavering or cold or anti-love, I just think about Ellen and Portia—two aquarians, who have the most conspicuous, deepest, most loving love affair you will find pretty much anywhere.
So to all who think an aquarius has no emotions ( including aquarians who suppress it) that is BS. They have this beautiful, heavily ( but subtly) tender, noble, emotional heart underneath the defense mechanisms against it or their prominent intellectualizing of all things.
I think if you believe in them and trust them for who they are and allow them to be who they are, as in separate from you, they won’t drive you as nuts. Speaking from personal experience. They have taught me sooo much about myself–hurt me a lot, yes, but taught me sooooo much about people and life and concepts and ideas that I can use to become a more adaptable, trusting, humble human being. I can’t help but glittery eye them after we’ve had some sort of super sexual union ( which Freaking happens all the time and it is THE BEST SEX)
Granted, I’m sort of an unorthodox scorpio myself, I’m very curious about other ways of being and open minded towards bizarro things that are ‘ against’ my nature’s ways, but I just am eager to learn.
I have noticed that both aqua males and females like to be somewhat in control of their interactions in order to feel safer in them–and scorpios can intimidate that if they throw in their profound power and openness in too quickly. It can put them ill-at-ease, but if you aquas give us scorpio’s a chance, you’ll find that we’re actually 1) not that scary for you , 2) almost perfect for you. It just requires some willingless on both parties to find mutual ground in both your mentalities, and souls.
I swear our souls are family. The way we traditionally need things in relationships are incompatible-that is true–but if you get passed that somehow, you’ll get to this BEAUTIFUL gem-a mixture of the solidity of a scorpio’s fantasy world-with the volatility of the aquarians ( and they have a VERY dark side of their world that is very fascinating that I’ve somehow been given the luxury to see in a few of my aquarian mates), it’s like a secret garden. An elevator for just you two. You just have to be willing to depart from your surface self sometimes in order to walk into that elevator. It’s a pretty cool world, and I’ve never seen in disatisfy either party.
It helps also if you understand the language of music. THey all do. They use that to find their emotions from what I can tell and if you can communicate with them through that medium, that IS you communicating with their feelings. Telling them exactly what to do when to do it, will definitely be too domineering for them , but it’s not because they don’t want you to be yourself–it’s because their hearts are sort of what I call soft tempo. But the thing is–EVERYBODY has a comfort level/communication style/love style, and if you want something to be harmonious you have to gage to anybody/everybody in some sort of way–at least at first before you start introducing your way of things.
I love that I can talk about the most important feelings as if they were philosophies to an aquarian. I love that they remember EVERYTHING and see EVERYTHING –they might not like that scorpio’s are just as intuitive and perceptive and smart but that’s only if they feel like those things are what makes you a threat to them. You have to be somewhat diplomatic with them, but not because you’re manipulating them or playing them for a fool–because you RESPECT their wiring.
They aren’t as alien as they want to be 90% of the time, but if you can agree on being aliens together, you’ll both feel closer than ever. If they can see your loyalty, honesty, purity, flexibility and trust—they will stay a secure figure in your life forever. Don’t take the distance personally, they have very complex worlds they retreat to ( just like us–we just like sharing them more often) and learn to accept the fact that they have just as much power as you do. Both scorpio’s and aquarians are sexual, conquesting types, curious to a fault but gaurded, and find their inner worlds to be the most important thing and want to adhere to them and be true themselves as much as possible.
I was always more introverted than the aquarians I met from a social standpoint and at first I was intimidated /felt un-secure with their social ways/disappearing acts, until I understood it and realized they are a reflection of my freer self –and that they never want to be bad people, or mean people or cold people. They have a lot to give to humanity and if you allow them their gifts, and where those gifts go, they will be warm to you because they’ll see that you aren’t trying to change them.
Basically what I’m saying is you’ve got to love them. And if you do that, like actually do that, and not love them in the contorted way you want to love someone but in the way they TEACH you to love and learn , you will see their best side.
Do anything else and you’ll be dropped like a hot rock.
And aquarians need to know that they CAN be cherished both surfacely, sexually, and deeply, but a scorpio and that this love is NOT possession. Nobody can possess you guys, that whole thing is an illusion. You are safe. We just express loudly. There are no real chains, we just want to be safe, too.
it’s really important for these two to experience each other. Like, for growth-purposes. You can bounce off each other and with mutual patience, you can experience one of the best affairs of the world. You both have an eye for detail and pay attention to the uniqueness of the individual. Aquarians have to learn to allow themselves to be special, and scorpio’s have to learn to allow other people to be themselves.
That’s the truth of it.
( Though I could be wrong. I’m still learning.)
express your emotions as thoughts, so the aquarian can understand you–beyond what they naturally understand ( which is more than you think.) Both of us are weary of people in a certain way–it’s all about showing each other that you’ve finally found someone you don’t have to control, manipulate, fuck with, change, or do anything other than ENJOY.
I fucking love them. It sucks, because they never stick around romantically, but if one ever does, you better believe I will marry. And I’ll marry unconventionally, and let the aquarian be whatever mirage of a million things, or amoeba’s that they want to be, because that’s what they need to be. ANd hopefully they’ll let me be whatever I need to be. I’m sure if we discussed it at length, and had fun together when given the time, that would be an understood fact.
BOTH signs need to let loose some with each other and ‘ allow’ it. I am convinced that that’s all there is to it.
LEARN each other. You won’t love anyone else as awesomely.
two peas in a really innovative pod.
p.s. the aquarian who mentioned to avoid relationshipping with one who is still venturing all over the place in life, has a great point. If you meet an aquarian who is exploring and mingling and seeking ‘experiences’ instead of ‘ projects’, then just go with that flow. At the very least, you’ll produce a wonderful friend.
all you have to do is suspend your ordinary-every-day-people-interaction-rules. They do NOT follow those. It does NOT make them shitty. Trust me. Trust them.
I personally use their ‘downsides’ or ‘off’ moments or ‘ MIA’ times as opportunities to expand myself similarly. They are attracted to both your most face value version of yourself and your most self-assured self.
NEITHER SIGN LIKES ARROGANCE. whoever said to approach the situation with that, is alllll wrong. Be comfortable with your stance, but willing to allow other stances. Be comfortable with you ( and if you aren’t, and both scorpio’s and aquarians have 900000 insecurities, just try to learn how to be more comfortable) but be comfortable with them, too.
In this pairing, you guys are both wearing …uh capris. No pants on one or the other.
PLEASE DO IT. your hearts will be happy–they just have to be accessed. and it is a process/ a tango, that you cannot be overly worried about or overly cunning about.
I trust aquarians more than life once I’ve established a bond with them. I might not be able to marry one or tie one down or something but they are too vital for the scorpio soul to skip over.
I just wish they knew lol.
misty
I am an aquarius guy and quite liked your post.. I was wondering if I could share for your opinion a personal story… privately?
sure Otto! Email me at isingatnight@gmail.com =)
Misty – OMG – you are soooooo right!! I grew up with a sister that was an Aquarius – but due to a volatile family life and her being abused it definitely skewed our relationship and she is no longer a “typical” aquarius – there are a lot of negative influences on her character- however I have recently had the honor of meeting an Aquarius male (that I have fallen so deeply in love with) that has opened my eyes to certain things about myself – he inspires me! You’ve made a lot of good valid points about their character – I hope you do marry one though! – maybe you just need to wait for one who feels that marriage is the next big “experiment” or “mystery” he needs to figure out!
aqua man here all i can say is wow. you can marry me if you like ,you said you were still learning sounds like your a pro to me, good on ya great piece are you sure your not an aquarian because how do you know so much,cmon you must have one tied to chair and whipping him for information ha ha lol although he would prob get a kick out of it .do you reckon all aqaurian scorpio relations are a short lived or just your own expierence
Wow Misty you most deffinatly hit the nail on the head with that post, & it was apprciated probably much more than you realize. I have read thru many of the post on this site, some good, others not so good & very negative, but your post was very up lifting, inspiring, positive, & genuine & i’d really like to thank you. I am a Scorpio Woman who is very very much in love with an Aquarius. Man, & I wouldn’t trade this feeling for anything in the world. We’ve known each other for a while, 6yrs, are both in our 40′s, & met thru a mutual friend. Only thing was that when we met, altho we were both immediately attracted to each other, we we’re both in
relationships & so decided to just be & remain friends. His relationship ended about a year & a half after we met, & I lost my guy to iraq about 6mos after his thing ended, & we started communicating again on a more regular basis, but still just as friends because the woman had really hurt him, wounds were still very fresh, & he was then living in New York while I had relocated back home to California. However, even tho there was bitterness & pain in both our lives, we still had this terrific & great attraction for each other & so tried to comfort each other via emails, phone calls, & texts. But as I healed, he seemed to become more bitter & couldn’t shake his hurt or anger & I didn’t know how to help him, he closed himself off & so we lost touch for months, but I never forgot him, thought of him very often, & wished that we’d find each other again if it was at all ment for us to be more than friends, & I got on with my life & decided to start dating again after christmas 2008. But on the week between christmas & new years 2008 our mutual friend came for a visit, she told me he was in town from new york visiting his family & was asking to see me. She told me that they’d kept in touch on & off for months & that he’d always ask about me, but she never past on the msgs to me because she wanted to see me happy again & was afraid he’d hurt me, but that during this visit home he’d ask for me non stop & wanted my new phone number so we could get together before he went back east & of course I said yes & he called & we met for drinks, both single now. He was guarded, but the attraction was greater than ever & when we finally kissed, omg, it was perfect & passionate & hot & much more than either of us expected, & it hit me like a ton of bricks, & right then at that moment I knew I loved him & probably had from the moment i’d met him. We didn’t sleep together & he took me home promising to see me again before he left, but that meeting never happend. I was given a msg thru our friend that he cared about me more than he realized & he didn’t want to hurt me so it was better if he didn’t see me. Our friend told me that he was still kinda angry with women & was pretty much only after 1 thing at that time. I confided in her how I felt about him & said I needed to tell him because my feelings were real & we could heal each other, but she told me it would’nt be a good idea to let him know because with his current attitude at that time even she felt he would hurt me, he’d take the fact that I loved him just to get me in bed, then he’d go back east & move on to someone else, not caring that he’d broken my heart. So I kept my feeling away from him, didn’t stay in touch, poured myself into my life & my kids, & a few months later moved & changed my number & email address. I dated on & off, but never seemed to find a quality guy, no one i’d consider a keeper any way. & I found myself comparing the men who ask me out to my guy I lost in iraq & also to my Aquarius since he compared greatly to the other in almost all ways, most especially in the way he made me feel, like I was someone to be treasured & loved & so were my kids. I still thought of him but felt he was lost to me & I hoped his life was happy & he’d found peace. Ever so often i’d pick up an old book or something & a picture would fall out & also pictures of my guy we lost, & i’d wish & pray. Well last year in november at my birthday I made a wish for true love, that night when I went to bed I prayed & then I talked to my guy who I lost. I ask for him & god & goddess to please send me a good man, one like him because altho I was tired of being alone, I didn’t want to settle for just any knuckle head, I wanted a real guy who had his shit together, who’d be my everything as I would be his & who I could trust with me & my now teen twin daughters. Someone who’d love & respect us & who would deserve our love & respect, an honest, trustworthy, faithful guy who would be my partner & walk beside me as we complimented each other in every way. I ask my guy who I lost to please send us someone who HE would trust with us & who he’d be happy to see me with because I was honestly ready now to share my life with the man who was ment for me if I couldn’t have him back & I knew he was watching over us. I also had other stipulations that I’ll keep to myself, haha, & I ended with “please make it as plain as the nose on my face when he comes to me & send me a sign to show me he had sent him to me”, Then I went to sleep… At the full moon I wrote that wish/prayer down & put it in a special place & went about doing me & my kids & preparing for the holidays. At the beginning if December I was unpacking boxes to decorate with the stereo on for background noise, & no matter what stationed i turned to my lost guys fave songs would be playing, which made my kids start talking about him then a picture of him would show up out of nowhere or we’d come across something that belonged to him, so finally I looked up & said “okay babe I hear you, miss miss you too” thus was our 4th christmas without him….Anyway a few days later I was hanging out with my girls shopping & went to the market after dropping them off, when I came out with groceries the friggin car wouldn’t start so I sat there waiting for my dad to come jump my battery. While waiti g I looked up & said out loud “god, what else are you gonna do to me this christmas?” (The car had broken down a week prior needing a new starter whuch ment less xmas $)… so after saying that I put my head on the steering wheel, telling myself to stay positive & not let this get to me. When I sat back, I looked out the front car window & this guy was standing there staring at me with bags in his hands, he started to smile then removed his beanie & sunglasses & said my name, I rolled down the window & said hello but didn’t realize who he was yet, then he walked to the drivers side of the car & said “don’t you remember me? can I get a hug?” His hair was shorter & he was growing facial hair but the voice & nyc accent was deffinately my aquarius & I got out of that car fast as lightening. He threw his arms around me for a quick hug, stepped back & looked down at me with this huge goofy smile on his face, then gave me the biggest, thightest, bear hug like he’d never done before. He waited with me & we talked, he said he’d been in town since thanksgiving & was now living in oregon for 7mos & was doing well. He said he’d ask’d about me several times but no one would give him any info so he figured i’d prob married again or moved away, & he made sure I knew he was very single & looking for love & a commited, permanent relationship in his life, he said he wanted & needed to settle down with a good woman. During our no contact years he’d been through a lot, had fallen for another woman, & had gotten hurt again, then finally gave up on nyc & returned to California in 2010 then moved on to oregon spring of 2011. We exchanged numbers & made a date to see each other the next day & I drove him to his familys house after my battery was jumped. According to my dad the battery cables just somehow worked themselves loose, hmmm!!! The next day I told him where I lived & found out that he ran past my house every morning when he jogged & that his moms new place where he’d been staying, was just under a mile from me. Coincidence? Hmm again!! We went out that night & it was amazing, we couldn’t stop touching or looking at each other, & we had so much fun just talking & being together, then the kisses at the end of the night left us both breathless & yearning. Of course we saw each other a few times more before he left, & before he did leave I let him know there was something i’d been wanting to tell him all these years, & i’d understand if he bolted after hearing it, but life is short & unexpected & he needed to hear what I had to say, then I did it, I told him I love him & that I have since I met him, & that even if he never returned my feelings, at least he knows how I feel & that its real & that no matter what, there would always be a woman here at home or wherever I went who loved him & would do almost anything for him. I said I wanted to be his woman yes, but I wanted him to be happy, even if without me. & that i’d rest easy now knowing that he was okay & doing well & knew now how I felt about him but had been keeping to myself…. Well he didn’t bolt, far from it, he was actually truly happy, & let me know he’s had feelings for me as well all this time & thought about me always as well, but didn’t know where to find me. We both agree’d everything happends for a reason & that I was ment to break down at the matket when I did so we could find each other again, then we decided to take a chance on each other & just fo the damn thing, & are now a couple. We’ve been in touch everyday & night since via phone, text, & skype. He’ll be home this weekend for his birthday & Superbowl, & I’ll be up in Oregon with him 3wks later, & we’re gonna do the back & forth thing til next year when my twins grad high school, then we’re moving to Oregon & they’ll go to university there or at Berkley… we miss each other more & more each day& hate bei g apart, but we’re making it work til we can permanently & happily be together. Whoever says Aquarians & Scorps can’t work is so very wrong, because I’m a very happy Scorpio woman, & the loving, quirky man of my dreams is an Aquarian, who started out as my friend, but now happends to be the love of my life. & I thank god & goddess each day & night for bringing us back to each other & blessing us with happiness!!!
ScorpAngel1106
hi!have been reading this blog (on and off) for almost 3 months now…and i really loved the stories i have read…i am into a male aquarius right now and don’t know what to do.
he told me he loves me twice (which i never answered, since i was stunned and don’t know what to say) and he even DIRECTLY told me he wanted to marry me soon…
however he suddenly became aloof and is not back to his same ‘him’ after that.
so, as a scorpio, i don’t want to be the one who is chasing, so i keep myself a little detached from him..but then he still find ways to make me feel like “oh my gosh, he’s so sweet” then after a while he’s back into his cold behavior..
everything got worse (i can tell that since he stares at me whenever i pass before, but now he’s not doing that anymore) for we never really had a nice talk with each other…
please help me what to do?
BTW i messaged him in facebook asking him if he still have plan in talking to me…
thanks in advanced,
scorpygirl
hi im a aquarius/capricorn cusp sun sign and i am absolutely head over heels for my scorpio girl…i met her on a plane and we talked all night..we exchanged emails but barely spoke…then a year later she wanted me to come see her but i invited her to come see me instead…when she arrived i remember passing by a bridal shop and saying i would never marry…that night we made sweet sweet love and we told each other that we loved each other…three days later i asked her to marry me and she said yes….our relationship is crazy…i really want to break up with her because our relationship causes so much problems and tension in both our lives, but i just cant…i cant live without this woman…she tried to break up with me too last autumn but she came running back…its like we are two super novas circling each other getting ever closer and nearing our fate of colliding…i am the irresponsible type and she is so serious about career…were both very young im 22 and she 21….i feel trapped…i dont know where to go from here…i cant live with her cant live without her….
Nino, believe me if she’s truly the one you’ll change for her eventually. You’ll grow up and realize your paths can certainly collide and you two can support one another’s dream. My Aqua husband was behaving like you too in the beginning but once he realized life is too short to waste your time on booze and drug and too much games, he works hard towards his goal and our goals. It’s up to you. Is it worth it? Only you can tell.
Ok I am back and I bumped into new aqua man that i knew my whole life. It started like 6 weeks ago. I never thought that i would start having feelings for him because i never even thought about it. It is kinda of strange. He is probably one of the funniest people i know. I love talking to him. We did go out and had a great time. We were suppose to go out this weekend but plans did change. :0( but i did talk to him last night and he said sorry. It just seems like it was great and then it just stops! I would just back away but i feel like i did something wrong. I dont understand aqua male. He would text me 90x a day , no lie. then he just pulls away. Idk, i dont want ask him or pry, he does have a lot going on. I just need some advice on should i leave him alone and wait to see if he contacts me. Thanks
btw i am Scorp sun and moon and venus/mars are both libra. He is Aqua sun and sag moon. If this helps.
this is a research thing for me since I’m starting a relationship with a Scorpio and I am an Aquarius man I want to know all I can about this …hell yeah!!!!
I’m an Aquarius female with a Scorpio moon. My best friend is a Scorpio female with a Libra moon. We met only 2 years ago but it feels like we’ve known eachother for years, in fact we call eachother sisters.. We had an instant attraction and we’ve been the most loyal friends since the day we met. I’ve had good friends but this girl and I have never felt so loving and caring towards anyone this easily besides my family! I dont know what I would do without her! She is honestly the best friend I ever met. People say Scorpios can be dark and deep but as an Aquarius I connect so well and we are very similar, especially on the emotinal side. I love her to death!
Yeah im an aquarius guy and theirs something about scorpio women for me…. I started dating a second scorpio, my ex was a scorpio too, but anyways I dont know what it is but I hope to find out….I came to realize that this scorp girl im with now is similar in certain ways as my ex, personality-wise. They are both strong-willed and pride their individuality but so far other than that they are pretty different which is great for me cause i didnt like the rest of what my ex had to offer lol….
has he ever told u and him will always and only be friends?
I am interested in hearing an opinion about that 3-yr phenomenon. Ever since I met this aquarian man, he has told me that he’s not attracted to me -then, i am attractive -then he asks for time to figure things out -then, he shows up with a girlfriend and pretty much disengages from our friendship -then, he has trouble with her and starts wanting to be close with me again -then, he’s free and cant make a decision about his relationship with her, but still thinks Im the one if/when he wants to be serious. He’s 11yrs older than me, but he is just now considering settling down, but his girlfriend is only as exciting as the last date they had -but shes in korea. and watz with his attraction to foreign women anyway? there is “magic” between us -we are both sexually a little shy -but dont hav any trouble with that intense chemistry thing -but then he says he’s not attracted to me. I no longer believe him. watz up with this guy? Im scorpio and im constantly adjusting to his “need for freedom” but i like my freedom too. but im golden with commitment so i dont feel that my freedom would threaten our relationship if we went further -but, i wonder if i will always need to wonder how he’s truly feeling and what he’s really doing. i dont mind letting him go -but, how can i be sure that he’s trustworthy so i can do that for him without worrying about me? we have those “looks” and he’s confronted me about my “look” and im not sure wat he’s seeing -but, i dont mean to flirt but think he brings me into that naturally. things are just so smooth and magical whenever we’re together and eVERYONE sees “electricity” in our connection. he says not to wait for him, but i think its b/c he isnt sure when he’s gonna be ready to move with me -and he duznt want the risk of hurting me. but i strongly feel that he secretly wishes i would be around when he does get ready. im trying to move on just at his request -but, im sooo sure he duznt really want wat he’s asking for and im afraid ill miss my chance if i move on too quickly. any thots?
i see well thank you
It’s really hard to tell because they aren’t ones to jock people. But you’ll know because they’ll check in with you from time to time…just to say hi or whatever. You’ll never know when they’re gonna pop up though, could be weekly, monthly…or even every few months. But basically they’ll just keep coming around.
what are the signs they are holding out?
If a guy really likes you, he won’t go anywhere unless you consistently reject him. Aqua men are no different than any one else who faces rejection. Aquas are pretty strong-willed, so if they really like you…they’ll hold out for a good while. If they don’t like you or their feelings are mediocre…it won’t take them long to get distracted.
I see
depends on the aqua guy and the relationship beforehand. some might hold out hoping for something to happen and another will just move on with their life. Really just depends on the guy in that instance
Im not saying this will happen but what if im not there wen they come back…will they brush it off and continue their life?
Mandy,
With us it’s usually absence makes the heart grow fonder. Usually with a bit of time away from a person we end up realising we had more fun when we are around them and then we come back.
ok thank you pp….your great help! jk lolz
Mike,
I have realized that cuz when i think i have him in my hands hes like 2 steps ahead of me! its crazy. I dont play mind games anymore because il basically never with with aqua. Jeez u cud be him in disguise!!..idk lol Could you tell me how do aquas know they really want someone etc
Mandy,
Yeah us Aqua’s are pretty much useless at showing emotions and we like our space. Just give him time and he’ll come around when he’s ready. And it’s best to just be straight up with us rather than trying to play mind games. We read mind games as well as scorpios do and they just dont work on us, and a heads up, we do have a tendancy to over think things sometimes so just be wary of that issue . Hope that helps abit
LOL…sorry, I don’t mean to laugh but you won’t be able to tell how they feel about you or when they miss you. They’re too damn good at hiding their feelings! The only way you’ll know is if he tells you. Of course, with time and thru an established relationship…you’ll be able to tell all this because you have learned him and you won’t ever wonder.
ok thank you,
now the next thing i have a question about is how can i tell aqua guy misses me and still is waiting for the right time to say he wants to officially be together
It’s not that aquas have a problem with emotions being expressed. They have a problem with all the dramatics that people can bring with those emotions. If you want an aqua to hear you, don’t be dramatic about how you’re feeling, and definitely DO NOT try and manipulate them with how you feel by trying to make them feel guilty…they will read right thru it.
Just calmly talk about what every issue you may be having.
pp…so the best thing to do is be there for him and bring no emotional things into convo?
Mandy – I think you should tone down the emotion and stop giving him guilt trips. It doesn’t work well on aqua men…at all really. He stated he “wouldn’t love it” because in all reality, who would love being cut off? That’s basically what you’re telling him you’re gonna do. Aquas like friends and hate disappointing people, so having quarrel with you is something he will try to avoid…if he can.
Marie – How is everything working out on your end?
hello im a scorpio and i obviously have a question about an aqua guy. ive read previous threads and i found manyso very helpful regarding myself and my aqua guy.
Question 1 is, even when i try to move one and date other guys and still think about my aqua does it mean it will be like this forever because me and him never had a relationship? and i wont sat yet becuase that word is up in the air. (im 19 and hes gonna be 22)
Question 2, i emailed to him “i promise if you resolve something with me you will never hear from me again and imsure ud love it” (since i felt he was tired of hearing from me)..so in response he emailed, “wouldn’t love it”.
could anyone ELABORATE on that for me because i need to know what he means by that. cuz he wont say why
Thanks I will check that website out. I just talked to my aqua and it was good convo. He just got a new condo close by and wants to invite me over. so I guess we will see. Funny thing I was thinking if he textes me and I said I didn’t know if I was gonna answer him…..well right away because when it seems promising, all plans fall threw. I am trying to stay positive.
Marie…
I’m glad to hear that you and your aqua are finally communicating again. It’s weird, once you stop contact with them & go about your life, that’s when they decide they wanna pop back in!
I’m still talking with my aqua as well. He pulled a distancing act on me for the last two weeks, and text me a few days ago asking how I was. I never responded. I feel I need some time to think about some things….but I care about him dearly.
Also, I wanted to mention that there’s this great site Compatible-Astrology.com that has a really good Aqua male/Female scorp forum. I’ve found loads of info and help on there. You should check it out.
I could not say what i text on here , use your imagination. We did talk here and there. Nothing positive, I figured i blew it and out of no where, he started texting me again asking “how i am” so yes i was very excited. I talked to him today and we r going to get together. I can not help it this man does something for me and i dont what…..I will keep u posted!!!!
im an aquarius man…and ive been in 2 serious relationships wit scorpios…and at first its amazing..and then…we hate each other…i guess as im just too free spirited..but definitely find attractions to scorpios…even tho im scared as hell of them
Dear all,
I ask you people who are interested to check out comments on sites like Becky on…(google it) and also a compatibility site run by an astrologer by name of Nancy Fenn. They contain info and lot of comments on aquarius scorpio relationships.
Good Luck to all of you.
wow, am surprised with all the above comments..and Rute, u share the same birthday as my love. 5th feb!! indeed so true that these aquarian men tend to be distant and treats us like a barest minimal in their life at times. im in love with an aquarian man. I met this guy., to be precise, met him at my NEIGHBOORHOOD!! I have met that amazing man. We live just a block away from each other. He was weird yet attractive. Immensely! Before I knew it, I fell for him 10years ago. So right now, after waiting for over ten years for him to notice me. He finally manages to notice me. This perfect stranger is that guy whom I have dreamt about. The faceless man, whom now i found an identity to. From the time I realized I have fallen in love with him, I have been made to feel that I wasn’t worthy of this man. He was the first male to make me feel inadequate. He was also the first male that made me want to get him. The journey was bumpy, and it still is. but the wait was fruitful the moment I got a clue to his identity. I got the clue to this man’s identity. Finally! It was exhausting.. The only thing that I don’t know is, for how long do I have him in my contact? For the past 1yrs after i got to know him,he has been soooo ignorant. Or he is simple playing hard to get. N around last year december bumped into him when i was with my best friend. thats when my friend and i plan to approach him to get a clue to his identity. so somehow my friend striked a conversation with him. as much as i thought he wasnt friendly, he proved me wrong. he was really nice and friendly. somehow i spoke to him as well. i was so happy for the fact that i atleast managed to get his name after 10 years of waiting for him to notice me. he even gave his email ID. which seem useless, cos he hardly replys to mails. i’ve dropped him a few mails but NO reply. after that a few times,i managed to see him around when i go over to the school he is teaching, with pretext to work. then he seemed friendly too. he speaks well in person..he even gave his mobile number. but when i call, he is normarlly busy…and tells me he will return to my call. but he never does
What surprises me is that, despite knowing him after 10 years, i happened to know that we share quite abit of similarities. we both were from the same primary school..but never noticed each other then..n we both stay just a block away..and a few other similarities. the kind of relationship i am having with him, is kind of nothing now. Its not a friendship, a fling or a relationship. We are still like 2 strangers who by chance crosses path.his nice. i dont know if he ever felt what sadness is really like. i really like him. I dare say I loved him for the past 10 years and till today I am loving him. his more like the guy whose not at all existent. he exist in the world, also a block away from me, but his world is not anywhere near mine and mine near his. half the time it seem that his entirely in love with himself and no one else matters to him. Just recently, out of the blue we started going to work together. He is a gem of person in reality,jus that he is simply not cut for a relationship now. Ive confessed my feelings to him. And true enuf,he was honest enough to say he prefers starting it off as friends. He msges me once a while and at times he totally doest his MIA acts (i agree its just his nature of the aquarius.) The scorpio in me tries so hard tame the anger tho i will send him vexed msges when i am mad. He is the man i have stretched my patience with. I hope someday he wil reciprocate my feelings..cos i understand how family oriented and loving an aquarian guy can be after marriage.
I was able to read some comments regarding the scorpio-aquarius relationship. I, too had an intense and loving relationship with an Aquarian guy. It was almost a year since we started to deal with each other. And until now, he is by my side. I really am looking forward for our relationship to fruit well. Neither of us would not let each other go.
However, I am quite disturbed that one of his reasons for loving me is sexually-based. Would i bother that?
Marie…what did you txt your aqua that is so bad?
Each sign has both good and bad qualities about them, but what’s more important to note is that people are more than just their sign. Just because you got screwed over by a scorp/aqua, it doesn’t mean your negative experience is a proven generalization of traits for all the freakin’ people who fall under that sign as well! People’s morals and values aren’t determined by their sign!
That being said, I will say that there are striking similarities between people who are born aqua or scorpio. I’m currently talking to a aqua male right now and I will admit that sometimes he confuses the hell out of me! He blows hot and cold…and he’s so unpredictable, that it is seemingly predictable now…does that make sense lol?
Marie – Just give your aqua space. You haven’t made it clear exactly what you txt him to piss him off, but if he likes you in any way…he’ll look past it all with time.
I was reading about Aquarian males! I am a Leo and was married to an Aquarian. He not only has disfunctional thinking he is a mama’s boy and with that combination of not growing up he got away with murder. He abused me and cheated on me and to make it even worse he did drugs with my teenage kids from a previous 21 yr marriage without me knowing. He was such a horrible partner in my life that he damaged relationships with people I cared for. His sign fits him to a tee, cold and calculating. It was the worst experience in my life. He took everything from our marriage and sold my personal belongings, and had no remorse. As I think about it, I will say this DON’T LOOK BACK or you may turn into a pillar of salt..He was EVIL,seriously. Carma is a Bitch!!!!!!!!!!!!
Aquas are best suited for Scorpio. I don’t know why they say Libras are. My Aqua was with a Libra for 7 years and they had a child together. He said he was always embarrassed of her , and that he tried to leave her many times and she would either break up his relationships ( by getting ahold of his gf at the time and telling them lies about him , thus they would always break up with him, and other silly stupid things.
She is still and always tried to get me to break up with him or us to break it off from eachother but I am not budging , she doesn’t scare me at all. My aqua has told me that the connection he feels with me is amazing , always saying ” I have never felt this way before” He is always touching me , then laughs when he catches himself being so intimate , again , something he says he has never had the desire to do for a woman. He always makes me laugh and will do sweet things like rub my feet and draw me baths, but he is not a sappy sort of man , very strong and has a mean dark side to him which keeps me very much attracted to him , as he likes my dark side as well.
The connection in the bedroom is out of this world. we are both so comfortable with eachother to explore above and beyond. He bought me a ring the other day, a promise ring , and when I cried he didnt know what to say. He tells me he loves me and I am just as important as his son , and that coming from an aqua , is a big BIG deal.
….Its not sunshine all the time , when we get into it , heads do roll , but in a strange way we kind of get off on it , hard to explain.
So can someone tell me why this is , why the connection between two signs can be this strong? Others here have confirmed this as well. Also , if this is the case then why do the reports explain Libra to be the best match ? I cant stand libras , I find them just as boring and materialistic as Aquas do.
”oh and when we were on our way back, he was like, i kissed my friend last nite, but it didnt mean anything and i was like oh so u kiss any girl? and he was like no i dont. and i said, well wat would u say if ur girlfriend kisses another guy just cuz shes really close to him? and he was like, kat im not the jealous type, [and for me, if a guy doesnt get jealous at all, its because he doesnt care]”
aquarians are assholesI was never burnt by one but i am an air sign.They get away with things most other signs cant cause its all in the presentation.trust me, a lot of them are in your face full on lame.
typical
”Us Aqua guys do like to think were right all the time, most of the time we are but those times when we are wrong we dont really like, ”
you would say that.only ”you” know your right but concerning most of the planet, youre wrong lol
keyword: i know…”i”
omywow are you not going to use full quotes or just the bits that you feel relivent to your opinion ?? i think the full quote would be ” Us Aqua guys do like to think were right all the time, most of the time we are but those times when we are wrong we dont really like, so probably best not to rub it in his face, but do prove your point when he is wrong, he’ll respect that.”
And less bashing on aquarians, were aren’t all the same
Hi Mike
Well i just seen your post, but i texted this morning sayin Hi, and he said was ” Texts werent good and i will see u around, no worries. so i texted back that i wouldn’t anymore and promised. I hope i didn’t hurt ur feelings and that feel terrible, and that i valued our friendship. He said “Yeah, please don’t text that anymore” so i left it alone. I guess I blew it. I am so sad. I really cared for himand mostly as a friend. Hopefully in time maybe it will change….idk thankyou
Thanks Mike, it is very helpful but another situation has occured…..lol
Saturday night i went out he texted me, what i thought was a sure shot if u know what i mean. Then he never texted me back. Again confused so i texted a couple fresh things…..haha I apologized the next day and still haven’t heard from him. He is makin me feel terrible. Do u think i should leave him alone or text him again. I can’t see him being mad but i do feel like he rejected me. So confused!
I can see why your confused !! He seems to be acting pretty strange. I reckon leave him alone for a while. The time without contact might make him realize that he misses your attention. Hopefully he’ll be more responsive to you in a week or so
aymen your previous coment i can relate to! i think every scorpio has a dark side and we can be very wicked and hatefilled but at the same time for my true friends and love ov my life i will do anything for them. and as for my enimies which i have a few of, they need not cross my path they soon get stung. its in our nature. i think this somewhat has to do with past expiriences also but i have never cheated on my aquarious man but aquarians have a nack of not showing emotion very well. this can be interprited by us as your going to leave us soon or cheat yourselfs. us scorpions need alot of asurance and if it isnt in abundant we can get very confused
wow what a little goldmine iv come across here. im 23 scorpio iv been with my aquarian boyfriend for 7yrs on and off and five yrs living with him. we have alot of ups and a alot of downs. we definatly have a strong connection and the sex is very hot. iv been with other partners in between and so has he but we always come bk to eachother because everything else with other partners is boring in comparison lol. i am a very emotional scorpio and i need alot of reasurance even tho i know im beautiful its just nice to hear him compliment me and say the words… hes not really the romantic type so i whinge at him sometimes alittle to much. i get the feeling these days that maybe he is bored of me alittle with all the stroppy bossy stuff i tend to bring to the table. honest tho i cnt help it its in my nature. im very posesive of him and very proud and headstrong.
we have a sexy tention tho and we playfight probly to much lol bit of tention. i am a brilliant cook i am inteligent and i am a good homemaker i find pleasure in looking after my house and home but just lately i feel i would like to be a beter girlfriend to him now as hes going threw some work problems. how can i show him that im hear for him and im suporting him without being bossy? and is it just me or is it really dificult to show an aquarious he is wrong about something? iv heard his own mother say the same… it doesnt mater how logical i reason with him he cant see when hes in the wrong? wot is the best thing i can do? let him be right all the time or is there a beter way of getting threw to aquarians?
another point i would like advice on… my aquarious man has the abillity to build me up but his wicked side he has the ability to tear me so far down also. he really does believe that hes always right and im mostly wrong so for me its harder to acept put down like that. any help? where am i going wrong
Hey scorpio23f,
You can i show him that your there for him and suporting him without being bossy, by just having a nice dinner made or sumthign when he comes hoem from work, it doesn’t have to be too drastic, we do notice the little things, even if we dont show it too often.
Us Aqua guys do like to think were right all the time, most of the time we are but those times when we are wrong we dont really like, so probably best not to rub it in his face, but do prove your point when he is wrong, he’ll respect that.
I believe Aqua’s wicked side only comes out if you have really pissed them off in some way, or that might just be me, but i wouldn’t tear a girl down unless she’s done something really wrong, it might not be the same for all aqua’s tho.
hi I am sxorp girl and interested in aqua man but like everyone else i don’t know if he is interested. He takes me out with him, but yet talks to other girls. He textes me and calls me he tells me he loves me. He is very confusing. My friends tell me to go for it but i am to afraid of rejection. He addresses me as “hello beautiful” and “Gorgeous…..Just so confused……Please Help
To Marie,
He talks to other girls to make you more interested in him. He doesn’t want to seem totally into you even if he is. Us aqua male’s also need reassuance of your interest in us as some are abit shy. You may actually have to make to first move if he still isn’t sure of your interest in him. Hope this helps
Mike
well first i’m an aqua from germany and i dont like what Miss Synthia says about us and I think she says so because she had difficult time with her aqua ex who made her see who she really might be (a weak selfish girl that lies like a rug trying to prove something???) Anyways I hope she gets rid of that anger and move on for real without hate in her BIG heart.
about scorpios,
Scorpio seem to hate anyone if they don’t like them and they easily fall for anyone that makes them feel wanted…which proves they have a self image problem.
It’s said that scorpios are emotional and I agree with that, but we all have to understand that emotions are not the best way to judge people or to live, use your brain.
From my experience for 2 years with a scorpio I can say that the only interesting thing about scorpio girls is their sexual desire and sensitivity which I appreciate a lot because of my scorpio moon and ascendent. However I don’t think I can count on just that when it comes to commitment. We aquarians treat everyone with lots of respect and we expect others to treat us the same way.
During these two HELLISH years I was like pushing a wall for I did everything to satisfy that girl including doing her effin homework ( yes I did) , listening to her undless self-pity speach and all I get eventually is few empty words describing how she will make me happy in bed and how much she loves me because i, unfortunately, had the ability to heal her harms and make her feel safe.
I met that girl after she broke with her leo partner that literally destroyed her self-esteem so she found herself unwillingly falling for someone that can help her rise her ego again, that was unfortunately me and even tho I was PERFECT at doing that, which is weirdly a truth that a my ex scorpio admits, it didn’t stop her from cheating and playing her old tricks. SHE ADMITS THAT.
It’s so wrong to say that aquarians are flirtatious and cold. All depends on venus the planet of love and relationship. I am an aqua and I loved that scorpio girl with all my heart and never thought of cheating her until she started showing her ugly dark side and you might laugh at me if I say that I was ready to die for he, which is the result of my venus in capricorn.
So advice to all aquarians, don’t waste your energy on scorpios, it’s not worth for we are not what they want (or they think so) and they are not what we expect our partners to be like and neither us nor them would ever change …
Special advice to aquarian girls who sat there laughing and watching us being offended (I say girls because men can take the pain that results from that wicked relationship, aqua/scorpio and will learn alot from it). I say get the hell away from scorpio guys, they will just manipulate you, remember my words.
Finally I want to tell you, I’m with a libra girl now and we are going to get married soon, she just understands me and make me feel like a king. sorry for the language mistakes for i’m german
@Aymen: You’re a hypocrite. You told Synthia off for telling her experience with her ex and then went on generalizing every other Scorps based on the experience with your ex Scorp. How does that fair? Use your brain and think please , and you will notice that you’ve self-esteem issues . Otherwise, why stayed with a cheating and manipulative bitch like that? Again, use your brain and probably you wouldn’t be tricked that much. By the way, are you bisexual or something , otherwise how do you know what is it like to be with a Scorp man? If not, then please don’t provise your inefficient knowledge. Be a man and admit your mistake . You didn’t use your brain to love and that’s what happened. Talking about emotion and self image. I think you’re even worse than your ex. You two deserve one another. Leave the Libra woman alone. You are just being with her because she’s boosting your low self-esteem after being with your ex . Proof? “feel like a king”"? Sorry you’re delusional because you aren’t king. Next time, think before you love and stop blaming and be whiny about your mistakes.
So you are synthia, it’s so easy to make a scorpio fall in their own traps niahahaha you know what you are doing a great job encouraging aquarius to treat scorps worse and proving that scorp people are nutcase
Hey Scorpio Monroe, I think I remember you – what was your handle!? Sy
One more thing to add to my above post. Why do Aqua men give and take as well ( this also doesn’t help me with my own back and forth behaviour) When we first got together and I mean back in 08′ a few months into it he was talking about having kids together ( he has a son with some crazy libra girl , not a woman , a girl , shes nuts) and how although he loves his son he sometimes regrets having a kid with Miss Libra and wish he had his son with me instead.
Since getting back together he has brought this back up again ” what if when I come down this weekend you get pregnant?” he asked , I laughed and said ” how much sex are we planning on having ?” I know it only takes one time but still. He just laughed like a little school boy and asked if I remember the names of our ” kids” that him and talked about before. NOW , yesterday when I brought this up , about our ” kids” he totally changed his tune ( with a smile ) and said ” oh I dont know about that just yet” ????? Why does he do this ?
He gives and when I take , he steps back , when he gives and I step back he gets mad and claims that I dont care!!! What is going on here , is he the immature aqua i have been reading about ? the one that you should avoid??
- Scorpio Monroe
So , I am back. I posted last year or so about my Aqua man. You all said he would return, and he has. We have been texting each other like crazy. The love is still very much there.
But I am afraid , afraid to love this man again with all of my being only to have it ripped out of my chest yet again , so I have been going back and forth with him. When I have him , i think , ” should I be doing this again?” and pull away , when he says ” im too confused and this is too hard to deal with” Thats when I smarten up and realize I do want him in my life for good.
Trust me he is no saint ! He would throw me to the wolves if he felt no one was on my side. ( like his family for the most part) And he can talk in rhyme which confuses me , but he claims that its his old soul talking.
I laugh because it can be a little lame sometimes but I love him lol. He was supposed to come down this weekend , but i chickened out , he got mad and shut his phone off and wouldn’t answer his txt. Of course the next day I called him , we spoke , and it was back to ” normal” But now he is very stand offish. he used to send a txt every morning to tell me he loved me , and then txt me all through out the day. I just sent him a good morning txt and nothing has come back and I know he is up.
So what do I do , yes , me being afraid and worried from our past , got us here now , but is there anything I can say or do to get him back fully ? And not so stand offish? I can feel his energy I swear , and it feels like he now feels unsure about the whole thing although he tells me he loves me. should I just leave him be?
How can I show him that Im ready to give this a solid shot and stop going back and forth with worry ? I feel that I have every right to worry as he was the one who broke us last time , and my heart. I forgive him , but I dont forget , and now that we spent time apart and are now back in eachothers life , how do I let him in without being so worried ultimately breaking us apart before we even really begin ?
Ive read just to leave him be and let him come back to me when he is done thinking? Sorry for the rambble , I am really upset here.
love all ,
Scorpio Monroe
A trend which i have noticed is that the uranus male planet is exalted in scorp, scorp female is attracted to aqua male, when you reverse the sexes scorp males literally despise aqua females.
Pluto being exalted in Leo leo females are attracted to scorp males passionately
Mars being exalted in capricorn, there are plenty of aries women with capricorn males in downright extra marital relations.
This is more of a karmic fatal effect and less to do with rational choices. Overcoming the square energy is no joke. Sexual tensions run high between squared signs. Again living long enough together is no indication of compatibility.
The truth behind Aishwarya rai and Abhisek is that the latter is a gay and its Abhisek’s father Amitabh who has a relation with our dear Miss World.
This is just the planet’s ways of seducing unevolved people.
Scorp girls are the real WAIFs of the zodiac, truly their hearts belong with a scorp male, but they wander around searching for something bogus all because they wanna dominate some mama’s boy rather than entering a meaningful win-win relation with a strong male.
Hey all, Scorpio female here (Sagittarius Moon, Mercury, and Mars, Venus in Scorpio) who is in a relationship with an Aquarius male (Aquarius mercury, mars, gemini moon, Venus in capricorn). My aqua guy and I have been together for almost 3 months. We actually dated 7 years ago, briefly…I was his date to his bro’s wedding. Now we are very serious, I was previously married to a Cancer for 5 years, had two children with, and divorced due to his hiding a drug addiction. Now, this aqua guy is a humanitarian, youth pastor, has done missionary work in Peru this past year….I find him sooo inspiring. I messaged him and asked if he wanted to meet for lunch one day. After a 3 hour lunch he messaged me saying he wanted to take me on more dates…..we went on several more and they were wonderful. I have since met his family, he’s met mine….everyone has embraced everyone else…he loves my kids, and my kids love him, we have spent a lot of time together. He has even mentioned the words “marriage” and “settling down” with me, which is shocking to me b/c I always thought aquas were supposed to shy away from commitment! Bu he has always said he hopes I’m “the last person he’s with, etc”….the intimacy between us, btw, is off the charts!!! 10 stars!! lol. So everything sounds great right?
well….
1) this past year he was with a girl for a year, who he wound up proposing to. She said no. that was in december, and by the end of march, we were dating. I worry that we have started a serious relationship too quickly….that he has not given himself enough time to be single, etc..and he might still have feelings for this girl…or maybe even that I am some transitional girl, someone he’s using to get through this time, I dunno, like a rebound girl or something.
2) he has told me straight off the bat that my music annoys him and this bothers me. We’ve been on several road trips together, and I enjoy my music, but he always complains about it. He has said that he thinks when people try to force their music on him, or try to get him to like something, it makes him like it less. I don’t feel like I’ve tried to force anything, I’m just happy with my music, but he seems to have a problem with almost everything I play. He critiques it all the time, and thus I wind up not enjoying my own music anymore. Sounds trite but it bothers me, which bleeds into my third problem…
3) he’s bossy. I mean, when I’m with him, he wants me to scratch his back, or rub it, but then jokes about how I’m not good at it. Some of his bossiness involves him telling me what to do, which bothers me. I don’t like being told what to do. I welcome advice, questions, suggestions, attempted guidance, requests, etc….but I do not like straight out being told to do this or that, and sometimes he does this.
4) He mentions seemingly innocent comments about other females, whether in his class, or just out and about, and tells it to me like its no big deal. This bothers me. I’m not sure if he’s trying to make me jealous, or gauge my reactions, but I have the decency to not mention other guys to him (although to be fair, he does have to hear crazy stories about my children’s father, ex-husband all the time).
5) He wants to spend a lot of time together, but he’s kind of self-absorbed and not very romantic. The thing was, he wasn’t like that in the beginning. He was actually very romantic and had done sweet things for me, like cleaning my car, etc. but for the most part lately, he only wants to do his own interests or his own errands, and yet always wants me with him to do these things. 80% of the time, I go with him. But it gets to be draining sometimes.
and last but not least,
6) he doesn’t express how he feels. Sure, he tells me he likes me a lot, and he shows it through his actions, but he doesn’t feel comfortable expressing his emotions. I really enjoy expressing emotions with someone I care about, and I really feel like I love this man. However, I’m not sure if he really truly does love me (see concern about feelings for ex above), or if he just uncomfortable with verbal expressions of feelings. I won’t force this issue, and I will be patient, I guess I’m concerned b/c I’ve already invested so much in this man, I’m afraid its not going to work out, and I really hope it does.
I like this post b/c it describes the aqua/scorpio fascination to a T. I really want this to work, and I do give him lots of space and freedom. Sometimes I try to say sweet things to him, but I get the impression that instead of drawing him nearer, it actually pushes him away. My problem is I almost feel like we spend TOO much time together, and I need a breather. I’d rather us spend quality time together, than quantity time, if that makes sense. The only thing I’ve said to him is that I wanted to chill at home this week. I want things to get better, not drift apart….how do I insure that we work out? I guess nothing is guaranteed, just saw this going so well and now these little problems are cropping up.
I am sooo diggin your post! Really in a time of need too. I am head over heels in love with an Aquarius guy. Have been for the past 12 almost 13 years, but as we all know life happens, I went one way and he went another, but now we are back in touch. All I can say is it feels so real. We are friends, but I want to be the ONE. And I’m sure he has many females after his heart. All I can do is fall back and have faith, I don’t have anything else. And he constantly goes through mood swings. So I just give him his space and wait patiently. But sometimes I feel it’s not fair that he can dissapear and re- appear when he feels like it. My character is caring and compassionate, but extremely driven, ambitious, and adventurous. One thing I lack, is femming up everyday, I’m just a chill kinda gal. Jeans and a t-shirt— lets go play. Sooo mabey I should get pretty????
Hi Lilli Ann,
YES, YES, YES go somewhere and get pretty! Aquarius men aren’t really hooked on looks but when you are shining and you stand out in the crowd, HE WON’T BE ABLE TO TAKE HIS EYES OFF YOU!
I’m a Scorp female and I like an Aqua dude. They adore an ultra femine woman.
Good luck.
-Halloween
Hi, I am D. the one that wrote that long essay about us that every one says is spot on!… aqua men… but for some reason some one else has taken my name… oh well.
‘Scorpio female’…
Please drop the ego… one thing we hate is ego! keep it to your self, i am dating this libra woman now,… she always wants me to say how beutiful she is… it comes accross as insecurties… one thing that you MUST remember is that I and also most other aquarius men are notice the innate grace, femininity that is present in scorp women and libra women! So if you want to attract this guy… please re read the blog again… and please use it!!
The chances are that he prob has alot of women checking him out… even if he may not be ”good looking”… it because they see the same thing as you do!!! GET IT!! BE DIFFERENT… i have at this time got 4 women after me and i still havent found the one that i want!
IF YOU ARE SUPER FEMININE AROUND HIM… i GARANTEE HE WILL NOTICE YOU, and BE HIS FRIEND!!!!!!! Give it time and it will work…
Then again its up to you!!
‘I second this one’- cheers dude!! took me just 5 minutes to write! lol.
any questions please feel free to ask/
D… Aqua Male 1983
Hi RSP…D AM 1983, I am a Scorpio female and I would LOOOOOVE to communicate with you on the Aqua male/Scorp female topic!
I have been seeing an Aqua dude off and on for more than 2 years. We do not have a relationship but our chemistry is through the roof!
He treats me like a queen, compliments me often, asks me what I see in him, inquires on who I’m seeing because he can’t believe I would be single, etc.
I want more from this man and I want to spend quality time with him but I feel my strong feelings may scare him away. I have to be sure he wants the same. Can you help?
Thanks
-Halloween
Dear Greci,
Thanks for you beautiful words. Appreciate your sense of Justice.
– Rutu
Being a Buddhist, dear Rutu, is a long Path. Look up our saint: Milarepa. You will immediately understand. Some people believe that becoming a Buddhist is all of a sudden, changing completely and becoming what one may imagine wanting to become. It is not like that at all.
My anger at you has long past. I remember it as something alike a fiery reflex, and soon after, just another episode in one’s life experience.
You must understand one thing…I do not easily tell anyone what experiences I lock within me for a myriad of reasons. Something gentle about you, in your writing, allowed me to approach you, yet, I was very hurt when there was one thing you had not told me until I’d felt we had a friendship in potentia.
I could not count the times, there have been so many, when people have scolded me and said what you’ve just written. I will confess right this moment, that my anger is very strong and immediately fierce if aroused. I would be lying if I told you that what I wrote was tranquilly written, while instead, planning to cause you the MOST harm. I wrote the way I wrote, because my anger at that moment, having felt betrayed and disappointed – had a Medusa’s head of flames, instead of snakes.
In other words, you heard and with no holding back an anger, (mine) which is incendiary, to speak mildly!
As to what kind of Buddhist I’d like to be, I have yet no idea. What the practice reveals takes time. And it is FAR TOO early yet. I do however, smile and shake my head a little when people scold me with the words you’ve addressed to me. Buddhism, is not a Magic Bullet, nor a Miraculous pill, which one swallows and immediately is reborn spiritually as a Bodhisattva,
that is why I suggested reading about Milarepa.
If you pay notice to the posts left for you, after your admission of why you did not reveal your true gender, it is clear, that everyone has excused you. No one has blamed you…and all still like you, and would welcome you back. That I think is very gracious and generous from others. Far more that can be found in Yahoo Answers, in which I no longer wish to participate. And not because of anyone’s fault, but because I know when it is my time to return to other things, I’ve been neglecting: my work, for example.
AND, since I do not know the future, nor the kind of Buddhist I’d like to be, I’ll simply wait, while continuing my practice. I am certain that the first surprise shall be mine, if ever I “get there”
so to speak.
So look at it this way if you can: No one here has turned against you, and neither have I. So I believe, there is much fortune in that. Milarepa, however, is quite another story…but even he made it through..so to become the Buddhist he was fated to be, not necessarily, wanted to.
And if he was able to make it, believe me, I do believe I have a chance as well.
Blessings!
Grecia.
p.s. And oh yes, I most certainly remember your name, for how could I forget it???
Excuse me for suggesting the following. But there are times when what seem are bad circumstances, a good rebirth is breaking through. What I mean, is that the exposure you admitted to, and its’ why, has made it more possible for you and your fellow people here to NOW enjoy a RICHER experience.
Were I you, I would return.
Why waste a portentous opportunity???
Don’t you think so, You, Rutu, and you, her fellows-threaders here?
Bye,
G.
Thanks My Dear Lili. Thanks for being the first one to post. Yes Im aqua girl. Let me explain what happend here.
I came across this site few years back and I found it interesting. But at that time there were very few posts. I would chek week after week and there won’t be more posts on the thread. I got bored. I thougth if I put a lengthier post then people would reply thus thread will move forward. And as the thread was about Scrp Wmen and Aqua Men, I decided to post as Aqua man so that its in more keeping with the thread’s content. I thought I will just post 2-3 times and then leave as others will start posting. But as I posted people strted asking questions and wanting replies. I knew things so I felt like replying and answering them. By this time it was too late to tell the truth. I was wanting to leave the thread but I couldn’t as people were asking questions and there were few to reply. It just continued and continued. I changed my name for this only as I ws wanting peple knw that Rutu dont post anymore. I tried to find people on Yahoo Answers who were asking similar questions and directed them to this thread so that they can answer questions. There were few who posted. This is where I gave Grecia address of this site as she had asked a similar question on Y!A. What happend with her is another confusion originating from here. We don’t have any interest in each other. When I finally told her the truth, You got her post above and rest is history.
I am glad that I did not leave the thread before meeting you here. I believed you, Brightstarlights and all my other friends here deserved to know the truth. Thts the story.
For you dear Lili, my ears will always be open to hear what you have to say or want me to listen. You can contact me on rutu_5f@yahoo.com. So you and others, take care now.
I believe the thread has progress very well and peple can read for advice. I do not see myself posting here now.
Now for Grecia.
Dear Grecia,
From your post, as I can see and as you can see, you still have a long way to go in becoming a Buddhist that you wish to be. Take care.
– Rutu (You BETTER remember my name.)
And one more thing, INITIALLY, I thought you were a female. It wasn’t until you shared your interest of a Scorpio woman at school, that I ASSUMED you were a male. You can e-mail me anytime, hopefully sooner than later tho at leeannarose23@yahoo.com.
Everyone makes mistakes. In the end what matters is; how well did you live, love, and learn to let go…
Wow! I accept your apology Rutu/D. I am very confused here though. Are you an Aquarius? Just a female one? Ummm, I must say that I like you very much, you are a very attentive person whom listens to each story and offers what i feel is genuine advice. I mean nobody’s name here is real, we are all in disguise! But ill tell you what does hurt, is the thought that our friendship may be over. After Grecia’s post I looked back to see if you indeed did say that you were a male. I didnt come across it directly yet, but who knows? So im curious, what were your intentions here? Well never the less I would like it very much if you would remain a part of my life. ~Lili Ann
oh boy..
astrology may reveal some amazing things but human behavior remains a mystery..
take care of yourselves, and each other
XX
The comment above me is Right. And I should apologize for my behaviour. I did breach trust of the people here.
I am sorry for using a disguised personality. I should especially apologise to Synthia, K, Lilli and all the rest with whom I talked for long.
But I MUST tell you that all the advice that I gave was TRUE from my heart and I am NOT apologizing for that. If the thread wishes then they can delet my comments.
I shall Not repeat my behaviour.
I am sorry.
– Rutu
This is Grecia – Rutu – I write you, with a feeling of not just betrayal, but also of having a natural repugnance for those, such as you, who claim, that “honesty” is the best policy. IS IT REALLY, WHAT YOU THINK, Rutu, or another manipulation? I have just received an e-mail message from you, after about, (what?) six letters of correspondence? In this final letter of yours, you say that you are a “FEMALE”, not a man. But was your reason for having concealed this from me? Are you into head-games of clever manipulation, because at heart, you care not at all whom you hurt and make angry? Or are you involved in a psychological study, where your experiments of others’ psyches, provide you with whatever you must learn, but will not allow your laboratory “humans” to know toward what, this experiment is toward?
I myself no longer care, because revealingly, your manipulations of me, NOT BEING HONEST ABOUT YOUR TRUE GENDER, has now, totally eclipsed you from my Universe.
However, I am angry. One should know what risks they are taking, when lying to a Scorpio. We do not like lies, especially Scorpios females.
If at the onset of our correspondence, you had told me you were female, and did not mislead me by allowing me to think you were male…I would not have completely – as it is now, lost any trust I would place into your hands, with ease and comfort.
Are you a FEMALE, as you have just confessed you are in your last e-mail, or is that a further part of a game which is of no respect to the persons within your interest for whatever your reason? If you lied once, and cruelly, by having pretended you were of male gender and not a female, as you now admit – I can not help but feel you could very easily lie again.
As I read most of the posts from your colleagues, above, you seem to be trusted. There ARE implications that you are MALE, and these insinuated by YOU!. WHY HAVE YOU LIED? To me and to them So I conclude it is a game you play here.
If at the beginning you had told me you were a female, I would have welcomed you as one, a “sister” of sorts. I would have continued to correspond. Because having enjoyed our correspondence, it would not have mattered what gender was yours, in truth. However, now that I look at you differently, I have to FIRMLY admit, that to trust you ever again would result in another, YET Greater folly!
It amazes me as well as it astounds me that you could lie as you’ve done, and still claim it is not really a lie. I now, don’t EVEN really know WHO, or WHAT you are…only do I know that you deserve no trust, Especially mine, who appreciates the exposure of truth.
I believe you should apologize to your colleagues here, perhaps, there is one or so, who offer you compassion for your deed, but to me, accepting you now, announces clearly, it is only Fool’s compassion, I’d be dealing with towards you.
I am glad that you’ve finally me the truth as to your reality, and gender…for YES, I would have been hurt, if you had told me much later!
I have corresponded with other females and males, asking of them if they understood when at times, people exchange genders behind the curtain of anonymity, and their replies have summed, for most, that it is JUST one aspect of “the game.” What game?
I believe I have been left out of knowing what these are. I tend to believe that WHAT is told me…I offer it face value.
If I were to say, well, I can forgive you, and let us go on, with corresponding with one another – I’d be setting myself up for something else you may impose upon me. So I can not correspond anymore with you. Period! And if you are playing even further with peoples minds, and would use a GREAT lie to disentangle yourself from a budding “Friend in Potentia” you, Rutu, are still enabling a lie, even more complex than the one before.
Is what you do, a kind of vengeance? Is it fun for you, to tally others reactions? Does it make you feel you are more powerful, holding the rather ugly and diabolic, marionette’s strings? There must be a reason why you do this. IS IT an experiment imposed upon innocent or trusting others, for what purpose which are YOURS alone? Whatever the answer is, it is a sign of serious and deep disrespect to others to conceal the truth of any situation. Has your mother, whom once you told me, you love more than anything in the world, not taught you to not treat or assume others as fools at your access, because, that would one day boomerang, and with such velocity, (as would have made it a sharp blade), lop off your game-playing head! There is much you still have to learn, don’t you? But I doubt it if you will, because your arrogance and such permission you’ve given yourself, to treat others through what you believe is superior manipulation – while trying to appear as a trustworthy person.
I am sorry for you in a way…the day may come when it shall be impossible to know the difference from the lie you may tell in order to gain results, which only you know well about. And instead only be able to not recognize any truth which concerns you.
I am disappointed in you, and your vandal style, but awfully happy IT finally exited from the concealment-as-refuge, which you’ve granted it – THAT IS: if even this lastly told me – about your true gender, is true.
In any case, you are NOT anyone, I’d ever want to further know, since you have breached the trust between us, which I though we DID have, and have erased any feeling in me which was purely and innocently given you, after this last announcement of yours.
Remember one thing about Scorpios; women and men alike…We like to depend on what is true, and fiercely – and anyone who fails to respect that, NEEDS NO LONGER APPLY.
Shame on you, story teller…you have disgusted me truly with your insensitive treatment of others, as show here in this website, and mine, as well and totally! Thusly, WHOMever, WHATever you are, please stay clear of me!
Grecia. < you do remember me, don't you, disguised one!
Hi Guys,
This has been a very engaging thread and I believe it has also been a source of comfort for many.
I think its been asked before but I haven’t seen any clear answers to it. I want to ask how do you tell when a scorp girl is interseted in you?
Thanks!
Aquarius Guy
Hi Guys,
This has been a very engaging thread and I believe it has also been a source of comfort for many.
I think its been asked before but I haven’t seen any clear answers to it. I want to ask how do you tell when a scorp girl is interseted in you?
Thanks!
____________________________
Hi Aquarius Guy,
If a Scorpio woman gives you her personal attention and time, she likes you. Have you tried asking her? Once we mature and get in tune with our loving, passionate sides, we will be up front about our true feelings even if it’s blunt and hurtful. So please, just ask.
If she likes you and wants a relationship with you and you want the same, please, please stop your hiding out, aloof game plays and don’t be afraid to feel real, deep love. TALK ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS WITH ONE ANOTHER THEN LOVE AND BELIEVE WHAT YOU HEAR!
I have strong feelings for an Aquarius male and I am also seeking information on how to be sure you guys like us Scorpion females. Write me back and we can discuss this in detail.
- Halloween
Hi D! How are you these days? Everything is to say the least wonderful for me right now. I did bring the flowers to his families house, and when we bumped into each other one evening we just hugged and smiled. Since then we have been in contact:) What are you up to? How is school?
I am a Scorpio woman. About six months ago I met Aqu-boy. He introduced himself and I became very interested because of his conversation. We finally met in person a few months later and he was definitely a breath of fresh air. The attraction was very strong between us. We live miles apart. At times he seems distant but I know that he likes me because he told me. I think about him often. I have fallen in love with him. We talk often and then I think he feels that he is getting too close and he pulls away. I give him his few days and he comes back around. He is truly a compassionate person. My hopes is that this relationship will go all of the way. I feel as if it will, but then I remember he is Aqua-boy.
Regards
Fah
I have been dating an Aquarius man for almost three months now and it has been the most intense relationship I have ever have and it has forced me to deal with issues I had hid from myself. He challenges me in a good way and I love it and balances my emotional dark moods with his logic, but I wouldn’t have been able to truly appreciate all this if I hadn’t read up on his sign from Linda Goodman’s book. It says that Scorps and Aquarius are both strong willed fixed signs and that in the beginning it is a definite struggle to understand each other but once they do, the outcome is heaven.
Aqua male here…..
Just met a Scorpio woman.!!!!!! All I can say is WoW.!!!!
I’ve never dated a Scorp…. I can tell this will be very interesting….. Met her 3 weeks ago and have talked everyday and seen each other a few times…. It has heated up already and plan on spending much more time together – including all weekend this weekend.!!!!
Ooooops….. It didn’t last.
We made it to 2 and almost a half years.
- mrmustangman
Scorpio D,
I believe all you should do is to communicate your needs to him. Something that I have observed to be quite difficult for a scorpio woman.
Aqua and Scorp are very different as people and thus often don’t understand each others needs unless and until clearly mentioned to them. Once he understands your needs, I am sure he will be considerate of those. But there is no point in getting frustrated over his inaction if he doesn’t know what he is expected to do.
Regards,
Aqua
I am a Scorpio Woman dating a Aquarian Man and I can totally relate to the comments made by the Aquarian male D.
I am finding my mate to be hot one minute and cold the next. As soon as I go cold he reacts the way I would like him too.
He has trouble vocalising his feelings and show me his affection by showering me in gifts and taking me to nice places.
When we are together we are very connected. And the sex is amazing.
Then I might not see him for a week or two and I feel like a total stranger. All very frustrating for a Scorpio woman.
If I try and provoke a reaction from him I get nowhere, and I end up feeling immature or foolish. All I am looking for is reassurance that he loves me. But he doesn’t say it, just says that I should know!
I am really into my partner, but I wonder if I am setting myself up for heartache long term as he cant fulfil my Scorpio needs??
One more Scorpio woman falling for Aquarius man. I met him in a trip a few months ago, so we currently live very far away from each other. He is 16 years younger than me, it took me by surprise how persuasive he was to get to know me and be with me. At the beginning I though it was a joke but he was serious business, and then Its like the chemistry between us was so intense i could not resist him. We were involved and spent quite some time together despite our differences. He knew I was in a relationship, in which I had always been faithful. Currently, We talk on the phone often. As he is happy to talk to me, he does not tell me he loves me or likes me or anything…I am the one being very open with my feelings. He is not. But we have nice conversations. He is mature, caring, and a gentleman. I love that about him…I realize that we cannot have anything promising with this distance; but we can be friends in a way… but as a scorpio, this is very difficult to deal with…but I am wiser now and know I cannot go crazy over these feelings. I feel deeply attracted and connected to this guy, even though we saw for quite a few days…. I cannot explain myself, I find myself fantasizing about the time we spent for hours, it has affected my productivity… I would like to get some further help understanding this relationship, and why it has become so intense…
Yes, I am a scorpio woman with an aquarius man. I have had very short relationships with aquarius before, all of which never meant much after they were gone. I am very much attracted to this man, not only physically but emotionally as well. Plus, he gives me the emotional reassurance that is somewhat hard to satisfy for us.
However, I find it very hard to give him that leash of freedom he does deserve. I’ve been hurt by an aquarius before and I am afraid I am making him pay for this. Unfair, I know.
The thing is that most scorpios are very self-critical. We will never think theyre good enough. Or we’re not good enough. Its never good enough.
Im trying to assert this problem.
Any tips?
@Tipi : “Tipi
Oh, I forgot to mention…a few years ago I dated one and I liked him a lot. We got along great and had so much fun together and were very compatible, good physical chemistry, etc. All of a sudden, one day, I didn’t hear from him anymore. No explanation. Nothing. Now I will hear from him every couple years or so (he now lives in Florida), and we go out and get some drinks and catch up when he is in town. It’s like our friendship never ended. And I never bring up the “what happened?””
yeah.. thats one sure thing about aquarians.. “can we still be friends?” either he will ask you or else, he will look how you react after “breaking up” and if you go along well, he may as well never ask you “to be just friends” and get along like nothing ever happened…. trust me.. i am also an aquarian male…
This guy sure knows what hes talking about..
every single word is damn true. im too an aquarius male and i think only aquarians can actually “read” another aquarian like no one could ever do it..!!
here’s what “D” has typed –
“D
I am an Aquarius Male!… These are the reasons why we are so hard to read, and what we think…!
Why are we so hard to read! Its because we dont have ONLY one thing on our minds… we have 5, 10 or more at any one time! Initially you WERE hooked!! FACT!! Scorpios want to know that every one fancies them… that they are special, and the chances are that we kept you guessing and NOT TREATING YOU LIKE QUEENS!! We gave you attention making you even more confused but still keeping our alloofness. This caused you to GET REALLY CONFUSED.
The best way to get an aquarian man, is to be really hot, then really cold, and give us a sexy ‘dear’ type look, dont say anything when you stand next to us, we can feel the electricity comming from you. Do the same as what we do to you!
If the aqua man turns off… you turn off… and after a few weeks or months… you will see him running back to you, he will give you one chance, then another, and wait…. he cant get you out of nhis head now… dont go back to him just yet… start it off as really good friends…. but DO NOT BACK OFF THIS TIME… he will get angry and will go out with someone infront of you to get at you… but its not that at all… he knows you get jealous easily… at this point he has gone… to the next interest.
If you dont back off, then become his good buddy, He will want to analyse you and ask you everything about your self in a VERY direct way… dont get offended he is working out if he can trust you.
Let him do what he wants give him a long leash and he will stay by your side FOREVER! HE WILL NEVER CHEAT IF THE LEASH IS LONG ENOUGH… and you will also enjoy the adventure he takes you on.
‘ I read in a book that sums every thing up…. the moment he acts as he is not interested at all, thats when he is close to being hooked!!!!!!’ Trust me im an Aqua male and its happend to me.”
Oh, I forgot to mention…a few years ago I dated one and I liked him a lot. We got along great and had so much fun together and were very compatible, good physical chemistry, etc. All of a sudden, one day, I didn’t hear from him anymore. No explanation. Nothing. Now I will hear from him every couple years or so (he now lives in Florida), and we go out and get some drinks and catch up when he is in town. It’s like our friendship never ended. And I never bring up the “what happened?”
Aqua men are something!
My first boyfriend I ever had was an Aqua. Wow, he was super jealous! Very possesive. He would even get jealous when I paid attention to my little brother over him. Wow. My mom actually MADE me break up with him. I was 19. lol
I have had lots of Aqua men as good friends over the years. I am a scorpio with a libra moon (in my 30′s) and I mesh very well with them.
However, I have two really good aqua men friends and they are both very very jealous when I am out with them and I talk to someone else. What is up with this jealousy? I thought they were characteristically NOT jealous. I guess if they have strong feelings for you, then they are jealous, if they don’t, then they are not. That’s logical.
hey guys..
love reading all the comments… i’m a scorpio and always seem 2 attract aquarius men, i was in a relashionship with one for 5 years, it was a pretty un healthy relashionship as he was very jelous and possesive .(wich isnt the typicle traits of an aquarian) id love to know how to find out more about moon and rising signs signs and how much influence they actualy have on personailtys, because until reading all of these posts id never actualy heard of them! would be so grateful 2 anyone that could educate me hehe!! thank u x
im atracted to pisces ppl actually 0.0
well i read a lot about scorpio woman and the common theme is they like to test you. The scorpio woman i’m attracted to tests me all the time. We met way back when at a party and i noticed her looking at me. I approached her and we ended up talking for a bit and spent the night walking around the city.I always run into her at different events. WE flirt and chat about our lives together (we knew the same people in high school). Lately we have been hanging around the same crowd. Her sister plays in a band that I frequently go see. Here is my problem…She tries to make me jealous, turns hot then cold, distant then playful and every now and then gets angry at me. Her pattern is hot/warm, then goes distant and then anger and after time passes comes back to shy and warm again. All this in a few days. The pattern is the same and continues to swirl. my question is how to combat these tests? Especially when she is in the cold/distant stage. That one is the one test I don’t know how to react to. I just ignore it because last night, we were at a friends house and she was happy with eveyrone else and flirting with everyone, but when i was around she stopped and walked away to another room (this happened the day after she was flirty and warm and approached me constantly for attention-which of course I gave). So how do i react to her cold/distant tests?
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Wish you have a prosperous year ahead and Take Care.
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I am a scorpio female who is in love with an aquarian male….and I too find him extremely hard to read. He would act completely normal around everyone else, but then act weird around me (either ignoring me, or acting nervous/awkward around me)….Because of his behaviour I feel even more awkward and nervous around him. From reading up about the aquarian male, I noticed that I am not alone in that I find it impossible to read him.
This hot/cold act has been going on for a long while now but now something even weirder has happened. Towards the beginning of the year I thought I would take matters into my own hands and ask him to go for a drink after work one night….he agreed. The drinks went fine….but it felt like nothing more than 2 work colleagues having a drink. The thing was that we aren’t really on a friends level yet at all so to me the drinks was a good chance to get to know him a little bit (outside of work)….and this task seems impossible as he is so strange around me (but it’s as though this strangeness attracts me even more)…..The drink after work left me none-the-wiser as to his feelings towards me. Everything at work was exactly the same afterwards….But it was so weird as I was certain that I could feel he was attracted to me. I’m usually spot on with my gut feelings……
Recently, I couldn’t take it anymore so I sent him a message asking why the drink never happened again and was it because he is seeing someone. He said he’s not seeing anyone and that he just likes things the way they are, that’s all. So I just said that’s cool, and now I can at least stop thinking about it and closing myself off from other guys, etc. Now ever since I sent him that message he is acting so normal around me! It is so weird…all that nervousness and awkwardness is gone….he talks to me more and doesn’t ignore me anymore. He’s also acting strangely happy (or thats what it appears to look like)…..I really don’t get it. Is it just that he feels comfortable now that everything’s out in the open and he knows how I feel? I still don’t get why he would agree to come for a drink and then not do anything else…..Also I think he should feel so lucky that I’d be interested in him…. I don’t just like anyone and it took so much for me to put myself out there like that! If word ever got out that I told him I liked him and he basically told me he wasn’t interested, people would think there was something wrong with him as there are a lot of guys that would kill to be in those shoes!! What can I say…he is not just any guy. Any aquarian guys have any insight? Thanks
oops…lol my comp just screwed that one up..and your name was tipi not tibi lol
anyways…
tipi,
i was actually thinking about it a couple days ago. i do notice that i am aloof like most aquas. i tend to be put off very easily. for example, if someone says something weird or awkward while im talking to them i tend to not be so interested after wards. like an aqua, im extremely social and love to be around people but most sites describe scorps to be introverts which i can be sometimes. im friends with almost everyone. my relationships with guys are more friend like. not so mooshy gooshy lol but i tend to be really into someone for a couple days then i back off and see what happens. i guess im just testing them to see if they come to me so i know they really like me. but if a guy doesnt, i try maybe once again and then if that doesnt work i end it and ignore them. i am very flirtatious with everyone. im very sensitive but i never show it which makes me have that attitude of an aqua. the kind of know it all one lol. i know a lot of aquas and couple of them are really close to me. i get a long with both girl and boy aquas. one of my guy aquas has had the biggest crush on me since i first met him 4 years ago. but for some reason i have no attraction what so ever with him. i was thinking maybe its because i know i have no challange or have to chase him and he is like my dog i can tell what to do. i like the assholes and i really hate that. but if i dont have a spark the second i meet a guy then i never could really be into someone. for some reason all of the aqua guys i have met and liked, we always have a very flirtatious friendship but both of us will never admit to each other that we like the other person.
another sign that i seem to be really attracted to is taurus. a lot of web sites say we are bad for each other but most of the guys i have hooked up with or went out with have been tauruses and i seem to be like some magnet for them its crazy!!
tibi,
Hi all,
It was interesting to read your posts. I am A Scorpio female (Oct 25th). I am married to a Capricorn. We’ve been married for a long time. He is very nice and he loves me but I don’t have strong feelings for him. There is an Aquarius guy who is married too. We have known each other for 13 years. He used to live in our building but a few years ago bought a house and moved out. His wife’s parents still live in our building and he brings his little son to them while he and his wife are at work. 13 years ago he started to talk to me about starting a casual relationship with him. He gave me his phone number but I never called him. Then, he started to pursue me and it felt like he was really into me. I still blocked any of his attempts even I kind of liked him. He is not the best looking guy out there but there is something in him that intrigues me. Recently, he started to appear more often near the building and I started to go outside with my daughter about the time when he can be there. Still no conversation. We don’t even say “Hi” to each other. Just stares. I am a very changeable person. So, sometimes I like him, sometimes not. Maybe that’s why he is intrigued by me. Even there is no talking there, i feel him and I feel that he feels me. It’s on some kind of psychic level. So, we understand each other even we are not talking. I am trying to suppress my emotions as I I’m not a cheater, but he intrigues me a lot. So, what should I do? I am asking for your opinions, not the judgment. Thank you in advance.
To be honest yest there is an intresting and rather intence attention i am aquarius and my hubee is a scorpio .. yeah chemistry is there people ..!
ok i was very confused about Aqua men but this website really helped to understanding a little bit of what gone with me, I am a Scorpio Sun and Moon and my friend is an Aquarius (Sun) and Cancer ( Moon) We are becoming really good friends, b/c he always saying We r friends…..we started by I met him where i work (restaurant) then we became friends Facebook, then it was e-mail then went to texting and now it’s phonecalls, he recently bought a business in my neighborhood and we both didn’t even know this was going on. Now i see him like 4 days a week, he calls me to come down and see him, he’ll say to just say hi, then he will call me the next day and tell me “he misses me” I could be talking and in the middle of it he will tell me he misses me…..he wants to hang with him and i do nothing has happened yet but i am attracted to him, i think he attracted to me, that is what it seems to me and all of my friends but I AM CONFUSED! I am not ready to rush into anything right away i love being friends with him but wish i knew…..i recently went on vacation and he called while i was there and then when i came he asked he could come over, (that was the first time he was in my house) he checked out and sat and we great conversation…..now he has been asking alot about my family and my jobs…..I hope someone can give me advice on this….thanks
Heya all,
I am 34 years young male AQUA..
OK first i have read most of this thread and although i could agree with most of what people say about Aquarius i can also speak for myself and say…
in my case i have all the common traits of my sign except for a few key points
first i don’t care much for the space maybe at times but not much i am very outright with my feelings to someone I am interested in but shy at first- this makes it very painful trying to date i am to up front and honest but to shy also and i believe in loyalty till the death
second i don’t like games at all you play a game with me i will drop you like a forgotten thought.
so what i have learned is that in most cases women whether they be Scorpio or some other birth sign seem to be more superficial then previously thought (in my experience that is) i am a very attractive looking guy but my good nature seems to not be attractive, in my experience women tend to lean toward the arrogant a** guy. i am confident but not arrogant and i think allot of women don’t know what the difference is : here is the meaning for arrogant..lol
Having or displaying a sense of overbearing self-worth or self-importance.
Marked by or arising from a feeling or assumption of one’s superiority toward others: an arrogant contempt for the weak.
OK here is the meaning for confident
full of conviction : certain
2 : having or showing assurance and self-reliance
the thing is i can do pretty much do anything i put my mind to but, don’t care to advertise on a daily basis and mixed with my shyness this is a bad mixture for meeting women so my question is “so if Scorpios find Aquarius so interesting and vice versa what happened to like the three i dated in a row”..lol anyways i am interested in this topic i find it interesting..lol of course… and it fascinates me….of course as i am Aquarius..lol the funny thing is i am not your typical Aquarius so any advice would be appreciated from different perspectives about Scorpio and Aquarius, I find Scorpio attractive. also not bashing here just stating my experiences from my own past so please no one take it to the dark side here..lol thanks!
I’m a Scorpio female with a Leo moon who has been seeing an Aquarius male with a Taurus moon for about six months now. I’m not too sure if both of us having double fixed sign is a bad or good thing? I’m not going to lie I like him A LOT!! When we first met it was instant attraction and so amazing! I think about him 24/7 and am constantly dreaming about him. When we are together things are great and he shows quite a bit of affection towards me….even out in public. He never would really come right out and say how he feels about me though. He confuses me to no end.
I’m really hurting right now because I think what we have is turning/has already turned into a strictly sexual relationship. Don’t get me wrong, I love sex with him and it’s amazing!!! But the problem is I am starting to really fall for him. I like him on much more of a deeper level. I see so much potential in him. He is the most interesting guy I have ever met. Over the last few months I have seen just how caring and good hearted he really is. He is always apologizing to me in case he has hurt my feelings etc. Some days I feel as though he likes me on a deeper level than just sex and then other days I’m not so sure. The problem is he is in love with his work and I obviously can’t compete with that. He’s a workaholic! He has also told me that he isn’t ready for a relationship. He wants his life to be more settled before he gets into a relationship. He has not been in one for the last five years. I think he could have a bit of a commitment phobia? He is always telling me he is too busy with work and such to have a girlfriend, but that he likes me and wants to continue seeing me, getting to know me, having fun etc. I’m okay with this because I enjoy his company, but I wonder if he could ever see me as a relationship potential since we have been sleeping with each other with nothing established? He told me I am the closest thing he has to a girlfriend and that he wishes he had more time to spend with me. I’m afraid now, because while we have no established commitment, we did agree to be sexually exclusive. We both agreed that if we so chose to persue someone else we would let the other know and we would end things between us. The thing is I don’t want US (whatever us is) to end! I have already gotten way too attached. I hate to admit this but I am getting ultra jealous now because he has recently moved and now has a girl for a roommate. He swears that she is just a friend and I have nothing to worry about. He even told me I could talk to her if I wanted. I’m afraid though because he has become very vague with me over the last couple of weeks….not telling me exactly where he has moved etc. If he just doesn’t want me to know that’s fine, or if this girl is more of a girlfriend or someone he sees as a potential I just wish he would let me know that. I mean we at least agreed upon that much. I have always thought that Aquarians were very loyal and would not cheat or sleep around etc. But I honestly don’t know what to believe about him. I mean could he be lying to me? Why would he lie? I understand he does not owe me anything, but I feel he does at least owe me honesty and respect. If he no longer wants to see me anymore, or if he wants to persue things with this other roommate girl why not just tell me that so I can begin to move on and begin the long process of healing?
I have never once over the six months of us seeing each other had a reason to think he was lying to me. He was the one who came to me and told me he was moving and said it was in with a girl. I feel like he could have hidden that information if he really wanted to. I’m glad that he had enough respect for me to at least tell me that. But now he is just being very vague with me which makes me question if he could be lying now? Maybe he is starting to fall for her or someone else i don’t know? Regardless, I have not contacted him. It’s been a week since we last saw each other and talked….this is not uncommon. The longest we went was two weeks with no communication when he finally sent me a text asking if I was upset with him? Since he hadn’t heard from me in awhile. I just try to give him his space. This is what I’m doing now….giving him his space. I can’t stop him from seeing other people. I just hope that he would have enough respect to tell me so. You know just keep his end of the agreement? A part of me says this is just my Scorpio insecurity and paranoia taking over…..I hope that’s all it is. So I’m sitting back, giving him his space to sort out whatever is going on in his life. Maybe he will be able to sort out his feelings and hopefully be able to come to me and tell me honestly what’s going on if need be. I fell for this guy much too quickly and I realize that is my fault alone. I need to learn to guard my heart more. He is gonna be hell to get over, but I have to prepare myself if it comes to that. I don’t understand how he could go six months and not feeling anything for me. But I guess it’s possible. At one point he really started to open up to me. He would talk about his family, work, friends and his childhood. I thought we were really starting to become REAL friends, but who knows? Maybe I misread everything. Maybe he just wanted to have six months of fun and that’s all he saw it as? For now I’m just sitting back wondering what’s going on, with all these crazy thoughts of everything possible and imaginable running through my head. I believe in my heart that he would not lie to me, but my paranoid mind tells me otherwise.
Wow this is long and I’m so sorry. It felt good to get it all out though. I miss him and I hope soon he will be able to figure out one way or the other what he wants. I’m about ready to give up.
Hi, I am a scorpio woman, not quite in love with any aquarian man yet but curious about one. This article of yours is very entertaining.
Yes I have been involved with a few virgos – what deemed to be one of my best suited star signs, and have pisces friends. However as I grow older and wiser these suited people seem to suit me less and less. Perhaps it’s fair to say on an instinct level the conventional compatibilities prevail. However as time proceeds and each person develops out of their innate mould, their temperament or desired/complementary partner could gear into any direction (other than the norm). I don’t think the emotional or earthy practical signs are my type at all now, perhaps Capricorn or aquarius or aries may provide better harmony
Okay, I’m a scorpio chick (yay me!) and I’ve been dating an aqua guy for about a month. When we first met, we both had a significant other, but both relationships fell apart. Somehow a harmless night of going to the movies turned in to one of the most amazing night’s of my life. I’ve never dated an aqua guy until now, and the strange thing is, I’ve never felt this kind of connection with anyone. The funny thing I find about our relationship is that in this zodiac we’re supposed to be a horrible match, but in the chinese zodiac, he’s the best match for me (me: dragon him: rat) lol. what does this mean for the relationship? I’m so confused, and yet i’ve never been more happy with someone.
Hi everyone!
Moo,
I just ended a relationship with a scorp guy with an aqua moon. When I first started dating him I thought it would go very well because I am a scorp with a libra moon and figured the trine moons would be great, plus we both have venus in sag and earth ascending (mine virgo, his cap).
But he seems so capable of just turning off emotions like a light switch, which I think would be his aqua moon. And I have dated other scorps and know that when they fall for someone they have a difficult time letting go, so I wondered as a scorp how he could let go so easily, but I guess it really is his aqua moon.
Do you find it easy with an aqua moon to detach from a relationship? Is it difficult as a scorp to have an aqua moon, making for confused feelings in love?
I just wondered because aqua is square to scorpio.
Anyway, since this is a women-love-aqua-men site, I figured I would throw out some aqua love. I love aqua men! I can’t relate to a relationship gone wrong with an aqua man, only an aqua moon man.
Two of my closest guy friends are aquas and one tells me openly all the time that he is crazy about me and in love with me, which I find shocking because I didn’t think aquas were so free to express like that.
I told him awhile back that all I could ever give back to him is friendship and that is it. I am not into him in any other way, but he still tells me that all the time. And what kind of makes me mad is that he is married! I would never be with a married guy. I like them single. haha
But he is one expressive aqua. And kind of a control freak too, I just had to email him the other day and tell him I was kinda feeling smothered by him because he keeps getting mad when I talk to other people. Girls or guys, it’s weird!
Lili..
Hope everything is fine. and you are in better mood.
Take care, dear.
d- thank you for the advice/suggestion. i think i will bring by some flowers and a note to his grandmothers house. i will be so nervous i think my knees will buckle beneath me, but i’ll do my best. Lili Ann
Dear Lili…
I can understand u taking ur time. And I can really see your concern for him…
I knw when I am hurt i need some lone time to analyse or just heal.. though i would be asking to be left alone i would really like a shoulder to lean on. Not saying anything or talking much but just there so that I dont feel totally alone.
I think u should offer flowers and note to him. I am sure he will like it.
You have my Best wishes with you..
- D
D-
I am just aching with lonesome heart aching pain right now. I just found out that the Love of my life’s father was either murdered or commited suicide. I know I haven’t shared our full history quite yet, but this is where I am at now. The hardest part is I am not able to see him. I don’t have his number, I don’t know where he lives, all I know is where his Grandmother and Family live. I just don’t want to intrude. I tried to Facebook him, but he is not getting on the computer right now, which is understandable… I just want to look into his and hug him. Let him know I Love Him, without words. Just be close, you know what I mean??? Would it be too much to drop some flowers off on his families porch and leave a little note?
Lili Ann
Oh D
I am just aching with lonesome heart aching pain right now. I just found out that the Love of my life’s father was either murdered or commited suicide. I know I haven’t shared our full history quite yet, but this is where I am at now. The hardest part is I am not able to see him. I don’t have his number, I don’t know where he lives, all I know is where his Grandmother and Family live. I just don’t want to intrude. I tried to Facebook him, but he is not getting on the computer right now, which is understandable… I just want to look into his eyes and hug him. Let him know I Love Him, without words. Just be close, you know what I mean????
Lili Ann
I am a female Scorpio who has been meeting with an Aquarius man and he is unpredictable. He says he wants to spend more time with me but he doesn’t stay in contact via phone or text for days and weeks. He says he will call but instead he goes missing for weeks without contact.
My aquarian man has betrayed me by being deceptive and dishonest after many empty promises of never behaving like that again. I think it is a control issue.
Me being a true blue, die hard scorpio, that would never betray anyone’s trust or jeopardize a relationship, find it hard to believe that it is not just a con and will continue to happen, no matter what lip service I get.
Maybe, after what I have read, I have a misconception of what an aqua man truly is. I am just looking for a real answer to help me understand.
Hey just wanted to know if there are any Aquarius women out there in relationship with a Scorpio male? I’m in love with a Scorpio man I met online and he says he is crazy about me too. We have talked about so much and definitely discussed sex, sex, sex, and more sex!! Did I mention sex? LOL. Wow, I love this man. He is like a magnet that has that power to pull me to him. He communicates with me daily be it phone or messages online. We have, well he is making plans for 9/2009 to fly to my hometown. We are in different states. He said we have a connection and that I am special to him. When he tells me these things about being connected to me and all I want to believe him but this is the kicker…..I go under my girlfriend’s profile online and I see he is still on the single sites late at night. Is this guy lying to me? I so want to believe he really is as fond of me as I am he. But being online after we are through communicating online makes me think he is a lier and cheater but I don’t want to believe that. Everything he has told me about his place of employment, his children, and all have checked out. But why and who might he be communicating or looking to get to know on the single sites. Can someone tell me their thoughts about this. I’m still going to meet him and have sex with him because it is what I desire. But I just want truth and I don’t want to question him and push him away. Please help.
I got you D, just let me cozy and in the Zone. This is a on going 10 yr, situation, and I don’t want to bore you. Thanks for your interest- Lili Ann
Lili…
I am waiting..
OMG! LOL! i’m so glad i found this site!!! finally scorpio women speaking my language! im a scorpio female. been having a ‘thing’ on and off with mr aqua for 7 years! its so exhausting but the chemistry…… i feel like we’re incompatible but i love him. now he comes out of nowhere saying im the woman he’s going to marry so he wants to make it work…. what? its just pure confusion on and off but i feel like he’s my soulmate but i feel like he’s the worst choice ever. he is so…. ODD. that’s putting it mildly. i’m emotional he’s logical. i compromise a lot because my bitch fits get us nowhere, but i just don’t feel enough emotion from his side. I NEED HELP READING AQUARIUS MEN. am i wasting my time????
I am a scorpio girol with moon in leo and ascedent in libra. I have always liked air signs, with one exeption, and I’ve been really in love for an aquarius man (with moon in svorpio I think) for a really long time.
I also really like libra people, both males and females, and sometimes gemini too. Air signs are often so great to be friends with 
The Beginning of My 1st and only True Love-
I was about 15 yrs old and I had just started highschool, walking through those big unfamiliar halls and new faces, I saw Gods most handsome man. I got tunnel vision. (now that I think of it, I think I was always sort of obsessed with him) I had never been so nervous in my life. So unsure of myself. Days in and days passed, I eventually found the way to get close enough for conversation and his phone number. But for some reason, I never had enough of him. I always wanted more. I wanted to see him, I wanted to be close to him , I always wanted to talk to him.
Well he ended up dating a highschool cheerleader, I guess she was prettier and older, and more popular than me.
Well half way through the school year, he transferred schools.
The next year I trandferred to the same school.
When he saw me, he wrapped his arm around me, and told me he wanted me to make friends, and open up.
I was near him again, and I was in heaven.
I don’t want to overload you all at once so I’ll go nice and slow…. I’ll continue later..
Moo
Answer to both of your questions is yes. I do stare object of my affection a lot.. a lot. Its like observing her and taking note of her behaviour or i dont know what. But i tend to stare especially if i think she is not looking. As i am somewhat shy.. on the other hand while she is talking to me i may look the other way shortly after eye contact as keeping it for long makes me uncomfertable.. So i look in eyes then again somewhere else then again look in eyes.. And yes I tease her too. At times often with sarcastic comments..and she has asked me to be careful as she said she is very perceptive to such comments. So I am being careful now.
Moo
The eye contact i’m not too sure about but i’d do it a good bit i’d say. I dunno if it’s crazy eye contact though. But deffinatly if i like a girl i do tend to tease them a good bit. This probably turns off some girls tho haha . So it’s probably not the best idea by us Aqua guys, but u scorpio girls do like a challenge
,so it does work out
Scorpio women like to be adored and cherished, because that is how they treat their men.
D,
to be honest…waiting for her isnt going to do anything for you if you want to go further with her. you didnt say anthing then…so she left. but now your doing the exact same thing. unless you aquas show us a little emotion and talk about things instead of wiating for us to do something about it then nothing will happen. showing no emotion to scorps tells us that you dont care at all. we get bored pretty easily with all the flirting and hint giving that if you dont man up then forget about it. all you need to do is make the first move and say how you feel. then basically after that you can just sit back and relax because we will do the rest haha.
mike,
idk i guess it all comes down to the situation that your in but every aqua guy i know has had a girl friend for a long period of time then freak out because they either like the girl way to much or get scared because they dont want to be tied down so they cheat. but i think that just might be with everyone lol. i personally dont get cheating whats the point? just break up with the girl/guy.
i have question for you guys. when an aqua guy likes a girl, will they make crazy eye contact while they talk to the girl and also do you guys tend to make fun of us a little more when you have a crush…like “bust our balls” ? lol
Ya…Peace Out Lili..
Matters of heart are difficult.
Thanks for your kind words. I am busy too these days with studies. Need to find some way to stay up whole night…
Take care.
Moo
. I’m not sure about the cheating thing. I’m a very loyal guy and i’d actually frown at cheating, so that might just depend on the guy .
i agree us aqua guys do like to talk to everone we can when were out and about but dont look at that as like he’s ignoring you, it’s just the way he is. I’m not sure about the superior complex but i could see where you are coming from, we do have our moments. Emotion wise you’ll get nothing out of us, were very bad at expressing and feelings towards people we like, thus why girls are driven crazy by trying to read us
And excuse the typos, NO POWER today
Hey D thanx for your reply, I’m just now seeing the response. No I have not told you all about him, and I dad tired today. Hydraulics underwater has me beat, but definately this weekend I’l get started. He’s an Aquarius too. That’s where my obsession with you guys started.
And P.S., I believe you can have whatever you want, you just have to know how to get it… Of course things could work out for you two in the future.
Peace Out Lili Ann
I probably wouldn’t because D. Scorpios are very loyal to the T . If she is like me, I’d try to improve my current connection with some one I’m in relationship with, even I still like my ex, he will be in a friend zone.It’s like, once I’m done, I’m done.Harsh but sometimes, it will reduce headchade
Moo
I think my girl will be saying or thinking somthing similar to what u have to say.. Perhaps she waited for me to say things which I didnt and then i guess she just ran out of patience.
Now she is with someone else. I am willing to wait for her though I am angry with her. I really think she cannot let go the connection we have. According to you what are the chances of her coming back or giving both of us a second chance? If you were her would you have done that?
mike,
well we can’t tell because you guys flirt with everyone. aquas also have this way to them which make them seem like they are better than everyone. the way you guys think and feel and go about things in a relationship just confuses the hell out of me. one minute you are really into us and the next day you don’t even say a word. which makes a girl like me not even want to give him the time of day because i feel like he doesn’t want to further anything/cares at all. and it seems like a lot of male aquas cheat. you guys are so confusing
Lili..
Which guy u are talking about..? Did u tell us about him.
If not give us some background information..
Oh God you guys, I feel insane… For some reason I cannot get this guy out of my heart or mind! It’s been 10 plus years. LAst night I was dreaming that it was my wedding, and as I was walking down the isle with some guy (unknown) and we were sharing our vows and the priest was giving his final words, but my heart knew that the man I was standing next to wasn’t the guy I loved. So I turned around to look in the audience and there “He” was. I knew when I saw him, he was the one I truly loved, so I didn’t get married. Am I going to be crazy for the rest of my life?
I’ve tried everything, EVERYTHING, to move on…. HELP, somebody please.
moo
Aquarius guys aren’t very good at making first moves either cause they are afraid of being rejected too. But if he is very friendly with you, there’s a decent chance he likes you so just flirt with him and see how he reacts. It’s the only way to know for sure.
just fyi to all the aquarians on this thingy…im a scorp girl and i would just like to say that we think before we do anything and everything. we think about how we walk, talk, what you think about us, what position we should stand in, how to not look so nervous…. EVERYTHING! I really like this aqua guy and have been for a couple of years and i have never told him i like him…why? because i was scared he would turn me down. i think us scorps are just so intimidated by aquas that a little hint like staring at us wont do shit to get us talking. if you want a scorp girl…YOU have to tell them exactly how you feel about us and tell us everything you think about us. we are all just waiting for you to say something so do it! tell them what you say on this thread…we cant read minds! i also have a little aqua in me. my moon sign is aquarius. so i can kinda understand where they come from aswell. anyways hope this info i usefull to you aquas out there!!!!
Hmm… Well I would agree. (though ur not asking me) But some stories are still remaining. And then if you can share so much then why not your SIGN……NO ONE WILL JUDGE YOU, Lili..
Hey Jenny Girl, where are you? How are you doing? I can’t help but remember the last few words we exchanged. You thought I was asking everyone else their business, but not sharing mine. Jenny that’s just not true. I’ve shared so much about my past relationships, and my current hobbies and interests. The only thing I’ve kept quiet is my astrological sign. Besides that I’m an open book. Wouldn’t you agree?
D,
After writing my reply to you, had a row with the missus. First proper one . And i can see the same kinda aspects in her attitude. It’s like they dont think before they do stuff, it’s just pure instict and no logic to their actions. Why do scorpio girls not think before they do actions that can affect otehr people they care for ? Responces, from the girls wud be helpful here
Mike
Mike
Maybe i will forgive her. But what i saw in her behaviour at that moment was pure selfishness. She is charming and she knows it. Maybe thats what makes her think that she can pick up and throw people as and when she wants. And that has seriously me struck me. Trust me we were getting close and all this time I had NO clue in her behaviour that she was going to do somthing like this.
I SERIOUSLY want her to regret it. If she does I will forgive if she dosnt I WONT.
Thanks for replying.
Hi,
Yeah I’m enjoyng the post about the Aqua/Scorp match-up but nobody seems to be adressing the Aqua girl Scorp Male thing.
Okay, A really good freind of mine is a Scorpio and we’vee been friends now for about 2 years. We are very close and ALL of the traits we both display in each other, but I like it though….the chemistry is INCERDIBLE and I am in love with my friend. So now I guess I just gatta see what happens, cause I sure as hell know I’m not making the first move, lol!
Any thoughts?
Hello everyone,
You now have another Male Aquarian to probe questions at. i just hada read of, not all of the last years posts but most of them and it seems to be a great topic. Fell onto this site checking how compatible my gf and myself are and it’s good to know the firey spark is there for a reason
D…..
You will eventually forgive that girl. i know us aquarian males love to hold a grudge, especially to people who do wrong by us but eventually u’ll see it’s not worth holding that grudge and you’ll move passed it.
if anyone has questions just fire em at me and i’ll be happy to help out if i can…..how aquarian i know
Mike
You know what good job Jenny! And your absolutely right, I honestly just hate being judged. I suppose no matter what, you can never run from the opinions of other people though, right?
What’s been going on with you lately. I haven’t heard much from you. How is this deadly hot summer treating you? I myself can’t stand this much heat. 4 yrs in Alaska and now all of a sudden this deadly hot sun. I’m trying to hide in every shaded corner I can possibly find! I even have these special glasses call SOlar Sheilds. Oh God they’re hilarious, but very necessary for my delicate skin. Even my car is a dread to get into, the leather burns my buns. Hahahaha. But it’s nice to be home around my friends and family. Today I watched The F1-18 Navy Fighter Planes. Oh do they turn me on!!!!! They fly right over my house doing their tricks in the air. AHHHHHHHHHHHHH
God Bless America xoxoxoxo
wow Lili Ann, it’s a bit unfair.You kept asking others for detail about themselves but you won’t even say things about you.Why would people here judge you for your sun sign? This page is so much about scorpio and aqurius any way so I don’t think it matters.In any case, I still think you’re a Water sign .Just kidding
Lili,
I fall in the first bracket for age. As far as looks I consider my self average looking but neat and clean. And as far as ur sign.. OK OK i wont ask you…!! And it doesnt matter.
Fine.
Dear Regina, I just flipped through the past posts and read your story. Whoa! That is so interesting and I am intrigued to know more. I enjoy giving honest helpful advice to people, but I am torn with you. I just wouldn’t be able to give any honest advice right now, but if you’re still visiting this sight, then I would love to devlope more communication with you and develope more insight (via here, for now of course), but I want to get to know you a little better. And your situation.
Hope you’re not gone yet…
Sincerely Lili Ann
Oh D, I’m really curious as to why an astrological sign would matter. You know in some countries people don’t even know their birthdays. Would you think of me any diffrent if I told you? And now I see you working by process of eilmination. You’re funny.
I wonder D, what age brackett are you in 18-25, 26-32, or 33 up. And what do you look like? If you don’t mind sharing I would love details. You see this is the only place I have ever chit chatted and not knew who I was talking too. It’s cool in some ways, but on the other spectrum, I’m always imagining. I already know you’re smart, are you handsome too?
To sexyscorpi
Well i saw ur comment sometime back but u see my condition, I was away from thread for sometime.
Whatever u do to make him step forward just dont resort to jealousy game. It plain doesn’t work. Its a serious advice.
I suggest observe his behaviour if he is showing interest in you (staring you when ur not looking, remembering things about you etc.) then maybe make your stand about him more clear by giving him more attention. Give compliments. Maybe he wont show anything on face but he will take a note.
I wont like to generalise but I am shy and I take time. So if he is not being very quick it could be because of shyness and not lack of interest. You can find it out after knowing his general behaviour.
And of course discuss things with him.. we like discussions. Look sexy (I am sure you already do)
Fine then keep updated.
Waw…good. Interesting..!
I like ur adventurous nature…Are u Leo or Aries..?
Comon now..
You have my best wishes with u for studies and for whichever reason you may need them. I will be busy in summer as well.
Take care.
Neither Sweetie.
Anyway how’s school going? Are you in for the summer. My diving is going great. Underwater welding, Non Destuctive Testing, and soon Salvage… I’m also ranking second highest in my class and if I could understand Magnetic Particle and Ultra Sonic Testing and get a good grade on the final, I just might make it to 1st place.
All right Lili and tell me now.. Are you Sagittarius or Gemini..? My two guesses..
Lili,
You could be very right Lili.. And yes it was quiet flirtacious understanding between us. We had a thing for each other and slowly it started developing with friendship and continued to grow.. We still are really good friends understanding each others much better than rest. I mean we had some really good and deep conversation just a day before she announced this thing…
She knows i take my time to do things. She does have feeling of guilt at times. I dont get why should she now mention that guy in front of me. Sort of giving me update of where they are. Throughout all this time she couldn’t get any reaction out of me. I still care for her as a friend and help her. and she will too, I know that. I can understand that she can like someone else better than me and just decided to go ahead with it. But then why would she cut me off slowly or give me some idea of whats going on. Instead of that it was like pulling us closer and then all of a sudden turning her face on me.
This behaviour has insulted me… And I have enough ego not to offer her same place in my heart till there is an apology and a good explanation of why she did this.
But to be honest I am finding it hard to even imagine her standing next to that guy.. I mean its annoying..insulting..and hurting.. To be honest I want her to Regret.
Thanks Lili.
Well D, First and Foremost, My Guy wasn’t My guy. I only had a crush on him and I thought he might be interested in me too. That’s all, we hadn’t even dated. Just hung out in a group as friends.
Now I suppose my confusion with your situation comes from, ( were you and her an actual Boyfriend/ Girlfriend, steady couple?) You know, holding hands, kissing, everybody else knew that there was something between you two.
Or was it more of a quiet flirtacious understanding between Only you two?
Because if I know one thing about woman in general it is that we like to be liked. And we know when someone has got it bad for us. By this I mean we know when a guy likes us a lot. And we have a way of sort of feeding on the attention. It’s not that we want to hurt the guy by just playing with his emotions, it’s just we know that they like us and sometimes we play into that too far, because we know we can get away with it.
So if she wasn’t your girlfriend, then 1 of 2 things. She knew you liked her and she had a good thing with you and she wasn’t about to ruin it by sharing details of her other personal close relationship.
Because A- she was weighing her options between you and him.
Or B- she was just going with the flow and then things started to get serious between her and the other guy, and she knew what you two were doing was inappropriate and that if HE knew he wouldn’t like it. So she started to feel guilty and ALL Of A Sudden she cut the games short.
Have you ever noticed women seem too go for the BAD GUY, instead of the SWEET one who would give them the world?
And Yes KArma will catch up…
Lotus.
No I am not interested in her now.. I mean it. Playing mind games with her is a waste of time. I have reduced my contact with her. And will reduce it to minimum as time passes. And I CAN ignore her. I WILL do that.
I am not going to forget this hurt. I will not waste my time trying to hurt or anything. But it will act as an reminder of what she can be…
Thanks lotus.
Listen to Lili Ann too . I think she has a point there. In any case, his needs and her needs at the moment are different, so perhaps moving on is D.’s best option?
It’s up to him because I know Scorpio girls can be really confusing , even to them selves.They praise their self-control so much to the extent of hurting them selves , just to preserve that control.Again, that makes them an enigma to others, especially Aqua who like to probe and peel others’ layers. Truth is D. , you will be enchanted by her over and over again if you stay near her because her mystery and her soft yet strong, sensitive yet tough, and her understanding of your quirks, giving constant support and assurance to your idealism…Sigh….And her sexuality, your chemistry with her…
Well, do you accept this challenge?
Dear Lili,
Good to hear from you.
I changed name I dont know why, just felt like changing it.
Upset head makes you do strange things.
As far as your point of her seeing me just as friend and nothing more…I wouldnt agree with it. there was certain guilt in her when around me. As she knew what she has done. That had happend so out of blue i didnt knw how to go about my rest of the day. I coudnt sleep properly for few days.
But at that moment I really saw with my own two eyes how few peple can be plain selfish.
As far as ur guy he seems to be even ahead of this girl. (woudnt call her my girl anymore) what to say…? I believe peple pay for good and bad things they do on this earth.
Anyway… Good to hear from you.
Wow Rutu, you fell off the planet for a while and i knew you were really absorbed into your crush. and now all of a sudden here you are. wow how time flies by. I’m sorry your feelings are hurt and that the feelings don’t appear to be mutual between you two. I know what it’s like to have a crush on someone and for a while the flirting seems to be mutual and then out of NO where you find out they are dating, relating, and mating.
I just found out the guy I had a crush on has a girl 7 weeks pregnant! Talk about surprises. Lol. I just brushed it off my shoulder and kept on being buddies with him as normal.
And as time goes on I am seeing our friendship in a different light. Thing that I took from him before as flirtacious comments now seem to me just his way of interacting with me.
I have asked a couple diffrent girls about their opinion of him, and they all responded an ASSHole. Hmm? Strange because I think he is a playful sweetheart. A girl today made a comment that He and I have some sort of Connection. When he responds to her, he is rude, obnoxious, and spiteful, but with me he is soft and playful. I suppose it’s just a way that we understand eachother.
So what I am getting at is mabey Rutu you were blinded by your feelings. Mabey you mis understood her full intention behind all of her flirtacious comments and smiles, and actions. Mabey you two got along so well because she DID see yo as a friend, and she trusted you and felt comfortable around you.
There may have or (MY NOT) have been a point when she opened her eyes and mind to the words that were coming out of your mouth and had a REAL realization as to Your intentions and decided that she had better pull herself from the intensity between you.
I feel like I’m babbling on now, so i’ll let you ponder that. and by the way the reason your post were taking so long iss because you changed your name. I did that once and the same thing happened. I have to go by Lili Ann Not Lili for immeiate postage. Meaning Rutu Not D. Why did you change your name anyway?
Hi Scorpgal and Lotus,
I know what she has done but to be honest with u, I cant see her as a bad person. She would have had her own reasons..(she being young for somthing serious) The thing that really annoyed me was the way she announced this thing. That shook me. If she had any regard for my feelings she WOULD NOT have behaved like this.
At that moment I was watching her being so excited and genuinely happy discussing that topic (that other guy) with our equally excited friends and I sitting there feeling my heart being roasted in front of me. Nobody ever did somthing like that to me before. It showed PURE selfishness… And I WONT forget that.
Sometimes I blame it on things being not clear between us. But it was in process and she knw it. We were and still are friends. She at times mentions that fellow to me when we are talking… Perhaps to tell me as a friend or to see my reaction..or both. i dont know.
I dont understand wht goes in her head. If possible I would later in time ask her openly about her behaviour.
Thanks.
Yeah, Rutu, Lotus is right. Dont walk, Run.
It suxs – but yes some scorpios can be so mean and vindictive.
There are other ones that are just so giving and full of love.
It amazes me that there is such an extreme.
YOU will find someone GREAT! I would iqnor her butt. she sounds like a B####.
But you have been awesome on this site and have helped so many people. You deserve an awesome woman that will appreciate you. It will come. Just keep on doing what you are doing and hold out for the right one! It took me 39 years to find my guy! And it was worth every moment!
Thanks again Lotus,
Point noted.
I have better things to do than play games with her and she is not worth my attention now.
The thing is that she is indeed very helpful, she has helped me and other friends of hers many times. But yes i think she isn’t ready for a serious relationship and she knows I am not a type to take things lightly. Whereas I can see her that she likes to have fun..maybe its about age. She is in early twenties.
I am not wanting to hold grudge against her but definatly she not close to my heart now. Though we are still friends and I havn’t for once mentioned to her that she has hurted me. (Whining is not for me.)
Time will tell how things work out.
Thank you lotus.
You see, there is a bad apple in every bunch. Your Scorpio girl , I guess is the one who likes to control every one around her, instead of practising self-control. Her curious nature will take her far (just like Aqua) because she wants so much power over others.True, she likes to know what makes others tick but she doesn’t do that for pure experimental reason like Aqua (I know some Aqua like to test others’ reaction ) , she’ll learn about others and hold these info to use to help them or against them in the future. A bad one will use her power of seduction and persuasion to create a little army following her orders, who she “adoringly” call “my close friends”.That’s where lies the difference between the good one and the bad one. The good and wise ones will use their power of knowledge to serve human kind and never expect any thing in return. Contrary to popular belief, Scorpios can be really forgiving and compassionate like no other.This is one sign can go extreme !
I suspect she likes you but she doesn’t want a serious relationship because she enjoys attention of other men besides you.Yes, power can be more important than love for this type of woman.Did you see how the female Scorpio can chew the male one? She will play you perfectly and you’ll never once suspect that she’s playing.Her ploys are perfect that she can even deceive her self. Would you like to join her in this game ? Perhaps , you can win but it’s a prize I wouldn’t recommend.
Just move on and find your self a nice Scorpio who loves you with all her heart and make you feel like her King
Thanks Lotus,
I will move on. I already have.
I wont even give her my time of the day.
But I need to know why exactly she did this as things were good between us.
Thanks for replying.
well, you should move on.When a Scorpio girl does not pour all her passion into you and only you, make excuses to date another man too then you’re screwed.Also , it’s a bad news for you because this is a REALLY BAD type of Scorpio!
Hi Scorpgal,
These comments are taking forever to moderate.
Well she seems to be interested in someone else now. And it seems like she is really interested and not doing it for some other purpose like making me jealous or anything. But with this girl i can never guess.. Like i was not able to guess that she can behave like this.
Just how easily she hurt me.. She really made me wonder how selfish she is. She doesnt seem to care about anybody else’s feeling except hers.. She is curious by nature and likes to probe into people’s nature and just follows where ever that may take her.. I dont know but i thought we were serious.
But she does know that she has hurted me and it shows in her behaviour with some subtle comments.. I dont understand her. And i am at my wits end.
Scorpgal,
Well she said it about someone else to me… she thinks she can have and not have someone as and when she wants becasue she can. Its like she is being good to both of us.
But she cant get anywhere like this with me. Doesnt matter how much i like her, i do have enough ego to reject her ignoring all my attachment to her. I cant tell u how i felt when she fist mentioned him to us… She simply cannot behave like this and expect to be on my good side.
we are currently having break from study. She just broke my heart so easily like she left me wondering if there was anything in the fist place to break between us. I just cant forget it. And she knows exactly what she did. she is so self aware. I dont understand her behaviour.
She still shows interst in me..in covert ways..
I would have talked about my feelings too had this not happned.
I was seriously upset but she dosnt know. We are still really good friends. I dont know where is it going to go from here.. (my last comment is taking ages for moderation)
But i was seriously amazed at just how easily she could hurt me.. Can u give me some insight as to what she is thinking or her behaviour as I am at my wits end.
Scorpgal,
Well she said it about someone else to me… she thinks she can have and not have someone as and when she wants becasue she can. Its like she is being good to both of us.
But she cant get anywhere like this with me. Doesnt matter how much i like her, i do have enough ego to reject her ignoring all my attachment to her. I cant tell u how i felt when she fist mentioned him to us… She simply cannot behave like this and expect to be on my good side.
we are currently having break from study. She just broke my heart so easily like she left me wondering if there was anything in the fist place to break between us. I just cant forget it. And she knows exactly what she did. she is so self aware. I dont understand her behaviour.
Scorpgal,
Well she said it about someone else to me… she thinks she can have and not have someone as and when she wants becasue she can. Its like she is being good to both of us.
But she cant get anywhere like this with me. Doesnt matter how much i like her, i do have enough ego to reject her ignoring all my attachment to her. I cant tell u how i felt when she fist mentioned him to us… She simply cannot behave like this and expect to be on my good side.
we are currently having break from study. She just broke my heart so easily like she left me wondering if there was anything in the fist place to break between us. I just cant forget it. And she knows exactly what she did. she is so self aware. I dont understand her behaviour.
Rutu,
Hum, I wonder if she maybe means sexually only..
How did that come up? What was her mannerism when she said that? I would look to her body language for a lot of good info.
Is that why you are angry with her?
It is possible that she is playing games with you.
Sometimes we can be so difficult to read. I know sometimes I act nervous when I am attracted to someone. But other times I can be extremly confident. Depends on what kind of mood I am in.
Are you still at school with her or on break now?
Hi scorpgal,
I am angry with her.. but she dosnt know this.
I think she likes to play games.
Can u tell me what woud she mean when she says, “I am attracted but I dont know in good or bad way?”
What is meant by being attracted in bad way?
FORGET marriage… for now. I want to fuck all night!! SERIOUS how do you get an Aqua man to step up and get sexual, How to subtly seduce them with out making it soo obvious.. that way they wont feel “pressure” please ANSWER!!
So there is this Aquarius guy and he has my head spinning! I am up at 3 am looking up our compatibility. I have never felt like this before, he has me acting soo crazy. I think I’m in love! forget astrology, He is my perfect balance and calms all my emotions when I’m with him.
Rutu,
where are you? what is going on with that scorpio girl from School?
Parmineon,
I know it has been a week since you posted.
My suggesting is to get her drunk and try to get some more info out of her.
I know, that is horrible! LOL
But, I seem to spill my guts then. I have a difficult time being open about the way I feel. It has been a growning pain to be more verbal about my feelings in the current relationship I am in with my Aquaman.
It sounds like she is interested in you. YOu can try that or just tell her flat out how you feel.
That is what my Aqua man did to me and it was amazing how much more I felt Safe to open up.
Theres some interesting points on here. Im an Aqua guy and have got to know a scorpio girl very well over th last year or so I say know very well but ti be honest shes a complete enigma to me. We hav very similar personalities in how we few life but out approach to things is worlds apart. i lived with her for a while only s flatm8s and at that time both of us were going out with different people. I realised there was a strong connection just by loking at her. There’s this look and is so intoxicating. I don’t know much about my aqua traits althogh i would agree that I am hugely social and do get bored easily if someone doesn’t stimulae me intellectually. The scorpio girl is hugely stimulating an thats the thing that keeps me attracted as well as out similar views on life The issues have come when trying to approach a relationship mor that friends. I like to air my thoughts where as she will keep everything close to her and only give me a tiny idea that she likes me if shes had few drinks as this seems to open her up. we have fallen out about it before because i wanted to know what was happening between us and she wasn’t ready to go that next step and felt pressured. I do agree that aqua men can be cold because with most other girls i can cut the cord and move on if its not really working but with this scorpio girl I cant help feeling alot for her.
i didn’t contact her for a few months to get a reaction and she responded to this by wanting to see me. we have started out friendship again and again the chemistry between us is still there. The issue is what to do next? When I want to see her it takes her ages to contact me which i hate/love because her independence and disinterest fascinates me but it does get frustrating. im happy staying friends but we act to close to be friends and have both admitted this. Is this game she is playing or am i missing signs that shes wants me to take the lead? Scorpio girls are briliant but should come with a health warning
Hey Everyone,
I just wanted to share my story and would appreciate anyone and everyone’s advice, criticism (whether positive or negative), knowledge on horoscope signs (i know absolutely nothing about this stuff!) etc. ect. .
I’m a scorpio bi-sexual female, (i think i’m a aries rising, i’m not sure) and I have a close bi-sexual male friend whose aquarius with a scorpio rising.
I’m trying to figure out what the deal is with this guy. I feel this really strange connection with him. Is it possible that this guy is my soul mate or possibly a life long friend??
I apologize that this reply is long- I want to give you the complete details. ( I hope to God- my aquarius friend doesn’t find out that I wrote this, I’m afraid he would probably never speak to me again!!)
I met him a year ago and what’s wierd is that . . it’s almost like it’s fate that we have met. We both feel the same way about this. We both grew up and went and visited the same places. . I wonder how we could have never met earlier….(no he’s not a crazy stalker! lol)
We were born in different states but we both moved to Southern California in 1992. . . we both lived in the same city, visited the same places, and ate at the same restaurants. I moved to southern florida to go to college in 2004. In 2006 he moved to southern florida where he attended the same college (no joke) I was attending. (There is also been a few other occasions as well where we almost met)
We ended up meeting through my ex bf of 4 years (Leo sign). My aquarius guy friend saw that I was in an extremely abusive and unhealthy relationship with this over controlling Leo guy, and convinced me to get out of the relationship with him and file a restraining order. (Thank Goodness!!)
After breaking up we (scorpio girl-me and aquarius guy) had this rebound relationship for a few weeks. There was a really strong connection between us. Conversation connection and “bedrooom related” connection! I went to visit my parents up north for 2 weeks, and we would talk on the phone for hours. . .I’m talking.. .like 4 to 8 hour phone conversations every day…. At night I would go to bed, and I would imagine him having sex with me, and that he was inside of me. I told this to him on the phone too, and he said he was feeling the same thing and at the same time. . .which was really really wierd.(-I apologize if I’m giving too much info-or I offend anyone. . . ) He told me that I was pretty much like the perfect girl for him.. (I really really don’t think he was lieing about any of this- the sex part, and the various things he told me about his personal life ).
He told me that he met a psychic in his early 20′s that told him that he was going to get married to a girl later in life (he is currently in his 30′s now) that is like a sister to him. ..-(remember this sentence- I have a point to make with this). When he told me this. . .I replied that I thought I was his future wife (i don’t know why, but that’s how I honestly feel, and still feel now).. (He doesn’t currently have any close girl friends besides me-not over exagerating or being jealous, being honest about this)
After a few weeks he told me this guy that he was living with .. which wasn’t really his step dad, but his boyfriend of thirteen years!!! (he’s a pisces). He has a thing for older men. I was really upset about this, it pretty much broke my heart. (I know how you feel CV!!) The Pisces guy was completely ok with this, and was very aware of what was going on, and wasn’t threatened at all by the relationship we had.
Aquarius guy told me what I felt for him was lust, and that he only liked me as a friend, as well. He told me that he only did those sexual things with me because he knew that I was going through a rough time with my ex, and was trying to help. . .(I don’t understand this. . .is this normal Aquarious Guy behaviour??)
I forgave him down the road.. .for his mistakes. And now we’re all really close friends (pieces, aquarious and scorpio). He calls me (scorpio) the “Best Friend”. And the (Pisces guy) “his lover”. We now all live together in an apartment as friends. He has mentioned that he wanted to do the friends with benefits thing. . . but I wasn’t comfortable with that. . since I get attached very easily , and he’s already in a relationship already (the pieces guy is completely aware of this.)
My aquarious friend ( as well as his pieces lover) also has been helping me over come other personal problems. I had a bad childhood, so he’s helping me over come some family problems. He’s (aquarious guy) described our relationship as a father-daughter, sister and brother relationship. (Which I’m wondering about since he told me – that a psychic told him that he was going to marry a girl later in life that was going to be like a sister to him).
He still tells me to this day. . . .that I’m a friend, but he says that he Loves me. . .but is not “IN LOVE” with me. And not interested in having a relationship. And that I’m not his type.
But I can’t help but wonder if he’s being secretive, and not telling me the complete truth. . (after all he’s a scorpio rising). And even told me straight up that “You should never tell anyone completely everything about your life”, and “he’s hiding stuff from me as well”.
He’s even said things that make me wonder sometimes. . .
“Who knows we might be married in two years”
“You’re pretty much my girl friend. . .you’re a friend and you’re a girl. . .” He said these things a few months back, not recently.
And this really confuses me as well. . He’s in a relationship with this older pieces guy (whose like a second dad to me pretty much)- and they (aquarius guy and pieces guy) have started making plans that when he (pieces guy) passes away, or goes into a retirement home that we (aquarious and scorpio) will be both financially taken care of.
My Aquarious friend is unfortunatley in a bad financial situation (Which isn’t his fault at all but from a series of unfortuate circumstances- I’m not trying to make him look good, i’m being honest about this!), and not completely sure what he wants to do with his life. The Pieces guy is taking care of him financially. I wonder if this has anything to do with how he’s treating me….Just a tid-bit to throw in there….
I try not to bother him too much and give him his freedom now. He’s often complained that I dont’ give him enough space. Yet recently he’s been doing alot of father-daughter type of bonding with me (like i described earlier about my relationship with him)- and has been helping me work out my problems. In fact he’s been helping me more than he has been helping his pieces lover, and himself!!
Last week he helped me for 5 hours doing my hair and makeup (He’s a former model; I just recently got hair extensions, and am learning about being a girl and getting into fashion stuff- I had a lack of that as a child, and was a complete nerd..I’m completely clueless on this stuff). He’s gone out of his way to research online and watch videos on youtube.
Is that aquarious friend behaviour (the hair makeup situation??) and everything else?? Is this love behaviour at all?? Am I misinterpreting this all together?? Help!!
Regina,
I see no one has posted a reply to your inquiry. Hope you’re still around. I’m an aqua male. Here’s my take on your story:
Sounds like you’ve gotten yourself into a real dead-end situation. All that stuff about coincidences and fate and similar life patterns etc.–it happens all the time and in the long run it means nothing.
What’s going on here is not just an Aquarius thing, but possibly a narcissism thing, and I have seen it once or twice before. Your “friend” may be getting ego gratification from your attentions despite the fact that he has no intention of ever establishing a love-relationship with you. It sounds like he is whipsawing you–intentionally confusing you with conflicting information–to keep you addicted to him. Typical narcissist behavior–the hot/cold, on/off, yes/no treatment. He keeps you confused and hooked to feed his ego, like a parasite feeds off a host.
I think it’s pretty clear even to you that this is not a healthy situation.
One further real danger for you is that if he feels you’re becoming obsessed with him, or stalker-like, or if he feels his freedom is threatened in any way that he can’t control, he could turn on you in a vicious manner and try to emotionally crush or humiliate you.
You need to get out of this relationship because there is zero possibility of there being true love or a marriage or anything even remotely resembling a normal life with this man. There is no future here–just endless confusion, turmoil and torment.
Often women who end up in these situations are daughters of alcoholic fathers who are caught in an endless cycle of trying to please an abusive surrogate daddy.
You’re likely going to obsess over him for quite some time, and the only cure is to find a new love interest and/or see a therapist. You may be suffering from depression. It may take a period of both counseling and anti-depressants to get you through this.
We Aquarius males aren’t typically too keen on getting involved with women who look like they are going be a lot of work down the road, but what I see here is actually a malicious and abusive situation.
If you’re thinking about this guy morning, noon and night, if your head feels like it’s burning up, if this relationship is affecting your work or other aspects of your life, then you are not in control of this situation. Go talk to your doctor right away.
Hope this Aquarian has helped you.
oOman..
uu guys aint chatting here anymore..
>___<"
but its really helpful and ii think ii found this site just in time
to save muai relationship with muai aqua lover boy
to be really honest,
among the 5 guys ii've dated,
aqua has to be the best catch
am really lucky to have found one whos so loving..
althou its in their nature that they will only show their love very little at a time,
but time's on our hands,
so dont worry when ur aquarius guy aint showing uu enough love.
he does love uu! he just doesnt show it the scorpion way
Well, I’m an Aquarian male, and I’ve never had a Scorpio woman go after me, so I don’t know what you are all talking about. On the other hand, I am also a Scorpio moon, so I guess I am too busy festering about people who piss me off to notice any female attentions. :-/
…it is, very quiet.
it is quiet here…
ladybug, you’re too obsessed with him.It’s only 7 days, you can have your own fun.Trust me, he’ll be more attracted to you if you’ve your own life.I go days without speaking to my Aqua and he always contacts me every day.We meet each other every day.When I’m away, I enjoy my time with others, but we keep in contact.He even goes crazy when I replied him late.So yeah, when an Aqua truly loves you, he’ll hate that you forget him.However, he’ll admire your independence.The best thing was he never was hesitant to say he loves me. So yeah, stop obsessing and being possessive , otherwise you’ll never reach true love.
Good luck.
I’m a scorpio female who has been seeing this aquarius male. I can’t even describe the attraction I feel for him! I am just so fascinated and intrigued by him! The sex is just WOW! Whenever we are together the way he looks into my eyes it’s as if he can see right down into my soul. It sounds crazy but we can just stare into each others eyes for hours!
When we are together he seems to really like me and enjoy my company but when we are apart he can go without talking to me for days which really hurts!
Recently it has been seven days since I have heard from him. I sent him a text yesterday that simply said “how are you? hope you have a good weekend.” I got no response from him and he usually responds to my texts even if it’s not right away. This just really hurts me because I like him a lot! The problem is I don’t know how he feels about me? Like I said when we are together he seems all into me…stares into my eyes, have great sex, good laughs, could talk for hours. The chemistry is just awesome! I’m just not used to him being this distant! It’s almost as if he could care less that he goes for days without talking to me. I miss him so much and am starting to wonder if he will ever come back around or if I did something wrong to cause him to become so distant? My emotions are in overdrive and I can’t even sleep. I don’t know if I should sit back and wait for him to come to me or if I should contact him again? We have only been seeing each other for 2 months but I’m already so into him. I wish I could tell if he feels the same way about me or not. If he does he doesn’t really show it when we are apart. Ughh this is frustrating!!
hahaha Aquarius man is weird he can love and love more than any one can imagine , in fact his feelings for love is bigger than anything else but his life is complicated no lies accepted but he lie for one thing (GETTING AWAY FROM TROUBLES) , he hate blocks in his way he would do anything to remove them , he fear nothing but ignoring troubles because he thinks that no one is match for challenge , but if someone insisted to challenge that person would be crushed easy , money is the biggest problems for him he doesn’t even like to think about that !
if his heart were broken he will become mean and dangerous , he is jealous and that’s his big deal !
he have big heart he can make friendship easy so his g f or wife or faience or his love is THE BEST FRIEND for him he trust her and he do what ever she ask him , he love to stay in the darkness more than light so the night is the best day part for him , when you ignore him for first time he would accept that and try to be more positive and get you attracted again second time he would be angry but never show , third time he will start to be suspicious about you ! and start to leave and never think to get back , he would leave you behind or dust you from love list , but he could be good friend who tell you the right things to do or try to give ideas to solve your problems (you broke his heart !)
he is so mean with anyone try to get you think that he is cool or love you or care for you or just trying to show he is better ! in fact you wouldn’t even try to have that idea when you are with him because you only see him meaning the whole world to you but he still think that he is not and will try to show you the best always !
ONE WAY TO MAKE HIM GET STABLE WITH YOU AND NOT TO BE SUSPiCIOuS !
dont get close to anyone else even your best friends men specially and take that note for basic if you wanna win and be with him all time (4ever) !
reasons why Aquarius man would leave for a while !
1) loyal too much more than you can ever imagine
what did you do to make him leave !
probably lied about your feelings not love no but about anything else !
2) when he love some one so much i mean love you he cant lie and he feels controlled and protective of you , you mean his self and more (you might become a god for him) !
3)he fear the wind to touch you and make you like it more than him (jealous)
4)he will do anything to win your heart (he is smart and polite gentle clean ) you like that in your man he can be that so easy
5) he feel safe with you if you avoid him from being suspicious !
so if you ignored these you will never know how to make relation with him !
being romantic is so easy for him so much easy , he is good lover good kisser he know when to start when to end (you have to ask him that’s the key ????? show him things to make him understand he is smart) he can never stop making love until you show that its enough ! dont tell him how to have sex or when to do that he can understand by looking into the eyes of you he reads your mind from you eyes !
his power is for life is always open
his power for fight is sleep he fears him self for that just like nuclear bomb when it explode destroys everything
his power for love is unlimited
tow persons means everything to him :
his mom and his partner (wife , fiance , g f , love , best friend witch is you !)
He is an Aquarian and Im a scorpio… I’m gonna take it from the start. We were talking 2gether and we met in a party I liked him, he liked me and we had fun in the party and he kissed me. But after that he wouldn’t talk 2 me like nothing.. And so I really got angry and sad because that night at the party he gave me many clues that he liked me…and I didn’t talk 2 him either and I saw him at the beach yesterday and I because my friends were with him he said hello how r u? I answered good .. And then I went somewhere and came back and one of my friends that know him told me that he was leaving and he told her to say bye to me..
When I went 2 msn that girl told me that at one moment he was talking 2 her he was staring at me and saying that I’m really beautiful and blabla and she told him stop it cz I know its ur fault and he laughed and said how do u know that? She told him that he didn’t talk to me since then.. And he told her u know what? That times I was into fights and problems and I was upset….
I really don’t know what 2 do.. I like him and as it seems he likes me 2! But if I talk 2 him I don’t want 2 be rejected like that again.. Maybe his character is like that , like always with his friends, and his hobbies and no time for his gf.. Emm… Should I send him first a txt message or something?? Im sad but happy at the same time.. Because I don’t know if we’re ever gna talk again like that or something..
I feel a deep connection 2 him but I don’t know why, Even if we don’t match together I just like him so badly … =/
@candy
how long did it take for him to come around and fall in love with you? months? years??
and im very happy for you!
Im a scorpio sun with cancer ascendant and taurus moon and hes an aquarius with cancer ascendant and sagitarrius moon. It’s been a year, and we had amazing chemistry since the second we laid eyes on eachother.
It took a long time and a lot of effort to get him where he is with me right now though, i had to be patient…pretend im not jealous…be cool with a lot of his choices. Then of course once he fell in love with me, i fixed him up and now we’re very happy together. the thing with aquarius men is that they don’t have respectable mourning periods after a break up…a little heartless. other then that i like them
oh and the sex is amazing.
You know Jenny,
The more I hear deeper into your story, I understand why you are considering letting go. I believe you are absolutely right.
The future has yet to come and the past is gone…
So right now, it seems you two aren’t making eachother happy. So leave it alone.
Once when I was working on the boats, I had this girl named Yeme. I thought she was my best friend at the time. Well she had a bad reputation for being “Easy and Flirty”. I ignored all the rumors and gave her the benefit of the doubt. Well I start becoming involved with a guy ” an Aquarius” (of course) and at first he seemed so sweet and sincere. Well I was in no rush to have sex, so months went by and finally we hooked up. All these months he would comment on how crazy she was, or that she was cool, but he could never see himself with a girl like her. Then one day I went to his room and caught her in his bed!
Take your time and do what is good for you. I can’t stress that enough. We are responsible for ourselves, No excuses. Please Jenny don’t let ANYONE lead you down a path you don’t want to walk on.
Humans like to see how far they can go and how much they can gain. It is how they measure their level of success. And they will do it at your expense, ( if you’re willing to pay).
Do you know what I mean?
By the way, I don’t mind he’s friend with her at all.I love him to be friend with my friends.Just the way he do it.He always comment how hot, attractive they are or some thing like that.Also says some thing like miss them and such.Any way , I’m not jealous , I just want a secure future with some one and I expect respect from some one I’m with. I didn’t get that from him while I gave all my heart and soul to him already.Well, I think it’s unfair for him to be with some one who can’t provide his needs and he kept reminding me how much he wanted to have sex with me.I think I’ll let him go and detach from him slowly over the summer.I’m tired of immature people already.My ex-Libra isn’t flirty but he was indecisive, that’s why I broke up with him too.When I know I want someone, I’ll be 100%, if they can’t , I just let them go, no hard feeling, we can still be good friends
All that is in your head I swear all of it LOOL I bet 999999999999 $ that your ex libra is the one who broke with you
I’m not insecure , Rutu.He has a double standard.When I commented on somone , say they’re handsome or something , he would not be happy and I had to assure him that there is nothing.Now he just made sacarstic comments if I do that.I’m afraid he gets hurt so I stop doing that.While he always is very flirty and says something like oh she hot and some sexual comments about their bodies(I never do that) to his friend and me.I aslo joined in because I think/know it was just a joke.However, it’s like he loves provoking me to see if I’ve any emotion.Today when we were in bed and hugged, he would say oh I wish we could have a picnic with “her” -my friend.Especially after I said I’m afraid to hug him in bed while we both are naked because he always get excited too easily.If there is sex , it’s to be right with protection and such.I don’t want to have sex and I don’t want to test the boundary.So I even gave him her email and said you could chat with her in the summer.He laughed and said yeah.You know ironically, he always complained about her.Never mind, we’ve the whole summer apart.There is another Aqua man who is chasing me as well and he seems to be more sincere.He even tells every one we’re a couple to his friends and in public, though I refused and called him a friend.This one I’m with just kept flrting with girls and do not want his friends to know we’re together.I mean I also don’t want publicity or any thing but there is some one else who is willing to do any thing for me while the other only says empty words.I think maybe I need to give some one else a chance.Thank you for your advice Rutu.
Jenny..
Why are u so insecure? sex is not the whole and sole of the relationship.. u said u wanted to give him a chance because he is so persistant then give him a fair chance. if u remain negative about the relationship becasue u believe there is somthing lacking without sex then it will reflect in ur attitude..
He just asked her home number… maybe he wants to talk to her about u. to get to know u better… or somthing completly unrelated.
did he give u any other clues that he was attracted to her?
i dont think it would be fair to act like this, Jenny. Dont be upset because of lack of sex.. i can understand he wants it BUT he wants it with YOU only… doesnt matter how good sombody else is in the bed. so i would want to ask you if you really love this guy, forget about other things and just give your relationship a fair chance.. I can understand u dont want to get too atached and thn find out he broke or cheated on u because he wanted sex. But you tell me would being so insecure help..?
If you think this factor worries you too much then i suggest you take a break from a relationship till you start considering marriage, if you are not considering it in near future. (1-2 years) and whatever decision you take talk to him about it explain things and ask him to be patient. I know its not easy but i think its fairer. its not good for you to worry so mch about the relationship.. It needs to be a source of happiness and not worry. It will be somewhat difficult to explain it to him but he should understand if you are not going to break it but just taking time off.
Let me know what u think about it, Jenny.
Take care.
Rutu,
I’m not sure why my Aqua suddenly asked my girl friend’s room number.I meant he used to say to me and another guy that she’s too quiet and told me that though he thought she was a nice girl, he wouldn’t know what to talk to her once 4 of us live together next year.
I mean we’re supposed to go to her room to help her to move the luggage into mine any way.Now he wanted to go alone and asks her by himself.Oh well, I gave him her room number.Just thought that’s a bit unusual, especially he was asking what did she do yesterday when I talked about her.
Maybe, I should help them to get together? As much as I love him, I think I won’t sleep with him or any guy before marriage.While my friend already has a boyfriend but they’re so far away and he used to cheat on her with his ex.She’s good in bed or so she told me, therefore I think they might be good together? She’s a Pisces by the way.I mean it’s best for me to let go soon rather than building up such a strong connection and all ruined because lack of sex?
Probably she’s busy or she ‘s just trying to figure you out now.Especially if you was very enthusiastic and appeared of chasing her in the beginning and now you seemed to slow down.Then she would assume that you needed space and time to concentrate on your study.She proabably just want to be understanding, caring but not clingy because it’s early for her too to request sometimes with you anyway.You guys are not open about your feelings but she’s certainly sending lots of positive signals here.The ball is in your court.However, don’t be too long because she will be insecure/get bored/because after all the special attention pouring upon you ,nothing happened but secretive, flirty glances and a few meetings.If she’s mature, she will send more hints or tell you in a subtle way.If she’s still young, she will move on soon despite how much she likes you.In her logic, she thinks you’re indecisive and likes to play the field.Don’t worry though because most Scorp are not like that.Once they’re good, they’re like angels
Thanks Jenny.
What u think about my earlier post..? where i talked about she being contacting me less these days but does it regularly, on her initiative which she didnt do before.
Thanks.
I think she will eventually want formalities , Rutu. She would think you played her if you do not confess your feeling soon and just flirted with her.Especially, if you already knew her feeling for you.Then the hot and cold, distant thing will begin because she’s insecure about you and her.
Best of luck
Lili,
Well, No we are not steady yet…the thing is that none of us say anything openly..BUT i can tell we both know that we like each others a lot. a LOT. and i am also not very high on formalities as long as she gives me an idea of her feelings….I think calling her “My girl” shows my possesiveness, but i will NOT show it till there is confession on her or my part.
Take care, Lili.
Bye
That’s wonderful Rutu, but now I know why you spend less time here, talking with us. Hehe, we just miss you when your not around. So anyway, you say “my girl”. Does that mean you 2 are going steady now?
Well…
My situation…
Things have been progressing very well with my girl or at least it appears that way to me. We spend more time on messangers chatting than meeting outside due to busy schedule. when we talk she laughs a lot and everything is fine, really fine…. and i believe we are getting closer.. i can sense it. But these days i am seeing she is contacting me less.. than she used to when we were not this close. But she does contact me regularly, if i dont do it then within 10-20 minuts she will do it. But she wont talk much. It could be because she might be busy…. I have no problem at all accepting it. But i just wanted to know if there is more to it than she just being busy…..
Oh Jenny, if the feeling is right, then don’t give up! I believe that is where many people have gone wrong this day in age. Think back to our parents and grandparents, they were in it til the end. I know they were married, but what I’m getting at is life is an on going evolution. Forever progressing and changing. Some days you need to take an umbrella outside and other days you get to wear shorts and a t-shirt.
I know it’s hard to slow down now, since you 2 have been going a little strong, but try to. Mabey change the environment to where you 2 hang out. That way it takes away the too much solo time, and relieves pressure on sex. Hang out rather than in.
And Jenny, he is not the only one who this is hard for. It’s hard for you too, so don’t under estimate what your going through in order to stick to your own values and promises to yourself. Once you can realize that you both are having to make sacrafices to make this work, then you both might start working togeather to soothe eachothers difficulties. Good Luck Lady J…
Thanks Lili and Rutu.We both have been through alot together in those 6 months. He took me to his house on the island,even before I agreed to be his girlfriend.He introduced me to his family and he seemed to be very happy because they all liked me.Especially his sister-in-law who think I’ll be a perfect girlfriend(that’s what he told me!) . I used to look after him when he was ill for 2 days and he looked after me back for 2 weeks, back when we were still friends.Recently, his close friend just passed away and I hugged him all night, wiped his tears.We cuddled up and he told me about all the beautiful memories they had.He doesn’t trust any one but he often told me that he trusts me and see me as his very good friend.That he trust my judgements.He called me his angel and said he doesn’t know what will happen in the future but he knows he’ll always love me.I don’t know.I still think it’s unfair for him to stay in a relationship without sex.He said he wanted it but only with me and he can forget it because he loves me.
We connect on many levels.Our kisses are passionate sometimes, fun and “kinky” sometimes.We joke and argue with each other.Then making up with hug and kisses.We communicate our needs and seem to understand our differences.
Still I think it’s unfair for him but like you said, Rutu.He cried every time I said we should let go.Maybe I’ll take this risk?
All this is in your head
By the way Rutu, I was looking at the time on your advice to Jenny. Well first thing I noticed is after all you said, you wrote another note saying Hi to me. Yeah well they’re both at the same time! Wow Rutu you can think and Type FAST!!! Intelligence is an extremely attractive quality in a man, (in my opinion).
You’re right on Rutu! As long as there is a foundation of trust then the soil is fertile to plant almost anything. Appreciate what you’ve got. And count your blessings.
Hi Rutu, Hugs and a watermelon smellin peck on the cheek.
Just teasing ya
And i forgot to say “Hi” to Lili….
Jenny,
I dont think trying to breakup is good idea AT ALL. See, he is putting your wishes before his, he is controlling himself and doing things against his urges..all because he loves you. Now if u break up he will keep thinking “what was it that he didnt do for you?”. Trust me it will hurt a lot more than controlling ur urges from time to time.
I think he will control his urges and wont do anything agaist ur wish..BUT i have a tendency..I dont know if its there in all aquas or not…of passive aggression. If i need to control my self again and again then i often develope a feeling like “Leave it, I dont need it.” which is not true and then the anger is expressed through other ways.. by being more distant, not being very enthusiastic around the girl etc etc…
But i will be very sexually attracted to the girl whom i have a mental connection with..For me the physical attraction simply CANNOT exist without it. i have tried and it always failed. so when u have that connection there are other things more important than sex… I actually keep sex to the last. So if he is having to control his sexual urges constantly that is good sign of him being into you more than sexually.. Again you cant generalise but thats what i believe. I suggest you should try to develope emotional bond with him if ur serious with him. Aquas like to be nurtured somthing beyond just physical lust and has innocence and genuine feelings involved. I love it if some girl cares for me and is somwhat protective about me, even if i dont admit or show it. If i like it i will reciprocate by giving her a gift or somthing.. Touches are also very soothing to me and can make me forget about little disharmony in a relationship. I am basically suggesting u to make this bond stronger so that it withstands this temporary trouble. if i was in his shoes and had to control my urges then i would as long as the girl keeps showing her affection in different ways and MORE than that ACKNOWLEDGES that im doing this because i REALLY love her and shows some appreciation for that. i think it will be VERY VERY difficult for him to Not control his urges for u or find sexul relief somewhere else if you just appreciate him for being so patient. Just say thank you, and somthing to the effect of i understand how hard it is for you..somthing similar.
Ok, Jenny take care..
Jenny that’s exactly the way I am. I have come to a point in my life that I decided I would now prefer to wait to be intimate again. For this reason I don’t have a boyfriend right now. Oh I love to look and I see a lot of great guys at my school. A couple of them are botfriend material and a couple of them even seem like husband material.
I have this Aquarius girlfriend, and she has been in a monogamus relationship with a Scorpio guy for 5 years. They have had sex, but he will Not perform oral sex on her. She mentions to me that this bothers her, but she just deals with. If he wants to he will when he is ready, and because she loves him, she’s not going anywhere.
So if you are serious about what you say. Then stick to it, because believe me an Aqaurius hates a hypocrite. And if He is serious, you just might get a ring sooner than later!
Rutu, How long do you think an Aquaman can be in a relationship with you without sex? The Aquaman I’m dating with (yeap , he’s so persistent so I wanna give him a chance
) said that he wanted to be my boyfriend even we won’t have sex in the future( it’s me who just wants to have sex after marriage). We’ve been friends for 2 months and have been dating for 4 months.He said he would try to make this worked because he loves me so much.I’m not so sure because I know he’s quite attracted to me sexually too and he had to control himself quite alot of times.Sometimes, I heard him murmured to himself about how much he wanted me.I tried to break up with him many times because I think it’s unfair for him but he wouldn’t leave, he wanted to stay with me.He even said it’d be a test of his character.What should I do?
hey! im a scorp girl and i need advise from a male Aquarius asap!!!! i have really liked this guy for 4 years but he has always had a girlfriend but i know we have had some crazy chemistry since we have met. recently we have been really flirty and stuff and i don’t know what to do or how to tell that hes giving me hints on whether he likes me and wants to take things further and just doesn’t want to be the first one to say something or is just flirting with me because hes just being nice and knows i like him…lol. i know this question has been asked before…but everything that is said seems really vague…i need details!!! or better some personal experiences or something that tells me how an aqua guy shows that he likes someone!
Hi Jenny, No I don’t mind sharing my sign, but I don’t like to be catorgorized. Once you tell someone your sign, it’s like they think they have you all figured out. I’m even guilty of the crime. Especially with Aquarius’s, because I’ve been surrounded by them a lot. I’ll tell you this… I’m gentle, intuitive alomost to the point of a sort of pysic premonision at times. I’m a loyal partner. I love my freedom, and at times my friends seem closer to me than my family. I’m also very much so of an intellect. And I give off a sort of confident vibe when I’m met in person.
Hmmm??????? What do you think?
Catch ya 2mrw, gotta get to bed- nite nite
@Lili Ann: Now you got me intrigued! Are you an Aquarius or a Sagittarius or a Gemini or a Leo or a Pisces ? Haha, for some weird reasons think you belong to five signs above.If not , then pls tell meif you don’t mind! LOL!
I found this site by accident while messing around on google one day and was quite surprised.
I’m a Scorpio female 10/28 with Sun, Mars and Uranus in Scorpio and most of my life my connections have been with Scorpio men. I ended a six year relationship with a Scorpio male recently.
I met, about a month ago, an Aqua male. My reaction to seeing him for the first time was quite interesting. During our early convos he stated he felt someone was watching him across the room. I guess that’s where that famous Scorpio stare came in. I didn’t even know I did the stare until after I read the comments on this site and then proceeded to ask a few friends about it!
It was strange, when I saw him I immediately wanted him! There was just something about him that kept drawing my attention to him. I guess I was in Scorpio observe mode and was staring. LOL
We managed to exchange numbers, but my goodness that man can run hot and cold in a new york minute. One time he stated that if we had met in college, we probably would have been married by now! O_O What?! But now, he’s in cold mode and I can rarely catch him on the phone much less see him.
That makes ME run cold and I just don’t call and when I feel like he’s finally gave up on me, he calls and it starts the cycle all over again!
I think the Scorpio men were alot easier because it was basically like reading myself. This Aqua man is a handful and SO confusing!
Thanks Jenny for the response, today he was playing peek- a- boo too. I’m getting the vibe that we are flirting. But I can’t go and talk to him, it’s just un professional.
And by the way I’m not a Scorpio… but I do have great intuition.
sorry, I meant “reminiscing” , not memorising!
@Scorpioxgirl: Glad to be of service to you
@Lili Ann: Hehe, If I’m not wrong, sometimes Scorp can place so much importance in stares and such.You’re an attractive lady so of course he enjoys looking at you.Then when he was looking at you, he could be memorising things in the past.Someone he knew.Something important in his life….It could be many things so he seemed to get lost there…ALso, don’t you think that he stared at you because he caught your “infamous” stare too? lol!
Just ask him the reason if your intuition told you that was something important.After all , I trust Scorps have pretty good inttuition
Ok Jenny ;p
I like ur answers (: x
@Rutu: What do you want to know Rutu?
@Scorpioxgirl:How long have you know each other , dear? Are you and him good friends yet? It takes ages to earn their trust and TRUST is a BIG ONE for Aquamen.Be his friend and have fun.Relationships are not easy like people think.It takes work.DOn’t jump in too quickly and then realise it was simply lust and chemistry.I don’t mean love can sustain without lust and chemistry but love is more than that.Show him and yourself that you two can be more than that
Hey Ya’ll! What’s new? I have a little question that I’m hoping someone can clue me in on.
There is a guy at my school, real handsome, and yesterday after the weekend He was walking by and He stared at me all the way until I was out of His sight, but He didn’t smile. I almost felt like he was glaring at me. I don’t even know his name, and I’ve never mentioned to anyone that I think he is attractive, so what’s that hard look about?
Could it be that he thinks I’m kind of cute too and that’s just His way of showing that He is tough and a man. Hmmm?
In the buisness that I’m in being a female, it is very inappropriate to approach a guy and be seen talking to him too much. It’s considred flirting and makes me look bad. All eyes are constantly on the girls and every little move they make. And I don’t want a bad reputation. So what I’m getting at is I can’t even walk up to this guy and ask Him, His name.
So of course I just have to wait it out, but what’s the hard look about?
Hey Jenny,
did u read my post..?
I was expecting some feedback from u.
and if he likes me why doesnt he ask me Nowwww?:S
Jenny thanksssss for the info..
But I just cant seem 2 understand him…:S
I don’t know what 2 do to make him understand i like him..Well he likes me but i dont knowwww what 2 do so he asks me 2 be his gf
@Scorpioxgirl:
I will just copied the lines that I told others before here for you:
“I think Scorps can be too extreme when they’re in love.Too hot or too cold! There seems to be “in the middle” approach for them.That can spell problems.Gain his trust by being his friend and go with the flow.When he feels comfortable, he’ll express his feeling and you guys can go from there.Please don’t throw yourself into him, he might enjoy it because it boosts his ego but it isn’t the best foundation for a long term relationship. Honestly, I think Aqua can be a bit traditional when it comes to love.They analyse their potential mates very carefully.If you push him too much, he will run away because he feels like he’s loosing control(what a terrifying thing for Aquas!).
All the talk about Aqua being unemotional is nonsensical! They are just very guarded with their emotions because they know too well the dark side of human beings! Once you show them that they can trust you, they will slowly open up. Remember “actions speak louder than words” (just like Scorpio!). When I see an Aqua , despite what age they are , I see a child who just wants to love and be loved yet fears of being hurt because they can love so deeply and almost to the point of obsession! LOL! They might look like having heads on clouds but they memorise everything you said and will bring up to test or challenge you! Once you show that you are honest and true to your words, they will happily follow your lead on their own terms of course! LOL! They can be very controlling and love to smother you once they fall in love. If you love adventures, it’s even better; they will go with you to the end of the Earth and make the journeys even more interesting. However, they can be absent-minded when they think that something so trivial to remember!
I think it’s a balance also. I’m not an affectionate person and very awkward in term of showing emotions but my ex (Libra) was not patient with me at all but my Aqua friend helps me to conquer it slowly.
They don’t like to change but they will do it for you and for them if you can use logics to convince them and tell them honestly that you don’t want to manipulate them . They can say beautiful words and have gestures that even Libras who are being called the “charmers” have to surrender!”
Yeap, take your time and be strong, girl
Hi Lili,
Thanks a lot for your reply…
But u know i can tell that she likes me a lot… I can see it in her eyes and the way she asks “so, how are you today..?”
and if i dont contact for 3-4 days she will contact and ask why didnt u contact..etc..etc.
I can say for sure that she cares for me..well becoz i do that for her too..(alot)
But the thing is our time here is limited… actually its near completion now..and starting somthing serious is difficult with uncertain future..as we dont know how the course of things will be in next few years.. I have actually told her these things indirectly before… the last thing i will want to do is to hurt her. thats why when i talk to her i ask her about future and her plans and we talk about other important things. we are basically such good friends we can talk about anything. Let me see how things turn up in next few months..
On a funny fun note, Paris Hilton is an Aquarius and she keeps breaking up with her boyfriends. I wonder when she is going to meet a Scorpio. Mabey then she will have met her match?????
Dear Rutu,
Well I definately cannot say wheater She does or does not like you, but I will say that I seem to have those similar tendencies. Once when I was a little younger I was hanging out with I guy that I liked, and another guy that was much older that I thought was cool passed us by. I said “I Love Him”. He was the type of guy that was well respected by his peers and superiors. He was easy going and had an over all calm demeanor.
So Rutu, I ask you this… Have you ever heard the saying, It’s not what you say, but how you say it.
I’m still new at my school and there is literally 5 girls and 170 guys. I’m crushin on a few of them, but I am intimidated because I am a whole different race and nationality than them. But most of them are pretty cool with me. I even got invited to a barbecue yesterday!, but I couldn’t go.
Jenny that’s what exactly happened…
He was busy so he wasn’t talking to me…BUT after like 4 days he started talking to me normally like be4..
Next year im going to that school that he is going also {NOT because hes there but because thats a really good school}
and he’s happy that I am..
But u know something? I think scorpio girls and aquarius boys are just not the best match..Us scorpio girls NEED attention and love and careness and feel like we have a boy that talks to us everyday..But aquarius boys NEED their freedom they don’t like to be pushed and in long relationships.. I noticed that if u just dont give attention to an aquarius boy fastly he’ll come back 2 u..but if u just talk 2 him all the time he’ll be cold and unemotional..
I think that Sc.girls dont want That…
Thanks for the advice Jenny. Though I feel as if i’ve just been hit by a mac truck with how you’ve interpreted his behavior towards me I will continue to keep away from him.
Jenny,
Well she doesnt talk about him much. she talks if we bump into him or if he passes by… anyway i think i have more positive signes than negative… I will will pursue her.
@lizzy: No he doesn’t like you.He’s a flirt and enjoys leading you on.I know some Aquamen who like to flirt and test their attractiveness even they have found someone they can give their hearts to already.Aqua like experiments and are very attracted to the opposite sex so there will always be some tension even in friendship if you arent careful.After all, he has a girlfriend and is madly in love with her as he told you.Then would you like to seduce someone who is madly in love with another? If he can be seduced that easily after telling his girlfriend how much he loved her then what are you to him? The next conquest? Good luck and stay away from that flirt if you cant stand the game he is pulling!
@Scorpioxgirl : He had cold feet.Nothing you can do now.Just leave him alone.If he’s interested then he’ll come back very soon.SOmetimes, they just disappear because they’re busy but they will always come back if they like you alot.In the meantime, just concentrate on yourself and your happiness.Best of luck!
Did she ever serve”that damn fool” coffee with her “angel tone” ? See, she wants to spend time with you , not him.Stop worrying so much and try to ask her to spend time with you as well.Otherwise, she will think you aren’t interested in her and will stop inviting you.You didn’t tell me what she told you in detail so I can’t give you much.Did you hear she talked about him in romantic way? If yes, then you have the right to be upset.If she just loves him like a human being loves another or because he has some admirable qualities then nothing to worry.In fact, listening carefully to what she loves about him.This will tell you about the woman you like .Whether she’s right for you.Listenning is a very attractive quality.Dont let your mind wonder with jealousy.Just listen carefully to form an objective opinion.Sometimes, emotions can led you astray if you don’t use your head.She could be the one for you right now or she could be not.But give her and yourself a chance and don’t let that little insecure voice of yours to cloud your judgement.Good luck!
Jenny thank you a lot…!
But how can u say it for sure..
Well I do get the feel that she is interested.
On that day itself as we were leaving she insisted that we have coffee together. i saw her face like she was really urging. i was hungry so i said i need to eat somthing and not interested in coffee.. but she said plez plez so i gave in.. Of course i wanted to have coffee with her but i was DAMNNNN hungry…. she going to get coffee for both of us and askd in a really good tone “so what can i serve you…” well i said the coffee i wanted but i really liked her tone…
then we talked over coffee as usual.. but really nice time with her.
But then why does she has to mention that DAMN fool…”you know i love him…Blah blah blah blah”
i am being so patient with her..
She doesnt love the guy romantically.She loves you (or at least like you very much!).We can love everyone equally but there is only one we love with our soul.I’m sure you’re the one for her at this moment
Rutu,
I would keep doing what you are doing. I doubt she is saying that “you know I love him” to make you jealous. Maybe to see how you would react or using it as a way to hide her feelings toward you.
I would continue to spend time with her and let a trust develope. If she likes you or starts to like you she will eventually cave in and tell you or show you some how. We can keep our feelings hid but when they become too strong we will definately let you know it.
There are so many guys that I say “I just love him!” But what I mean is I just love him as a person and dont necessarly want to BE with him.
It is a great sign that she is trying to spend time with you.
i was really cool though…. and even made a joke of it. and had nice cool time together….i didnt even show if it even bothered me..
i actually felt like we are getting closer and closer…
And i like it and i know she knows and likes it too…i can tell that.
any suggestions on what i should be doing…?
Hello
i want to ask what does this behaviour by my scorp girl means..?
Well she does try to spend time with me..
We are getting to spend time together and we smile and enjoy eachother’s company a lot.
Then she had jokingly(i think) to have crush on a guy. and when he bumped into us and talked and she goes like “WOW he talked to us, and says u know I love him..”
Is she trying to make me jealous or what..?
Ok so here’s my story…
I have been talking with this aquarian boy a lot and he was nice and all these stuff and he said he likes me..
We went 2 a party and we had a great time.. He was winking at me… talking 2 me all the time..hugging me.
So… the next day i texted him but it was like he was so cold and wanted his freedom.
So should i wait for HIM to text me first from msn or mobile or should i text him something??
I just know he likes me buttt im soo confused with his attitude.
Thnks scorpgal & Lili Ann:
HA Lili Ann: your post on April 25th was interesting cause I did all those things, bbq, dance club, homework, dinner and a movie with my Best Cousin this last weekend. HUH! THe Arctic is a happening kinda place after all!
Thanks for that retrospect, I needed that… was kind of depressed about missing out on life just cause there’s no trees and cheaper shopping, but wow, Arctic Life is awesome!
Had a gusty e-mail to Mr. Acquarius.
Sorry Paro. : ( Glad your not hurting too much!
Cute story Artic scorpio! LOL
Sorry to hear that.Here is what I read at Terry Nazon horoscope :
“Soon, Saturn will go direct just at the midpoint 14.54* or half way marker. As it does it makes inconjunct with Venus in Aries in its detriment and Mars in Aries its home. Why? Is it just a random aspect? Or is it more divinely ordained than that? More importantly both Venus the planet of love and Mars the force of energy will aspect Saturn in Virgo at their solstice points 15* Aries. Mars will aspect this Solstice point a few days before Saturn goes direct and Venus a few days after. These aspects stop us dead in our tracks or in the very least some area of our life where we are not functioning very well! Think about it like this Saturn in Virgo, is transiting through the 12th house of marriage, relationships, partnerships and open enemies. The 12th house to any sign is the house where we mess up big time! It’s the area where we want to blame others but really we only have ourselves to blame and the little voice inside of us knows this all to well, so what do we do to shut the little voice up? We drink, we indulge in drugs and dalliances, we flirt, we find someone, anyone who is equally disenchanted with life, to like us, not love us, just to like us, part time, because we don’t really want love or a the responsibility of a full time commitment. The 12th house is the house of secret love affairs, self undoing, self imposed imprisonments fooling ourselves, evasive behavior and solitude; it’s the house of karma. It’s the house we here we feel most alone, because no one is there to really help us in life. We aren’t really taking responsibility for anyone and no one wants to be responsible for us either. Collectively as we are at this pivotal point with Saturn in Virgo, we are going through karmic lessons about responsibility in relationships, right and wrong, and suffering the consequences of bad behavior. What is love without responsibility? In the end it’s all about love. Your job is safe if you love what you are doing, and your relationship is safe if it’s true love.”
So, it is over… surprisingly I don’t feel anything at all O_O
Hiya =)
I found this from being curious about the relationship between Scorpio and Aquarius and thought this thread was really interesting. I can see the all similarities.
I’m a Scorpio girl and this guy I work with is an Aquarius. After reading the posts, I have a couple of questions for you male Aquas.
What’s this “stare” that Scorpios give that everyone is talking about? Is it when we look at you to try to understand you? Or is it some seductive look that I haven’t discovered yet? Lol.
When you Aquas stare at us when we’re not looking, what exactly are you looking for? I see my coworker looking at me all the time, and I don’t understand why. Sometimes it makes me feel a little self-conscious. Haha.
I read in the posts above that Aquas will act different when he’s around his friends and when he’s around someone he likes. What if I don’t know what he’s like with his friends? I only see him at work.
Since Aquas want to be friends with everyone, including the person they like, how do I know if he truly likes me or if he’s being a player?
Sorry, I’m just trying to understand Aquas more. =)
Thank gosh for this site.
This scorpio girl has only ever been drawn to and dated Leo’s.
This is my first time ever finding myself madly insanely attracted to an aquarian guy who unfortunately is involved. The thing is he loves being around me. When he’s any where but near me I catch him staring at me when he thinks I’m not looking. And when we’re around each other he always subtly flirts. But whenever the playful flirting turns into long intense glances between us he immediately catches himself and puts a wall up by saying something like Wow my girlfriend’s just awesome, she’s always there for me and oh yeah i can never get over this one… we’re just crazy in love I lucked out with her. I’m like WTF!
This has happened twice already which is why t I’ve backed off. It stings so much. But I miss being that way with him
Can someone please tell me what’s up with this guy? Could he really be into me?
Aaaw, cutsie! Good Luck and enjoy the feeling of blossoming Love. For me it’s like watching flowers grow. You’re absolutely right. Patience, patience, patience. And POOF! Hahahaha
Later Artic Scorio
WOW! For years (6) there was this amazingly goofy looking man that left me mute, tunnel vision stuck on him, and was like: Huh? *double take* who are you looking at me like that?
Aquarious man and Scoripo woman (me): gravitational electricity, unseen, unheard and unexpected but still able to ‘feel’ like something is going to happen: then – ZAP.
Had AmaZing times of talking, totally similar almost mirror imaged concerns – Family, humanity, sharing and opening up so freely – blew/blows my mind.
Never met anyone like this guy/aquarius… didn’t think that this astrology stuff could be like a photocopier accurate- but I guess for the most part humanity is still so predictable… moreso than the weather! ha ahhahhhaaa.
I really like him… alot. I cut it short cause there were things that were so similar I was like… that shit just doesn’t happen by accident…. damm. And yet here “I” am: a woman who makes her own decisions (after much diliberation) and this man pops into my life as if it was that easy.
Time will tell what will come of this wonderful man with crazy long curly hair, and I.
I have a hunch that it is working out: behind the scenes and when it materializes I’ll be like: O. I knew you were there all along, I just had to have waited long enough for you to catch up to where I was.
Here’s to stopping to smell the roses while the red light turns GREEN!
Patience Scorpio women – Patience!
I thought it was going to be sunny today, so I was all pumped up to hand wash my car, and now it looks gloomy. Ah fooey, well atleast I’ll go give it a good vacuum.
What’s up, peoples? What are you all getting into today? Dinner and movie with a loved one? Barbecues? Dancing at the club? I’m sure you all will have some great stories come tomorrow, I can’t wait to hear them.
It Saturday morning where I live, and I’m pretty good on my Med. homework, so I’m gonna hit traffic and listen to music. Check out all the beautiful people. Have a great day ya’ll.
And to Devon- We’re waiting on an update, with the new guy.
Hiya Rutu!!
@Aquagirl
I will try that….REALLY..!
@Paro
you both seem to have understanding..thats good.
im in slight hurry now but keep updating, im reading it all.
@Lili
Ya..weeks into physics would make anyone need medicines.. on serious note, hope ur health is fine. I didnt catch it when i read ur earlier…take care.
I am glad to have found this site. It has helped me so much in understanding my scorpio woman. I am an older aquarius male and I was looking for answers to why I we had so much problems with my scorpion woman. This website has answered a lot of my questions. It has taken me a couple of weeks to read through this blog because I am a professional and I am very busy but here and there I have taken time to finish it. I have to give props to the person who started this blog because I believe it has help plenty of people. There is more to come about my story.
haha! typo ‘reaping’ = repeating
so after i snapped on my aqua and told him the reason why i snapped he answered,” oh, why didn’t u just tell me that before?” Well, i thought it would be evident that I would be upset for not seeing him for 3 weeks. Of course there was some communication (texting because he knows i am a bit uncomfortable talking on the phone since i speak really fast and that i have an accent, so he wont understand me much and i hate reaping myself 20 times) but it wasn’t the same as seeing him. Anyway, he apologized for not being attentive and that he would make an effort to drive down to see me more often. He also told me that he is still interested in me and in seeing where things go that he is here for me, cares, and that he understands everything i want to do.
However, with the age difference and because we are on different posts in life ( i’m in college and he is trying to start a company) he can’t always be there when i want him
I really like him because he is very supportive; i like that he is like a mentor to me. But at time it gets a little over the top and i want him to stop being a bit like my parent. I like that he check on me to see if i have progressed with my plans since we sort of made them together although sometimes i can’t be as quick as he seem to want them done because i am concentrating on school as well.
I’ve always enjoyed seeing older men because i liked the autonomy and space that i wouldn’t otherwise get from boys my age, but god, he gives me too much space that it gets a bit uncomfortable…
Alright tips for you studying peeps.
Flora, dr ann wigmores assistnat for 20 years. neither of them slept and she still works 24hours a day at times. but ann i think slept 2-3 hours a night consistnetly. Oh and tony this guy in england hardly sleeps. very sweet on a sleep deprivation program. on –
2 small rinsed(and soaked)handfuls seaweed (x10-12 more nutrients normal vegetables), half blender (so a laat) greens, not spinach, kale, wud think collard too strong, half blender fruit. am add 2oz almond cream. which not sure how she suggests making that and 1/4 avocado. ann used to say more than 1/4 day fattening or an english follower elaine bruce about 70 yr old says that. for women these r women sizes. have that for breakfast and dinner – and u’ll bounce awake and won’t need much sleep. amazing. oh almond milk in day if u like. pineapple to get u going odd occasion. flora talks about how to prepare it, letting it sit with some holes in it or sth to sweeten it to begin with. her free book draft was on jim carey’s site. flora van orden – same name as tim van orden sky scraping sprinter been running just 4 2 years beating athletes, on raw, raw for 5 years amazing. brendan brazier triathelte also raw.
shit i lost my post. anyway, doing it this week i was up an hour early 2 days, last time that happened was 2 years ago and then was a fluke. Awesome.
Dr Mehmet Oz also into this. – holy fucking yay, for us, animal testing, and ecologically planetwise. it feeds so many many more than meat potatoes. and our cells it feeds amazingly with all the compoenents in each of the things. just google any of them. tho, guess some resources more detailed than others. like japanese or chinese funny long grass googling. so many amazing. sorry dont have time to say more right now.
Hey Scorpgal,
ya its good that she asked for tea but u know we are a group, i personally can ask a friend for tea sheerly out of boredome. i dont know how its for scorpgirls…
And i am not on facebook…
how is ur situation going on..?
@Lili
No no, i am not ignoring corsework due to my crush… that would be shame.. i dont think she will be much impressed by that either as she is quite serious about such things… she is a good combination of responsible and fun loving girl… she is someone i can learn from and i really like it.
Rutu, are you on face book?
If she asked you to have tea – she likes you.
Thats cute!
Hmm… we are not getting to spend time together…ALL THE BLOODY TIME THERE ARE PEOPLE AROUND. We havnt really met properly since i last wrote here. Both busy with course work…. But i could see attempt on her part to spend some time together as she talked about having tea together but again just 5 mints later we had few people.. so no privacy.
but i can safely say she did want to spend some time together…. now even then we would hav talked about work but it feels good to be with her..:), i like her…
That is some great stuff Starlight. You described my aquaman perfect. He is a treasure!
Rutu, update on the crush?
Rutuuuuuuuuuuuuu,
How ya doin? How are those grades holing up? Hope your not too distracted by your crush. Hmmm?
Oh how I would love to share another story, but my brain is just not there right now. I was neck deep into physics for the past couple weeks and now I’m on to medicine. Even on the weekends I’m surrounded by books, notes, flashcards I made, ect.ect…. But thanks for asking about me, I didn’t forget you either.
I am a typical Scorpio girl and I had dated 3 Aquarius guys so far…well actually 2 last on and off 2/3 years respectively…I agreed with most Scorpgal’s posts here that it’s the best/worse time when being with an Aq guy. One day he could be so very sweet and all over me – a perfect lover/bf, next day he could be so distant and cold as if he hated me…I got really frustrated…though sex was great and when he’s sweet and affectionate, it’s heaven, but the distant and “need space, need freedom” thingy really drain my energy and patience. Doesn’t matter how wonderful when it’s good, I would not date another Aq guy again. It’s just too much drama and too painful after all. The 2nd Aqu guy I was with actually cheated on me. Well, they all enjoy having a lot of friends, and need the space and private time…but that one enjoy having a lot of female friends and flirting with them on msn and stuff which I caught, then caught he slept with one of those. It was my worse nightmare being with a Aqu. I should have learned my lesson so I thought but recently I met a gorgeous Aqu and I thought I was just going to casual dating but I fell for him…he was all over me and extremely sweet + affectionate when we were together, but he needs A LOT OF space and freedom, it seems. He never calls me, just drops a email once a day/every other day, sees me on Sat. It was heavenly when we spent time together but the fact that he’s not willing to be connecting to me when he’s not with me is not going to work for me (not sure if other scorpio girls can do). Maybe it’s just him lol…I txt him and he rarely replied too…cited busy. I just don’t want to experience another “worse nightmare” again so I cut it off…
Based on my experience, I actually had beautiful relationship with cancer (excellent sex and everything…perfect together and we love each other very much, I was always happy but we had to breakup for some…ehhh, special situation
, very sad), I also had great relationship with Scorpio guys (my own kind). Was in relationship with 2, and they both were brilliant…if not because some personal life choice reason, I could have married any one of them and have a “happily ever after”. They treated me as I am the princess and always made sure I felt so loved…plus, never had jealous issues and very loyal…I wish to meet another great Scorpio or Cancer…plz no more Aqaurius!!! But I noticed that Aquarius easily fall for me…most of the “pursuers” I have/had are Aquarius guys…!!! @@ But I just can’t try that again any more. This recent one only last for a few weeks and I am already drained…I don’t want drama in my life, life is too short, I don’t want to have to always be so careful what to say when to give him space, and switch on and off according to his schedule…it seems when he’s up and sweet, i have to be on the same level, when he’s cold and distant, i have to understand and give him the space…why can’t he think of how I feel and what I need? Anyway, that’s my story…
CV there you are girl, I’ve been a thinkin about cha’. Time and time again, adivice is offered not to worry about things. If we could, we WOULD, right? But that’s just not so. So, instead just go with the flow. When your feelin sad and blue, (since it’s spring time)
1. Go to the grocery store and buy ALL the Goodies!!!
(warning! don’t buy the kind of goodies that in a week you feel even worse. i.e. frozen food, chips, and soda)
Sorbet and a Big ol thing of juicy berries, (your choice) stick it in a BIG bowl and put whip cream on it. Eat it and eat and let your tears flow.
2. Then go to your nearest drug store (walgreens, bartells, where ever) and buy a new nail polish and mascara.
3. Take the luxury bath of your life and doll yourself up.
4. Then Get 1 of 2 things, either go to the pet store and buy a pretty Beta Fish. Fish ONLY, don’t go get a new dog or cat, just a fish okay. And jazz up the fish’s tank. Cool colored rocks, some fresh Lucky Bamboo ( for oxygen and it’s pretty too) mabey even a little house for the fish
OR….
Go to a place you know that sells awesome plants. And bring one home. If your brave go for a flowering plant, those thake a little more effort and care, but I suggest ( a jade rose, a jade plant, a cactus, or the kind that are almost impossible to kill) Give it a nice little pot and a name.
5. Then come back to us and we’ll chit chat it up. We are your friends. We’re all friends here right?
Well that’s how I feel. Take it easy girl…
Hey Rutu,
Have been out of action. Have no friends to turn to in person for talk or shoulder to lean on. Been going through a tough phsae. I mean three years won’t end suddenly. He said, all he could offer was platitudes and cliches and couldn’t help me much. He was very nice and kind when we spoke. Very, very friendly and made me really comfortable and let me talk as mucha s I wanted to. I kinda clammed up, so wrote to him later and he said sure i could do so. So I wrote him but he said since he had nothing but cliches to give, hemight take time to repsond or even not at all. He said he understood how I feel about him, as he also went througha bad relationship in the aspt and found it hard to get over it. But he’s a fanatastic person and I don’t know how I can get over him. It’s been really hard over the past few weeks and I keep breaking down in random places and have been intensely hurting. The sad part is I don’t have good friends to turn to. Three years man.. It’s going to be bad for sometime.
Oh my god.
Rose wrote about her experience with the Aqua guy who has her camera… Many times she asked for it back and he wouldn’t answer or show up…?
That totally happened to me with the Aquarius/Pisces guy.
God!
For a year I had been trying to meet with him, and remind him, to please give me back my high school yearbook………
Call, leave a message, text….
No answer, whatsoever! Geeeeez!
Of course it hurt me so much.
I’d thought, “What, no respect for me, not even enough to return my OWN yearbook?”
(This was after I had given up hope of us ever getting together because he was tooooo distant. Omg. I’m telling you, we hung out with the same group, and he greeted and talked to everyone except me! The wind was luckier – at least he KNEW it existed.)
I had to ask two girl friends to get my yearbook back for me.
The Aquarian lesbian (who actually fell for me, geez, was I shocked – I thought she was merely a tomboy) called that Aquarian guy and talked about stuff – hahahaha – I remember thinking, “Wow, he’s so friendly with a STRANGER, on the PHONE, talking about his personal life… and he won’t talk to ME.” (Of course that hurt, it made me cry quite aa few times. Alone. I couldn’t even show anyone else my tears!)
Eventually, my friend told him that she’s MY friend, and that she actually called to help me get my yearbook back, because I. Was GOING. To MOVE. AWAY.
Which was true. I was moving away to a faraway place and I hadn’t informed our mutual friends, because I was sulking with resentment for their (apparently false, to me) reports about him always talking about me, and liking me; their reports about how much of a GOOD friend he was; while I never, never experienced any evidence of those from that damned Aqua.
Anyway my friend got my yearbook back.
I never said goodbye to that Aqua guy. I never planned to meet him again.
Of course that hurt so much. Sooo much.
…
I was still 18 then.
Also bound by rules of the home, scared of my family and what they’d think. I listened too much to other people. Waaay too secretive. Our girl friends had commented about my poker face. No emotion ever showed. I was too afraid to tell those frivolous people, how deeply, very deeply I felt for the Aqua guy. Because I didn’t understand it myself, why I would be so attracted to him when he wasn’t what I’d been looking for.
I also had NO knowledge of astrology.
So I pretty much interpreted his actions, unaware that he is an alien, and that you can’t really “interpret” him, they way you “interpret” other people.
When I read Linda Goodman’s description of Aquarius… I scoffed, huh… rainbows? weirdness? give me a break…
But the attitudes in love was spot on, especially the “grapefruit juice squirt in the eye.”
…….
Fast forward… today… I’m more open-minded with my Scorpio/Aqua guy… Of course, driven bonkers several times, but I also broke through my limitations quite a few times, thanks to him. I really want to keep him. He’s a treasure. I’m hoping very few women realize that so that I don’t have much competition, hehehehe
Hi everyone.
I’m Cancer (red alert!) with Scorpio rising.
All the men I’ve crushed on, or actually considered having serious relationships with, have always been Aquarius Suns or Risings.
First true love – Aquarius/Pisces cusp.
First boyfriend – Aquarius (The Week of the Genius)
Current C.R.A.Z.E. – Triple Scorpio + Aquarius rising
He acts more Aquarius than Scorpio.
I’m totally living out his Scorpio excessive-thinking-and-feeling for him.
Except for the sex part. He’s living all that out for me. He’s stranger than most: Scorpio + Aquarius, can u imagine?
I didn’t even mention his Mars/Uranus conjunction, AND Pluto in his 8th house.
In the beginning he was repulsive to me.
And then I found out I couldn’t imagine life without him.
So I had to have him.
And that’s how I had to Google our rising signs (Scorpio, Aquarius), and ended up here.
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”how would i know if a scorp girl is intersted in me..”
Every Scorpio girl is different.
But like someone said above, ahem… Dare to look her in the eye. Fixed gaze means you look good to her, at least. (When water-sign people say “look good,” they don’t necessarily mean “model-beautiful.” Our standards of beauty very well include the person’s “spirit,” which other signs tend to miss.) An even longer-lasting gaze means, she’s hooked. She will also be transfixed by the cornucopias, rainbows, rainforest flowers, shooting stars in your eyes. (I had this experience with the Aqua-Pisces guy when we bumped into each other in the busy mall. I think we stared at each other for a couple minutes too long, despite our previous non-communications, AND his friend beside him.)
I will repeat what some girl(s) have said in the older posts, about Aquarius men… And I’d say it is the truth about Scorpio women as well.
“You’ll never know a Scorpio/Aquarius is into you, until they let you know…”
By their own free will. =)
Okay seriously though. Try a subtle, exciting romantic gesture on her…. If she entertains it, you’re definitely in, you have a chance.
And she is indeed a VERY beautiful god made creature..No doubt about it..But im shy to use such language. But i will try…..
Aahhh… Jenny, thanks for those beautiful words..
I will will will follow it. But the problem is that we both have busy schedule. But she does show interest in talking to me and prefers when only we are together but doesnt make special efforts to be together….
Most of the time its me who look away when she is looking in my eyes becase i am sort of shy… And she often smiles like she knows about me or somthing and i want to avoid it so i just look away…
Thanks for advice again….
Rutu, spend alone time with her , talks and teases her nicely.Carrying things for her or helping her with cooking or study! Use your beautiful eyes to stare at her while you two talking and see how she responds.If she stares back at you sometimes or asks you to play a staring game with her, join in too! She might ask you why you’re staring at her , tell her she’s a very beautiful God made creature and you like looking at her.She might be shy and looks away.After awhile , expressing your interest if you see that she spends more and more time with you, away from the other guys, that she also stares at you, that she enjoys your stare instead of calling you a weird guy! Scorpio women normally will express their interest when she sees the man pays special attention to her.I think Aqua and Scorp are quite similar in that way, only express things when they feel safe and trust with the others.Go ahead and enjoy your beautiful love.:)
i concur
Thanks for the Advice Rutu. Next time it happens I will tell him.
As far as the scorpio girl you are diggin on, Well, when I am into a guy you can tell it in my eyes. My eyes can not lie. My eyes light up when Paul walks into the room.
I smile at him alot too.
Hey CV where are you..? what happned..?
And where is Lili too…I am waiting for further stories Lili…
Now a question for you girls….
The very basic question but it still important and difficult to answer…”how would i know if a scorp girl is intersted in me..”
We both know there is connection and we are good friends of each other in our group… When i feel she is being really nice to me and feel as more than friends, she will be very nice to everyone in the group so i dont get the confirmation that she is being special to just me…. she is a wonderful friend and defends and takes care of her frineds soooo if she behaves like that to me then its nothing special as she is protective and caring towards eveyone who is her frind..
She will always laugh at my jokes or of anyone else.. i somtime think she laughs too much.. but she does discusses thinks with me that she wouldnt with other friends… its always me who will initiate the conversation on messengers… as far as my knowledge she did it just once when i hadnt contacted her for 3-4 days.. What are the things i should look at for some hints..
She is sweet but VERY stubborn…and can be cold.. so i want to be sure before i show my affection for her.
Paro,
I feel sorry dear that you are crying…
I wish the pain fades out soon.
you said you and him were not on the same page…you were looking for something serious and he wasnt perhaps ready for it… OK..
Well if you are sure that he wasnt ready for it then your decision is rite.. your goals were different and its sooner the better to end things if there are core differences like this. Remember only attraction can not save a relationship.. you need trust, COMMUNICATION and mutual understanding and respect in addition to that.
Did you ask him if he was looking for a serious relationship or just sex budies…? Did you during the time of ur relationship discussed things like that..? Remember what i said to Scorpgal and I dont know how many times i said it earlier here…”Good Communication”….
Please dont take for granted the other person understnds your body language or ur emotional needs or whatever it is that is bothering you…you need to talk..well scorpio girls are good at reading people but not everyone is.. You know why air signs get along good with each others..becoz they communicate.
I dont knw if i helped much but take care of yourself…
If he wasnt looking for a long relationship then he wasnt the right person for you. It would have been worse to continue the relationship thinking he would change his mind sometime later… TOO RISKY…
So take care and time will heal the pain..
Hello Scorpgal,
Well first of all i will apologise that though u asked NOT to I did smile a little at the situation becoz even i have the same problem…..
I mean i know people think aquas dont get jealous but thats wrong.. I do get jealous BUT would NEVER admit or show it.
Now for ur situation… I think he should understand from the exprience with his earlier relationships that even though that actress is just no where in the picture in our daily life, it is expected that we keep our praise and admiration reserved for our lovers, especially in the early time of the relationships….But when i was single (I am still now) praising giving compliments to actress i adored (angelina joli..spelling wrong) was soooo natural whenever i would see her on screen. Now thats fine as long as i was single but these habits took time to change when i began my first relationship..(with a tauraus). I wouldnt have found out she had problem with it if she had not said or made it clear somehow…. We aquas are not really good at understanding emotional needs of the people so i keep telling we need guidance on that from our lover…. One thing i can assure is that all problems can be solved by simple nice talk. U dont like him praising other actresses…JUST SAY IT TO HIM.. Tell him you JUST dont like it. what will he think…? that u r jealous.. that ur crazy… whatever it is…But more than that he will understand that ur SERIOUS. He will be little flattered and WILL STOP doing it.
And TRUST me…. when he is loving you…he is loving YOU AND YOU ONLY….. So dont even think he is thinking of some actress while you are making love… That’s dishonesty in Aquas eyes..
Sooo…can you try the suggestion, of just telling him to stop praising actresses like that. I personally wouldnt have mind if my girlfrind had said such thing to me.. Well i would have been suprised for a minut or two… but i would have stopped doing it since she didnt like it.
So cool down…..I very well understand that at THAT moment you must be very angry and its annoying if the same thing happens again and again but it happend again and again because u didnt say anything to him earlier…and he is not that good at understanding emotional needs..But remember at the root of it, its a small problem..which can be solved by some good communication skills… Just go ahead and get rid of this small issue thats bothering your wonderful relationship….
you know, i believe its you who can bring out the best in him and him who can bring out best in you.
All rite… Take care..
scorpgal,
the post above was a reply to yours
well, i had initially intended to totally sever the relationship and leave no trace whatsoever, but he would like us to be friends. i replied back with terms to the friendship and he hasn’t written back…
like u, i won’t ask, so i ddn’t…
well, do you know what he wants out of the relationship? did you ask him.. i know that is hard to do because we just go with our gut.
My guy just tells me. Thank good ness because I know I will not ask.
is he ok with just being friends?
I am sorry you are crying .. i know it hurts so much!! we love so deep.
Rutu,
could you help me…tell me something… I think i messed up. I only reacted out of anger
Scorpgal,
I am 21 he is 27 and we are in different stages- i am in school he works. I actually spend the entire night crying over my decision since i liked him soooooooo much, but i know it was for the best. Of course, he asked we remained friends. I agreed only under the conditions that there is no sex involved and that i get time to kill off my feelings for him otherwise i would end up jumping all over him and end up in the same limbo all over gain. Then we could move on to being platonic friends- ahhhhhhhhhhh! idk… at least that’s what i said.
BTW PARO,
My Aqua and I do the cute text thing all the time. But there has been more to it.
It is strange how much these relationships between aquaman and scorpio gals have in common.
I dont know how old you two are.. But age makes a difference.
I know as a scorpio girl, some of the things that i would just fly off the handle and do – I have more under control now. I usally give myself a couple of days to process now.
I weed out the emotions and get down to what I really want before I make a choice. It works better now.
Good luck with it!!
After 3 months I finally got irritated with my aqua guy.
I need some advice or some insight from an another aqua guy.
This guy is 48 and I am 39. We are awesome together.
We are in love and I know that. We have been together 3 months next week and not one argument or anything. I have to say that with him I am calmer and I am able to let some stuff go.
BUT.(AND DONT laugh )This has been the ONLY thing that has irritated me since we have been together.
when we watch movies he will tell me how sexy / gorgeous a leading lady is.
Well, I understand that Charlize, Jessica Beal (not sure on the spelling) are gorgeous. But, can u just keep that to yourself? Why he has to let me know how sexy they are is beyond me. That is the perfect thing to say if you do not want me to be all over you that night.
So, last night, while watching “meet Joe Black” the leading girl role shows up and he has to say “there she is, she is so sexy”
Then he is looking at me like I am crazy because I have put my self in a non cuddle position. NOT going to happen.
so, when he looks at me I am acting like I dont even notice and when he ask me what is wrong I tell him I am just tired. Then he tells me that I look tired.
GREAT!! so, she is sexy and I look tired!!!
I did not tell him what I was thinking.. BUT I know from my body language that he knew something was wrong but was probaly afraid to ask. (dont blame him)
SO, what I am trying to figure out is this whole fantasy world they go to.
It is not like Charlize Theorion (spelling wrong) is going to come to Texas and sweep him off his feet. Or him hers.
So what is the point? Why say something like that? Is he trying to get a rise out of me? He wont. I will not give him that satisfaction.
So, I pull away emotionally and pretend nothing is wrong.
I just dont get it. Why can he not just keep it to himself?
I am just the type that if I want someone – no matter who it is, I am going to go for it. I just dont go to “fantasy world”
RUTU!! Or someone, please give me insight on this one.
I know it sound silly.. but when I say something like “if Charlize came to town, you and I are over” I would mean it.
I am not throwing in the towel or anything like that. I just want to understand. Hopefully then I will be ok. I know most people are not as “serious” as scoripios can be.
My friends have told me that is silly – but – that is how I am feeling and it is not silly to me.
So, is he making love to me and thinking about them? If so, I am soooo done with it.
help me before I say something i will reqret or do something I regret…. like ditching his ass!
I am the type that would dump him just because. But I dont want to do that because I do love him.
So, i broke off ties with my aqua today. Lately, i had been feeling that we were not on the same page. i mean i wanted something solid and i didn’t think that’s what he had in mind. My patience level was running low and cute texts and e-mails weren’t cutting it for me anymore. Therefore, i wished him luck on his pursuits and i will go my own way.
Hi Devon,
I read the whole story and i believe irrespective of the guy’s sign you should do what u have planed to do. that is tell him the whole thing about you and let him decide what he wants… Honesty is the best policy,especially with Aquas.
He seems to be really infatuated with you… so most probably he will want to be with you. But he will see that serious side of yours and will think before taking things too lightly..
Now what he will choose also depends a lot on his age.. Aquas mostly prefer to settle down late. So he might not be in mood for somthing serious but as he seems to be soo interested in you he might want to be in serious relationship.. But all that will get clear when you will talk to him.
So I TOTALLY agree with your decision of you talking face to face and clear cul.. GO FOR IT.
Hey, I read through this thread to find some guidance in what I am experiencing with this Aqua guy I met. First of all, I’m still in love with a Tarus and I made a decision to stay in love with him even though our romanic relationship ended. I said to my self that man/woman stuff isn’t for me and that I am
happy being celibate. Me and TarusBoy went through a lot at least on my end and we are still incontact but it hurts to accutally see him. I really need to focus on job/ gradschool and musicial pursuits so my plate canbe full. But one night after a long, bad
day at work I decided to go to a show that some friends were playing. It was midweek, rainy and I was a bit soften by wine when I went out. I ended up having a great time. However, this guy kinda hitched on to me during the night. I was talking with my friends ( the band) and he was there. A bit later, he bought me a drink b/c he followed me to the bar. A had no red flags that he was up to something and accepected. Normally, I don’t even let a guy get that far with me. I ended up talking with him, about my bad work day and getting onmy Soap box about random things. I remember I was definaletly fussy and and dominating the converstaion. However, he ended up asking me to go get something to eat with him. Again, I didn’t think any thing creepy, so I agreed. We tried some afterhours place which was packed and then we went to a drive-thru. He then said let’s go to my place, which started me to get suspious. We got to
his apt. and bit into ourfood and then the akward silence…….. he asked to kiss me. I said ‘Yes’ just thinking it was going to be a makeout thing. He kissed me once passionately, then again and said “you’re killing me!” then he said he needed to take me back to my car. So we left. On the way he kissed me again and asked me out I said “O.K.” still kinda not really thinking he was serious. I ended up leaving my cell # with him.
The next day, I was motified. I actually hoped that he didn’t call. I am not one of those random encounter chicks. I was thinking that I got really lucky and he was just saying he would call to sound like a good guy. So the days went by and I started to feel better that I dodged that bullet. But by the weekend I get a call, thinking that the number I saw was from someone I have a musical contact with. But it was him (AquaBoy). And he asked me out. Again, normally I’m just cold with potenial suitors but at the same time he caught me off guard and I don’t like lying to people to get out of things. I ended up going out the next day. It was a decent date, we even kissed again.
But long storyshort we went out a couple of times in two weeks and each time its become more intriguing and even more
intimate that I would have imagined. I have never felt so open mentally with anyone before, even when I dated a Aqua before years ago(he had ISSUES though). I figured with my years that I was too old (33yrs) to be cute and try to be attractive, esp after that 1st night when I was darn near activist/political. But I have also been radio listen when it comes to contacting him. I only just emailed him for the first time the other day when he has called me several times. My mind I’m still fixed on this TarusGuy who broke my heart, but now I’m starting to believe that this new guy has a chance. I NEVER THOUGHT THIS WOULD HAPPENED!!! I definately wasn’t looking or flirting. I told him my age I found out he’s 27 and he doesn’t care. And I have avoided him asking me to my place, even though he knows I live alone and has asked to come pick me up. I honestly don’t want to have sex with anyone now not even the Tarus Dude because I was so hurt. I guess I could have
blown him off several times by now, but this is so new where I feel drawn in but in control. And there are some things that concern me like he’s a drummer and I don’t see any stable income, while I work a normal-ish dayjob and play my music ( Semi-successfully).
If I should continue this I would want it to be serious, I ask you Aqua Guys if that can be possible. And if so, can I be taken seriously despite my stone-wall devotion and more than comfortable curiousity in your daily goings on? I feel like right now I have a “I don’t care”Attitude which makes me seem stand offish or even laid back/ Attractive in his eyes. But I’m just really scared and a bit confused at what has happened. I do like him, that I know for certain. I made a date with him on Saturday and I feel like I want to laid all this stuff out to him so that I can more than likely run him off, but secretly hoping he’s the one to try to care for the real me that I let slip on a tipsy Wed. night. So Aqua Guys….. What can you advise?
CV, keep your chin up. I wish I had more advice for you, but I would not know what to do either! Once I am in love, I am in love. But, even if it doesnt work out… surely there will be a day that you are glad.
you will meet that certain someone!!!!
Hey rutu,
Hmmm, I get what you are saying here. I need to see his side too like you advised earlier. I was actually wondering yesterday about his work committments etc. I have clearly been thinking too much on my side only. Hmm.. Well, when the talk happens between us, I guess things should become clearer. Yeah, I need to be rational and accept whatever comes now.
Onwards Intrepid explorers!
Cheers
Question … why does the person on this site keep removing my posts??? thats just wrong buddy!!
Rutu, I don’t blame Lili or that Aqua man at all.Only stating the things that I wouldn’t do to others.I just feel a bit sad about things people can do to the others.Perhaps, my ideals of a world is just not how others would like it to be.This contradiction has made me feel stronger than ever though…..
Though I certainly think Lili was right to tell his wife.He was quite a coward and a manipulator.However, probably, he was just sad and displeased with his wife for his demand “having another baby” was rejected…
Ya Jenny… getting involved with a married man is wrong but more than hers its HIS mistake. It should be his priority to take care of his marriage. I would blame him…
You are certainly very adventurous! I don’t think I can do that at all.The fact that I hurts the person the man exchanged vows will surely kill me before I even recognise my feeling.Also, coming from a very hard background and seeing people closet to me got hurt for all the “wrong” choices they made, I’ve sworn to protect everyone come across my life, even people I haven’t met yet.
Lili..
You are an adventurous girl….
Part 4-
Back on the Boat for the Winter Season. Alex still hasn’t gotten a divorce and He won’t ask her to. He wants Her to leave him. Alex says, more than anything, he wants to have a baby. And He tells me if I get pregnant, She will be sure to leave. So although I’m not In Love with him, I do Love Him and I could see us settling down. When I met Him, he appeared so unhappy, and I just knew I could fix that. So day after day, we would work, and night after night, we began trying to get pregnant. Funny thing is, It just wasn’t happening.
After a 3 month winter season, Alex and I went home to meet my parents. We had dinner and watched football, ( MY FAVORITE!!!) AND my family knew the whole relationship story. (That he was married and all) Alex assured my Mother that He Loved Me and that he was going to divorce his wife.
The next Day, my treat I took Him on a road trip to Oregon. I took Him hot air ballooning, wine tasting, on a murder mystery train, and to the museum of flight.
We had so much fun, but enough was enough and I do have a conscience. So when Alex went back to Mexico, I called his wife and confessed. Everything!
Well I won’t go into great detail, but He ended up choosing Her and switching boats.
I eventually quit fishing and moved on to explore more that this brain of mine seemed to be interested in. Traveling, School, and most important Family.
When Alex comes to Seattle he calls me to meet up, when He is fishing he writes me 3 or 4x a week. When my Birthday comes around, He sends me a package.
And above all he tells me I changed his Life. After 20 years His wife finally decided to have another baby with him. Given His friendly and flirtacious nature, I don’t take His ( Baby, Kisses, or I Love You’s) to heart.
Mabey He does, Mabey He doesn’t, but I learned my lesson, it was a fun ride, but I won’t go back.
Rutu-
Engineering, awesome! I am studying to be a Deep Sea Diver.
When God created us he didn’t create signs, he created indivduals. A woman wants to feel like she is unique, special, and the only one. The prettiest flower in the garden. Everyone’s heart beats, we feel nervousness, excitment, jealousy, joy, anger, sadness, acception, and rejection. I could go on and on. But if there is one thing I can’t stand, it is to be compared to someone else. I’m not her, I’m not him, I am ME. Nothing strikes me more in a conversation than to addressed to, by my very own name.
And through reading over past comments in here, You, JohnnyStrangeLove, D and whom ever else seemed to have diffrent opinions, points of views, places that you all came from and ways that you all were raised. And with my history of Aquarian friends, I’ve noticed a person in each of them. And that aloofness crap, is exactly that CraP! They love to be the center of attention, they are extremely passionate and attentive, and to top it off they do get jealouS.
I’ll be right back, I have to go get my bucket from outside, I’m collecting rain water to feed my plants and it looks full!
Thanks for that CV…
first of all dont feel u did anything wrong by being upfront with ur feelings with him… it takes courage to do that. you know the situation between u and him better than me. so if u believe he has feelings for u then it could be so. Observe his actions when u meet him.. BUT if u dont find him having feelings for u then just accept it. Please dont try to see somthing because u want to see it. Again i still believe u know the situation better. Also just hving feelings doesnt necessarily means the person is going to act on those feelings… I have had felt attraction towards number of girls befor but doesnt mean that i will always pursue the attraction. there are number of things to be considered like his future plans, or maybe he is just not ready for a relationship or settlement.. could be number of things..
So this could be the explanation if u think he has feelings for u but is denying them..
@ Lili
What am i studing…? I am doing Engineering.
And yes it doesnt matter at all if ur a scorp girl or not… i would love to hear ur input. and i said it jst to confirm ur not because u said u wanted to keep ur sign a secret.. Why..? sure u will tell it later though…
and thanks of offering to help..
C u later..
@ Rutu, Scorpgal, Jenny and Lili Ann,
Thanks you guys for helping me out.
You know all those things they say about unknown faces online and how you shouldn’t believe in them etc? Well, sometimes unknown faces do give comfort.
Wish you all the love of your lives,
Cheers
PART 3
After a fun and fantastic week in California, we were off to Thailand. We arrive and I am in awe of how beautiful of a place he reserved for us to stay. It was down right luxury living. Unfortunately we were so busy with activities we only got a few hours in night to enjoy the place. Well Alex and I put away our belongings and headed off to enjoy Asia. Within our 1st couple of hours out we end up at an agency that plans fun activities for us. We went to Monk Temples to lay with and pet Tigers, we went to Rivers to Ride Elephants, we went Parachuting over water, we went to Islands to Scuba Dive and Jet Ski, I had a beautiful Red Satin Dress made special for me and Alex had a Handsome White Suit made for Him. Ha, I even ended up in the emegency room with food poisoing from a bad Oyester. It felt like True Love Ya’ll and it seemed we were both putting our ALL into it.
But I just couldn’t get his marriage out of my head and I would bring it up. One night during Love Making, he was intoxicated and I asked him if He Loved Me. He Said yes I Love You (his wifes name). I slept in the other room that night.
Well unfortunatley our time ran out and it was time to head back. We went back to California, spent one more night, then went our separate ways. Me to Washinghton and Him to Mexico.
But we only had 1 more month left of OFF SEASON before we had to go back to Alaska. So I just waited patiently.
I figured if he was spending 3/4 of a year with me and doing everything possible to show Me how much He Loved Me, well then he must want to get a divorce…
That’s enough for now, I’ll continue in Part 4 later.
Now To CV-
I am SOOOO sorry your heart is hurting. I’ve been IN LOVE once before. So much so, that I felt it in my soul. I would wish upon the stars, pluck petals off of flowers, and Pray and Pray (This is the Aquarius Guy from the past 10 years, not the married guy) but I’ll tell you all about Him Later.
You know what CV, if someone likes you, you’ll know it, AND if they are giving you THE COLD SHOULDER, you’ll know that too. At least you tried, and you don’t have to be left wondering, WHAT IF?
Surround yourself in the company of the people that make you laugh, it will help with the pain.
And To Rutu-
You seem to so attentive to all the people and their dilemmas. Thank You. I’m wondering, what are you studying in school?
You also wondered if I was a Scorpio, what if I was, what if I wasn’t, would it matter? Either way, I’m a woman and I know what women want. So if you have any questions… Feel free, I’m sure we would all Like to help..
Good Night Everyone
Ah ha I wasted my time, now I gotta write all over again. Silly Computer
I wrote way earlier, like 10 hrs ago and moderation is taking forever! I’m just typing something else to see if this will go through
CV, you’re such a sweet and honest Scorpio girl.I wish there are more and more others like you…Don’t listen to public opinions.How would they understand how you feel? Everyone can give opinions but it doesn’t mean that they’re right.In fact , I think some of them are even jealous at your bravery! You love someone and you’re not a coward to show it.Be brave and be proud.I believe you will find your true love very soon and that guy is very lucky to have such a special girl like you.In the meantime, just spread that beautiful love of yours to everyone in need
Rutu,
(( No, I mean to say that he didn’t begin avoiding me after I told him of my feelings. I meant to say that all of a sudden he cut off much before I told him. But strangely is in contact with our mutual friends. I don’t have an explanation for this behavious of his. When do you aquas cut off?
thanks… It will take some time for me to get over him. A long time.
Of course I want to continue being friends. But I cannot believe even for a second that he has no feelings for me. I know he is lying.
I never felt the need to tell anyone about my love for him as much as this man. I am not even the sort of girl who runs after men. And now my friends are accusing me by saying that it was my fault that I believed in something that never was and I was the one who went overboard with something like this…:(( I mean love has no definitions. I just waited until I felt okay and went upto him. And I was beginning to break down emotionally so i needed to get it out of my system. better out than in..
Yeah, I hope he understands and remains a good friend. And I do hope Rutu, that things will get better.
CV….
Calm down dear….
I know it hurts..
3 years is a long time. See we appreciate honesty. and he will apreciate that u talked about it. if he wanted to ignore u he wouldn’t have agreed to meet u in the first place. He could have easily made some excuse like he is busy or somthing…So when he has said yes to meeting u that means he has prepared to see u show some emotions, as its natural. My guess is that he will ask u to understand the situation and insist on being friends.
Now u know somtimes it bcomes somwhat ockward. I mean u just expressed ur feelings and he is denying it to be mutual, so even when one tries to show that everything will be just as before there is still some discomfort when he will face u. so that could be one of the reason behind him avoiding u…
I think he will try to cheer u up when u will meet him…
I think he should consider himself rather special for having someone like u loving him….
you will get the better idea about his feelings when u will meet him..
Take care and dont worry..
things will work out for the best…
And to Rutu,
I was flipping through the past notes, so I can be in tune with everyone’s stories. And I noticed you asked me if I was A Scorpio. Does it matter?
QUICKIE-
To CV, I am so sorry to hear that your heart is hurting right now. Truth be told, if someone likes you, you’ll know it, and if you’re getting the cold shoulder, you’ll know that too.
I too am in Love with Someone (Aquarius Guy) that I’ve adored for near to 10 yrs. Some nights my heart hurts so bad that I can feel it in my soul. I’ve wished upon many stars, plucked many leaves off of flowers, and prayed and prayed. But I still lay alone.
I tell you about it after the married guy.
Part 3
After about a week in California we’re on our way to Thailand! Cute, cuddly, kissing, couple.
When we arrive at our Hotel I am in aw of how beautiful of a place that he chose for us. It seemed like an apartment.
We put our things away and off to enoy Asia we went. We end up at an agency that plans your whole vacation for you. We went to Temples to lay with Tigers, Rivers to Ride on Elephants, Islands to scuba Dive, and I even ended up in the emergency room on food poisoning from some bad Oysters. It was awsome, but I would still pick fights here and there. WHO CAN BLAME ME, WHO WANTS TO SHARE THEIR MAN. But of course he isn’t mine, and never was.
One night in the middle of our Love Making, he was intoxicated and calls me his Wifes name!
Well the vacation ends and we go our separate ways in California, only to meet up again for our next fishing season about a month later…
And the Saga Continues in Part 4 and things are surely going down hill ya’ll…
By the way Jenny, you’re absolutely RIGHT! TO ALL PEOPLE, NEVER, I MEAN NEVER, EVER, EVER, EVER, GET INVOLVED WITH A MARRIED PERSON.
Rutu,
Hi. Yeah I just asked him to sit with me so that we can talk and I can just tell him what all has been going on on my side and clear the air up. He was caught a little bit unawares. He agreed to see me and talk with me.
I don’t know. deep in my heart I don’t think it is a “No” at all. I just can’t believe it. This was a big thing for me. I fell really in love with him. And he could only say ” i’d be dishonest if I said the feeling is mutual. ” and it will painful and there is no easy way to deal with this. He was very straightforward and honest. I thank him for that. But he was very special for me. I mean loving someone for three years and then only to find out that its going nowhere.
I am currently “mourning”. It’s hurting a lot. It is my first major heartbreak. He was really special to me.
((((
How do I get over him? Yes, I want to continue being friends cause he taught me a lot and I don’t want to burn bridges. When I go see him, is it okay if I lose my emotions? I will try and control them. But if at all I start crying it isn’t wrong, no? I just want to tell him all about what was going on on my side. And hear his side too. And get a reassurance that he isn’t angry with me and will continue being friends. Cause we both volunteer for the same NGo and will continue running into each other till he moves.
I don’t know. And he suddenly stopped reading my blog two months before I told him. but still continues reading all our friends’ blogs. Just mine all of a sudden. And is slowly has been cutting off communication until I suddenly told him out of the blue recently about how I feel. After all those signs. My heart usually is right. I can’t believe it failed me this time. I knew in my heart that the letter held a no. But somehow it is also saying that the “no” is not true.
I don’t know how to handle myself now.:((
Stay away from married men, Lili.Aqua or not, they are still men.I’ve seen many of my friends fell into this trap.The ending is never pretty.The men always promise them moon and stars but in the end , all lies.I’ve tried in vain to stop my friend.I’m happy now that she realised what a dangerous place she was in.Don’t play with fire, it’ll burn you.Many people say they can have a “deep” friendship with married people , that’s an alarm call because there is usually an underlying physical attraction between them.Even , they both try to control it, it’ll turn into a destructive force that can destroy the friendship that they try to build for years.That’s why to keep a beautiful friendship with married people, one has to know where are the boundaries and respect it.Otherwise, it’s hard to accomplish that desired goal: friendship.
Hey CV..
Sorry to hear that….
But ur gonna remain friends with him, rite…?
take care…
@ Lili
Part-3…
Part 2:
So I go to Alex’s office. He has coffee fresh made and we start to drink. He’s acting a little nervous. I come direct with how old are you and are you married? He says he’s 39 and yes he is married. I ask him do you love your wife? He says yes. They have 1 son together and they’ve been married for 20 years.
Hmmm? I’m wondering why in hell is hitting on me then?
He let’s me know how pretty he thinks I am and how he has noticed me since the first day.
By that evening, after work, I’m in his room eating ice cream. He makes his first move. He tries kissing on my neck and lips. To my recollection I backed off and got kinda mad. He got all appologetic, but the secret meetinbg didn’t stop… I went back and back and back. The relationship became common knowledge on the boat.
Now supposedly he is falling in Love.
So later that season one of our co workers from Thailand is getting married and invited all the crew to his wedding. The captain, other bosses, and us.
FOR ANYONE WHO DOESN’T KNOW, FISHING IS A 16 HR A DAY 7 DAY A WEEK JOB THAT CAN LAST UP TO 6 MONTHS.
So Alex hasn’t been home to see his wife yet.
Now he has to figure out an excuse to go home after so long and leave immediatley again on vacation without her. Some how he does it and off season we meet 1/2 way in California. All expenses paid by him.
While we’re in California he takes me to Disney Land and diffrent beaches and cruising around Universal Studios. By about now I’m starting to not like the idea that he is married and I want him to divorce. Every couple days we’ll have a fight about her. He says he does want to divorce her it will just take some time…
I’LL LEAVE IT AT THAT FOR NOW… CATCH ME IN PART 3
Hey Scorpgal!
Yes, it’s going to be tough for some time to come. But anyway, not telling him was worse. At least he knows now and he’s being nice about it.
I don’t know why, but I think he is the right person for me.
(
CV – Dang it. I am sorry. I hate that crap.
You should be proud of yourself for taking a chance.
One of these days when you find your right guy, you will be glad this did not work out.
I waited so long and now that I have the right guy ~ I look back on the ones that I wanted and was rejected by or hurt by and Now I am so freaking glad that they did not work out.
He is NOT the right guy for you. So, be glad you did not waste too much time.
I know it suxs right now because you are hurting. Well, I wish I could help you thru it.
So that I don’t confuse anyone, I’ll start with one story at a time. How about the married guy? He was a roller coaster ride! His name will be Alex.
I’m 21 years old and 2 years into fishing. The only girl on the boat. I can tend to be oblivious to my surroundings when I’ve been working 16 hrs a day 7 days a week, but I can’t help but to notice everyday I’m down in the bootroom, suiting up, this guy is giving me the googly eyes. Finally one day I’m fed up and I stand up with all intentions to go over there and ask him “why the hell do you keep staring at me!?” Now I’m not stupid, but with 70 guys I don’t need any problems, right. So I go over to him just as he is on his way down to the factory and say… HI what’s your name? PLAN FAILED. When I got close to him, he was kinda cute and he had these cute little innocent eyes. So he responds “Alex”. Hmmm, he’s Mexican I thought to myself. Now me having lived in Mexico I respond in Spanish. Mabey I’m a showoff or mabey I just wanted to impress him, because I knew I could. I tell him that’s my favorite name, and he asks me where I learned spanish. I told him I lived in Mexico for a year. He says” if we get some downtime today, stop by my office for some coffee”.
In my head I’m like yeah you wish, but I’m also kind of tempted. It ends up I do stop by for coffee and that’s where it all begins…
Now unfortunately it’s 12 noon over here and I have to get dressed and go take care of business for the day, so I can’t go on right now, but I’ll be back…
And it’s a no.
Rutu and scorpgal thanx for your response. I agree I need to get over it, esp by now, but it just hurt alot. I think with compromise Scorpio and Aquarius can get along well in a relationship. I have female friends that are Aquas. We have a lot in common. I get along great with fix signs, I like strong individuals. But I wish the Aqua men that I have dated would have been more caring and honest with me.
Maybe I will find another Aquarius guy……
CV ~ so what if he has told you that he is totally in to you and you waited so long to open the mail?
I could not imagine what he would be feeling right now. : (
Scorpgal: Heh! I am deader than you right now.
Li’l state of balance we hang in.
Jenny: Baaad pun. :p You C, V are in a state of nerves right now. One can go on and on. :p
Yeah, I tend to take things to the heart very easily. Must be the cusp. 
Rutu: Ha ha. Yeah right I’ll give you my mail ID and password. :p I was even thinking of getting someone esle to open it up and break the bad news. GOd. :p This is turning into a little movie of sorts. Thank you so much for taking the time out for lending advice! Hmmm. So you’ve felt this “connection-vibe” thingy too eh? And there are people trying to convince me that it’s not there. For if he had any interest he would have told me ages back. He does go out of his way to help everyone. And yeah, I fall in that list too. There have been times when I was asking others and he pitched in. Or even if i wasn’t, he would give a link or a cue. It’s mostly denoting our common interests that he points out. Which is weird, it’s like boom! I like him, but ignore him and he suddenly is checking out my social network profile, reading my blog and beginning to talk etc. I guess I’m scared cause never has anyone felt so right!
Oh GOd. I’d better not discuss this too much no? Then, I’d better come back after I’ve opened the mail. Wish me good luck ye all.
Lili..
Go ahead and share ur stories… i am VERY interested…
Are u not a scorpio girl…
Alright Jenny! I totally agree. All of my Aqaurius friends and I are still totally friends. My 1st Love from 10 years ago and I are still in a relationship. At first we were 15 years old and young. He was/is such a cutie he couldn’t settle down, but after some time went by I continued my friendship with him, which was a huge payoff because 10 years later, (today) we’ve both grown a lot and now I know we’ll be in eachothers lives forever. We may even end up married in the future only time will. There has been numerous occasions where we are put in the same social scene and regardless of who or how many people are around, this guy always grabs me, pulls me close, pay total attention to me. I remember one night I was at the juke box and he came over and played a song for me. Everyone was there, that mattered in our world at the time and he didn’t care. He played a Stevie Wonder song for me, That Girl. Now on to my roomate, she and I are still cool conversational buddies. And the guy who was married, this guy took me to Asia, Disney Land, Orgeon’s Vineyards, ect. Even though he stayed married he still keeps a close relationship with me. Ofcourse his wife doesn’t know. And for the girl on the boat that turned out to be like a sister. She sent me to Africa to stay with her family for a month and a 1/2. It takes time to understand Aquarius’s tweaks and twiches. I’ve had fights with almost all of them, but our Love for eachother proved to be the winning factor, because now I have many friendships/relationships that seem like they will last a life time. TO ALL WHO ARE STIR CRAZY OVER THEM, QUIT PAYING MORE ATTENTION TO THEM THAN YOU ARE TO YOURSELF. They can be Loyal, you just have to give them a chance show you.
Just read the email like reading your “CV” , CV ! LOL!
Aquarius men are seriously not aloof or commitment phobic at all. I know a couple of them and they’re all good people,good friends.Actually,I’m in a dilemma at the moment because there are two Aqua men who are chasing me at the moment.Both keep saying they think of me all the time, even at nights.One already confessed he loved me and told me that he would change his bad habits for me .He took me home to see his friends and his family. The other I just met three days ago already wanted a serious relationship with me! I was like please slow down and be my friend first, get to know each other.I don’t want you to waste your time and effort on someone who you find out in the future not the person who you think you know.He was like I don’t care, I can’t control my feeling! He even wanted to buy a laptop just because he wants to chat with me!I tried to stop him but it’s useless because I know how stubborn Aqua me are! They are always worried that I’m upset at them if I’m distant! My goodness, what more can I ask? They’re too good for me , yet one told me that I’m an angel! I don’t want to hurt any of them so I told them both that I want to be friends.I know it would hurt them now but it is better than hurting them deeply when we get involved because of timing issue and I also need to improve my own self before getting involved with anyone.Only time will tell if I’ve a future with any of these guys.All I can say is that Aquarius men are awsome! At least the ones I know.
Rutu, thanks for all those enlightening details on how an Aquarius acts when he’s interested in more than a friendship! It totally describes my Aqua! He’s always staring at from a distance or when I look at him I always catch him looking at me. I got a hint he liked me when he hugged me all the time, but he always grabbed me on the waist.
And the way we realized we liked each other was so similar as what you explain! We had this conversation, he told me he felt attracted to me, what he liked about me. I told him I felt attracted to him too, etc. We know we like each other but there’s no romantic mushiness.
And yes, you feel the awkwardness….haha. He is very talkative with the other girls, but when he’s with me, it’s like he doesn’t know what to talk about.
Thanks for the post.
CV…..
U HAVE GOT BUNCH OF POSITIVE RESPONSES…..
GO AHEAD…OR GIVE ME UR MAIL ID AND PASSWARD AND I WILL OPEN IT……
Ok i will have to write it all over again…
i think ur having the common confusion that most people have about aquas… how to differentiate between simple friendliness.. i think he could be interested in u as he is trying to break touch barrier.. had it been just a friendly touch he wouldnt have been ackward and hesitant.. it would have been more like a arm around shoulder, not around ur back, Lightly…
Even if i am interested in someone when its in earlier stage i will keep my feelings secret., even from my friends. as i need to sort out number of things.. like once developing an interest next job is to understand her better..! so i will ask her personal questions..about what she likes and doesnt like etc. etc. her favourte songs and moves anything that helps me understand her.. does he talk to u like that..?
also when there is attraction there is a sort of ackwardness when i am around that person.. now over some time i will get more confident and this ackwardness will reduce but if it was there initially then it shows more than frindliness..
even when he is ignoring u, is he there when u need some help.. u wont have to ask him, does he voluntry comes up for it? if u are feeling a connection seeing him eye to eye there are good chances he is feeling it tooo.. but its the begining and so u cant expect him to say these things to his friends.. i keep my feelings to myself. i keep them from even close friends of mine coz i dont like my feelings being discussed. u and he will be the first to know not his friends…
me and my scorp girl do have this connection. and only both of us knew it. we never never said anything about it. it was understood. i thought she didnt realise but she did. and we followed it by spending more time with each other..
actions speak.. rite..? she said it once,”its good that we think alike”. and the other time quite erlier when we were sitting in a room she said,”i like to be with u in a big room, lets hope nobody distrubs us”. it doesnt have to be romantic..
another hint is i pay close attention to her.. stare her BUT when she is not watching.. listen to her carefully, remember small details of what she said. so much so that she is suprised at times..and says like,” oh u remember”.
well he is giving u stares, paying special attention that ur comfertable during travel. just showing in many ways that he cares… ITS GOOOOOD.
u r rite in thinking he could be pulling bck as he is having to go away.. and we dont like emotional mess..so he will try to keep it light but should include a positive note for future scope for development…
SO Dear CV, PLEASE Please open the mail now…
CV – Girl, open the mail!! The suspense is killing me!
WELL, WELL, WELL. IT SEEMS TO ME AQUARIUS’S DRIVE PEOPLE INSANE! I AM THE MASTER OF MEETING AQUARIUS’S. I AM FEMALE. MY FIRST LOVE IS AQUARIUS, THEN HE SPLIT WITH NO REASON, BROKE MY HEART. THEN ME AND THIS GIRL BECOME FRIENDS FROM WORK AND SHE WANTS TO BE ROOMATES, SHE HAPPENS TO BE AQUA. THAT LASTS ABOUT 2 YEARS, THEN WE MOVE ON FROM EACHOTHER. I GET A NEW JOB IN IN ALASKA AS A FISHERWOMAN END UP DATING THIS MARRIED MAN FOR 2 YEARS, HE’S AQUA (AND BY THE WAY MARRIED TO A SCORPIO.) THAT FELL OUT, OF COURSE. THEN A GIRL WHO I FEEL SORRY FOR BECAUSE PEOPLE TALK SO MUCH CRAP ABOUT HER ON THE BOAT BECOME BEST FRIENDS LIKE SISTERS, TURNS OUT TO BE AQUA, THAT DIDN’T GO TOO WELL UTIMATLEY. AND FINALLY THE LAST GUY I HOOKED UP WITH 8 MONTHS AGO FOR A COUPLE MONTHS ENDS UP BEING AQUA. I DON’T SCOUT THEM OUT THEY FIND ME! SUCK ME IN AND THEN SUCK ME DRY. THIS IS BY MEN AND WOMEN. I’VE LEARNED A LOT ABOUT THEM OVER THE PAST TEN YEARS AND I FEEL LIKE THE GURU NOW. theres been other aquariu’s along the way. im open to share my stories and experiences in more detail if any one cares to ask and know.AND BELIEVE ME THEY GET JUICY. i might also learn something. IF THERE’S ANYTHING TO LEARN AFTER THE PAST DECADE. BY THE WAY I’M 25 YEARS OLD, RIGHT NOW AND I’M GONNA KEEP MY ASTROLOGICAL SIGN A MYSTERY, FOR NOW…
And yeah, one more thing. Do you aquarians don’t like it if a girl comes upto you and tells of her feelings? So many places have this description of aqua men liking chasing other girls who don’t give them the time of the day and avoid those who love them…
wonder why my comment is not showing…?
CV..
Cool.. Indian connection works..
well his behaviour towards u is, like u said very friendly. and i believe thats how even i would behave with most of my female friends. but then i do have a scorp girl in my group whom im interested in. now i think even she would be confused about whether im treating her just as a friend or have specific interest in her. and one way to tell is yes…. invading ur personal space. but more than that there is a sort of awkwardness when i am around her. thinking first and then taking actions. another thing is i speak with her about about personal things to a certain extent. Well but it has taken some time for me to do that and if ur aqua atleast makes an effort to do that then its a postive thing. also i make special effort to know more about her so i ask her some personal questions… not very personal but what are her favourate songs and movies etc. etc… even when i am ignoring her i will make sure that i m there when she needs some help or support…
and in order to start a relationship or even admit my feelings i will need to have sorted out lots of things first. I HATE EMOTIONAL MESS. so after having develped attraction i try to figure out the person first befor admitting or working on it. And i keep secrets mostly about my feelings even from the close friends of mine simply because i dont like people talking about my feelings in first place.. its just plain PRIVATE. so if u think there is sort of connection when u both see eachothers eye to eye then there are good chances he feels it too…. well me and my girl had this connection to but i or she NEVER talked about it..NEVER.. and i thought maybe its just me who feels it and not her. but as the days are passing by we both made efforts to spend more time togther… for me it doesnt necessarily have to be romantic. i can be interestd in a person in more than one way.. and i respect frindship, trust, mutual understanding. and i found her intersting enough to spend time with her. None of said anything directly, no one from our group knows. its just both of use who feel it and somehow understand without needing words to explain every single thing. we talk about lots of things… and i understand her well enough to complete her sentences… she has said, “its good that we think alike”. sometime back, we were sitting in a room and she said, “i like to be with u in a big room, lets hope nobody distrubs us”. Not to mention sombody just banged the door as soon as she completed her sentence….
i try to make her laugh and i try to remember every little thing about her… so much so she is often taken by surprise..
i hope i gave u enough clue to be able to sort out between frinds or more than frinds.. i do believe since he has touched u in a sort of hesitant way it could be because of his feelings. if u were just frind he would have been cool with touch like arm around ur shoulder.. thats friendly.. but slight touch around back doesnt really qualify for just friendly touch. perhaps he was trying to break touch barrier. u r rite in thinking he could be reluctant to work on these things bcoz he is moving away and like i said i dont like emotional mess, i will keep things light and cool but with a hint of further scope for development..
SO NOW CV, WILL U PLEASE OPEN THE MAIL…..PLEASE…
Hey Rutu,
I was reading the thread slowly above. Didn’t know you were Indian. Cool, same here!
I am a scorp-sagi cusp actually and he’s hardcore aqua. Many of the traits you all have been discussing above are so damn true!
Anyway, I am probably in a denial mode and that’s why not opening up the letter. esp to save myself from getting hurt. 
( And I usually don’t deal with things well. Have been going through a rough patch anyway for a long time. I tried to note down somethings here about his behaviour towards me. Now, they can be all overtly friendly behaviour, but then maybe not? Rutu, through your aqua eyes, what does this seem like?
Has touched my arm and back lightly during conversation. He didn’t do this earlier.
Entered my personal space while talking. Stood inches away. Clasped the back of his neck while speaking.
Sometimes uses my name often in conversation.
Contacted me when I was ignoring him
Brushed my hand “accidentally” on the pretext of helping me put my luggage up on the rack on a bus. Even though I was absolutely fine and had gotten my bag completely and safely in place.
I Felt at times he was staring at me.
Passed attitude and acted really cool with me at times.
Read my blog without my knowledge. Contacted me when he found we had common interests.
Winked at me occasionally when in conversation.
Noticed when I was getting sad and came over to strike up conversation.
Interrupted my conversation with another to make his presence felt.
Tilts his head while speaking.
Smiled really brightly when we ran across each other unexpectedly.
Mailed back saying sorry about not being able to stop and chat cause he was busy at an event where he spotted me.
Offered to carry my bag, vacated his chair for me, carried my bags, held open doors, made sure I was okay when travelling by public transport when I was uncomfortable with a co-passenger.
Passed random playful comments regarding me in a group.
And then Boom! All of a sudden for the past two months he has cut off communication with me more or less and has become very curt even when in person. Like he doesn’t care.
I try to keep in touch by trying to text him, borrow books, mail him with random queries, contact on Facebook etc. I send a mail, get a reply and when I mail him again, there’s no reply. But sometimes a series of exchanges keeps happening.
Anyway, I mailed him accidentally, cause I wanted to save the mail and I clicked on send by mistake and it reached him and now I am scared of reading his reply. Our mutual friend who knows him better tried to convince me he has no feelings for me. But when we look at each other, something passes between us in our gaze. I don’t know. It’s almost electric like both of us know yet are hesitating. I am avoiding getting hurt so that’s why I’m keeping myself from reading that mail. How much does intuition play a role in feeling that he also likes me. I get a feeling that he’s cutting off cause he’s moving away soon. All the bloody mystery will be solved once with the opening of the mail and I don’t know why am I analyzing so much or trying to justify his actions. So what could it be? BEfore I actually go and face the mail?
(
Dear CV,
Please open it up. dont take things so seriously….at worst even it says that he is not interested nothing is stoping u from developng a frindship with him which over the time could turn romantic… once he begins talking and spending time with u. so no is not the final answer. and like u said if he is moving away wouldnt it be a better option to let him know ur feeling listen his side as well than just loosing the opportunity to say anything in first place. if he understands that ur interested his way of looking at u will change.. it will be a slight push to him to at least think of u romantically.. which opens up further opportunities…
SO dont worry. open it up.
Rutu,
( From what I have spoken to a mutual friend he probably isn’t even interested in me. But sometimes I get a gut feeling that he probably does. Many times my intuition has been right. What if it fails this time? I don’t know why but I am taking this very seriously, cause I know he is the right person for me. But if he really did like me he would have told me right? I wasn’t overbearing I hope. All I did was tell him how exactly I felt and asked him to sit down with me and talk. The sad part is he’s going to move away from my city soon to one across the state. It’s so scary. The rejection bit. I somehow feel there’s a no in the mail and I don’t want to confirm it, making it blissful ignorance.
Hi. Thanks a bunch for the reply. I mailed him a couple of days back telling him about what I feel for him frankly. He replied, but I am scared of opening up the mail and reading it.
He is very outgoing and very friendly with everyone, so I’m hoping I haven’t misinterpreted his actions. But yeah, the sudden cutting off is worrying me. Do I read his mail? Or should I take my time in opening it up?
CV
i think u should take some steps to show ur affection. I wouldnt mind a girl taking first step. I actually like confidence in a girl. once ur getting those signals like bright smile, ackwardness around u, hot and coldness.. it means there are good chances that he likes u. but we are slow to act on our feelings. it could also be possible that he is waiting to see how it is from ur side..? trying to figure out if ur interested in him or not. so either way i think it would make sense to show ur feelings. Dont be overbearing but state it with conviction. show it through actions or even say them.
Hey Rutu!
Thanks for responding! Already commented, but I shall just copy-it down again for you:
“Heya! I chanced upon your site while googling away for advice online. I am really in love with an Aquarian (he’s older than me by 9 years) for three years. I have been wondering if I should take the first step and tell him about how I feel. And then I’ve been worried if he will not like girl apparoaching first. He acted very friendly in the beginning when I just had a crush but would act cold around him. And then for an year we got chatting and would read each others blogs, mail each other etc. But there have been a few times when he acted very odd in my presence by avoiding me and then coming over to sit next to me, smile brightly, and then pass attitude around. For the past couple of months he’s been acting really off and seeminly “cutting me off. ” Or so I think. I haven’t really bugged him or anything and just giving him his space. But trouble is I am now in love with him and want to tell him. What should I do?”
Do let me know. thanks!
CV
What help u want..?
Can somebody please help me here? *whimper* Please ref: to comments posted above Scorpio Babyy’s. Thanks.
Scorpio babby,
I am happy that everything is going well for you, but don’t let the mentality that he only wants you for sex affects how you feel about him. I know we tend to be very suspicious
When it is all boiled down, most people want sex. It is up to you though to set the pace things. Of course when he is pushy about it then it is obvious that he is after just that. Other than that, relax and enjoy communicating and having a good time with him. For now, i think you should just let things be.
The chips will fall in place if it is what is to be, ya know…
Strange News
Your Astrological Sign May Not Be What You Think It Is By Pedro Braganca, Special to LiveScience
Figure 1. The vernal equinox marks the first day of spring and occurs at the intersection of the ecliptic and the celestial equator. The vernal equinox also marks the zero point of the Zodiac.
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Figure 1. The vernal equinox marks the first day of spring and occurs at the intersection of the ecliptic and the celestial equator. The vernal equinox also marks the zero point of the Zodiac.
Figure 2. If you were born between March 21 and April 19, your astrological sign is said to be Aries. But this was only true for a while, back when the system was set up in 600 BC. Today, the Sun is no longer within the constellation of Aries during much of that period. From March 11 to April 18, the Sun is actually in the constellation of Pisces!
Figure 3. The graphic shows the precession of the equinoxes from 600 BC to 2600 AD. In 600 BC, the intersection of the ecliptic and celestial equator is in western Aries and marked by the Vernal Equinox. In the year 2007, the intersection is in Pisces. It’s a great conversation starter: “What’s your sign?”
But before you ask or answer that question, consider this: your zodiac sign corresponds to the position of the sun relative to constellations as they appeared over 2200 years ago!
The science behind astrology may have its roots in astronomy but don’t confuse these two disciplines. Astronomy can explain the position of the stars in the sky but it’s up to you to determine what, if anything, their alignment signifies.
The Constellations of the Zodiac
The ecliptic, or the position of the Sun as it’s perceived from the revolving Earth, passes through the constellations that formed the Zodiac – Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Leo, Virgo, Libra, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Aquarius and Pisces. Zodiac signs were originally determined by which constellation the Sun was “in” on the day you were born.
Early astronomers observed the Sun traveling through the signs of the Zodiac in the course of one year, spending about a month in each. Thus, they calculated that each constellation extends 30 degrees across the ecliptic.
However, a phenomenon called precession has altered the position of the constellations we see today.
Precession and Astrology
The first day of spring in the Northern Hemisphere was once marked by the zero point of the Zodiac. Astronomers call this the vernal equinox and it occurs as the ecliptic and celestial equator intersect.
Around 600 BCE, the zero point was in Aries and was called the “first point of Aries.” (Figure 1) The constellation Aries encompassed the first 30 degrees of the ecliptic; from 30 to 60 degrees was Taurus; from 60 to 90 degrees was Gemini; and so on for all twelve constellations of the Zodiac.
Unbeknownst to the ancient astrologers, the Earth continually wobbles around its axis in a 25,800-year cycle. This wobble—called precession—is caused by the gravitational attraction of the Moon on Earth’s equatorial bulge.
Over the past two-and-a-half millennia, this wobble has caused the intersection point between the celestial equator and the ecliptic to move west along the ecliptic by 36 degrees, or almost exactly one-tenth of the way around. This means that the signs have slipped one-tenth—or almost one whole month—of the way around the sky to the west, relative to the stars beyond.
For instance, those born between March 21 and April 19 consider themselves to be Aries. Today, the Sun is no longer within the constellation of Aries during much of that period. From March 11 to April 18, the Sun is actually in the constellation of Pisces! (Figure 2) See also Figure 3, which demonstrates the precession of the equinoxes from 600 BCE to 2600.
Your “Real Sign”
The table below lists the dates when the Sun is actually within the astronomical constellations of the Zodiac, according to modern constellation boundaries and corrected for precession (these dates can vary a day from year to year).
You will most likely find that once precession is taken into account, your zodiac sign is different. And if you were born between November 29 and December 17, your sign is actually one you never saw in the newspaper: you are an Ophiuchus! The eliptic passes through the constellation of Ophiuchus after Scorpius.
Now you really have something cool with which to start that conversation!
Capricorn – Jan 20 to Feb 16
Aquarius – Feb 16 to Mar 11
Pisces – Mar 11 to Apr 18
Aries – Apr 18 to May 13
Taurus – May 13 to Jun 21
Gemini – Jun 21 to Jul 20
Cancer – Jul 20 to Aug 10
Leo – Aug 10 to Sep 16
Virgo – Sep 16 to Oct 30
Libra – Oct 30 to Nov 23
Scorpius – Nov 23 to Nov 29
Ophiuchus – Nov 29 to Dec 17
Sagittarius – Dec 17 to Jan 20
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So let’s drink and be merry as newly Virgos or Libras…
Paro,
So recently me and my aquarius have been talking on the phone and he has been close to me lately..and he has been stepping his game up by texting me throughout the day..something he normally wouldnt do. He is sexually attracted to me also. He talks about me and him hooking up. Just because Im a Scorpioo doesnt mean Im just going to be quick to have sex.. So as of right now he calls me and everything has been going great, but my greatest fear is what if he just wants to have sex with me..and use me for what he can get out of me…I dont know what to do…I actually have a ex-boyfriend who is a Leo and I know he loves me but I no longer feel strongly attracted to him I used to..However, I’m like willing to drop everything for this Aquarius…HELP ME!!! WHAT SHOULD I DO???
Heya! I chanced upon your site while googling away for advice online. I am really in love with an Aquarian (he’s older than me by 9 years) for three years. I have been wondering if I should take the first step and tell him about how I feel. And then I’ve been worried if he will not like girl apparoaching first. He acted very friendly in the beginning when I just had a crush but would act cold around him. And then for an year we got chatting and would read each others blogs, mail each other etc. But there have been a few times when he acted very odd in my presence by avoiding me and then coming over to sit next to me, smile brightly, and then pass attitude around. For the past couple of months he’s been acting really off and seeminly “cutting me off. ” Or so I think. I haven’t really bugged him or anything and just giving him his space. But trouble is I am now in love with him and want to tell him. What should I do?
TY,
I hate what happened with you. I think you should move on. If he was with you physically and has not been around after that… well, you need to move on. Let it go.
Let another one find you. You deserve to be treated good.
Rutu,
u sound like my aqua, haha!
but i am getting tired of waiting for him to be direct. i mean i think i have showed some interest and at times i actually get out of my way to show him just that.
I guess he is confused as well because i also wait and see, evaluate, and calculate since my rising is in aquarius, so i think we are doing the same thing to each other.
I sort of shield him from my scorpionic intense emotions tho. I’m not really comfortable with expressing my emotions anyway. I guess it is the strange scorpio- aquarius combo of mine.
I hope will work out one day tho, when we get past our ridiculous calculations and evaluations.
I hope the same happens for u as well
Rutu,
u sound like my aqua, haha!
but i am getting tired of waiting for him to be direct. i mean i think i have showed some interest and at times i actually get out of my way to show him just that.
I guess he is confused as well because i also wait and see, evaluate, and calculate since my rising is in aquarius, so i think we are doing the same thing to each other.
I sort of shield him from my scorpionic intense emotions tho. I’m not really comfortable with expressing my emotions anyway. I guess it is the strange scorpio- aquarius combo of mine.
I hope will work out one day tho, when we get past our ridiculous calculations and evaluations.
I hope the same happens for u as well
paro,
But i do give subtle hints. and will like to watch how she responds to them. I will play cool till i see that she is intersted too and i have things sorted out.
once she also responds positively then i can be more direct. but even then i wont say i am a fast moving persons especially with relationships. i wait and see, evaluate, calculate and then make a move. but i surly will..
Rutu,
The thing with scorpio females is that u can’t ignore them if you like them because they constantly want assurance, especially if they like u.
Hi Ty, hi scorpio baby
Ty i dont knw what exactly happend with ur situation so wont be rite for me to comment or take sombody’s side.
But u are rite about one thing. i do express my anger or hurt by being cold and ignoring someone. at the samtime if i really like someone and interested in her even at that time i can be ignoring her in someway till i get comfertable with my feeling for her and having her close to me.
But i wish other person to show interest even when i am ignoring as without it i wont feel assured. if i feel interested i will show interest in subtle ways. i will give clues and want them to be reciprocated as well. But if the girl continues to ignore me and not show interst or treat me at par with others; obiviously i wont show anything but will loose interest in her. As it is happening in my case. the girl i like seem to have time for group only and not for two of us and this has surely annoyed me. So i almost always find some reason for not attending event or activity.
I have been on here for awhile but I starting to think as well if dating Aqua is even intriguing anyone. Yes I like the suspense but for it to go on and on should me that some Aqua just don’t care about how other fell. Yes they are surround by people because of the charm and sense of humor. But do they really think those people are friends or people that they can use. I sorry if I sound harsh but I now Aquas are just as sensitive like Scorpio but the express in a moody coldhearted manner. The guys Aquas on this board sound like sweetheart s. I know we Scorpio can be a bit demanding and stubborn but damn why such foul treatment. I actually open my self up to my ex Aquas guy and I don’t normally do that. I was with him psychically and he just was done with like he used me. I hope there are better Aqua men than that. It hurts me to think that people can be like this. Makes me want to cry. OK I done.
Hello
I need help.
Right now I really like a aquarius I dont know his descendant or anything but im so into him, but the weird thing is I act as if I dont. Im so happy when his presence is around. I’m not sure if he likes me or not but we text every now n then but it can be a day at school where he talks to me in it can be a week later and he wont. Does he like me?
Im trying not to get too close to him because I’m scared that if I start liking him too much I will get my feelings hurt. Everyday or most of the time I want to text him but i dont.
What should I do…im so confused..and I like him so much…I want him to be deeply into me..i know that he has some interest in me….HELP!!! PLEASE!!!
I am an aquarius male, not sure if man or boy, but male! lol. everything that has been said here is true, i have just met another scorpio girl, a bit younger than me, shes funny, smart, doent not know what to make of me, and i know that, all aqua guys know they have that effect on scorp women! in fact all women, but here is a tip for all aqua guys interested in scorp gals… they have other guys interested in them too… because they are so damn sexy and femine,,, so take your time, give them abot of thier own medicine…. shoot ”that gaze” back at them… they know what it is!! feel that electricity and send it back to them… they wont know if your doing it intentionally or if its just happening.
take it from me, i alsmost went out with a scorp before, they some how are magents to aquas and all men infact. so play once or twice and then go for it… if you need any other advice then please call me.
Oh and on more thing, scorps tend to return WITH INTEREST what you give to them… if you give them a flower, they will give you ten back, if you ‘hurt them’ they will hurt you back ten times worse!!! treat them well and enjoy the riide!!
I am still so in love with my Aqua man!! He is so awesome!
my aqua bf is a gift from heaven ,, he is tunder , generous , shy , quiet , gentle , honest and i love him
the only problem he have ,, some time he act cold with me but are we as a scorpios are PERFECT ??..
i know im so demanding no matter what he do !
and as a scorpio i have no patient and this a big problem ??
he is the most wonderful man i have ever met in my whole life .. aqua needs space
they need to feel free , they are so giving ppl
when they are happy , so as a scorpios our responsbility to make them feel happy… by listening to their story and believe in every thing they dream of ??
i wish me and my aqua soulmate ,, will live together for ever ,, he is the man that my body and soul chose.
im a scorpio and they say best matches for a scorp is pisces and cancer i havent dated anyone but i do have friends…im currently dating a scorpio guy and let me tell you it doesnt seem like a relationship it seems like he wants me when its convenient for him..i get the whole wanting to be alone thing cuz hello im a scorp..
but i think he has more issues he needs to resolve..i dont know but i like attention and what hes not giving me im getting from this amazing aquarius guy!!! we talk about almost anything and had an instant click….whish i thought a coincidence becaus ei had dated an aquarius before and it was the same we would talk all night never have a dull moment and i swear to this day he is my soul mate we still talk and are good friends but he is my soul mate…and i had a friend who has contacted me a week ago and i hadnt heard from him in a long time but we were talking on the phone like we had seen each other ohnly yesterday…and i thought to myself hmm let me as when his bday is because i had forgot..
i told myself if hes and aquarius baby im going to freak and sure enough his birthday landed in aquarius…so i think aquarius and scorpio go well together!!!! i dont mind my guy having gal pals as long as i can trust him and he lets me have my freedom as well….im a very faithful person when im in a serious relationship…i do get jealous but at the same time if we cant trust than i dont have a problem…cuz i know im the only one that has his heart
scorpgal,
I hope you have better luck than I did with my AQUA.
I am now with a CAP. You said it has been almost 2 months.
With my AQUA it was great 2 months into the relationship also.
I would be curious to see how the relationship unfolds 6 months to 1 year from now. I wish you well and good luck……
Monroe – Girl I am so with you:
So , air signs don’t always go well with air signs, it doesn’t really matter about signs really guys , I mean not 100% it can mold a person a certain way , certain traits , but it isn’t the end all and be all .
Are signs do make a difference. But we all make choices too.
You can choose not to name call and get dramatic.
You can choose to be calm.
My Aqua guy and I are still doing AWESOME. It has been almost 2 months now. I know that he loves to be around people and get to know them. Girls included. I understand that so when this happens I choose not to get emotional about it and be understanding of how he is. Now that is just one more thing that I adore about him. He went to Hooters the other day with a friend of his and told me about it. This is something that I would have completely frowned upon BUT I made a choice to not get mad or jealous. There is no point in it and I love him. I know he loves me. He puts up with all my crazy quirks and so I will allow him to be him. I have had to make myself let him be who he is. Is appears the more freedom I give him the more he wants to be around me. I just let him do what he wants. It seems to work!
Scott, how to get the scorpio back– listen to what Monroe told you. Tell her that you want to be with her etc. when she starts acting like a bitch I am willing to bet she is having an insecure moment. We need to be reassured often that you love us. I dont know why – but that is the way it is. I mean like twice a day. You can even tell her how you feel about her degrading you. But if she chooses to continue find someone else. You deserve better than that.
I am a Scorpio girl and I’m completely in love with my Aquarius mate. We’ve been going out for a short time, but right now its been the best relationship of my life. We are just so incredibly attracted to each other in every possible way. He always goes above and beyond to make me happy and always tells me that he loves me and that I’m beautiful. I found out that his Venus is in Capricorn and that his Moon is in Cancer.
To find out a person’s Moon, Venus or Mercury sign you need their birthdate and time of birth.
It is very important if you want to know how they will react to certain situations.
When I first met my Aqua friend. I didn’t know he was an Aqua. I sensed him as an earth sign. When I found out he was an Aqua I was totally surprised! He didn’t act like an Air sign to me. I sensed he felt he wasn’t good enough.
When I finally had his birth info and made his birth chart, I found out what I sensed was perfectly right! He’s an Aqua, but his Moon is in Virgo and his Venus is in Capricorn! What I sensed was his emotional side!
Knowing a person’s Moon sing helps you know what makes them feel emotionally secure. Knowing their Venus sign let’s you know their romantic style, how they will court you.
oh and by the way , to say that air signs work better with other air signs, not true , ” my” aqua dated a libra , off and on for 7 years , they would fight all the time , and every time he tried to move on she would munipulate him into going back making him feel guilty in one way or another. And the last stunt she pulled because she saw he was leaving for good , she lied and said that she was on birth control and wasn’t , now they have a child together and she is still ruining his life and all the relationships he gets into , like with ours. That was a main problem within the relationship as she would use their son as a way to break us up ” you can’t see your son if she is around” and that meant us not being together which caused other problems , as I was suppose to move in , but if i moved in , he would not be able to see his son. He doesn’t have the money for court right now either and they always seem to favour the mother. He has love for her because she is the mother of his child but he is not in love with her and I know that , i wish I was strong enough to deal , but I don’t want to be in competition with any women. I want my man to myself.
So , air signs don’t always go well with air signs, it doesn’t really matter about signs really guys , I mean not 100% it can mold a person a certain way , certain traits , but it isn’t the end all and be all .
how do you figure out their moon/sun sign , my birthday is Oct, 26th 1985 and his is feb,18th , 1979 , what does that mean really ? It seems that it means more than just the signs.
KPart I agree. I thought my Aqua’s moon was in Scorpio but it turns out it’s a degree away in Libra but in the 8th House (which is link to Scorpio).
And like Monroe acknowledge one the rare occasions when he lets his temper blow it’s pretty explosive ( 8th house).
Scott — how to get her back … it’s hard since she’s that young girl. I’d easily be won over with a ring
but she is likely too young to take that step. (that’s my Cancer moon anyway. Suddenly I’m really craving security).
Anyway, what are her Venus and Moon signs?
The moon would show what she needs to feel secure emotionally. The Venus would show what she values in love.
P.S. Betty. I have forgotten! I’m goign to start it right now…
I think the way an Aquarian for example, reacts to emotional issues has to do with what sign his/her Moon is. I think it is very important to know where his/her Venus and Mars are. The Sun Sign gives the overall picture, but those planets really let you know how they deal with specific issues.
I guess not aquas are the same , because mine did the same things to me. He was too dramatic and emotional , when I would TRY and explain why I was upset or unhappy , he would start to talk over me and not let my voice be heard , I would always ask him ” if you want to hear my side then why do you talk over me and not hear me” I would start out talking in a calm manner , I was the one who wanted to talk things out , but it always ended in yelling because he would talk over me and push my bottons. He always did that , push my bottons , almost like he wanted me to be dramatic and hostile toward him. Then on top of things he would say he hated the fighting and the drama ??????? My auqa was just as emotional , sensitive and dramatic like I can be , so what gives here? Your an aqua scott , what gives ? Do auqas like to test their partners to see how much they can get away with?
And to be honest , if you want to be with your scorp, well , I know what I would want is the truth. Something like ” i love you , I really do and I see a future here , but I am having a hard time understanding your outbursts, they hurt me and make me confused and a little scared to carry on with you , I am trying my best and that’s all I can do , help me understand you . And if someone said that to me , I would try my best to make it work .
Synthia,
That was very funny!“I miss you.” Later… “”Don’t ever fucking call me again.” This bond is OVERRR!!!!!”
So TRUE! So what are we aqua’s suppossed to do then? Everytime we approach, we get the door slammed in our face (not having ANY idea what we have done) and end up being a punching bag. My scorpio woman has moments of guilt. When we are alone, she is coy and shy and very friendly but with an audience…sorry, but MONSTEROUS with drama and sarcastic slaps. Back and forth, back and forth. I wish I can just take her alone and then everything will be normal but of course life does not consist of never having anyone around you.
You see your aqua LOVES you or else…really….would not even be bothered. We don’t have the mental space for ANY emotion for someone we “don’t see.” We do not dislike, just disregards, so he is in constant inner turmoil with huge amounts of conflict because he is hurting three people (himself, you and his wife)…wow…too much.
I suggest you lay it on the line and EXPLAIN your emotional outburts and dramatic exits. He will understand, we do not judge, we just need to know..to put it together like a puzzle. Just don’t always go after him, like you dislike him (which he probably thinks, so why leave the other person for someone he cannot be sure will be there for him, yet his feelings are overwhelming).
Any advice on how to put my scorpio back on track with me?
The thing that keeps me going is that I know that the aqua , our own individual aqua’s no matter who they are with , or what they are doing , us Scorpio’s that they met will always be on their minds. Because of the fact that we showed them things that no other sign will ever show them. We have shown them the best times, the best conversation, the best fun and friend to hang out with , the best connection and chemistry and the best sex , as us scorpios are creative in every way and do things and are willing to do things that other signs may do , but we are the best at it. They stick with who they may be with and what they know because its comfotable to them , but that doesn’t mean they are happy. Aqua’s are addicted to Scorpio’s and I am convinced of that. Just remember all the times you caught them smiling at you , or saying things like ” I have never felt this before” and all the things you taught them , and the bond and internal connection that was felt between both. Yeah , it sucks that we can’t be with our aqua’s but I feel better knowing that no matter where they are or who they are with they are thinking of us. I don’t want to be with my aqua anymore , and when he pops back up which I know he will again in a matter of time, I will NOT go back. But us Scorpio’s need to know that we have more power than any other sign over the aqua’s then we might think. Now for all the Aqua’s reading this , I am not saying this in an evil manner. I am just telling it like it is.
Scott this part you wrote is me: “until time and time again she had the need to create dramatic exits, push me away with her mood swings, play jealousy games,creates unnecssary drama and then when confronted hides away and most of all, cannot seem to get a grip on the emotions she experiences (which I might add fluctuate hourly).”
And I can’t help it. My Aqua might as well have written it.
Dramatic Exits? Check “This bond is OVERRR!!!!!”
Mood Swings? Yep. “I miss you.” Later… “”Don’t ever fucking call me again.”
Jealousy? “Where are you going?” (actually, that just popped out. I didn’t mean to ask that. LOL. I’m not jealous!)
Hides away? ::Syn looks at caller I.D. It’s Aqua. She turns off phone because he didn’t call sooner and needs punishing. She deletes him from Twitter. She puts a password on the only blog he knows about (not scorpioland)::
But you know what? All this is after months and months of emotional turmoil. This is me in HURT MODE. He’s hurt me. And he doesn’t want to listen or see the reality of a situation unless I punctuate it with a dramatic exit or silence or some other emotional sword.
So I have to destroy the bond even if I love it so I won’t get hurt again (scorpio self-destruction).
If I do none of these things, believe me, he’ll act like NOTHING is ever wrong. He’ll try to AVOID CONFRONTATION and pretend conflict doesn’t exist (typical Aqua) — which only makes matters worse.
(and yes Monroe — there is never a sorry. There might be a gift or flowers but not “sorry” or acknowledgment or discussion of the conflict at the center)
Part of me knows it’s never really over so I never really think the dramatic exits or emotionalism should be read as anything more than “You hurt me. Come get me …and try to understand why I am hurt and tell me what you will do to stop hurting me.”
But he’s not trying to hurt me and I’m not trying to hurt him ..Scott you are right about that. Our very modes of operation simply wound each other.
I was calm, cool, and collected a year ago. But it’s been too long with this bond having no escalation. That’s the thing about Aquas going and coming … if you’re not there, there is no relationship progress and growth. Your absence means in some way we stagnate or start over. Scorpios need continuity and progress. So, I admit I’ve come undone as it relates to him… and he knows it. And I know he hates seeing me go overboard into emotionalism.. But I don’t care. It’s a personal culture. It’s not bad. It’s just Scorpio.
And maybe the whole nonconflict nonemotional thing is just Aqua personal culture. So, Scott agree that the communication styles are so different it’s impossible.
I have a Mercury in Sag so I’m wiling to bluntly and honestly address anything, but he has a Mercury in Aqua and welll, that creates even more evasion.
I think for these 2 signs, their natures just automatically make the other suspicious and uneasy. I think even if they want to connect to each other, this inner apprehension just distorts messages and signals.
I can’t believe I’ve been on this ride for so long.
Anyway, more specific to my case is that my guy is really not available and I was stupid to invest in this (although for the record I did not sleep with him!!!) I really thought the ‘Universe” had brought us together and if I waited and we got closer he’d leave and we’d be together.
Hey I know that’s a long shot. But considering our chemistry, our emotional intimacy, our long overly involved conversations, our whispering, our private meetings, etc. etc. and the fact that we seemed to fit together like long lost puzzle pieces I thought I had a chance. I thought what we had was pure and meant to be.
He’s now reneging on all that and is apparently reinvesting himself in his primary relationship (that’s Venus in retrogade). So, that’s it for me; he’s calling to keep me on tap, but you’re right Jenny “it’s all or nothing.”
Betty I might be done with air signs too …i need emotion in my life…and yes I love fire …but I’d still consider an Aqua with lots of Scorpio and Leo.
and scott , I don’t believe she has lost you . I just think you need time and are confused as she is , just think about how confusing she is for you , thats what she thinks about you too Im sure . And I have a feeling that you will go back , but maybe you two should just be friends first. Aquas have a hard time letting go when they are about someone I know that . AHhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh! sooo confusing .
well scott , there are two sides to every story? What do you think you could have done to make her lash out. I know that when I would lash out on my aqua it was because he has said and did something moments before and I will still upset about it even though he though everything was alright. He would also never say sorry for hurting me when he downright was calling me names as well. What am I even saying anymore? The more I write about it the more I feel retarded for it. I do believe that Scorpios and Aquas do work and they work well. But they both need time to scope the other person out and get to know them. And when there has been time apart and I mean major time , not a few weeks or what have you , I think when they get back together , all can be much much better as both have had time to reflect on the other person and figure things out. There is too much love between these two signs , just mixec communication , which can always be fixed. Who knows though , like i said , my aqua did something very very wrong , and I won’t go back unless he gets help , the ball is in his court. if he wants me in his life than I think anyone would do whatever it took , we’ll see but im not counting on it
Good luck to everyone , this thread was once fun and now I grow tired.
Okay….here are my 2 cents….
I “was” totally and absolutely adoring a scorpio woman until time and time again she had the need to create dramatic exits, push me away with her mood swings, play jealousy games,creates unnecssary drama and then when confronted hides away and most of all, cannot seem to get a grip on the emotions she experiences (which I might add fluctuate hourly).
So.
She has lost me. I do still adore her, but I cannot/will not allow her hurtful (although I do not think she sees it as hurtful, more of her right to be) emotional attacks.
So just to be clear, when the scorpio woman goes too far…we leave BUT we are also human and still have feelings and love, but are confused that is why we leave and come back. We keep wanting to settle our scorpio woman down so she can be her fun, kind self again…hoping it will last.
Ahhhh too much. I totally agree with Synthia that scorpio and aquarius will never get together because of many different communication styles and ways of handling emotion.
Synthia
As you know I am a scorpio as well and I love your style. I believe that water and air do not mix. water and water can work, but too much alike, no challenge. Water and Fire has an attraction, but water can put out fire. This will be my first encounter with a Capricorn. One month now and doing well.
I WILL NEVER AGAIN DATE ANY AIR SIGNS. I WOULD RATHER BE ALONE!!!!!!!!!! THEN PUT UP WITH THE EXCUSES TOO.
AIR SIGNS NEED TO DATE ONLY AIR SIGNS. THEY WOULD BE PERFECT FOR EACH OTHER!!!!!!!!!!!
Julia’s husband was originally a married Aqua, Rutu. She paid his wife off to compel the divorce and pretty much told the wife to leave and go to hell.
She even wore a shirt degrading the wife. Pretty low (even if Scorpionic). I’m befuddled that the Aqua let her get away with that.
True story. Now, we just say of them…how cute. They have twins.
I obviously don’t have that rich, Hollywood swagger to execute that so….
Synthia and MonroeVonOh..!
Synth.. there had been some successful aqua-scorp relationships on this thread. I shall list them for you both.
I understand you, synth. but your aqua’s behaviour also has a lot to do with the complicated situation you and he are in. It would have been very hard for any married man to take the decision you expect him to take.
I am not with my aqua because he has additction to alcohol and drugs and he put his hands on me because of his addictions. Thats why I left and won’t look back. He needs to get himself help. But i will say however without his additction , we would have been together in my aqua fairy tale. the end
Monroe. I myself said I was bitter so what is you point?
I won’t let it go.
And no it won’t destroy me.
I”m a Scorpio. I’m fed by the intense emotions.
Please.
You don’t have to agree with me. Live in your Aqua fairytale.
However, I intend to give fair warning because I don’t like Scorpios to be trifled with.
You are not with your Aqua and thus prove my point.
When someone in THIS thread succeeds and merges the Scorpio-Aqua energy at the altar I will be open to change my views.
And you suggest when he calls I’ll be back where I started? LOL.
Um, He called this week after we had a HUGE blowup which I considered the END of our relationship last week. I didn’t respond to him and I don’t intend to because I am not going to continue to be used for sport.
Will I talk to him in years to come? Of course, it’s a never ending cycle. I will love him till the day I die. It’s doesn’t take an Aqua Einstein to know that.
That’s not the point of my posts. These are not lasting romances. And Scorpios are getting hurt. And people are excusing Aquas by saying oh they’ll be back. So!!!!
Coming back and passing through is over. Over!
Not cute anymore.
How dare you come into a Scorpio thread and suggest I should contain my emotions. Please. Go find a Libra. I want to intensely bark my discontent and I shall!
With exclamation points.!!!
And don’t presume to suggest to me that Im more affected than I realize. I blog about my thougts all the time and am the most self aware person I know.
So Aquas stay when they find the one? I’m sure. But yours didn’t stay with you either. So keep your pot-to-kettle advice.
Look, I don’t want to argue with a fellow SCorpio sister. That’s not my style. And I wish you joy and happiness. I know we have all been in love and hurt here.
There is room here for all views.
And all this Scorpio-aggrandizing mythology about how Aquas just can’t handle us because we are so AMAZINGLY deep and they fear us. OOH. Please over that too. I guess that makes us feel good, but I’m tired of excuses.
This doesn’t work. Is it tantalzing? Yes! It’s captivating and all-consuming…but Scorpios will cry and cry and cry and get hurt over and over again and this is an evil sinister pairing.
(I give this post 4 out of 5 drama stars).
Syn.
you are bitter and you need to let it go or it will consume you which it has already and that is more apparent than I think you realize. You say that you are done , but I bet if he were to call and tell you something he knows you would want to hear , you would be right back where you started. But hey, you are only trying to be strong. You may get sick of it , but you will never get over it until you are the one who gets one up on him.
And to tell you the truth , your right , popping in and out isn’t right , and its not because he is sampling , its because he is a people person , just because he goes away from you , don’t take it too personal , he is probably jusy helping someone else. And the only reason why he runs is because he is scared of the way a scorpio can feel so deep , he isn’t used to it so he bails until he figures things out. Aqua’s are not stupid by a long shot , they are always thinking , they are daydreamers , but they are always thinking about the future. They also have a hard time letting go of the people they care about and thats also another reason why he is popping up , count yourself a little lucky that he does care about you , he just has a hard time dealing with his feelings because he is ( aquas ) are logical and think with their heads not their hearts.
You have to be able to put up with his ways just like he puts up with yours when you freak out. Aqua’s will be the only one that you truly respect in the end for being so open to the way us scorpios can fly off the handle , any other sign we would dump them for being too weak. Aqua is not.
He doesn’t keep popping up to hurt you or to mess with your head , and he doesn’t say things he doesn’t mean. They like to be friends first.
And lastly synthia , they will stay and settle down when they have found the one. The one who captures their heart. Hate to say it but maybe you didn’t catch him in the way you wanted and you may have to deal with that, if you want to think of it as sampling or tell yourself whatever you need to to get over him then so be it , but it might also just be that you weren’t the one.
Monroe that’s nothing. I said an Aqua won’t be a constant in the way a Scorpio desires. Mine called me Monday as well. Did I call back? NO. Because popping in and out is not good enough.
OF course he likes us and comes back. That’s what they do. They sample. And they like to keep their samples on rotate.
Please. I’m so over making excuses. Coming back and staying are different things. LEt me clarify, an Aqua won’t comeback permanently. HE will pop in and out forever unless he gives you a ring — and then even that is no guarantee.
That’s no longer good enough for me and I doubt Scorpios will benefit from such transience.
I think we know from this board that Aquas return when they desire. And I think we also know from this board that Scorpios get their heartbroken in the meantime and then afterwards.
Yeap, I think Scorp – “all or nothing” ! LOL!
you guys havn’t been writing much. you all seem like Aquarians when they lose their interest! c’mon!!, keep the stories going.
Not true Synthia , Aqua’s if they do like you , they do come back. If they see something in you that they want or for whatever reason they may have. Although him and I aren’t together anymore , He still pops up and sends me e-mail , short and sweet , but at least I know that it doesn’t seem to matter what I say or do he is always there , not sure for how long , but he has always come back in some form or another.
TopGun — I’m sure he had a fantastic time sampling you. I am learning that Aquas like to bounce from experience to experience sampling life. He will not be back. He will not be a constant, reliable presence in the way a Scorpio desires.
(yes. I am bitter. lol).
So I guess I should clarify the fact that I’m the Scorpio and he’s the Aquarius. Thanks anyway.
Thank you for sharing this information.
How To Date A Scorpio
Hey everyone! I’ve been reading this thread for about a week now and it has really given me insight into understanding Aqua guys.
I’ve never been attracted to Aqua guys before. I’m usually attracted to Capricorns and I’ve dated two of my Pisces best friends (deff not for me, too needy & emotional) so it came as no surprise when I found out this guy has a Pisces moon and Capricorn in Venus/Mars.
Before I knew this, I made the mistake of being too forward with him. (annoying scorpio impulses) Now I think I might have ruined my chances of being friends with him. I’m not looking for him to commit or anything, I just want to make amends. I’ve tried to ignore the situation and let it blow over, but it’s just becoming more frustrating. I keep thinking I should say something, just so that this awkward tension will go away. His friends aren’t helping either. I want to say something to them (his friends) bcus of my pride and becus no girl should feel like they’re being “degraded” by a bunch of egotistical jackasses. And what does Aqua do/say? Nothing. I’m starting to think that I was wrong about him. Maybe deep down he is just an immature asshole. Can you really judge someone based on their friends?
If you wanna know the whole story, this should clear things up.
http://ca.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090129132943AA2iC7p
thanks scorpgirl , the best of luck to you and your aqua guy , let us know how it goes , and maybe I should find someone closer , but for now , I am not ready, single it is for me , right now.
MonroeVonOh
Well, sounds to me like you did the right thing by being true to yourself and your future. You do never know what the future holds and you could always come back together. I am with ya though. I am a city girl and not into that country stuff!!
hope you find someone else very special that lives with in the City Limits!!
drove i mean…sorry for the spelling..hehehe
My Ex-bf way back college was an aqua male and i am an scorpio female…I only realized it now that aqua and scorpio arent meant to be as they say…until i met this aqua male in a coffee shop a month a go.It was a whirlwind acquintance.here’s my story. I was seating inside the coffee shop while HIM outside but facing each other.He was with his friends and i was with my 2 girlfriends.I caught him staring at me while texting. I told my 2 girlfriends that someone was staring at me from then on i do the same thing i stared at him also.We transferred 2 a bar and i was surprised that they followed. They on the other table and us on the opposite table.A waiter came over and told me that someone would like to know my name and asked for my number.My 2 girlfriends told me to gave my number…just for a DARE! thing coz we know that they are’nt from these place….we left after that and while we are in the car he started texting me and he even called me…On the next day he invited me for a breakfast and asked my friends opinion and said go! so i joined him in breakfast and i learned that he was a pilot.Even drooved him and his crew to the airport but sad to say there was no flight sked for that day bcoz of the bad weather. I was his tour guide that whole day and i even brought him to my friends and introduced him to them… we had a great night. On the next day I drooved them to the airport bcoz they will be leaving by 1030AM. while his crew are checking on the plane i was standing next to him and i can feel the energy inside me..I can’t even looked straight in his eyes…my GOSH!!!! and so his gone.
Right now if he will text me ill texted him also.
I really like him…his tall and goodlooking.
How will i know if he really like me???
What will i do to win his heart???
His a busy guy bcoz of his work.
I’m looking forward for your opinion regarding this matter.
Thank you so much and sorry for my english…..:)
well , scorpgal , the fighting I guess has always been there , sometimes it was over stupid little things , and to be honest we both admitted down the road that we liked our little fights , it gave more passion in a sense. But sometimes the fights would not be so great , you see , my aqua ( or used to be ) has an ex girlfriend that he has been with off and on for 7 years , they are broken up now and for good this time , she really took him on a wild ride and even though it took them 7 years , they know they do not work together. Well at least he knows.
They have a son together and I think there is still a lot of heartache on her side of things. Every relationship he gets into , she is right there waiting to mess it up. She has sent me e-mails and things telling me to beware of him and that he is a cheater and this and that, I have asked him about that and he said ” she cheated on me first in the first 3 weeks of us being together , she has munipulated me into coming back throughout the years and she also told me she was on birth control when she wasn’t and this is why we have a son together” but I also hear things from her that rind true for me as well , so I know that he isn’t and wasn’t perfect to her either. We were together for about a year, and like I said we worked together really well , I guess it was just things in our life that wasn’t working for the other person. He lives way out in the country , I am a city girl , I would go to his house ( 3 hours away) all the time , because I don’t live on my own and he does. He support me throughout the year which caused troubles , but the only reason why I never got a job was because if I did , where i live, I would never be able to see him , maybe only on the weekends but really not even. Again , his ex caused troubles saying that if I came around his son he would never see him and this and that, money issues , job issues and other things as well.
So it wasn’t our personalities that didn’t match it was eachother’s lives. I hated hearing about his ex and the crap she pulled and being torn from his son , and he hated that i lived so far away and other things as well. He asked me to move in with him but I am young and I still want to do a few things that I want to do before I settle down with someone. He is older than me you see so he is ready to settle down. We both tried very hard and we both loved eachother a lot , now we are in no contact , we have spoken very little anyways and I feel like I have lost him forever. I know that he stills thinks of me and I him and there is still that connection there and who knows , maybe in time when we both sort things out we will come back to eachother , time will only tell.
I hate time. Being a Scorpio I hate waiting lol. Best of luck to all , sorry to be such a bummer. I have to ask though to any aqua guys out there.. with this type of connection in which I speak of .. would you come back ? what would be going on in your mind with all this ? Or would you cut ties and never once look back again. ?
MonroeVonOh,
I am feeling the same that you are talking about – we connect like puzzle pieces. In every way imaginable. me and my guy have not had an arguement and I pray we do not. it is still only 3 weeks in. How long were you with your guy? when did the fighting start.. Yikes!! I do not want to lose this bliss!!
myrk man
Even if she is popular and you are not… that never means that much to Scorpios. I used to date guys that were not popular and I was. I never cared about that.
When you said that you would die to have the opportunity to take her to the prom – you need to ASK. Or say if I asked you would you go with me?
We Scorpio girls are weird and need reassurance – when you said that, she thought to herself – well, he did not ask so he really does not want to. She is not going to ask you! LOL
I will be checking back in a few days to see what happened!
I met an aqua man and I am out of my mind in love with him and him with me. We met 3 weeks ago and can not stand to be apart. All he had to do was kiss me once and that was it. I hope the same for you!!
Good Luck!!!
Ok so , what about Aqua male and Scorpio female? I dated an aqua man and the chemistry was amazing for the both of us something like we never had before. We finished each others thoughts , and we talked for hours ( which we both never really had in other relationships, as well as many other things we both never experienced) we just knew each other without words and had many of the same values and outlook about pretty much everything and just enough opposite as well. We have the same humor , tastes , and style , and in the bedroom it is amazing as well. Everything fits perfectly but the reason why we tend to split is the fighting. We are both fixed signs and very stubborn and even though we know we might be wrong we still stand our ground and that can be upsetting for us both. But at the same time , that only adds to the passion between us. Although this last time was pretty bad. He got way out of control. We have broken up a couple of times ( I know they say if you keep breaking up you should just move on) We try to move on but we keep coming back to each other. Thinking about the other and connecting to each other somehow. So what does that all mean ? What should one do perhaps? Some say that we are the worst match , but others say we are one of the best. There is a link out there with all the Hollywood Scorpio and aqua marriages , like Julia Roberts and her husband and a few others , so it does work ? I guess it depends. Any thoughts or personal experiences ? I could really use some insight here please. Anyone out there a Scorpio or an aqua and have the same problem ? or not? Anything ? Insight? I can’t seem to get him out of my head, there has been very little contact but I can feel it in my chest when we are thinking about eachother , its overwhelming the connection these two signs have. Its like nothing I have ever felt , I think I am addicted as a scorpio fem and aqua males are to , can’t help it.
oh myrk man , prepare for the tests she put you through..Sometimes, it is unconsiously done because she can love too deep so she will be quite reserve in the beginning…Using her head to analyse the situation first…Once you’re in, you’re in..no turning back…it’s scary…I think I’m a different Scorp…probably be immune by my rising sign Sag
ok im trustin u guyz. im askin her out to breakfast on v-day before i work. i hope you guyz are right. but i swear she can be really confusing sometimes. she is really intimidating too cuz she is so cool, beautifull, and she is one of the most popular girls at my school and im not popular what so ever. i hope she likes me like you jenny. thx for the help.
myrk man,this girl likes you.She is just being shy and abit “coy” !LOL! typical young Scorpio.I think lots of young Scorp would die rather than let you see their emotion, especially if you’re new in their circle.Once they’re mature, they would know how to open up more and abit direct with their feeling.She talks to you and shows you her music, then blushed at your comment.What are you waiting for??? Ask her out directly and whisper your sweet words…Soon she will be a putty in your hand..yah , I know it can be sad for a Scorp who always want to be in control of his/her own feeling.Sometimes, Scorp needs to be less cautious and goes with the flow…
Gosh, apologies Jenny.
Jenni
I wasn’t ready for a serious realtionship. I don’t think I’ll ever be.
scorpgal-
well i didnt ask her out or to hang out cuz she was talking to this guy, but i guess he told her off and they arnt talkin no more. i talked to her all class about lots of stuff. she said she likes to relive stress by writing these really long notes to her friends. do u think i should write her notes ? and we do talk and laugh and flirt in class sometimes, but other times she will leave my side of the room to go talk to her other girl friend. then today she also said that she was sad cuz she thought that no one would go to prom with her for her senior year so i said your crazy i would die to have the oppertunity to go to prom with you and she got a lil red smiled and bit her lip but didnt say anything back ? do you think she got the hint that i have a huge crush on her ??? and how can i read if she has a crush on me ???
If one places a tiny amount of liquor on a scorpion, it will instantly go mad and sting itself to death… There we go people, lol
myrk man –
why dont u just ask her out? if she is giving you the look than she probally likes you. She will be super secretitive about her feelings for you unless you show signs that you like her. flirt with her in a joking way and she how she responds. if she starts smiling than she likes you.
I am an Aqua male from India…
I came across this earlier post by a scorpio female…
In this vey forum…
I will use this example to highlight the typical misunderstanding between a Scorpio female and an Aqua male…
” Scorpioinlove
Hi, I’m also a scorpio girl interested in Aqua guy.
I’m so confused by him and I don’t know what to do. Would anyone help me out here? I’d really appreciate…
So I’ve known this Aqua for about a month and we have hung out a few times so far. Whenever we met, we always had a great conversation for couple hours on different topics, and I could tell he was really attracted to me physically and intellectually.
Recently, he has invited me to his house for the first time, and I went – He cooked for me and afterwards we watched a movie (not romantic at all – and he kept his distance very well from me during the movie). Then when the movie was done, it was little after 11pm, suddenly he wanted me to leave his house. He didn’t literally ask, but he initiated the idea, and by being scorpio, I sensed it right away. He asked me if I wanted him to walk me to the bust station, but I said no (although it was unfamiliar neighborhood) beacuse I knew he didn’t mean it.
Then that night around 3am, he sends me a text saying thank you for coming over, and that he had a great time. I didn’t answer because first, I woke up by his sms, and second, I felt disrespected…
What is going on? I’m so hurt. I feel like he “used” me to spend his free time because he had nothing else to do. And he did mention at somepoint that he sometimes gets lonely at his house because his roommate has been away for a while.
I don’t understand. I thought he was sincerely interested in me and wanted to build some friendship with me…
what’s your insight? ”
————————Analysis——————————
Aq guy likes this Sc gal… calls her over at her place…
wants to bond with her, show her that he cares, prepares food…
next he wants them to just sit together ans spend some time,
but they’ve gotta do sumthing as well, so they watch a movie.
Question that comes to his mind… “should i play a romantic movie” or “something else thats not giving out any signals of that sort”… “i think i will go with the second one… cuz i donno … i don wan her to explode at me saying — what the hell are you trying to say to me, i thought we were friends–”
then they watch the movie…
he is dying to come close to her but she is just so composed and NOT vulnerable… he feels sad and after a while he says to himself…”there’s nothing on her mind — why the hell then am i getting so carzy about all this — i’l be cool”… movie ends…
he is so frustrated … he wants to return to his “i dont want anything from her… ” state of mind… he wants to call off the evening…
calls it off finally…
but an hour or two later… realizes that he shouldn’t have been so rude and SMSs her…
——————–conclusion———————
The Scorp should not have been so INvulnerable and distant…
— even better, if she had moved closer to him while watching the movie, in order to make contact—–
ok scorpio’s its kinda simple to get an aquarius man. me being one i do know what i like. if u want a relationship u gotta be friends first. next u gotta give him the “look” mayb like 1nce a day or whenever u see him. and we love to feel cared about. and we do love to feel free so give us space when needed. if u want to know anything else just ask me cuz we love to help people too. but im confused whether this scorpio girl likes me or not????? she gives me the look. we talk in class quite a lot. and she likes to show me her fav. songs on her ipod. is there any test that i can try to see if she feels the same ?
Hey I’m back
Well I never heard from my Aqua again. I wish it didn’t end without any closure…I called one last time in the beginning of Dec to invite him to a party but he didn’t want to speak to me(My guess I thinkhe put his sister on the phone)….I don’t have time for games and I don’t know if I hurt him in any way. I just don’t understand what happen.
On the bright side. I would love to date another Aqua guy. Just not him…lol
Hey I’m back
Well I never heard from my Aqua again. I wish it didn’t end without any closure…I called one last time in Dec to invite him to a party but he didn’t want to speak to me (he put his sister on the phone). I don’t know if I hurt him in any way,I just don’t understand what happen.
On the bright side. I would love to date another Aqua guy. Just not him…lol
Marina,
why would you guys break up if he was right for you?
May I just say how right you all are?
I am a scorpio female and an aqua man is the only man ever to make me feel excited, calm, happy and NOT jealous. At all. Ever. That’s despite him being permanently surrounded by women.
Not to mention his intellect.
Or the ability to deal with my so called “tests” and mood swings.
Gods, do I miss him.
I’m sorry Lia. Hope you feel better.
Very true , Lia.An Aqua who is into you will always talk NON-STOP and tease you all the time.This man you were chasing after did not even talk to you openly and very guarded then perhaps he knew you had a crush on him.He didn’t so he was guarded to keep a distance from you.Move on and stop obsessing is the best choice.
There is nothing happening with my aqua crush, and I am starting to to come to the conclusion that NOTHING WILL EVER HAPPEN. I have been hearing rumblings around work that he has a GIRLFRIEND which shocked me and is very disheartening, and if it is true then I guess it is not meant to be and there is nothing I can do except come to terms with the fact that I cannot be with him and it is not meant to be and because I am such a loner scorpio, i will be alone.
That is all, I am very upset about this……so I am taking a break from this blog to let my heart heal.
Hey Scott!
We’re around. My Aqua situation is surprisingly going nowhere committed fast. It’s shocking since it seemed the Universe basically set us up.
However, I have realized that there are bonds as deep and passionate as romantic love that are not necessarily romances. So, I’m willing to pour my heart into our platonic bond and have a searing connection that no one else can touch.
I’m heartbroken of course that I can’t have him, but i feel the Universe is reminded me that there are so many more passions in life than love … and we all have our destinies to pursue … and I don’t intend to let my pining distract me.
Rose…. I’ll let her fill you in.
Feel free to stop by scorpioland.ning.com sometimes….
I still check into this thread weekly….
Rose, Synthia…are you still there?What happened to your Aqua stories? Did everything work out?
@prateek: it’s probably true that she did not feel that way for you because Scorps usually very loyal to their friends.Once you become their best friends, they would look after you and protect you like “an angel”.That’s why it’s so easy for guys to fall in love with them because the love they give is so pure and unconditional (like motherly love!).However, pls don’t worry too much about her reaction, just give her sometimes to process all the inf, I think she’ll come out and return to you soon. Then just play along, be her friend and care for her.Slowly, she’ll look at you that way too…Don’t call her now, leave her a mesg to say that you’ll not pressurise her or anything, that was just your true feeling and you want her to know.That no matter what you two will always be good friends.Mark my word: loyaty and trust are two very precious things to Scorps.If you two have always been friends, I doubt she’ll leave you just because of that.If you do it right, you’ll have her heart soon. Good luck!
i’m an aqua male…
Have known a scorpion girl since i was 12, i’m 23 now. Have been attracted to many girls in between (one of them her close friend), had one serious reltnshp with a leo (she knows all about that). We have been friends through all this… till now.
I never realized it, but i always felt so sure of her liking for me and that strange trust, cant say i have for anybody else. She always took care of me when i needed it the most… after breakups. She always rebuked me for being so desperate about reltnships and told me to be a bit more “in control” . But never ever turned her back on me.
She always admired my superior intellect (with all humility i mention this)… does so now.Always interested in whatever i said. Always laughing at my funny stories. I donno i just felt so close to her.
As for me, i have always admired her intelligence, beauty, charm and above all her Grace… that heavenly grace… when she’s near me i feel like i’m standing next to an angel. She is so pure… she soothes my soul… NOBODY else does that.
We have always been so easy with each other i never thought about us… till now.
here comes the twist…
after knowing each other for more than 7 years… i proposed to her… and guess what !!!
she exploded at me…
she said she never expected that from me…
that she thought i was her ONE true friend…
and what i did was so like everybody else…
(many guys have said those three words to her and she has rejected them all, i routed a few of them to her, hard tp believe but true).
she’s stopped talking to me now…
doesnt pick up my calls…
don kknow what she’s thinking…
but i donno…
i can never believe that she doesent feel anything for me “in that special way”
Help !
I agree with P. That “coldness” we Scorpions use is a defense mechanism. When we feel unsure, we keep quiet and unfazed.
That’s how we can feel what’s going on.
Scorpio in a “relationship” is never cold. EVER.
It’s important to consider that Scorpio will feign cold-ness as a mask not only as a defense, but to gauge your reaction and see where YOU, stand.
Paul, just be honest, thats all you can do. She will come to you if she’s interested.
I am a witness of how much time Aquas take to observe you. I knew my Aqua friend three years before he took the plunge to tell me how he felt about me.
When he started to talk, I noticed he’d been watching me. Every little detail physically and emotionally. I was very surprised. I mean I knew he liked me, but I didn’t have any idea, he was watching me so closely.
Remember, we water signs react with our emotions, our gut. Air signs are more cerebral, they need time to analyze.
I meant NO “middle” approach or “go with the flow”
@Lia: Stop asking questions and trying to get into his head! Put yourself into his position and you’ll understand how he feels! I dont think that an Aqua can share his feeling easily if he hasn’t trusted you yet(just like Scorps!) . I think Scorps can be too extreme when they’re in love.Too hot or too cold! There seems to be “in the middle” approach for them.That can spell problems.Gain his trust by being his friend and go with the flow.When he feels comfortable, he’ll express his feeling and you guys can go from there.Please don’t throw yourself into him, he might enjoy it because it boosts his ego but it isn’t the best foundation for a long term relationship. Honestly, I think Aqua can be a bit traditional when it comes to love.They analyse their potential mates very carefully.If you push him too much, he will run away because he feels like he’s loosing control(what a terrifying thing for Aquas!). Good luck!
I am very confused about my aqua crush, he is extremely guarded and somewhat shy, so now i am second guessing myself and I feel terrible. Did I do something wrong? When we are alone, he DOES NOT TALK! I can always sense that even though we are sitting next to each other or standing beside each other his mind is elsewhere. I just want to what his opinions are, does he feel anything towards me? does he want us to become closer friends? is he scared because of what he went through with his last relationship? does he not trust women? I just want him to open up, and not knowing what is going on his handsome head is really bothering me. What to do Now?
@Paul : what do you mean she turned cold after sharing her feeling with you? Did she go away and spend some times alone ? If that’s the case, you should have respected her wish because Scorp tend to cave in for some “me” time so they can reflect on things. They love spending time with people they like for a period of time and then go away for awhile.Just a way to think through things and have some “air”.I think you might have misunderstood her and therefore shut her out which was the worst move!You two should have honestly told each other about your needs , especially you’re friends.If not, trust was not there and it wasn’t a good foundation at all.I think she thought you weren’t interested anymore so she went away.The best thing to do now is having an honest discussion with her and make sure she doesn’t misunderstand that you only want her because she’s with someone else now (a challenge?).
@Kpart 2: please go upward and read the story of the user named Rose or Synthia above. I think even an Aqua is attracted to you, he’ll try to deny it and even he acts upon it , he then will feel guilty later or start to judge you as someone who gets in between other relationship.Normally, this won’t have a happy ending.But who knows, life is quite unpredictable.On the other hand, would you like to be in the position of your boyfriend or his girlfriend? If you aren’t interested in your boyfriend anymore, break up with him before starting to pursue anything with the Aqua.That’s the least respect you can give your boyfriend.
I would like you Aquarian guys to answer a question for me. I know this Aquarian guy, we’ve been flirting for sometime now. He is in a relationship and I am too. I can sense he likes me. But, we only have these cool conversations via email. When we see each other, even if we are alone, we can’t almost talk to each other…he just gets all quiet and stuff. What does that mean?
Does he really like me? I don’t want to get caught in this “he’s not that into you” thing.
Scorpio woman: wow..i’m confused lots. I read a lot of notes here and i’m still confused. I need advice, can you help please? (Forgive my english, still learning).
I am aquarius man (scorpio moon) and love scorpio woman at school. She hot and cold with me and made me upset so I walk away. She causes me great heart ache. I gave up and ingnored her because i cna’t deal with too much emotion because of her-driving me crazy with mixed attention! I have known her for 2 1/2 years and one night we kissed and she shared feelings, opened up to me, but then she turned very cold after that. I was in so much pain that I had to shut her out. Now she will not look at me or speak with me.
Question: why does a scorpio woman not look at you or talk to you, but sometimes will smile and be kind, then angry and cold? Now she is very distant and when looks at me, no emotion..but wait a minute later, she nice and happy, then later ice and anger…very confusing! She is now in relationship with another man, but i want to take her away with me!
Please help. How to get her to be nice to me all the time not only every few hrs/minutes/days and then very angry? Should i tell her how i feel even though she is in relationship? Is she mad because i ignore her to protect my feelings?
Mary: A lot of Aquarians I know have the secret gift of just not ever taking anything personally, even when sometimes they SHOULD.
Oh tell me about it! Almost everybody in my circle of friends are Air or Fire signs. I am the only water sign.
How did an emotional water sign get mixed up with these people? I am a Venus Sagittarius, and have Aquarius in my fifth house. So, superficially I appear like nonchalant about things, but my Sun is in Scorpio, so I am not nonchalant about anything.
Anyway….when I take things too personally and I try to tell them how I feel, they just tell me I’m being a drama queen. I think it’s okay to have friends to keep my brooding in check, but on the other hand, I think they should accept me for who I am.
You know, it’s confusing. Sometimes I wish I could be so nonchalant, but that’s how I am.
“I have a theory about fixed sign people, especially double fixed sign people, that they secretly have difficulty respecting non-fixed sign people. It is like they are so set in their life and their path and their convictions (only sometimes in a negative way) that they see other, especially more mutable types, as entirely flakey, wishy washy and weak.”
I have a fixed Sun and Moon (Scorpio/Leo), and I half-agree with this. I wouldn’t say that I feel a lack of *respect* for non-fixed signs, exactly. I really envy their flexibility and ability to just pick up and go. I think it’s a mistake, often committed by fixed signs, to think flexibility isn’t its own kind of strength.
But, there can be an issue of a lack of security. If I sense that a person can easily “pick up and go” from a job or a friendship, maybe he can do the same thing to me if we get into a relationship. Doesn’t mean I don’t respect or like this person, but it makes me think twice before fully committing myself. By contrast, when you see someone who’s really committed to their job/politics/cause/family, even if they are foolishly stubborn about it, you know they are capable of that kind of commitment. I’m trying not to overgeneralize about mutable/cardinal/fixed because I don’t think any one group has the monopoly on commitment, but if we are talking general tendencies, that would be my explanation.
FWIW my sister is an Aquarius and we are seriously each other’s best friends. Oddly, in my life I have also met several pairs of Cancer-Aquarius best friend sets. A lot of Aquarians I know have the secret gift of just not ever taking anything personally, even when sometimes they SHOULD. This quality can be oddly mesmerizing and refreshing for a water sign, which is more prone to the opposite problem of taking things TOO personally. Yes, I include myself in that!
Have always tried to understand this particular match up and you’ve hit it on the nose! Great article!
Hahaha….after reading all of Scott’s posts, I see all the signs!
The Aquarian guy, is very funny and witty when talking with everybody else. When I’m in the group, he kind of quiets down and gets nervous. Awww….hahaha
When he found out I was an astrology buff, he begged me to do his birth chart…haha
He is an Aquarian with a Aries rising, Virgo Moon and Capricorn Venus.
I am a Scorpio, with a Libra rising, a Taurus Moon and a Sagittarius Venus.
Aqua guy is right.
I am flirting with this Aquarian guy. When I arrive somewhere he is at, and totally ignore him, he starts looking for attention. And if I treat him as any other person, he keeps following me around.
You sometimes think they have their mind in lala land. But suddenly they do something that makes you see they’ve been thinking about you.
Aquarians are air signs. They don’t know how to deal with emotions. They always deal in a cerebral type of way. I think they feel our emotional intensity, and though they are attracted to it like moths to light, they also get scared.
Happy New YEars to Aurora & all the Scorps & Aquas of the World.
This thread was such a support for me during the year. All across the internet, the Scorpio-Aqua bond is one that’s maligned. Before Aurora’s article there were few places who suggests reality proved a workable synergy between these two signs.
In my own experience and life study I have found the Aqua and Scorpio bond to be so revealing. I notice new things abotu the dynamic on almost a daily basis. I still think it is very very difficult to pull off. And at times can be so lonely, unrewarding and fulfulling. HOwever, it’s an interesting affair that I would never turn down.
Best wishes to all.
Syn.
Perhaps this goes both ways.
I’m a male triple-scorpio, also saturn and mercury in scorpio. Maybe the strongest attraction I’ve ever felt was to an aquarius.
I think it has something to do with admiring a quick-witted individual who possesses traits you have struggled with and feel are so lacking in yourself.
Ordinarily I would never post something like this. But like I said, the attraction was Strong.
actually I say love of friends, it was also love of money and a love of a wealthy material world. You know like the love of fashion, fashion 2nd but more money and design, houses and expensive beautiful summer and winter holiday places. random but true. But also love of connection with friends mirroring childhood family loved ones. Amazing childhood parents I mean.
I think I meant blissful memories. Anyway. Whatevs.
@ Aqua: Please tell me why did you use drugs , did it help to calm your mind? What helps you to give it up? I really want to help my friend. Thanks!
Im stating the obvious here. but ..
@Jenny: Hi. Er no calming of the mind was never really the result! hehe. Well it was initially maybe but after that it was not good in that respect, at all. In fact it’s like I live with the worst paranoid moments I ever experienced with these drugs on a daily basis. I hadn’t thought of it like that but the anxiety and terror experienced often come back. i’M Definitely struggling with major panic – it has been horrendous and almost a constant worry. Trying to problem solve it away.
I don’t really know what to say to help your friend. I personally find drugs and alcohol sad though a family members parent was an alcoholic so have always been against alcohol.
I would say to your friend, drugs are not natural, you don’t know what they mix them with which is why you feel so awful the next day. I mean after ecstasy I never felt that way before in my life, that was the worst ever next day effect. Unbelievable, if you take more than 4, unbeelievaable. So he will know it is not good. That’s without how you are on them.
Although I only took drugs at times b/w 19 – 21 I feel like I lost my youth and much more besides. A Career, friends I could have met after when I’d put myself out of the loop, and possibly even a future family. Added to which I was such a strong person (female as I mentioned before) with many talents that could have taken me in wonderful directions. Instead all that was wasted because of that l u d i c r o u s choice — and your friends choice is ludicrous. You contrary to what people who take drugs think, find out nothing on them. They are also not a substitute for love, a solution to love, or anything else for that matter. In my opinion anyway.
I didn’t take them to calm my mind, initially I did it because I in the moment of trying refused to lose a friend like I had many years before. The friendship had gone from an amazing experience the best of my life, to awful. The problem was once I tried it it was a slippery slope. you confuse the potential rewards of them and then you’re in that world with everyone else who has differeing reasons all talking about how amazing it is and rationalising it to calm themselves down from the fear they feel in doing it. Beacuse the adrenalin everyone feels doing it is wh ythey aall go into big reasons about placating it. i mean ecstasy here. so stoopid. After the not wanting to lose an amazing friendship experience, I then did them because they were fun , I thought the world was fun doing them and I wanted to see how far they would go and what the experiences would be. But I found nothing. haha.
Anyway these are horrendous standard explanations but there you have it. Part of my experience laid bare. Standard to the letter why you shouldn’t do it. You go in one side and come out the other a geriatric 80 year old with a host of terrifying problems you’re trying to figure out. Um, I’m not kidding. Oh and your whole 20s wasted. I dont know if this is also true but a lot of people who do it are cocky about it.
The same thing happened to my ex-boyfriend. He has ruined himself as well having gone from this God, seriously, to ruined.
Your friend should be studying. He should not be drinking or doing drugs. And if he hates what he’s studying he should realise it’s only for 3 years and at the end of it that is it no more studying. Added to which if he really can’t stand whatever job he’s going for, he can always change it.
Tell him to stop – it will destroy his vitality, looks, his self-esteem, his happiness. Seriuosly. I wouldn’t have belived it but for me parts of what I’ve said it will damage are very true. I mean I’m still happy but a million times more pissed than I would have been if I hadn’t. Plus I’ve missed out on a great life too.
Also just because all young guys his age are drinking etc., that is stupid. They turn themselves from Gods to unhealthy people so prematurely when they could be Gods for so much longer! heheh. Anyway that’s just my 2c I never understood alcohol. But I’m a strait laced aquarius, so, i wouldn’t. But neither does my libra family member and another gemini family member says he does now feel better for abstaining from alcohol all these years.
As far as giving up was concerned the situation got bad and a family member ended up finding out by a fake telephone message I left to do with my work. So . taht was awful, as was the extent of them finding out, could not have been a worse story.
I also think drugs and alcohol can be tied up with romantic notions, feelings and life or death type feelings but they shouldn’t be used for those reasons. Like whatever noble feelings u think u’r feeling or great feelings or appreciations for being alive and the experience, dont bring the drugs and alcohol into them. I used to see that with my boyfriend and I felt it too. It all gets mixed up and missplaced. With him it was possibly his sadness and passion for life and like sweet feelings that he hid and for me it was love of friends probably. But I shouldn’t have and he shouldn’t have done them bcoz it just fucked us up on a physical level. hehe. so yeah not a good move.
And the guys definitely shouldn’t use drugs or alcohol to cope with any shittiness in their lives either.
And I have to stop using the internet. This has just wasted 50 minutes! and it’s now 1.50am.
I could have shot for the stars with my career and corresponding family and instead I have wasted those 2 wonderful opportunities with all the what would have been to me through career choice blissful opportunities.
All The Very Best
Soooooooo, I gave my aqua crush a card. He said he was so flattered and he did not know what he did to deserve a card from me. I wrote a few nice things in the card, you are so nice and supportive, blah, blah, I did not say I really like you, but i did hint that i do want to get to know him better. But I also sent him a lil christmas text message and he did not send one back, does this mean what I have been dreading that he does not feel the same way or am I just being my typical overanalytical self and making something out of nothing?
This is the confusing part of the story. The other day we were at work, doing our usual flirting and joking with one another, then he said the sweetest thing to me, saying that I was so sweet and caring and gentle and sensitive and he just made this whole speech about me in front of a few other coworkers, i’m so reliable, and I’m always there for him….it was soo nice. Of course I was a little embarrased but at the same time I wanted to kiss him after he said that, obviously i cannot do that at work. I really want to know this guy better but I don’t want to come off as desperate or needy. Was that all an act and was he just saying those things? I really don’t have time for games and it is very difficult for me to let my guard down and be open and honest with others, especially men. What do I do?
@ Brianna : show him your emotions , they will “eat” them and “soak” in them happily . All the talk about Aqua being unemotional is really nonsensical! They are just very guarded with their emotions because they know too well the dark side of human beings! Once you show them that they can trust you, they will slowly open up. Remember “actions speak louder than words” (just like Scorpio!). When I see an Aqua , despite what age they are , I see an eternal child who just wants to love and be loved yet fears of being hurt because they can love so deeply and almost to the point of obsession! LOL! They might look like having heads on clouds but they memorise everything you said and will bring up to test or challenge you! Once you show that you are honest and true to your words, they will happily follow your lead on their own terms of course! LOL! They can be very controlling and love to smother you once they fall in love. If you love adventures, it’s even better; they will go with you to the end of the Earth and make the journeys even more interesting. However, they can be absent-minded when they think that something so trivial to remember!
I think it’s a balance also. I’m not an affectionate person and very awkward in term of showing emotions but my ex (Libra) was not patient with me at all but my Aqua friend helps me to conquer it slowly.
They don’t like to change but they will do it for you and for them if you can use logics to convince them and tell them honestly that you don’t want to manipulate them . They can say beautiful words and have gestures that even Libras who are being called the “charmers” have to surrender!
@ Aqua: Please tell me why did you use drugs , did it help to calm your mind? What helps you to give it up? I really want to help my friend. Thanks!
Hey everyone! I’ve been reading all yalls posts because I recently just started dating an Aquarius man, 5 days ago to be exact, and I’m totally and utterly confused by our relationship. I’m a Scorpio girl and my moon is in Aquarius, but for some reason I still find my self incapable of understanding this man and it frustrates the hell out of me! I usually can weave my black magic and seductive ways, which are so common to us Scorps, to entice most of the men I come across, but this guy is different. Yes, we have only started dating 5 days ago, but we have spent at least a part of every single day together since. Sometimes he can be so inquisitive about every detail of my life and other times he seems to be perfectly content sitting in complete silence for long periods of time. It drives me crazy! I feel like I’m dating a man with a split personality because the way he is acts is so hot and cold. Half the time I think I know exactly how he feels about me (he has even gone as far as to verbalize it on a few occassions) and then suddenly his is so aloof and distant I think I’ve done something to change his mind. I just wish I knew what was going on inside that head of his. I already let my intense, emotional side out and we almost decided not to continue dating bc I couldn’t handle the ‘not knowing’, but for some reason I changed my mind and apologized. Again I was completely shocked by his response, he was immediately forgiving and went as far as to tell me that if I ever wanted a boyfriend I should let him know!!! WHAT? Based on my past experiences when I’ve let my emotional intensity come out with other guys, there usual response is to run for the door screaming or cower away defenseless. This Aquarius man baffles me! It feels like a complete reverse of what I’m usually accostumed to with men bc they’re are normally completely perplexed by me. I just hope he is as curious and intrigued about me as I am about him. Any advice yall could give me would be very much appreciated!
Just an aside, Russell Targ the laser inventor and ESP remote viewing researcher mentioned in his autobiography that I think he tried weed and said that he believes it speeds up some functioning of the brain and he mentioned jazz musicians. I’d suggest the boyf reading some part like that to see that yes there are positive effects from it but to look for ways of creating an enjoyable experience w i thout the use of drugs. And to me personally that means all, coffee sugar and alcohol included. Tho perhaps that’s just me. But why not do it that way?!. Coffee was invented for somnambulant islamic monks who had trouble repeating their repetitive boring things as per David Wolfe’s stories.
Hi Jenny,
I’m an aqua who did weed and ecstasy in the past tho a girl and not guy so am small and plus I took it beyond that. Worst choice ever. 7 years down the road still dealing with ***maaaaaaaaaaaajor*** disocciative / nervous problems from it. Wish I’d never done it – and I was cocky.
I’m sorry Mary but I think both of you were playing games and that’s the consequence you have to bear! I’m a Scorpio with a Scorpio moon and I can tell when people are playing games so I tell them straight to their faces , so do my Aquas friends, I guess our bluntness create deep trust and I won’t have it other way. Hope you have better luck next time.Stop playing your silly games and be yourself.
Hi…I’m a scorpio with aries moon and i was wondering if i someone can give advice. I have an aquarian man that I really like, but i think i made a mistake with him. I did not want to show how much i cared for him and did not want to reveal my true feelings because i fear rejection, so i have ignored him and pretended he does not matter. I can tell he was upset because he made small comments, but i ignored him and still tried to play cool and make him jealous. Now he is not paying any attention to me and is ignoring me. I really, really screwed up and wished i found this site first! He is still nice to me but i noticed he is different, not so flirty or caring. He is not mean, just not the same. Can someone tell me how to fix this mess i made? I’M SO UPSET!!
I can’t believe he said he love me but I can’t say it back and I think there is no chance for us…
Is there any Aqua here did drug in the past? such as weed, estacy? This Aqua I knew does it when he goes back home for holiday but he doesn’t when he’s in college….I can see he’s not addicted but still this is terrible!
How to help him? He said it can calm him!!!
yeah. There will.
For all of us
I’m sorry to hear about your situation Saya!!! Hope this Christmas will bring all your wishes come true! There will be a lovely person who understands your pain and loves you for who you are
Wow rick. That was interesting. Btw, you might have not read previous post, but me, Kate, I’m fredy. I just changed my name so that people won’t think i’m a guy. so yeah.
Once again a spot-on portrayal of a genuine Aqua´s feelings, Scott.
As I think I´ve stated before, my former Scorpio woman definitely lost me when she started tro treat me as just another one of her male friends and I needed and deserved so much more. Whether her behavior was intentional or not, I don´t know for sure, but, among other factors, most likely she was just trying to play tough on me..
Whatever, big disappointment she was, now we haven´t seen each other for almost 2 months, haven´t even spoken properly for over a month..maybe she´ll come back a month or two from now, let´s see if I´m interested in replying then.
Right now I´m just in love with the way we ignore each other.
Call it fixed signs pride or something, I just always need someone to hate on
So, in hindsight, follow every word Scott has advised you to..your jealousy and distance won´t get you anywhere. No one dictates our actions better than ourselves.
Peace and love, happy holidays
Jenny that is really interesting, i think some aquas might get jealous but they hide it well, No matter how hard you try, they are REALLY good at this shit. self control is an aqua quality indeed
Ok, it’s strange, but one or two of my Aqua friends confessed that they get jealous easily!
I thought Aqua is all about light and breezy…hm…hm..interesting..
Lia,
Stop trying to restrain yourself and jump on him! Being quite and focused does not get you what you want. Jump! What is holding you back? Is it really because you think he might not be ready since his last relationship? If you wait too long, he will move on. We aqua guys need a little push. If he shows up at your desk it is because he wants to be near you, so acknowledge that! How do you show a guy you like him when you are ignoring him? Does not make sense…
Again, scorps act so brave and confident, but for some reason after ready a few of these posts, there is a common theme…”making him jealous and acting like you don’t care.” Is that working? It seems to me it is not. Both myself and Rick have stated OVER and OVER again to be honest…I challenge you scorpio woman! I REPEAT “do not try to make him jealous!” We SEE RIGHT THROUGH it and walk away emotionally/physically, because we can’t fathom why you would want to hurt us (NOT oh my, she might pick someone else besides me, so i better act), when we would never want to hurt you. This whole “acting like you don’t care” personality won’t work either…we will not chase you, we will wonder why you are trying to hurt us again. Is this what you want? Us aqua guys being into you because you hurt us through jealousy and distancing? Not going to happen, which is why I think a lot of you are posting in frusteration because you think, being distanct with an aqua will get us curious in you. We get curious in you when you do unusual things and hobbies and have hidden aspects to your personality. These hidden sides to you are about what you love/hate/desire etc…NOT whether you are into us or not..see the difference? We are attracted to closed pages of YOUR personality NOT you trying to pretend you don’t like us. For all those posts saying ignore the aqua and they will come around. That won’t work…however do something weird and be involved in something cool, then we will be attracted again.
Sorry for the rampage, but aqua’s are pretty simple, what you see is what you get, maybe you think we are complicated, but we are not. It’s really easy girls…honesty, being brave, no games and there you go..the aqua will be smitten.
Don’t forget to give us attention too! We want to know you can care about us and be nurturing. Scorpio woman are too busy trying to be all cool and distant, but what they really should do is be who they really are..nice and loving.
hey guys,
i came across this thread couple of days ago and it was really helpul, but sadly i didnt come across it earlier before screwing things up.
i am a scorpio with aquarius rising and i`ve been on and off with my aqua for 2 years and i was the one to blame most of the time but somehow he always got back.
and somehow things were never the same,the more mistakes i do the more cautious and distant he gets but he always got back around afterall.sometimes he is really sweet,sometimes he is not and to be honest i always played hard to get role though i am crazy about him
recently we were in good grace but he didnt take any move so out of frustration i made it clear to him that i started dating someone,he didnt talk since i started dating and recently when i tried to talk to him (to be more specific chat with him) he was cold,distant and literally treated me like am nobody
i know that was a stupid move i made and i don’t know if i really lost him this time or is there any chance i can make it up to him.
i don’t actually know what am i supposed to do and desperately need your help guys.
I do touch him a lot actually and I think everyone else around us sees the sparks flying between us except for him and I. I just don’t want to seem so obvious about it but i cannot help myself. If he is beside me I touch his arms or his shoulder or his hand, we laugh and make jokes….its all the time….up until yesterday, I kept noticing he was always walking over to my desk and I was kind of in my quiet/self-reflective/i’mtrying-to-focus-attitude but I wasn’t deliberately trying to ignore him or give him the cold shoulder I was restraining from trying to jump on top of him…lol. I don’t know if he knows that I LIKE him, I kind of get this feeling he is waiting for me to say something, I’m just nervous about his reaction.
I’m a loner, alright.
I’m so tired of being alone. Day after day, year after year, never speaking to another soul. Four walls, this computer screen, and the dialysis clinic. And it’s Christmas. And my mother is very sick, and very depressed about our “aloneness” and whatnot. Life seems empty and impossible. I know it isn’t, and that things can change… or that they should, can… I don’t know.
I don’t want to say I haven’t seen it, because I’m very grateful for what we have, but… there has to be more than this. Or rather, I want to believe that there’s more than this. Maybe there isn’t. There wasn’t for the rest of my family, so why should I be any different?
Man, I’m negative tonight. Sorry about that.
saya, im so sorry about your mother. i seriously wish her all the best. it really seems like you care about the important things in life, and a girl like you deserves better. i dont know if theres more to life, because personally i havent fealt it either, and my heart has been through a lot these past 3 years and its surreal to not have ne1 to talk to during these times. i feel like i understand what ur going through nd if you want ne support, advice, or jus wanna talk about nothing i can give u some sort of contact info. jus lemme no
yeah. Scott is right on the touching part.
Now, I didn’t know about being blunt, but I’ll try it and tell everyone how it worked out.
(:
Lia,
I just read your post and I say go for it! Take the risk! He probably feels the same, but is being respectful of you. I know when I like a girl, I tend to give her a lot of attention. I try to be around her a lot and be near her.
It’s up to you. If your fear of rejection is that strong, start slowly and say innocent things, with hidden meanings. Definitely say something in relation to him making you feel certain ways. OR just be blunt (which ALL aqua’s appreciate) and say, “I feel a strong sexual attraction when I’m around you.” Make it into a joke if it makes you feel better. Either way, he won’t judge you, so you shouldn’t feel insecure, he will just probably start seeing you in a more intimate way, which is what you want right?
The best way, I think anyway is through touching. Start touching his arm, back and shoulder while talking/laughing with him. This is a definite sign. You said that he touched your waist. Do you touch him? How do you flirt with him, besides looking from afar and winking? Does he know you like him in any way for him to make a move?
Oh, Saya. I’m so sorry to hear that. Scorpios get like that sometime … because we are loners and sometimes it’s hard to reach out and establish contact regularly.
I’m used to melancholy just being a part of my emotional makeup. I try to funnel it into something creative.
Work & projects don’t help me because they are not personal, … and inherently I need personal stimulation and fulfillment.
Feel better, love.
This new year, I’m going to focus on love beyond romance. Interacting with Aquas is really teaching me to consider elevating friendship higher than lovers. As a Scorpio, I tend to value lovers most.
I think there is something I”m meant to learn about intimate platonic bonds from Aquas…
I’m a Scorpio with an Aqua moon. I’m always attracted to Aquas, Cappys, and Geminis. I hear that Caps are a good match, but Aquas and Geminis? Not sure about that, though the attraction is definitely there on my end.
Kind of depressed lately. I shouldn’t be, with work, and a ton of projects on my plate. Just so…. yearning, you know? Lonely. Starved for contact.
Scorpio Rising people, for what I have known, usually are the people that you meet and you’re like: WOW! MY SOULMATE!
or when you meet you’re all: EEW! I HATE THIS PERSON!
just as radical as the sign scorpio itself.
Add that to an aquarius personality, and VOILA!
I’m impressed to find so many people that have leo moon.
curious.
usually for these to work, the aquarius needs a water sign, such as scorpio or cancer for their moon. Then on the other hand, the scorpio woman, usually as earth or air sign for THEIR moon. Such as capricorn, or gemini.
hope this helps ppl!
I want to hear more about you and your spicy relationships.
this has been a boring post section recently. :S
just wanted to let you guys know… better late than never… the scorpio year ahead post is up!!
Ty,
Moon is in Leo, Venus and Mars is in Cap
. In fact , this one has only sun and True Node in Aqua . The rest are in Cap and Jupiter is in Cancer!
Jenny what’s their moon sign….the moon is how the person show their emotions.
scott:
“I should of known not to get involved with someone who was already in a relationship.”
Just taking a wild stab here, but it sounds like she wants whoever she can’t have.
“We were together just fine, she shared all her feelings and really opened up to me. We connected both emotionally and sexually…then just tonight, after dinner, she dumped me…”
She might also have been freaked out by the intimacy.
Sometimes I get that way myself with people, to the extent that I’m always putting up a kind of false front, even with those I’m close to. Sorry about the whole situation. I hope it turns out for the best.
Hi,
I wonder an Aqua with a Scorp rising , how do they show that they like you romantically ?
Okay so i have been reading a lot of these comments as I am in a weird predicament myself.
I have never been in a serious relationship, was always focused on school/and or my job at that point in time, all of my friends have moved on with their lives, married, engaged or in a serious relationship.
I was talking to this Virgo guy for a little more than a year and I thought we had great chemistry…..but he is way too hot and cold for me, he acts interested than he would pull away and I am too old for games. So I sort of cut him off, but NOW I am completely enamoured with this Aquarius guy that I work with. He is SO funny, charming, sweet and very good looking . The problem is is that he just got out of a long-term relationship and I don’t know if he is ready for another relationship.
We have AMAZING chemistry, when he stands beside me, I literally get a tingle down the back of my spine….. we have been flirting with each other constantly for months, there are the long gazes across the room, winks, and once he put his hands on my waist and I thought I was going to go into convulsions. I am not sure if I should just go with the flow of things and wait until he is ready, or let the whole idea go, he is a really great guy and I would love to get to know him better, but I do have a STRONG fear of rejection.
I am a Scorpio, with Sagittarius rising, and a Leo moon.
the apple of my eye is an Aqua man with a Taurus rising, and he also has a Leo moon.
Any advice?
i won’t copy bouncers comments, because It’s off topic.
BUT.
i’m back with my aquarius.
SOOO gOOD.
(continued)
It is just a ‘pride’ thing…for me
@ scott
i don’t think is a normal scorp behavior as other already mentioned unless they still had strong feelings for each other… even that wouldn’t be enough for me.
As for me, i just don’t give my heart to every Tom, Dick, and Harry, but when I love I love hard to point of an obsession
(which is bad); therefor, i constantly need to be assured that my boyfriend feels same.
So, if i have strong feelings for someone and they really hurt me, i mourn like crazy for a while …and i want to understand what went wrong and go over every little detail to sort off find where things went bad. Then i move on.
I never, ever love someone twice because once a person loses my trust it is really hard to regain it.
The only reason i would get back with my ex is if i am planning something malicious.
So, my first part is seduction…once i get his attention i will make him want me but hard to get ( play some ganes a little)
Then then when dating, i will make an extra effort to make things look way better than they were, make him feel loved and all that.
Once i know that he has totally fallen for me, then out of the blue i dumb him or do something that would destroy his ego for the rest of his life.
God, revenge is sweeter than honey…( i know i am a bad scorp..)
So, Scott,she is probably trying to settle some unfinished business and wanted to move you out of the way. She will probably comes back-who knows- because when we connect with someone sexually- hence emotionally- it is hard for us to just drop the ball and walk away.
There’s only one man I’d go back to — the Leo. He was the love of my life.
Is this man that for her? I wouldn’t be caught dead in the embrace of any other ex-boyfriend.
Anyway sorry Scott…she may well realize later that she’s made a mistake. But then, it could be too late.
Sorry about your pain. Unrequited love sucks!
Listen to sad songs until you’ve overdosed on them and then you’ll feel better
(that’s what I do!)
COR
I think she was probably never was finish with her “ex” especially if it was so easy for her to go back* to him.
Sorry to hear Scott, and no this is not a normal scorpio woman thing. When I’m finish with a relationship it’s extremely hard for me to caught feeling for that person again. I have never been friends with an ex, except for my daughter’s father and it’s only because of my daughter I ease up and told him we could be friends. Normally when I know a relationship is truely over with me it’s because I have no trust in that person. TRUST IS VERY IMPORTANT TO SCORPIOS.
I think she was probably never was finish with her “ex” especially if it was so easy for her to go bad to him.
You seem like a really nice Aqua….I wish the Aqua I was talking to was emotionally connected to me…sigh. You can do better. She’s a bitch sorry to say. I don’t know any Scorpios that would be emotionally and sexually connect with some and just drop them like that. I bet you she would probably be calling you soon if she confused or things are not going going well with her ex.
Don’t be sad…..
Bad news
My scorp just told me tonight that she is going back to her boyfriend. I’m super upset and don’t understand what happened?? We were together just fine, she shared all her feelings and really opened up to me. We connected both emotionally and sexually…then just tonight, after dinner, she dumped me…
This aqua is super sad. Is this a normal scorpio woman thing? To go back to an ex relationship? It was all about us for awhile now she’s back with the other guy. I should of known not to get involved with someone who was already in a relationship. Is there anyway I can get her back? She did say that she didn’t want to hurt me further, but her feelings were still with her ex and she had to go back to him.
sad
Whoa, this thread has really advanced since last I checked.
Scott: Buckets, you say?
In my mind, placing the call, or sending the email, is a big deal, and the aqua in my life should know that.
**laughs**
Yeah, I know.
But…
Are you saying that, because he was a dick to me, he may have actually liked me?
Synthia: I’m feeling the transformation/depression, too. Sorry about the death in your family. Sending you some good vibes.
KATE COULD YOU COPY AND PASTE BOUNCERS COMMENTS ONTO THIS PAGE PLEASE?
Thanks.
PSA
Kate me too. He’s one of my contacts.
wow, all this aquas really drive us insane.
my favorite aqua is on yahoo answers, horoscope section, his name is Bouncer.
the funniest dude with the funniest answers you can think of.
anyone else know him?
http://www.scribd.com/doc/4114/Astrology-Stars,
check out this site that explain quite correct how Aqua men in love.
Chulley,
I think that what Jenny said very true about many Aqua.
Speaking from my as Aqua and many my male and female Aqua friends’s experiences, when we were not serious, we could be a master at play-game, got fun and walked away from “our victims” without feeling guilty at all.
We were quite evil because we thought that person who was not strong enough to stand for themself in relationship is deserved to treat like that.
And we knew that our victims were confusing that we love them or not but we just let them be confused and we still acted in the Aquarius “innocent” reputation.
I’ve never met you but I can imagine that you’re a VERY SWEET girl who WILL do ANYTHING to PLEASE the people around you!
Honestly, I don’t understand why you’ve a very low self-esteem? Have you ever wondered that this relationship has got you down? You’re obviously want more than he could offer at the moment (and in the future probably) but you did settled down for something much less and you can’t have what you’re looking for so you’re starting to feel guilty with the way you’re treating yourself now. One good proof is that you constantly are looking for “signs” to confirm that he’ll “commit” to you one day.
The man has been honest with you about what his needs and his wants from the beginning and you did everything to please him then why would he want to leave you? You think he’s testing you? Well, my dear, Aqua will always be testing people around them; it’s a fun habit for them! And of course, you’re offering him everything he can not even dream to get with other girls so it isn’t too much to say that he’s even very grateful to you. I think you should be grateful to him as well as he distanced himself from you from time to time (although it’s very much a part of his personality) because partly he can see right through you about what you actually need ,my dear! He’s giving you time to reflect and understand the situation clearly .Most importantly, YOURSELF because if you don’t know yourself, you’ll get hurt deeply and you’ll hurt the others around you. Therefore, please consider to have sometimes away from him and understand clearly yourself. To understand what motivate you to stay with him, why you’re playing games to get his reaction (you’ll lose if you do, I can guarantee because Aqua can be a MASTER at games if they care since they’ve observed everyone around them from the very beginning!)
Take care,
also i got all emotional and weird yet he STILL wants to hook up with me. i don’t understand. he literally could have ignored me and never spoken to me again. we haven’t known each other long enough for him to feel some kind of loyalty towards me so i wonder if he has some sort of feelings towards me.
hey all thanks for repsonding. the thing is HE responded to MY post where i did say that i wanted something that could turn into long term. i did settle for the friends with benefits. he is honest…for the most part. i just wonder if he was mad about me breaking it off in the first place and is playing games now. one minute he’s very sweet but as of lately i feel like i annoy him. does anyone know if aquarius men will stay with women so they wont hurt their feelings? he’s on messanger right now and i know i shouldn’t message him but i want to so badly. every time i talk to him lately i feel like he’s testing me.
Chulley I agree with Jenny,
You knew what you was looking for as said went for a long term relationship and you settle for the friends with benefits. Aqua guys from what I know rather honesty, you should have told him what how you felt, or what you wanted from the get go.
Ok Rose I’ll try…..I’m stepping away from the phone….lol
Actually , it isn’t hard to understand the Aqua man you involved with! I’m afraid that he’s already stated very clearly that :
a) TOO BUSY for a relationship, i.e.no expectations PLEASE!
b) Friends with Benefits , i.e. no expectations PLEASE!
You tried to state how you wanted to keep it purely sexual and how you don’t want to attach deeply but the truth is that you didn’t do it for YOURSELF , you do it because “I tried to keep it light because i thought that was what he wanted ” . Unfortunately, this is going to backfire at you in the future because you’re trying to deceive not only him but yourself that you don’t want any thing more than purely sexual but you already are too deep in to get out now! It’s like a defence mechanism, at first, it was just used “in the name of love” – a sacrifice for love or so you think yet this is the start of subtle emotional manipulation. Please don’t think that I’m saying you’re playing games any thing , I’m just afraid that you’re unconsciously doing yourself harm by trying to conform to other expectations while yourself did not do it unconditionally but did it in denial .It’s though understandable because after all, we’re just human and that means there are moments , we’re not strong.However, I beg you to think about the situation you’re in carefully.
Moreover, please count in your post how MANY TIMES you said IT’S OVER to him yet you still come back , you even asked if he’s horny or not! It’ll eventually make him think that you’re just playing games and using EMPTY THREATS!
Once again, my apologies for any harms I caused.Good luck and take care!
Ty,
Don’t do it, girl!
Whenever you feel like calling him, post on here!
or just re-read my post
I have a feeling you’ll be pleasantly surprised with the outcome.
hi everyone, i read every single post on here and it has given me a lot of insight. i am not a scorpio but i am a cancer and i feel a common bond with other water signs. i’m not saying we’re the same but i just feel where they’re coming from. i have been in love with one aquarius which never went any where except now we are best friends. i am now in a relationship(or whatever)with another aquarius.
i am going to give the briefest possible summary that i can.
so i posted an ad on craigslist for a relationship that was definitely not a booty call. i made it clear in the post that i wanted something that might turn into a long term relationship. my new aqua answered my ad and we agreed to chat online through yahoo. so we chat and at first the conversation is dead and i thought he was shy. so i bring the conversation to physical things and he responds immediately. we talk for a couple hours and then the next day we talk pretty much all day about sexual stuff. we agree to meet that night after i finish everything we have to do. so he picks me up and takes me to his house and we have a very akward conversation that kind of picks up. i can tell he is very shy with women. so anyway, i wasn’t going to sleep with him but i did want to see what he was about. so i made a move on him because he said during our messaging earlier that he prefers the girl makes the first move. so i made it and he just kind of sat there so i wasn’t sure if he liked me or not. so i asked him if he was into me or what and he said he was…well that night we get a little frisky and he tells me to slow down because i am going too fast for him. so we end up a little weird. so i text him once and i text him back and then don’t hear from him for a week. just when i thought it was over, i get a text from him apologizing for disapearing and that’s why he never get’s laid or dates. i told him it was okay but then he didn’t respond to my text so i flat out asked him if he was interested in me or not. he said he was but he didn’t have time for a relationship and it wouldn’t be fair to me. so i thanked him for his honesty and thought i would never hear from him again. WRONG! a couple of hours later he texts me again and says that he really enjoyed my company and would like to do other “fun” things but just doesn’t have the time for a relationship. i repsonded with an “okay i’m not looking for marriage” kind of thing. so he says he would like to try a “friend with benefits” thing but he hasn’t had much luck in the past but we can try and as long as i don’t expect anything he was cool with the whole thing.
okay. so we meet up again that night and have a pretty good time but no sex again. which i thought was weird since he was so for the sex part without the commitment. one weird thing he would do is kiss my chin and smile at me. it felt very intimate and not what he would do with someone you are just f buddies with. so the next week, he barely contacts me at all. i looked him up on facebook and tried to add him as a friend, he never added me. i started to feel like he wasn’t into me. so i texted him and asked him if he wanted to meet up that weekend and he said that he couldn’t because he was PROBABLY going to work late and was PROBABLY going to sleep as soon as he got home. so MAYBE we could get together the next day. i hate probablies and maybes. so i wrote him an email(i would have called him but he hates the phone and we spoke only once before during the whole month we were dating) and basically told him that i thought he was great but i felt like he didn’t really want to know me and that i felt like a whore everytime we hooked up. so the next day he texts me and apologizes for making me feel that way and we chat a little bit. so because i am dumb, i make an effort to continue to be his friend because i really do like him a lot. he barely texts me back and i get really pissed and tell him that i will never talk to him again. then i wrote him an email weeks later telling him that i had developed feelings for him and that i couldn’t go on with it being the way that it was and told him that i would never contact him again, i was being crazy i know this.
so i noticed he was messenger a lot and i really wanted to speak to him so i messaged him and asked him if he was horny and he said he was. due to a few circumstances, we couldn’t meet up for a couple of days but exchanged really hot text messeges for the days that we couldn’t get together. so the day we planned to get together he was running late and was trying to bail. i got kind of mad and didn’t return his text messages so he calls me and apologizes for being too tired to hang out. he said he wanted to hang out anyway that night and we did and had a really great time. he had changed a little too in his demanor towards me. he was actually interested in having a conversation with me. it was weird to say the least. i tried to keep it light because i thought that was what he wanted. so i text him a couple of days later and he seems weird. i don’t know, something just seemed wrong. we had a couple of conversations but everytime i turned it to sex, he would either stop talking to me or change the subject. i wasn’t sure if he wanted to have a real conversation or what…i just didn’t want to get too attached and the only way for me to do that is to keep it purely sexual. so anyway we had plans to meet this friday and he said he would “let me know” about this friday when he dropped me off after meeting up that last time. so friday comes and i text him because i hadn’t heard from him in a few days and i wasn’t sure what was up. he doesn’t text me back until the next day saying he was so so so so sorry he left his phone at home and then got home late and wasn’t able to let me know that he couldn’t hang out. he said he would make it up to me next time. so i try to hang out with him that very day and he says he’s sick. he wants to talk about how sick he is and have a conversation with me but as soon as i bring up sex, he stops texting me back. so i try to get him to meet with me on the NEXT day and he says he’ll let me know. i wait all day with no text from him. then i text him that evening and ask how he is. he texts me back a couple of hours later saying he just got back from playing to soccer games back to back and that he’s very sore and has a headache. so i didn’t even ask if he wanted to get together. he wont talk about anything sex related then either.
so today i see him on messenger and we talk for a little while about some issues i am having with school and we talk a little about his soccer team. it was an okay conversation i guess. i prefer talking to people in person or at least over the phone. so my phone is about to die and i have to sign off of messenger. i send him a text when i sign off and he says it’s not problem. my phone dies anyway and i have to wait until i get home to hook up my phone and text him back. so i tell him my phone died and he says “i see”. so we have a little bit of a dirty conversation but not really much of one. he pretty much asked me to describe what i wanted to do with him. then he tells me that he’s been dozing off and needs to go to bed. which is a suprise cuz usually when he’s done talking to me, he just stops texting without warning.
so here is my question: can anyone tell me if he is just leading me on? or maybe he isn’t sexually attracted to me anymore? i don’t get him at all. i very much feel that something is up with him right now and i want to ask him so badly why he is acting weird but i don’t want to scare him. can anyone give me some insight? thanks.
chulley
p.s. i know this is really long and i do apologize…
I consider a True Scorpio(Oct 25)…..cool. I would like to know what that really means though…..I going to go check the sites out and comment about it later. Thanx for the info Paro.
i found this interesting info. which might also add to the other explains why ppl in the same sign might seem different. for a while, i was interested in knowing the difference btwn the october scorps and the november scorps. i found out that…
The difference is not only between October Scorpio and November Scorpio but even between November Scorpios themselves . The reason is that they fall in different Decans . Each Decan lasts for 10 Days :
1st Decan (October 23rd – October 31st) : Scorpio decan …people who are born in this decan are considered “True Scorpios”.
2nd Decan (November 1st – November 10th) : Pisces Decan…people born in this decan have some Pisces traits besides Scorpio ones.
3rd Decan : (November 11th – November 21st) : Cancer Decan…people born in this decan have some Cancer traits besides Scorpio ones.
Here’s a link for more informantion :
http://www.novareinna.com/constellation/scorpiodecans.html
another link for other signs and the decans:
http://www.astralaspects.biz/shopscr681
I like your post to explain the way lots of Aqua girls are. They have thoughts about every thing and too many, and they love to share.
I didnt really read what Aqua girl posted coz i am not interesting to know at this moment (maybe in future i will) but i didnt feel annoyed about that at all.
What in your birthchart makes you seem to be understanding, at least logically?
Oh I think Aqua Girl was just being the typical Aquarius.
With them one thought leads to a divergent thought and then another and then another … and then they just want to share their revelations with the universe.
It happens.
Rose your comment is so inspiring I feel like calling my Aqua right now, but I’m scared of the out come. The last time we spoke was great and I don’t want to call and know it would probably be a whole other week or month to speak to him again. I’m tired of my up and down feelings
That’s great to here Kate, I haven’t been calling my Aqua so I guess I have another 3 weeks to see if your theory works….lol.
Also I don’t know why they think Scorpios are all about sex, the ones I know including myself would rather be with their partner that they love or care about.
Kate!
I agree w/you!
Back in June or July or something, when I heard that my Aqua was dating someone, I backed off. (Not like I was all over him to begin with, but literally just backed off completely. I gave myself a month….I MADE myself. It was almost fun b/c it was like a game. I allowed myself to send him an email after a month, just asking about work stuff (we work in the same field) and he was THRILLED to hear from me and all of a sudden wanted to make lunch plans w/me….get drinks. etc….
IT’S SO TRUE.
I’m actually gonna do it again now, since meeting his Capricorn at his show and since I feel like we got super close this past 2 mos. With him coming out for my birthday, etc….I feel like he may feel uncomfortable with the “so close so fast” since he has a gf. I feel weird and I feel I should lay low now.
It’s been a week. But I know he’ll come around. He knows how I feel about him and he continues to want to be around me and stay in touch.
Take that advice ladies. Just lay low. They aint goin anywhere. theyre already “gone” if you think about it. What’s a little laying low gonna do? Just make you look better.
btw, I love jennys post with all of the zodiac signs in love.
i could NEVER sleep w someone I don’t love.
It’s not me.
AND i have scorpio venus as well as my scorpio sun.
btw, I’m fredy FREDY FREDY FREDY.
but i’m changing my name, because I’m afraid people think I’m an aquarius man and NOT, a scorpio woman.
from now on. . . I’m Kate.
Just so everyone knows.
well, i finally go my aquarius to give me more attention. I was two months without talking to him, and now he’s all pet naming me and coming close to me again. LOL.
well, It wasn’t that hard. all scorpio women. take two months off from you aqua guy, and he’ll be all over you again.
Allrighty then. :}
I was thinking the same thing scott….
But anyway the I could never sleep with someone that didn’t mean anything to me. I hope the Aquarius part isn’t true but I could see some parts being true.
So, to get back to the topic Aqua and Scorpio, i would say that in my opinion, the best perfomer in zodiac is Scorpio, then Taurus, and after that is Capricon and Leo.
haha!
i second scott; i was beginning to wonder where this thread was heading…
no offence aquagirl ^_^
okay..I’m not complaining, but aqua girl..do you work for some sort of company that promotes people/books/videos and such? You seem to put up quite a bit of information that does not really pertain to scorp/aqua relations, which is what this forum seems to be about. It really is a bit too much no? It’s a free world, but can we get back on topic..like more information on scorpio women? Should I expect information on Jo Jo the psychic next?
On that note..
Do check out The below is a truly awesome and endearing book. The part about the nurse with 1 inch sores/welts and the guy who was grey and at deaths door are. amazing. Ann Wigmore was . fantastic.
http://www.chidiet.com/whysuffer.pdf
David Wolfe son of two medical doctors, studied Chemical and Mechanical Engineering at university with some time during that spent at Oxford or Cambridge University in England is now , his goal 2 be world’s best nutritionist. Fully on point with Ann.
Victoria Boutenko (Russian who was herself at deaths door had few yers to liv I think, was suicidal too and healed all her family too, hubby arthritis (who now like Gabriel Cousens does 700 pushups in a row when in his prime could do 60-70ish, holy mackereddoodle whilst I’m at it , Tim Van Orden has heavenly videos that I lust after of Californian pink skies and pine terrain etc., going up fresh mountains, trainig beeeeeeeeelow his lactate threshold so doesn’t hav aches set in the next day which according to his theory it’s becoz the lactic acid is a ph4 and when the body goes to ph4 these self decomposing organisms kick in which would ordinarily decompose a body.. he does it explain it and it isn’t wack, it is jjjoooooolLLLly interesting.. AND HE HAS BEEN RUNNING FOR 2 YRS AT AGE 40 NOW after being ill for 5 yrs and seriously not knowing what to do like decision time he had to find an answer bcoz he was seriously ill couldn’t work either , was depresed in his 20s adn30s worked in computing and NOW IS BEATING WORLD SKYSCRAPER SPRINTING RUNNER UPPERS UP SKYSCRAPERS AND BEST MOUNTAIN ENDURANCE ATHELTES IN THE COUUUNTRAAAYY (sorry I think English people speak with a farmer Cornish is it or Bristol accent when they’re excited). kid juvenile diabetes at 9 and daughter asthma – they had come over from Russia, became succesful then minced around the US supermarkets saying yeesss kiddees all this food is heeeaalthy thinking it had been proven..) (excellent (such adorable findings involving chimps, green Recommended Daily Allowance compared to RDAs on all nutrients by FDA U.S. food drug administration and amazing statistics on organic vs non organic and absolutely fascinating reasons why) work on green smoothies. Also interview with gr88 points not coveed in her her green smoothie book – http://www.naturalnews.com/022792.html)green smoothies more palatable option. if u can’t afford a vitamix wud suggest what this old couple who now 87 working in a library in U.S still with husband who had such amazing bone density after having this juice in the evenings bcoz decades before as a 7th day adventist and couldn’t eat meat or sth but certainly wasn’t able to drink milk due to a personal inability for some reason I forget now had to find a calcium substitue. They settled on greens (eheheeeexcellent choice) and had a juice of collard greens in evening with fresh or tinned if didnt at often times have pineapple.
“Dr. Hazel Parcells (1889-1996) contracted tuberculosis in the 1930s and was diagnosed as terminal. Near death, she turned to her body for wisdom and nursed herseld back to full health by changing her diet. Spurred by the miraculous results she achieved, she embarked on an extraordinary career spent on original research into “kitchen chemistry”, nature’s self-correcting mechanisms and the underlying causes of the health problems of our time. Along the way, Parcells earned a doctorate in nutrition and advanced degrees in chiropractic, naturopathy, homeopathy and comparative religions; set up the first school of nutrition in higher education; and improved the lives of thousands through her Parcell School of Scientific Nutrition.” – she went to an armys best medical centre in Pennsylvania was it and cudn’t be helped. she went back home without help and felt she desired something green. She got through spinach by the sack load. This regenerated her heart and lungs and she had been in a bad way. NB. Do post or email someone like David Wolfe to check b4 u put something into use if some1 is sick. Just 2 b on safer side. and make up ur mind / understand why they recommend it.
tHERE is a watershed graph showing % of diet that is plant based, not just based but I mean 100% is fully plant. The top two were sth like Laos and I forgot the other one. With another bar showing % deaths heart disease and cancer. It has all the countries on it. 100% plant with 0% deaths were this Laos and other.. Reverse were U.S. and Hungary similar story but up the other end. with counties in the middle suffering middle % and all variations b/w corresponding.
aNBywahys hceck David Wolfe out on you tube for his sheer energy.. there’s a reason for that.. Ann ended up sleeping 4-5 hrs a night on blended food by end of her life. Also depression goes,.amazingly. replaced by .. amazingness.
She cud just incorporate some of these things once she’s stronger. Also Johanna Budwig’s book is fascinating. S he felt she had found the cancer cure and was censored by I forget who. She was german.. combining cottage cheese and flax oil (amazing) created loads of spare electrons which happarently was amazing.
Oooh ooh ooh I’m super excited.. sorry.. check out also old blue eyes at the end of the link of the great page below.. eheh
http://www.markusrothkranz.com/about_markus.html
The above also helps humongously with elevated to the extreme moods as well.
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AquaGirl
Aquarius Sun, Merc, Mars, Pisces Rising, Moon Virgo, Venus Capricorn. I feel this explains myself more (i.e. I hope this isn’t all procrastination! heh heh). Ooh 12th house (hidden/subconscious) Sun, Merc, Mars, 7th house (relys) Moon, and coupla others. There endeth my knowledge on astrology unfort
Lk forward to learning more I guess.
ooh Chcekc out Markus Rothkranz’s amazing story. He was sort of a young genius designer, then did stunts and worked I think as an architect was it? He’s now inspired by Walt Disney and puts on rawfood massive rock shows a bit like Cirque Du Soleil I think. WELL almost. ?. I’m not sure.. but I think they do hav big special effects anyway. Praps not the sublime of Cirque Du Soleil! hehe. His story at least is really lovely to read.. very impressive what he was doing in his early teens! hehe. I don’t thiink I’m confusing him with som 1 else. Hm there’s an even better description about the number of models he was building in his teens somewhr else..
“At age 9 Markus gave a speech on exponential evolution. At 13 he built a 180 sq ft scale model of the entire Walt Disney World Magic Kingdom. By 15 he was making movies with car stunts & explosions. At 16 he won an automotive design contest. By 17 he was in advanced electronics and hypothetical physics. By 18 he copied a famous masters oil painting stroke for stroke in only a few days. By 19 he was working with architectural firms. By 23 he was doing Hollywood FX design work on films like Total Recall, Die Hard, Red Planet. In 1994 he wrote and directed his own 2 million dollar worldwide motion picture, doing much of his own cinematography and personally built over 200 miniature models. By 46 he proved anti-aging and disease eradication and is now set for his greatest undertaking ever- the World Health Project -healing the world and awakening the planet to a new way of living in body,mind and spirit. Fueled by undying love, spiritual magic and the passion of a true Leo, Markus is about to give the world a show it will never forget.”
Um. and on that note check out David Wolfe to keep your energy (and energy bodies’ / power/ / magnetism levels) up!
“Do check out The below is a truly awesome and endearing book. The part about the nurse with 1 inch sores/welts and the guy who was grey and at deaths door are. amazing. Ann Wigmore was . fantastic.
http://www.chidiet.com/whysuffer.pdf
David Wolfe son of two medical doctors, studied Chemical and Mechanical Engineering at university with some time during that spent at Oxford or Cambridge University in England is now , his goal 2 be world’s best nutritionist. Fully on point with Ann.”
ROFL Sacrilege
LOL Um, this is potentially true.
I think as long as love or fiery love is involved that’ll work. THEY JUSt don’t like a lack.
“For the Scorpio woman, sex is treated as if it were a job to be done, nothing more or less. She does not have to love a man to sleep with him; there is no real tenderness or affection expressed during the sexual act.”
Sacrilege!!!! That is absolutely fraud! Not true at all. Evil!
“Both male and female grow to hate any lover who wants them more than they want the lover. Remember, treat an Aquarian badly, disappoint him, break appointments, keep your emotions hidden – they will be captivated.”
Um, this is potentially true.
lol Rose
Ugh I know. I hate Capricorns.
Jenny — I don’t find that funny — it’s insightful…. I believe those on the dark end of their sign’s spectrum truly do exhibit that behavior.
One thing though — Capricorn is the best sexual performer in the zodiac??? Um, I beg to differ. That cannot be true.
I’d put Leo first for performance then Scorp. But Scorp first when it comes to “emosex.” I made that word up, heh heh.
I just read this article and it’s incredibly funny
Don’t take it personally then it will be 
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The Hidden Faults and Secret Vices of Your Lovers
Aries – The Egomaniac
There is a tremendous burst of power and love is at its peak when the affair is new, this tends to diminish the further the affair progresses. In the beginning he can be the ideal lover, but at the end there is resentment and hate. There can be no tests of his love or demands from the loved one. He is the master and the game must be played by his rules. When an Aries female’s lover tries to take the upper hand, she will dismiss him as difficult and overbearing. She will go from one man to another, comparing and testing them to decide which one she can handle with the greatest ease. Her satisfaction depends on how much the man is capable of giving her and rarely considers her own contribution to the affair. Faithfulness is not a concept she understands.
Taurus – The Insensitive Bully
The Taurus man will always choose someone inferior to himself who is willing to serve him in some way – a kind of servant to wait on him, to be useful in helping him advance his career. Many choose not to fall in love but rather have their freedom to pursue their career. They are practical in love above all else. The Taurus female only has marriage in mind. She charmingly and quietly beguiles and seduces a man into marriage and then proceeds to strip him bare of all his worldly goods, abandoning him the moment his pockets are empty. She will use her earthly sexual powers which can be considerable to make a good marriage, repeating the process as often as necessary to satisfy her greed. Taurians hate to talk about love, most of all when a verbal commitment is expected of them. They can never avow their love with a full heart, always fearing that they will be victimized. Taurus cannot bring himself to tell his loved one how much he cares. He is a clumsy lover, knowing he can not be tender. Taurus will deliberately avoid a delicate emotional situation lest his awkwardness and his inability to deal with it become apparent.
Gemini – The Divine Discontent
When Gemini falls in love, he is overwhelmed with feelings of indecision and confusion. Love is always viewed in the abstract. This idea of love enables them to avoid clutter of physical and emotional ties; preferring to carry on an affair through letters or telephone than in physical fact. A typical affair may begin through a brief journey or meeting – an encounter that requires very little emotional responsibility. It can be kept alive through correspondence which may last for years. This allows them to remain uncommitted and free for Gemini prizes freedom. They can be impatient in the sexual act and would rather be voyeurs rather than participants. No single partner can meet their needs and they can carry on more than one affair at a time. Their pleasure in love is mental rather than physical and thus they welcome the secret affair where meetings are difficult and mental torment is intense.
Cancer – The Oedipal Complainer
The male Cancer falls in love readily and becomes involved emotionally. He tends to dramatize his love affairs and can even create and intense emotional attachment to someone whose affection for him is either slight or nonexistent. Cancer is extremely jealous and possessive always believing his lover is faithless. This is a direct threat to his masculinity, reverting to helplessness and impotence. It takes little to reassure him and once his self-confidence returns he will be caught up again in complete devotion and the cycle begins again. The female Cancer who can be as jealous as her counterpart is capable of handling more than one lover, but being possessive, she must own them all. They are like playthings to her, to be manipulated and moved about like toy soldiers. She will drain the purse of each and every lover. They are complainers and never stop crying and pleading for money and gifts like spoiled children. They shop constantly filling their closets with clothes they never wear, accumulating lovers whose emotional commitments they collect but rarely reciprocate. Their appetite for food is similar and they will eat gluttonously all day. They confuse love with an emotional hunger for attention and sensual satisfaction.
Leo – The Prima Donna
Leo is very dramatic about love and wants the whole world to love as ardently as he does, for he is always in love. Love enables Leo and makes him generous and enthusiastic. But he must keep his lover in the dependent position and will smolder if he is not adored. Leo women will browbeat or cruelly abuse their lovers to get total obedience. To Leo love is a great ideal, to be dramatized and honored. He will occasionally employ deviate, degrading sexual practices as a sign that the lover is no longer loved, that the affair is over. He will expect the lover to become disgusted and to leave him; he will not take the initiative to end the affair on his own. Leo women use the same device. Leo hates open argument and will not lower himself to fight. An unwanted lover is simply dismissed. Leo males will attract women as if they are sirens while the females will control and disdainfully reign over their men. It takes Leo a long time to recover from a serious love affair; in fact he will try to avoid this kind of love so that he cannot become vulnerable to another’s power. When he has committed himself fully and generously, as he will, and then he loses, he will become aloof and distant until his confidence is regained. Leo believes he is the only one who knows how to love and thus he feels he deserves all the attention he can get.
Virgo – The Censor
When Virgo falls in love it is purely for sex. The lover must be able to satisfy Virgo’s considerable sexual needs. Each new image arouses sexual desire, but so long as you can remain sexually attractive to Virgo, you will retain his love. The slower you are in yielding your gifts, the longer you can keep the affair alive. Nothing is more unattractive to him than easy surrender, which stamps you as cheap and worthless. Virgo can be either chaste or promiscuous, one extreme or the other. There are many spinsters, one-man women, and confirmed bachelors in this sign, but there are also the chasers who frequent bars or pickup joints in the search of a one-night stand. This type can be quite degenerate in his sexual appetites. Despite this, Virgo ranks lowest on the scale of sexual prowess. He is not romantic except as the chase itself is romantic. Sex is something to be done as quickly and efficiently as possible. When Virgo says he loves you and behaves in a jealous manner, do not be flattered. This usually simply means that you are serving some useful role for them and are considered a piece of their property. Anyone who tries to lure you away is depriving Virgo of a useful tool – no more. For both male and female Virgos, true love is not involved; they are never tender or sympathetic unless there is something they cannot get without showing affection.
Libra – The Narcissist
Librans work hard to keep lovers coming and going. At first they will give you constant attention until you are completely involved but soon the demands of keeping up the love affair will become too much for them and you will become part of the background. Librans will never relinquish their lovers completely, for they may be needed again. The primary function of a lover is to amuse, satisfy, admire, and exalt Libra, and if you are easily won, the excitement is blunted. If Libra is rejected, he becomes completely demoralized; he cannot believe that anyone could weary of him, though he does nothing to deserve love. Yet even when sorrowful, Libra will immediately seek to dispel the blow by filling the environment with new people – or will revive his original charm until you surrender. In failure, he is without pride, and nothing will compel him to look within himself for any failing. Librans are very competitive and will often scheme to humiliate their loved ones. It is a shock to learn that Libra can be spiteful, for he seems so blandly unaware of his offenses to others. Librans have a fascination with sex and require a great deal of stimulation to become aroused. The sexual act itself can be a nuisance and though all sorts of methods may be employed to arouse and be aroused, there is often little personal interest or involvement. Because Libras gives so little real emotional commitment to a lover, it is not surprising that they like to talk about their affairs. By comparing and weighing the attitudes of themselves and their lovers, they can remain uninvolved and even dissipate whatever interest they may have had in the loved one. Libra likes orderly endings to love affairs. This is to their advantage because, they may need to call on the deserted lover at a later date.
Scorpio – The Sex-Obsessed Demoralizer
A Scorpio male is too practical about human relationships to fall deeply in love; his real love is power and making his reputation secure through wealth and position. Whatever is left over will be given to a lover. Both male and females are always discontented in love and complain constantly about the loved one, usually they are not loved sufficiently. A Scorpio often feels that his lover is weak and inattentive, and unable to appease Scorpio’s voracious appetite. Scorpio does not hesitate to tell the world about his lover’s weaknesses, but if the lover is unwise enough to expose Scorpio’s inadequacies, he would be making a costly mistake. For a love affair to run smoothly, Scorpio’s loved one must be submissive with no life of his or her own; the lover must allow himself to be absorbed body and soul. But no matter how much is given, the lover will always be treated ungratefully. Scorpio has no interest in his partner’s responses or satisfactions, only in his own, for Scorpio is the most selfish sexual sign. His famous sexual appetite is like his eating habits – greedy and intense. He cannot be distracted from his own pleasure during the sex act, otherwise he will fail to achieve climax. This points up the fact that Scorpio is really weak and lacks sexual strength. This may be because they give so much thought to their sexual obsessions that their energy is dissipated by the time the real thing comes along. For the Scorpio woman, sex is treated as if it were a job to be done, nothing more or less. She does not have to love a man to sleep with him; there is no real tenderness or affection expressed during the sexual act. The extreme sexual attractiveness that Scorpios have is powerful, they are physically as well as mentally magnetic. Both male and female love to quarrel, which is an important part of lovemaking. Fighting seems to stimulate them, the atmosphere they create seems to make things exciting for them. Scorpios resent needing others to satisfy them, and this results in hostility and anger, a passion to degrade or demoralize the loved one.
Sagittarius – The Don Juan
Sagittarians fall in love at first sight and idolize the image of their loved one. From then on, they are making love to an ideal, rather than a real person. Even when they are in love, they can easily fall in love with another, for there is always some new feature to attract them. They are incorrigible flirts and each new conquest reinforces their behavior – but they never know when to stop. They collect lovers indiscriminately, often becoming involved on impulse with worthless people. They are unreliable lovers, most of their energy is devoted to courting a new lover, while keeping the rest dangling on a thin thread. Their light, tentative touch simply reflects their emotional shallowness, although it is attractive to many people. The fear of intense lovers who might trap them has taught Sagittarians to use the device of treating the lover as an idol, so that they can maintain a distance and prevent close involvement. Because of their Don Juan mania to conquer all, they rarely become completely committed in a pure, deep love affair. Sagittarius is too shallow, irresponsible, and romantic to be truly emotional. But he cannot tolerate inconstancy in others; he is conceited enough to believe that a lover will continue to love him forever, though the lover may be neglected or even forgotten. Sagittarius is not cruel but foolish. They cannot endure an intense sexual relationship, preferring to sample here and there. The sexual act is not as important as the courtship; in fact, they have many lovers to hide the fact that sexually they are second rate. Sagittarians never grow up.
Capricorn – The Honor Seeker
Capricorn does care a great deal about love, which is often a source of inspiration to him. Capricorn is probably the best sexual performer of the zodiac, though his quiet manner and desire for privacy often hides this considerable talent from view. Both males and females seek a mate who is capable of fulfilling their voracious sexual appetites, which occupy much of their attention. Capricorn males select their lovers with great care; they are not flirts in any sense of the word and do not like to waste time in searching for a lover. They know by instinct when they have found the right partner. The sexual act is often a kind of ritual for them, not simply the fulfillment of a need or a form of release. He expects and is capable of quality lovemaking; seeking to achieve total satisfaction for both himself and his partner through his innate desire for the highest form of sexual love. Because they take time in finding the suitable lover, they remain faithful and rarely end an affair or marriage. They have much to give a lover; silly, romantic, gestures bore them. If they are deceived or abandoned, they will usually turn their energy to their career and become very difficult to deal with on a personal level. They can be contemptuous of anyone who refuses or mistreats their love. If they do not find the right sexual partner or mate, they care for no one who is not useful in furthering their ambitions. The female Capricorn is the most unfortunate woman of the zodiac. She too seeks to be exalted in love, but because she tends to select men whose ambitions she must support, she is never truly satisfied. She is more generous than her male counterpart, but is rarely lucky in love. If unattached, she is usually involved in her own ambitions. She can be cold and scheming, using her sexual power to seduce men and get control of them. As both male and female are masters of lovemaking, so are they masters at hating. One of their favorite ways to show hate is to curse people.
Aquarius – The Fame Freak
One cannot expect a smoothly running love affair with an Aquarian, who will become bored with a lover as quickly as he falls in love. Everything is done in extremes. Relationships will start off with a bang, and you will be given undivided attention until the excitement wears off. At that point you will be dropped without ceremony if the initial feeling can never be revived. You will be treated like a stranger as soon as the affair is over unless you are clever enough to transform the relationship into a friendship. The male makes a better friend than a lover. The female is domineering and likes to run the affair, making all the rules. She can be a heartless virago, pressuring the man into submission until not a shred of his self-respect is left. If he manages to escape her, she will be prideless and masochistic in pursuing him until he returns. Perversely, she will find the lover more precious if he does not want her. Aquarians concentrate on one lover at a time until they become tired. They do not like to take the responsibility for ending an affair but if the lover doesn’t get the hint, they will provoke a quarrel or create an impossible situation so that the lover will have to leave. Both male and female grow to hate any lover who wants them more than they want the lover. Remember, treat an Aquarian badly, disappoint him, break appointments, keep your emotions hidden – they will be captivated.
Pisces – The Spiritual Panhandler
Pisceans need the constant reassurance of love. They become hurt and dejected if those around them fail to make frequent loving gestures. They get love mixed up with affection – and affection is what they really crave. Fuss over them, and their gratitude can be embarrassingly servile and effusive. Do not be too flattered when you are singled out by a Piscean, for he will cling to whomever is nearest to him. Pisceans long for love, hunger for friends, and will set about claiming you for their own. It is not necessarily you they want, however; it is the romantic atmosphere of love that sets their emotional craving into action. When they do find someone to love, they will demand enough attention to discourage even the most patient admirer. They will pretend they are not worthy of your love to elicit reassurance, but this is play-acting, an illusion they conjure up. Piscean men choose women who have money or a social position, someone who will support them in their profession. They do not mind a domineering woman, in fact, she suits them. They find security in a strong woman; demanding lovers and nagging wives give them the constant attention they need. They are the original milquetoasts. They can be lied to or deceived but will continue to go on loving an unfaithful woman; it makes her all the more precious if she is desired by other men. This is a narcissistic kind of love. Pisces men are not exciting sexually, they are very passive, almost female in the act. Sex is not important to them, for they do not often have enough energy to perform. They dissipate what energy they have in emotional experiences. Pisceans are often drinkers and many have become drug addicts which gives them a route into their fantasy world. The females are just as clinging as the men, even more so. Their methods are subtle, quiet, and unassuming; they will send out a smokescreen to hide the fact that they are leeches, exploiting their lovers. They need lovers or husbands who will assume full responsibility in caring for them, so that they can be free to drift through their aimless lives. The Pisces woman does not necessarily care for the man she pursues, but she considers it a threat to her femininity if a man passes her up or eludes her attention. Pisces woman must prove they are desirable. Once they win, they will slide back into their emotional swamp, frightened at what may be expected of them, unable to maintain the charade. Pisces woman do not see what is wrong with their own faithlessness.
Scorpioland.ning.com is great!! Thanks for that Synthia.
Rose,
thats funny that we mostly said the same thing. i didnt have time to read everything people said but yea… I like the chase but im not sure why they arent reciprocating the way scorpio girls want them too. maybe it has to do with looks. i know i dont go for the slutty, drama filled partiers. lol. i would much rather date a cute book worm that i know wont be chillin with drunk guys all the time.
I met a scorpio girl the other night at a show i played on friday and she added me on myspace on saturday. we got talking over aim and we made a date THAT day she added me. it was just last night with her and im not gonna lie when i say it was awesome. the exact girl i want. ahhhh gotta love those scorpio women.
haha sorry i had to get it out.
I find it interesting that most, if not all, of the Aqua guys on here said the same thing!
Hmm…wish I knew that 9 mos ago. lol
Hey Jared,
Thanks for your insight!
Sadly, I think quite a few of us HAVE let them know we are interested, and they just aren’t reciprocating the way we want them to.
hey im an 22 year old aquarius male and i have to agree that i’m very attracted to scorpios. its true that girls often find me hard to read but im very picky about the ones i would like to date. i like long term relationships and wouldnt get into ones that i forsee not being long and meaningfull.
Its also true that i dont like being shackled by certain aspects of a relationship such as “a girl wanting me to call her all the time just to check in”. If i like her, i will definatly call without her having to ask me. Or… “not being able to do something because of her”. If i go out with people, dont get jealous because i would NEVER cheat! although it IS good to know that you are a little jealous sometimes for the sake of us wanting to know u really care. Although i am very passionate and loving of the girls i date.
The advice i have about girls wanting to date an Aquarius is LET THEM KNOW THAT YOUR INTRESTED or he may never acknowledge you. Give us our space and dont show signs of a long term relationship or a commitment early on unless you are sure we want one, or it is likey that we will bounce. lol. i’ve done that twice within the last couple months.
i like being an aquarious and most of the descriptions i have read about us are true. not all tho.
Dear Synthia,
I wish I had some advice!! Good Luck
Hey Aqua Girl —
I had bee concerned about hanging up because respect for women is probably one of my highest values. Now, this guy is a gentleman, so I’m willing to cut him some slack because he likely did feel powerless …he was trying to give me advice about my career and I rejected it, telling him he didn’t know what he was talking about.
Part of that was because it’s really important for me to be self-sufficient. As for vulnerability …it’s funny you mention that. I only show my vulnerability in certain romantic moments. In that conversation he was actually urging me to be more vulnerable, saying “vulnerability shows character.”
I thought that was sweet of him to say. … but as I’m going through some tough things in my life now…I’m not interested in showing too much vulnerabilty or weakness. To me, that’s not the Scorpio way. I mean we are emotional …and as I mentioned I’m actually dealing with deep melancholy right now…but I’m a scrapper and even in those moments there is an inherent strength that I display.
So, he’s just going to have to deal (or not) with this tough exterior.
As for the magic…. I meant it when I said I’m moving on. We did have magic and we were in sync and that’s great…but he’s with someone and you and I know he’s not going to leave… so I no longer am operating under delusions.
I’m actually feeling better and better as I grow more set in that decision. In the future, once the romantic feelings have completely died, perhaps we’ll be friends.
@ Synthia I’m not sure why it bothers you that he hung up. It’s probably the only bit of control he has – when dealing with a scorpio who normally are the ones with all the control. That or he was just too emotional and it was out of almost grief because he loves you so much that he hung up. Oh I’ve just read your post, okay well anyway .. I think u should trust in the magic more just be as magnificent as you can be without showing too much neediness or vulnerability.. vulnerability but not cringeworthy .. asuredness as I’m sure you do have and if it’s meant to be, though do try if you do really want him and a bit of straight up honesty he may well respond to, without cringeworthyness, just honest.. then he’ll come back to you. I am convinced that aquarians would much rather be with a scorpio,,, .
Ooh well only great to hear for people that would care but I found out yesterday after thinking the chart was quite slightly different that Donna is
Sun Pisces, Scorpio Rising, Mercury Aquarius, Moon Sagittarius, Mars Capricorn, Venus Aries. (: She was compared to chess champion Bobby Fischer. Also out thur on Google.
Her chart makes even more sense to me now .. there was such a deep switched on part to her that always seemed sort of hidden or not seen so much in amongst her jokey but wonderful and full of interesting and needed out there qualities persona. I’d say it’s partially from the fully awake scorpio (rising).
I know Nancy Ann Tappe who sees colors similar to Donna, certainly they both see life colors the same, once worked with an astrologer tdw her life colors and it matched up marvellously. I’ve always wanted to read that work as Nancy’s book and life story was amazing. She saw little people on the lawn with her psychic grandmother which her grandfather couldn’t see and she had a being called Golden Eagle that used to talk when her grandfo was around but not when grandmother as the grandmother would say you daint (some sorta old scottish american dialetc) need both tae cry I only chastised one of ye. Woah.
Tho in light of reading yesterday on Donna’s wonderful dancer daughter’s site Titanya Dahlin called What The Bleep Is Going On I’m so glad to see that actually she once started seeing b/w the worlds and saw people of all shapes and sizes walk down the street and pets but I think they were made of light. which is so funny bcoz when I met her, she is a blue red life color (marilyn monroe was red) , she seemed so otherworldly focussed. Lovely and wise, but somehow that too. Still she is an amazing artist so not that I’m one to know or judge!
She isn’t an astrologer, but it seems to be cool anyway.
I guess there is so much more to the world than we can see.
It’s amazing.
Young physics student, Canadian Adam Dreamhealer is also interesting. (:
By all means look it up.
Who’s Donna Eden and what does she do?
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Barbara is Sun Pisces, Aquarius Rising, Mercury Pisces, Moon Pisces, Venus in Pisces, Mars in Sagittarius.
Donna’s books are f-an-t-as-tic- for nervous breakdowns or emotional health of any sort. She has bought a woman out of forgetting everything in a mental hospital in 45 minutes by holding her temple points. The books are amazing .. everyone should know about these techniques.
I also love her second book tho have only read some of it. Fascinating what she says about how clients always wanted to see her in a certain week of her cycle. Bcoz in that week she is way more psychic, far too caring, etc. That married with me doing all this work in a super passionate way during the same week.. so fascinating to see what we women do during the week before our periods I think it is.
Tho alos hadn’t seen Terese De Wolf (rawdownunder on you tube – other fantastic method for happiness tho Donna talks about trying raw food in the 60s in her second book I think it is – she was off the chart on any normal behaviuor had allergies to fruits vegetables everythin, m.s. as a teen, heart attack at 27, loads of other stuff where the polynesians stuck her in the sand to get rid of toxins when she was very young and v. unwell she was like finally some people with I guess it was ancient wisdom who know what they’re doing.. she had way more weird things going on with her . suffice to say, well not actually as she didnt have the fruit etc. allergies at this point but nevertheless she felt awful even tho loved the idea of raw. Natch wud think it was detox anyway.. wil hav to bring that up to her I think in May next year.) So Terese had read (and her enthusiasm on raw hasmatched mine, so nice to see and feel Im not ht e only one almost tripping out on the wonderfulness of it all – mental, emotional, physical amazing sense of well being after a one month cleansing reaction of a cold 2 lots of 10 dyas in a row which given my history would make sense.. then feeling fantastic and needing less sleep with ginormous amounts of creative energy — ann wigmore only slept 4 hours and under the radar in his early 80s Staten Island New York nutritionist Fred Bisci raw foodist and PHD nutritinoist last 50 years also only sleeps 4-5 hrs. He believes longevity doesnt seem to increase but degenereative illneses and physical health does. Thats all ive been able to find out so far.
But Terese read about a woman I forget her name she mentionsi t on one of her videos where apparently all these coral reef type things sth like that let out their spores (sorta) on the 19th of every month in line with the moon and the tides. Which I thought was kind of beautiful tho eeeeeevvvvven more so after reading some of the beeeoooooooooooutiful Gift of Unkonwn Things by Lyall Watson a biologist etc. etc. etc. etc. where he talks about all these squid and crab and conches that leap one foot forward and then out comes an eloquent eye that looks at the person… which given my love of cancer star signs, crabs and how they show divine love (Neville Goddard) story.. just leaves me in heaven. But Lyall’s story about the squid was great, beautiful, and the colour of their eyes.
And that women Terese’s woman if it’s right should ovulate on the 19th.
Check out Jude Currivan on you tube people!! hehehe.
Donna is a pisces btw. Aren’t all psychics!? Jude Currivan, Tony Stockwell, Barbara Brennan .. there are more but I forget right noow.
I would seriously consider looking at Donna Eden’s videos on you tube and buying her book.
AquaGirl
Hey Rose — yeah, that’s had been my philosophy in handling this bond — keeping my emotions under wraps and just riding the spontaneity of the relationship. I’ve been an ace at wrangling him …but I”m tired and as a Scorpio if things aren’t escalating fast enough for me I get angry… and well, there’s been too much turbulence lately.
All this attaching, detaching, charming, leaving — that’s too unstable for me over the long run. I need lots of constant, progressively devoted attention, follow up and emotional investment.
As for the b-day, I never told him specifically my birthday, but he’s seen my chart. I don’t really care about that though… I can’t get over the hang up. I conduct myself with class and I’m not sure how he got the impression he could hang up on me. Now, granted he might be thinking…you weren’t saying anything so I thought you had an attitude and I hung up. This is a grown man with a PhD… I have never seen him behave like this.
And to tender an apology and not follow up with thorough communication to mend the rift. I know he thinks all is well ..and has said “We’ll move on.” That doesn’t work for me. No, MF you move on.
So thanks for the “go girl,” Rose. because I don’t want this to work out. It’s not good for my emotional health. I’ve felt so much better since I decided that I’m severing the bond. I do cry when I think about him — because I’m very private and allowed him to get closer to me than anyone in a long time. We’ve shared and confided so much and it feels a physical part of my body is being torn away. I generally like keeping my walls up… but with him I had no walls or boundaries …and I made myself too vulnerable.
The test will be when he calls in the coming weeks (and he will) and wants to see me… I’ll have to stick to my stance to detach from him.
Anyway, enough about me. Like I said earlier Rose I think Aquas can see unconventional beauty….and man do they love Caps. With the nervousness and being closed off … he probably is intrigued by what’s beneath that facade.
Anyway, looks like you came off pretty well and might have been a bit intimidating for her if she kept stealing glances.
Great that he seemed bored …
Synthia!
So glad you’re back and so sorry for all the depression you’re going through. I can imagine how it must be. Us Scorps are very intense, and when we invest to much emotion in something only to have it not work out, it is devastating. I’ve had to take antidepressants a few times in my life when I feel most people would just shrug and move on!
Part of me wants to give you a “GO GIRL!” for deciding to let your Aqua go, and the other part of me is quite sad…..and wants to believe and always have hope. (I am always at war with myself!)
I cannot believe he didnt remember your birthday. Or did he, and just chose to ignore it? Wow. I cannot even imagine an Aqua blowing up like that. They are always so calm and “psshhh, whatever” about everything and always seem to want to mend relationships. When they do get mad, they always seem to just walk away and not look back, rather than erupt like that! Obviously his Scorpio moon! that’s so interesting.
Why must they stay with the Caps? Do they want a life doomed with boredom??
So sorry. I hope you can find another Aqua to discuss with us. hahahaha.
OH! I MET HIS CAPRICORN!!! After he so nicely came out for drinks for my birthday and gave me a pumpkin, I thought it would be nice if I finally went to see his band play. I knew she’d be there, and I went ALONE. He introduced us, quite awkwardly, and I shook her hand confidently and she gave me a quiet and curious “Nice to meet you too”. The fact that she was super short which required me to LOOK DOWN at her made it even more awesome. She is short, dumpy, awkward, nervous looking thing and would not stop looking over at me while he was on stage. she spent most of the set talking his best friends ear off as he looked bored. haha it was amazing. After the show I told Aqua I had to run to meet some friends and was super cheerful and confident the whole time. It went well. But…..he is still with her so it didnt go that well. hahaha
He texted me the next morning thanking me for coming and that he was sorry we couldnt “hang out more”. (whatever, i was the one who left! haha)
Aqualuvr and Ty, I have been reading you guys’ posts and I empathize SO MUCH. I feel that generally, with these guys that play the aloof game, we do need to let them go.
Or at least just train ourselves to be cool with how they are and try hard not to take it personally. This is why the stars say we are incompatible matches. UNLESS we can learn from them. We are too intense, they arent. We can maybe benefit from adapting some of their aloofness (is that even a word? lol)
Try not to let our emotions get the best of us. They are not bad people. They don’t even REALIZE what they are doing to us. And if they do, they dont UNDERSTAND it because their emotions just do not work that way. Did you ever see or hear of someone flip out over something that you yourself would NEVER flip out over? You think theyre a little bit crazy, right? You don’t feel for them because you do not understand how their mind is working.
For some, yes, you do need to let them go, depending on the circumstance, but some of us just need to…..let it be……
We Scorpios love to “End” things in an obvious manner. Blow ups, fights, impulsive deleting from facebook;).
I am trying very hard to be like this, and I think Im doing alright.
aqualuvr. I so understand you. be careful with the sagg rising. the aquarius will be caught up in that image and think she’s all about it, when she’s really a cap. That what happens with me. I have gemini rising, so as an air sign, aquarius seem to love me like honey. As soon as he gets to her capricorn, he’ll probably be scared and leave. that ALSO happens with me. The only one that didn’t leave was one with a cancer moon (also water).
I think as long as you give some time. he’ll come back. even though it may take longer than you think. you just have to be very honest, sincere AND frank when he DOES.
xoxoxo and kudos to alll!!!!!!!
BTW that Thanx Rutu and Jenny(I like what you said….nice)
Also My Rising is Sagittarius which make me blunt and honest, I tell like is it is; my moon is Gemini it make me more detached (like staying to myself, being at home typical scorpion thing, but I don’t like being alone for a long time i gets depressing), it also helps me to adapt to different setting even though the Scorpio in me is always analyzing(people alway think I am shy but I like to listen to what going on in my environment ….
My Venus and Mars are Virgo which makes me extremely picking when it comes to friends and relationships(I alway pick wrong BTW….lol).
@ Jenny
Yes, i know what u mean about the playful bossy bit… that is how i am… and i tend to like to give my opinion, even when it is not wanted, i often get in fights with my sister (who is a capricorn with sagittarius rising) because of this….
i dont believe you were over-reacting, i have ended relationships for the same reasons, and i would not be able to handle a guy hanging up on me because he is mad… if he doesnt have the balls to fight with me, or atleast stay on and talk it out, there are going to be MAJOR problems…. i know i cannot stand a guy like that, because i believe every relationship needs a good shake up to see if it will be able to handle the full deal…. that is where the communication part comes in…. to me that is saying, “f’ck u” and throwing his problems in your face….
What was his problem w/ u asking him about his moon? that i cannot even begin to imagine is offensive…. (is it really that offensive?) lol, i guess, i wouldnt continue that relationship, but huzzah to u if you do! you will need alot of patience and a grand reserve of it at that! lol….
@ Rick
good luck at finding your woman, and try not to get too frustrated w/ our species… we do tend to like to be fickle sometimes, even the mature ones…
Wow…this is sad…it seems like all of us Scorpio women are going through similar situations.
I hate liars and I kinda feel betrayed by him…..I actually been there for him. He stay at my place many times…..I hurt now that I know he truth.
Hey guys!!!
Happy birthday all my fellow Scorpios.
Rose — hey sweetie, I’ve missed you too.
So much upheaval in my life right not. You’d think with the Sun in Scorp this would be our best time, right?! But so much transformation. I can’t take it, been so depressed dealing with all these volatile emotions.
Anyway, Rose so sorry the Aqua didn’t show up to your party. AT least you got a pumpkin. My Aqua didn’t even acknowledge me on my b-day. I’m soo done.
And no, he’s not ever leaving his Cap either, so I’ve realized this bond is too intense and needs to be broken off.
I’m not even going to be friends. The feelings are soo deep and painful to not consummate and I’m finding I thrive better completely single or completely in a relationship.
Being in between … and wondering what the relationship is, where it’s going to go, when I’m going to see him, etc … just is too traumatic for me. I swear I’ve been crying all week…especially since we had a big fight last week — he told me “You don’t listen to anyone ..because you think you know everything and you want to dominate everybody!” What?!!! Um, I’m a Scorpio with Capricorn rising…. of course I’m a bit bossy, assertive, and like giving advice — I mean isn’t that cute, lol, I am flirty and playful about it. He used to like that edge … he once said to me “What I like about you is that you’re so competitive.” And now I’m domineering?! Geesh. It’s really just playful bravado.
And then, when I was stunned because he was yelling at me — and aquas rarely yell — I didn’t respond … I was silent due to shock — and then he hung up. WTF?
So, that put me in a dilemma because I don’t let men disrespect me. I have ended male friendships and romances over disrespectful actions …because that is not something women should tolerate.
Three hours later he emailed an apology after I left a msg for him to never ever f’kin call me again.
All this magic we had … and now this big explosion …(I love explosions and conflict don’t get me wrong, but the hanging up is just beyond the limit.) IN fact, that action makes it easier for me to back away… I mean, am I overreacting? What kind of guy hangs up when he’s angry?
Interesting that the blow-up came after I was playfully asking if he had a scorpio moon (I needed confirmation)… he got really defensive, like apparently it’s a secret that he has my sun sign on his moon, then he blurted out “Of course I have a Scorpio Moon, Synthia!” Geesh, is the subject really that touchy?
But I think he’s been reading a bunch of stuff I’ve written on my blog and the web and he probably thinks I have some psycho astrological plot to capture him (which I did!) … that’s why I hate posting all this stuff that you can’t go back and change. (and rose that’s why I had to take your chart with the cappie down).
Anyway, I miss you guys too. Hey, if you wanna hang out, I’m lonely in Scorpioland.ning.com
P.S. Rose, I have no skill in doing a horary chart. I was completely lost. Sawwy.
hmm, very warm and kind advices Jenny, thanks! sincerely
I don´t think I´ll be able to mold my personality that much, as I´ve always embraced hate (in short term doses) as a healing process, but I can definitely try to adopt that Jesus forgiving attitude here and there! People even called me Jesus all the time when I had long hair, so why not give it a shot? It might be part of my “fate”
You seem like a very positive person, that´s wonderful, I always try to look on the bright side of things but the selfish side of my persona tends to cloud my days with negative thoughts..
Oh well, live and learn, that´s what we´re here for!
I do understand your view , Rick and trust me, I don’t expect you to be single forever and end up …(ok, the picture you presents is not quite what I have in mind when I’m old! LOL! I want to move around the world and help people.Then I practise mediatation when I’m too old to move!
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What I’m saying is that do not be frustrated, do not play games and stay away from those who do because as you said , we’re just human, there is a not so good side of every one of us that can emerge at any moment , hence you might end up playing along with them and think that you can do better (the ego thing?) , yet the truth is that the two players will forvever play the game they set for each other and “true passion” and “true love” will die in the end.Even they end up together, they will find ways to blame the other when the couple faces a crisis because the foundation of their love is “weak” and “troubled”.Trust lost from beginning and love without trust is nothing more than a dangerous game that can drain all your emotion and leave you dry with no hope!
When we born, we does not born with immediate kindness inside us.It’s something that we can develop with practice (practice makes perfect! lol!).Similarly, to have the beautiful love that you dream , you just need to know your self , a beautiful person who just want to love and be loved (Am I right?) and behave according to the standard that you set.No need to get angry when someone treats you unfairly, that’s their loss.In fact , I pity them. Forgive and forget.Focus on your beautiful self and use that positive energy to attract other beautiful energy
Best wishes,
Jenny & Rose, thank u for your positive outlook on things but as I´ve stated here before, I´m not that obsessed or even actively seeking a potential soul mate all the time..it´s cyclical really! right now, my state of mind doesn´t even compel me to search for anyone, too busy with other things.
But honestly, from my recent past experience, I don´t necessarily agree that I should boost my self esteem to be able to find someone naturally.
I realized that when I just didn´t care about seeking someone, no one would come to me at all lol..people feed off other people´s energy, when they sense you´re way too focused on yourself, they don´t even attempt to reach you on a sentimental level..
I think that selfless attitude towards life that Jenny was talking about, to give inconditionally and not expect nothing in return is kinda utopian you know? it´s a beautiful and inspiring theory, but ultimately doomed to fail if you don´t have the purest of hearts..and I sure as hell don´t
Believe me, i´ve been there, done that, and, unlike Rose, for me it´s totally unacceptable to be single forever..I don´t end up an old, solitary man like Mr. Burns from the Simpsons ahahah
Opinions differ a lot in these kind of matters..I think you got my point, I´m not that desperate, just frustrated.
At the end of the day we all know that their is a strong, very strong attraction between Aquas and Scorps. BUT! One thing that both signs have to remeber.
SCorpios, (Esp women).
If you give Aqua men space, not hound them all the time, and be patient with them, THEY WILL BE THE MOST SPARKLING, CHARMING, ADVENTUROUS LOVERS YOU HAVE EVER EXPERIENCED. – Give them time and give them space! and they will come back and talk for AGES with you! So let them bring some new news back to the table.
Aquarians (The MEn)
Do me a favour and make up your mind what u want to do! Dont take every thing the scorp lady says to heart, she cant help being messed up in the head! she wants to trust some one,,, let it be you!
THEY LIKE ADMIRATION../. SO GIVE IT… in the usual aquraian way of, and watch she will be hooked… FACE IT WHEN AQUA MEN AND SCORP WOMEN MEET… YOUR BOSTH HOOKED AND YOU AINT GOIN NO WHERE!!!
EXPECT THE TRAIN WREK BUT ENJOY THE RIDE!
Yes , me too even you would ignore me! Lol! Don’t be so gloomy! Life is beautiful and needs to be explored more so don’t corner yourself
come on, Ty. u r not tallking to urself, i am listening to u.
Why do I feel like I’m talking to myself on this board???
Rose I agree with you…..I think I going to be single as well. My trust level have drop even more.
I agree with Jenny, Rick.
You are so young to be so actively seeking. It’s not wrong. It’s lovely and refreshing, but you have so much time.
I dunno, maybe that’s just me. I’ve always been the type to just let love come to me. It’s too tiring to look for guys. lol
At my rate, I’ll be single forever. Oddly enough, that doesn’t even bother me. lol
Rick,
I sincerely think you just have to stop looking and concentrated on yourself first. Once you let go of negative energy and let your mind be a pure river that can not be disturbed by external conditions, you’ll be happy without the need of any outside companion. This is when you can truly feel love and spread love around the world.There are many kinds of love in the world. No need to run around those who use games to manipulate others.Love to me is compassion and I have no wish to hurt any one.Life is a journey to improve one self and hopefully to help others around you.
Best wishes,
Absolutely Rose! I´ve not become Scorpio-phobic at all hehehe, I still think u´re one of the most fascinating creatures one can ever encounter
I just wish I could finally meet a true Scorpio WOMAN, not immature, undecided chicks..the potential was definitely there in young Scorps I´ve met but they ended up lacking everything else to develop serious relationships..and the same obviously applies to many other signs..
It´s really frustrating to be 25 years old and still unable to attract real, adult women..I guess I´m in that weird half-life crisis where you start to see yourself as too childish and irresponsible for older women to like you, but at the same time sick and tired of taking chances with younger girls who don´t teach you that much in order to progress as a human being…
If anyone feels the same, feel free to vent..
Now I know why noone replied to my question.Lol!
well… we just broke up because we never had time… its not like we fought or something… he pissed at me b/c my sister called him and chewed him out! i had NOTHING to do w/ it, and i didnt even know until after the fact! grrr…. he’s so frustrating….. T.T but i luv him…. .><.
Rick,
the universe keeps pushing me toward Aquas too haha.
Not all Scorps are the same. Inherently, yes, but not totally. If the universe wants you to keep meeting them, then go with it.
I have a new crush at work. I wonder when his birthday is….hmmmmmm
Jenny,
I had someone do my chart on here once but I’d be interested in seeing another if you want. my bday is 10/29/81
@ Scott
Apparently, we really are the genuine emotive aqua embassadors out here
@Aqualuver
it´s perfectly understandable that he doesn´t want to remain friends with you..it really is a basic principle of any man/woman out there with a little pride in themselves..but speaking as an Aqua, we do not tend to harvest hate towards someone for too long but if things are fresh, there´s no way we want to see/talk or even relate closely to that person anytime soon..
With my now absent Scorpio lady, I´m actually adopting the very same principle of not wanting to see her for a long time..no idea if I´ll manage to do it but so far, so good…there´s been very little communication between us.
bahh love´s a bitch, that´s for sure..and I keep meeting Scorpio ladies in my university all the time! the universe keeps pushing me towards one lol…if only I wasn´t so damn selective…
Aqualuver I understand what your going through. I had enough myself. I haven’t spoken to mines since my b-day. He didn’t even call to see how my b-day went. I did not even get to see him. My ex, yes, my daughter’s father saw how pissed I was and called him….. I didn’t even know he was going to call him. He said he spoke to him and ask if he just want to be friends with me and Mr Aqua told him he see me as more….he like me . My ex told him should call to see how I was doing. (about a week to a week and a half ago)
He hasn’t call of course and I’m done calling him. I feel it’s a slap it the face. I never had someone treat me like this before that keep telling me they miss me when we speak and how much they liked me. I don’t get.
I get along with Aquarians and I love their personality esp his. I love it mostly when we are just alone. I miss that so much from him. But I think I have to let him go.
yeah, just watch out for the hitting part… cuz usually, for me anyways… thats how i get to touch them…. lol… all of my bf’s have told me that they didnt think a women actually ‘hit’ on them when hitting on them…. lol
Hi Rose, if you give me your birthday, I can briefly do your chart for you ?
scott,
i think you hit the nail right on the head, and you barely know my situation hahaha
(theres a slew of posts up there. i got laid off from my job this summer and this place was my outlet lol)
so frustrating is right!
after that whole situation, I promised myself to always stay true and never play games. Even if that may lead to things not working out, at least I know I was honest and no “what if?s”
how do you know if a scorpio likes you??
at FIRST, you will probably have no idea until you are in an intimate setting with them. I never show it around others. But if you can get out to a bar with her, maybe…and sneak away from friends to a dark corner…she still won’t tell you if she’s not sure if you like her yet. But you will know. Scorpio’s have a lot of pride. They won’t act like they like a guy in front of people, at least in the conventional way. Get her alone, if possible, in a “sexy” setting, and she will flirt like crazy, smile a lot, laugh at everything you say, and find ways to touch you. You will know. If you guys are closer and are already friends, she may outright tell you. I personally am very blunt, and tell it like it is….but I also have a Leo moon…or ascendant??? I cant remember! synthia did my chart on here once. but anyway….yea…that’s all I got.
lol
P.S. Synthia where are you? Do you still read these? I miss you!
Rose..when he said he wanted to be single, he was just sending “feel’rs” out to you because we aqua’s get messed up by scorps (it’s the only sign that we can’t figure out!
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We know you have your walls up and are afaid to open up, so when he said he wanted to be single, he wasn’t lying, he just was hoping you would jump in there and tell you him how you feel. He probably said that because he felt you wanted to be single, so he said he wanted to be single and you said you wanted to be single, then he agreed that he wanted to be single and then you said, ya single is the way to be..and so on and so on….get my point? All the while, noboday really saying how they felt…”I want you bad!.”
Scorps are so filled with secrecy. It’s kinda like a hollywood movie where the 2 people never get together because of misunderstandings and them protecting themselves.
Ahhh scorpio woman…so frusterating, but soooo amazing!
p.s scorpio’s need to take more risks too..go for it!
p.s.s. Rose..one little question…right to the point. How can we tell if scorpio woman likes us? I know it’s been answered before…but a refresher course with more deets? Give it up secret scorpio women! Fess up!
I dunno. I mean, I get that Aquas love friends and want to be everyone’s friend etc….. but I still feel like it’s totally weird to be friends with a girl you are sexually and physically attracted to. It just can’t be….
attraction doesn’t just go away.
yeah, so i have a ?…. so we broke up, about two weeks ago, but we keep talking, like over the internet and stuff, but he says he doesnt want to be my friend, but from what u all said, aquas keep wanting to be friends… this confuses me… he treats me different from all of his other ex’s…. i’m really confused, because i cannot get him out of my head, or my heart…
i’m just wondering if maybe he is just as frustrated as i am at our whole situation, and maybe even still likes me…. i dont know…. help?
The post 580 analyze about how Aquas handle the emotion so impecable and correct.
Well Scott,
I must say he wasnt so innocent either. He kept trying to convince himself that he would stay single this time around (since he never is) and he wouldnt have a new girl lined up after he broke off with his ex. he kept saying he wanted to be single, so i went along with it. ooooh i wanna be single too! is that what you wanna hear? then ill say it and act how i think you want me to act! If he had made it clear he was gonna continue to serial date, i woulda made myself more available. before i knew it, he