Scorpio women love Aquarius men
A funny trend I have noticed in Hollywood is powerful, gorgeous, desirable Scorpio women falling head over heels for goofy Aquarian men. Julia Roberts is happily married to cinematographer Danny Moder. Demi Moore married her young lover, Ashton Kutcher. And Rebecca Romijn recently walked down the aisle with longtime partner Jerry O’Connell.
In astrology this is not a traditionally advisable match, for these are two fixed signs that are square to one another. And at first blush, these are not the type of men you would think a sexy, controlling Scorpio woman would be interested in. They were not necessarily the most popular guys in high school, they are quite a bit off from the ‘norm’ and have strange habits. Don’t ask me what they are.. only them, and presumably by now their Scorpio wives, know what I’m talking about. But let’s face it, they are brilliant. Again it is possible that only their wives see this, but the astrologer sees it too. These men are visionaries, they are creative and talented, seemingly on an entirely different level than everyone else. They are inventors. They see the possibilities and then make them happen. They are mad scientists, in the realm of film and television in this case. And clever Scorpio ladies are just the type to spot this kind of talent a hundred miles away and hone in like a guided missile.
After all Scorpio ladies have been through their fair share of dissapointment. It is absolutely worth noting that all three of these women have been married before. Julia to fellow Scorpio Lyle Lovett. Demi had been married twice, briefly to a random musician, and then to Pisces Bruce Willis. And Rebecca was married to Leo John Stamos. These are more the type of men you would expect a Scorpio lady to fall for… passionate Scorpios, sensitive Pisces or brazen Leos. And they did fall for them, long enough to realize that this was not their perfect match. They each needed someone just as intelligent and interesting, but more aloof and unconventional, like an Aquarius. Scorpio women are, truth be told, very unconventional.
It is also worth noting that all three of these ladies have their moon in fixed signs as well. Julia’s moon sign is Leo (of course). Demi is a full moon baby, her moon being in the sign opposite her sun, Taurus. And Rebecca is a double Scorpio. These women have very fixed personalities. They know what they like, they know what they don’t like and they know how they want their lives to be, and they gracefully, sometimes forcefully, will it into being. I have a theory about fixed sign people, especially double fixed sign people, that they secretly have difficulty respecting non-fixed sign people. It is like they are so set in their life and their path and their convictions (only sometimes in a negative way) that they see other, especially more mutable types, as entirely flakey, wishy washy and weak. While Aquarians are unpredictable, they are very fixed in their unpredictability, and that is ok by these Scorpio ladies. (Again if you are not an Aquarian man or a Scorpio woman who loves one, it is likely that this will make no sense to you at all.) More obvious is the fact that Aquarian men are usually happy to stand in the wings and let their ladies call the shots, and this is very, very important to a Scorpio woman.
Another beautiful Scorpio actress has also married an Aquarian man. Aishwarya Rai, the crown jewel of Bollywood and arguably the most beautiful woman in the world (Julia Roberts herself is said to feel this way) married last April Bollywood scion Abhishek Bachchan. Aishwarya has neither been married before, nor has her moon in a fixed sign (her moon is Capricorn) but having had her pick of the subcontinent and settling on an Aquarian, she most definately belongs to this illustrious category.
ok i just read at apparently scorpio women think all me think they’re hot and as a scorpio woman myself i can honestly say that is BS. i dont think all men think i’m hot and wouldnt even describe myself as pretty. i do have an aquarius boyfriend and we work perfectly together. we’re totally equal and neither of us ‘wears the trousers’. we make decisions together and talk things through clamly and openly. and in fact all our friends tell us they’re jealous of our relationship because it’s just so easy for us to get on together, have a laugh and go out together. i personally feel like the luckiest girl in the world. you cant place compatability on star signs, there are so many other factors and not everyone is typical of their sign.
I am in an unsatisfying marriage currently with an aquarius man from the beginning I could fell the detachment was there in our lovemaking…I felt as if something was always missing and still is he is very secretive and has been caught talking and entertaining his ex wife….He has to be in control all the time even though I am very submissive he treats me badly and I don’t know how much more I will put up with…I have tried to be a good wife but he is always telling me he has his individuality but I feel we are as one…I am not resigned to withdrawing from him emotionally and seeing things his way as sex…I like romance he is no longer that especially since I hacked into his facebook account and found out he was still communicating with his ex wife …I told him “she is an ex for a reason” The thing is he feels since they were together children or not they should still be in communication with each other…I know that he is still keeping in touch Aquarius men are ruthless ,controlling bastards they think they know every little thing…Also, they are way too materialistic I feel they no nothing about love or care to know…They feel whatever is their is their and vice versa!!!!
Self centered, look at the overview of the man’s life, a man who handled his marriage in the same disconnected emotional manner as he is handling you. Sense it breaks rules; it’s more intriguing for him to engage now relationally with his ex, now you get the cold disconnected treatment she got for the years of their marriage…the abusive behavior. Does he apologize….never? See anything wrong? ….not….You or I would think that things that happen to us or that we go through are learning experiences to understanding, not this self centered deceiver.
If you were the wife, (You are now)…. and he never connected to you for 20 some years of a marriage, or participated in raising children, and virtually rarely if infrequently had a partner in life or the intimacy of a partner or talked (connected with you) and spent time….quality time….cared what you thought….or what you were thinking…or what you wanted to do…This man is a big absentee, called abandonment…..this wife finally wanted a life…cause she did not have one with this guy. She is the victim of his abusiveness in all areas. He is no victim, he married living single out there, and very detached from home life and wife. But don’t let anyone find out. Uses his job to legitimize his absences…but you can bet he has hit and run sex all along the way. Although no one would think that about him. He’s such a mystery, and no one in family looks up and questions. He was safe apparently the first marriage. They don’t like to get caught. They run for the hills when someone knows them better then they thought. Cause they take special care to not let that happen.
They say if it’s too good to be true usually it is. There is more than meets the eye. Do what you have to in order to stay attached to your own groundedness and common sense. Get counseling now. They are not necessarily as innocent as they portray themselves to appear. Remember there was a wife before you and this leopard has not changed his spots. Plus, they will always frame things so that the wife or the other person looks like the bad guy to everyone else in the family. They do everything to come out smelling like a rose. Like they are so nice, how could they be the one…and this male detached and abandoned as yours is from you right now. Question everything, see what you see and what you don’t . You are not crazy. Trust yourself. Build yourself up Hopefully before you have children. Use your common sense. Talk. Find mentors. Go to church. So you can save your own life while you still have your mind and turn blame on yourself. If you are not the problem you can’t fix it. Don’t turn in on yourself emotionally. It’s not about you! So don’t doubt yourself, even a little bit…the wife should have been questioning and getting louder all along. Once there are children a wife will do all to what……save the family……in this case….it seems like you have to save your own self first, in order to really save everybody else. I watched this same scenario in family lines for generations, it doesn’t change till the wife catches on and discovered waht she married. Think about it, pray about it.
me and my husband are as strong as they come.
Don’t put your love and life in the hands of an astrological sign lol
Scorpio with Aqua
Wow that’s a load of BS I read about Scorpios and Aquarius (males) being a good match… first off, Scorpio (together with Libra) is said to be the most ”common astrological sign” in the western world (at least) and there are some statistics proving that most babies are born in October and November.
Second of all, Aquarius men are generally CURIOUS about anything and anyone, whether an incompatible manipulative Scorpio or a quiet and reserved Capricorn. It won’t matter to them. Aquarians are analyzers and deep thinkers. They will naturally be drawn to Scorpio since the odds are higher of females being born under that sign. Pretty please. Scorpios are everywhere! But as far as compatibility goes, Aqua + Scorpio are the worst together. And You all know it, otherwise, you won’t be here ranting, analyzing, expressing, writing dozens of stories about your personal experiences on how Scorpio and Aquarius relationships are problematic. You won’t see that many posts about Aquarius & Libras for instance, since they are totally compatible and totally problem free compared to Aquarius & Scorpio pages. All I see here is Scorpio women’s delusions about Aquarius males. Scorpio women think all men find them “sexy” and that all men want to be with them. Hell no! It won’t take long before your Aquarius male will leave you for an honest and kindhearted Leo girl that has more sex appeal & power than a Scorpio, or a charming Libra that will be strong enough mentally and emotionally to deal with his eccentric ways. So you see, Misses Scorpios, you should look love elsewhere, and NOT with a water Bearer. I can guarantee you that they will 1)cheat on you and 2)find a better mate that isn’t a Scorpio. After all, it is well known (FACT) that Scorpio females get cheated on constantly due to their lack of self perception and TERRIBLE KARMA (yes, you Scorpios get “kicked in the butt” by Karma). Just look at your terrible and out-of-date examples of Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore (good match My @ss). And let’s not forget how Hillary Clinton got cheated on… as well as Maria Shriver and her Arnold… Leos are the only ones that can deal with Aquarians and vice versa. Not Scorpios!
BTW Julia Roberts is with her Aquamale because of her LEO MOON and not because she is a Scorpio!
If you are a Scorpio with an Aquarius or a Leo, get OUT of that relationship. Instantly! It just won’t work and you, Scorpio, will end up hurt, devastated and worn out. The only sign that cannot & will not submit to your so called “plutonic” power (lemme laugh) is Leo and Aquarius.
Scorpios should stick to their fellow water signs and Earth signs cousins. And not Masculine signs. Scorpios like to play with “fire” and “air” but they aren’t strong enough to handle them. They are “masculine signs wannabes” or “fire sign wannabes”
“The only sign that cannot & will not submit to your so called “plutonic” power (lemme laugh) is Leo and Aquarius. ”
And I see this as BS, as with most of your response. And you’re quite wrong on the Leo not submitting. Please. I have so many Leos on my tail it isn’t even funny, and they won’t go away no matter how truthful I am to them that I do not want them.
@Scorpio, oh you are such a typical conceited delusional Scorpio but also a rarity that thinks that Aquarius or Leos submit to Scorpios (major big LOL). You Scorpios online are so delusional that it’s laughable. You all know Leos are the only ones that aren’t scared of you guys and it kills you to know that you ain’t that “powerful”. FACT. Live with it and stop pretending you got “leos on your tail”.
Merry Christmas
LOL at this TRUTH guy…please don’t be an asshole and bash any certain astrological sign
I have been married to my Aqua for 5 years. Maybe he’s just different, we only had one argument that i can think of which was more than minor. Other than that we compliment each other. I support him emotionally when he can’t he brings out my freedom risky side. We gel like glue. A relationship is what you make of it. He’s the man for me, I’m the woman for him.
It’s all about patience, learn to trust and learn to love.
Hi there!
I’ll freely admit I did not read all of the comments posted, but I’ve skimmed through and it seems this combination has either worked tremendously or failed begrugingly. I guess people would not have come to this site without an already somewhat strong intuition regarding the answer. Here is my two cents:
First of all, I’m a Scorpio woman(on the Sagittarius cusp), with moon in Leo and ascendant in Virgo or Libra (I am still not sure of this).
My fiance is an Aquarius man, with moon in Scorpio and also an ascendant in Scorpio if I am not mistaken.
He is definately an introverted person, and even though I sometimes am so used to being close to him, I forget the ever-so-quiet man that I first met, and as a Scorpio, my reflex is to automatically think something is wrong when he becomes silent.
We have a very strong and emotionally communicative bond, and I think this is key, he does not usually go quiet on important stuff, he does so randomly.
The best advice I can offer is to not overanalyze it. If something bothers you, always be straightforward. You do not need to play games with this one, and honesty and open communication especially when dealing with emotions, is best.
I have never been happier, and my Aquarius is a loyal, kind, trustworthy and highly intelligent man. Definately worth putting trust into, which for me (and Scorpios in general) is a pretty huge deal.
Also, we started out by being very good friends, and we are also both philosophy students.
I guess you’re lucky. A lot could also depend on the Moon sign and other planets. For some of us, the Aquarian men just disappear. I was direct on the issue of relationship, but perhaps precisely because of this, he vanished without a trace. I just put it down to the fact that the guy was commitment-phobic, and moved on with my life. Ultimately, if a woman is looking for a permanent relationship, a commitment-phobic Aquarian male or a male of any other sign doth no good.
@lorelei All of that good things out of your compatibility is due to him having Scorpio in his chart and you having Leo (the absolute best match for Aquarius and we all know that) moon and Libra rising. Leos and Libras are Aquarian’s best matches and anyone having these 2 signs in their chart is bound to be with a Water Bearer. And yes, Aquarians get overly emotional, extremely romantic and super duper “soft” with anyone having Leo in their chart.
Anyways, I wish you the best with your relationship and wish you a Merry Christmas.
Lydia,
I agree with you. If they act this way then doubts come to mind and you start to question yourself. Its not something anyone wants to go through..we all want a happy fun healthy relationship and it’s really difficult to find someone you can actually genuinely click with. I felt exactly the same way and thought maybe he has lost interest but sometimes randomly he would text me and we would have a great fun conversation and it just ends after that. I know he likes me..and he knows I like him to. Its just that the circumstances we are in its not working.
I want to obviously keep him keen and interested and him being an Aqua he is difficult to understand what he’s feeling. Right now all im doing is keeping myself busy and not focus too much on him..over thinking this wouldn’t really go no where.. things always happen for a reason.. if its ment to be..its ment to be..
I got to know an Aquarian guy on an online dating site about 2 months ago. I’m in Asia and he’s in the other part of the world. We hit it off well and were exchanging long letters every one/two days. At the start I exploded at him because I doubted his sincerity; I thought he might be playing with me. He disappeared for a while, but came back a few days later. Soon, everything was well. In fact, better than before. He’s said more than once that he likes me a lot … … .
I tried to make plans when we could meet up. After all, he’s said more than once he wants to meet up too. I asked him if he could come over to Asia next year, but all he said was that he was quite content with the way things were and wanted us to continue like that before we made plans. I became upset. Everyone knows that a long-distance relationship can’t be sustained without a meeting once or twice a year. I told him so and asked him how serious he was about the relationship. I even offered to fly over to his part of the world if he isn’t prepared to come over, assuming he’s sufficiently serious about the relationship, of course.
Not only was there no reply, he deactivated his online dating account. I don’t know what to make of this. In return, I deleted him from Facebook friends. (Whether he knows this or not is another matter.)
I think he may be having family and work difficulties as well.
Is this typical Aquarian behaviour? Is he likely coming back, or is this over? Should I try to pursue him? There’s only one channel of communication left, which is e-mail. If he gets riled and blocks me, that’s it.
Lydia,
Its easy for me to say this but it’s a situation you have to deal with. From what I’ve noticed Aqua’s are hot and cold which makes if difficult for us to understand them. My advice is just carry on with what your doing. Don’t focus too much on this guy. If he’s interested and really into you, he will contact you. Long distant relationships don’t really work if there is a lack of communication. I can understand you really like this guy but don’t work yourself up over this.. its just going to build up unnecessary tension. Get to know other guys. Its not like your in a serious relationship so there is no commitment its just dating..
If they keep blowing hot and cold like that, I’m not quite sure how one can get a commitment from them.
Besides, it’s always a mystery when a guy grows cold. One doesn’t know if (i) the guy is just testing you to see how interested you are, (ii) he’s lost interest, or (iii) he’s just playing/manipulating you. It’s pretty much a guessing game and if you guess wrongly and give the wrong response, you get dunked.
How’s it been with your guy? (I’m pretty much in the same boat as you re ” I’ve had shitty experiences when it comes to finding the right guy that I’m comfortable with. I finally find him and the one thing that’s ruined it is the long distance. I want to give him his space but I just hope he doesn’t loose interest in me.”)
@ Lydia
I really sympathize with you because something similar happened to me with online dating. One time with an Aries and second time with an Aquarius. They were both liars and that is why they didn’t want to meet in person. I didn’t give up, I flew over to their countries and cities and found out who they really were. The Aries dramatically lied about his height and life style but the Aquarius lied about EVERYTHING. I busted him so good that he couldn’t believe it. Like yours, he ended his accounts and found some lame and stupid excuses for not wanting to meet me. He kept me hanging on by promising me we would meet , he even sent me a gold ring (very manipulative) and then when the planned dates approached, he acted all weird and erratic. I made a real detective work and found out that he wasn’t who he said he was and that he was taking his own son’s identity in order to chat with younger females, that he was married and god damn ugly (I finally got a real picture of his face). I was just too good for him and it would have been embarrassing for him to come clean.
Anyways, no matter what sun signs he (or she) has, if a guy (or a girl) you meet online isn’t willing to meet you offline (in real life), it means that he (or she) is hiding something major about themselves or that they aren’t taking this seriously and only playing with people’s emotions (some people are sick enough to do so). Since Aquarians have the ability to master their emotions, they can be more prone to emotionally manipulate a person just for the “fun of it”. They like to experience and see consequences. Then they get their own conclusions and you have been merely fooled and played. So my advice to you is, lay low, do not date online (unless if the person has shown real signs of seriousness) and block that dude.
There is a meaning with everything in life.
And another thing: do not email him. you will appear as clingy and Aquarians absolutely hate that. If he really likes you, chances are he will write you back and take a greater initiative without you asking him for it. Aquarians are like that. Very stubborn and unpredictable. If you have patience, things will work out. Otherwise, don’t bother this dude. Find yourself a reliable January born Capricorn instead. They have almost the same emotional characters as Aquarians except they are fond of commitments and they are sensitive.
Best of lucks to you and Merry Christmas!
Hey I’m a scorpio too and my boyfriend is an aquarian and he is so hard to read ..now he has his job and he’s away and he does nothing to make me feel better although he knows how insecure I feel ..and even when he’s right here with me looking into my eyes its like his mind is somewhere else..I just don’t understand why he’s like that and I constantly feel like he’s not telling me everything..and when I ask him too many questions he gets really irritated and starts to avoid me. He doesn’t even know how to comfort me when I’m depressed and I start to think why did I even fall for him in the first place when I knew he wasn’t good enough for me. But I also know he loves me, he’s made that very clear in the past two years that we’ve been together, but then again I can’t help feeling insecure. I just don’t know what to do. Please help.
Double aquarius man here. I will always love my scorpio woman and will never forget her. We were an unforgettable match. We’re not together, but I know that’s the type of woman I need.
yes yes yes officially its meant for disaster but i love being around scorpio woman,ive been in two relationships with the scorpions ha ha and i loved it one was for four years now i promised i would stay clear even though we are still in regular contact even though were overseas but by chance another scorpio lady found me and i was wary at first as we were both travelling but what i still dont understand about this relationship was it was a complete role reversal when it came to making decisions as that she was being aloof and i was taking some of her star sign traits and we couldnt get the ball rolling further even though it was if we were together years both of us being very open and receptive at the time, anyone one else with anything similar because i found it very strange indeed,
I wouldnt say it ended in disaster as i knew the difficulties between our two star signs but i kinda feel bad not sure she was ready for an Aquarian man,it must be torture for ye ladys but dont give up on us when we go off on a tangents as we often do and forget about ye (sorry) trust me even though we dont show it at those times your still number one even though we cant explain how we can justify this – ill still be wary of a next scorpio encounter but its hard to fight off that connection or energy
any other aquarian man like to confuse there scorpio ladys just little things just to watch the wheels turning in there heads as they try to recover there dominance even if it lands you in hot water lol
i look foward to hearing from ye
Hey,
I was reading the above posts and I can relate to them so much. Recently I was chatting to this guy (Aqua) on fb and we instantly clicked. it was just messaging each other, I could feel that vibe and I was enjoying chatting to him. We exchanged numbers chatted away again and it was so comfortable and easy. I was really opening up and chatting to him like he was my best mate. After a few days we linked to watch a movie and we were just chatting away for ages..when we were at the cinema waiting for the movie to start we were messing about cussing each other..and strangely it was fun and exciting. Then when the movie started I was watching it but I noticed he was looking at me at times..It felt nice in the moment that this guy is noticing me. Felt really special. We were whispering to each other then after he said he really wants to kiss me..i teased him a bit then we had this amazing kiss.. through out the movie we kept touching each other, holding hands and kissed at random times.. the movie ended and we went back to the car. We just couldn’t take our eyes off each other.We messed around again and went a bit far and that’s soo not like me. I’ve never been like that ever. He brought out this amazing wild side out of me. He said he likes me and he know I like him as well. He gave me that full on attention which I’ve always wanted from a guy. Well after that the following days he didn’t message me much and I completely understood because he was packing to go to Uni. Even though I knew this I just wanted some re assurance that what’s going on..where do I stand etc. He messaged me when he got to Uni that it would be best if we stayed as mates because it would be difficult for him to come and see me vice versa. I have given him his space. He has message me first sometimes. I have mentioned twice on occasions that I miss him.. miss chatting to him and he said he misses me too but cant do much.. I just need some advice. I just worry that will he lose interest in me? How can I keep him interested in me? I’ve never felt this way about anyone before and since I found out he’s an Aqua, I’ve been reading the characteristics and they make sense. I’ve had shitty experiences when it comes to finding the right guy that I’m comfortable with. I finally find him and the one thing that’s ruined it is the long distance. I want to give him his space but I just hope he doesn’t loose interest in me.. : (
They are liars, point blank! Will tell tall tales, out of the ordinary stories and paint a pretty picture to win you over, then drop off the face of the earth before you can expose them for the true liars that they are. I’m sure ALL these men aren’t liars, but this one of mine who is an older man, told very tall tales. I think there were some psychological issues now that I think back on our relationship and all the things he would do and say.
Iam an aquarius man, dated a few scorpio women (brief dates) YUK, Id rather jump in a snake pit.
id rather eat snake than have an aquarian man again they’re psychotic narcasists
Miss Scorpio
Thanks for the response. I think you are absolutely right about disappearing for days and weeks without contact. In my earlier post i did speak about that. Although i doubt he would do that after marriage, It is still no excuse to not even contact for weeks and months. You have every right to take any action appropriate for you and your life in relation to your aqua.
But i was speaking in general where a woman is living with an aqua man under one roof and the aqua man got something engrossed on his mind. Then they have a way of detaching from their surroundings and being in their own world. Another person seeing this would think as some kind of deliberate act due to hate or he doesn’t want the other person near him.
This issue has also been raised in a few of the above posts and has portrayed as some kind of a very bad and annoying trait which makes an aqua some kind of a bad person who cannot be lived along with. Once again i want i want to remind you about the weeks/months long disappearance. But that it is an aqua trait to get engrossed by an issue and won’t be his ‘non-detached self till it is resolved in some way. For example, i say in an earlier post where the aqua was a great person one day and act as if he hate you the next. this was interpreted as insensitivity and not caring for what the other person want. Yet another post claimed aquas detached (mentally) way of acting on occasion as a probable sign that he is cheating or had enough of the relationship. It is to these category of post that i am especially replying. I don’t think that you have become any less important to them during these periods but just as i mentioned before.
Aquas too want someone who understands their needs and ways and from my point of view ( being an aqua myself ) then alone an aqua open up to the other person with whom he can be himself. I am sure you scorps want the same. Only maturity and empathy transcending the ego can make these relationships succeed.
Of course i am speaking generally and may not be applicable to you particular situations where there might be other parameters not considered here.
I am tired. Any thing else later.
GOOD LUCK.
To IND:
Thanks for sharing, but what I don’t get is you want us to understand and emphatize (sp?) with the detachment periods, but the entire time I was with my aqua, if I didn’t contact him within a few hours he would call, email or text and ask had I forgotten about him. He always did this, but yet, he can disappear for weeks and expect me to understand? I can’t entertain those qualities in a person, do as I say but not as I do … you can forget me but I can’t forget you? But I guess in his mind during this detachment period he hasn’t really forgotten about me, he just ceases all communication with me and I’m supposed to assume I am still a a part of his life and that he hasn’t bounced on to the next girl. I have come to the conclusion this isn’t the kind of person I want in my life on a permanent basis, no matter how smart, charming and amazing he may have been during the time we were together, weeks of not speaking to me would be aggravating. What happens if we get married and he goes into these kind of mood swings/detachment periods and we live under the same roof? That would be hurtful. Scorpios like to show our love for others in many ways, mentally and physically, at all times….no we don’t like to be smothered 24/7, that would be aggravating, and I understand the whole needing space thing, but weeks and months of “space” is ridiculous. It’s not right to treat people this way especially when they pursued you fiercely, proposed marriage, then poof, they are gone. Never seen anything like it.
i can’t speak for all the aquas but but the occasional detachment is not a joke or a game but is an essential part of their personality. Okay i get the whole disappearing for months thing which is surely be annoying and i don’t blame the others for it. But over here i found people getting annoyed or irritated with occasional detachment (moodiness) where they are right at home with you but have a moody phase where they engrossed with something in the head or just having a mental rest. I am not married or ever been in a relationship but i do have these phases from the time i can remember. my family knows about these phases and think of it as odd (i am a young Aquarius) but i don’t know any other way of being. My point is these phases is not some mischief he is playing with any one or avoiding a person because they are repulsed the way the other person is. Of course it might vary with different aquas. But it is an essential part of their being.
If you can’t adjust to this then life with an aqua could more than likely be impossible. I am not saying you should dance to his tune but just be considerate to how he is as it is a trait which could be annoying but not evil. I am sure you scorps also love your me time where you want to do things which you wanted to do and don’t want your partner controlling you or restricting your movements or not giving you the occasional mental peace by being too clingy or controlling then you would resent it and very likely dump him in the long run. So you scorps should be able to empatise with these occasional moods of the aquas.
If not i cannot see a relationship in the long run even possible even though everything else is perfect as it requires heartfelt and soulful understanding of each others traits (especially the annoying ones). I am not says about those immature aquas who disappear for long time with no contact whatsoever. I am just saying an aqua can be devoted to you and still have these mood changes because that’s who he is. If you hate this about him then you hate him in the long run. If someone i live with has a problem with this trait of mine i would be naturally shocked as i would not understand what is annoying them because i am being myself and done nothing to hurt them. Maybe i can adjust for some time but i don’t think i can do that in the long run. Others criticizing me of this trait is like they don’t really like me and rejecting me and i am forced to live up to some image the other person want me to be which is not really living at all. I am a grown up adult and i don’t want a parent but i want a partner who understands me and love me for who i am as they expect the same from me. otherwise a relationship is simply not possible.
I have written what came to my mind on different people said about aquas and being really annoyed by an occasional detachment. I expect the scorps at least who are said to be independent people who live the life they want and also for their me time to understand.
Best of Luck to all of YOU.
jobstore. you must be hurt by a scorpio, for you would not say such mean things about us. we can be the very loyal and we stick up for those we care about. we are passionate people and intense and can stir excitement in others. we can wear our emotions on our sleves and we put alot of ourselves into relationships and we expect it from others.
if things go bad, as it seems in your bitter case, it is the fault of BOTH people, not the scorpio alone, but its just the scopio’s sting can hurt badly, and they sting ONLY when they are hurt themselves, or protecting themselves. it is better to have a scorpio on your side than to have one against you. for you to say such horrible things makes you no better than the person (who happens to be a scorpio) that you so vilely hate.
wishing you well!
dear jobshore,
Please no bad mouthing of any zodiac sign. If the scorps truly have some the bad traits you mentioned they have hell of a lot of good in them to more than make up for it. if you had bad experiences with a scorp or heard of them many had good experiences with them to. hope next time you meet a scorp you don’t approach him/her with such pre-concieved notions for your experience might turn out to be very different. Aquariuses have many traits annoying to many people so they should understand.
I am an aquarius by the way.
Jobstore:
had there been no scorpio on this earth, our planet would have been much more peaceful. these “mean” scorpios are the inventor of fight, jealousy, recentment and disharmony in the society. * note 1 more true fact. there are more scorpio prostitutes then any other 4 sunshines combined on this earth. do not trust these horny bitch. if u marry a scorpio you are at risk unless you are a extremely open minded person.
I was kind seeing/ fwb this aqua man for half a year and everything was going great, I really like him, he’s one of the most amazing men I’ve met. Truly a good man, although it took me a while to see this, as he is typical aqua flirts a lot, looks at other women, makes comments on other women aloof and distant at times lol etc but anyway got past any of that small stuff and just appreciated him for him. However I had a lot going on jobs focus on career and I’m the type of woman who is used to dealing with things independently and I didn’t want to get him involved as I thought it would be unfair on him and didn’t think he’d understand how confusing things were for me. So I said I needed space etc and asked him not to talk to me until I’m ready and he said ok. I miss him a lot I really hope I we see each other again. I said we could still talk until if we meet again and texted this but he hasn’t bothered. I guess he didn’t think I was worth the wait? Moved on? Or just respecting my wishes… What do you guys think? Will he be back? We got back previously after space.
To Mr. Aquarius, you say you have written the scorpio lady but she hasn’t responded, any chance that you did this to her before all communication was cutoff? Being a scorpio woman myself, we treat you exactly as you treat us…cut us off and we’ll cut you off, after awhile we just don’t want to be bothered with the whole “detachment” period you aquarius guys are known for and call it quits for good. Our patience runs very thin with that and we just move on to the next one and not bat an eye. We don’t like to be ignored either, can get pretty vindictive when that happens…just saying. My suggestion to you is stop trying to contact her, if she wants to start back communicating with you she will, but go on living your life, could be weeks, months, years, if ever, depends on how you broke up.
Miss scorpio
I totally agree! Im a scorpio gal too. And have been hurt by an aquarious who called for a “break” – the second time and again is doing the whole silent treatment thing. I feel it is immature and that the aquarious is so detached from emo and feeling that they cannot handle real situations and respond by not responding and keeping quiet. Its been a few weeks and yes, I feel done with this. Only thing is, I know how the aquarious is feeling right now – bet he is saying how come she isnt talking to me at all or contacting me? Even though He called for the break.
Wow! Luv this site…so I met an aqua man last year while I was in a relationship…the connection was there. After my relationship ended I noticed him trying to get to kno me more….finally one night we kissed. After that there all kinds of good nights out with him and his friends, then he would completely ignore me. He always wanted to kno what I would doing after the club but never acted on anything. I would invite him to gang out with me at the movies, with my friends, or even to come to my house but nothing. Then not too long ago we finally semi-hooked up. We played a “game”…it was kind of juvenile. His friend keeps telling me he’s into to me but is afraid that I’m gonna try and make it something serious….I just want to continue having fun with him..wut do I do?
I did the same w an aqua man. Just told myself I knew he wasnt the commitment type and told myself I would be ok with just having fun with him. eventually I noticed in my everyday life I would easily get aggitated with things or others or something would annoy me – finally I realized it was cause “just having fun” with him did not sit well with me – I wanted more , something real and deep (hard from an aqua man) Im a scorpio.
Well finally I brought it up. Well he, like every aqua man, retreated into his quiet place and said we shouldnt talk or hang out for a couple months!
I say its not worth it, no matter the magnetism toward him, if you know you eventually want something serious – he is just a dead end.
This will be my last time to post here..
I just want to tell you my conclusion after days and days of logical and attentive search. I won’t tell you all I know, just a bit..
dear scorpios and aquarius the relationship between you is an Abuse of power. The great power that all water signs have upon air signs. The same that air have upon earth and earth have upon fire and fire have upon water. The power scorpios have upon me as an aquarian is the same I have upon taurus. I could beat a taurean at ease. When the weakness of aquarius is emotions, scorpios master it. When taurus is weak intellectually and slow aquarius is fast and intellectual. When leo comes greatly impractical because of his pride and awkward principles, taurus comes the master of practicality and when scorpios come weak at action and confrontations leo is the master of it. This relationship is great so long it’s not commitment if not, manage to keep it just friends cause scorpio is likely to abuse power greatly. The Creator created a marvelous system, that is beautiful consistent and fair in the same time. None is better, we are all better when we seek imporvement. Aquarius must learn to refrain from change, to embrace some traditions and learn to take action at time. You’ll get the best girl once you learn these lessons. Hope your learning trip will be nice
Farewell…
What if I’m a Taurus 3 with sun, mercury, venus, jupiter in the 11th house of aquarius. That being taurus sun, and a gemini stellium. Then neptune, uranus, saturn in the house of work. Would I beat aquarius then? Or no. Match an aquarius?
ok so need help here. So for about 2 yrs there has been an aquarian man in my life. We started off getting to know each other as with a bunch of friends. The attraction was there but not right away from me. And maybe not him either. We joked then flirted and finally kissed and things were wow. Thing is when someone really likes you they cant get enough of you… you see each other more often. That happened for about 2 weeks. There was surrounding drama with our friends. When finally it was just us… he seemed to back off. Yea I wanted to know where I stood while he was fine with how things were. We stopped talking for 6 months. Then he comes back. Physical again. I try to deny to myself that I want more and try to look for others as a single gal all the while hanging out and making out with him.
I got so frustrated in trying to accept a situation I know I dont accept then I blew up at him… lost my temper for something menial. It wasnt him – I know how he is – I just tried to deny my scorpio self and it didnt work. I can let him carry on thinking Im mad at him and cazy or shall I explain myself?
How do I repair once I lost my temper? I know aquarians dont like this and turn away fast and feel unappreciated.
Scorpios are just better as friends, they can notice things you don’t even imagine they are there and they got sharp minds can be loyal and good listeners.
I thought I would always have her tied around my neck ,she was very tender or so she seemed when I need her sadly she got tricked by someone to make her cheat. Also I have a friend who’s scorpio, jobeless, uneducated and appears completely lost yet he claims he will marry a very beautiful rich woman and believes what he claims! lets run man
Mr aquarius, what you said is so true, but you forget that they don’t have emotions for the person but for themselves. I have few friends that are male and scorpios and they are so shallow that they never seem to care for the girl but for her money or clothes or her apparent behaviour. However I can’t stop myself from admiring their illogical but enormous capacity of being confident about themselves. I been with a scorpio girl who is bad looking; 5’1 ft length, bad features, curly hair, bad skin bad talker, annoying general look, exceptionally nervous, exceptionally childish, doesn’t know how to please, however she behaves as if she’s Josie Maran or Penelope Cruz
Hi Scorpie, I got a similiar situation – only I’m “on the other side of the coin”. I’m an aqua guy and I got a this situation, when I’m writing to her and she doesn’t answer – it makes me so damn frustrated! We hadn’t been in touch for a while, so I don’t really know what’s going on.
Any advice, how can I know if she still cares about me? And the most important – how can I make her to stop ignoring me?
She’s my first real crush – and I’d do anything to make her my last.
Btw, I can only mention, that as an aqua, I hate to be ignored – being adored is nice, but too much of it would meke me lose my interest; being in conflict – sort of interesting, because I like to be involved; being ignored – if for too long – than it’s definite “game over”. Though, I think you should still show him that your not a “second coice”… just so he knows, how you feel.
lol I just wish scorps would be more open with showing their feelings, otherwise it’s to damn hard to figure out what’s going on…
I am a scorpio woman and I am not totallly sure what moon I was born in but my bday is 11-8 so if anyone knows please let me know. Well I have been seeing this Aquarius man for about a month or so now and we actually went to college together but were just friends. I recently ran into him while hanging out and it has been such a strange thing since then. He would send me text messages here and there with funny messages and after doing that for two weeks he called and came to hang out with me and a friend. I would hear from him every few days and I was so confused whether he was interested in me or not. I would ask me to come over and we would just watch tv and he would go to sleep (lol I told him I must be his sleeping pill) but I saw it as he must feel really comfortable to fall asleep in my presence. At the same time I was comfortable because I felt no pressure while sitting there in his presence. So for the next few weeks it was a lot of off and on calls or text and an occassional visit. On one visit there was a little more which was so unexpected. Still I would hear from him every few days and just recently he has been calling regularly and I have been seeing him at least twice a week. I decided that I wouldn’t put any pressure on him and give him his space which has been a good thing for me even though I have my scorpio moments and get suspious. I still can’t figure him out. I believe he likes me but he is hard to read. He treats me with respect and our bedroom activities are interesting to say the least. I am not very aggressive with him, I let him initiate communication and pretty much everything else. He is so gentle and I swear I feel this unspoken communication between us at times. Am I crazy or is this guy falling for me or is it that I want him to fall for me. Help!
aqua man here i reckon you should def go for it from what ive just read you ve set him up nicely but also set up the starts for a very good relationship forget about trying to figure an aquarian out sure i cant figure myself out and anyway if you do he ll know and and re invent another mystery for you and watch you try and figure that out too enjoy just go easy with that tail of yours
@Scorpie
Umm, as I am an aquarian, I could perfectly understand where your aquarian is coming from. From what I understand he simply was telling the truth. Do not ignore him! He really likes you and just told you the truth. He could have lied and told you that he doesn’t even think of his ex at all, but the he’s an aquarian and aquarians are honest about their feelings.
My advice for you would be to try and give him a chance, he probably doesn’t even know that he’s hurt you.
I have been reading comments of many people, and this website gave me lots of insight! I was really able to understand actions of my scorpio crush whom I truly liked. She is full of mysteries and emotional intensities. We have known each other for about eight months, and I never really saw her as potential partner until couple of my friends joked about us being couples lol..that’s when I was like “Ohh…right, she is a female alright.” LOL, its not that I saw her as a male friend; we, aquarians, simply don’t have a prejudice on our typical friends whether they’re male or female. Looking back at my chat messages, I could read her actions clearly and laugh about how silly I was. I could go on and on with my story, but I’m really in a hurt mode..my scorpio went back to her home country, and we won’t see each other for two years, living in two different continents. I could have stayed loyal and told her so, but I am assuming that she probably was afraid that I wouldn’t stay loyal or she would change her feelings and end up hurting me. Realistically enough, I could say that it was a good decision, but man..its not so easy to pull away all your feelings when you truly thought you found the “one”. Oh well, I just wish that I knew how she felt.
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I met this Aqua man in undergrad. We met in class and it was obvious that he liked me. He insisted on driving me to school everyday even tho I lived in walking distance. I graduated first and we kept in touch. He was ALWAYS very generous with compliments and flirts and always makes clear how fascinated he is with me a Scorpio woman. Recently he spontaneously flew to see me after two years of not seeing each other in a school setting. We spent five days holding hands/kissing/making love/cooking together/ watching movies/ smoking hookah/ going to museums and just spending alot of quality time. I think he was impressed and entertained. One day we spent like three silent hours me in his arms listening to music and watching the rain. I even took him to see my best friend front this band (he loved the live music and purchased a CD) I brought him a comic book when he left as a parting gift since he is developing a comic book of his own. He really took it to heart. It’s been a month since the visit. He calls/texts or skypes almost everyday. Last night he called and I KNEW what was coming before he parted his lips. He said that all this time he had been waiting for me to ask him where things were going but since I did not he wanted to know my expectations. I told him I really liked him but that if he asked me to be with him the answer would be yes and if he only wanted to be friends the answer would STILL be yes. He said that he takes relationships very seriously/that I was only the third woman he’s been with (he’ll be 24 in and I’m turning 25). He said that he doesnt want to love his ex but it’s easier said than done. He said that he has never felt this way/ he REALLY likes me/ I make him happy and that he enjoys me more than his ex. He said he wanted to go very slow and that he hopes this is not the end and that Im not mad as he cant stop thinking about me. I am a Scorpio woman who was prepared for the worst as he is my first Aquarius man. Im hurt. I gave him lots of space and freedom and only communicated with him when he called me. I erased his number from my phone since our conversation but he has already texted me like five times. What will happen if I start ignoring him and withdraw from him? or should I be his friend even though I feel Betrayed
Wow I do have a problem respecting people that are not fixed in their way. I am a Scorpio Sun and Leo Moon (Aquarius Rising if it makes a difference) and I Have always fallen/ been involved with Aquarius men despite the fact that they are very out of the norm. I am now involved in a relationship with a Scorpio and Sagittarius moon and it was great in the beginning but I am finding it hard to commit myself entirely because there is an Aquarius man in my life still that keeps drawing me in closer I am stuck in a triangle and gasping for my life back. bless these lovely ladies they were brave to get through those divorces and stay with their goofy love match.
Hey everyone..
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Back with more to tell
My last message was the result of my built-up anger on my ex, don’t ask me why scorpio girls. You certainly know..
I like to comment on what scorpio23f, had to say.
“scorpions need alot of asurance and if it isnt in abundant we can get very confused”, and when you get confused you confuse the aqua so he’ll do something wrong, what confuses you more and there you go…A cycle of confusion ugh
“iv been with other partners in between and so has he but we always come bk to eachother because everything else with other partners is boring in comparison lol”.
There is something important here, Aquas and Scorps have very different concepts of cheating. Idealistic aqua will not forgive his girlfriend for loving another man even after he breaks with her. To him things are like that: He tried to make her notice that she is harming his life in every possible way. In Vain. But he still loves her. Therefore he cannot hurt her so he screams for a break. He intends to give her time to think about her mistakes and correct her behavior. Therefore poor aqua is not expecting her to fall for a random guy as you scorpio girls do.
On the other side, practical Scorpio want something she can touch, something she can make sure of, something practical so she would define cheating as, to see her boyfriend with another girl, while they are together, or whatever.
So scorp23f, your aqua will always feel cheated and his heart will always be broken when he knows you been with other partners during the offs. He might not show it. But, trust me, it is there.
“i am a very emotional scorpio and i need alot of reasurance even tho i know im beautiful its just nice to hear him compliment me and say the words”
Here am confused, seriously because all astrology sites tell me that scorpios hate flattery. And all the scorpios that I know report that they hate being flattered. And they themselves rarely if not never, say a compliment.
Also, trust me, when it comes to words, aquas are the Phds, the masters of flattery. Maybe it’s just your boyfriend but seriously, aquarian is good at making girls hear all they want to hear. Air sign (communicators)
Finally, scorpio23f, if you really still don’t know how to support your boyfriend after 7 years of dating then you must forget it, just be happy and let him face the world in peace. It would be nice of you if you don’t kill him ;p
Enough for now, because as we all know, it is the dose that makes the poison. But before I go I like to advise all aquarians to drop the libra girl thing, and go for our soulmates, sexy and funny Geminis. For I discovered that I can’t really stand libran girls, so empty and light
@Aymen: I bet either the Gemini will cheat on you or you will cheat on her pretty quickly with a Leo. Soon, you will call your “sexy and funny Gemini” a crazy bipolar ex. Yeah, I know guys like you never willing to accept his part in a break-up. Talk about double standard.
@ LaVette – I’m in the almost VERY same boat as you… so in love with an Aquarius man – from what I’ve learned about these men is that if he tells you something – please believe it – even if it doesn’t make any sense to you (if you keep nagging him or keep trying to ask him the same question but in different ways he’s going to pick up on that and he’ll probably lie to you but not to be maliscious but just to trick you!)
You’re gonna have to be the “gentle” pursuer with him and you must must must be patient! An Aquarius is NOT for the weak – so I can understand why a scorpio would actually be a good match. They also take things quite literally and do not express themselves emotionally – not saying that they don’t have emotions – they just rather not deal with them because, lets be honest, emotions can at times make no sense whatsoever…
Some advice to woo him even more: (although it seems like he does indeed like you though) – be aloof too – not like you don’t care, but like him not contacting you for a few days does not bother you at all – the fact that he DOES reach out to you again is what you should focus on because that means you keep his interest! If you have some interesting hobbies – let him know!!! Be interested in his hobbies too (and I’m sure your guy has a few!)
But THE most important thing – be his friend! See him as a friend, treat him as one and try to understand him as one – when you feel comfortable enough, make your “move”!!!! …because he most likely won’t! Take his hand and place it on your body… then you will see (and know for sure) how much he REALLY wants you!
thanks misty! you really helped me that much in understanding them and yeah, i just remembered my bestfriend (female) is an aquarian and she loves me so much that eventhough she’s down and have problems she’s always there for me..i really love them
it was just this past few days i’ve noticed i have a lot of aquarius friends..
it’s just that it becomes different if you involve yourself romantically in an aquarius..
i really love them..
thanks misty and also to pp
lovelots!
Scorpy girl
wow this is Amazing.. I am a Scorpio female 10/29/77 who is totally head over heels in LOVE with a male Aquarius 2/12/81. He just recently started working at my job, and I was instantly attracted to him. Im used to guys pursuing me, but I realize that I am chasing him. I told a coworker that i was interested which she in turn made him aware. we started chit-chatting & eventually exchanged numbers. he immediately txt’d me & we continued are convos that way. One day casually over txt I told him that i prefer verbal communication & he responded “yeah, I like to talk face to face too” & i said oh maybe u didn’t understand what i meant, i mean talk over the phone & he responded “I understood” so I was highly offended, but we continued to txt, & than he goes missing for a few days!!! So i left his ass alone, & than he would eventually txt again.. I DON’T GET IT. while @ work we flirt non stop w/each other, but he’s very quite & shy. He said he doesn’t want ppl @ work in his Business which I totally understand, I myself am a very private person. But I feel I want so much more from him, he’s very distant. I asked if he had a girl & he replied NO, I even joked one day @ work If his “girlfriend” cooked him lunch & he again responded “what girl”?… So he’s had several opp’s to let me know if he was in a relationship or not. Its just confusing b/c he has called me beautiful said he was attracted to me, likes me & I have done the same. I really laid my cards out with him which is something i NEVER do, esp this early in the game! any advice??? I actually have (wet) dreams about him
hmm…you know, i have an aqua male friend and he is very determined in doing things that would cost his future…
if he said he is busy for work..trust him..
he’s telling the truth
they are very loyal that we Scorpios should stop overanalyzing
just relax and make the days you’re not with him be more productive..you know the advantage of having a relationship with an Aquarius is that they give you freedom for they understand that freedom is also an important aspect of life
just don’t overanalyze or overthink
he loves you and if he says he loves you..trust that sweetie
Misty – That was so beautiful what you wrote. The aqua man that finds you will truly be lucky
Scorpygrl – Give your aqua some space to sort things out. He’ll come around when he’s ready….in the mean time, take care of yourself.
p.p.s. To all aquarians who have a pet peeve about poor grammar ( a lot of you do) I apologize deeply for the many errors typed above. hahaha
p.s. try to avoid aquarians who do a lot of drugs. They’re already unpredictable, volatile, erratic, ever-changing, off-beat, semi-dark, semi-judgmental, semi-insecure, semi-perverted, semi-manipulative people with delusions of humanitarian grandeur and a distaste for authority figures—if you put reckless drug intake ontop of that, you WILL see the worst and most impossible side of an aquarian that can only be described with psychological disorders like borderline personality disorder or psycopathy.
I learned to love them intensely after all, through experiencing the best, the mediocre, and the worst ‘forms’ of them.
it’s all about finding one ( same goes for aquarians to scorpios..i can’t even imagine a scorpio on drugs) who is relatively as evolved as you. You guys have to be on coordinate points on the development line—otherwise one of you will intimidate or aggravate the shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit out of the other.
and then all you COULD do is have violent dirty sex ( and as dirty as scorpio’s ever get, they do nOTTTTT have the hearts to handle heartless sexual affairs) ( ever) ( their egos and body parts want to do it, but their hearts regret it every time) and maybe some scintillating arguments if one of you , or both of you, enjoy polemic.
Basically if you if misinterpret either an aquarian, or a scorpio, you will be surely convinced you are dealing with a sociopath. Which isn’t true. or fair.
work on not misinterpreting. Try to pick a good apple. These fruits are already kinda crazy.
Scorpio Girl here about to divulge a lot to all Aquarians ( male and female). I have no idea if my experience with them is unorthodox to what is ‘ supposed’ to happen but here goes:
The most intimate, mystically satisfying, spiritual, high minded, erotic, perverse, profound, evolving, meaningful moments of my life were alllllllll with aquarians. of both genders.
The most natural moments of my mind’s nature, heart’s nature, body’s nature, and life path crossed with aquarians.
I’m pretty sure my entire development as a human being was catered around aquarians, and not surprisingly the people who always stay in my life are aquarians.
They unite me with my provocative side. My sensual side. My dualities. My philosophical side. My inner child/youthful/innocent/free-going side. Maybe I just love them too much, I don’t know. But they ‘ happen’ in my life more often than anything else does.
I can’t really figure out why ( I’m a capricorn moon, venus in scorp..soooo preeeeetty intense/emotional) they never totally disappear even after I’ve been as incompatible to them as possible ( because our cores are actually very much the same)
Whenever they get a bad rap for being too lofty or wavering or cold or anti-love, I just think about Ellen and Portia—two aquarians, who have the most conspicuous, deepest, most loving love affair you will find pretty much anywhere.
So to all who think an aquarius has no emotions ( including aquarians who suppress it) that is BS. They have this beautiful, heavily ( but subtly) tender, noble, emotional heart underneath the defense mechanisms against it or their prominent intellectualizing of all things.
I think if you believe in them and trust them for who they are and allow them to be who they are, as in separate from you, they won’t drive you as nuts. Speaking from personal experience. They have taught me sooo much about myself–hurt me a lot, yes, but taught me sooooo much about people and life and concepts and ideas that I can use to become a more adaptable, trusting, humble human being. I can’t help but glittery eye them after we’ve had some sort of super sexual union ( which Freaking happens all the time and it is THE BEST SEX)
Granted, I’m sort of an unorthodox scorpio myself, I’m very curious about other ways of being and open minded towards bizarro things that are ‘ against’ my nature’s ways, but I just am eager to learn.
I have noticed that both aqua males and females like to be somewhat in control of their interactions in order to feel safer in them–and scorpios can intimidate that if they throw in their profound power and openness in too quickly. It can put them ill-at-ease, but if you aquas give us scorpio’s a chance, you’ll find that we’re actually 1) not that scary for you , 2) almost perfect for you. It just requires some willingless on both parties to find mutual ground in both your mentalities, and souls.
I swear our souls are family. The way we traditionally need things in relationships are incompatible-that is true–but if you get passed that somehow, you’ll get to this BEAUTIFUL gem-a mixture of the solidity of a scorpio’s fantasy world-with the volatility of the aquarians ( and they have a VERY dark side of their world that is very fascinating that I’ve somehow been given the luxury to see in a few of my aquarian mates), it’s like a secret garden. An elevator for just you two. You just have to be willing to depart from your surface self sometimes in order to walk into that elevator. It’s a pretty cool world, and I’ve never seen in disatisfy either party.
It helps also if you understand the language of music. THey all do. They use that to find their emotions from what I can tell and if you can communicate with them through that medium, that IS you communicating with their feelings. Telling them exactly what to do when to do it, will definitely be too domineering for them , but it’s not because they don’t want you to be yourself–it’s because their hearts are sort of what I call soft tempo. But the thing is–EVERYBODY has a comfort level/communication style/love style, and if you want something to be harmonious you have to gage to anybody/everybody in some sort of way–at least at first before you start introducing your way of things.
I love that I can talk about the most important feelings as if they were philosophies to an aquarian. I love that they remember EVERYTHING and see EVERYTHING –they might not like that scorpio’s are just as intuitive and perceptive and smart but that’s only if they feel like those things are what makes you a threat to them. You have to be somewhat diplomatic with them, but not because you’re manipulating them or playing them for a fool–because you RESPECT their wiring.
They aren’t as alien as they want to be 90% of the time, but if you can agree on being aliens together, you’ll both feel closer than ever. If they can see your loyalty, honesty, purity, flexibility and trust—they will stay a secure figure in your life forever. Don’t take the distance personally, they have very complex worlds they retreat to ( just like us–we just like sharing them more often) and learn to accept the fact that they have just as much power as you do. Both scorpio’s and aquarians are sexual, conquesting types, curious to a fault but gaurded, and find their inner worlds to be the most important thing and want to adhere to them and be true themselves as much as possible.
I was always more introverted than the aquarians I met from a social standpoint and at first I was intimidated /felt un-secure with their social ways/disappearing acts, until I understood it and realized they are a reflection of my freer self –and that they never want to be bad people, or mean people or cold people. They have a lot to give to humanity and if you allow them their gifts, and where those gifts go, they will be warm to you because they’ll see that you aren’t trying to change them.
Basically what I’m saying is you’ve got to love them. And if you do that, like actually do that, and not love them in the contorted way you want to love someone but in the way they TEACH you to love and learn , you will see their best side.
Do anything else and you’ll be dropped like a hot rock.
And aquarians need to know that they CAN be cherished both surfacely, sexually, and deeply, but a scorpio and that this love is NOT possession. Nobody can possess you guys, that whole thing is an illusion. You are safe. We just express loudly. There are no real chains, we just want to be safe, too.
it’s really important for these two to experience each other. Like, for growth-purposes. You can bounce off each other and with mutual patience, you can experience one of the best affairs of the world. You both have an eye for detail and pay attention to the uniqueness of the individual. Aquarians have to learn to allow themselves to be special, and scorpio’s have to learn to allow other people to be themselves.
That’s the truth of it.
( Though I could be wrong. I’m still learning.)
express your emotions as thoughts, so the aquarian can understand you–beyond what they naturally understand ( which is more than you think.) Both of us are weary of people in a certain way–it’s all about showing each other that you’ve finally found someone you don’t have to control, manipulate, fuck with, change, or do anything other than ENJOY.
I fucking love them. It sucks, because they never stick around romantically, but if one ever does, you better believe I will marry. And I’ll marry unconventionally, and let the aquarian be whatever mirage of a million things, or amoeba’s that they want to be, because that’s what they need to be. ANd hopefully they’ll let me be whatever I need to be. I’m sure if we discussed it at length, and had fun together when given the time, that would be an understood fact.
BOTH signs need to let loose some with each other and ‘ allow’ it. I am convinced that that’s all there is to it.
LEARN each other. You won’t love anyone else as awesomely.
two peas in a really innovative pod.
p.s. the aquarian who mentioned to avoid relationshipping with one who is still venturing all over the place in life, has a great point. If you meet an aquarian who is exploring and mingling and seeking ‘experiences’ instead of ‘ projects’, then just go with that flow. At the very least, you’ll produce a wonderful friend.
all you have to do is suspend your ordinary-every-day-people-interaction-rules. They do NOT follow those. It does NOT make them shitty. Trust me. Trust them.
I personally use their ‘downsides’ or ‘off’ moments or ‘ MIA’ times as opportunities to expand myself similarly. They are attracted to both your most face value version of yourself and your most self-assured self.
NEITHER SIGN LIKES ARROGANCE. whoever said to approach the situation with that, is alllll wrong. Be comfortable with your stance, but willing to allow other stances. Be comfortable with you ( and if you aren’t, and both scorpio’s and aquarians have 900000 insecurities, just try to learn how to be more comfortable) but be comfortable with them, too.
In this pairing, you guys are both wearing …uh capris. No pants on one or the other.
PLEASE DO IT. your hearts will be happy–they just have to be accessed. and it is a process/ a tango, that you cannot be overly worried about or overly cunning about.
I trust aquarians more than life once I’ve established a bond with them. I might not be able to marry one or tie one down or something but they are too vital for the scorpio soul to skip over.
I just wish they knew lol.
misty
I am an aquarius guy and quite liked your post.. I was wondering if I could share for your opinion a personal story… privately?
sure Otto! Email me at isingatnight@gmail.com =)
Misty – OMG – you are soooooo right!! I grew up with a sister that was an Aquarius – but due to a volatile family life and her being abused it definitely skewed our relationship and she is no longer a “typical” aquarius – there are a lot of negative influences on her character- however I have recently had the honor of meeting an Aquarius male (that I have fallen so deeply in love with) that has opened my eyes to certain things about myself – he inspires me! You’ve made a lot of good valid points about their character – I hope you do marry one though! – maybe you just need to wait for one who feels that marriage is the next big “experiment” or “mystery” he needs to figure out!
aqua man here all i can say is wow. you can marry me if you like ,you said you were still learning sounds like your a pro to me, good on ya great piece are you sure your not an aquarian because how do you know so much,cmon you must have one tied to chair and whipping him for information ha ha lol although he would prob get a kick out of it .do you reckon all aqaurian scorpio relations are a short lived or just your own expierence
Wow Misty you most deffinatly hit the nail on the head with that post, & it was apprciated probably much more than you realize. I have read thru many of the post on this site, some good, others not so good & very negative, but your post was very up lifting, inspiring, positive, & genuine & i’d really like to thank you. I am a Scorpio Woman who is very very much in love with an Aquarius. Man, & I wouldn’t trade this feeling for anything in the world. We’ve known each other for a while, 6yrs, are both in our 40′s, & met thru a mutual friend. Only thing was that when we met, altho we were both immediately attracted to each other, we we’re both in
relationships & so decided to just be & remain friends. His relationship ended about a year & a half after we met, & I lost my guy to iraq about 6mos after his thing ended, & we started communicating again on a more regular basis, but still just as friends because the woman had really hurt him, wounds were still very fresh, & he was then living in New York while I had relocated back home to California. However, even tho there was bitterness & pain in both our lives, we still had this terrific & great attraction for each other & so tried to comfort each other via emails, phone calls, & texts. But as I healed, he seemed to become more bitter & couldn’t shake his hurt or anger & I didn’t know how to help him, he closed himself off & so we lost touch for months, but I never forgot him, thought of him very often, & wished that we’d find each other again if it was at all ment for us to be more than friends, & I got on with my life & decided to start dating again after christmas 2008. But on the week between christmas & new years 2008 our mutual friend came for a visit, she told me he was in town from new york visiting his family & was asking to see me. She told me that they’d kept in touch on & off for months & that he’d always ask about me, but she never past on the msgs to me because she wanted to see me happy again & was afraid he’d hurt me, but that during this visit home he’d ask for me non stop & wanted my new phone number so we could get together before he went back east & of course I said yes & he called & we met for drinks, both single now. He was guarded, but the attraction was greater than ever & when we finally kissed, omg, it was perfect & passionate & hot & much more than either of us expected, & it hit me like a ton of bricks, & right then at that moment I knew I loved him & probably had from the moment i’d met him. We didn’t sleep together & he took me home promising to see me again before he left, but that meeting never happend. I was given a msg thru our friend that he cared about me more than he realized & he didn’t want to hurt me so it was better if he didn’t see me. Our friend told me that he was still kinda angry with women & was pretty much only after 1 thing at that time. I confided in her how I felt about him & said I needed to tell him because my feelings were real & we could heal each other, but she told me it would’nt be a good idea to let him know because with his current attitude at that time even she felt he would hurt me, he’d take the fact that I loved him just to get me in bed, then he’d go back east & move on to someone else, not caring that he’d broken my heart. So I kept my feeling away from him, didn’t stay in touch, poured myself into my life & my kids, & a few months later moved & changed my number & email address. I dated on & off, but never seemed to find a quality guy, no one i’d consider a keeper any way. & I found myself comparing the men who ask me out to my guy I lost in iraq & also to my Aquarius since he compared greatly to the other in almost all ways, most especially in the way he made me feel, like I was someone to be treasured & loved & so were my kids. I still thought of him but felt he was lost to me & I hoped his life was happy & he’d found peace. Ever so often i’d pick up an old book or something & a picture would fall out & also pictures of my guy we lost, & i’d wish & pray. Well last year in november at my birthday I made a wish for true love, that night when I went to bed I prayed & then I talked to my guy who I lost. I ask for him & god & goddess to please send me a good man, one like him because altho I was tired of being alone, I didn’t want to settle for just any knuckle head, I wanted a real guy who had his shit together, who’d be my everything as I would be his & who I could trust with me & my now teen twin daughters. Someone who’d love & respect us & who would deserve our love & respect, an honest, trustworthy, faithful guy who would be my partner & walk beside me as we complimented each other in every way. I ask my guy who I lost to please send us someone who HE would trust with us & who he’d be happy to see me with because I was honestly ready now to share my life with the man who was ment for me if I couldn’t have him back & I knew he was watching over us. I also had other stipulations that I’ll keep to myself, haha, & I ended with “please make it as plain as the nose on my face when he comes to me & send me a sign to show me he had sent him to me”, Then I went to sleep… At the full moon I wrote that wish/prayer down & put it in a special place & went about doing me & my kids & preparing for the holidays. At the beginning if December I was unpacking boxes to decorate with the stereo on for background noise, & no matter what stationed i turned to my lost guys fave songs would be playing, which made my kids start talking about him then a picture of him would show up out of nowhere or we’d come across something that belonged to him, so finally I looked up & said “okay babe I hear you, miss miss you too” thus was our 4th christmas without him….Anyway a few days later I was hanging out with my girls shopping & went to the market after dropping them off, when I came out with groceries the friggin car wouldn’t start so I sat there waiting for my dad to come jump my battery. While waiti g I looked up & said out loud “god, what else are you gonna do to me this christmas?” (The car had broken down a week prior needing a new starter whuch ment less xmas $)… so after saying that I put my head on the steering wheel, telling myself to stay positive & not let this get to me. When I sat back, I looked out the front car window & this guy was standing there staring at me with bags in his hands, he started to smile then removed his beanie & sunglasses & said my name, I rolled down the window & said hello but didn’t realize who he was yet, then he walked to the drivers side of the car & said “don’t you remember me? can I get a hug?” His hair was shorter & he was growing facial hair but the voice & nyc accent was deffinately my aquarius & I got out of that car fast as lightening. He threw his arms around me for a quick hug, stepped back & looked down at me with this huge goofy smile on his face, then gave me the biggest, thightest, bear hug like he’d never done before. He waited with me & we talked, he said he’d been in town since thanksgiving & was now living in oregon for 7mos & was doing well. He said he’d ask’d about me several times but no one would give him any info so he figured i’d prob married again or moved away, & he made sure I knew he was very single & looking for love & a commited, permanent relationship in his life, he said he wanted & needed to settle down with a good woman. During our no contact years he’d been through a lot, had fallen for another woman, & had gotten hurt again, then finally gave up on nyc & returned to California in 2010 then moved on to oregon spring of 2011. We exchanged numbers & made a date to see each other the next day & I drove him to his familys house after my battery was jumped. According to my dad the battery cables just somehow worked themselves loose, hmmm!!! The next day I told him where I lived & found out that he ran past my house every morning when he jogged & that his moms new place where he’d been staying, was just under a mile from me. Coincidence? Hmm again!! We went out that night & it was amazing, we couldn’t stop touching or looking at each other, & we had so much fun just talking & being together, then the kisses at the end of the night left us both breathless & yearning. Of course we saw each other a few times more before he left, & before he did leave I let him know there was something i’d been wanting to tell him all these years, & i’d understand if he bolted after hearing it, but life is short & unexpected & he needed to hear what I had to say, then I did it, I told him I love him & that I have since I met him, & that even if he never returned my feelings, at least he knows how I feel & that its real & that no matter what, there would always be a woman here at home or wherever I went who loved him & would do almost anything for him. I said I wanted to be his woman yes, but I wanted him to be happy, even if without me. & that i’d rest easy now knowing that he was okay & doing well & knew now how I felt about him but had been keeping to myself…. Well he didn’t bolt, far from it, he was actually truly happy, & let me know he’s had feelings for me as well all this time & thought about me always as well, but didn’t know where to find me. We both agree’d everything happends for a reason & that I was ment to break down at the matket when I did so we could find each other again, then we decided to take a chance on each other & just fo the damn thing, & are now a couple. We’ve been in touch everyday & night since via phone, text, & skype. He’ll be home this weekend for his birthday & Superbowl, & I’ll be up in Oregon with him 3wks later, & we’re gonna do the back & forth thing til next year when my twins grad high school, then we’re moving to Oregon & they’ll go to university there or at Berkley… we miss each other more & more each day& hate bei g apart, but we’re making it work til we can permanently & happily be together. Whoever says Aquarians & Scorps can’t work is so very wrong, because I’m a very happy Scorpio woman, & the loving, quirky man of my dreams is an Aquarian, who started out as my friend, but now happends to be the love of my life. & I thank god & goddess each day & night for bringing us back to each other & blessing us with happiness!!!
ScorpAngel1106
hi!have been reading this blog (on and off) for almost 3 months now…and i really loved the stories i have read…i am into a male aquarius right now and don’t know what to do.
he told me he loves me twice (which i never answered, since i was stunned and don’t know what to say) and he even DIRECTLY told me he wanted to marry me soon…
however he suddenly became aloof and is not back to his same ‘him’ after that.
so, as a scorpio, i don’t want to be the one who is chasing, so i keep myself a little detached from him..but then he still find ways to make me feel like “oh my gosh, he’s so sweet” then after a while he’s back into his cold behavior..
everything got worse (i can tell that since he stares at me whenever i pass before, but now he’s not doing that anymore) for we never really had a nice talk with each other…
please help me what to do?
BTW i messaged him in facebook asking him if he still have plan in talking to me…
thanks in advanced,
scorpygirl
hi im a aquarius/capricorn cusp sun sign and i am absolutely head over heels for my scorpio girl…i met her on a plane and we talked all night..we exchanged emails but barely spoke…then a year later she wanted me to come see her but i invited her to come see me instead…when she arrived i remember passing by a bridal shop and saying i would never marry…that night we made sweet sweet love and we told each other that we loved each other…three days later i asked her to marry me and she said yes….our relationship is crazy…i really want to break up with her because our relationship causes so much problems and tension in both our lives, but i just cant…i cant live without this woman…she tried to break up with me too last autumn but she came running back…its like we are two super novas circling each other getting ever closer and nearing our fate of colliding…i am the irresponsible type and she is so serious about career…were both very young im 22 and she 21….i feel trapped…i dont know where to go from here…i cant live with her cant live without her….
Nino, believe me if she’s truly the one you’ll change for her eventually. You’ll grow up and realize your paths can certainly collide and you two can support one another’s dream. My Aqua husband was behaving like you too in the beginning but once he realized life is too short to waste your time on booze and drug and too much games, he works hard towards his goal and our goals. It’s up to you. Is it worth it? Only you can tell.
Ok I am back and I bumped into new aqua man that i knew my whole life. It started like 6 weeks ago. I never thought that i would start having feelings for him because i never even thought about it. It is kinda of strange. He is probably one of the funniest people i know. I love talking to him. We did go out and had a great time. We were suppose to go out this weekend but plans did change. :0( but i did talk to him last night and he said sorry. It just seems like it was great and then it just stops! I would just back away but i feel like i did something wrong. I dont understand aqua male. He would text me 90x a day , no lie. then he just pulls away. Idk, i dont want ask him or pry, he does have a lot going on. I just need some advice on should i leave him alone and wait to see if he contacts me. Thanks
btw i am Scorp sun and moon and venus/mars are both libra. He is Aqua sun and sag moon. If this helps.
this is a research thing for me since I’m starting a relationship with a Scorpio and I am an Aquarius man I want to know all I can about this …hell yeah!!!!
I’m an Aquarius female with a Scorpio moon. My best friend is a Scorpio female with a Libra moon. We met only 2 years ago but it feels like we’ve known eachother for years, in fact we call eachother sisters.. We had an instant attraction and we’ve been the most loyal friends since the day we met. I’ve had good friends but this girl and I have never felt so loving and caring towards anyone this easily besides my family! I dont know what I would do without her! She is honestly the best friend I ever met. People say Scorpios can be dark and deep but as an Aquarius I connect so well and we are very similar, especially on the emotinal side. I love her to death!
Yeah im an aquarius guy and theirs something about scorpio women for me…. I started dating a second scorpio, my ex was a scorpio too, but anyways I dont know what it is but I hope to find out….I came to realize that this scorp girl im with now is similar in certain ways as my ex, personality-wise. They are both strong-willed and pride their individuality but so far other than that they are pretty different which is great for me cause i didnt like the rest of what my ex had to offer lol….
has he ever told u and him will always and only be friends?
I am interested in hearing an opinion about that 3-yr phenomenon. Ever since I met this aquarian man, he has told me that he’s not attracted to me -then, i am attractive -then he asks for time to figure things out -then, he shows up with a girlfriend and pretty much disengages from our friendship -then, he has trouble with her and starts wanting to be close with me again -then, he’s free and cant make a decision about his relationship with her, but still thinks Im the one if/when he wants to be serious. He’s 11yrs older than me, but he is just now considering settling down, but his girlfriend is only as exciting as the last date they had -but shes in korea. and watz with his attraction to foreign women anyway? there is “magic” between us -we are both sexually a little shy -but dont hav any trouble with that intense chemistry thing -but then he says he’s not attracted to me. I no longer believe him. watz up with this guy? Im scorpio and im constantly adjusting to his “need for freedom” but i like my freedom too. but im golden with commitment so i dont feel that my freedom would threaten our relationship if we went further -but, i wonder if i will always need to wonder how he’s truly feeling and what he’s really doing. i dont mind letting him go -but, how can i be sure that he’s trustworthy so i can do that for him without worrying about me? we have those “looks” and he’s confronted me about my “look” and im not sure wat he’s seeing -but, i dont mean to flirt but think he brings me into that naturally. things are just so smooth and magical whenever we’re together and eVERYONE sees “electricity” in our connection. he says not to wait for him, but i think its b/c he isnt sure when he’s gonna be ready to move with me -and he duznt want the risk of hurting me. but i strongly feel that he secretly wishes i would be around when he does get ready. im trying to move on just at his request -but, im sooo sure he duznt really want wat he’s asking for and im afraid ill miss my chance if i move on too quickly. any thots?
i see well thank you
It’s really hard to tell because they aren’t ones to jock people. But you’ll know because they’ll check in with you from time to time…just to say hi or whatever. You’ll never know when they’re gonna pop up though, could be weekly, monthly…or even every few months. But basically they’ll just keep coming around.
what are the signs they are holding out?
If a guy really likes you, he won’t go anywhere unless you consistently reject him. Aqua men are no different than any one else who faces rejection. Aquas are pretty strong-willed, so if they really like you…they’ll hold out for a good while. If they don’t like you or their feelings are mediocre…it won’t take them long to get distracted.
I see
depends on the aqua guy and the relationship beforehand. some might hold out hoping for something to happen and another will just move on with their life. Really just depends on the guy in that instance
Im not saying this will happen but what if im not there wen they come back…will they brush it off and continue their life?
Mandy,
With us it’s usually absence makes the heart grow fonder. Usually with a bit of time away from a person we end up realising we had more fun when we are around them and then we come back.
ok thank you pp….your great help! jk lolz
Mike,
I have realized that cuz when i think i have him in my hands hes like 2 steps ahead of me! its crazy. I dont play mind games anymore because il basically never with with aqua. Jeez u cud be him in disguise!!..idk lol Could you tell me how do aquas know they really want someone etc
Mandy,
Yeah us Aqua’s are pretty much useless at showing emotions and we like our space. Just give him time and he’ll come around when he’s ready. And it’s best to just be straight up with us rather than trying to play mind games. We read mind games as well as scorpios do and they just dont work on us, and a heads up, we do have a tendancy to over think things sometimes so just be wary of that issue . Hope that helps abit
LOL…sorry, I don’t mean to laugh but you won’t be able to tell how they feel about you or when they miss you. They’re too damn good at hiding their feelings! The only way you’ll know is if he tells you. Of course, with time and thru an established relationship…you’ll be able to tell all this because you have learned him and you won’t ever wonder.
ok thank you,
now the next thing i have a question about is how can i tell aqua guy misses me and still is waiting for the right time to say he wants to officially be together
It’s not that aquas have a problem with emotions being expressed. They have a problem with all the dramatics that people can bring with those emotions. If you want an aqua to hear you, don’t be dramatic about how you’re feeling, and definitely DO NOT try and manipulate them with how you feel by trying to make them feel guilty…they will read right thru it.
Just calmly talk about what every issue you may be having.
pp…so the best thing to do is be there for him and bring no emotional things into convo?
Mandy – I think you should tone down the emotion and stop giving him guilt trips. It doesn’t work well on aqua men…at all really. He stated he “wouldn’t love it” because in all reality, who would love being cut off? That’s basically what you’re telling him you’re gonna do. Aquas like friends and hate disappointing people, so having quarrel with you is something he will try to avoid…if he can.
Marie – How is everything working out on your end?
hello im a scorpio and i obviously have a question about an aqua guy. ive read previous threads and i found manyso very helpful regarding myself and my aqua guy.
Question 1 is, even when i try to move one and date other guys and still think about my aqua does it mean it will be like this forever because me and him never had a relationship? and i wont sat yet becuase that word is up in the air. (im 19 and hes gonna be 22)
Question 2, i emailed to him “i promise if you resolve something with me you will never hear from me again and imsure ud love it” (since i felt he was tired of hearing from me)..so in response he emailed, “wouldn’t love it”.
could anyone ELABORATE on that for me because i need to know what he means by that. cuz he wont say why
Thanks I will check that website out. I just talked to my aqua and it was good convo. He just got a new condo close by and wants to invite me over. so I guess we will see. Funny thing I was thinking if he textes me and I said I didn’t know if I was gonna answer him…..well right away because when it seems promising, all plans fall threw. I am trying to stay positive.
Marie…
I’m glad to hear that you and your aqua are finally communicating again. It’s weird, once you stop contact with them & go about your life, that’s when they decide they wanna pop back in!
I’m still talking with my aqua as well. He pulled a distancing act on me for the last two weeks, and text me a few days ago asking how I was. I never responded. I feel I need some time to think about some things….but I care about him dearly.
Also, I wanted to mention that there’s this great site Compatible-Astrology.com that has a really good Aqua male/Female scorp forum. I’ve found loads of info and help on there. You should check it out.
I could not say what i text on here , use your imagination. We did talk here and there. Nothing positive, I figured i blew it and out of no where, he started texting me again asking “how i am” so yes i was very excited. I talked to him today and we r going to get together. I can not help it this man does something for me and i dont what…..I will keep u posted!!!!
im an aquarius man…and ive been in 2 serious relationships wit scorpios…and at first its amazing..and then…we hate each other…i guess as im just too free spirited..but definitely find attractions to scorpios…even tho im scared as hell of them
Dear all,
I ask you people who are interested to check out comments on sites like Becky on…(google it) and also a compatibility site run by an astrologer by name of Nancy Fenn. They contain info and lot of comments on aquarius scorpio relationships.
Good Luck to all of you.
wow, am surprised with all the above comments..and Rute, u share the same birthday as my love. 5th feb!! indeed so true that these aquarian men tend to be distant and treats us like a barest minimal in their life at times. im in love with an aquarian man. I met this guy., to be precise, met him at my NEIGHBOORHOOD!! I have met that amazing man. We live just a block away from each other. He was weird yet attractive. Immensely! Before I knew it, I fell for him 10years ago. So right now, after waiting for over ten years for him to notice me. He finally manages to notice me. This perfect stranger is that guy whom I have dreamt about. The faceless man, whom now i found an identity to. From the time I realized I have fallen in love with him, I have been made to feel that I wasn’t worthy of this man. He was the first male to make me feel inadequate. He was also the first male that made me want to get him. The journey was bumpy, and it still is. but the wait was fruitful the moment I got a clue to his identity. I got the clue to this man’s identity. Finally! It was exhausting.. The only thing that I don’t know is, for how long do I have him in my contact? For the past 1yrs after i got to know him,he has been soooo ignorant. Or he is simple playing hard to get. N around last year december bumped into him when i was with my best friend. thats when my friend and i plan to approach him to get a clue to his identity. so somehow my friend striked a conversation with him. as much as i thought he wasnt friendly, he proved me wrong. he was really nice and friendly. somehow i spoke to him as well. i was so happy for the fact that i atleast managed to get his name after 10 years of waiting for him to notice me. he even gave his email ID. which seem useless, cos he hardly replys to mails. i’ve dropped him a few mails but NO reply. after that a few times,i managed to see him around when i go over to the school he is teaching, with pretext to work. then he seemed friendly too. he speaks well in person..he even gave his mobile number. but when i call, he is normarlly busy…and tells me he will return to my call. but he never does
What surprises me is that, despite knowing him after 10 years, i happened to know that we share quite abit of similarities. we both were from the same primary school..but never noticed each other then..n we both stay just a block away..and a few other similarities. the kind of relationship i am having with him, is kind of nothing now. Its not a friendship, a fling or a relationship. We are still like 2 strangers who by chance crosses path.his nice. i dont know if he ever felt what sadness is really like. i really like him. I dare say I loved him for the past 10 years and till today I am loving him. his more like the guy whose not at all existent. he exist in the world, also a block away from me, but his world is not anywhere near mine and mine near his. half the time it seem that his entirely in love with himself and no one else matters to him. Just recently, out of the blue we started going to work together. He is a gem of person in reality,jus that he is simply not cut for a relationship now. Ive confessed my feelings to him. And true enuf,he was honest enough to say he prefers starting it off as friends. He msges me once a while and at times he totally doest his MIA acts (i agree its just his nature of the aquarius.) The scorpio in me tries so hard tame the anger tho i will send him vexed msges when i am mad. He is the man i have stretched my patience with. I hope someday he wil reciprocate my feelings..cos i understand how family oriented and loving an aquarian guy can be after marriage.
I was able to read some comments regarding the scorpio-aquarius relationship. I, too had an intense and loving relationship with an Aquarian guy. It was almost a year since we started to deal with each other. And until now, he is by my side. I really am looking forward for our relationship to fruit well. Neither of us would not let each other go.
However, I am quite disturbed that one of his reasons for loving me is sexually-based. Would i bother that?
Marie…what did you txt your aqua that is so bad?
Each sign has both good and bad qualities about them, but what’s more important to note is that people are more than just their sign. Just because you got screwed over by a scorp/aqua, it doesn’t mean your negative experience is a proven generalization of traits for all the freakin’ people who fall under that sign as well! People’s morals and values aren’t determined by their sign!
That being said, I will say that there are striking similarities between people who are born aqua or scorpio. I’m currently talking to a aqua male right now and I will admit that sometimes he confuses the hell out of me! He blows hot and cold…and he’s so unpredictable, that it is seemingly predictable now…does that make sense lol?
Marie – Just give your aqua space. You haven’t made it clear exactly what you txt him to piss him off, but if he likes you in any way…he’ll look past it all with time.
I was reading about Aquarian males! I am a Leo and was married to an Aquarian. He not only has disfunctional thinking he is a mama’s boy and with that combination of not growing up he got away with murder. He abused me and cheated on me and to make it even worse he did drugs with my teenage kids from a previous 21 yr marriage without me knowing. He was such a horrible partner in my life that he damaged relationships with people I cared for. His sign fits him to a tee, cold and calculating. It was the worst experience in my life. He took everything from our marriage and sold my personal belongings, and had no remorse. As I think about it, I will say this DON’T LOOK BACK or you may turn into a pillar of salt..He was EVIL,seriously. Carma is a Bitch!!!!!!!!!!!!
Aquas are best suited for Scorpio. I don’t know why they say Libras are. My Aqua was with a Libra for 7 years and they had a child together. He said he was always embarrassed of her , and that he tried to leave her many times and she would either break up his relationships ( by getting ahold of his gf at the time and telling them lies about him , thus they would always break up with him, and other silly stupid things.
She is still and always tried to get me to break up with him or us to break it off from eachother but I am not budging , she doesn’t scare me at all. My aqua has told me that the connection he feels with me is amazing , always saying ” I have never felt this way before” He is always touching me , then laughs when he catches himself being so intimate , again , something he says he has never had the desire to do for a woman. He always makes me laugh and will do sweet things like rub my feet and draw me baths, but he is not a sappy sort of man , very strong and has a mean dark side to him which keeps me very much attracted to him , as he likes my dark side as well.
The connection in the bedroom is out of this world. we are both so comfortable with eachother to explore above and beyond. He bought me a ring the other day, a promise ring , and when I cried he didnt know what to say. He tells me he loves me and I am just as important as his son , and that coming from an aqua , is a big BIG deal.
….Its not sunshine all the time , when we get into it , heads do roll , but in a strange way we kind of get off on it , hard to explain.
So can someone tell me why this is , why the connection between two signs can be this strong? Others here have confirmed this as well. Also , if this is the case then why do the reports explain Libra to be the best match ? I cant stand libras , I find them just as boring and materialistic as Aquas do.
”oh and when we were on our way back, he was like, i kissed my friend last nite, but it didnt mean anything and i was like oh so u kiss any girl? and he was like no i dont. and i said, well wat would u say if ur girlfriend kisses another guy just cuz shes really close to him? and he was like, kat im not the jealous type, [and for me, if a guy doesnt get jealous at all, its because he doesnt care]”
aquarians are assholesI was never burnt by one but i am an air sign.They get away with things most other signs cant cause its all in the presentation.trust me, a lot of them are in your face full on lame.
typical
”Us Aqua guys do like to think were right all the time, most of the time we are but those times when we are wrong we dont really like, ”
you would say that.only ”you” know your right but concerning most of the planet, youre wrong lol
keyword: i know…”i”
omywow are you not going to use full quotes or just the bits that you feel relivent to your opinion ?? i think the full quote would be ” Us Aqua guys do like to think were right all the time, most of the time we are but those times when we are wrong we dont really like, so probably best not to rub it in his face, but do prove your point when he is wrong, he’ll respect that.”
And less bashing on aquarians, were aren’t all the same
Hi Mike
Well i just seen your post, but i texted this morning sayin Hi, and he said was ” Texts werent good and i will see u around, no worries. so i texted back that i wouldn’t anymore and promised. I hope i didn’t hurt ur feelings and that feel terrible, and that i valued our friendship. He said “Yeah, please don’t text that anymore” so i left it alone. I guess I blew it. I am so sad. I really cared for himand mostly as a friend. Hopefully in time maybe it will change….idk thankyou
Thanks Mike, it is very helpful but another situation has occured…..lol
Saturday night i went out he texted me, what i thought was a sure shot if u know what i mean. Then he never texted me back. Again confused so i texted a couple fresh things…..haha I apologized the next day and still haven’t heard from him. He is makin me feel terrible. Do u think i should leave him alone or text him again. I can’t see him being mad but i do feel like he rejected me. So confused!
I can see why your confused !! He seems to be acting pretty strange. I reckon leave him alone for a while. The time without contact might make him realize that he misses your attention. Hopefully he’ll be more responsive to you in a week or so
aymen your previous coment i can relate to! i think every scorpio has a dark side and we can be very wicked and hatefilled but at the same time for my true friends and love ov my life i will do anything for them. and as for my enimies which i have a few of, they need not cross my path they soon get stung. its in our nature. i think this somewhat has to do with past expiriences also but i have never cheated on my aquarious man but aquarians have a nack of not showing emotion very well. this can be interprited by us as your going to leave us soon or cheat yourselfs. us scorpions need alot of asurance and if it isnt in abundant we can get very confused
wow what a little goldmine iv come across here. im 23 scorpio iv been with my aquarian boyfriend for 7yrs on and off and five yrs living with him. we have alot of ups and a alot of downs. we definatly have a strong connection and the sex is very hot. iv been with other partners in between and so has he but we always come bk to eachother because everything else with other partners is boring in comparison lol. i am a very emotional scorpio and i need alot of reasurance even tho i know im beautiful its just nice to hear him compliment me and say the words… hes not really the romantic type so i whinge at him sometimes alittle to much. i get the feeling these days that maybe he is bored of me alittle with all the stroppy bossy stuff i tend to bring to the table. honest tho i cnt help it its in my nature. im very posesive of him and very proud and headstrong.
we have a sexy tention tho and we playfight probly to much lol bit of tention. i am a brilliant cook i am inteligent and i am a good homemaker i find pleasure in looking after my house and home but just lately i feel i would like to be a beter girlfriend to him now as hes going threw some work problems. how can i show him that im hear for him and im suporting him without being bossy? and is it just me or is it really dificult to show an aquarious he is wrong about something? iv heard his own mother say the same… it doesnt mater how logical i reason with him he cant see when hes in the wrong? wot is the best thing i can do? let him be right all the time or is there a beter way of getting threw to aquarians?
another point i would like advice on… my aquarious man has the abillity to build me up but his wicked side he has the ability to tear me so far down also. he really does believe that hes always right and im mostly wrong so for me its harder to acept put down like that. any help? where am i going wrong
Hey scorpio23f,
You can i show him that your there for him and suporting him without being bossy, by just having a nice dinner made or sumthign when he comes hoem from work, it doesn’t have to be too drastic, we do notice the little things, even if we dont show it too often.
Us Aqua guys do like to think were right all the time, most of the time we are but those times when we are wrong we dont really like, so probably best not to rub it in his face, but do prove your point when he is wrong, he’ll respect that.
I believe Aqua’s wicked side only comes out if you have really pissed them off in some way, or that might just be me, but i wouldn’t tear a girl down unless she’s done something really wrong, it might not be the same for all aqua’s tho.
hi I am sxorp girl and interested in aqua man but like everyone else i don’t know if he is interested. He takes me out with him, but yet talks to other girls. He textes me and calls me he tells me he loves me. He is very confusing. My friends tell me to go for it but i am to afraid of rejection. He addresses me as “hello beautiful” and “Gorgeous…..Just so confused……Please Help
To Marie,
He talks to other girls to make you more interested in him. He doesn’t want to seem totally into you even if he is. Us aqua male’s also need reassuance of your interest in us as some are abit shy. You may actually have to make to first move if he still isn’t sure of your interest in him. Hope this helps
Mike
well first i’m an aqua from germany and i dont like what Miss Synthia says about us and I think she says so because she had difficult time with her aqua ex who made her see who she really might be (a weak selfish girl that lies like a rug trying to prove something???) Anyways I hope she gets rid of that anger and move on for real without hate in her BIG heart.
about scorpios,
Scorpio seem to hate anyone if they don’t like them and they easily fall for anyone that makes them feel wanted…which proves they have a self image problem.
It’s said that scorpios are emotional and I agree with that, but we all have to understand that emotions are not the best way to judge people or to live, use your brain.
From my experience for 2 years with a scorpio I can say that the only interesting thing about scorpio girls is their sexual desire and sensitivity which I appreciate a lot because of my scorpio moon and ascendent. However I don’t think I can count on just that when it comes to commitment. We aquarians treat everyone with lots of respect and we expect others to treat us the same way.
During these two HELLISH years I was like pushing a wall for I did everything to satisfy that girl including doing her effin homework ( yes I did) , listening to her undless self-pity speach and all I get eventually is few empty words describing how she will make me happy in bed and how much she loves me because i, unfortunately, had the ability to heal her harms and make her feel safe.
I met that girl after she broke with her leo partner that literally destroyed her self-esteem so she found herself unwillingly falling for someone that can help her rise her ego again, that was unfortunately me and even tho I was PERFECT at doing that, which is weirdly a truth that a my ex scorpio admits, it didn’t stop her from cheating and playing her old tricks. SHE ADMITS THAT.
It’s so wrong to say that aquarians are flirtatious and cold. All depends on venus the planet of love and relationship. I am an aqua and I loved that scorpio girl with all my heart and never thought of cheating her until she started showing her ugly dark side and you might laugh at me if I say that I was ready to die for he, which is the result of my venus in capricorn.
So advice to all aquarians, don’t waste your energy on scorpios, it’s not worth for we are not what they want (or they think so) and they are not what we expect our partners to be like and neither us nor them would ever change …
Special advice to aquarian girls who sat there laughing and watching us being offended (I say girls because men can take the pain that results from that wicked relationship, aqua/scorpio and will learn alot from it). I say get the hell away from scorpio guys, they will just manipulate you, remember my words.
Finally I want to tell you, I’m with a libra girl now and we are going to get married soon, she just understands me and make me feel like a king. sorry for the language mistakes for i’m german
@Aymen: You’re a hypocrite. You told Synthia off for telling her experience with her ex and then went on generalizing every other Scorps based on the experience with your ex Scorp. How does that fair? Use your brain and think please , and you will notice that you’ve self-esteem issues . Otherwise, why stayed with a cheating and manipulative bitch like that? Again, use your brain and probably you wouldn’t be tricked that much. By the way, are you bisexual or something , otherwise how do you know what is it like to be with a Scorp man? If not, then please don’t provise your inefficient knowledge. Be a man and admit your mistake . You didn’t use your brain to love and that’s what happened. Talking about emotion and self image. I think you’re even worse than your ex. You two deserve one another. Leave the Libra woman alone. You are just being with her because she’s boosting your low self-esteem after being with your ex . Proof? “feel like a king”"? Sorry you’re delusional because you aren’t king. Next time, think before you love and stop blaming and be whiny about your mistakes.
Hey Scorpio Monroe, I think I remember you – what was your handle!? Sy
One more thing to add to my above post. Why do Aqua men give and take as well ( this also doesn’t help me with my own back and forth behaviour) When we first got together and I mean back in 08′ a few months into it he was talking about having kids together ( he has a son with some crazy libra girl , not a woman , a girl , shes nuts) and how although he loves his son he sometimes regrets having a kid with Miss Libra and wish he had his son with me instead.
Since getting back together he has brought this back up again ” what if when I come down this weekend you get pregnant?” he asked , I laughed and said ” how much sex are we planning on having ?” I know it only takes one time but still. He just laughed like a little school boy and asked if I remember the names of our ” kids” that him and talked about before. NOW , yesterday when I brought this up , about our ” kids” he totally changed his tune ( with a smile ) and said ” oh I dont know about that just yet” ????? Why does he do this ?
He gives and when I take , he steps back , when he gives and I step back he gets mad and claims that I dont care!!! What is going on here , is he the immature aqua i have been reading about ? the one that you should avoid??
- Scorpio Monroe
So , I am back. I posted last year or so about my Aqua man. You all said he would return, and he has. We have been texting each other like crazy. The love is still very much there.
But I am afraid , afraid to love this man again with all of my being only to have it ripped out of my chest yet again , so I have been going back and forth with him. When I have him , i think , ” should I be doing this again?” and pull away , when he says ” im too confused and this is too hard to deal with” Thats when I smarten up and realize I do want him in my life for good.
Trust me he is no saint ! He would throw me to the wolves if he felt no one was on my side. ( like his family for the most part) And he can talk in rhyme which confuses me , but he claims that its his old soul talking.
I laugh because it can be a little lame sometimes but I love him lol. He was supposed to come down this weekend , but i chickened out , he got mad and shut his phone off and wouldn’t answer his txt. Of course the next day I called him , we spoke , and it was back to ” normal” But now he is very stand offish. he used to send a txt every morning to tell me he loved me , and then txt me all through out the day. I just sent him a good morning txt and nothing has come back and I know he is up.
So what do I do , yes , me being afraid and worried from our past , got us here now , but is there anything I can say or do to get him back fully ? And not so stand offish? I can feel his energy I swear , and it feels like he now feels unsure about the whole thing although he tells me he loves me. should I just leave him be?
How can I show him that Im ready to give this a solid shot and stop going back and forth with worry ? I feel that I have every right to worry as he was the one who broke us last time , and my heart. I forgive him , but I dont forget , and now that we spent time apart and are now back in eachothers life , how do I let him in without being so worried ultimately breaking us apart before we even really begin ?
Ive read just to leave him be and let him come back to me when he is done thinking? Sorry for the rambble , I am really upset here.
love all ,
Scorpio Monroe
A trend which i have noticed is that the uranus male planet is exalted in scorp, scorp female is attracted to aqua male, when you reverse the sexes scorp males literally despise aqua females.
Pluto being exalted in Leo leo females are attracted to scorp males passionately
Mars being exalted in capricorn, there are plenty of aries women with capricorn males in downright extra marital relations.
This is more of a karmic fatal effect and less to do with rational choices. Overcoming the square energy is no joke. Sexual tensions run high between squared signs. Again living long enough together is no indication of compatibility.
The truth behind Aishwarya rai and Abhisek is that the latter is a gay and its Abhisek’s father Amitabh who has a relation with our dear Miss World.
This is just the planet’s ways of seducing unevolved people.
Scorp girls are the real WAIFs of the zodiac, truly their hearts belong with a scorp male, but they wander around searching for something bogus all because they wanna dominate some mama’s boy rather than entering a meaningful win-win relation with a strong male.
Hey all, Scorpio female here (Sagittarius Moon, Mercury, and Mars, Venus in Scorpio) who is in a relationship with an Aquarius male (Aquarius mercury, mars, gemini moon, Venus in capricorn). My aqua guy and I have been together for almost 3 months. We actually dated 7 years ago, briefly…I was his date to his bro’s wedding. Now we are very serious, I was previously married to a Cancer for 5 years, had two children with, and divorced due to his hiding a drug addiction. Now, this aqua guy is a humanitarian, youth pastor, has done missionary work in Peru this past year….I find him sooo inspiring. I messaged him and asked if he wanted to meet for lunch one day. After a 3 hour lunch he messaged me saying he wanted to take me on more dates…..we went on several more and they were wonderful. I have since met his family, he’s met mine….everyone has embraced everyone else…he loves my kids, and my kids love him, we have spent a lot of time together. He has even mentioned the words “marriage” and “settling down” with me, which is shocking to me b/c I always thought aquas were supposed to shy away from commitment! Bu he has always said he hopes I’m “the last person he’s with, etc”….the intimacy between us, btw, is off the charts!!! 10 stars!! lol. So everything sounds great right?
well….
1) this past year he was with a girl for a year, who he wound up proposing to. She said no. that was in december, and by the end of march, we were dating. I worry that we have started a serious relationship too quickly….that he has not given himself enough time to be single, etc..and he might still have feelings for this girl…or maybe even that I am some transitional girl, someone he’s using to get through this time, I dunno, like a rebound girl or something.
2) he has told me straight off the bat that my music annoys him and this bothers me. We’ve been on several road trips together, and I enjoy my music, but he always complains about it. He has said that he thinks when people try to force their music on him, or try to get him to like something, it makes him like it less. I don’t feel like I’ve tried to force anything, I’m just happy with my music, but he seems to have a problem with almost everything I play. He critiques it all the time, and thus I wind up not enjoying my own music anymore. Sounds trite but it bothers me, which bleeds into my third problem…
3) he’s bossy. I mean, when I’m with him, he wants me to scratch his back, or rub it, but then jokes about how I’m not good at it. Some of his bossiness involves him telling me what to do, which bothers me. I don’t like being told what to do. I welcome advice, questions, suggestions, attempted guidance, requests, etc….but I do not like straight out being told to do this or that, and sometimes he does this.
4) He mentions seemingly innocent comments about other females, whether in his class, or just out and about, and tells it to me like its no big deal. This bothers me. I’m not sure if he’s trying to make me jealous, or gauge my reactions, but I have the decency to not mention other guys to him (although to be fair, he does have to hear crazy stories about my children’s father, ex-husband all the time).
5) He wants to spend a lot of time together, but he’s kind of self-absorbed and not very romantic. The thing was, he wasn’t like that in the beginning. He was actually very romantic and had done sweet things for me, like cleaning my car, etc. but for the most part lately, he only wants to do his own interests or his own errands, and yet always wants me with him to do these things. 80% of the time, I go with him. But it gets to be draining sometimes.
and last but not least,
6) he doesn’t express how he feels. Sure, he tells me he likes me a lot, and he shows it through his actions, but he doesn’t feel comfortable expressing his emotions. I really enjoy expressing emotions with someone I care about, and I really feel like I love this man. However, I’m not sure if he really truly does love me (see concern about feelings for ex above), or if he just uncomfortable with verbal expressions of feelings. I won’t force this issue, and I will be patient, I guess I’m concerned b/c I’ve already invested so much in this man, I’m afraid its not going to work out, and I really hope it does.
I like this post b/c it describes the aqua/scorpio fascination to a T. I really want this to work, and I do give him lots of space and freedom. Sometimes I try to say sweet things to him, but I get the impression that instead of drawing him nearer, it actually pushes him away. My problem is I almost feel like we spend TOO much time together, and I need a breather. I’d rather us spend quality time together, than quantity time, if that makes sense. The only thing I’ve said to him is that I wanted to chill at home this week. I want things to get better, not drift apart….how do I insure that we work out? I guess nothing is guaranteed, just saw this going so well and now these little problems are cropping up.
I am sooo diggin your post! Really in a time of need too. I am head over heels in love with an Aquarius guy. Have been for the past 12 almost 13 years, but as we all know life happens, I went one way and he went another, but now we are back in touch. All I can say is it feels so real. We are friends, but I want to be the ONE. And I’m sure he has many females after his heart. All I can do is fall back and have faith, I don’t have anything else. And he constantly goes through mood swings. So I just give him his space and wait patiently. But sometimes I feel it’s not fair that he can dissapear and re- appear when he feels like it. My character is caring and compassionate, but extremely driven, ambitious, and adventurous. One thing I lack, is femming up everyday, I’m just a chill kinda gal. Jeans and a t-shirt— lets go play. Sooo mabey I should get pretty????
Hi Lilli Ann,
YES, YES, YES go somewhere and get pretty! Aquarius men aren’t really hooked on looks but when you are shining and you stand out in the crowd, HE WON’T BE ABLE TO TAKE HIS EYES OFF YOU!
I’m a Scorp female and I like an Aqua dude. They adore an ultra femine woman.
Good luck.
-Halloween
Hi, I am D. the one that wrote that long essay about us that every one says is spot on!… aqua men… but for some reason some one else has taken my name… oh well.
‘Scorpio female’…
Please drop the ego… one thing we hate is ego! keep it to your self, i am dating this libra woman now,… she always wants me to say how beutiful she is… it comes accross as insecurties… one thing that you MUST remember is that I and also most other aquarius men are notice the innate grace, femininity that is present in scorp women and libra women! So if you want to attract this guy… please re read the blog again… and please use it!!
The chances are that he prob has alot of women checking him out… even if he may not be ”good looking”… it because they see the same thing as you do!!! GET IT!! BE DIFFERENT… i have at this time got 4 women after me and i still havent found the one that i want!
IF YOU ARE SUPER FEMININE AROUND HIM… i GARANTEE HE WILL NOTICE YOU, and BE HIS FRIEND!!!!!!! Give it time and it will work…
Then again its up to you!!
‘I second this one’- cheers dude!! took me just 5 minutes to write! lol.
any questions please feel free to ask/
D… Aqua Male 1983
Hi RSP…D AM 1983, I am a Scorpio female and I would LOOOOOVE to communicate with you on the Aqua male/Scorp female topic!
I have been seeing an Aqua dude off and on for more than 2 years. We do not have a relationship but our chemistry is through the roof!
He treats me like a queen, compliments me often, asks me what I see in him, inquires on who I’m seeing because he can’t believe I would be single, etc.
I want more from this man and I want to spend quality time with him but I feel my strong feelings may scare him away. I have to be sure he wants the same. Can you help?
Thanks
-Halloween
Dear Greci,
Thanks for you beautiful words. Appreciate your sense of Justice.
– Rutu
Being a Buddhist, dear Rutu, is a long Path. Look up our saint: Milarepa. You will immediately understand. Some people believe that becoming a Buddhist is all of a sudden, changing completely and becoming what one may imagine wanting to become. It is not like that at all.
My anger at you has long past. I remember it as something alike a fiery reflex, and soon after, just another episode in one’s life experience.
You must understand one thing…I do not easily tell anyone what experiences I lock within me for a myriad of reasons. Something gentle about you, in your writing, allowed me to approach you, yet, I was very hurt when there was one thing you had not told me until I’d felt we had a friendship in potentia.
I could not count the times, there have been so many, when people have scolded me and said what you’ve just written. I will confess right this moment, that my anger is very strong and immediately fierce if aroused. I would be lying if I told you that what I wrote was tranquilly written, while instead, planning to cause you the MOST harm. I wrote the way I wrote, because my anger at that moment, having felt betrayed and disappointed – had a Medusa’s head of flames, instead of snakes.
In other words, you heard and with no holding back an anger, (mine) which is incendiary, to speak mildly!
As to what kind of Buddhist I’d like to be, I have yet no idea. What the practice reveals takes time. And it is FAR TOO early yet. I do however, smile and shake my head a little when people scold me with the words you’ve addressed to me. Buddhism, is not a Magic Bullet, nor a Miraculous pill, which one swallows and immediately is reborn spiritually as a Bodhisattva,
that is why I suggested reading about Milarepa.
If you pay notice to the posts left for you, after your admission of why you did not reveal your true gender, it is clear, that everyone has excused you. No one has blamed you…and all still like you, and would welcome you back. That I think is very gracious and generous from others. Far more that can be found in Yahoo Answers, in which I no longer wish to participate. And not because of anyone’s fault, but because I know when it is my time to return to other things, I’ve been neglecting: my work, for example.
AND, since I do not know the future, nor the kind of Buddhist I’d like to be, I’ll simply wait, while continuing my practice. I am certain that the first surprise shall be mine, if ever I “get there”
so to speak.
So look at it this way if you can: No one here has turned against you, and neither have I. So I believe, there is much fortune in that. Milarepa, however, is quite another story…but even he made it through..so to become the Buddhist he was fated to be, not necessarily, wanted to.
And if he was able to make it, believe me, I do believe I have a chance as well.
Blessings!
Grecia.
p.s. And oh yes, I most certainly remember your name, for how could I forget it???
Excuse me for suggesting the following. But there are times when what seem are bad circumstances, a good rebirth is breaking through. What I mean, is that the exposure you admitted to, and its’ why, has made it more possible for you and your fellow people here to NOW enjoy a RICHER experience.
Were I you, I would return.
Why waste a portentous opportunity???
Don’t you think so, You, Rutu, and you, her fellows-threaders here?
Bye,
G.
Thanks My Dear Lili. Thanks for being the first one to post. Yes Im aqua girl. Let me explain what happend here.
I came across this site few years back and I found it interesting. But at that time there were very few posts. I would chek week after week and there won’t be more posts on the thread. I got bored. I thougth if I put a lengthier post then people would reply thus thread will move forward. And as the thread was about Scrp Wmen and Aqua Men, I decided to post as Aqua man so that its in more keeping with the thread’s content. I thought I will just post 2-3 times and then leave as others will start posting. But as I posted people strted asking questions and wanting replies. I knew things so I felt like replying and answering them. By this time it was too late to tell the truth. I was wanting to leave the thread but I couldn’t as people were asking questions and there were few to reply. It just continued and continued. I changed my name for this only as I ws wanting peple knw that Rutu dont post anymore. I tried to find people on Yahoo Answers who were asking similar questions and directed them to this thread so that they can answer questions. There were few who posted. This is where I gave Grecia address of this site as she had asked a similar question on Y!A. What happend with her is another confusion originating from here. We don’t have any interest in each other. When I finally told her the truth, You got her post above and rest is history.
I am glad that I did not leave the thread before meeting you here. I believed you, Brightstarlights and all my other friends here deserved to know the truth. Thts the story.
For you dear Lili, my ears will always be open to hear what you have to say or want me to listen. You can contact me on rutu_5f@yahoo.com. So you and others, take care now.
I believe the thread has progress very well and peple can read for advice. I do not see myself posting here now.
Now for Grecia.
Dear Grecia,
From your post, as I can see and as you can see, you still have a long way to go in becoming a Buddhist that you wish to be. Take care.
– Rutu (You BETTER remember my name.)
And one more thing, INITIALLY, I thought you were a female. It wasn’t until you shared your interest of a Scorpio woman at school, that I ASSUMED you were a male. You can e-mail me anytime, hopefully sooner than later tho at leeannarose23@yahoo.com.
Everyone makes mistakes. In the end what matters is; how well did you live, love, and learn to let go…
Wow! I accept your apology Rutu/D. I am very confused here though. Are you an Aquarius? Just a female one? Ummm, I must say that I like you very much, you are a very attentive person whom listens to each story and offers what i feel is genuine advice. I mean nobody’s name here is real, we are all in disguise! But ill tell you what does hurt, is the thought that our friendship may be over. After Grecia’s post I looked back to see if you indeed did say that you were a male. I didnt come across it directly yet, but who knows? So im curious, what were your intentions here? Well never the less I would like it very much if you would remain a part of my life. ~Lili Ann
oh boy..
astrology may reveal some amazing things but human behavior remains a mystery..
take care of yourselves, and each other
XX
The comment above me is Right. And I should apologize for my behaviour. I did breach trust of the people here.
I am sorry for using a disguised personality. I should especially apologise to Synthia, K, Lilli and all the rest with whom I talked for long.
But I MUST tell you that all the advice that I gave was TRUE from my heart and I am NOT apologizing for that. If the thread wishes then they can delet my comments.
I shall Not repeat my behaviour.
I am sorry.
– Rutu
This is Grecia – Rutu – I write you, with a feeling of not just betrayal, but also of having a natural repugnance for those, such as you, who claim, that “honesty” is the best policy. IS IT REALLY, WHAT YOU THINK, Rutu, or another manipulation? I have just received an e-mail message from you, after about, (what?) six letters of correspondence? In this final letter of yours, you say that you are a “FEMALE”, not a man. But was your reason for having concealed this from me? Are you into head-games of clever manipulation, because at heart, you care not at all whom you hurt and make angry? Or are you involved in a psychological study, where your experiments of others’ psyches, provide you with whatever you must learn, but will not allow your laboratory “humans” to know toward what, this experiment is toward?
I myself no longer care, because revealingly, your manipulations of me, NOT BEING HONEST ABOUT YOUR TRUE GENDER, has now, totally eclipsed you from my Universe.
However, I am angry. One should know what risks they are taking, when lying to a Scorpio. We do not like lies, especially Scorpios females.
If at the onset of our correspondence, you had told me you were female, and did not mislead me by allowing me to think you were male…I would not have completely – as it is now, lost any trust I would place into your hands, with ease and comfort.
Are you a FEMALE, as you have just confessed you are in your last e-mail, or is that a further part of a game which is of no respect to the persons within your interest for whatever your reason? If you lied once, and cruelly, by having pretended you were of male gender and not a female, as you now admit – I can not help but feel you could very easily lie again.
As I read most of the posts from your colleagues, above, you seem to be trusted. There ARE implications that you are MALE, and these insinuated by YOU!. WHY HAVE YOU LIED? To me and to them So I conclude it is a game you play here.
If at the beginning you had told me you were a female, I would have welcomed you as one, a “sister” of sorts. I would have continued to correspond. Because having enjoyed our correspondence, it would not have mattered what gender was yours, in truth. However, now that I look at you differently, I have to FIRMLY admit, that to trust you ever again would result in another, YET Greater folly!
It amazes me as well as it astounds me that you could lie as you’ve done, and still claim it is not really a lie. I now, don’t EVEN really know WHO, or WHAT you are…only do I know that you deserve no trust, Especially mine, who appreciates the exposure of truth.
I believe you should apologize to your colleagues here, perhaps, there is one or so, who offer you compassion for your deed, but to me, accepting you now, announces clearly, it is only Fool’s compassion, I’d be dealing with towards you.
I am glad that you’ve finally me the truth as to your reality, and gender…for YES, I would have been hurt, if you had told me much later!
I have corresponded with other females and males, asking of them if they understood when at times, people exchange genders behind the curtain of anonymity, and their replies have summed, for most, that it is JUST one aspect of “the game.” What game?
I believe I have been left out of knowing what these are. I tend to believe that WHAT is told me…I offer it face value.
If I were to say, well, I can forgive you, and let us go on, with corresponding with one another – I’d be setting myself up for something else you may impose upon me. So I can not correspond anymore with you. Period! And if you are playing even further with peoples minds, and would use a GREAT lie to disentangle yourself from a budding “Friend in Potentia” you, Rutu, are still enabling a lie, even more complex than the one before.
Is what you do, a kind of vengeance? Is it fun for you, to tally others reactions? Does it make you feel you are more powerful, holding the rather ugly and diabolic, marionette’s strings? There must be a reason why you do this. IS IT an experiment imposed upon innocent or trusting others, for what purpose which are YOURS alone? Whatever the answer is, it is a sign of serious and deep disrespect to others to conceal the truth of any situation. Has your mother, whom once you told me, you love more than anything in the world, not taught you to not treat or assume others as fools at your access, because, that would one day boomerang, and with such velocity, (as would have made it a sharp blade), lop off your game-playing head! There is much you still have to learn, don’t you? But I doubt it if you will, because your arrogance and such permission you’ve given yourself, to treat others through what you believe is superior manipulation – while trying to appear as a trustworthy person.
I am sorry for you in a way…the day may come when it shall be impossible to know the difference from the lie you may tell in order to gain results, which only you know well about. And instead only be able to not recognize any truth which concerns you.
I am disappointed in you, and your vandal style, but awfully happy IT finally exited from the concealment-as-refuge, which you’ve granted it – THAT IS: if even this lastly told me – about your true gender, is true.
In any case, you are NOT anyone, I’d ever want to further know, since you have breached the trust between us, which I though we DID have, and have erased any feeling in me which was purely and innocently given you, after this last announcement of yours.
Remember one thing about Scorpios; women and men alike…We like to depend on what is true, and fiercely – and anyone who fails to respect that, NEEDS NO LONGER APPLY.
Shame on you, story teller…you have disgusted me truly with your insensitive treatment of others, as show here in this website, and mine, as well and totally! Thusly, WHOMever, WHATever you are, please stay clear of me!
Grecia. < you do remember me, don't you, disguised one!
Hi Guys,
This has been a very engaging thread and I believe it has also been a source of comfort for many.
I think its been asked before but I haven’t seen any clear answers to it. I want to ask how do you tell when a scorp girl is interseted in you?
Thanks!
Aquarius Guy
Hi Guys,
This has been a very engaging thread and I believe it has also been a source of comfort for many.
I think its been asked before but I haven’t seen any clear answers to it. I want to ask how do you tell when a scorp girl is interseted in you?
Thanks!
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Hi Aquarius Guy,
If a Scorpio woman gives you her personal attention and time, she likes you. Have you tried asking her? Once we mature and get in tune with our loving, passionate sides, we will be up front about our true feelings even if it’s blunt and hurtful. So please, just ask.
If she likes you and wants a relationship with you and you want the same, please, please stop your hiding out, aloof game plays and don’t be afraid to feel real, deep love. TALK ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS WITH ONE ANOTHER THEN LOVE AND BELIEVE WHAT YOU HEAR!
I have strong feelings for an Aquarius male and I am also seeking information on how to be sure you guys like us Scorpion females. Write me back and we can discuss this in detail.
- Halloween
Hi D! How are you these days? Everything is to say the least wonderful for me right now. I did bring the flowers to his families house, and when we bumped into each other one evening we just hugged and smiled. Since then we have been in contact:) What are you up to? How is school?
I am a Scorpio woman. About six months ago I met Aqu-boy. He introduced himself and I became very interested because of his conversation. We finally met in person a few months later and he was definitely a breath of fresh air. The attraction was very strong between us. We live miles apart. At times he seems distant but I know that he likes me because he told me. I think about him often. I have fallen in love with him. We talk often and then I think he feels that he is getting too close and he pulls away. I give him his few days and he comes back around. He is truly a compassionate person. My hopes is that this relationship will go all of the way. I feel as if it will, but then I remember he is Aqua-boy.
Regards
Fah
I have been dating an Aquarius man for almost three months now and it has been the most intense relationship I have ever have and it has forced me to deal with issues I had hid from myself. He challenges me in a good way and I love it and balances my emotional dark moods with his logic, but I wouldn’t have been able to truly appreciate all this if I hadn’t read up on his sign from Linda Goodman’s book. It says that Scorps and Aquarius are both strong willed fixed signs and that in the beginning it is a definite struggle to understand each other but once they do, the outcome is heaven.
Aqua male here…..
Just met a Scorpio woman.!!!!!! All I can say is WoW.!!!!
I’ve never dated a Scorp…. I can tell this will be very interesting….. Met her 3 weeks ago and have talked everyday and seen each other a few times…. It has heated up already and plan on spending much more time together – including all weekend this weekend.!!!!
Scorpio D,
I believe all you should do is to communicate your needs to him. Something that I have observed to be quite difficult for a scorpio woman.
Aqua and Scorp are very different as people and thus often don’t understand each others needs unless and until clearly mentioned to them. Once he understands your needs, I am sure he will be considerate of those. But there is no point in getting frustrated over his inaction if he doesn’t know what he is expected to do.
Regards,
Aqua
I am a Scorpio Woman dating a Aquarian Man and I can totally relate to the comments made by the Aquarian male D.
I am finding my mate to be hot one minute and cold the next. As soon as I go cold he reacts the way I would like him too.
He has trouble vocalising his feelings and show me his affection by showering me in gifts and taking me to nice places.
When we are together we are very connected. And the sex is amazing.
Then I might not see him for a week or two and I feel like a total stranger. All very frustrating for a Scorpio woman.
If I try and provoke a reaction from him I get nowhere, and I end up feeling immature or foolish. All I am looking for is reassurance that he loves me. But he doesn’t say it, just says that I should know!
I am really into my partner, but I wonder if I am setting myself up for heartache long term as he cant fulfil my Scorpio needs??
One more Scorpio woman falling for Aquarius man. I met him in a trip a few months ago, so we currently live very far away from each other. He is 16 years younger than me, it took me by surprise how persuasive he was to get to know me and be with me. At the beginning I though it was a joke but he was serious business, and then Its like the chemistry between us was so intense i could not resist him. We were involved and spent quite some time together despite our differences. He knew I was in a relationship, in which I had always been faithful. Currently, We talk on the phone often. As he is happy to talk to me, he does not tell me he loves me or likes me or anything…I am the one being very open with my feelings. He is not. But we have nice conversations. He is mature, caring, and a gentleman. I love that about him…I realize that we cannot have anything promising with this distance; but we can be friends in a way… but as a scorpio, this is very difficult to deal with…but I am wiser now and know I cannot go crazy over these feelings. I feel deeply attracted and connected to this guy, even though we saw for quite a few days…. I cannot explain myself, I find myself fantasizing about the time we spent for hours, it has affected my productivity… I would like to get some further help understanding this relationship, and why it has become so intense…
Yes, I am a scorpio woman with an aquarius man. I have had very short relationships with aquarius before, all of which never meant much after they were gone. I am very much attracted to this man, not only physically but emotionally as well. Plus, he gives me the emotional reassurance that is somewhat hard to satisfy for us.
However, I find it very hard to give him that leash of freedom he does deserve. I’ve been hurt by an aquarius before and I am afraid I am making him pay for this. Unfair, I know.
The thing is that most scorpios are very self-critical. We will never think theyre good enough. Or we’re not good enough. Its never good enough.
Im trying to assert this problem.
Any tips?
@Tipi : “Tipi
Oh, I forgot to mention…a few years ago I dated one and I liked him a lot. We got along great and had so much fun together and were very compatible, good physical chemistry, etc. All of a sudden, one day, I didn’t hear from him anymore. No explanation. Nothing. Now I will hear from him every couple years or so (he now lives in Florida), and we go out and get some drinks and catch up when he is in town. It’s like our friendship never ended. And I never bring up the “what happened?””
yeah.. thats one sure thing about aquarians.. “can we still be friends?” either he will ask you or else, he will look how you react after “breaking up” and if you go along well, he may as well never ask you “to be just friends” and get along like nothing ever happened…. trust me.. i am also an aquarian male…
This guy sure knows what hes talking about..
every single word is damn true. im too an aquarius male and i think only aquarians can actually “read” another aquarian like no one could ever do it..!!
here’s what “D” has typed –
“D
I am an Aquarius Male!… These are the reasons why we are so hard to read, and what we think…!
Why are we so hard to read! Its because we dont have ONLY one thing on our minds… we have 5, 10 or more at any one time! Initially you WERE hooked!! FACT!! Scorpios want to know that every one fancies them… that they are special, and the chances are that we kept you guessing and NOT TREATING YOU LIKE QUEENS!! We gave you attention making you even more confused but still keeping our alloofness. This caused you to GET REALLY CONFUSED.
The best way to get an aquarian man, is to be really hot, then really cold, and give us a sexy ‘dear’ type look, dont say anything when you stand next to us, we can feel the electricity comming from you. Do the same as what we do to you!
If the aqua man turns off… you turn off… and after a few weeks or months… you will see him running back to you, he will give you one chance, then another, and wait…. he cant get you out of nhis head now… dont go back to him just yet… start it off as really good friends…. but DO NOT BACK OFF THIS TIME… he will get angry and will go out with someone infront of you to get at you… but its not that at all… he knows you get jealous easily… at this point he has gone… to the next interest.
If you dont back off, then become his good buddy, He will want to analyse you and ask you everything about your self in a VERY direct way… dont get offended he is working out if he can trust you.
Let him do what he wants give him a long leash and he will stay by your side FOREVER! HE WILL NEVER CHEAT IF THE LEASH IS LONG ENOUGH… and you will also enjoy the adventure he takes you on.
‘ I read in a book that sums every thing up…. the moment he acts as he is not interested at all, thats when he is close to being hooked!!!!!!’ Trust me im an Aqua male and its happend to me.”
Oh, I forgot to mention…a few years ago I dated one and I liked him a lot. We got along great and had so much fun together and were very compatible, good physical chemistry, etc. All of a sudden, one day, I didn’t hear from him anymore. No explanation. Nothing. Now I will hear from him every couple years or so (he now lives in Florida), and we go out and get some drinks and catch up when he is in town. It’s like our friendship never ended. And I never bring up the “what happened?”
Aqua men are something!
My first boyfriend I ever had was an Aqua. Wow, he was super jealous! Very possesive. He would even get jealous when I paid attention to my little brother over him. Wow. My mom actually MADE me break up with him. I was 19. lol
I have had lots of Aqua men as good friends over the years. I am a scorpio with a libra moon (in my 30′s) and I mesh very well with them.
However, I have two really good aqua men friends and they are both very very jealous when I am out with them and I talk to someone else. What is up with this jealousy? I thought they were characteristically NOT jealous. I guess if they have strong feelings for you, then they are jealous, if they don’t, then they are not. That’s logical.
hey guys..
love reading all the comments… i’m a scorpio and always seem 2 attract aquarius men, i was in a relashionship with one for 5 years, it was a pretty un healthy relashionship as he was very jelous and possesive .(wich isnt the typicle traits of an aquarian) id love to know how to find out more about moon and rising signs signs and how much influence they actualy have on personailtys, because until reading all of these posts id never actualy heard of them! would be so grateful 2 anyone that could educate me hehe!! thank u x
im atracted to pisces ppl actually 0.0
well i read a lot about scorpio woman and the common theme is they like to test you. The scorpio woman i’m attracted to tests me all the time. We met way back when at a party and i noticed her looking at me. I approached her and we ended up talking for a bit and spent the night walking around the city.I always run into her at different events. WE flirt and chat about our lives together (we knew the same people in high school). Lately we have been hanging around the same crowd. Her sister plays in a band that I frequently go see. Here is my problem…She tries to make me jealous, turns hot then cold, distant then playful and every now and then gets angry at me. Her pattern is hot/warm, then goes distant and then anger and after time passes comes back to shy and warm again. All this in a few days. The pattern is the same and continues to swirl. my question is how to combat these tests? Especially when she is in the cold/distant stage. That one is the one test I don’t know how to react to. I just ignore it because last night, we were at a friends house and she was happy with eveyrone else and flirting with everyone, but when i was around she stopped and walked away to another room (this happened the day after she was flirty and warm and approached me constantly for attention-which of course I gave). So how do i react to her cold/distant tests?
Many Many Happy Returns of the day…!
Wish you have a prosperous year ahead and Take Care.
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I am a scorpio female who is in love with an aquarian male….and I too find him extremely hard to read. He would act completely normal around everyone else, but then act weird around me (either ignoring me, or acting nervous/awkward around me)….Because of his behaviour I feel even more awkward and nervous around him. From reading up about the aquarian male, I noticed that I am not alone in that I find it impossible to read him.
This hot/cold act has been going on for a long while now but now something even weirder has happened. Towards the beginning of the year I thought I would take matters into my own hands and ask him to go for a drink after work one night….he agreed. The drinks went fine….but it felt like nothing more than 2 work colleagues having a drink. The thing was that we aren’t really on a friends level yet at all so to me the drinks was a good chance to get to know him a little bit (outside of work)….and this task seems impossible as he is so strange around me (but it’s as though this strangeness attracts me even more)…..The drink after work left me none-the-wiser as to his feelings towards me. Everything at work was exactly the same afterwards….But it was so weird as I was certain that I could feel he was attracted to me. I’m usually spot on with my gut feelings……
Recently, I couldn’t take it anymore so I sent him a message asking why the drink never happened again and was it because he is seeing someone. He said he’s not seeing anyone and that he just likes things the way they are, that’s all. So I just said that’s cool, and now I can at least stop thinking about it and closing myself off from other guys, etc. Now ever since I sent him that message he is acting so normal around me! It is so weird…all that nervousness and awkwardness is gone….he talks to me more and doesn’t ignore me anymore. He’s also acting strangely happy (or thats what it appears to look like)…..I really don’t get it. Is it just that he feels comfortable now that everything’s out in the open and he knows how I feel? I still don’t get why he would agree to come for a drink and then not do anything else…..Also I think he should feel so lucky that I’d be interested in him…. I don’t just like anyone and it took so much for me to put myself out there like that! If word ever got out that I told him I liked him and he basically told me he wasn’t interested, people would think there was something wrong with him as there are a lot of guys that would kill to be in those shoes!! What can I say…he is not just any guy. Any aquarian guys have any insight? Thanks
oops…lol my comp just screwed that one up..and your name was tipi not tibi lol
anyways…
tipi,
i was actually thinking about it a couple days ago. i do notice that i am aloof like most aquas. i tend to be put off very easily. for example, if someone says something weird or awkward while im talking to them i tend to not be so interested after wards. like an aqua, im extremely social and love to be around people but most sites describe scorps to be introverts which i can be sometimes. im friends with almost everyone. my relationships with guys are more friend like. not so mooshy gooshy lol but i tend to be really into someone for a couple days then i back off and see what happens. i guess im just testing them to see if they come to me so i know they really like me. but if a guy doesnt, i try maybe once again and then if that doesnt work i end it and ignore them. i am very flirtatious with everyone. im very sensitive but i never show it which makes me have that attitude of an aqua. the kind of know it all one lol. i know a lot of aquas and couple of them are really close to me. i get a long with both girl and boy aquas. one of my guy aquas has had the biggest crush on me since i first met him 4 years ago. but for some reason i have no attraction what so ever with him. i was thinking maybe its because i know i have no challange or have to chase him and he is like my dog i can tell what to do. i like the assholes and i really hate that. but if i dont have a spark the second i meet a guy then i never could really be into someone. for some reason all of the aqua guys i have met and liked, we always have a very flirtatious friendship but both of us will never admit to each other that we like the other person.
another sign that i seem to be really attracted to is taurus. a lot of web sites say we are bad for each other but most of the guys i have hooked up with or went out with have been tauruses and i seem to be like some magnet for them its crazy!!
tibi,
Hi all,
It was interesting to read your posts. I am A Scorpio female (Oct 25th). I am married to a Capricorn. We’ve been married for a long time. He is very nice and he loves me but I don’t have strong feelings for him. There is an Aquarius guy who is married too. We have known each other for 13 years. He used to live in our building but a few years ago bought a house and moved out. His wife’s parents still live in our building and he brings his little son to them while he and his wife are at work. 13 years ago he started to talk to me about starting a casual relationship with him. He gave me his phone number but I never called him. Then, he started to pursue me and it felt like he was really into me. I still blocked any of his attempts even I kind of liked him. He is not the best looking guy out there but there is something in him that intrigues me. Recently, he started to appear more often near the building and I started to go outside with my daughter about the time when he can be there. Still no conversation. We don’t even say “Hi” to each other. Just stares. I am a very changeable person. So, sometimes I like him, sometimes not. Maybe that’s why he is intrigued by me. Even there is no talking there, i feel him and I feel that he feels me. It’s on some kind of psychic level. So, we understand each other even we are not talking. I am trying to suppress my emotions as I I’m not a cheater, but he intrigues me a lot. So, what should I do? I am asking for your opinions, not the judgment. Thank you in advance.
To be honest yest there is an intresting and rather intence attention i am aquarius and my hubee is a scorpio .. yeah chemistry is there people ..!
ok i was very confused about Aqua men but this website really helped to understanding a little bit of what gone with me, I am a Scorpio Sun and Moon and my friend is an Aquarius (Sun) and Cancer ( Moon) We are becoming really good friends, b/c he always saying We r friends…..we started by I met him where i work (restaurant) then we became friends Facebook, then it was e-mail then went to texting and now it’s phonecalls, he recently bought a business in my neighborhood and we both didn’t even know this was going on. Now i see him like 4 days a week, he calls me to come down and see him, he’ll say to just say hi, then he will call me the next day and tell me “he misses me” I could be talking and in the middle of it he will tell me he misses me…..he wants to hang with him and i do nothing has happened yet but i am attracted to him, i think he attracted to me, that is what it seems to me and all of my friends but I AM CONFUSED! I am not ready to rush into anything right away i love being friends with him but wish i knew…..i recently went on vacation and he called while i was there and then when i came he asked he could come over, (that was the first time he was in my house) he checked out and sat and we great conversation…..now he has been asking alot about my family and my jobs…..I hope someone can give me advice on this….thanks
Heya all,
I am 34 years young male AQUA..
OK first i have read most of this thread and although i could agree with most of what people say about Aquarius i can also speak for myself and say…
in my case i have all the common traits of my sign except for a few key points
first i don’t care much for the space maybe at times but not much i am very outright with my feelings to someone I am interested in but shy at first- this makes it very painful trying to date i am to up front and honest but to shy also and i believe in loyalty till the death
second i don’t like games at all you play a game with me i will drop you like a forgotten thought.
so what i have learned is that in most cases women whether they be Scorpio or some other birth sign seem to be more superficial then previously thought (in my experience that is) i am a very attractive looking guy but my good nature seems to not be attractive, in my experience women tend to lean toward the arrogant a** guy. i am confident but not arrogant and i think allot of women don’t know what the difference is : here is the meaning for arrogant..lol
Having or displaying a sense of overbearing self-worth or self-importance.
Marked by or arising from a feeling or assumption of one’s superiority toward others: an arrogant contempt for the weak.
OK here is the meaning for confident
full of conviction : certain
2 : having or showing assurance and self-reliance
the thing is i can do pretty much do anything i put my mind to but, don’t care to advertise on a daily basis and mixed with my shyness this is a bad mixture for meeting women so my question is “so if Scorpios find Aquarius so interesting and vice versa what happened to like the three i dated in a row”..lol anyways i am interested in this topic i find it interesting..lol of course… and it fascinates me….of course as i am Aquarius..lol the funny thing is i am not your typical Aquarius so any advice would be appreciated from different perspectives about Scorpio and Aquarius, I find Scorpio attractive. also not bashing here just stating my experiences from my own past so please no one take it to the dark side here..lol thanks!
I’m a Scorpio female with a Leo moon who has been seeing an Aquarius male with a Taurus moon for about six months now. I’m not too sure if both of us having double fixed sign is a bad or good thing? I’m not going to lie I like him A LOT!! When we first met it was instant attraction and so amazing! I think about him 24/7 and am constantly dreaming about him. When we are together things are great and he shows quite a bit of affection towards me….even out in public. He never would really come right out and say how he feels about me though. He confuses me to no end.
I’m really hurting right now because I think what we have is turning/has already turned into a strictly sexual relationship. Don’t get me wrong, I love sex with him and it’s amazing!!! But the problem is I am starting to really fall for him. I like him on much more of a deeper level. I see so much potential in him. He is the most interesting guy I have ever met. Over the last few months I have seen just how caring and good hearted he really is. He is always apologizing to me in case he has hurt my feelings etc. Some days I feel as though he likes me on a deeper level than just sex and then other days I’m not so sure. The problem is he is in love with his work and I obviously can’t compete with that. He’s a workaholic! He has also told me that he isn’t ready for a relationship. He wants his life to be more settled before he gets into a relationship. He has not been in one for the last five years. I think he could have a bit of a commitment phobia? He is always telling me he is too busy with work and such to have a girlfriend, but that he likes me and wants to continue seeing me, getting to know me, having fun etc. I’m okay with this because I enjoy his company, but I wonder if he could ever see me as a relationship potential since we have been sleeping with each other with nothing established? He told me I am the closest thing he has to a girlfriend and that he wishes he had more time to spend with me. I’m afraid now, because while we have no established commitment, we did agree to be sexually exclusive. We both agreed that if we so chose to persue someone else we would let the other know and we would end things between us. The thing is I don’t want US (whatever us is) to end! I have already gotten way too attached. I hate to admit this but I am getting ultra jealous now because he has recently moved and now has a girl for a roommate. He swears that she is just a friend and I have nothing to worry about. He even told me I could talk to her if I wanted. I’m afraid though because he has become very vague with me over the last couple of weeks….not telling me exactly where he has moved etc. If he just doesn’t want me to know that’s fine, or if this girl is more of a girlfriend or someone he sees as a potential I just wish he would let me know that. I mean we at least agreed upon that much. I have always thought that Aquarians were very loyal and would not cheat or sleep around etc. But I honestly don’t know what to believe about him. I mean could he be lying to me? Why would he lie? I understand he does not owe me anything, but I feel he does at least owe me honesty and respect. If he no longer wants to see me anymore, or if he wants to persue things with this other roommate girl why not just tell me that so I can begin to move on and begin the long process of healing?
I have never once over the six months of us seeing each other had a reason to think he was lying to me. He was the one who came to me and told me he was moving and said it was in with a girl. I feel like he could have hidden that information if he really wanted to. I’m glad that he had enough respect for me to at least tell me that. But now he is just being very vague with me which makes me question if he could be lying now? Maybe he is starting to fall for her or someone else i don’t know? Regardless, I have not contacted him. It’s been a week since we last saw each other and talked….this is not uncommon. The longest we went was two weeks with no communication when he finally sent me a text asking if I was upset with him? Since he hadn’t heard from me in awhile. I just try to give him his space. This is what I’m doing now….giving him his space. I can’t stop him from seeing other people. I just hope that he would have enough respect to tell me so. You know just keep his end of the agreement? A part of me says this is just my Scorpio insecurity and paranoia taking over…..I hope that’s all it is. So I’m sitting back, giving him his space to sort out whatever is going on in his life. Maybe he will be able to sort out his feelings and hopefully be able to come to me and tell me honestly what’s going on if need be. I fell for this guy much too quickly and I realize that is my fault alone. I need to learn to guard my heart more. He is gonna be hell to get over, but I have to prepare myself if it comes to that. I don’t understand how he could go six months and not feeling anything for me. But I guess it’s possible. At one point he really started to open up to me. He would talk about his family, work, friends and his childhood. I thought we were really starting to become REAL friends, but who knows? Maybe I misread everything. Maybe he just wanted to have six months of fun and that’s all he saw it as? For now I’m just sitting back wondering what’s going on, with all these crazy thoughts of everything possible and imaginable running through my head. I believe in my heart that he would not lie to me, but my paranoid mind tells me otherwise.
Wow this is long and I’m so sorry. It felt good to get it all out though. I miss him and I hope soon he will be able to figure out one way or the other what he wants. I’m about ready to give up.
Hi, I am a scorpio woman, not quite in love with any aquarian man yet but curious about one. This article of yours is very entertaining.
Yes I have been involved with a few virgos – what deemed to be one of my best suited star signs, and have pisces friends. However as I grow older and wiser these suited people seem to suit me less and less. Perhaps it’s fair to say on an instinct level the conventional compatibilities prevail. However as time proceeds and each person develops out of their innate mould, their temperament or desired/complementary partner could gear into any direction (other than the norm). I don’t think the emotional or earthy practical signs are my type at all now, perhaps Capricorn or aquarius or aries may provide better harmony
Okay, I’m a scorpio chick (yay me!) and I’ve been dating an aqua guy for about a month. When we first met, we both had a significant other, but both relationships fell apart. Somehow a harmless night of going to the movies turned in to one of the most amazing night’s of my life. I’ve never dated an aqua guy until now, and the strange thing is, I’ve never felt this kind of connection with anyone. The funny thing I find about our relationship is that in this zodiac we’re supposed to be a horrible match, but in the chinese zodiac, he’s the best match for me (me: dragon him: rat) lol. what does this mean for the relationship? I’m so confused, and yet i’ve never been more happy with someone.
Hi everyone!
Moo,
I just ended a relationship with a scorp guy with an aqua moon. When I first started dating him I thought it would go very well because I am a scorp with a libra moon and figured the trine moons would be great, plus we both have venus in sag and earth ascending (mine virgo, his cap).
But he seems so capable of just turning off emotions like a light switch, which I think would be his aqua moon. And I have dated other scorps and know that when they fall for someone they have a difficult time letting go, so I wondered as a scorp how he could let go so easily, but I guess it really is his aqua moon.
Do you find it easy with an aqua moon to detach from a relationship? Is it difficult as a scorp to have an aqua moon, making for confused feelings in love?
I just wondered because aqua is square to scorpio.
Anyway, since this is a women-love-aqua-men site, I figured I would throw out some aqua love. I love aqua men! I can’t relate to a relationship gone wrong with an aqua man, only an aqua moon man.
Two of my closest guy friends are aquas and one tells me openly all the time that he is crazy about me and in love with me, which I find shocking because I didn’t think aquas were so free to express like that.
I told him awhile back that all I could ever give back to him is friendship and that is it. I am not into him in any other way, but he still tells me that all the time. And what kind of makes me mad is that he is married! I would never be with a married guy. I like them single. haha
But he is one expressive aqua. And kind of a control freak too, I just had to email him the other day and tell him I was kinda feeling smothered by him because he keeps getting mad when I talk to other people. Girls or guys, it’s weird!
Lili..
Hope everything is fine. and you are in better mood.
Take care, dear.
d- thank you for the advice/suggestion. i think i will bring by some flowers and a note to his grandmothers house. i will be so nervous i think my knees will buckle beneath me, but i’ll do my best. Lili Ann
Dear Lili…
I can understand u taking ur time. And I can really see your concern for him…
I knw when I am hurt i need some lone time to analyse or just heal.. though i would be asking to be left alone i would really like a shoulder to lean on. Not saying anything or talking much but just there so that I dont feel totally alone.
I think u should offer flowers and note to him. I am sure he will like it.
You have my Best wishes with you..
- D
D-
I am just aching with lonesome heart aching pain right now. I just found out that the Love of my life’s father was either murdered or commited suicide. I know I haven’t shared our full history quite yet, but this is where I am at now. The hardest part is I am not able to see him. I don’t have his number, I don’t know where he lives, all I know is where his Grandmother and Family live. I just don’t want to intrude. I tried to Facebook him, but he is not getting on the computer right now, which is understandable… I just want to look into his and hug him. Let him know I Love Him, without words. Just be close, you know what I mean??? Would it be too much to drop some flowers off on his families porch and leave a little note?
Lili Ann
Oh D
I am just aching with lonesome heart aching pain right now. I just found out that the Love of my life’s father was either murdered or commited suicide. I know I haven’t shared our full history quite yet, but this is where I am at now. The hardest part is I am not able to see him. I don’t have his number, I don’t know where he lives, all I know is where his Grandmother and Family live. I just don’t want to intrude. I tried to Facebook him, but he is not getting on the computer right now, which is understandable… I just want to look into his eyes and hug him. Let him know I Love Him, without words. Just be close, you know what I mean????
Lili Ann
I am a female Scorpio who has been meeting with an Aquarius man and he is unpredictable. He says he wants to spend more time with me but he doesn’t stay in contact via phone or text for days and weeks. He says he will call but instead he goes missing for weeks without contact.
My aquarian man has betrayed me by being deceptive and dishonest after many empty promises of never behaving like that again. I think it is a control issue.
Me being a true blue, die hard scorpio, that would never betray anyone’s trust or jeopardize a relationship, find it hard to believe that it is not just a con and will continue to happen, no matter what lip service I get.
Maybe, after what I have read, I have a misconception of what an aqua man truly is. I am just looking for a real answer to help me understand.
Hey just wanted to know if there are any Aquarius women out there in relationship with a Scorpio male? I’m in love with a Scorpio man I met online and he says he is crazy about me too. We have talked about so much and definitely discussed sex, sex, sex, and more sex!! Did I mention sex? LOL. Wow, I love this man. He is like a magnet that has that power to pull me to him. He communicates with me daily be it phone or messages online. We have, well he is making plans for 9/2009 to fly to my hometown. We are in different states. He said we have a connection and that I am special to him. When he tells me these things about being connected to me and all I want to believe him but this is the kicker…..I go under my girlfriend’s profile online and I see he is still on the single sites late at night. Is this guy lying to me? I so want to believe he really is as fond of me as I am he. But being online after we are through communicating online makes me think he is a lier and cheater but I don’t want to believe that. Everything he has told me about his place of employment, his children, and all have checked out. But why and who might he be communicating or looking to get to know on the single sites. Can someone tell me their thoughts about this. I’m still going to meet him and have sex with him because it is what I desire. But I just want truth and I don’t want to question him and push him away. Please help.
I got you D, just let me cozy and in the Zone. This is a on going 10 yr, situation, and I don’t want to bore you. Thanks for your interest- Lili Ann
Lili…
I am waiting..
OMG! LOL! i’m so glad i found this site!!! finally scorpio women speaking my language! im a scorpio female. been having a ‘thing’ on and off with mr aqua for 7 years! its so exhausting but the chemistry…… i feel like we’re incompatible but i love him. now he comes out of nowhere saying im the woman he’s going to marry so he wants to make it work…. what? its just pure confusion on and off but i feel like he’s my soulmate but i feel like he’s the worst choice ever. he is so…. ODD. that’s putting it mildly. i’m emotional he’s logical. i compromise a lot because my bitch fits get us nowhere, but i just don’t feel enough emotion from his side. I NEED HELP READING AQUARIUS MEN. am i wasting my time????
I am a scorpio girol with moon in leo and ascedent in libra. I have always liked air signs, with one exeption, and I’ve been really in love for an aquarius man (with moon in svorpio I think) for a really long time.
I also really like libra people, both males and females, and sometimes gemini too. Air signs are often so great to be friends with 
The Beginning of My 1st and only True Love-
I was about 15 yrs old and I had just started highschool, walking through those big unfamiliar halls and new faces, I saw Gods most handsome man. I got tunnel vision. (now that I think of it, I think I was always sort of obsessed with him) I had never been so nervous in my life. So unsure of myself. Days in and days passed, I eventually found the way to get close enough for conversation and his phone number. But for some reason, I never had enough of him. I always wanted more. I wanted to see him, I wanted to be close to him , I always wanted to talk to him.
Well he ended up dating a highschool cheerleader, I guess she was prettier and older, and more popular than me.
Well half way through the school year, he transferred schools.
The next year I trandferred to the same school.
When he saw me, he wrapped his arm around me, and told me he wanted me to make friends, and open up.
I was near him again, and I was in heaven.
I don’t want to overload you all at once so I’ll go nice and slow…. I’ll continue later..
Moo
Answer to both of your questions is yes. I do stare object of my affection a lot.. a lot. Its like observing her and taking note of her behaviour or i dont know what. But i tend to stare especially if i think she is not looking. As i am somewhat shy.. on the other hand while she is talking to me i may look the other way shortly after eye contact as keeping it for long makes me uncomfertable.. So i look in eyes then again somewhere else then again look in eyes.. And yes I tease her too. At times often with sarcastic comments..and she has asked me to be careful as she said she is very perceptive to such comments. So I am being careful now.
Moo
The eye contact i’m not too sure about but i’d do it a good bit i’d say. I dunno if it’s crazy eye contact though. But deffinatly if i like a girl i do tend to tease them a good bit. This probably turns off some girls tho haha . So it’s probably not the best idea by us Aqua guys, but u scorpio girls do like a challenge
,so it does work out
Scorpio women like to be adored and cherished, because that is how they treat their men.
D,
to be honest…waiting for her isnt going to do anything for you if you want to go further with her. you didnt say anthing then…so she left. but now your doing the exact same thing. unless you aquas show us a little emotion and talk about things instead of wiating for us to do something about it then nothing will happen. showing no emotion to scorps tells us that you dont care at all. we get bored pretty easily with all the flirting and hint giving that if you dont man up then forget about it. all you need to do is make the first move and say how you feel. then basically after that you can just sit back and relax because we will do the rest haha.
mike,
idk i guess it all comes down to the situation that your in but every aqua guy i know has had a girl friend for a long period of time then freak out because they either like the girl way to much or get scared because they dont want to be tied down so they cheat. but i think that just might be with everyone lol. i personally dont get cheating whats the point? just break up with the girl/guy.
i have question for you guys. when an aqua guy likes a girl, will they make crazy eye contact while they talk to the girl and also do you guys tend to make fun of us a little more when you have a crush…like “bust our balls” ? lol
Ya…Peace Out Lili..
Matters of heart are difficult.
Thanks for your kind words. I am busy too these days with studies. Need to find some way to stay up whole night…
Take care.
Moo
. I’m not sure about the cheating thing. I’m a very loyal guy and i’d actually frown at cheating, so that might just depend on the guy .
i agree us aqua guys do like to talk to everone we can when were out and about but dont look at that as like he’s ignoring you, it’s just the way he is. I’m not sure about the superior complex but i could see where you are coming from, we do have our moments. Emotion wise you’ll get nothing out of us, were very bad at expressing and feelings towards people we like, thus why girls are driven crazy by trying to read us
And excuse the typos, NO POWER today
Hey D thanx for your reply, I’m just now seeing the response. No I have not told you all about him, and I dad tired today. Hydraulics underwater has me beat, but definately this weekend I’l get started. He’s an Aquarius too. That’s where my obsession with you guys started.
And P.S., I believe you can have whatever you want, you just have to know how to get it… Of course things could work out for you two in the future.
Peace Out Lili Ann
I probably wouldn’t because D. Scorpios are very loyal to the T . If she is like me, I’d try to improve my current connection with some one I’m in relationship with, even I still like my ex, he will be in a friend zone.It’s like, once I’m done, I’m done.Harsh but sometimes, it will reduce headchade
Moo
I think my girl will be saying or thinking somthing similar to what u have to say.. Perhaps she waited for me to say things which I didnt and then i guess she just ran out of patience.
Now she is with someone else. I am willing to wait for her though I am angry with her. I really think she cannot let go the connection we have. According to you what are the chances of her coming back or giving both of us a second chance? If you were her would you have done that?
mike,
well we can’t tell because you guys flirt with everyone. aquas also have this way to them which make them seem like they are better than everyone. the way you guys think and feel and go about things in a relationship just confuses the hell out of me. one minute you are really into us and the next day you don’t even say a word. which makes a girl like me not even want to give him the time of day because i feel like he doesn’t want to further anything/cares at all. and it seems like a lot of male aquas cheat. you guys are so confusing
Lili..
Which guy u are talking about..? Did u tell us about him.
If not give us some background information..
Oh God you guys, I feel insane… For some reason I cannot get this guy out of my heart or mind! It’s been 10 plus years. LAst night I was dreaming that it was my wedding, and as I was walking down the isle with some guy (unknown) and we were sharing our vows and the priest was giving his final words, but my heart knew that the man I was standing next to wasn’t the guy I loved. So I turned around to look in the audience and there “He” was. I knew when I saw him, he was the one I truly loved, so I didn’t get married. Am I going to be crazy for the rest of my life?
I’ve tried everything, EVERYTHING, to move on…. HELP, somebody please.
moo
Aquarius guys aren’t very good at making first moves either cause they are afraid of being rejected too. But if he is very friendly with you, there’s a decent chance he likes you so just flirt with him and see how he reacts. It’s the only way to know for sure.
just fyi to all the aquarians on this thingy…im a scorp girl and i would just like to say that we think before we do anything and everything. we think about how we walk, talk, what you think about us, what position we should stand in, how to not look so nervous…. EVERYTHING! I really like this aqua guy and have been for a couple of years and i have never told him i like him…why? because i was scared he would turn me down. i think us scorps are just so intimidated by aquas that a little hint like staring at us wont do shit to get us talking. if you want a scorp girl…YOU have to tell them exactly how you feel about us and tell us everything you think about us. we are all just waiting for you to say something so do it! tell them what you say on this thread…we cant read minds! i also have a little aqua in me. my moon sign is aquarius. so i can kinda understand where they come from aswell. anyways hope this info i usefull to you aquas out there!!!!
Hmm… Well I would agree. (though ur not asking me) But some stories are still remaining. And then if you can share so much then why not your SIGN……NO ONE WILL JUDGE YOU, Lili..
Hey Jenny Girl, where are you? How are you doing? I can’t help but remember the last few words we exchanged. You thought I was asking everyone else their business, but not sharing mine. Jenny that’s just not true. I’ve shared so much about my past relationships, and my current hobbies and interests. The only thing I’ve kept quiet is my astrological sign. Besides that I’m an open book. Wouldn’t you agree?
D,
After writing my reply to you, had a row with the missus. First proper one . And i can see the same kinda aspects in her attitude. It’s like they dont think before they do stuff, it’s just pure instict and no logic to their actions. Why do scorpio girls not think before they do actions that can affect otehr people they care for ? Responces, from the girls wud be helpful here
Mike
Mike
Maybe i will forgive her. But what i saw in her behaviour at that moment was pure selfishness. She is charming and she knows it. Maybe thats what makes her think that she can pick up and throw people as and when she wants. And that has seriously me struck me. Trust me we were getting close and all this time I had NO clue in her behaviour that she was going to do somthing like this.
I SERIOUSLY want her to regret it. If she does I will forgive if she dosnt I WONT.
Thanks for replying.
Hi,
Yeah I’m enjoyng the post about the Aqua/Scorp match-up but nobody seems to be adressing the Aqua girl Scorp Male thing.
Okay, A really good freind of mine is a Scorpio and we’vee been friends now for about 2 years. We are very close and ALL of the traits we both display in each other, but I like it though….the chemistry is INCERDIBLE and I am in love with my friend. So now I guess I just gatta see what happens, cause I sure as hell know I’m not making the first move, lol!
Any thoughts?
Hello everyone,
You now have another Male Aquarian to probe questions at. i just hada read of, not all of the last years posts but most of them and it seems to be a great topic. Fell onto this site checking how compatible my gf and myself are and it’s good to know the firey spark is there for a reason
D…..
You will eventually forgive that girl. i know us aquarian males love to hold a grudge, especially to people who do wrong by us but eventually u’ll see it’s not worth holding that grudge and you’ll move passed it.
if anyone has questions just fire em at me and i’ll be happy to help out if i can…..how aquarian i know
Mike
You know what good job Jenny! And your absolutely right, I honestly just hate being judged. I suppose no matter what, you can never run from the opinions of other people though, right?
What’s been going on with you lately. I haven’t heard much from you. How is this deadly hot summer treating you? I myself can’t stand this much heat. 4 yrs in Alaska and now all of a sudden this deadly hot sun. I’m trying to hide in every shaded corner I can possibly find! I even have these special glasses call SOlar Sheilds. Oh God they’re hilarious, but very necessary for my delicate skin. Even my car is a dread to get into, the leather burns my buns. Hahahaha. But it’s nice to be home around my friends and family. Today I watched The F1-18 Navy Fighter Planes. Oh do they turn me on!!!!! They fly right over my house doing their tricks in the air. AHHHHHHHHHHHHH
God Bless America xoxoxoxo
wow Lili Ann, it’s a bit unfair.You kept asking others for detail about themselves but you won’t even say things about you.Why would people here judge you for your sun sign? This page is so much about scorpio and aqurius any way so I don’t think it matters.In any case, I still think you’re a Water sign .Just kidding
Lili,
I fall in the first bracket for age. As far as looks I consider my self average looking but neat and clean. And as far as ur sign.. OK OK i wont ask you…!! And it doesnt matter.
Fine.
Dear Regina, I just flipped through the past posts and read your story. Whoa! That is so interesting and I am intrigued to know more. I enjoy giving honest helpful advice to people, but I am torn with you. I just wouldn’t be able to give any honest advice right now, but if you’re still visiting this sight, then I would love to devlope more communication with you and develope more insight (via here, for now of course), but I want to get to know you a little better. And your situation.
Hope you’re not gone yet…
Sincerely Lili Ann
Oh D, I’m really curious as to why an astrological sign would matter. You know in some countries people don’t even know their birthdays. Would you think of me any diffrent if I told you? And now I see you working by process of eilmination. You’re funny.
I wonder D, what age brackett are you in 18-25, 26-32, or 33 up. And what do you look like? If you don’t mind sharing I would love details. You see this is the only place I have ever chit chatted and not knew who I was talking too. It’s cool in some ways, but on the other spectrum, I’m always imagining. I already know you’re smart, are you handsome too?
To sexyscorpi
Well i saw ur comment sometime back but u see my condition, I was away from thread for sometime.
Whatever u do to make him step forward just dont resort to jealousy game. It plain doesn’t work. Its a serious advice.
I suggest observe his behaviour if he is showing interest in you (staring you when ur not looking, remembering things about you etc.) then maybe make your stand about him more clear by giving him more attention. Give compliments. Maybe he wont show anything on face but he will take a note.
I wont like to generalise but I am shy and I take time. So if he is not being very quick it could be because of shyness and not lack of interest. You can find it out after knowing his general behaviour.
And of course discuss things with him.. we like discussions. Look sexy (I am sure you already do)
Fine then keep updated.
Waw…good. Interesting..!
I like ur adventurous nature…Are u Leo or Aries..?
Comon now..
You have my best wishes with u for studies and for whichever reason you may need them. I will be busy in summer as well.
Take care.
Neither Sweetie.
Anyway how’s school going? Are you in for the summer. My diving is going great. Underwater welding, Non Destuctive Testing, and soon Salvage… I’m also ranking second highest in my class and if I could understand Magnetic Particle and Ultra Sonic Testing and get a good grade on the final, I just might make it to 1st place.
All right Lili and tell me now.. Are you Sagittarius or Gemini..? My two guesses..
Lili,
You could be very right Lili.. And yes it was quiet flirtacious understanding between us. We had a thing for each other and slowly it started developing with friendship and continued to grow.. We still are really good friends understanding each others much better than rest. I mean we had some really good and deep conversation just a day before she announced this thing…
She knows i take my time to do things. She does have feeling of guilt at times. I dont get why should she now mention that guy in front of me. Sort of giving me update of where they are. Throughout all this time she couldn’t get any reaction out of me. I still care for her as a friend and help her. and she will too, I know that. I can understand that she can like someone else better than me and just decided to go ahead with it. But then why would she cut me off slowly or give me some idea of whats going on. Instead of that it was like pulling us closer and then all of a sudden turning her face on me.
This behaviour has insulted me… And I have enough ego not to offer her same place in my heart till there is an apology and a good explanation of why she did this.
But to be honest I am finding it hard to even imagine her standing next to that guy.. I mean its annoying..insulting..and hurting.. To be honest I want her to Regret.
Thanks Lili.
Well D, First and Foremost, My Guy wasn’t My guy. I only had a crush on him and I thought he might be interested in me too. That’s all, we hadn’t even dated. Just hung out in a group as friends.
Now I suppose my confusion with your situation comes from, ( were you and her an actual Boyfriend/ Girlfriend, steady couple?) You know, holding hands, kissing, everybody else knew that there was something between you two.
Or was it more of a quiet flirtacious understanding between Only you two?
Because if I know one thing about woman in general it is that we like to be liked. And we know when someone has got it bad for us. By this I mean we know when a guy likes us a lot. And we have a way of sort of feeding on the attention. It’s not that we want to hurt the guy by just playing with his emotions, it’s just we know that they like us and sometimes we play into that too far, because we know we can get away with it.
So if she wasn’t your girlfriend, then 1 of 2 things. She knew you liked her and she had a good thing with you and she wasn’t about to ruin it by sharing details of her other personal close relationship.
Because A- she was weighing her options between you and him.
Or B- she was just going with the flow and then things started to get serious between her and the other guy, and she knew what you two were doing was inappropriate and that if HE knew he wouldn’t like it. So she started to feel guilty and ALL Of A Sudden she cut the games short.
Have you ever noticed women seem too go for the BAD GUY, instead of the SWEET one who would give them the world?
And Yes KArma will catch up…
Lotus.
No I am not interested in her now.. I mean it. Playing mind games with her is a waste of time. I have reduced my contact with her. And will reduce it to minimum as time passes. And I CAN ignore her. I WILL do that.
I am not going to forget this hurt. I will not waste my time trying to hurt or anything. But it will act as an reminder of what she can be…
Thanks lotus.
Listen to Lili Ann too . I think she has a point there. In any case, his needs and her needs at the moment are different, so perhaps moving on is D.’s best option?
It’s up to him because I know Scorpio girls can be really confusing , even to them selves.They praise their self-control so much to the extent of hurting them selves , just to preserve that control.Again, that makes them an enigma to others, especially Aqua who like to probe and peel others’ layers. Truth is D. , you will be enchanted by her over and over again if you stay near her because her mystery and her soft yet strong, sensitive yet tough, and her understanding of your quirks, giving constant support and assurance to your idealism…Sigh….And her sexuality, your chemistry with her…
Well, do you accept this challenge?
Dear Lili,
Good to hear from you.
I changed name I dont know why, just felt like changing it.
Upset head makes you do strange things.
As far as your point of her seeing me just as friend and nothing more…I wouldnt agree with it. there was certain guilt in her when around me. As she knew what she has done. That had happend so out of blue i didnt knw how to go about my rest of the day. I coudnt sleep properly for few days.
But at that moment I really saw with my own two eyes how few peple can be plain selfish.
As far as ur guy he seems to be even ahead of this girl. (woudnt call her my girl anymore) what to say…? I believe peple pay for good and bad things they do on this earth.
Anyway… Good to hear from you.
Wow Rutu, you fell off the planet for a while and i knew you were really absorbed into your crush. and now all of a sudden here you are. wow how time flies by. I’m sorry your feelings are hurt and that the feelings don’t appear to be mutual between you two. I know what it’s like to have a crush on someone and for a while the flirting seems to be mutual and then out of NO where you find out they are dating, relating, and mating.
I just found out the guy I had a crush on has a girl 7 weeks pregnant! Talk about surprises. Lol. I just brushed it off my shoulder and kept on being buddies with him as normal.
And as time goes on I am seeing our friendship in a different light. Thing that I took from him before as flirtacious comments now seem to me just his way of interacting with me.
I have asked a couple diffrent girls about their opinion of him, and they all responded an ASSHole. Hmm? Strange because I think he is a playful sweetheart. A girl today made a comment that He and I have some sort of Connection. When he responds to her, he is rude, obnoxious, and spiteful, but with me he is soft and playful. I suppose it’s just a way that we understand eachother.
So what I am getting at is mabey Rutu you were blinded by your feelings. Mabey you mis understood her full intention behind all of her flirtacious comments and smiles, and actions. Mabey you two got along so well because she DID see yo as a friend, and she trusted you and felt comfortable around you.
There may have or (MY NOT) have been a point when she opened her eyes and mind to the words that were coming out of your mouth and had a REAL realization as to Your intentions and decided that she had better pull herself from the intensity between you.
I feel like I’m babbling on now, so i’ll let you ponder that. and by the way the reason your post were taking so long iss because you changed your name. I did that once and the same thing happened. I have to go by Lili Ann Not Lili for immeiate postage. Meaning Rutu Not D. Why did you change your name anyway?
Hi Scorpgal and Lotus,
I know what she has done but to be honest with u, I cant see her as a bad person. She would have had her own reasons..(she being young for somthing serious) The thing that really annoyed me was the way she announced this thing. That shook me. If she had any regard for my feelings she WOULD NOT have behaved like this.
At that moment I was watching her being so excited and genuinely happy discussing that topic (that other guy) with our equally excited friends and I sitting there feeling my heart being roasted in front of me. Nobody ever did somthing like that to me before. It showed PURE selfishness… And I WONT forget that.
Sometimes I blame it on things being not clear between us. But it was in process and she knw it. We were and still are friends. She at times mentions that fellow to me when we are talking… Perhaps to tell me as a friend or to see my reaction..or both. i dont know.
I dont understand wht goes in her head. If possible I would later in time ask her openly about her behaviour.
Thanks.
Yeah, Rutu, Lotus is right. Dont walk, Run.
It suxs – but yes some scorpios can be so mean and vindictive.
There are other ones that are just so giving and full of love.
It amazes me that there is such an extreme.
YOU will find someone GREAT! I would iqnor her butt. she sounds like a B####.
But you have been awesome on this site and have helped so many people. You deserve an awesome woman that will appreciate you. It will come. Just keep on doing what you are doing and hold out for the right one! It took me 39 years to find my guy! And it was worth every moment!
Thanks again Lotus,
Point noted.
I have better things to do than play games with her and she is not worth my attention now.
The thing is that she is indeed very helpful, she has helped me and other friends of hers many times. But yes i think she isn’t ready for a serious relationship and she knows I am not a type to take things lightly. Whereas I can see her that she likes to have fun..maybe its about age. She is in early twenties.
I am not wanting to hold grudge against her but definatly she not close to my heart now. Though we are still friends and I havn’t for once mentioned to her that she has hurted me. (Whining is not for me.)
Time will tell how things work out.
Thank you lotus.
You see, there is a bad apple in every bunch. Your Scorpio girl , I guess is the one who likes to control every one around her, instead of practising self-control. Her curious nature will take her far (just like Aqua) because she wants so much power over others.True, she likes to know what makes others tick but she doesn’t do that for pure experimental reason like Aqua (I know some Aqua like to test others’ reaction ) , she’ll learn about others and hold these info to use to help them or against them in the future. A bad one will use her power of seduction and persuasion to create a little army following her orders, who she “adoringly” call “my close friends”.That’s where lies the difference between the good one and the bad one. The good and wise ones will use their power of knowledge to serve human kind and never expect any thing in return. Contrary to popular belief, Scorpios can be really forgiving and compassionate like no other.This is one sign can go extreme !
I suspect she likes you but she doesn’t want a serious relationship because she enjoys attention of other men besides you.Yes, power can be more important than love for this type of woman.Did you see how the female Scorpio can chew the male one? She will play you perfectly and you’ll never once suspect that she’s playing.Her ploys are perfect that she can even deceive her self. Would you like to join her in this game ? Perhaps , you can win but it’s a prize I wouldn’t recommend.
Just move on and find your self a nice Scorpio who loves you with all her heart and make you feel like her King
Thanks Lotus,
I will move on. I already have.
I wont even give her my time of the day.
But I need to know why exactly she did this as things were good between us.
Thanks for replying.
well, you should move on.When a Scorpio girl does not pour all her passion into you and only you, make excuses to date another man too then you’re screwed.Also , it’s a bad news for you because this is a REALLY BAD type of Scorpio!
Hi Scorpgal,
These comments are taking forever to moderate.
Well she seems to be interested in someone else now. And it seems like she is really interested and not doing it for some other purpose like making me jealous or anything. But with this girl i can never guess.. Like i was not able to guess that she can behave like this.
Just how easily she hurt me.. She really made me wonder how selfish she is. She doesnt seem to care about anybody else’s feeling except hers.. She is curious by nature and likes to probe into people’s nature and just follows where ever that may take her.. I dont know but i thought we were serious.
But she does know that she has hurted me and it shows in her behaviour with some subtle comments.. I dont understand her. And i am at my wits end.
Scorpgal,
Well she said it about someone else to me… she thinks she can have and not have someone as and when she wants becasue she can. Its like she is being good to both of us.
But she cant get anywhere like this with me. Doesnt matter how much i like her, i do have enough ego to reject her ignoring all my attachment to her. I cant tell u how i felt when she fist mentioned him to us… She simply cannot behave like this and expect to be on my good side.
we are currently having break from study. She just broke my heart so easily like she left me wondering if there was anything in the fist place to break between us. I just cant forget it. And she knows exactly what she did. she is so self aware. I dont understand her behaviour.
She still shows interst in me..in covert ways..
I would have talked about my feelings too had this not happned.
I was seriously upset but she dosnt know. We are still really good friends. I dont know where is it going to go from here.. (my last comment is taking ages for moderation)
But i was seriously amazed at just how easily she could hurt me.. Can u give me some insight as to what she is thinking or her behaviour as I am at my wits end.
Scorpgal,
Well she said it about someone else to me… she thinks she can have and not have someone as and when she wants becasue she can. Its like she is being good to both of us.
But she cant get anywhere like this with me. Doesnt matter how much i like her, i do have enough ego to reject her ignoring all my attachment to her. I cant tell u how i felt when she fist mentioned him to us… She simply cannot behave like this and expect to be on my good side.
we are currently having break from study. She just broke my heart so easily like she left me wondering if there was anything in the fist place to break between us. I just cant forget it. And she knows exactly what she did. she is so self aware. I dont understand her behaviour.
Scorpgal,
Well she said it about someone else to me… she thinks she can have and not have someone as and when she wants becasue she can. Its like she is being good to both of us.
But she cant get anywhere like this with me. Doesnt matter how much i like her, i do have enough ego to reject her ignoring all my attachment to her. I cant tell u how i felt when she fist mentioned him to us… She simply cannot behave like this and expect to be on my good side.
we are currently having break from study. She just broke my heart so easily like she left me wondering if there was anything in the fist place to break between us. I just cant forget it. And she knows exactly what she did. she is so self aware. I dont understand her behaviour.
Rutu,
Hum, I wonder if she maybe means sexually only..
How did that come up? What was her mannerism when she said that? I would look to her body language for a lot of good info.
Is that why you are angry with her?
It is possible that she is playing games with you.
Sometimes we can be so difficult to read. I know sometimes I act nervous when I am attracted to someone. But other times I can be extremly confident. Depends on what kind of mood I am in.
Are you still at school with her or on break now?
Hi scorpgal,
I am angry with her.. but she dosnt know this.
I think she likes to play games.
Can u tell me what woud she mean when she says, “I am attracted but I dont know in good or bad way?”
What is meant by being attracted in bad way?
FORGET marriage… for now. I want to fuck all night!! SERIOUS how do you get an Aqua man to step up and get sexual, How to subtly seduce them with out making it soo obvious.. that way they wont feel “pressure” please ANSWER!!
So there is this Aquarius guy and he has my head spinning! I am up at 3 am looking up our compatibility. I have never felt like this before, he has me acting soo crazy. I think I’m in love! forget astrology, He is my perfect balance and calms all my emotions when I’m with him.
Rutu,
where are you? what is going on with that scorpio girl from School?
Parmineon,
I know it has been a week since you posted.
My suggesting is to get her drunk and try to get some more info out of her.
I know, that is horrible! LOL
But, I seem to spill my guts then. I have a difficult time being open about the way I feel. It has been a growning pain to be more verbal about my feelings in the current relationship I am in with my Aquaman.
It sounds like she is interested in you. YOu can try that or just tell her flat out how you feel.
That is what my Aqua man did to me and it was amazing how much more I felt Safe to open up.
Theres some interesting points on here. Im an Aqua guy and have got to know a scorpio girl very well over th last year or so I say know very well but ti be honest shes a complete enigma to me. We hav very similar personalities in how we few life but out approach to things is worlds apart. i lived with her for a while only s flatm8s and at that time both of us were going out with different people. I realised there was a strong connection just by loking at her. There’s this look and is so intoxicating. I don’t know much about my aqua traits althogh i would agree that I am hugely social and do get bored easily if someone doesn’t stimulae me intellectually. The scorpio girl is hugely stimulating an thats the thing that keeps me attracted as well as out similar views on life The issues have come when trying to approach a relationship mor that friends. I like to air my thoughts where as she will keep everything close to her and only give me a tiny idea that she likes me if shes had few drinks as this seems to open her up. we have fallen out about it before because i wanted to know what was happening between us and she wasn’t ready to go that next step and felt pressured. I do agree that aqua men can be cold because with most other girls i can cut the cord and move on if its not really working but with this scorpio girl I cant help feeling alot for her.
i didn’t contact her for a few months to get a reaction and she responded to this by wanting to see me. we have started out friendship again and again the chemistry between us is still there. The issue is what to do next? When I want to see her it takes her ages to contact me which i hate/love because her independence and disinterest fascinates me but it does get frustrating. im happy staying friends but we act to close to be friends and have both admitted this. Is this game she is playing or am i missing signs that shes wants me to take the lead? Scorpio girls are briliant but should come with a health warning
Hey Everyone,
I just wanted to share my story and would appreciate anyone and everyone’s advice, criticism (whether positive or negative), knowledge on horoscope signs (i know absolutely nothing about this stuff!) etc. ect. .
I’m a scorpio bi-sexual female, (i think i’m a aries rising, i’m not sure) and I have a close bi-sexual male friend whose aquarius with a scorpio rising.
I’m trying to figure out what the deal is with this guy. I feel this really strange connection with him. Is it possible that this guy is my soul mate or possibly a life long friend??
I apologize that this reply is long- I want to give you the complete details. ( I hope to God- my aquarius friend doesn’t find out that I wrote this, I’m afraid he would probably never speak to me again!!)
I met him a year ago and what’s wierd is that . . it’s almost like it’s fate that we have met. We both feel the same way about this. We both grew up and went and visited the same places. . I wonder how we could have never met earlier….(no he’s not a crazy stalker! lol)
We were born in different states but we both moved to Southern California in 1992. . . we both lived in the same city, visited the same places, and ate at the same restaurants. I moved to southern florida to go to college in 2004. In 2006 he moved to southern florida where he attended the same college (no joke) I was attending. (There is also been a few other occasions as well where we almost met)
We ended up meeting through my ex bf of 4 years (Leo sign). My aquarius guy friend saw that I was in an extremely abusive and unhealthy relationship with this over controlling Leo guy, and convinced me to get out of the relationship with him and file a restraining order. (Thank Goodness!!)
After breaking up we (scorpio girl-me and aquarius guy) had this rebound relationship for a few weeks. There was a really strong connection between us. Conversation connection and “bedrooom related” connection! I went to visit my parents up north for 2 weeks, and we would talk on the phone for hours. . .I’m talking.. .like 4 to 8 hour phone conversations every day…. At night I would go to bed, and I would imagine him having sex with me, and that he was inside of me. I told this to him on the phone too, and he said he was feeling the same thing and at the same time. . .which was really really wierd.(-I apologize if I’m giving too much info-or I offend anyone. . . ) He told me that I was pretty much like the perfect girl for him.. (I really really don’t think he was lieing about any of this- the sex part, and the various things he told me about his personal life ).
He told me that he met a psychic in his early 20′s that told him that he was going to get married to a girl later in life (he is currently in his 30′s now) that is like a sister to him. ..-(remember this sentence- I have a point to make with this). When he told me this. . .I replied that I thought I was his future wife (i don’t know why, but that’s how I honestly feel, and still feel now).. (He doesn’t currently have any close girl friends besides me-not over exagerating or being jealous, being honest about this)
After a few weeks he told me this guy that he was living with .. which wasn’t really his step dad, but his boyfriend of thirteen years!!! (he’s a pisces). He has a thing for older men. I was really upset about this, it pretty much broke my heart. (I know how you feel CV!!) The Pisces guy was completely ok with this, and was very aware of what was going on, and wasn’t threatened at all by the relationship we had.
Aquarius guy told me what I felt for him was lust, and that he only liked me as a friend, as well. He told me that he only did those sexual things with me because he knew that I was going through a rough time with my ex, and was trying to help. . .(I don’t understand this. . .is this normal Aquarious Guy behaviour??)
I forgave him down the road.. .for his mistakes. And now we’re all really close friends (pieces, aquarious and scorpio). He calls me (scorpio) the “Best Friend”. And the (Pisces guy) “his lover”. We now all live together in an apartment as friends. He has mentioned that he wanted to do the friends with benefits thing. . . but I wasn’t comfortable with that. . since I get attached very easily , and he’s already in a relationship already (the pieces guy is completely aware of this.)
My aquarious friend ( as well as his pieces lover) also has been helping me over come other personal problems. I had a bad childhood, so he’s helping me over come some family problems. He’s (aquarious guy) described our relationship as a father-daughter, sister and brother relationship. (Which I’m wondering about since he told me – that a psychic told him that he was going to marry a girl later in life that was going to be like a sister to him).
He still tells me to this day. . . .that I’m a friend, but he says that he Loves me. . .but is not “IN LOVE” with me. And not interested in having a relationship. And that I’m not his type.
But I can’t help but wonder if he’s being secretive, and not telling me the complete truth. . (after all he’s a scorpio rising). And even told me straight up that “You should never tell anyone completely everything about your life”, and “he’s hiding stuff from me as well”.
He’s even said things that make me wonder sometimes. . .
“Who knows we might be married in two years”
“You’re pretty much my girl friend. . .you’re a friend and you’re a girl. . .” He said these things a few months back, not recently.
And this really confuses me as well. . He’s in a relationship with this older pieces guy (whose like a second dad to me pretty much)- and they (aquarius guy and pieces guy) have started making plans that when he (pieces guy) passes away, or goes into a retirement home that we (aquarious and scorpio) will be both financially taken care of.
My Aquarious friend is unfortunatley in a bad financial situation (Which isn’t his fault at all but from a series of unfortuate circumstances- I’m not trying to make him look good, i’m being honest about this!), and not completely sure what he wants to do with his life. The Pieces guy is taking care of him financially. I wonder if this has anything to do with how he’s treating me….Just a tid-bit to throw in there….
I try not to bother him too much and give him his freedom now. He’s often complained that I dont’ give him enough space. Yet recently he’s been doing alot of father-daughter type of bonding with me (like i described earlier about my relationship with him)- and has been helping me work out my problems. In fact he’s been helping me more than he has been helping his pieces lover, and himself!!
Last week he helped me for 5 hours doing my hair and makeup (He’s a former model; I just recently got hair extensions, and am learning about being a girl and getting into fashion stuff- I had a lack of that as a child, and was a complete nerd..I’m completely clueless on this stuff). He’s gone out of his way to research online and watch videos on youtube.
Is that aquarious friend behaviour (the hair makeup situation??) and everything else?? Is this love behaviour at all?? Am I misinterpreting this all together?? Help!!
Regina,
I see no one has posted a reply to your inquiry. Hope you’re still around. I’m an aqua male. Here’s my take on your story:
Sounds like you’ve gotten yourself into a real dead-end situation. All that stuff about coincidences and fate and similar life patterns etc.–it happens all the time and in the long run it means nothing.
What’s going on here is not just an Aquarius thing, but possibly a narcissism thing, and I have seen it once or twice before. Your “friend” may be getting ego gratification from your attentions despite the fact that he has no intention of ever establishing a love-relationship with you. It sounds like he is whipsawing you–intentionally confusing you with conflicting information–to keep you addicted to him. Typical narcissist behavior–the hot/cold, on/off, yes/no treatment. He keeps you confused and hooked to feed his ego, like a parasite feeds off a host.
I think it’s pretty clear even to you that this is not a healthy situation.
One further real danger for you is that if he feels you’re becoming obsessed with him, or stalker-like, or if he feels his freedom is threatened in any way that he can’t control, he could turn on you in a vicious manner and try to emotionally crush or humiliate you.
You need to get out of this relationship because there is zero possibility of there being true love or a marriage or anything even remotely resembling a normal life with this man. There is no future here–just endless confusion, turmoil and torment.
Often women who end up in these situations are daughters of alcoholic fathers who are caught in an endless cycle of trying to please an abusive surrogate daddy.
You’re likely going to obsess over him for quite some time, and the only cure is to find a new love interest and/or see a therapist. You may be suffering from depression. It may take a period of both counseling and anti-depressants to get you through this.
We Aquarius males aren’t typically too keen on getting involved with women who look like they are going be a lot of work down the road, but what I see here is actually a malicious and abusive situation.
If you’re thinking about this guy morning, noon and night, if your head feels like it’s burning up, if this relationship is affecting your work or other aspects of your life, then you are not in control of this situation. Go talk to your doctor right away.
Hope this Aquarian has helped you.
oOman..
uu guys aint chatting here anymore..
>___<"
but its really helpful and ii think ii found this site just in time
to save muai relationship with muai aqua lover boy
to be really honest,
among the 5 guys ii've dated,
aqua has to be the best catch
am really lucky to have found one whos so loving..
althou its in their nature that they will only show their love very little at a time,
but time's on our hands,
so dont worry when ur aquarius guy aint showing uu enough love.
he does love uu! he just doesnt show it the scorpion way
Well, I’m an Aquarian male, and I’ve never had a Scorpio woman go after me, so I don’t know what you are all talking about. On the other hand, I am also a Scorpio moon, so I guess I am too busy festering about people who piss me off to notice any female attentions. :-/
…it is, very quiet.
it is quiet here…
ladybug, you’re too obsessed with him.It’s only 7 days, you can have your own fun.Trust me, he’ll be more attracted to you if you’ve your own life.I go days without speaking to my Aqua and he always contacts me every day.We meet each other every day.When I’m away, I enjoy my time with others, but we keep in contact.He even goes crazy when I replied him late.So yeah, when an Aqua truly loves you, he’ll hate that you forget him.However, he’ll admire your independence.The best thing was he never was hesitant to say he loves me. So yeah, stop obsessing and being possessive , otherwise you’ll never reach true love.
Good luck.
I’m a scorpio female who has been seeing this aquarius male. I can’t even describe the attraction I feel for him! I am just so fascinated and intrigued by him! The sex is just WOW! Whenever we are together the way he looks into my eyes it’s as if he can see right down into my soul. It sounds crazy but we can just stare into each others eyes for hours!
When we are together he seems to really like me and enjoy my company but when we are apart he can go without talking to me for days which really hurts!
Recently it has been seven days since I have heard from him. I sent him a text yesterday that simply said “how are you? hope you have a good weekend.” I got no response from him and he usually responds to my texts even if it’s not right away. This just really hurts me because I like him a lot! The problem is I don’t know how he feels about me? Like I said when we are together he seems all into me…stares into my eyes, have great sex, good laughs, could talk for hours. The chemistry is just awesome! I’m just not used to him being this distant! It’s almost as if he could care less that he goes for days without talking to me. I miss him so much and am starting to wonder if he will ever come back around or if I did something wrong to cause him to become so distant? My emotions are in overdrive and I can’t even sleep. I don’t know if I should sit back and wait for him to come to me or if I should contact him again? We have only been seeing each other for 2 months but I’m already so into him. I wish I could tell if he feels the same way about me or not. If he does he doesn’t really show it when we are apart. Ughh this is frustrating!!
hahaha Aquarius man is weird he can love and love more than any one can imagine , in fact his feelings for love is bigger than anything else but his life is complicated no lies accepted but he lie for one thing (GETTING AWAY FROM TROUBLES) , he hate blocks in his way he would do anything to remove them , he fear nothing but ignoring troubles because he thinks that no one is match for challenge , but if someone insisted to challenge that person would be crushed easy , money is the biggest problems for him he doesn’t even like to think about that !
if his heart were broken he will become mean and dangerous , he is jealous and that’s his big deal !
he have big heart he can make friendship easy so his g f or wife or faience or his love is THE BEST FRIEND for him he trust her and he do what ever she ask him , he love to stay in the darkness more than light so the night is the best day part for him , when you ignore him for first time he would accept that and try to be more positive and get you attracted again second time he would be angry but never show , third time he will start to be suspicious about you ! and start to leave and never think to get back , he would leave you behind or dust you from love list , but he could be good friend who tell you the right things to do or try to give ideas to solve your problems (you broke his heart !)
he is so mean with anyone try to get you think that he is cool or love you or care for you or just trying to show he is better ! in fact you wouldn’t even try to have that idea when you are with him because you only see him meaning the whole world to you but he still think that he is not and will try to show you the best always !
ONE WAY TO MAKE HIM GET STABLE WITH YOU AND NOT TO BE SUSPiCIOuS !
dont get close to anyone else even your best friends men specially and take that note for basic if you wanna win and be with him all time (4ever) !
reasons why Aquarius man would leave for a while !
1) loyal too much more than you can ever imagine
what did you do to make him leave !
probably lied about your feelings not love no but about anything else !
2) when he love some one so much i mean love you he cant lie and he feels controlled and protective of you , you mean his self and more (you might become a god for him) !
3)he fear the wind to touch you and make you like it more than him (jealous)
4)he will do anything to win your heart (he is smart and polite gentle clean ) you like that in your man he can be that so easy
5) he feel safe with you if you avoid him from being suspicious !
so if you ignored these you will never know how to make relation with him !
being romantic is so easy for him so much easy , he is good lover good kisser he know when to start when to end (you have to ask him that’s the key ????? show him things to make him understand he is smart) he can never stop making love until you show that its enough ! dont tell him how to have sex or when to do that he can understand by looking into the eyes of you he reads your mind from you eyes !
his power is for life is always open
his power for fight is sleep he fears him self for that just like nuclear bomb when it explode destroys everything
his power for love is unlimited
tow persons means everything to him :
his mom and his partner (wife , fiance , g f , love , best friend witch is you !)
He is an Aquarian and Im a scorpio… I’m gonna take it from the start. We were talking 2gether and we met in a party I liked him, he liked me and we had fun in the party and he kissed me. But after that he wouldn’t talk 2 me like nothing.. And so I really got angry and sad because that night at the party he gave me many clues that he liked me…and I didn’t talk 2 him either and I saw him at the beach yesterday and I because my friends were with him he said hello how r u? I answered good .. And then I went somewhere and came back and one of my friends that know him told me that he was leaving and he told her to say bye to me..
When I went 2 msn that girl told me that at one moment he was talking 2 her he was staring at me and saying that I’m really beautiful and blabla and she told him stop it cz I know its ur fault and he laughed and said how do u know that? She told him that he didn’t talk to me since then.. And he told her u know what? That times I was into fights and problems and I was upset….
I really don’t know what 2 do.. I like him and as it seems he likes me 2! But if I talk 2 him I don’t want 2 be rejected like that again.. Maybe his character is like that , like always with his friends, and his hobbies and no time for his gf.. Emm… Should I send him first a txt message or something?? Im sad but happy at the same time.. Because I don’t know if we’re ever gna talk again like that or something..
I feel a deep connection 2 him but I don’t know why, Even if we don’t match together I just like him so badly … =/
@candy
how long did it take for him to come around and fall in love with you? months? years??
and im very happy for you!
Im a scorpio sun with cancer ascendant and taurus moon and hes an aquarius with cancer ascendant and sagitarrius moon. It’s been a year, and we had amazing chemistry since the second we laid eyes on eachother.
It took a long time and a lot of effort to get him where he is with me right now though, i had to be patient…pretend im not jealous…be cool with a lot of his choices. Then of course once he fell in love with me, i fixed him up and now we’re very happy together. the thing with aquarius men is that they don’t have respectable mourning periods after a break up…a little heartless. other then that i like them
oh and the sex is amazing.
You know Jenny,
The more I hear deeper into your story, I understand why you are considering letting go. I believe you are absolutely right.
The future has yet to come and the past is gone…
So right now, it seems you two aren’t making eachother happy. So leave it alone.
Once when I was working on the boats, I had this girl named Yeme. I thought she was my best friend at the time. Well she had a bad reputation for being “Easy and Flirty”. I ignored all the rumors and gave her the benefit of the doubt. Well I start becoming involved with a guy ” an Aquarius” (of course) and at first he seemed so sweet and sincere. Well I was in no rush to have sex, so months went by and finally we hooked up. All these months he would comment on how crazy she was, or that she was cool, but he could never see himself with a girl like her. Then one day I went to his room and caught her in his bed!
Take your time and do what is good for you. I can’t stress that enough. We are responsible for ourselves, No excuses. Please Jenny don’t let ANYONE lead you down a path you don’t want to walk on.
Humans like to see how far they can go and how much they can gain. It is how they measure their level of success. And they will do it at your expense, ( if you’re willing to pay).
Do you know what I mean?
By the way, I don’t mind he’s friend with her at all.I love him to be friend with my friends.Just the way he do it.He always comment how hot, attractive they are or some thing like that.Also says some thing like miss them and such.Any way , I’m not jealous , I just want a secure future with some one and I expect respect from some one I’m with. I didn’t get that from him while I gave all my heart and soul to him already.Well, I think it’s unfair for him to be with some one who can’t provide his needs and he kept reminding me how much he wanted to have sex with me.I think I’ll let him go and detach from him slowly over the summer.I’m tired of immature people already.My ex-Libra isn’t flirty but he was indecisive, that’s why I broke up with him too.When I know I want someone, I’ll be 100%, if they can’t , I just let them go, no hard feeling, we can still be good friends
I’m not insecure , Rutu.He has a double standard.When I commented on somone , say they’re handsome or something , he would not be happy and I had to assure him that there is nothing.Now he just made sacarstic comments if I do that.I’m afraid he gets hurt so I stop doing that.While he always is very flirty and says something like oh she hot and some sexual comments about their bodies(I never do that) to his friend and me.I aslo joined in because I think/know it was just a joke.However, it’s like he loves provoking me to see if I’ve any emotion.Today when we were in bed and hugged, he would say oh I wish we could have a picnic with “her” -my friend.Especially after I said I’m afraid to hug him in bed while we both are naked because he always get excited too easily.If there is sex , it’s to be right with protection and such.I don’t want to have sex and I don’t want to test the boundary.So I even gave him her email and said you could chat with her in the summer.He laughed and said yeah.You know ironically, he always complained about her.Never mind, we’ve the whole summer apart.There is another Aqua man who is chasing me as well and he seems to be more sincere.He even tells every one we’re a couple to his friends and in public, though I refused and called him a friend.This one I’m with just kept flrting with girls and do not want his friends to know we’re together.I mean I also don’t want publicity or any thing but there is some one else who is willing to do any thing for me while the other only says empty words.I think maybe I need to give some one else a chance.Thank you for your advice Rutu.
Jenny..
Why are u so insecure? sex is not the whole and sole of the relationship.. u said u wanted to give him a chance because he is so persistant then give him a fair chance. if u remain negative about the relationship becasue u believe there is somthing lacking without sex then it will reflect in ur attitude..
He just asked her home number… maybe he wants to talk to her about u. to get to know u better… or somthing completly unrelated.
did he give u any other clues that he was attracted to her?
i dont think it would be fair to act like this, Jenny. Dont be upset because of lack of sex.. i can understand he wants it BUT he wants it with YOU only… doesnt matter how good sombody else is in the bed. so i would want to ask you if you really love this guy, forget about other things and just give your relationship a fair chance.. I can understand u dont want to get too atached and thn find out he broke or cheated on u because he wanted sex. But you tell me would being so insecure help..?
If you think this factor worries you too much then i suggest you take a break from a relationship till you start considering marriage, if you are not considering it in near future. (1-2 years) and whatever decision you take talk to him about it explain things and ask him to be patient. I know its not easy but i think its fairer. its not good for you to worry so mch about the relationship.. It needs to be a source of happiness and not worry. It will be somewhat difficult to explain it to him but he should understand if you are not going to break it but just taking time off.
Let me know what u think about it, Jenny.
Take care.
Rutu,
I’m not sure why my Aqua suddenly asked my girl friend’s room number.I meant he used to say to me and another guy that she’s too quiet and told me that though he thought she was a nice girl, he wouldn’t know what to talk to her once 4 of us live together next year.
I mean we’re supposed to go to her room to help her to move the luggage into mine any way.Now he wanted to go alone and asks her by himself.Oh well, I gave him her room number.Just thought that’s a bit unusual, especially he was asking what did she do yesterday when I talked about her.
Maybe, I should help them to get together? As much as I love him, I think I won’t sleep with him or any guy before marriage.While my friend already has a boyfriend but they’re so far away and he used to cheat on her with his ex.She’s good in bed or so she told me, therefore I think they might be good together? She’s a Pisces by the way.I mean it’s best for me to let go soon rather than building up such a strong connection and all ruined because lack of sex?
Probably she’s busy or she ‘s just trying to figure you out now.Especially if you was very enthusiastic and appeared of chasing her in the beginning and now you seemed to slow down.Then she would assume that you needed space and time to concentrate on your study.She proabably just want to be understanding, caring but not clingy because it’s early for her too to request sometimes with you anyway.You guys are not open about your feelings but she’s certainly sending lots of positive signals here.The ball is in your court.However, don’t be too long because she will be insecure/get bored/because after all the special attention pouring upon you ,nothing happened but secretive, flirty glances and a few meetings.If she’s mature, she will send more hints or tell you in a subtle way.If she’s still young, she will move on soon despite how much she likes you.In her logic, she thinks you’re indecisive and likes to play the field.Don’t worry though because most Scorp are not like that.Once they’re good, they’re like angels
Thanks Jenny.
What u think about my earlier post..? where i talked about she being contacting me less these days but does it regularly, on her initiative which she didnt do before.
Thanks.
I think she will eventually want formalities , Rutu. She would think you played her if you do not confess your feeling soon and just flirted with her.Especially, if you already knew her feeling for you.Then the hot and cold, distant thing will begin because she’s insecure about you and her.
Best of luck
Lili,
Well, No we are not steady yet…the thing is that none of us say anything openly..BUT i can tell we both know that we like each others a lot. a LOT. and i am also not very high on formalities as long as she gives me an idea of her feelings….I think calling her “My girl” shows my possesiveness, but i will NOT show it till there is confession on her or my part.
Take care, Lili.
Bye
That’s wonderful Rutu, but now I know why you spend less time here, talking with us. Hehe, we just miss you when your not around. So anyway, you say “my girl”. Does that mean you 2 are going steady now?
Well…
My situation…
Things have been progressing very well with my girl or at least it appears that way to me. We spend more time on messangers chatting than meeting outside due to busy schedule. when we talk she laughs a lot and everything is fine, really fine…. and i believe we are getting closer.. i can sense it. But these days i am seeing she is contacting me less.. than she used to when we were not this close. But she does contact me regularly, if i dont do it then within 10-20 minuts she will do it. But she wont talk much. It could be because she might be busy…. I have no problem at all accepting it. But i just wanted to know if there is more to it than she just being busy…..
Oh Jenny, if the feeling is right, then don’t give up! I believe that is where many people have gone wrong this day in age. Think back to our parents and grandparents, they were in it til the end. I know they were married, but what I’m getting at is life is an on going evolution. Forever progressing and changing. Some days you need to take an umbrella outside and other days you get to wear shorts and a t-shirt.
I know it’s hard to slow down now, since you 2 have been going a little strong, but try to. Mabey change the environment to where you 2 hang out. That way it takes away the too much solo time, and relieves pressure on sex. Hang out rather than in.
And Jenny, he is not the only one who this is hard for. It’s hard for you too, so don’t under estimate what your going through in order to stick to your own values and promises to yourself. Once you can realize that you both are having to make sacrafices to make this work, then you both might start working togeather to soothe eachothers difficulties. Good Luck Lady J…
Thanks Lili and Rutu.We both have been through alot together in those 6 months. He took me to his house on the island,even before I agreed to be his girlfriend.He introduced me to his family and he seemed to be very happy because they all liked me.Especially his sister-in-law who think I’ll be a perfect girlfriend(that’s what he told me!) . I used to look after him when he was ill for 2 days and he looked after me back for 2 weeks, back when we were still friends.Recently, his close friend just passed away and I hugged him all night, wiped his tears.We cuddled up and he told me about all the beautiful memories they had.He doesn’t trust any one but he often told me that he trusts me and see me as his very good friend.That he trust my judgements.He called me his angel and said he doesn’t know what will happen in the future but he knows he’ll always love me.I don’t know.I still think it’s unfair for him to stay in a relationship without sex.He said he wanted it but only with me and he can forget it because he loves me.
We connect on many levels.Our kisses are passionate sometimes, fun and “kinky” sometimes.We joke and argue with each other.Then making up with hug and kisses.We communicate our needs and seem to understand our differences.
Still I think it’s unfair for him but like you said, Rutu.He cried every time I said we should let go.Maybe I’ll take this risk?
By the way Rutu, I was looking at the time on your advice to Jenny. Well first thing I noticed is after all you said, you wrote another note saying Hi to me. Yeah well they’re both at the same time! Wow Rutu you can think and Type FAST!!! Intelligence is an extremely attractive quality in a man, (in my opinion).
You’re right on Rutu! As long as there is a foundation of trust then the soil is fertile to plant almost anything. Appreciate what you’ve got. And count your blessings.
Hi Rutu, Hugs and a watermelon smellin peck on the cheek.
Just teasing ya
And i forgot to say “Hi” to Lili….
Jenny,
I dont think trying to breakup is good idea AT ALL. See, he is putting your wishes before his, he is controlling himself and doing things against his urges..all because he loves you. Now if u break up he will keep thinking “what was it that he didnt do for you?”. Trust me it will hurt a lot more than controlling ur urges from time to time.
I think he will control his urges and wont do anything agaist ur wish..BUT i have a tendency..I dont know if its there in all aquas or not…of passive aggression. If i need to control my self again and again then i often develope a feeling like “Leave it, I dont need it.” which is not true and then the anger is expressed through other ways.. by being more distant, not being very enthusiastic around the girl etc etc…
But i will be very sexually attracted to the girl whom i have a mental connection with..For me the physical attraction simply CANNOT exist without it. i have tried and it always failed. so when u have that connection there are other things more important than sex… I actually keep sex to the last. So if he is having to control his sexual urges constantly that is good sign of him being into you more than sexually.. Again you cant generalise but thats what i believe. I suggest you should try to develope emotional bond with him if ur serious with him. Aquas like to be nurtured somthing beyond just physical lust and has innocence and genuine feelings involved. I love it if some girl cares for me and is somwhat protective about me, even if i dont admit or show it. If i like it i will reciprocate by giving her a gift or somthing.. Touches are also very soothing to me and can make me forget about little disharmony in a relationship. I am basically suggesting u to make this bond stronger so that it withstands this temporary trouble. if i was in his shoes and had to control my urges then i would as long as the girl keeps showing her affection in different ways and MORE than that ACKNOWLEDGES that im doing this because i REALLY love her and shows some appreciation for that. i think it will be VERY VERY difficult for him to Not control his urges for u or find sexul relief somewhere else if you just appreciate him for being so patient. Just say thank you, and somthing to the effect of i understand how hard it is for you..somthing similar.
Ok, Jenny take care..
Jenny that’s exactly the way I am. I have come to a point in my life that I decided I would now prefer to wait to be intimate again. For this reason I don’t have a boyfriend right now. Oh I love to look and I see a lot of great guys at my school. A couple of them are botfriend material and a couple of them even seem like husband material.
I have this Aquarius girlfriend, and she has been in a monogamus relationship with a Scorpio guy for 5 years. They have had sex, but he will Not perform oral sex on her. She mentions to me that this bothers her, but she just deals with. If he wants to he will when he is ready, and because she loves him, she’s not going anywhere.
So if you are serious about what you say. Then stick to it, because believe me an Aqaurius hates a hypocrite. And if He is serious, you just might get a ring sooner than later!
Rutu, How long do you think an Aquaman can be in a relationship with you without sex? The Aquaman I’m dating with (yeap , he’s so persistent so I wanna give him a chance
) said that he wanted to be my boyfriend even we won’t have sex in the future( it’s me who just wants to have sex after marriage). We’ve been friends for 2 months and have been dating for 4 months.He said he would try to make this worked because he loves me so much.I’m not so sure because I know he’s quite attracted to me sexually too and he had to control himself quite alot of times.Sometimes, I heard him murmured to himself about how much he wanted me.I tried to break up with him many times because I think it’s unfair for him but he wouldn’t leave, he wanted to stay with me.He even said it’d be a test of his character.What should I do?
hey! im a scorp girl and i need advise from a male Aquarius asap!!!! i have really liked this guy for 4 years but he has always had a girlfriend but i know we have had some crazy chemistry since we have met. recently we have been really flirty and stuff and i don’t know what to do or how to tell that hes giving me hints on whether he likes me and wants to take things further and just doesn’t want to be the first one to say something or is just flirting with me because hes just being nice and knows i like him…lol. i know this question has been asked before…but everything that is said seems really vague…i need details!!! or better some personal experiences or something that tells me how an aqua guy shows that he likes someone!
Hi Jenny, No I don’t mind sharing my sign, but I don’t like to be catorgorized. Once you tell someone your sign, it’s like they think they have you all figured out. I’m even guilty of the crime. Especially with Aquarius’s, because I’ve been surrounded by them a lot. I’ll tell you this… I’m gentle, intuitive alomost to the point of a sort of pysic premonision at times. I’m a loyal partner. I love my freedom, and at times my friends seem closer to me than my family. I’m also very much so of an intellect. And I give off a sort of confident vibe when I’m met in person.
Hmmm??????? What do you think?
Catch ya 2mrw, gotta get to bed- nite nite
@Lili Ann: Now you got me intrigued! Are you an Aquarius or a Sagittarius or a Gemini or a Leo or a Pisces ? Haha, for some weird reasons think you belong to five signs above.If not , then pls tell meif you don’t mind! LOL!
I found this site by accident while messing around on google one day and was quite surprised.
I’m a Scorpio female 10/28 with Sun, Mars and Uranus in Scorpio and most of my life my connections have been with Scorpio men. I ended a six year relationship with a Scorpio male recently.
I met, about a month ago, an Aqua male. My reaction to seeing him for the first time was quite interesting. During our early convos he stated he felt someone was watching him across the room. I guess that’s where that famous Scorpio stare came in. I didn’t even know I did the stare until after I read the comments on this site and then proceeded to ask a few friends about it!
It was strange, when I saw him I immediately wanted him! There was just something about him that kept drawing my attention to him. I guess I was in Scorpio observe mode and was staring. LOL
We managed to exchange numbers, but my goodness that man can run hot and cold in a new york minute. One time he stated that if we had met in college, we probably would have been married by now! O_O What?! But now, he’s in cold mode and I can rarely catch him on the phone much less see him.
That makes ME run cold and I just don’t call and when I feel like he’s finally gave up on me, he calls and it starts the cycle all over again!
I think the Scorpio men were alot easier because it was basically like reading myself. This Aqua man is a handful and SO confusing!
Thanks Jenny for the response, today he was playing peek- a- boo too. I’m getting the vibe that we are flirting. But I can’t go and talk to him, it’s just un professional.
And by the way I’m not a Scorpio… but I do have great intuition.
sorry, I meant “reminiscing” , not memorising!
@Scorpioxgirl: Glad to be of service to you
@Lili Ann: Hehe, If I’m not wrong, sometimes Scorp can place so much importance in stares and such.You’re an attractive lady so of course he enjoys looking at you.Then when he was looking at you, he could be memorising things in the past.Someone he knew.Something important in his life….It could be many things so he seemed to get lost there…ALso, don’t you think that he stared at you because he caught your “infamous” stare too? lol!
Just ask him the reason if your intuition told you that was something important.After all , I trust Scorps have pretty good inttuition
Ok Jenny ;p
I like ur answers (: x
@Rutu: What do you want to know Rutu?
@Scorpioxgirl:How long have you know each other , dear? Are you and him good friends yet? It takes ages to earn their trust and TRUST is a BIG ONE for Aquamen.Be his friend and have fun.Relationships are not easy like people think.It takes work.DOn’t jump in too quickly and then realise it was simply lust and chemistry.I don’t mean love can sustain without lust and chemistry but love is more than that.Show him and yourself that you two can be more than that
Hey Ya’ll! What’s new? I have a little question that I’m hoping someone can clue me in on.
There is a guy at my school, real handsome, and yesterday after the weekend He was walking by and He stared at me all the way until I was out of His sight, but He didn’t smile. I almost felt like he was glaring at me. I don’t even know his name, and I’ve never mentioned to anyone that I think he is attractive, so what’s that hard look about?
Could it be that he thinks I’m kind of cute too and that’s just His way of showing that He is tough and a man. Hmmm?
In the buisness that I’m in being a female, it is very inappropriate to approach a guy and be seen talking to him too much. It’s considred flirting and makes me look bad. All eyes are constantly on the girls and every little move they make. And I don’t want a bad reputation. So what I’m getting at is I can’t even walk up to this guy and ask Him, His name.
So of course I just have to wait it out, but what’s the hard look about?
Hey Jenny,
did u read my post..?
I was expecting some feedback from u.
and if he likes me why doesnt he ask me Nowwww?:S
Jenny thanksssss for the info..
But I just cant seem 2 understand him…:S
I don’t know what 2 do to make him understand i like him..Well he likes me but i dont knowwww what 2 do so he asks me 2 be his gf
@Scorpioxgirl:
I will just copied the lines that I told others before here for you:
“I think Scorps can be too extreme when they’re in love.Too hot or too cold! There seems to be “in the middle” approach for them.That can spell problems.Gain his trust by being his friend and go with the flow.When he feels comfortable, he’ll express his feeling and you guys can go from there.Please don’t throw yourself into him, he might enjoy it because it boosts his ego but it isn’t the best foundation for a long term relationship. Honestly, I think Aqua can be a bit traditional when it comes to love.They analyse their potential mates very carefully.If you push him too much, he will run away because he feels like he’s loosing control(what a terrifying thing for Aquas!).
All the talk about Aqua being unemotional is nonsensical! They are just very guarded with their emotions because they know too well the dark side of human beings! Once you show them that they can trust you, they will slowly open up. Remember “actions speak louder than words” (just like Scorpio!). When I see an Aqua , despite what age they are , I see a child who just wants to love and be loved yet fears of being hurt because they can love so deeply and almost to the point of obsession! LOL! They might look like having heads on clouds but they memorise everything you said and will bring up to test or challenge you! Once you show that you are honest and true to your words, they will happily follow your lead on their own terms of course! LOL! They can be very controlling and love to smother you once they fall in love. If you love adventures, it’s even better; they will go with you to the end of the Earth and make the journeys even more interesting. However, they can be absent-minded when they think that something so trivial to remember!
I think it’s a balance also. I’m not an affectionate person and very awkward in term of showing emotions but my ex (Libra) was not patient with me at all but my Aqua friend helps me to conquer it slowly.
They don’t like to change but they will do it for you and for them if you can use logics to convince them and tell them honestly that you don’t want to manipulate them . They can say beautiful words and have gestures that even Libras who are being called the “charmers” have to surrender!”
Yeap, take your time and be strong, girl
Hi Lili,
Thanks a lot for your reply…
But u know i can tell that she likes me a lot… I can see it in her eyes and the way she asks “so, how are you today..?”
and if i dont contact for 3-4 days she will contact and ask why didnt u contact..etc..etc.
I can say for sure that she cares for me..well becoz i do that for her too..(alot)
But the thing is our time here is limited… actually its near completion now..and starting somthing serious is difficult with uncertain future..as we dont know how the course of things will be in next few years.. I have actually told her these things indirectly before… the last thing i will want to do is to hurt her. thats why when i talk to her i ask her about future and her plans and we talk about other important things. we are basically such good friends we can talk about anything. Let me see how things turn up in next few months..
On a funny fun note, Paris Hilton is an Aquarius and she keeps breaking up with her boyfriends. I wonder when she is going to meet a Scorpio. Mabey then she will have met her match?????
Dear Rutu,
Well I definately cannot say wheater She does or does not like you, but I will say that I seem to have those similar tendencies. Once when I was a little younger I was hanging out with I guy that I liked, and another guy that was much older that I thought was cool passed us by. I said “I Love Him”. He was the type of guy that was well respected by his peers and superiors. He was easy going and had an over all calm demeanor.
So Rutu, I ask you this… Have you ever heard the saying, It’s not what you say, but how you say it.
I’m still new at my school and there is literally 5 girls and 170 guys. I’m crushin on a few of them, but I am intimidated because I am a whole different race and nationality than them. But most of them are pretty cool with me. I even got invited to a barbecue yesterday!, but I couldn’t go.
Jenny that’s what exactly happened…
He was busy so he wasn’t talking to me…BUT after like 4 days he started talking to me normally like be4..
Next year im going to that school that he is going also {NOT because hes there but because thats a really good school}
and he’s happy that I am..
But u know something? I think scorpio girls and aquarius boys are just not the best match..Us scorpio girls NEED attention and love and careness and feel like we have a boy that talks to us everyday..But aquarius boys NEED their freedom they don’t like to be pushed and in long relationships.. I noticed that if u just dont give attention to an aquarius boy fastly he’ll come back 2 u..but if u just talk 2 him all the time he’ll be cold and unemotional..
I think that Sc.girls dont want That…
Thanks for the advice Jenny. Though I feel as if i’ve just been hit by a mac truck with how you’ve interpreted his behavior towards me I will continue to keep away from him.
Jenny,
Well she doesnt talk about him much. she talks if we bump into him or if he passes by… anyway i think i have more positive signes than negative… I will will pursue her.
@lizzy: No he doesn’t like you.He’s a flirt and enjoys leading you on.I know some Aquamen who like to flirt and test their attractiveness even they have found someone they can give their hearts to already.Aqua like experiments and are very attracted to the opposite sex so there will always be some tension even in friendship if you arent careful.After all, he has a girlfriend and is madly in love with her as he told you.Then would you like to seduce someone who is madly in love with another? If he can be seduced that easily after telling his girlfriend how much he loved her then what are you to him? The next conquest? Good luck and stay away from that flirt if you cant stand the game he is pulling!
@Scorpioxgirl : He had cold feet.Nothing you can do now.Just leave him alone.If he’s interested then he’ll come back very soon.SOmetimes, they just disappear because they’re busy but they will always come back if they like you alot.In the meantime, just concentrate on yourself and your happiness.Best of luck!
Did she ever serve”that damn fool” coffee with her “angel tone” ? See, she wants to spend time with you , not him.Stop worrying so much and try to ask her to spend time with you as well.Otherwise, she will think you aren’t interested in her and will stop inviting you.You didn’t tell me what she told you in detail so I can’t give you much.Did you hear she talked about him in romantic way? If yes, then you have the right to be upset.If she just loves him like a human being loves another or because he has some admirable qualities then nothing to worry.In fact, listening carefully to what she loves about him.This will tell you about the woman you like .Whether she’s right for you.Listenning is a very attractive quality.Dont let your mind wonder with jealousy.Just listen carefully to form an objective opinion.Sometimes, emotions can led you astray if you don’t use your head.She could be the one for you right now or she could be not.But give her and yourself a chance and don’t let that little insecure voice of yours to cloud your judgement.Good luck!
Jenny thank you a lot…!
But how can u say it for sure..
Well I do get the feel that she is interested.
On that day itself as we were leaving she insisted that we have coffee together. i saw her face like she was really urging. i was hungry so i said i need to eat somthing and not interested in coffee.. but she said plez plez so i gave in.. Of course i wanted to have coffee with her but i was DAMNNNN hungry…. she going to get coffee for both of us and askd in a really good tone “so what can i serve you…” well i said the coffee i wanted but i really liked her tone…
then we talked over coffee as usual.. but really nice time with her.
But then why does she has to mention that DAMN fool…”you know i love him…Blah blah blah blah”
i am being so patient with her..
She doesnt love the guy romantically.She loves you (or at least like you very much!).We can love everyone equally but there is only one we love with our soul.I’m sure you’re the one for her at this moment
Rutu,
I would keep doing what you are doing. I doubt she is saying that “you know I love him” to make you jealous. Maybe to see how you would react or using it as a way to hide her feelings toward you.
I would continue to spend time with her and let a trust develope. If she likes you or starts to like you she will eventually cave in and tell you or show you some how. We can keep our feelings hid but when they become too strong we will definately let you know it.
There are so many guys that I say “I just love him!” But what I mean is I just love him as a person and dont necessarly want to BE with him.
It is a great sign that she is trying to spend time with you.
i was really cool though…. and even made a joke of it. and had nice cool time together….i didnt even show if it even bothered me..
i actually felt like we are getting closer and closer…
And i like it and i know she knows and likes it too…i can tell that.
any suggestions on what i should be doing…?
Hello
i want to ask what does this behaviour by my scorp girl means..?
Well she does try to spend time with me..
We are getting to spend time together and we smile and enjoy eachother’s company a lot.
Then she had jokingly(i think) to have crush on a guy. and when he bumped into us and talked and she goes like “WOW he talked to us, and says u know I love him..”
Is she trying to make me jealous or what..?
Ok so here’s my story…
I have been talking with this aquarian boy a lot and he was nice and all these stuff and he said he likes me..
We went 2 a party and we had a great time.. He was winking at me… talking 2 me all the time..hugging me.
So… the next day i texted him but it was like he was so cold and wanted his freedom.
So should i wait for HIM to text me first from msn or mobile or should i text him something??
I just know he likes me buttt im soo confused with his attitude.
Thnks scorpgal & Lili Ann:
HA Lili Ann: your post on April 25th was interesting cause I did all those things, bbq, dance club, homework, dinner and a movie with my Best Cousin this last weekend. HUH! THe Arctic is a happening kinda place after all!
Thanks for that retrospect, I needed that… was kind of depressed about missing out on life just cause there’s no trees and cheaper shopping, but wow, Arctic Life is awesome!
Had a gusty e-mail to Mr. Acquarius.
Sorry Paro. : ( Glad your not hurting too much!
Cute story Artic scorpio! LOL
Sorry to hear that.Here is what I read at Terry Nazon horoscope :
“Soon, Saturn will go direct just at the midpoint 14.54* or half way marker. As it does it makes inconjunct with Venus in Aries in its detriment and Mars in Aries its home. Why? Is it just a random aspect? Or is it more divinely ordained than that? More importantly both Venus the planet of love and Mars the force of energy will aspect Saturn in Virgo at their solstice points 15* Aries. Mars will aspect this Solstice point a few days before Saturn goes direct and Venus a few days after. These aspects stop us dead in our tracks or in the very least some area of our life where we are not functioning very well! Think about it like this Saturn in Virgo, is transiting through the 12th house of marriage, relationships, partnerships and open enemies. The 12th house to any sign is the house where we mess up big time! It’s the area where we want to blame others but really we only have ourselves to blame and the little voice inside of us knows this all to well, so what do we do to shut the little voice up? We drink, we indulge in drugs and dalliances, we flirt, we find someone, anyone who is equally disenchanted with life, to like us, not love us, just to like us, part time, because we don’t really want love or a the responsibility of a full time commitment. The 12th house is the house of secret love affairs, self undoing, self imposed imprisonments fooling ourselves, evasive behavior and solitude; it’s the house of karma. It’s the house we here we feel most alone, because no one is there to really help us in life. We aren’t really taking responsibility for anyone and no one wants to be responsible for us either. Collectively as we are at this pivotal point with Saturn in Virgo, we are going through karmic lessons about responsibility in relationships, right and wrong, and suffering the consequences of bad behavior. What is love without responsibility? In the end it’s all about love. Your job is safe if you love what you are doing, and your relationship is safe if it’s true love.”
So, it is over… surprisingly I don’t feel anything at all O_O
Hiya =)
I found this from being curious about the relationship between Scorpio and Aquarius and thought this thread was really interesting. I can see the all similarities.
I’m a Scorpio girl and this guy I work with is an Aquarius. After reading the posts, I have a couple of questions for you male Aquas.
What’s this “stare” that Scorpios give that everyone is talking about? Is it when we look at you to try to understand you? Or is it some seductive look that I haven’t discovered yet? Lol.
When you Aquas stare at us when we’re not looking, what exactly are you looking for? I see my coworker looking at me all the time, and I don’t understand why. Sometimes it makes me feel a little self-conscious. Haha.
I read in the posts above that Aquas will act different when he’s around his friends and when he’s around someone he likes. What if I don’t know what he’s like with his friends? I only see him at work.
Since Aquas want to be friends with everyone, including the person they like, how do I know if he truly likes me or if he’s being a player?
Sorry, I’m just trying to understand Aquas more. =)
Thank gosh for this site.
This scorpio girl has only ever been drawn to and dated Leo’s.
This is my first time ever finding myself madly insanely attracted to an aquarian guy who unfortunately is involved. The thing is he loves being around me. When he’s any where but near me I catch him staring at me when he thinks I’m not looking. And when we’re around each other he always subtly flirts. But whenever the playful flirting turns into long intense glances between us he immediately catches himself and puts a wall up by saying something like Wow my girlfriend’s just awesome, she’s always there for me and oh yeah i can never get over this one… we’re just crazy in love I lucked out with her. I’m like WTF!
This has happened twice already which is why t I’ve backed off. It stings so much. But I miss being that way with him
Can someone please tell me what’s up with this guy? Could he really be into me?
Aaaw, cutsie! Good Luck and enjoy the feeling of blossoming Love. For me it’s like watching flowers grow. You’re absolutely right. Patience, patience, patience. And POOF! Hahahaha
Later Artic Scorio
WOW! For years (6) there was this amazingly goofy looking man that left me mute, tunnel vision stuck on him, and was like: Huh? *double take* who are you looking at me like that?
Aquarious man and Scoripo woman (me): gravitational electricity, unseen, unheard and unexpected but still able to ‘feel’ like something is going to happen: then – ZAP.
Had AmaZing times of talking, totally similar almost mirror imaged concerns – Family, humanity, sharing and opening up so freely – blew/blows my mind.
Never met anyone like this guy/aquarius… didn’t think that this astrology stuff could be like a photocopier accurate- but I guess for the most part humanity is still so predictable… moreso than the weather! ha ahhahhhaaa.
I really like him… alot. I cut it short cause there were things that were so similar I was like… that shit just doesn’t happen by accident…. damm. And yet here “I” am: a woman who makes her own decisions (after much diliberation) and this man pops into my life as if it was that easy.
Time will tell what will come of this wonderful man with crazy long curly hair, and I.
I have a hunch that it is working out: behind the scenes and when it materializes I’ll be like: O. I knew you were there all along, I just had to have waited long enough for you to catch up to where I was.
Here’s to stopping to smell the roses while the red light turns GREEN!
Patience Scorpio women – Patience!
I thought it was going to be sunny today, so I was all pumped up to hand wash my car, and now it looks gloomy. Ah fooey, well atleast I’ll go give it a good vacuum.
What’s up, peoples? What are you all getting into today? Dinner and movie with a loved one? Barbecues? Dancing at the club? I’m sure you all will have some great stories come tomorrow, I can’t wait to hear them.
It Saturday morning where I live, and I’m pretty good on my Med. homework, so I’m gonna hit traffic and listen to music. Check out all the beautiful people. Have a great day ya’ll.
And to Devon- We’re waiting on an update, with the new guy.
Hiya Rutu!!
@Aquagirl
I will try that….REALLY..!
@Paro
you both seem to have understanding..thats good.
im in slight hurry now but keep updating, im reading it all.
@Lili
Ya..weeks into physics would make anyone need medicines.. on serious note, hope ur health is fine. I didnt catch it when i read ur earlier…take care.
I am glad to have found this site. It has helped me so much in understanding my scorpio woman. I am an older aquarius male and I was looking for answers to why I we had so much problems with my scorpion woman. This website has answered a lot of my questions. It has taken me a couple of weeks to read through this blog because I am a professional and I am very busy but here and there I have taken time to finish it. I have to give props to the person who started this blog because I believe it has help plenty of people. There is more to come about my story.
haha! typo ‘reaping’ = repeating
so after i snapped on my aqua and told him the reason why i snapped he answered,” oh, why didn’t u just tell me that before?” Well, i thought it would be evident that I would be upset for not seeing him for 3 weeks. Of course there was some communication (texting because he knows i am a bit uncomfortable talking on the phone since i speak really fast and that i have an accent, so he wont understand me much and i hate reaping myself 20 times) but it wasn’t the same as seeing him. Anyway, he apologized for not being attentive and that he would make an effort to drive down to see me more often. He also told me that he is still interested in me and in seeing where things go that he is here for me, cares, and that he understands everything i want to do.
However, with the age difference and because we are on different posts in life ( i’m in college and he is trying to start a company) he can’t always be there when i want him
I really like him because he is very supportive; i like that he is like a mentor to me. But at time it gets a little over the top and i want him to stop being a bit like my parent. I like that he check on me to see if i have progressed with my plans since we sort of made them together although sometimes i can’t be as quick as he seem to want them done because i am concentrating on school as well.
I’ve always enjoyed seeing older men because i liked the autonomy and space that i wouldn’t otherwise get from boys my age, but god, he gives me too much space that it gets a bit uncomfortable…
Alright tips for you studying peeps.
Flora, dr ann wigmores assistnat for 20 years. neither of them slept and she still works 24hours a day at times. but ann i think slept 2-3 hours a night consistnetly. Oh and tony this guy in england hardly sleeps. very sweet on a sleep deprivation program. on –
2 small rinsed(and soaked)handfuls seaweed (x10-12 more nutrients normal vegetables), half blender (so a laat) greens, not spinach, kale, wud think collard too strong, half blender fruit. am add 2oz almond cream. which not sure how she suggests making that and 1/4 avocado. ann used to say more than 1/4 day fattening or an english follower elaine bruce about 70 yr old says that. for women these r women sizes. have that for breakfast and dinner – and u’ll bounce awake and won’t need much sleep. amazing. oh almond milk in day if u like. pineapple to get u going odd occasion. flora talks about how to prepare it, letting it sit with some holes in it or sth to sweeten it to begin with. her free book draft was on jim carey’s site. flora van orden – same name as tim van orden sky scraping sprinter been running just 4 2 years beating athletes, on raw, raw for 5 years amazing. brendan brazier triathelte also raw.
shit i lost my post. anyway, doing it this week i was up an hour early 2 days, last time that happened was 2 years ago and then was a fluke. Awesome.
Dr Mehmet Oz also into this. – holy fucking yay, for us, animal testing, and ecologically planetwise. it feeds so many many more than meat potatoes. and our cells it feeds amazingly with all the compoenents in each of the things. just google any of them. tho, guess some resources more detailed than others. like japanese or chinese funny long grass googling. so many amazing. sorry dont have time to say more right now.
Hey Scorpgal,
ya its good that she asked for tea but u know we are a group, i personally can ask a friend for tea sheerly out of boredome. i dont know how its for scorpgirls…
And i am not on facebook…
how is ur situation going on..?
@Lili
No no, i am not ignoring corsework due to my crush… that would be shame.. i dont think she will be much impressed by that either as she is quite serious about such things… she is a good combination of responsible and fun loving girl… she is someone i can learn from and i really like it.
Rutu, are you on face book?
If she asked you to have tea – she likes you.
Thats cute!
Hmm… we are not getting to spend time together…ALL THE BLOODY TIME THERE ARE PEOPLE AROUND. We havnt really met properly since i last wrote here. Both busy with course work…. But i could see attempt on her part to spend some time together as she talked about having tea together but again just 5 mints later we had few people.. so no privacy.
but i can safely say she did want to spend some time together…. now even then we would hav talked about work but it feels good to be with her..:), i like her…
That is some great stuff Starlight. You described my aquaman perfect. He is a treasure!
Rutu, update on the crush?
Rutuuuuuuuuuuuuu,
How ya doin? How are those grades holing up? Hope your not too distracted by your crush. Hmmm?
Oh how I would love to share another story, but my brain is just not there right now. I was neck deep into physics for the past couple weeks and now I’m on to medicine. Even on the weekends I’m surrounded by books, notes, flashcards I made, ect.ect…. But thanks for asking about me, I didn’t forget you either.
I am a typical Scorpio girl and I had dated 3 Aquarius guys so far…well actually 2 last on and off 2/3 years respectively…I agreed with most Scorpgal’s posts here that it’s the best/worse time when being with an Aq guy. One day he could be so very sweet and all over me – a perfect lover/bf, next day he could be so distant and cold as if he hated me…I got really frustrated…though sex was great and when he’s sweet and affectionate, it’s heaven, but the distant and “need space, need freedom” thingy really drain my energy and patience. Doesn’t matter how wonderful when it’s good, I would not date another Aq guy again. It’s just too much drama and too painful after all. The 2nd Aqu guy I was with actually cheated on me. Well, they all enjoy having a lot of friends, and need the space and private time…but that one enjoy having a lot of female friends and flirting with them on msn and stuff which I caught, then caught he slept with one of those. It was my worse nightmare being with a Aqu. I should have learned my lesson so I thought but recently I met a gorgeous Aqu and I thought I was just going to casual dating but I fell for him…he was all over me and extremely sweet + affectionate when we were together, but he needs A LOT OF space and freedom, it seems. He never calls me, just drops a email once a day/every other day, sees me on Sat. It was heavenly when we spent time together but the fact that he’s not willing to be connecting to me when he’s not with me is not going to work for me (not sure if other scorpio girls can do). Maybe it’s just him lol…I txt him and he rarely replied too…cited busy. I just don’t want to experience another “worse nightmare” again so I cut it off…
Based on my experience, I actually had beautiful relationship with cancer (excellent sex and everything…perfect together and we love each other very much, I was always happy but we had to breakup for some…ehhh, special situation
, very sad), I also had great relationship with Scorpio guys (my own kind). Was in relationship with 2, and they both were brilliant…if not because some personal life choice reason, I could have married any one of them and have a “happily ever after”. They treated me as I am the princess and always made sure I felt so loved…plus, never had jealous issues and very loyal…I wish to meet another great Scorpio or Cancer…plz no more Aqaurius!!! But I noticed that Aquarius easily fall for me…most of the “pursuers” I have/had are Aquarius guys…!!! @@ But I just can’t try that again any more. This recent one only last for a few weeks and I am already drained…I don’t want drama in my life, life is too short, I don’t want to have to always be so careful what to say when to give him space, and switch on and off according to his schedule…it seems when he’s up and sweet, i have to be on the same level, when he’s cold and distant, i have to understand and give him the space…why can’t he think of how I feel and what I need? Anyway, that’s my story…
CV there you are girl, I’ve been a thinkin about cha’. Time and time again, adivice is offered not to worry about things. If we could, we WOULD, right? But that’s just not so. So, instead just go with the flow. When your feelin sad and blue, (since it’s spring time)
1. Go to the grocery store and buy ALL the Goodies!!!
(warning! don’t buy the kind of goodies that in a week you feel even worse. i.e. frozen food, chips, and soda)
Sorbet and a Big ol thing of juicy berries, (your choice) stick it in a BIG bowl and put whip cream on it. Eat it and eat and let your tears flow.
2. Then go to your nearest drug store (walgreens, bartells, where ever) and buy a new nail polish and mascara.
3. Take the luxury bath of your life and doll yourself up.
4. Then Get 1 of 2 things, either go to the pet store and buy a pretty Beta Fish. Fish ONLY, don’t go get a new dog or cat, just a fish okay. And jazz up the fish’s tank. Cool colored rocks, some fresh Lucky Bamboo ( for oxygen and it’s pretty too) mabey even a little house for the fish
OR….
Go to a place you know that sells awesome plants. And bring one home. If your brave go for a flowering plant, those thake a little more effort and care, but I suggest ( a jade rose, a jade plant, a cactus, or the kind that are almost impossible to kill) Give it a nice little pot and a name.
5. Then come back to us and we’ll chit chat it up. We are your friends. We’re all friends here right?
Well that’s how I feel. Take it easy girl…
Hey Rutu,
Have been out of action. Have no friends to turn to in person for talk or shoulder to lean on. Been going through a tough phsae. I mean three years won’t end suddenly. He said, all he could offer was platitudes and cliches and couldn’t help me much. He was very nice and kind when we spoke. Very, very friendly and made me really comfortable and let me talk as mucha s I wanted to. I kinda clammed up, so wrote to him later and he said sure i could do so. So I wrote him but he said since he had nothing but cliches to give, hemight take time to repsond or even not at all. He said he understood how I feel about him, as he also went througha bad relationship in the aspt and found it hard to get over it. But he’s a fanatastic person and I don’t know how I can get over him. It’s been really hard over the past few weeks and I keep breaking down in random places and have been intensely hurting. The sad part is I don’t have good friends to turn to. Three years man.. It’s going to be bad for sometime.
Oh my god.
Rose wrote about her experience with the Aqua guy who has her camera… Many times she asked for it back and he wouldn’t answer or show up…?
That totally happened to me with the Aquarius/Pisces guy.
God!
For a year I had been trying to meet with him, and remind him, to please give me back my high school yearbook………
Call, leave a message, text….
No answer, whatsoever! Geeeeez!
Of course it hurt me so much.
I’d thought, “What, no respect for me, not even enough to return my OWN yearbook?”
(This was after I had given up hope of us ever getting together because he was tooooo distant. Omg. I’m telling you, we hung out with the same group, and he greeted and talked to everyone except me! The wind was luckier – at least he KNEW it existed.)
I had to ask two girl friends to get my yearbook back for me.
The Aquarian lesbian (who actually fell for me, geez, was I shocked – I thought she was merely a tomboy) called that Aquarian guy and talked about stuff – hahahaha – I remember thinking, “Wow, he’s so friendly with a STRANGER, on the PHONE, talking about his personal life… and he won’t talk to ME.” (Of course that hurt, it made me cry quite aa few times. Alone. I couldn’t even show anyone else my tears!)
Eventually, my friend told him that she’s MY friend, and that she actually called to help me get my yearbook back, because I. Was GOING. To MOVE. AWAY.
Which was true. I was moving away to a faraway place and I hadn’t informed our mutual friends, because I was sulking with resentment for their (apparently false, to me) reports about him always talking about me, and liking me; their reports about how much of a GOOD friend he was; while I never, never experienced any evidence of those from that damned Aqua.
Anyway my friend got my yearbook back.
I never said goodbye to that Aqua guy. I never planned to meet him again.
Of course that hurt so much. Sooo much.
…
I was still 18 then.
Also bound by rules of the home, scared of my family and what they’d think. I listened too much to other people. Waaay too secretive. Our girl friends had commented about my poker face. No emotion ever showed. I was too afraid to tell those frivolous people, how deeply, very deeply I felt for the Aqua guy. Because I didn’t understand it myself, why I would be so attracted to him when he wasn’t what I’d been looking for.
I also had NO knowledge of astrology.
So I pretty much interpreted his actions, unaware that he is an alien, and that you can’t really “interpret” him, they way you “interpret” other people.
When I read Linda Goodman’s description of Aquarius… I scoffed, huh… rainbows? weirdness? give me a break…
But the attitudes in love was spot on, especially the “grapefruit juice squirt in the eye.”
…….
Fast forward… today… I’m more open-minded with my Scorpio/Aqua guy… Of course, driven bonkers several times, but I also broke through my limitations quite a few times, thanks to him. I really want to keep him. He’s a treasure. I’m hoping very few women realize that so that I don’t have much competition, hehehehe
Hi everyone.
I’m Cancer (red alert!) with Scorpio rising.
All the men I’ve crushed on, or actually considered having serious relationships with, have always been Aquarius Suns or Risings.
First true love – Aquarius/Pisces cusp.
First boyfriend – Aquarius (The Week of the Genius)
Current C.R.A.Z.E. – Triple Scorpio + Aquarius rising
He acts more Aquarius than Scorpio.
I’m totally living out his Scorpio excessive-thinking-and-feeling for him.
Except for the sex part. He’s living all that out for me. He’s stranger than most: Scorpio + Aquarius, can u imagine?
I didn’t even mention his Mars/Uranus conjunction, AND Pluto in his 8th house.
In the beginning he was repulsive to me.
And then I found out I couldn’t imagine life without him.
So I had to have him.
And that’s how I had to Google our rising signs (Scorpio, Aquarius), and ended up here.
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”how would i know if a scorp girl is intersted in me..”
Every Scorpio girl is different.
But like someone said above, ahem… Dare to look her in the eye. Fixed gaze means you look good to her, at least. (When water-sign people say “look good,” they don’t necessarily mean “model-beautiful.” Our standards of beauty very well include the person’s “spirit,” which other signs tend to miss.) An even longer-lasting gaze means, she’s hooked. She will also be transfixed by the cornucopias, rainbows, rainforest flowers, shooting stars in your eyes. (I had this experience with the Aqua-Pisces guy when we bumped into each other in the busy mall. I think we stared at each other for a couple minutes too long, despite our previous non-communications, AND his friend beside him.)
I will repeat what some girl(s) have said in the older posts, about Aquarius men… And I’d say it is the truth about Scorpio women as well.
“You’ll never know a Scorpio/Aquarius is into you, until they let you know…”
By their own free will. =)
Okay seriously though. Try a subtle, exciting romantic gesture on her…. If she entertains it, you’re definitely in, you have a chance.
And she is indeed a VERY beautiful god made creature..No doubt about it..But im shy to use such language. But i will try…..
Aahhh… Jenny, thanks for those beautiful words..
I will will will follow it. But the problem is that we both have busy schedule. But she does show interest in talking to me and prefers when only we are together but doesnt make special efforts to be together….
Most of the time its me who look away when she is looking in my eyes becase i am sort of shy… And she often smiles like she knows about me or somthing and i want to avoid it so i just look away…
Thanks for advice again….
Rutu, spend alone time with her , talks and teases her nicely.Carrying things for her or helping her with cooking or study! Use your beautiful eyes to stare at her while you two talking and see how she responds.If she stares back at you sometimes or asks you to play a staring game with her, join in too! She might ask you why you’re staring at her , tell her she’s a very beautiful God made creature and you like looking at her.She might be shy and looks away.After awhile , expressing your interest if you see that she spends more and more time with you, away from the other guys, that she also stares at you, that she enjoys your stare instead of calling you a weird guy! Scorpio women normally will express their interest when she sees the man pays special attention to her.I think Aqua and Scorp are quite similar in that way, only express things when they feel safe and trust with the others.Go ahead and enjoy your beautiful love.:)
i concur
Thanks for the Advice Rutu. Next time it happens I will tell him.
As far as the scorpio girl you are diggin on, Well, when I am into a guy you can tell it in my eyes. My eyes can not lie. My eyes light up when Paul walks into the room.
I smile at him alot too.
Hey CV where are you..? what happned..?
And where is Lili too…I am waiting for further stories Lili…
Now a question for you girls….
The very basic question but it still important and difficult to answer…”how would i know if a scorp girl is intersted in me..”
We both know there is connection and we are good friends of each other in our group… When i feel she is being really nice to me and feel as more than friends, she will be very nice to everyone in the group so i dont get the confirmation that she is being special to just me…. she is a wonderful friend and defends and takes care of her frineds soooo if she behaves like that to me then its nothing special as she is protective and caring towards eveyone who is her frind..
She will always laugh at my jokes or of anyone else.. i somtime think she laughs too much.. but she does discusses thinks with me that she wouldnt with other friends… its always me who will initiate the conversation on messengers… as far as my knowledge she did it just once when i hadnt contacted her for 3-4 days.. What are the things i should look at for some hints..
She is sweet but VERY stubborn…and can be cold.. so i want to be sure before i show my affection for her.
Paro,
I feel sorry dear that you are crying…
I wish the pain fades out soon.
you said you and him were not on the same page…you were looking for something serious and he wasnt perhaps ready for it… OK..
Well if you are sure that he wasnt ready for it then your decision is rite.. your goals were different and its sooner the better to end things if there are core differences like this. Remember only attraction can not save a relationship.. you need trust, COMMUNICATION and mutual understanding and respect in addition to that.
Did you ask him if he was looking for a serious relationship or just sex budies…? Did you during the time of ur relationship discussed things like that..? Remember what i said to Scorpgal and I dont know how many times i said it earlier here…”Good Communication”….
Please dont take for granted the other person understnds your body language or ur emotional needs or whatever it is that is bothering you…you need to talk..well scorpio girls are good at reading people but not everyone is.. You know why air signs get along good with each others..becoz they communicate.
I dont knw if i helped much but take care of yourself…
If he wasnt looking for a long relationship then he wasnt the right person for you. It would have been worse to continue the relationship thinking he would change his mind sometime later… TOO RISKY…
So take care and time will heal the pain..
Hello Scorpgal,
Well first of all i will apologise that though u asked NOT to I did smile a little at the situation becoz even i have the same problem…..
I mean i know people think aquas dont get jealous but thats wrong.. I do get jealous BUT would NEVER admit or show it.
Now for ur situation… I think he should understand from the exprience with his earlier relationships that even though that actress is just no where in the picture in our daily life, it is expected that we keep our praise and admiration reserved for our lovers, especially in the early time of the relationships….But when i was single (I am still now) praising giving compliments to actress i adored (angelina joli..spelling wrong) was soooo natural whenever i would see her on screen. Now thats fine as long as i was single but these habits took time to change when i began my first relationship..(with a tauraus). I wouldnt have found out she had problem with it if she had not said or made it clear somehow…. We aquas are not really good at understanding emotional needs of the people so i keep telling we need guidance on that from our lover…. One thing i can assure is that all problems can be solved by simple nice talk. U dont like him praising other actresses…JUST SAY IT TO HIM.. Tell him you JUST dont like it. what will he think…? that u r jealous.. that ur crazy… whatever it is…But more than that he will understand that ur SERIOUS. He will be little flattered and WILL STOP doing it.
And TRUST me…. when he is loving you…he is loving YOU AND YOU ONLY….. So dont even think he is thinking of some actress while you are making love… That’s dishonesty in Aquas eyes..
Sooo…can you try the suggestion, of just telling him to stop praising actresses like that. I personally wouldnt have mind if my girlfrind had said such thing to me.. Well i would have been suprised for a minut or two… but i would have stopped doing it since she didnt like it.
So cool down…..I very well understand that at THAT moment you must be very angry and its annoying if the same thing happens again and again but it happend again and again because u didnt say anything to him earlier…and he is not that good at understanding emotional needs..But remember at the root of it, its a small problem..which can be solved by some good communication skills… Just go ahead and get rid of this small issue thats bothering your wonderful relationship….
you know, i believe its you who can bring out the best in him and him who can bring out best in you.
All rite… Take care..
scorpgal,
the post above was a reply to yours
well, i had initially intended to totally sever the relationship and leave no trace whatsoever, but he would like us to be friends. i replied back with terms to the friendship and he hasn’t written back…
like u, i won’t ask, so i ddn’t…
well, do you know what he wants out of the relationship? did you ask him.. i know that is hard to do because we just go with our gut.
My guy just tells me. Thank good ness because I know I will not ask.
is he ok with just being friends?
I am sorry you are crying .. i know it hurts so much!! we love so deep.
Rutu,
could you help me…tell me something… I think i messed up. I only reacted out of anger
Scorpgal,
I am 21 he is 27 and we are in different stages- i am in school he works. I actually spend the entire night crying over my decision since i liked him soooooooo much, but i know it was for the best. Of course, he asked we remained friends. I agreed only under the conditions that there is no sex involved and that i get time to kill off my feelings for him otherwise i would end up jumping all over him and end up in the same limbo all over gain. Then we could move on to being platonic friends- ahhhhhhhhhhh! idk… at least that’s what i said.
BTW PARO,
My Aqua and I do the cute text thing all the time. But there has been more to it.
It is strange how much these relationships between aquaman and scorpio gals have in common.
I dont know how old you two are.. But age makes a difference.
I know as a scorpio girl, some of the things that i would just fly off the handle and do – I have more under control now. I usally give myself a couple of days to process now.
I weed out the emotions and get down to what I really want before I make a choice. It works better now.
Good luck with it!!
After 3 months I finally got irritated with my aqua guy.
I need some advice or some insight from an another aqua guy.
This guy is 48 and I am 39. We are awesome together.
We are in love and I know that. We have been together 3 months next week and not one argument or anything. I have to say that with him I am calmer and I am able to let some stuff go.
BUT.(AND DONT laugh )This has been the ONLY thing that has irritated me since we have been together.
when we watch movies he will tell me how sexy / gorgeous a leading lady is.
Well, I understand that Charlize, Jessica Beal (not sure on the spelling) are gorgeous. But, can u just keep that to yourself? Why he has to let me know how sexy they are is beyond me. That is the perfect thing to say if you do not want me to be all over you that night.
So, last night, while watching “meet Joe Black” the leading girl role shows up and he has to say “there she is, she is so sexy”
Then he is looking at me like I am crazy because I have put my self in a non cuddle position. NOT going to happen.
so, when he looks at me I am acting like I dont even notice and when he ask me what is wrong I tell him I am just tired. Then he tells me that I look tired.
GREAT!! so, she is sexy and I look tired!!!
I did not tell him what I was thinking.. BUT I know from my body language that he knew something was wrong but was probaly afraid to ask. (dont blame him)
SO, what I am trying to figure out is this whole fantasy world they go to.
It is not like Charlize Theorion (spelling wrong) is going to come to Texas and sweep him off his feet. Or him hers.
So what is the point? Why say something like that? Is he trying to get a rise out of me? He wont. I will not give him that satisfaction.
So, I pull away emotionally and pretend nothing is wrong.
I just dont get it. Why can he not just keep it to himself?
I am just the type that if I want someone – no matter who it is, I am going to go for it. I just dont go to “fantasy world”
RUTU!! Or someone, please give me insight on this one.
I know it sound silly.. but when I say something like “if Charlize came to town, you and I are over” I would mean it.
I am not throwing in the towel or anything like that. I just want to understand. Hopefully then I will be ok. I know most people are not as “serious” as scoripios can be.
My friends have told me that is silly – but – that is how I am feeling and it is not silly to me.
So, is he making love to me and thinking about them? If so, I am soooo done with it.
help me before I say something i will reqret or do something I regret…. like ditching his ass!
I am the type that would dump him just because. But I dont want to do that because I do love him.
So, i broke off ties with my aqua today. Lately, i had been feeling that we were not on the same page. i mean i wanted something solid and i didn’t think that’s what he had in mind. My patience level was running low and cute texts and e-mails weren’t cutting it for me anymore. Therefore, i wished him luck on his pursuits and i will go my own way.
Hi Devon,
I read the whole story and i believe irrespective of the guy’s sign you should do what u have planed to do. that is tell him the whole thing about you and let him decide what he wants… Honesty is the best policy,especially with Aquas.
He seems to be really infatuated with you… so most probably he will want to be with you. But he will see that serious side of yours and will think before taking things too lightly..
Now what he will choose also depends a lot on his age.. Aquas mostly prefer to settle down late. So he might not be in mood for somthing serious but as he seems to be soo interested in you he might want to be in serious relationship.. But all that will get clear when you will talk to him.
So I TOTALLY agree with your decision of you talking face to face and clear cul.. GO FOR IT.
Hey, I read through this thread to find some guidance in what I am experiencing with this Aqua guy I met. First of all, I’m still in love with a Tarus and I made a decision to stay in love with him even though our romanic relationship ended. I said to my self that man/woman stuff isn’t for me and that I am
happy being celibate. Me and TarusBoy went through a lot at least on my end and we are still incontact but it hurts to accutally see him. I really need to focus on job/ gradschool and musicial pursuits so my plate canbe full. But one night after a long, bad
day at work I decided to go to a show that some friends were playing. It was midweek, rainy and I was a bit soften by wine when I went out. I ended up having a great time. However, this guy kinda hitched on to me during the night. I was talking with my friends ( the band) and he was there. A bit later, he bought me a drink b/c he followed me to the bar. A had no red flags that he was up to something and accepected. Normally, I don’t even let a guy get that far with me. I ended up talking with him, about my bad work day and getting onmy Soap box about random things. I remember I was definaletly fussy and and dominating the converstaion. However, he ended up asking me to go get something to eat with him. Again, I didn’t think any thing creepy, so I agreed. We tried some afterhours place which was packed and then we went to a drive-thru. He then said let’s go to my place, which started me to get suspious. We got to
his apt. and bit into ourfood and then the akward silence…….. he asked to kiss me. I said ‘Yes’ just thinking it was going to be a makeout thing. He kissed me once passionately, then again and said “you’re killing me!” then he said he needed to take me back to my car. So we left. On the way he kissed me again and asked me out I said “O.K.” still kinda not really thinking he was serious. I ended up leaving my cell # with him.
The next day, I was motified. I actually hoped that he didn’t call. I am not one of those random encounter chicks. I was thinking that I got really lucky and he was just saying he would call to sound like a good guy. So the days went by and I started to feel better that I dodged that bullet. But by the weekend I get a call, thinking that the number I saw was from someone I have a musical contact with. But it was him (AquaBoy). And he asked me out. Again, normally I’m just cold with potenial suitors but at the same time he caught me off guard and I don’t like lying to people to get out of things. I ended up going out the next day. It was a decent date, we even kissed again.
But long storyshort we went out a couple of times in two weeks and each time its become more intriguing and even more
intimate that I would have imagined. I have never felt so open mentally with anyone before, even when I dated a Aqua before years ago(he had ISSUES though). I figured with my years that I was too old (33yrs) to be cute and try to be attractive, esp after that 1st night when I was darn near activist/political. But I have also been radio listen when it comes to contacting him. I only just emailed him for the first time the other day when he has called me several times. My mind I’m still fixed on this TarusGuy who broke my heart, but now I’m starting to believe that this new guy has a chance. I NEVER THOUGHT THIS WOULD HAPPENED!!! I definately wasn’t looking or flirting. I told him my age I found out he’s 27 and he doesn’t care. And I have avoided him asking me to my place, even though he knows I live alone and has asked to come pick me up. I honestly don’t want to have sex with anyone now not even the Tarus Dude because I was so hurt. I guess I could have
blown him off several times by now, but this is so new where I feel drawn in but in control. And there are some things that concern me like he’s a drummer and I don’t see any stable income, while I work a normal-ish dayjob and play my music ( Semi-successfully).
If I should continue this I would want it to be serious, I ask you Aqua Guys if that can be possible. And if so, can I be taken seriously despite my stone-wall devotion and more than comfortable curiousity in your daily goings on? I feel like right now I have a “I don’t care”Attitude which makes me seem stand offish or even laid back/ Attractive in his eyes. But I’m just really scared and a bit confused at what has happened. I do like him, that I know for certain. I made a date with him on Saturday and I feel like I want to laid all this stuff out to him so that I can more than likely run him off, but secretly hoping he’s the one to try to care for the real me that I let slip on a tipsy Wed. night. So Aqua Guys….. What can you advise?
CV, keep your chin up. I wish I had more advice for you, but I would not know what to do either! Once I am in love, I am in love. But, even if it doesnt work out… surely there will be a day that you are glad.
you will meet that certain someone!!!!
Hey rutu,
Hmmm, I get what you are saying here. I need to see his side too like you advised earlier. I was actually wondering yesterday about his work committments etc. I have clearly been thinking too much on my side only. Hmm.. Well, when the talk happens between us, I guess things should become clearer. Yeah, I need to be rational and accept whatever comes now.
Onwards Intrepid explorers!
Cheers
Question … why does the person on this site keep removing my posts??? thats just wrong buddy!!
Rutu, I don’t blame Lili or that Aqua man at all.Only stating the things that I wouldn’t do to others.I just feel a bit sad about things people can do to the others.Perhaps, my ideals of a world is just not how others would like it to be.This contradiction has made me feel stronger than ever though…..
Though I certainly think Lili was right to tell his wife.He was quite a coward and a manipulator.However, probably, he was just sad and displeased with his wife for his demand “having another baby” was rejected…
Ya Jenny… getting involved with a married man is wrong but more than hers its HIS mistake. It should be his priority to take care of his marriage. I would blame him…
You are certainly very adventurous! I don’t think I can do that at all.The fact that I hurts the person the man exchanged vows will surely kill me before I even recognise my feeling.Also, coming from a very hard background and seeing people closet to me got hurt for all the “wrong” choices they made, I’ve sworn to protect everyone come across my life, even people I haven’t met yet.
Lili..
You are an adventurous girl….
Part 4-
Back on the Boat for the Winter Season. Alex still hasn’t gotten a divorce and He won’t ask her to. He wants Her to leave him. Alex says, more than anything, he wants to have a baby. And He tells me if I get pregnant, She will be sure to leave. So although I’m not In Love with him, I do Love Him and I could see us settling down. When I met Him, he appeared so unhappy, and I just knew I could fix that. So day after day, we would work, and night after night, we began trying to get pregnant. Funny thing is, It just wasn’t happening.
After a 3 month winter season, Alex and I went home to meet my parents. We had dinner and watched football, ( MY FAVORITE!!!) AND my family knew the whole relationship story. (That he was married and all) Alex assured my Mother that He Loved Me and that he was going to divorce his wife.
The next Day, my treat I took Him on a road trip to Oregon. I took Him hot air ballooning, wine tasting, on a murder mystery train, and to the museum of flight.
We had so much fun, but enough was enough and I do have a conscience. So when Alex went back to Mexico, I called his wife and confessed. Everything!
Well I won’t go into great detail, but He ended up choosing Her and switching boats.
I eventually quit fishing and moved on to explore more that this brain of mine seemed to be interested in. Traveling, School, and most important Family.
When Alex comes to Seattle he calls me to meet up, when He is fishing he writes me 3 or 4x a week. When my Birthday comes around, He sends me a package.
And above all he tells me I changed his Life. After 20 years His wife finally decided to have another baby with him. Given His friendly and flirtacious nature, I don’t take His ( Baby, Kisses, or I Love You’s) to heart.
Mabey He does, Mabey He doesn’t, but I learned my lesson, it was a fun ride, but I won’t go back.
Rutu-
Engineering, awesome! I am studying to be a Deep Sea Diver.
When God created us he didn’t create signs, he created indivduals. A woman wants to feel like she is unique, special, and the only one. The prettiest flower in the garden. Everyone’s heart beats, we feel nervousness, excitment, jealousy, joy, anger, sadness, acception, and rejection. I could go on and on. But if there is one thing I can’t stand, it is to be compared to someone else. I’m not her, I’m not him, I am ME. Nothing strikes me more in a conversation than to addressed to, by my very own name.
And through reading over past comments in here, You, JohnnyStrangeLove, D and whom ever else seemed to have diffrent opinions, points of views, places that you all came from and ways that you all were raised. And with my history of Aquarian friends, I’ve noticed a person in each of them. And that aloofness crap, is exactly that CraP! They love to be the center of attention, they are extremely passionate and attentive, and to top it off they do get jealouS.
I’ll be right back, I have to go get my bucket from outside, I’m collecting rain water to feed my plants and it looks full!
Thanks for that CV…
first of all dont feel u did anything wrong by being upfront with ur feelings with him… it takes courage to do that. you know the situation between u and him better than me. so if u believe he has feelings for u then it could be so. Observe his actions when u meet him.. BUT if u dont find him having feelings for u then just accept it. Please dont try to see somthing because u want to see it. Again i still believe u know the situation better. Also just hving feelings doesnt necessarily means the person is going to act on those feelings… I have had felt attraction towards number of girls befor but doesnt mean that i will always pursue the attraction. there are number of things to be considered like his future plans, or maybe he is just not ready for a relationship or settlement.. could be number of things..
So this could be the explanation if u think he has feelings for u but is denying them..
@ Lili
What am i studing…? I am doing Engineering.
And yes it doesnt matter at all if ur a scorp girl or not… i would love to hear ur input. and i said it jst to confirm ur not because u said u wanted to keep ur sign a secret.. Why..? sure u will tell it later though…
and thanks of offering to help..
C u later..
@ Rutu, Scorpgal, Jenny and Lili Ann,
Thanks you guys for helping me out.
You know all those things they say about unknown faces online and how you shouldn’t believe in them etc? Well, sometimes unknown faces do give comfort.
Wish you all the love of your lives,
Cheers
PART 3
After a fun and fantastic week in California, we were off to Thailand. We arrive and I am in awe of how beautiful of a place he reserved for us to stay. It was down right luxury living. Unfortunately we were so busy with activities we only got a few hours in night to enjoy the place. Well Alex and I put away our belongings and headed off to enjoy Asia. Within our 1st couple of hours out we end up at an agency that plans fun activities for us. We went to Monk Temples to lay with and pet Tigers, we went to Rivers to Ride Elephants, we went Parachuting over water, we went to Islands to Scuba Dive and Jet Ski, I had a beautiful Red Satin Dress made special for me and Alex had a Handsome White Suit made for Him. Ha, I even ended up in the emegency room with food poisoing from a bad Oyester. It felt like True Love Ya’ll and it seemed we were both putting our ALL into it.
But I just couldn’t get his marriage out of my head and I would bring it up. One night during Love Making, he was intoxicated and I asked him if He Loved Me. He Said yes I Love You (his wifes name). I slept in the other room that night.
Well unfortunatley our time ran out and it was time to head back. We went back to California, spent one more night, then went our separate ways. Me to Washinghton and Him to Mexico.
But we only had 1 more month left of OFF SEASON before we had to go back to Alaska. So I just waited patiently.
I figured if he was spending 3/4 of a year with me and doing everything possible to show Me how much He Loved Me, well then he must want to get a divorce…
That’s enough for now, I’ll continue in Part 4 later.
Now To CV-
I am SOOOO sorry your heart is hurting. I’ve been IN LOVE once before. So much so, that I felt it in my soul. I would wish upon the stars, pluck petals off of flowers, and Pray and Pray (This is the Aquarius Guy from the past 10 years, not the married guy) but I’ll tell you all about Him Later.
You know what CV, if someone likes you, you’ll know it, AND if they are giving you THE COLD SHOULDER, you’ll know that too. At least you tried, and you don’t have to be left wondering, WHAT IF?
Surround yourself in the company of the people that make you laugh, it will help with the pain.
And To Rutu-
You seem to so attentive to all the people and their dilemmas. Thank You. I’m wondering, what are you studying in school?
You also wondered if I was a Scorpio, what if I was, what if I wasn’t, would it matter? Either way, I’m a woman and I know what women want. So if you have any questions… Feel free, I’m sure we would all Like to help..
Good Night Everyone
Ah ha I wasted my time, now I gotta write all over again. Silly Computer
I wrote way earlier, like 10 hrs ago and moderation is taking forever! I’m just typing something else to see if this will go through
CV, you’re such a sweet and honest Scorpio girl.I wish there are more and more others like you…Don’t listen to public opinions.How would they understand how you feel? Everyone can give opinions but it doesn’t mean that they’re right.In fact , I think some of them are even jealous at your bravery! You love someone and you’re not a coward to show it.Be brave and be proud.I believe you will find your true love very soon and that guy is very lucky to have such a special girl like you.In the meantime, just spread that beautiful love of yours to everyone in need
Rutu,
(( No, I mean to say that he didn’t begin avoiding me after I told him of my feelings. I meant to say that all of a sudden he cut off much before I told him. But strangely is in contact with our mutual friends. I don’t have an explanation for this behavious of his. When do you aquas cut off?
thanks… It will take some time for me to get over him. A long time.
Of course I want to continue being friends. But I cannot believe even for a second that he has no feelings for me. I know he is lying.
I never felt the need to tell anyone about my love for him as much as this man. I am not even the sort of girl who runs after men. And now my friends are accusing me by saying that it was my fault that I believed in something that never was and I was the one who went overboard with something like this…:(( I mean love has no definitions. I just waited until I felt okay and went upto him. And I was beginning to break down emotionally so i needed to get it out of my system. better out than in..
Yeah, I hope he understands and remains a good friend. And I do hope Rutu, that things will get better.
CV….
Calm down dear….
I know it hurts..
3 years is a long time. See we appreciate honesty. and he will apreciate that u talked about it. if he wanted to ignore u he wouldn’t have agreed to meet u in the first place. He could have easily made some excuse like he is busy or somthing…So when he has said yes to meeting u that means he has prepared to see u show some emotions, as its natural. My guess is that he will ask u to understand the situation and insist on being friends.
Now u know somtimes it bcomes somwhat ockward. I mean u just expressed ur feelings and he is denying it to be mutual, so even when one tries to show that everything will be just as before there is still some discomfort when he will face u. so that could be one of the reason behind him avoiding u…
I think he will try to cheer u up when u will meet him…
I think he should consider himself rather special for having someone like u loving him….
you will get the better idea about his feelings when u will meet him..
Take care and dont worry..
things will work out for the best…
And to Rutu,
I was flipping through the past notes, so I can be in tune with everyone’s stories. And I noticed you asked me if I was A Scorpio. Does it matter?
QUICKIE-
To CV, I am so sorry to hear that your heart is hurting right now. Truth be told, if someone likes you, you’ll know it, and if you’re getting the cold shoulder, you’ll know that too.
I too am in Love with Someone (Aquarius Guy) that I’ve adored for near to 10 yrs. Some nights my heart hurts so bad that I can feel it in my soul. I’ve wished upon many stars, plucked many leaves off of flowers, and prayed and prayed. But I still lay alone.
I tell you about it after the married guy.
Part 3
After about a week in California we’re on our way to Thailand! Cute, cuddly, kissing, couple.
When we arrive at our Hotel I am in aw of how beautiful of a place that he chose for us. It seemed like an apartment.
We put our things away and off to enoy Asia we went. We end up at an agency that plans your whole vacation for you. We went to Temples to lay with Tigers, Rivers to Ride on Elephants, Islands to scuba Dive, and I even ended up in the emergency room on food poisoning from some bad Oysters. It was awsome, but I would still pick fights here and there. WHO CAN BLAME ME, WHO WANTS TO SHARE THEIR MAN. But of course he isn’t mine, and never was.
One night in the middle of our Love Making, he was intoxicated and calls me his Wifes name!
Well the vacation ends and we go our separate ways in California, only to meet up again for our next fishing season about a month later…
And the Saga Continues in Part 4 and things are surely going down hill ya’ll…
By the way Jenny, you’re absolutely RIGHT! TO ALL PEOPLE, NEVER, I MEAN NEVER, EVER, EVER, EVER, GET INVOLVED WITH A MARRIED PERSON.
Rutu,
Hi. Yeah I just asked him to sit with me so that we can talk and I can just tell him what all has been going on on my side and clear the air up. He was caught a little bit unawares. He agreed to see me and talk with me.
I don’t know. deep in my heart I don’t think it is a “No” at all. I just can’t believe it. This was a big thing for me. I fell really in love with him. And he could only say ” i’d be dishonest if I said the feeling is mutual. ” and it will painful and there is no easy way to deal with this. He was very straightforward and honest. I thank him for that. But he was very special for me. I mean loving someone for three years and then only to find out that its going nowhere.
I am currently “mourning”. It’s hurting a lot. It is my first major heartbreak. He was really special to me.
((((
How do I get over him? Yes, I want to continue being friends cause he taught me a lot and I don’t want to burn bridges. When I go see him, is it okay if I lose my emotions? I will try and control them. But if at all I start crying it isn’t wrong, no? I just want to tell him all about what was going on on my side. And hear his side too. And get a reassurance that he isn’t angry with me and will continue being friends. Cause we both volunteer for the same NGo and will continue running into each other till he moves.
I don’t know. And he suddenly stopped reading my blog two months before I told him. but still continues reading all our friends’ blogs. Just mine all of a sudden. And is slowly has been cutting off communication until I suddenly told him out of the blue recently about how I feel. After all those signs. My heart usually is right. I can’t believe it failed me this time. I knew in my heart that the letter held a no. But somehow it is also saying that the “no” is not true.
I don’t know how to handle myself now.:((
Stay away from married men, Lili.Aqua or not, they are still men.I’ve seen many of my friends fell into this trap.The ending is never pretty.The men always promise them moon and stars but in the end , all lies.I’ve tried in vain to stop my friend.I’m happy now that she realised what a dangerous place she was in.Don’t play with fire, it’ll burn you.Many people say they can have a “deep” friendship with married people , that’s an alarm call because there is usually an underlying physical attraction between them.Even , they both try to control it, it’ll turn into a destructive force that can destroy the friendship that they try to build for years.That’s why to keep a beautiful friendship with married people, one has to know where are the boundaries and respect it.Otherwise, it’s hard to accomplish that desired goal: friendship.
Hey CV..
Sorry to hear that….
But ur gonna remain friends with him, rite…?
take care…
@ Lili
Part-3…
Part 2:
So I go to Alex’s office. He has coffee fresh made and we start to drink. He’s acting a little nervous. I come direct with how old are you and are you married? He says he’s 39 and yes he is married. I ask him do you love your wife? He says yes. They have 1 son together and they’ve been married for 20 years.
Hmmm? I’m wondering why in hell is hitting on me then?
He let’s me know how pretty he thinks I am and how he has noticed me since the first day.
By that evening, after work, I’m in his room eating ice cream. He makes his first move. He tries kissing on my neck and lips. To my recollection I backed off and got kinda mad. He got all appologetic, but the secret meetinbg didn’t stop… I went back and back and back. The relationship became common knowledge on the boat.
Now supposedly he is falling in Love.
So later that season one of our co workers from Thailand is getting married and invited all the crew to his wedding. The captain, other bosses, and us.
FOR ANYONE WHO DOESN’T KNOW, FISHING IS A 16 HR A DAY 7 DAY A WEEK JOB THAT CAN LAST UP TO 6 MONTHS.
So Alex hasn’t been home to see his wife yet.
Now he has to figure out an excuse to go home after so long and leave immediatley again on vacation without her. Some how he does it and off season we meet 1/2 way in California. All expenses paid by him.
While we’re in California he takes me to Disney Land and diffrent beaches and cruising around Universal Studios. By about now I’m starting to not like the idea that he is married and I want him to divorce. Every couple days we’ll have a fight about her. He says he does want to divorce her it will just take some time…
I’LL LEAVE IT AT THAT FOR NOW… CATCH ME IN PART 3
Hey Scorpgal!
Yes, it’s going to be tough for some time to come. But anyway, not telling him was worse. At least he knows now and he’s being nice about it.
I don’t know why, but I think he is the right person for me.
(
CV – Dang it. I am sorry. I hate that crap.
You should be proud of yourself for taking a chance.
One of these days when you find your right guy, you will be glad this did not work out.
I waited so long and now that I have the right guy ~ I look back on the ones that I wanted and was rejected by or hurt by and Now I am so freaking glad that they did not work out.
He is NOT the right guy for you. So, be glad you did not waste too much time.
I know it suxs right now because you are hurting. Well, I wish I could help you thru it.
So that I don’t confuse anyone, I’ll start with one story at a time. How about the married guy? He was a roller coaster ride! His name will be Alex.
I’m 21 years old and 2 years into fishing. The only girl on the boat. I can tend to be oblivious to my surroundings when I’ve been working 16 hrs a day 7 days a week, but I can’t help but to notice everyday I’m down in the bootroom, suiting up, this guy is giving me the googly eyes. Finally one day I’m fed up and I stand up with all intentions to go over there and ask him “why the hell do you keep staring at me!?” Now I’m not stupid, but with 70 guys I don’t need any problems, right. So I go over to him just as he is on his way down to the factory and say… HI what’s your name? PLAN FAILED. When I got close to him, he was kinda cute and he had these cute little innocent eyes. So he responds “Alex”. Hmmm, he’s Mexican I thought to myself. Now me having lived in Mexico I respond in Spanish. Mabey I’m a showoff or mabey I just wanted to impress him, because I knew I could. I tell him that’s my favorite name, and he asks me where I learned spanish. I told him I lived in Mexico for a year. He says” if we get some downtime today, stop by my office for some coffee”.
In my head I’m like yeah you wish, but I’m also kind of tempted. It ends up I do stop by for coffee and that’s where it all begins…
Now unfortunately it’s 12 noon over here and I have to get dressed and go take care of business for the day, so I can’t go on right now, but I’ll be back…
And it’s a no.
Rutu and scorpgal thanx for your response. I agree I need to get over it, esp by now, but it just hurt alot. I think with compromise Scorpio and Aquarius can get along well in a relationship. I have female friends that are Aquas. We have a lot in common. I get along great with fix signs, I like strong individuals. But I wish the Aqua men that I have dated would have been more caring and honest with me.
Maybe I will find another Aquarius guy……
CV ~ so what if he has told you that he is totally in to you and you waited so long to open the mail?
I could not imagine what he would be feeling right now. : (
Scorpgal: Heh! I am deader than you right now.
Li’l state of balance we hang in.
Jenny: Baaad pun. :p You C, V are in a state of nerves right now. One can go on and on. :p
Yeah, I tend to take things to the heart very easily. Must be the cusp. 
Rutu: Ha ha. Yeah right I’ll give you my mail ID and password. :p I was even thinking of getting someone esle to open it up and break the bad news. GOd. :p This is turning into a little movie of sorts. Thank you so much for taking the time out for lending advice! Hmmm. So you’ve felt this “connection-vibe” thingy too eh? And there are people trying to convince me that it’s not there. For if he had any interest he would have told me ages back. He does go out of his way to help everyone. And yeah, I fall in that list too. There have been times when I was asking others and he pitched in. Or even if i wasn’t, he would give a link or a cue. It’s mostly denoting our common interests that he points out. Which is weird, it’s like boom! I like him, but ignore him and he suddenly is checking out my social network profile, reading my blog and beginning to talk etc. I guess I’m scared cause never has anyone felt so right!
Oh GOd. I’d better not discuss this too much no? Then, I’d better come back after I’ve opened the mail. Wish me good luck ye all.
Lili..
Go ahead and share ur stories… i am VERY interested…
Are u not a scorpio girl…
Alright Jenny! I totally agree. All of my Aqaurius friends and I are still totally friends. My 1st Love from 10 years ago and I are still in a relationship. At first we were 15 years old and young. He was/is such a cutie he couldn’t settle down, but after some time went by I continued my friendship with him, which was a huge payoff because 10 years later, (today) we’ve both grown a lot and now I know we’ll be in eachothers lives forever. We may even end up married in the future only time will. There has been numerous occasions where we are put in the same social scene and regardless of who or how many people are around, this guy always grabs me, pulls me close, pay total attention to me. I remember one night I was at the juke box and he came over and played a song for me. Everyone was there, that mattered in our world at the time and he didn’t care. He played a Stevie Wonder song for me, That Girl. Now on to my roomate, she and I are still cool conversational buddies. And the guy who was married, this guy took me to Asia, Disney Land, Orgeon’s Vineyards, ect. Even though he stayed married he still keeps a close relationship with me. Ofcourse his wife doesn’t know. And for the girl on the boat that turned out to be like a sister. She sent me to Africa to stay with her family for a month and a 1/2. It takes time to understand Aquarius’s tweaks and twiches. I’ve had fights with almost all of them, but our Love for eachother proved to be the winning factor, because now I have many friendships/relationships that seem like they will last a life time. TO ALL WHO ARE STIR CRAZY OVER THEM, QUIT PAYING MORE ATTENTION TO THEM THAN YOU ARE TO YOURSELF. They can be Loyal, you just have to give them a chance show you.
Just read the email like reading your “CV” , CV ! LOL!
Aquarius men are seriously not aloof or commitment phobic at all. I know a couple of them and they’re all good people,good friends.Actually,I’m in a dilemma at the moment because there are two Aqua men who are chasing me at the moment.Both keep saying they think of me all the time, even at nights.One already confessed he loved me and told me that he would change his bad habits for me .He took me home to see his friends and his family. The other I just met three days ago already wanted a serious relationship with me! I was like please slow down and be my friend first, get to know each other.I don’t want you to waste your time and effort on someone who you find out in the future not the person who you think you know.He was like I don’t care, I can’t control my feeling! He even wanted to buy a laptop just because he wants to chat with me!I tried to stop him but it’s useless because I know how stubborn Aqua me are! They are always worried that I’m upset at them if I’m distant! My goodness, what more can I ask? They’re too good for me , yet one told me that I’m an angel! I don’t want to hurt any of them so I told them both that I want to be friends.I know it would hurt them now but it is better than hurting them deeply when we get involved because of timing issue and I also need to improve my own self before getting involved with anyone.Only time will tell if I’ve a future with any of these guys.All I can say is that Aquarius men are awsome! At least the ones I know.
Rutu, thanks for all those enlightening details on how an Aquarius acts when he’s interested in more than a friendship! It totally describes my Aqua! He’s always staring at from a distance or when I look at him I always catch him looking at me. I got a hint he liked me when he hugged me all the time, but he always grabbed me on the waist.
And the way we realized we liked each other was so similar as what you explain! We had this conversation, he told me he felt attracted to me, what he liked about me. I told him I felt attracted to him too, etc. We know we like each other but there’s no romantic mushiness.
And yes, you feel the awkwardness….haha. He is very talkative with the other girls, but when he’s with me, it’s like he doesn’t know what to talk about.
Thanks for the post.
CV…..
U HAVE GOT BUNCH OF POSITIVE RESPONSES…..
GO AHEAD…OR GIVE ME UR MAIL ID AND PASSWARD AND I WILL OPEN IT……
Ok i will have to write it all over again…
i think ur having the common confusion that most people have about aquas… how to differentiate between simple friendliness.. i think he could be interested in u as he is trying to break touch barrier.. had it been just a friendly touch he wouldnt have been ackward and hesitant.. it would have been more like a arm around shoulder, not around ur back, Lightly…
Even if i am interested in someone when its in earlier stage i will keep my feelings secret., even from my friends. as i need to sort out number of things.. like once developing an interest next job is to understand her better..! so i will ask her personal questions..about what she likes and doesnt like etc. etc. her favourte songs and moves anything that helps me understand her.. does he talk to u like that..?
also when there is attraction there is a sort of ackwardness when i am around that person.. now over some time i will get more confident and this ackwardness will reduce but if it was there initially then it shows more than frindliness..
even when he is ignoring u, is he there when u need some help.. u wont have to ask him, does he voluntry comes up for it? if u are feeling a connection seeing him eye to eye there are good chances he is feeling it tooo.. but its the begining and so u cant expect him to say these things to his friends.. i keep my feelings to myself. i keep them from even close friends of mine coz i dont like my feelings being discussed. u and he will be the first to know not his friends…
me and my scorp girl do have this connection. and only both of us knew it. we never never said anything about it. it was understood. i thought she didnt realise but she did. and we followed it by spending more time with each other..
actions speak.. rite..? she said it once,”its good that we think alike”. and the other time quite erlier when we were sitting in a room she said,”i like to be with u in a big room, lets hope nobody distrubs us”. it doesnt have to be romantic..
another hint is i pay close attention to her.. stare her BUT when she is not watching.. listen to her carefully, remember small details of what she said. so much so that she is suprised at times..and says like,” oh u remember”.
well he is giving u stares, paying special attention that ur comfertable during travel. just showing in many ways that he cares… ITS GOOOOOD.
u r rite in thinking he could be pulling bck as he is having to go away.. and we dont like emotional mess..so he will try to keep it light but should include a positive note for future scope for development…
SO Dear CV, PLEASE Please open the mail now…
CV – Girl, open the mail!! The suspense is killing me!
WELL, WELL, WELL. IT SEEMS TO ME AQUARIUS’S DRIVE PEOPLE INSANE! I AM THE MASTER OF MEETING AQUARIUS’S. I AM FEMALE. MY FIRST LOVE IS AQUARIUS, THEN HE SPLIT WITH NO REASON, BROKE MY HEART. THEN ME AND THIS GIRL BECOME FRIENDS FROM WORK AND SHE WANTS TO BE ROOMATES, SHE HAPPENS TO BE AQUA. THAT LASTS ABOUT 2 YEARS, THEN WE MOVE ON FROM EACHOTHER. I GET A NEW JOB IN IN ALASKA AS A FISHERWOMAN END UP DATING THIS MARRIED MAN FOR 2 YEARS, HE’S AQUA (AND BY THE WAY MARRIED TO A SCORPIO.) THAT FELL OUT, OF COURSE. THEN A GIRL WHO I FEEL SORRY FOR BECAUSE PEOPLE TALK SO MUCH CRAP ABOUT HER ON THE BOAT BECOME BEST FRIENDS LIKE SISTERS, TURNS OUT TO BE AQUA, THAT DIDN’T GO TOO WELL UTIMATLEY. AND FINALLY THE LAST GUY I HOOKED UP WITH 8 MONTHS AGO FOR A COUPLE MONTHS ENDS UP BEING AQUA. I DON’T SCOUT THEM OUT THEY FIND ME! SUCK ME IN AND THEN SUCK ME DRY. THIS IS BY MEN AND WOMEN. I’VE LEARNED A LOT ABOUT THEM OVER THE PAST TEN YEARS AND I FEEL LIKE THE GURU NOW. theres been other aquariu’s along the way. im open to share my stories and experiences in more detail if any one cares to ask and know.AND BELIEVE ME THEY GET JUICY. i might also learn something. IF THERE’S ANYTHING TO LEARN AFTER THE PAST DECADE. BY THE WAY I’M 25 YEARS OLD, RIGHT NOW AND I’M GONNA KEEP MY ASTROLOGICAL SIGN A MYSTERY, FOR NOW…
And yeah, one more thing. Do you aquarians don’t like it if a girl comes upto you and tells of her feelings? So many places have this description of aqua men liking chasing other girls who don’t give them the time of the day and avoid those who love them…
wonder why my comment is not showing…?
CV..
Cool.. Indian connection works..
well his behaviour towards u is, like u said very friendly. and i believe thats how even i would behave with most of my female friends. but then i do have a scorp girl in my group whom im interested in. now i think even she would be confused about whether im treating her just as a friend or have specific interest in her. and one way to tell is yes…. invading ur personal space. but more than that there is a sort of awkwardness when i am around her. thinking first and then taking actions. another thing is i speak with her about about personal things to a certain extent. Well but it has taken some time for me to do that and if ur aqua atleast makes an effort to do that then its a postive thing. also i make special effort to know more about her so i ask her some personal questions… not very personal but what are her favourate songs and movies etc. etc… even when i am ignoring her i will make sure that i m there when she needs some help or support…
and in order to start a relationship or even admit my feelings i will need to have sorted out lots of things first. I HATE EMOTIONAL MESS. so after having develped attraction i try to figure out the person first befor admitting or working on it. And i keep secrets mostly about my feelings even from the close friends of mine simply because i dont like people talking about my feelings in first place.. its just plain PRIVATE. so if u think there is sort of connection when u both see eachothers eye to eye then there are good chances he feels it too…. well me and my girl had this connection to but i or she NEVER talked about it..NEVER.. and i thought maybe its just me who feels it and not her. but as the days are passing by we both made efforts to spend more time togther… for me it doesnt necessarily have to be romantic. i can be interestd in a person in more than one way.. and i respect frindship, trust, mutual understanding. and i found her intersting enough to spend time with her. None of said anything directly, no one from our group knows. its just both of use who feel it and somehow understand without needing words to explain every single thing. we talk about lots of things… and i understand her well enough to complete her sentences… she has said, “its good that we think alike”. sometime back, we were sitting in a room and she said, “i like to be with u in a big room, lets hope nobody distrubs us”. Not to mention sombody just banged the door as soon as she completed her sentence….
i try to make her laugh and i try to remember every little thing about her… so much so she is often taken by surprise..
i hope i gave u enough clue to be able to sort out between frinds or more than frinds.. i do believe since he has touched u in a sort of hesitant way it could be because of his feelings. if u were just frind he would have been cool with touch like arm around ur shoulder.. thats friendly.. but slight touch around back doesnt really qualify for just friendly touch. perhaps he was trying to break touch barrier. u r rite in thinking he could be reluctant to work on these things bcoz he is moving away and like i said i dont like emotional mess, i will keep things light and cool but with a hint of further scope for development..
SO NOW CV, WILL U PLEASE OPEN THE MAIL…..PLEASE…
Hey Rutu,
I was reading the thread slowly above. Didn’t know you were Indian. Cool, same here!
I am a scorp-sagi cusp actually and he’s hardcore aqua. Many of the traits you all have been discussing above are so damn true!
Anyway, I am probably in a denial mode and that’s why not opening up the letter. esp to save myself from getting hurt. 
( And I usually don’t deal with things well. Have been going through a rough patch anyway for a long time. I tried to note down somethings here about his behaviour towards me. Now, they can be all overtly friendly behaviour, but then maybe not? Rutu, through your aqua eyes, what does this seem like?
Has touched my arm and back lightly during conversation. He didn’t do this earlier.
Entered my personal space while talking. Stood inches away. Clasped the back of his neck while speaking.
Sometimes uses my name often in conversation.
Contacted me when I was ignoring him
Brushed my hand “accidentally” on the pretext of helping me put my luggage up on the rack on a bus. Even though I was absolutely fine and had gotten my bag completely and safely in place.
I Felt at times he was staring at me.
Passed attitude and acted really cool with me at times.
Read my blog without my knowledge. Contacted me when he found we had common interests.
Winked at me occasionally when in conversation.
Noticed when I was getting sad and came over to strike up conversation.
Interrupted my conversation with another to make his presence felt.
Tilts his head while speaking.
Smiled really brightly when we ran across each other unexpectedly.
Mailed back saying sorry about not being able to stop and chat cause he was busy at an event where he spotted me.
Offered to carry my bag, vacated his chair for me, carried my bags, held open doors, made sure I was okay when travelling by public transport when I was uncomfortable with a co-passenger.
Passed random playful comments regarding me in a group.
And then Boom! All of a sudden for the past two months he has cut off communication with me more or less and has become very curt even when in person. Like he doesn’t care.
I try to keep in touch by trying to text him, borrow books, mail him with random queries, contact on Facebook etc. I send a mail, get a reply and when I mail him again, there’s no reply. But sometimes a series of exchanges keeps happening.
Anyway, I mailed him accidentally, cause I wanted to save the mail and I clicked on send by mistake and it reached him and now I am scared of reading his reply. Our mutual friend who knows him better tried to convince me he has no feelings for me. But when we look at each other, something passes between us in our gaze. I don’t know. It’s almost electric like both of us know yet are hesitating. I am avoiding getting hurt so that’s why I’m keeping myself from reading that mail. How much does intuition play a role in feeling that he also likes me. I get a feeling that he’s cutting off cause he’s moving away soon. All the bloody mystery will be solved once with the opening of the mail and I don’t know why am I analyzing so much or trying to justify his actions. So what could it be? BEfore I actually go and face the mail?
(
Dear CV,
Please open it up. dont take things so seriously….at worst even it says that he is not interested nothing is stoping u from developng a frindship with him which over the time could turn romantic… once he begins talking and spending time with u. so no is not the final answer. and like u said if he is moving away wouldnt it be a better option to let him know ur feeling listen his side as well than just loosing the opportunity to say anything in first place. if he understands that ur interested his way of looking at u will change.. it will be a slight push to him to at least think of u romantically.. which opens up further opportunities…
SO dont worry. open it up.
Rutu,
( From what I have spoken to a mutual friend he probably isn’t even interested in me. But sometimes I get a gut feeling that he probably does. Many times my intuition has been right. What if it fails this time? I don’t know why but I am taking this very seriously, cause I know he is the right person for me. But if he really did like me he would have told me right? I wasn’t overbearing I hope. All I did was tell him how exactly I felt and asked him to sit down with me and talk. The sad part is he’s going to move away from my city soon to one across the state. It’s so scary. The rejection bit. I somehow feel there’s a no in the mail and I don’t want to confirm it, making it blissful ignorance.
Hi. Thanks a bunch for the reply. I mailed him a couple of days back telling him about what I feel for him frankly. He replied, but I am scared of opening up the mail and reading it.
He is very outgoing and very friendly with everyone, so I’m hoping I haven’t misinterpreted his actions. But yeah, the sudden cutting off is worrying me. Do I read his mail? Or should I take my time in opening it up?
CV
i think u should take some steps to show ur affection. I wouldnt mind a girl taking first step. I actually like confidence in a girl. once ur getting those signals like bright smile, ackwardness around u, hot and coldness.. it means there are good chances that he likes u. but we are slow to act on our feelings. it could also be possible that he is waiting to see how it is from ur side..? trying to figure out if ur interested in him or not. so either way i think it would make sense to show ur feelings. Dont be overbearing but state it with conviction. show it through actions or even say them.
Hey Rutu!
Thanks for responding! Already commented, but I shall just copy-it down again for you:
“Heya! I chanced upon your site while googling away for advice online. I am really in love with an Aquarian (he’s older than me by 9 years) for three years. I have been wondering if I should take the first step and tell him about how I feel. And then I’ve been worried if he will not like girl apparoaching first. He acted very friendly in the beginning when I just had a crush but would act cold around him. And then for an year we got chatting and would read each others blogs, mail each other etc. But there have been a few times when he acted very odd in my presence by avoiding me and then coming over to sit next to me, smile brightly, and then pass attitude around. For the past couple of months he’s been acting really off and seeminly “cutting me off. ” Or so I think. I haven’t really bugged him or anything and just giving him his space. But trouble is I am now in love with him and want to tell him. What should I do?”
Do let me know. thanks!
CV
What help u want..?
Can somebody please help me here? *whimper* Please ref: to comments posted above Scorpio Babyy’s. Thanks.
Scorpio babby,
I am happy that everything is going well for you, but don’t let the mentality that he only wants you for sex affects how you feel about him. I know we tend to be very suspicious
When it is all boiled down, most people want sex. It is up to you though to set the pace things. Of course when he is pushy about it then it is obvious that he is after just that. Other than that, relax and enjoy communicating and having a good time with him. For now, i think you should just let things be.
The chips will fall in place if it is what is to be, ya know…
Strange News
Your Astrological Sign May Not Be What You Think It Is By Pedro Braganca, Special to LiveScience
Figure 1. The vernal equinox marks the first day of spring and occurs at the intersection of the ecliptic and the celestial equator. The vernal equinox also marks the zero point of the Zodiac.
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Figure 1. The vernal equinox marks the first day of spring and occurs at the intersection of the ecliptic and the celestial equator. The vernal equinox also marks the zero point of the Zodiac.
Figure 2. If you were born between March 21 and April 19, your astrological sign is said to be Aries. But this was only true for a while, back when the system was set up in 600 BC. Today, the Sun is no longer within the constellation of Aries during much of that period. From March 11 to April 18, the Sun is actually in the constellation of Pisces!
Figure 3. The graphic shows the precession of the equinoxes from 600 BC to 2600 AD. In 600 BC, the intersection of the ecliptic and celestial equator is in western Aries and marked by the Vernal Equinox. In the year 2007, the intersection is in Pisces. It’s a great conversation starter: “What’s your sign?”
But before you ask or answer that question, consider this: your zodiac sign corresponds to the position of the sun relative to constellations as they appeared over 2200 years ago!
The science behind astrology may have its roots in astronomy but don’t confuse these two disciplines. Astronomy can explain the position of the stars in the sky but it’s up to you to determine what, if anything, their alignment signifies.
The Constellations of the Zodiac
The ecliptic, or the position of the Sun as it’s perceived from the revolving Earth, passes through the constellations that formed the Zodiac – Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Leo, Virgo, Libra, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Aquarius and Pisces. Zodiac signs were originally determined by which constellation the Sun was “in” on the day you were born.
Early astronomers observed the Sun traveling through the signs of the Zodiac in the course of one year, spending about a month in each. Thus, they calculated that each constellation extends 30 degrees across the ecliptic.
However, a phenomenon called precession has altered the position of the constellations we see today.
Precession and Astrology
The first day of spring in the Northern Hemisphere was once marked by the zero point of the Zodiac. Astronomers call this the vernal equinox and it occurs as the ecliptic and celestial equator intersect.
Around 600 BCE, the zero point was in Aries and was called the “first point of Aries.” (Figure 1) The constellation Aries encompassed the first 30 degrees of the ecliptic; from 30 to 60 degrees was Taurus; from 60 to 90 degrees was Gemini; and so on for all twelve constellations of the Zodiac.
Unbeknownst to the ancient astrologers, the Earth continually wobbles around its axis in a 25,800-year cycle. This wobble—called precession—is caused by the gravitational attraction of the Moon on Earth’s equatorial bulge.
Over the past two-and-a-half millennia, this wobble has caused the intersection point between the celestial equator and the ecliptic to move west along the ecliptic by 36 degrees, or almost exactly one-tenth of the way around. This means that the signs have slipped one-tenth—or almost one whole month—of the way around the sky to the west, relative to the stars beyond.
For instance, those born between March 21 and April 19 consider themselves to be Aries. Today, the Sun is no longer within the constellation of Aries during much of that period. From March 11 to April 18, the Sun is actually in the constellation of Pisces! (Figure 2) See also Figure 3, which demonstrates the precession of the equinoxes from 600 BCE to 2600.
Your “Real Sign”
The table below lists the dates when the Sun is actually within the astronomical constellations of the Zodiac, according to modern constellation boundaries and corrected for precession (these dates can vary a day from year to year).
You will most likely find that once precession is taken into account, your zodiac sign is different. And if you were born between November 29 and December 17, your sign is actually one you never saw in the newspaper: you are an Ophiuchus! The eliptic passes through the constellation of Ophiuchus after Scorpius.
Now you really have something cool with which to start that conversation!
Capricorn – Jan 20 to Feb 16
Aquarius – Feb 16 to Mar 11
Pisces – Mar 11 to Apr 18
Aries – Apr 18 to May 13
Taurus – May 13 to Jun 21
Gemini – Jun 21 to Jul 20
Cancer – Jul 20 to Aug 10
Leo – Aug 10 to Sep 16
Virgo – Sep 16 to Oct 30
Libra – Oct 30 to Nov 23
Scorpius – Nov 23 to Nov 29
Ophiuchus – Nov 29 to Dec 17
Sagittarius – Dec 17 to Jan 20
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So let’s drink and be merry as newly Virgos or Libras…
Paro,
So recently me and my aquarius have been talking on the phone and he has been close to me lately..and he has been stepping his game up by texting me throughout the day..something he normally wouldnt do. He is sexually attracted to me also. He talks about me and him hooking up. Just because Im a Scorpioo doesnt mean Im just going to be quick to have sex.. So as of right now he calls me and everything has been going great, but my greatest fear is what if he just wants to have sex with me..and use me for what he can get out of me…I dont know what to do…I actually have a ex-boyfriend who is a Leo and I know he loves me but I no longer feel strongly attracted to him I used to..However, I’m like willing to drop everything for this Aquarius…HELP ME!!! WHAT SHOULD I DO???
Heya! I chanced upon your site while googling away for advice online. I am really in love with an Aquarian (he’s older than me by 9 years) for three years. I have been wondering if I should take the first step and tell him about how I feel. And then I’ve been worried if he will not like girl apparoaching first. He acted very friendly in the beginning when I just had a crush but would act cold around him. And then for an year we got chatting and would read each others blogs, mail each other etc. But there have been a few times when he acted very odd in my presence by avoiding me and then coming over to sit next to me, smile brightly, and then pass attitude around. For the past couple of months he’s been acting really off and seeminly “cutting me off. ” Or so I think. I haven’t really bugged him or anything and just giving him his space. But trouble is I am now in love with him and want to tell him. What should I do?
TY,
I hate what happened with you. I think you should move on. If he was with you physically and has not been around after that… well, you need to move on. Let it go.
Let another one find you. You deserve to be treated good.
Rutu,
u sound like my aqua, haha!
but i am getting tired of waiting for him to be direct. i mean i think i have showed some interest and at times i actually get out of my way to show him just that.
I guess he is confused as well because i also wait and see, evaluate, and calculate since my rising is in aquarius, so i think we are doing the same thing to each other.
I sort of shield him from my scorpionic intense emotions tho. I’m not really comfortable with expressing my emotions anyway. I guess it is the strange scorpio- aquarius combo of mine.
I hope will work out one day tho, when we get past our ridiculous calculations and evaluations.
I hope the same happens for u as well
Rutu,
u sound like my aqua, haha!
but i am getting tired of waiting for him to be direct. i mean i think i have showed some interest and at times i actually get out of my way to show him just that.
I guess he is confused as well because i also wait and see, evaluate, and calculate since my rising is in aquarius, so i think we are doing the same thing to each other.
I sort of shield him from my scorpionic intense emotions tho. I’m not really comfortable with expressing my emotions anyway. I guess it is the strange scorpio- aquarius combo of mine.
I hope will work out one day tho, when we get past our ridiculous calculations and evaluations.
I hope the same happens for u as well
paro,
But i do give subtle hints. and will like to watch how she responds to them. I will play cool till i see that she is intersted too and i have things sorted out.
once she also responds positively then i can be more direct. but even then i wont say i am a fast moving persons especially with relationships. i wait and see, evaluate, calculate and then make a move. but i surly will..
Rutu,
The thing with scorpio females is that u can’t ignore them if you like them because they constantly want assurance, especially if they like u.
Hi Ty, hi scorpio baby
Ty i dont knw what exactly happend with ur situation so wont be rite for me to comment or take sombody’s side.
But u are rite about one thing. i do express my anger or hurt by being cold and ignoring someone. at the samtime if i really like someone and interested in her even at that time i can be ignoring her in someway till i get comfertable with my feeling for her and having her close to me.
But i wish other person to show interest even when i am ignoring as without it i wont feel assured. if i feel interested i will show interest in subtle ways. i will give clues and want them to be reciprocated as well. But if the girl continues to ignore me and not show interst or treat me at par with others; obiviously i wont show anything but will loose interest in her. As it is happening in my case. the girl i like seem to have time for group only and not for two of us and this has surely annoyed me. So i almost always find some reason for not attending event or activity.
I have been on here for awhile but I starting to think as well if dating Aqua is even intriguing anyone. Yes I like the suspense but for it to go on and on should me that some Aqua just don’t care about how other fell. Yes they are surround by people because of the charm and sense of humor. But do they really think those people are friends or people that they can use. I sorry if I sound harsh but I now Aquas are just as sensitive like Scorpio but the express in a moody coldhearted manner. The guys Aquas on this board sound like sweetheart s. I know we Scorpio can be a bit demanding and stubborn but damn why such foul treatment. I actually open my self up to my ex Aquas guy and I don’t normally do that. I was with him psychically and he just was done with like he used me. I hope there are better Aqua men than that. It hurts me to think that people can be like this. Makes me want to cry. OK I done.
Hello
I need help.
Right now I really like a aquarius I dont know his descendant or anything but im so into him, but the weird thing is I act as if I dont. Im so happy when his presence is around. I’m not sure if he likes me or not but we text every now n then but it can be a day at school where he talks to me in it can be a week later and he wont. Does he like me?
Im trying not to get too close to him because I’m scared that if I start liking him too much I will get my feelings hurt. Everyday or most of the time I want to text him but i dont.
What should I do…im so confused..and I like him so much…I want him to be deeply into me..i know that he has some interest in me….HELP!!! PLEASE!!!
I am an aquarius male, not sure if man or boy, but male! lol. everything that has been said here is true, i have just met another scorpio girl, a bit younger than me, shes funny, smart, doent not know what to make of me, and i know that, all aqua guys know they have that effect on scorp women! in fact all women, but here is a tip for all aqua guys interested in scorp gals… they have other guys interested in them too… because they are so damn sexy and femine,,, so take your time, give them abot of thier own medicine…. shoot ”that gaze” back at them… they know what it is!! feel that electricity and send it back to them… they wont know if your doing it intentionally or if its just happening.
take it from me, i alsmost went out with a scorp before, they some how are magents to aquas and all men infact. so play once or twice and then go for it… if you need any other advice then please call me.
Oh and on more thing, scorps tend to return WITH INTEREST what you give to them… if you give them a flower, they will give you ten back, if you ‘hurt them’ they will hurt you back ten times worse!!! treat them well and enjoy the riide!!
I am still so in love with my Aqua man!! He is so awesome!
my aqua bf is a gift from heaven ,, he is tunder , generous , shy , quiet , gentle , honest and i love him
the only problem he have ,, some time he act cold with me but are we as a scorpios are PERFECT ??..
i know im so demanding no matter what he do !
and as a scorpio i have no patient and this a big problem ??
he is the most wonderful man i have ever met in my whole life .. aqua needs space
they need to feel free , they are so giving ppl
when they are happy , so as a scorpios our responsbility to make them feel happy… by listening to their story and believe in every thing they dream of ??
i wish me and my aqua soulmate ,, will live together for ever ,, he is the man that my body and soul chose.
im a scorpio and they say best matches for a scorp is pisces and cancer i havent dated anyone but i do have friends…im currently dating a scorpio guy and let me tell you it doesnt seem like a relationship it seems like he wants me when its convenient for him..i get the whole wanting to be alone thing cuz hello im a scorp..
but i think he has more issues he needs to resolve..i dont know but i like attention and what hes not giving me im getting from this amazing aquarius guy!!! we talk about almost anything and had an instant click….whish i thought a coincidence becaus ei had dated an aquarius before and it was the same we would talk all night never have a dull moment and i swear to this day he is my soul mate we still talk and are good friends but he is my soul mate…and i had a friend who has contacted me a week ago and i hadnt heard from him in a long time but we were talking on the phone like we had seen each other ohnly yesterday…and i thought to myself hmm let me as when his bday is because i had forgot..
i told myself if hes and aquarius baby im going to freak and sure enough his birthday landed in aquarius…so i think aquarius and scorpio go well together!!!! i dont mind my guy having gal pals as long as i can trust him and he lets me have my freedom as well….im a very faithful person when im in a serious relationship…i do get jealous but at the same time if we cant trust than i dont have a problem…cuz i know im the only one that has his heart
scorpgal,
I hope you have better luck than I did with my AQUA.
I am now with a CAP. You said it has been almost 2 months.
With my AQUA it was great 2 months into the relationship also.
I would be curious to see how the relationship unfolds 6 months to 1 year from now. I wish you well and good luck……
Monroe – Girl I am so with you:
So , air signs don’t always go well with air signs, it doesn’t really matter about signs really guys , I mean not 100% it can mold a person a certain way , certain traits , but it isn’t the end all and be all .
Are signs do make a difference. But we all make choices too.
You can choose not to name call and get dramatic.
You can choose to be calm.
My Aqua guy and I are still doing AWESOME. It has been almost 2 months now. I know that he loves to be around people and get to know them. Girls included. I understand that so when this happens I choose not to get emotional about it and be understanding of how he is. Now that is just one more thing that I adore about him. He went to Hooters the other day with a friend of his and told me about it. This is something that I would have completely frowned upon BUT I made a choice to not get mad or jealous. There is no point in it and I love him. I know he loves me. He puts up with all my crazy quirks and so I will allow him to be him. I have had to make myself let him be who he is. Is appears the more freedom I give him the more he wants to be around me. I just let him do what he wants. It seems to work!
Scott, how to get the scorpio back– listen to what Monroe told you. Tell her that you want to be with her etc. when she starts acting like a bitch I am willing to bet she is having an insecure moment. We need to be reassured often that you love us. I dont know why – but that is the way it is. I mean like twice a day. You can even tell her how you feel about her degrading you. But if she chooses to continue find someone else. You deserve better than that.
I am a Scorpio girl and I’m completely in love with my Aquarius mate. We’ve been going out for a short time, but right now its been the best relationship of my life. We are just so incredibly attracted to each other in every possible way. He always goes above and beyond to make me happy and always tells me that he loves me and that I’m beautiful. I found out that his Venus is in Capricorn and that his Moon is in Cancer.
To find out a person’s Moon, Venus or Mercury sign you need their birthdate and time of birth.
It is very important if you want to know how they will react to certain situations.
When I first met my Aqua friend. I didn’t know he was an Aqua. I sensed him as an earth sign. When I found out he was an Aqua I was totally surprised! He didn’t act like an Air sign to me. I sensed he felt he wasn’t good enough.
When I finally had his birth info and made his birth chart, I found out what I sensed was perfectly right! He’s an Aqua, but his Moon is in Virgo and his Venus is in Capricorn! What I sensed was his emotional side!
Knowing a person’s Moon sing helps you know what makes them feel emotionally secure. Knowing their Venus sign let’s you know their romantic style, how they will court you.
oh and by the way , to say that air signs work better with other air signs, not true , ” my” aqua dated a libra , off and on for 7 years , they would fight all the time , and every time he tried to move on she would munipulate him into going back making him feel guilty in one way or another. And the last stunt she pulled because she saw he was leaving for good , she lied and said that she was on birth control and wasn’t , now they have a child together and she is still ruining his life and all the relationships he gets into , like with ours. That was a main problem within the relationship as she would use their son as a way to break us up ” you can’t see your son if she is around” and that meant us not being together which caused other problems , as I was suppose to move in , but if i moved in , he would not be able to see his son. He doesn’t have the money for court right now either and they always seem to favour the mother. He has love for her because she is the mother of his child but he is not in love with her and I know that , i wish I was strong enough to deal , but I don’t want to be in competition with any women. I want my man to myself.
So , air signs don’t always go well with air signs, it doesn’t really matter about signs really guys , I mean not 100% it can mold a person a certain way , certain traits , but it isn’t the end all and be all .
how do you figure out their moon/sun sign , my birthday is Oct, 26th 1985 and his is feb,18th , 1979 , what does that mean really ? It seems that it means more than just the signs.
KPart I agree. I thought my Aqua’s moon was in Scorpio but it turns out it’s a degree away in Libra but in the 8th House (which is link to Scorpio).
And like Monroe acknowledge one the rare occasions when he lets his temper blow it’s pretty explosive ( 8th house).
Scott — how to get her back … it’s hard since she’s that young girl. I’d easily be won over with a ring
but she is likely too young to take that step. (that’s my Cancer moon anyway. Suddenly I’m really craving security).
Anyway, what are her Venus and Moon signs?
The moon would show what she needs to feel secure emotionally. The Venus would show what she values in love.
P.S. Betty. I have forgotten! I’m goign to start it right now…
I think the way an Aquarian for example, reacts to emotional issues has to do with what sign his/her Moon is. I think it is very important to know where his/her Venus and Mars are. The Sun Sign gives the overall picture, but those planets really let you know how they deal with specific issues.
I guess not aquas are the same , because mine did the same things to me. He was too dramatic and emotional , when I would TRY and explain why I was upset or unhappy , he would start to talk over me and not let my voice be heard , I would always ask him ” if you want to hear my side then why do you talk over me and not hear me” I would start out talking in a calm manner , I was the one who wanted to talk things out , but it always ended in yelling because he would talk over me and push my bottons. He always did that , push my bottons , almost like he wanted me to be dramatic and hostile toward him. Then on top of things he would say he hated the fighting and the drama ??????? My auqa was just as emotional , sensitive and dramatic like I can be , so what gives here? Your an aqua scott , what gives ? Do auqas like to test their partners to see how much they can get away with?
And to be honest , if you want to be with your scorp, well , I know what I would want is the truth. Something like ” i love you , I really do and I see a future here , but I am having a hard time understanding your outbursts, they hurt me and make me confused and a little scared to carry on with you , I am trying my best and that’s all I can do , help me understand you . And if someone said that to me , I would try my best to make it work .
Synthia,
That was very funny!“I miss you.” Later… “”Don’t ever fucking call me again.” This bond is OVERRR!!!!!”
So TRUE! So what are we aqua’s suppossed to do then? Everytime we approach, we get the door slammed in our face (not having ANY idea what we have done) and end up being a punching bag. My scorpio woman has moments of guilt. When we are alone, she is coy and shy and very friendly but with an audience…sorry, but MONSTEROUS with drama and sarcastic slaps. Back and forth, back and forth. I wish I can just take her alone and then everything will be normal but of course life does not consist of never having anyone around you.
You see your aqua LOVES you or else…really….would not even be bothered. We don’t have the mental space for ANY emotion for someone we “don’t see.” We do not dislike, just disregards, so he is in constant inner turmoil with huge amounts of conflict because he is hurting three people (himself, you and his wife)…wow…too much.
I suggest you lay it on the line and EXPLAIN your emotional outburts and dramatic exits. He will understand, we do not judge, we just need to know..to put it together like a puzzle. Just don’t always go after him, like you dislike him (which he probably thinks, so why leave the other person for someone he cannot be sure will be there for him, yet his feelings are overwhelming).
Any advice on how to put my scorpio back on track with me?
The thing that keeps me going is that I know that the aqua , our own individual aqua’s no matter who they are with , or what they are doing , us Scorpio’s that they met will always be on their minds. Because of the fact that we showed them things that no other sign will ever show them. We have shown them the best times, the best conversation, the best fun and friend to hang out with , the best connection and chemistry and the best sex , as us scorpios are creative in every way and do things and are willing to do things that other signs may do , but we are the best at it. They stick with who they may be with and what they know because its comfotable to them , but that doesn’t mean they are happy. Aqua’s are addicted to Scorpio’s and I am convinced of that. Just remember all the times you caught them smiling at you , or saying things like ” I have never felt this before” and all the things you taught them , and the bond and internal connection that was felt between both. Yeah , it sucks that we can’t be with our aqua’s but I feel better knowing that no matter where they are or who they are with they are thinking of us. I don’t want to be with my aqua anymore , and when he pops back up which I know he will again in a matter of time, I will NOT go back. But us Scorpio’s need to know that we have more power than any other sign over the aqua’s then we might think. Now for all the Aqua’s reading this , I am not saying this in an evil manner. I am just telling it like it is.
Scott this part you wrote is me: “until time and time again she had the need to create dramatic exits, push me away with her mood swings, play jealousy games,creates unnecssary drama and then when confronted hides away and most of all, cannot seem to get a grip on the emotions she experiences (which I might add fluctuate hourly).”
And I can’t help it. My Aqua might as well have written it.
Dramatic Exits? Check “This bond is OVERRR!!!!!”
Mood Swings? Yep. “I miss you.” Later… “”Don’t ever fucking call me again.”
Jealousy? “Where are you going?” (actually, that just popped out. I didn’t mean to ask that. LOL. I’m not jealous!)
Hides away? ::Syn looks at caller I.D. It’s Aqua. She turns off phone because he didn’t call sooner and needs punishing. She deletes him from Twitter. She puts a password on the only blog he knows about (not scorpioland)::
But you know what? All this is after months and months of emotional turmoil. This is me in HURT MODE. He’s hurt me. And he doesn’t want to listen or see the reality of a situation unless I punctuate it with a dramatic exit or silence or some other emotional sword.
So I have to destroy the bond even if I love it so I won’t get hurt again (scorpio self-destruction).
If I do none of these things, believe me, he’ll act like NOTHING is ever wrong. He’ll try to AVOID CONFRONTATION and pretend conflict doesn’t exist (typical Aqua) — which only makes matters worse.
(and yes Monroe — there is never a sorry. There might be a gift or flowers but not “sorry” or acknowledgment or discussion of the conflict at the center)
Part of me knows it’s never really over so I never really think the dramatic exits or emotionalism should be read as anything more than “You hurt me. Come get me …and try to understand why I am hurt and tell me what you will do to stop hurting me.”
But he’s not trying to hurt me and I’m not trying to hurt him ..Scott you are right about that. Our very modes of operation simply wound each other.
I was calm, cool, and collected a year ago. But it’s been too long with this bond having no escalation. That’s the thing about Aquas going and coming … if you’re not there, there is no relationship progress and growth. Your absence means in some way we stagnate or start over. Scorpios need continuity and progress. So, I admit I’ve come undone as it relates to him… and he knows it. And I know he hates seeing me go overboard into emotionalism.. But I don’t care. It’s a personal culture. It’s not bad. It’s just Scorpio.
And maybe the whole nonconflict nonemotional thing is just Aqua personal culture. So, Scott agree that the communication styles are so different it’s impossible.
I have a Mercury in Sag so I’m wiling to bluntly and honestly address anything, but he has a Mercury in Aqua and welll, that creates even more evasion.
I think for these 2 signs, their natures just automatically make the other suspicious and uneasy. I think even if they want to connect to each other, this inner apprehension just distorts messages and signals.
I can’t believe I’ve been on this ride for so long.
Anyway, more specific to my case is that my guy is really not available and I was stupid to invest in this (although for the record I did not sleep with him!!!) I really thought the ‘Universe” had brought us together and if I waited and we got closer he’d leave and we’d be together.
Hey I know that’s a long shot. But considering our chemistry, our emotional intimacy, our long overly involved conversations, our whispering, our private meetings, etc. etc. and the fact that we seemed to fit together like long lost puzzle pieces I thought I had a chance. I thought what we had was pure and meant to be.
He’s now reneging on all that and is apparently reinvesting himself in his primary relationship (that’s Venus in retrogade). So, that’s it for me; he’s calling to keep me on tap, but you’re right Jenny “it’s all or nothing.”
Betty I might be done with air signs too …i need emotion in my life…and yes I love fire …but I’d still consider an Aqua with lots of Scorpio and Leo.
and scott , I don’t believe she has lost you . I just think you need time and are confused as she is , just think about how confusing she is for you , thats what she thinks about you too Im sure . And I have a feeling that you will go back , but maybe you two should just be friends first. Aquas have a hard time letting go when they are about someone I know that . AHhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh! sooo confusing .
well scott , there are two sides to every story? What do you think you could have done to make her lash out. I know that when I would lash out on my aqua it was because he has said and did something moments before and I will still upset about it even though he though everything was alright. He would also never say sorry for hurting me when he downright was calling me names as well. What am I even saying anymore? The more I write about it the more I feel retarded for it. I do believe that Scorpios and Aquas do work and they work well. But they both need time to scope the other person out and get to know them. And when there has been time apart and I mean major time , not a few weeks or what have you , I think when they get back together , all can be much much better as both have had time to reflect on the other person and figure things out. There is too much love between these two signs , just mixec communication , which can always be fixed. Who knows though , like i said , my aqua did something very very wrong , and I won’t go back unless he gets help , the ball is in his court. if he wants me in his life than I think anyone would do whatever it took , we’ll see but im not counting on it
Good luck to everyone , this thread was once fun and now I grow tired.
Okay….here are my 2 cents….
I “was” totally and absolutely adoring a scorpio woman until time and time again she had the need to create dramatic exits, push me away with her mood swings, play jealousy games,creates unnecssary drama and then when confronted hides away and most of all, cannot seem to get a grip on the emotions she experiences (which I might add fluctuate hourly).
So.
She has lost me. I do still adore her, but I cannot/will not allow her hurtful (although I do not think she sees it as hurtful, more of her right to be) emotional attacks.
So just to be clear, when the scorpio woman goes too far…we leave BUT we are also human and still have feelings and love, but are confused that is why we leave and come back. We keep wanting to settle our scorpio woman down so she can be her fun, kind self again…hoping it will last.
Ahhhh too much. I totally agree with Synthia that scorpio and aquarius will never get together because of many different communication styles and ways of handling emotion.
Synthia
As you know I am a scorpio as well and I love your style. I believe that water and air do not mix. water and water can work, but too much alike, no challenge. Water and Fire has an attraction, but water can put out fire. This will be my first encounter with a Capricorn. One month now and doing well.
I WILL NEVER AGAIN DATE ANY AIR SIGNS. I WOULD RATHER BE ALONE!!!!!!!!!! THEN PUT UP WITH THE EXCUSES TOO.
AIR SIGNS NEED TO DATE ONLY AIR SIGNS. THEY WOULD BE PERFECT FOR EACH OTHER!!!!!!!!!!!
Julia’s husband was originally a married Aqua, Rutu. She paid his wife off to compel the divorce and pretty much told the wife to leave and go to hell.
She even wore a shirt degrading the wife. Pretty low (even if Scorpionic). I’m befuddled that the Aqua let her get away with that.
True story. Now, we just say of them…how cute. They have twins.
I obviously don’t have that rich, Hollywood swagger to execute that so….
Synthia and MonroeVonOh..!
Synth.. there had been some successful aqua-scorp relationships on this thread. I shall list them for you both.
I understand you, synth. but your aqua’s behaviour also has a lot to do with the complicated situation you and he are in. It would have been very hard for any married man to take the decision you expect him to take.
I am not with my aqua because he has additction to alcohol and drugs and he put his hands on me because of his addictions. Thats why I left and won’t look back. He needs to get himself help. But i will say however without his additction , we would have been together in my aqua fairy tale. the end
Monroe. I myself said I was bitter so what is you point?
I won’t let it go.
And no it won’t destroy me.
I”m a Scorpio. I’m fed by the intense emotions.
Please.
You don’t have to agree with me. Live in your Aqua fairytale.
However, I intend to give fair warning because I don’t like Scorpios to be trifled with.
You are not with your Aqua and thus prove my point.
When someone in THIS thread succeeds and merges the Scorpio-Aqua energy at the altar I will be open to change my views.
And you suggest when he calls I’ll be back where I started? LOL.
Um, He called this week after we had a HUGE blowup which I considered the END of our relationship last week. I didn’t respond to him and I don’t intend to because I am not going to continue to be used for sport.
Will I talk to him in years to come? Of course, it’s a never ending cycle. I will love him till the day I die. It’s doesn’t take an Aqua Einstein to know that.
That’s not the point of my posts. These are not lasting romances. And Scorpios are getting hurt. And people are excusing Aquas by saying oh they’ll be back. So!!!!
Coming back and passing through is over. Over!
Not cute anymore.
How dare you come into a Scorpio thread and suggest I should contain my emotions. Please. Go find a Libra. I want to intensely bark my discontent and I shall!
With exclamation points.!!!
And don’t presume to suggest to me that Im more affected than I realize. I blog about my thougts all the time and am the most self aware person I know.
So Aquas stay when they find the one? I’m sure. But yours didn’t stay with you either. So keep your pot-to-kettle advice.
Look, I don’t want to argue with a fellow SCorpio sister. That’s not my style. And I wish you joy and happiness. I know we have all been in love and hurt here.
There is room here for all views.
And all this Scorpio-aggrandizing mythology about how Aquas just can’t handle us because we are so AMAZINGLY deep and they fear us. OOH. Please over that too. I guess that makes us feel good, but I’m tired of excuses.
This doesn’t work. Is it tantalzing? Yes! It’s captivating and all-consuming…but Scorpios will cry and cry and cry and get hurt over and over again and this is an evil sinister pairing.
(I give this post 4 out of 5 drama stars).
Syn.
you are bitter and you need to let it go or it will consume you which it has already and that is more apparent than I think you realize. You say that you are done , but I bet if he were to call and tell you something he knows you would want to hear , you would be right back where you started. But hey, you are only trying to be strong. You may get sick of it , but you will never get over it until you are the one who gets one up on him.
And to tell you the truth , your right , popping in and out isn’t right , and its not because he is sampling , its because he is a people person , just because he goes away from you , don’t take it too personal , he is probably jusy helping someone else. And the only reason why he runs is because he is scared of the way a scorpio can feel so deep , he isn’t used to it so he bails until he figures things out. Aqua’s are not stupid by a long shot , they are always thinking , they are daydreamers , but they are always thinking about the future. They also have a hard time letting go of the people they care about and thats also another reason why he is popping up , count yourself a little lucky that he does care about you , he just has a hard time dealing with his feelings because he is ( aquas ) are logical and think with their heads not their hearts.
You have to be able to put up with his ways just like he puts up with yours when you freak out. Aqua’s will be the only one that you truly respect in the end for being so open to the way us scorpios can fly off the handle , any other sign we would dump them for being too weak. Aqua is not.
He doesn’t keep popping up to hurt you or to mess with your head , and he doesn’t say things he doesn’t mean. They like to be friends first.
And lastly synthia , they will stay and settle down when they have found the one. The one who captures their heart. Hate to say it but maybe you didn’t catch him in the way you wanted and you may have to deal with that, if you want to think of it as sampling or tell yourself whatever you need to to get over him then so be it , but it might also just be that you weren’t the one.
Monroe that’s nothing. I said an Aqua won’t be a constant in the way a Scorpio desires. Mine called me Monday as well. Did I call back? NO. Because popping in and out is not good enough.
OF course he likes us and comes back. That’s what they do. They sample. And they like to keep their samples on rotate.
Please. I’m so over making excuses. Coming back and staying are different things. LEt me clarify, an Aqua won’t comeback permanently. HE will pop in and out forever unless he gives you a ring — and then even that is no guarantee.
That’s no longer good enough for me and I doubt Scorpios will benefit from such transience.
I think we know from this board that Aquas return when they desire. And I think we also know from this board that Scorpios get their heartbroken in the meantime and then afterwards.
Yeap, I think Scorp – “all or nothing” ! LOL!
you guys havn’t been writing much. you all seem like Aquarians when they lose their interest! c’mon!!, keep the stories going.
Not true Synthia , Aqua’s if they do like you , they do come back. If they see something in you that they want or for whatever reason they may have. Although him and I aren’t together anymore , He still pops up and sends me e-mail , short and sweet , but at least I know that it doesn’t seem to matter what I say or do he is always there , not sure for how long , but he has always come back in some form or another.
TopGun — I’m sure he had a fantastic time sampling you. I am learning that Aquas like to bounce from experience to experience sampling life. He will not be back. He will not be a constant, reliable presence in the way a Scorpio desires.
(yes. I am bitter. lol).
So I guess I should clarify the fact that I’m the Scorpio and he’s the Aquarius. Thanks anyway.
Thank you for sharing this information.
How To Date A Scorpio
Hey everyone! I’ve been reading this thread for about a week now and it has really given me insight into understanding Aqua guys.
I’ve never been attracted to Aqua guys before. I’m usually attracted to Capricorns and I’ve dated two of my Pisces best friends (deff not for me, too needy & emotional) so it came as no surprise when I found out this guy has a Pisces moon and Capricorn in Venus/Mars.
Before I knew this, I made the mistake of being too forward with him. (annoying scorpio impulses) Now I think I might have ruined my chances of being friends with him. I’m not looking for him to commit or anything, I just want to make amends. I’ve tried to ignore the situation and let it blow over, but it’s just becoming more frustrating. I keep thinking I should say something, just so that this awkward tension will go away. His friends aren’t helping either. I want to say something to them (his friends) bcus of my pride and becus no girl should feel like they’re being “degraded” by a bunch of egotistical jackasses. And what does Aqua do/say? Nothing. I’m starting to think that I was wrong about him. Maybe deep down he is just an immature asshole. Can you really judge someone based on their friends?
If you wanna know the whole story, this should clear things up.
http://ca.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090129132943AA2iC7p
thanks scorpgirl , the best of luck to you and your aqua guy , let us know how it goes , and maybe I should find someone closer , but for now , I am not ready, single it is for me , right now.
MonroeVonOh
Well, sounds to me like you did the right thing by being true to yourself and your future. You do never know what the future holds and you could always come back together. I am with ya though. I am a city girl and not into that country stuff!!
hope you find someone else very special that lives with in the City Limits!!
drove i mean…sorry for the spelling..hehehe
My Ex-bf way back college was an aqua male and i am an scorpio female…I only realized it now that aqua and scorpio arent meant to be as they say…until i met this aqua male in a coffee shop a month a go.It was a whirlwind acquintance.here’s my story. I was seating inside the coffee shop while HIM outside but facing each other.He was with his friends and i was with my 2 girlfriends.I caught him staring at me while texting. I told my 2 girlfriends that someone was staring at me from then on i do the same thing i stared at him also.We transferred 2 a bar and i was surprised that they followed. They on the other table and us on the opposite table.A waiter came over and told me that someone would like to know my name and asked for my number.My 2 girlfriends told me to gave my number…just for a DARE! thing coz we know that they are’nt from these place….we left after that and while we are in the car he started texting me and he even called me…On the next day he invited me for a breakfast and asked my friends opinion and said go! so i joined him in breakfast and i learned that he was a pilot.Even drooved him and his crew to the airport but sad to say there was no flight sked for that day bcoz of the bad weather. I was his tour guide that whole day and i even brought him to my friends and introduced him to them… we had a great night. On the next day I drooved them to the airport bcoz they will be leaving by 1030AM. while his crew are checking on the plane i was standing next to him and i can feel the energy inside me..I can’t even looked straight in his eyes…my GOSH!!!! and so his gone.
Right now if he will text me ill texted him also.
I really like him…his tall and goodlooking.
How will i know if he really like me???
What will i do to win his heart???
His a busy guy bcoz of his work.
I’m looking forward for your opinion regarding this matter.
Thank you so much and sorry for my english…..:)
well , scorpgal , the fighting I guess has always been there , sometimes it was over stupid little things , and to be honest we both admitted down the road that we liked our little fights , it gave more passion in a sense. But sometimes the fights would not be so great , you see , my aqua ( or used to be ) has an ex girlfriend that he has been with off and on for 7 years , they are broken up now and for good this time , she really took him on a wild ride and even though it took them 7 years , they know they do not work together. Well at least he knows.
They have a son together and I think there is still a lot of heartache on her side of things. Every relationship he gets into , she is right there waiting to mess it up. She has sent me e-mails and things telling me to beware of him and that he is a cheater and this and that, I have asked him about that and he said ” she cheated on me first in the first 3 weeks of us being together , she has munipulated me into coming back throughout the years and she also told me she was on birth control when she wasn’t and this is why we have a son together” but I also hear things from her that rind true for me as well , so I know that he isn’t and wasn’t perfect to her either. We were together for about a year, and like I said we worked together really well , I guess it was just things in our life that wasn’t working for the other person. He lives way out in the country , I am a city girl , I would go to his house ( 3 hours away) all the time , because I don’t live on my own and he does. He support me throughout the year which caused troubles , but the only reason why I never got a job was because if I did , where i live, I would never be able to see him , maybe only on the weekends but really not even. Again , his ex caused troubles saying that if I came around his son he would never see him and this and that, money issues , job issues and other things as well.
So it wasn’t our personalities that didn’t match it was eachother’s lives. I hated hearing about his ex and the crap she pulled and being torn from his son , and he hated that i lived so far away and other things as well. He asked me to move in with him but I am young and I still want to do a few things that I want to do before I settle down with someone. He is older than me you see so he is ready to settle down. We both tried very hard and we both loved eachother a lot , now we are in no contact , we have spoken very little anyways and I feel like I have lost him forever. I know that he stills thinks of me and I him and there is still that connection there and who knows , maybe in time when we both sort things out we will come back to eachother , time will only tell.
I hate time. Being a Scorpio I hate waiting lol. Best of luck to all , sorry to be such a bummer. I have to ask though to any aqua guys out there.. with this type of connection in which I speak of .. would you come back ? what would be going on in your mind with all this ? Or would you cut ties and never once look back again. ?
MonroeVonOh,
I am feeling the same that you are talking about – we connect like puzzle pieces. In every way imaginable. me and my guy have not had an arguement and I pray we do not. it is still only 3 weeks in. How long were you with your guy? when did the fighting start.. Yikes!! I do not want to lose this bliss!!
myrk man
Even if she is popular and you are not… that never means that much to Scorpios. I used to date guys that were not popular and I was. I never cared about that.
When you said that you would die to have the opportunity to take her to the prom – you need to ASK. Or say if I asked you would you go with me?
We Scorpio girls are weird and need reassurance – when you said that, she thought to herself – well, he did not ask so he really does not want to. She is not going to ask you! LOL
I will be checking back in a few days to see what happened!
I met an aqua man and I am out of my mind in love with him and him with me. We met 3 weeks ago and can not stand to be apart. All he had to do was kiss me once and that was it. I hope the same for you!!
Good Luck!!!
Ok so , what about Aqua male and Scorpio female? I dated an aqua man and the chemistry was amazing for the both of us something like we never had before. We finished each others thoughts , and we talked for hours ( which we both never really had in other relationships, as well as many other things we both never experienced) we just knew each other without words and had many of the same values and outlook about pretty much everything and just enough opposite as well. We have the same humor , tastes , and style , and in the bedroom it is amazing as well. Everything fits perfectly but the reason why we tend to split is the fighting. We are both fixed signs and very stubborn and even though we know we might be wrong we still stand our ground and that can be upsetting for us both. But at the same time , that only adds to the passion between us. Although this last time was pretty bad. He got way out of control. We have broken up a couple of times ( I know they say if you keep breaking up you should just move on) We try to move on but we keep coming back to each other. Thinking about the other and connecting to each other somehow. So what does that all mean ? What should one do perhaps? Some say that we are the worst match , but others say we are one of the best. There is a link out there with all the Hollywood Scorpio and aqua marriages , like Julia Roberts and her husband and a few others , so it does work ? I guess it depends. Any thoughts or personal experiences ? I could really use some insight here please. Anyone out there a Scorpio or an aqua and have the same problem ? or not? Anything ? Insight? I can’t seem to get him out of my head, there has been very little contact but I can feel it in my chest when we are thinking about eachother , its overwhelming the connection these two signs have. Its like nothing I have ever felt , I think I am addicted as a scorpio fem and aqua males are to , can’t help it.
oh myrk man , prepare for the tests she put you through..Sometimes, it is unconsiously done because she can love too deep so she will be quite reserve in the beginning…Using her head to analyse the situation first…Once you’re in, you’re in..no turning back…it’s scary…I think I’m a different Scorp…probably be immune by my rising sign Sag
ok im trustin u guyz. im askin her out to breakfast on v-day before i work. i hope you guyz are right. but i swear she can be really confusing sometimes. she is really intimidating too cuz she is so cool, beautifull, and she is one of the most popular girls at my school and im not popular what so ever. i hope she likes me like you jenny. thx for the help.
myrk man,this girl likes you.She is just being shy and abit “coy” !LOL! typical young Scorpio.I think lots of young Scorp would die rather than let you see their emotion, especially if you’re new in their circle.Once they’re mature, they would know how to open up more and abit direct with their feeling.She talks to you and shows you her music, then blushed at your comment.What are you waiting for??? Ask her out directly and whisper your sweet words…Soon she will be a putty in your hand..yah , I know it can be sad for a Scorp who always want to be in control of his/her own feeling.Sometimes, Scorp needs to be less cautious and goes with the flow…
Gosh, apologies Jenny.
Jenni
I wasn’t ready for a serious realtionship. I don’t think I’ll ever be.
scorpgal-
well i didnt ask her out or to hang out cuz she was talking to this guy, but i guess he told her off and they arnt talkin no more. i talked to her all class about lots of stuff. she said she likes to relive stress by writing these really long notes to her friends. do u think i should write her notes ? and we do talk and laugh and flirt in class sometimes, but other times she will leave my side of the room to go talk to her other girl friend. then today she also said that she was sad cuz she thought that no one would go to prom with her for her senior year so i said your crazy i would die to have the oppertunity to go to prom with you and she got a lil red smiled and bit her lip but didnt say anything back ? do you think she got the hint that i have a huge crush on her ??? and how can i read if she has a crush on me ???
If one places a tiny amount of liquor on a scorpion, it will instantly go mad and sting itself to death… There we go people, lol
myrk man –
why dont u just ask her out? if she is giving you the look than she probally likes you. She will be super secretitive about her feelings for you unless you show signs that you like her. flirt with her in a joking way and she how she responds. if she starts smiling than she likes you.
I am an Aqua male from India…
I came across this earlier post by a scorpio female…
In this vey forum…
I will use this example to highlight the typical misunderstanding between a Scorpio female and an Aqua male…
” Scorpioinlove
Hi, I’m also a scorpio girl interested in Aqua guy.
I’m so confused by him and I don’t know what to do. Would anyone help me out here? I’d really appreciate…
So I’ve known this Aqua for about a month and we have hung out a few times so far. Whenever we met, we always had a great conversation for couple hours on different topics, and I could tell he was really attracted to me physically and intellectually.
Recently, he has invited me to his house for the first time, and I went – He cooked for me and afterwards we watched a movie (not romantic at all – and he kept his distance very well from me during the movie). Then when the movie was done, it was little after 11pm, suddenly he wanted me to leave his house. He didn’t literally ask, but he initiated the idea, and by being scorpio, I sensed it right away. He asked me if I wanted him to walk me to the bust station, but I said no (although it was unfamiliar neighborhood) beacuse I knew he didn’t mean it.
Then that night around 3am, he sends me a text saying thank you for coming over, and that he had a great time. I didn’t answer because first, I woke up by his sms, and second, I felt disrespected…
What is going on? I’m so hurt. I feel like he “used” me to spend his free time because he had nothing else to do. And he did mention at somepoint that he sometimes gets lonely at his house because his roommate has been away for a while.
I don’t understand. I thought he was sincerely interested in me and wanted to build some friendship with me…
what’s your insight? ”
————————Analysis——————————
Aq guy likes this Sc gal… calls her over at her place…
wants to bond with her, show her that he cares, prepares food…
next he wants them to just sit together ans spend some time,
but they’ve gotta do sumthing as well, so they watch a movie.
Question that comes to his mind… “should i play a romantic movie” or “something else thats not giving out any signals of that sort”… “i think i will go with the second one… cuz i donno … i don wan her to explode at me saying — what the hell are you trying to say to me, i thought we were friends–”
then they watch the movie…
he is dying to come close to her but she is just so composed and NOT vulnerable… he feels sad and after a while he says to himself…”there’s nothing on her mind — why the hell then am i getting so carzy about all this — i’l be cool”… movie ends…
he is so frustrated … he wants to return to his “i dont want anything from her… ” state of mind… he wants to call off the evening…
calls it off finally…
but an hour or two later… realizes that he shouldn’t have been so rude and SMSs her…
——————–conclusion———————
The Scorp should not have been so INvulnerable and distant…
— even better, if she had moved closer to him while watching the movie, in order to make contact—–
ok scorpio’s its kinda simple to get an aquarius man. me being one i do know what i like. if u want a relationship u gotta be friends first. next u gotta give him the “look” mayb like 1nce a day or whenever u see him. and we love to feel cared about. and we do love to feel free so give us space when needed. if u want to know anything else just ask me cuz we love to help people too. but im confused whether this scorpio girl likes me or not????? she gives me the look. we talk in class quite a lot. and she likes to show me her fav. songs on her ipod. is there any test that i can try to see if she feels the same ?
Hey I’m back
Well I never heard from my Aqua again. I wish it didn’t end without any closure…I called one last time in the beginning of Dec to invite him to a party but he didn’t want to speak to me(My guess I thinkhe put his sister on the phone)….I don’t have time for games and I don’t know if I hurt him in any way. I just don’t understand what happen.
On the bright side. I would love to date another Aqua guy. Just not him…lol
Hey I’m back
Well I never heard from my Aqua again. I wish it didn’t end without any closure…I called one last time in Dec to invite him to a party but he didn’t want to speak to me (he put his sister on the phone). I don’t know if I hurt him in any way,I just don’t understand what happen.
On the bright side. I would love to date another Aqua guy. Just not him…lol
Marina,
why would you guys break up if he was right for you?
May I just say how right you all are?
I am a scorpio female and an aqua man is the only man ever to make me feel excited, calm, happy and NOT jealous. At all. Ever. That’s despite him being permanently surrounded by women.
Not to mention his intellect.
Or the ability to deal with my so called “tests” and mood swings.
Gods, do I miss him.
I’m sorry Lia. Hope you feel better.
Very true , Lia.An Aqua who is into you will always talk NON-STOP and tease you all the time.This man you were chasing after did not even talk to you openly and very guarded then perhaps he knew you had a crush on him.He didn’t so he was guarded to keep a distance from you.Move on and stop obsessing is the best choice.
There is nothing happening with my aqua crush, and I am starting to to come to the conclusion that NOTHING WILL EVER HAPPEN. I have been hearing rumblings around work that he has a GIRLFRIEND which shocked me and is very disheartening, and if it is true then I guess it is not meant to be and there is nothing I can do except come to terms with the fact that I cannot be with him and it is not meant to be and because I am such a loner scorpio, i will be alone.
That is all, I am very upset about this……so I am taking a break from this blog to let my heart heal.
Hey Scott!
We’re around. My Aqua situation is surprisingly going nowhere committed fast. It’s shocking since it seemed the Universe basically set us up.
However, I have realized that there are bonds as deep and passionate as romantic love that are not necessarily romances. So, I’m willing to pour my heart into our platonic bond and have a searing connection that no one else can touch.
I’m heartbroken of course that I can’t have him, but i feel the Universe is reminded me that there are so many more passions in life than love … and we all have our destinies to pursue … and I don’t intend to let my pining distract me.
Rose…. I’ll let her fill you in.
Feel free to stop by scorpioland.ning.com sometimes….
I still check into this thread weekly….
Rose, Synthia…are you still there?What happened to your Aqua stories? Did everything work out?
@prateek: it’s probably true that she did not feel that way for you because Scorps usually very loyal to their friends.Once you become their best friends, they would look after you and protect you like “an angel”.That’s why it’s so easy for guys to fall in love with them because the love they give is so pure and unconditional (like motherly love!).However, pls don’t worry too much about her reaction, just give her sometimes to process all the inf, I think she’ll come out and return to you soon. Then just play along, be her friend and care for her.Slowly, she’ll look at you that way too…Don’t call her now, leave her a mesg to say that you’ll not pressurise her or anything, that was just your true feeling and you want her to know.That no matter what you two will always be good friends.Mark my word: loyaty and trust are two very precious things to Scorps.If you two have always been friends, I doubt she’ll leave you just because of that.If you do it right, you’ll have her heart soon. Good luck!
i’m an aqua male…
Have known a scorpion girl since i was 12, i’m 23 now. Have been attracted to many girls in between (one of them her close friend), had one serious reltnshp with a leo (she knows all about that). We have been friends through all this… till now.
I never realized it, but i always felt so sure of her liking for me and that strange trust, cant say i have for anybody else. She always took care of me when i needed it the most… after breakups. She always rebuked me for being so desperate about reltnships and told me to be a bit more “in control” . But never ever turned her back on me.
She always admired my superior intellect (with all humility i mention this)… does so now.Always interested in whatever i said. Always laughing at my funny stories. I donno i just felt so close to her.
As for me, i have always admired her intelligence, beauty, charm and above all her Grace… that heavenly grace… when she’s near me i feel like i’m standing next to an angel. She is so pure… she soothes my soul… NOBODY else does that.
We have always been so easy with each other i never thought about us… till now.
here comes the twist…
after knowing each other for more than 7 years… i proposed to her… and guess what !!!
she exploded at me…
she said she never expected that from me…
that she thought i was her ONE true friend…
and what i did was so like everybody else…
(many guys have said those three words to her and she has rejected them all, i routed a few of them to her, hard tp believe but true).
she’s stopped talking to me now…
doesnt pick up my calls…
don kknow what she’s thinking…
but i donno…
i can never believe that she doesent feel anything for me “in that special way”
Help !
I agree with P. That “coldness” we Scorpions use is a defense mechanism. When we feel unsure, we keep quiet and unfazed.
That’s how we can feel what’s going on.
Scorpio in a “relationship” is never cold. EVER.
It’s important to consider that Scorpio will feign cold-ness as a mask not only as a defense, but to gauge your reaction and see where YOU, stand.
Paul, just be honest, thats all you can do. She will come to you if she’s interested.
I am a witness of how much time Aquas take to observe you. I knew my Aqua friend three years before he took the plunge to tell me how he felt about me.
When he started to talk, I noticed he’d been watching me. Every little detail physically and emotionally. I was very surprised. I mean I knew he liked me, but I didn’t have any idea, he was watching me so closely.
Remember, we water signs react with our emotions, our gut. Air signs are more cerebral, they need time to analyze.
I meant NO “middle” approach or “go with the flow”
@Lia: Stop asking questions and trying to get into his head! Put yourself into his position and you’ll understand how he feels! I dont think that an Aqua can share his feeling easily if he hasn’t trusted you yet(just like Scorps!) . I think Scorps can be too extreme when they’re in love.Too hot or too cold! There seems to be “in the middle” approach for them.That can spell problems.Gain his trust by being his friend and go with the flow.When he feels comfortable, he’ll express his feeling and you guys can go from there.Please don’t throw yourself into him, he might enjoy it because it boosts his ego but it isn’t the best foundation for a long term relationship. Honestly, I think Aqua can be a bit traditional when it comes to love.They analyse their potential mates very carefully.If you push him too much, he will run away because he feels like he’s loosing control(what a terrifying thing for Aquas!). Good luck!
I am very confused about my aqua crush, he is extremely guarded and somewhat shy, so now i am second guessing myself and I feel terrible. Did I do something wrong? When we are alone, he DOES NOT TALK! I can always sense that even though we are sitting next to each other or standing beside each other his mind is elsewhere. I just want to what his opinions are, does he feel anything towards me? does he want us to become closer friends? is he scared because of what he went through with his last relationship? does he not trust women? I just want him to open up, and not knowing what is going on his handsome head is really bothering me. What to do Now?
@Paul : what do you mean she turned cold after sharing her feeling with you? Did she go away and spend some times alone ? If that’s the case, you should have respected her wish because Scorp tend to cave in for some “me” time so they can reflect on things. They love spending time with people they like for a period of time and then go away for awhile.Just a way to think through things and have some “air”.I think you might have misunderstood her and therefore shut her out which was the worst move!You two should have honestly told each other about your needs , especially you’re friends.If not, trust was not there and it wasn’t a good foundation at all.I think she thought you weren’t interested anymore so she went away.The best thing to do now is having an honest discussion with her and make sure she doesn’t misunderstand that you only want her because she’s with someone else now (a challenge?).
@Kpart 2: please go upward and read the story of the user named Rose or Synthia above. I think even an Aqua is attracted to you, he’ll try to deny it and even he acts upon it , he then will feel guilty later or start to judge you as someone who gets in between other relationship.Normally, this won’t have a happy ending.But who knows, life is quite unpredictable.On the other hand, would you like to be in the position of your boyfriend or his girlfriend? If you aren’t interested in your boyfriend anymore, break up with him before starting to pursue anything with the Aqua.That’s the least respect you can give your boyfriend.
I would like you Aquarian guys to answer a question for me. I know this Aquarian guy, we’ve been flirting for sometime now. He is in a relationship and I am too. I can sense he likes me. But, we only have these cool conversations via email. When we see each other, even if we are alone, we can’t almost talk to each other…he just gets all quiet and stuff. What does that mean?
Does he really like me? I don’t want to get caught in this “he’s not that into you” thing.
Scorpio woman: wow..i’m confused lots. I read a lot of notes here and i’m still confused. I need advice, can you help please? (Forgive my english, still learning).
I am aquarius man (scorpio moon) and love scorpio woman at school. She hot and cold with me and made me upset so I walk away. She causes me great heart ache. I gave up and ingnored her because i cna’t deal with too much emotion because of her-driving me crazy with mixed attention! I have known her for 2 1/2 years and one night we kissed and she shared feelings, opened up to me, but then she turned very cold after that. I was in so much pain that I had to shut her out. Now she will not look at me or speak with me.
Question: why does a scorpio woman not look at you or talk to you, but sometimes will smile and be kind, then angry and cold? Now she is very distant and when looks at me, no emotion..but wait a minute later, she nice and happy, then later ice and anger…very confusing! She is now in relationship with another man, but i want to take her away with me!
Please help. How to get her to be nice to me all the time not only every few hrs/minutes/days and then very angry? Should i tell her how i feel even though she is in relationship? Is she mad because i ignore her to protect my feelings?
Mary: A lot of Aquarians I know have the secret gift of just not ever taking anything personally, even when sometimes they SHOULD.
Oh tell me about it! Almost everybody in my circle of friends are Air or Fire signs. I am the only water sign.
How did an emotional water sign get mixed up with these people? I am a Venus Sagittarius, and have Aquarius in my fifth house. So, superficially I appear like nonchalant about things, but my Sun is in Scorpio, so I am not nonchalant about anything.
Anyway….when I take things too personally and I try to tell them how I feel, they just tell me I’m being a drama queen. I think it’s okay to have friends to keep my brooding in check, but on the other hand, I think they should accept me for who I am.
You know, it’s confusing. Sometimes I wish I could be so nonchalant, but that’s how I am.
“I have a theory about fixed sign people, especially double fixed sign people, that they secretly have difficulty respecting non-fixed sign people. It is like they are so set in their life and their path and their convictions (only sometimes in a negative way) that they see other, especially more mutable types, as entirely flakey, wishy washy and weak.”
I have a fixed Sun and Moon (Scorpio/Leo), and I half-agree with this. I wouldn’t say that I feel a lack of *respect* for non-fixed signs, exactly. I really envy their flexibility and ability to just pick up and go. I think it’s a mistake, often committed by fixed signs, to think flexibility isn’t its own kind of strength.
But, there can be an issue of a lack of security. If I sense that a person can easily “pick up and go” from a job or a friendship, maybe he can do the same thing to me if we get into a relationship. Doesn’t mean I don’t respect or like this person, but it makes me think twice before fully committing myself. By contrast, when you see someone who’s really committed to their job/politics/cause/family, even if they are foolishly stubborn about it, you know they are capable of that kind of commitment. I’m trying not to overgeneralize about mutable/cardinal/fixed because I don’t think any one group has the monopoly on commitment, but if we are talking general tendencies, that would be my explanation.
FWIW my sister is an Aquarius and we are seriously each other’s best friends. Oddly, in my life I have also met several pairs of Cancer-Aquarius best friend sets. A lot of Aquarians I know have the secret gift of just not ever taking anything personally, even when sometimes they SHOULD. This quality can be oddly mesmerizing and refreshing for a water sign, which is more prone to the opposite problem of taking things TOO personally. Yes, I include myself in that!
Have always tried to understand this particular match up and you’ve hit it on the nose! Great article!
Hahaha….after reading all of Scott’s posts, I see all the signs!
The Aquarian guy, is very funny and witty when talking with everybody else. When I’m in the group, he kind of quiets down and gets nervous. Awww….hahaha
When he found out I was an astrology buff, he begged me to do his birth chart…haha
He is an Aquarian with a Aries rising, Virgo Moon and Capricorn Venus.
I am a Scorpio, with a Libra rising, a Taurus Moon and a Sagittarius Venus.
Aqua guy is right.
I am flirting with this Aquarian guy. When I arrive somewhere he is at, and totally ignore him, he starts looking for attention. And if I treat him as any other person, he keeps following me around.
You sometimes think they have their mind in lala land. But suddenly they do something that makes you see they’ve been thinking about you.
Aquarians are air signs. They don’t know how to deal with emotions. They always deal in a cerebral type of way. I think they feel our emotional intensity, and though they are attracted to it like moths to light, they also get scared.
Happy New YEars to Aurora & all the Scorps & Aquas of the World.
This thread was such a support for me during the year. All across the internet, the Scorpio-Aqua bond is one that’s maligned. Before Aurora’s article there were few places who suggests reality proved a workable synergy between these two signs.
In my own experience and life study I have found the Aqua and Scorpio bond to be so revealing. I notice new things abotu the dynamic on almost a daily basis. I still think it is very very difficult to pull off. And at times can be so lonely, unrewarding and fulfulling. HOwever, it’s an interesting affair that I would never turn down.
Best wishes to all.
Syn.
Perhaps this goes both ways.
I’m a male triple-scorpio, also saturn and mercury in scorpio. Maybe the strongest attraction I’ve ever felt was to an aquarius.
I think it has something to do with admiring a quick-witted individual who possesses traits you have struggled with and feel are so lacking in yourself.
Ordinarily I would never post something like this. But like I said, the attraction was Strong.
actually I say love of friends, it was also love of money and a love of a wealthy material world. You know like the love of fashion, fashion 2nd but more money and design, houses and expensive beautiful summer and winter holiday places. random but true. But also love of connection with friends mirroring childhood family loved ones. Amazing childhood parents I mean.
I think I meant blissful memories. Anyway. Whatevs.
@ Aqua: Please tell me why did you use drugs , did it help to calm your mind? What helps you to give it up? I really want to help my friend. Thanks!
Im stating the obvious here. but ..
@Jenny: Hi. Er no calming of the mind was never really the result! hehe. Well it was initially maybe but after that it was not good in that respect, at all. In fact it’s like I live with the worst paranoid moments I ever experienced with these drugs on a daily basis. I hadn’t thought of it like that but the anxiety and terror experienced often come back. i’M Definitely struggling with major panic – it has been horrendous and almost a constant worry. Trying to problem solve it away.
I don’t really know what to say to help your friend. I personally find drugs and alcohol sad though a family members parent was an alcoholic so have always been against alcohol.
I would say to your friend, drugs are not natural, you don’t know what they mix them with which is why you feel so awful the next day. I mean after ecstasy I never felt that way before in my life, that was the worst ever next day effect. Unbelievable, if you take more than 4, unbeelievaable. So he will know it is not good. That’s without how you are on them.
Although I only took drugs at times b/w 19 – 21 I feel like I lost my youth and much more besides. A Career, friends I could have met after when I’d put myself out of the loop, and possibly even a future family. Added to which I was such a strong person (female as I mentioned before) with many talents that could have taken me in wonderful directions. Instead all that was wasted because of that l u d i c r o u s choice — and your friends choice is ludicrous. You contrary to what people who take drugs think, find out nothing on them. They are also not a substitute for love, a solution to love, or anything else for that matter. In my opinion anyway.
I didn’t take them to calm my mind, initially I did it because I in the moment of trying refused to lose a friend like I had many years before. The friendship had gone from an amazing experience the best of my life, to awful. The problem was once I tried it it was a slippery slope. you confuse the potential rewards of them and then you’re in that world with everyone else who has differeing reasons all talking about how amazing it is and rationalising it to calm themselves down from the fear they feel in doing it. Beacuse the adrenalin everyone feels doing it is wh ythey aall go into big reasons about placating it. i mean ecstasy here. so stoopid. After the not wanting to lose an amazing friendship experience, I then did them because they were fun , I thought the world was fun doing them and I wanted to see how far they would go and what the experiences would be. But I found nothing. haha.
Anyway these are horrendous standard explanations but there you have it. Part of my experience laid bare. Standard to the letter why you shouldn’t do it. You go in one side and come out the other a geriatric 80 year old with a host of terrifying problems you’re trying to figure out. Um, I’m not kidding. Oh and your whole 20s wasted. I dont know if this is also true but a lot of people who do it are cocky about it.
The same thing happened to my ex-boyfriend. He has ruined himself as well having gone from this God, seriously, to ruined.
Your friend should be studying. He should not be drinking or doing drugs. And if he hates what he’s studying he should realise it’s only for 3 years and at the end of it that is it no more studying. Added to which if he really can’t stand whatever job he’s going for, he can always change it.
Tell him to stop – it will destroy his vitality, looks, his self-esteem, his happiness. Seriuosly. I wouldn’t have belived it but for me parts of what I’ve said it will damage are very true. I mean I’m still happy but a million times more pissed than I would have been if I hadn’t. Plus I’ve missed out on a great life too.
Also just because all young guys his age are drinking etc., that is stupid. They turn themselves from Gods to unhealthy people so prematurely when they could be Gods for so much longer! heheh. Anyway that’s just my 2c I never understood alcohol. But I’m a strait laced aquarius, so, i wouldn’t. But neither does my libra family member and another gemini family member says he does now feel better for abstaining from alcohol all these years.
As far as giving up was concerned the situation got bad and a family member ended up finding out by a fake telephone message I left to do with my work. So . taht was awful, as was the extent of them finding out, could not have been a worse story.
I also think drugs and alcohol can be tied up with romantic notions, feelings and life or death type feelings but they shouldn’t be used for those reasons. Like whatever noble feelings u think u’r feeling or great feelings or appreciations for being alive and the experience, dont bring the drugs and alcohol into them. I used to see that with my boyfriend and I felt it too. It all gets mixed up and missplaced. With him it was possibly his sadness and passion for life and like sweet feelings that he hid and for me it was love of friends probably. But I shouldn’t have and he shouldn’t have done them bcoz it just fucked us up on a physical level. hehe. so yeah not a good move.
And the guys definitely shouldn’t use drugs or alcohol to cope with any shittiness in their lives either.
And I have to stop using the internet. This has just wasted 50 minutes! and it’s now 1.50am.
I could have shot for the stars with my career and corresponding family and instead I have wasted those 2 wonderful opportunities with all the what would have been to me through career choice blissful opportunities.
All The Very Best
Soooooooo, I gave my aqua crush a card. He said he was so flattered and he did not know what he did to deserve a card from me. I wrote a few nice things in the card, you are so nice and supportive, blah, blah, I did not say I really like you, but i did hint that i do want to get to know him better. But I also sent him a lil christmas text message and he did not send one back, does this mean what I have been dreading that he does not feel the same way or am I just being my typical overanalytical self and making something out of nothing?
This is the confusing part of the story. The other day we were at work, doing our usual flirting and joking with one another, then he said the sweetest thing to me, saying that I was so sweet and caring and gentle and sensitive and he just made this whole speech about me in front of a few other coworkers, i’m so reliable, and I’m always there for him….it was soo nice. Of course I was a little embarrased but at the same time I wanted to kiss him after he said that, obviously i cannot do that at work. I really want to know this guy better but I don’t want to come off as desperate or needy. Was that all an act and was he just saying those things? I really don’t have time for games and it is very difficult for me to let my guard down and be open and honest with others, especially men. What do I do?
@ Brianna : show him your emotions , they will “eat” them and “soak” in them happily . All the talk about Aqua being unemotional is really nonsensical! They are just very guarded with their emotions because they know too well the dark side of human beings! Once you show them that they can trust you, they will slowly open up. Remember “actions speak louder than words” (just like Scorpio!). When I see an Aqua , despite what age they are , I see an eternal child who just wants to love and be loved yet fears of being hurt because they can love so deeply and almost to the point of obsession! LOL! They might look like having heads on clouds but they memorise everything you said and will bring up to test or challenge you! Once you show that you are honest and true to your words, they will happily follow your lead on their own terms of course! LOL! They can be very controlling and love to smother you once they fall in love. If you love adventures, it’s even better; they will go with you to the end of the Earth and make the journeys even more interesting. However, they can be absent-minded when they think that something so trivial to remember!
I think it’s a balance also. I’m not an affectionate person and very awkward in term of showing emotions but my ex (Libra) was not patient with me at all but my Aqua friend helps me to conquer it slowly.
They don’t like to change but they will do it for you and for them if you can use logics to convince them and tell them honestly that you don’t want to manipulate them . They can say beautiful words and have gestures that even Libras who are being called the “charmers” have to surrender!
@ Aqua: Please tell me why did you use drugs , did it help to calm your mind? What helps you to give it up? I really want to help my friend. Thanks!
Hey everyone! I’ve been reading all yalls posts because I recently just started dating an Aquarius man, 5 days ago to be exact, and I’m totally and utterly confused by our relationship. I’m a Scorpio girl and my moon is in Aquarius, but for some reason I still find my self incapable of understanding this man and it frustrates the hell out of me! I usually can weave my black magic and seductive ways, which are so common to us Scorps, to entice most of the men I come across, but this guy is different. Yes, we have only started dating 5 days ago, but we have spent at least a part of every single day together since. Sometimes he can be so inquisitive about every detail of my life and other times he seems to be perfectly content sitting in complete silence for long periods of time. It drives me crazy! I feel like I’m dating a man with a split personality because the way he is acts is so hot and cold. Half the time I think I know exactly how he feels about me (he has even gone as far as to verbalize it on a few occassions) and then suddenly his is so aloof and distant I think I’ve done something to change his mind. I just wish I knew what was going on inside that head of his. I already let my intense, emotional side out and we almost decided not to continue dating bc I couldn’t handle the ‘not knowing’, but for some reason I changed my mind and apologized. Again I was completely shocked by his response, he was immediately forgiving and went as far as to tell me that if I ever wanted a boyfriend I should let him know!!! WHAT? Based on my past experiences when I’ve let my emotional intensity come out with other guys, there usual response is to run for the door screaming or cower away defenseless. This Aquarius man baffles me! It feels like a complete reverse of what I’m usually accostumed to with men bc they’re are normally completely perplexed by me. I just hope he is as curious and intrigued about me as I am about him. Any advice yall could give me would be very much appreciated!
Just an aside, Russell Targ the laser inventor and ESP remote viewing researcher mentioned in his autobiography that I think he tried weed and said that he believes it speeds up some functioning of the brain and he mentioned jazz musicians. I’d suggest the boyf reading some part like that to see that yes there are positive effects from it but to look for ways of creating an enjoyable experience w i thout the use of drugs. And to me personally that means all, coffee sugar and alcohol included. Tho perhaps that’s just me. But why not do it that way?!. Coffee was invented for somnambulant islamic monks who had trouble repeating their repetitive boring things as per David Wolfe’s stories.
Hi Jenny,
I’m an aqua who did weed and ecstasy in the past tho a girl and not guy so am small and plus I took it beyond that. Worst choice ever. 7 years down the road still dealing with ***maaaaaaaaaaaajor*** disocciative / nervous problems from it. Wish I’d never done it – and I was cocky.
I’m sorry Mary but I think both of you were playing games and that’s the consequence you have to bear! I’m a Scorpio with a Scorpio moon and I can tell when people are playing games so I tell them straight to their faces , so do my Aquas friends, I guess our bluntness create deep trust and I won’t have it other way. Hope you have better luck next time.Stop playing your silly games and be yourself.
Hi…I’m a scorpio with aries moon and i was wondering if i someone can give advice. I have an aquarian man that I really like, but i think i made a mistake with him. I did not want to show how much i cared for him and did not want to reveal my true feelings because i fear rejection, so i have ignored him and pretended he does not matter. I can tell he was upset because he made small comments, but i ignored him and still tried to play cool and make him jealous. Now he is not paying any attention to me and is ignoring me. I really, really screwed up and wished i found this site first! He is still nice to me but i noticed he is different, not so flirty or caring. He is not mean, just not the same. Can someone tell me how to fix this mess i made? I’M SO UPSET!!
I can’t believe he said he love me but I can’t say it back and I think there is no chance for us…
Is there any Aqua here did drug in the past? such as weed, estacy? This Aqua I knew does it when he goes back home for holiday but he doesn’t when he’s in college….I can see he’s not addicted but still this is terrible!
How to help him? He said it can calm him!!!
yeah. There will.
For all of us
I’m sorry to hear about your situation Saya!!! Hope this Christmas will bring all your wishes come true! There will be a lovely person who understands your pain and loves you for who you are
Wow rick. That was interesting. Btw, you might have not read previous post, but me, Kate, I’m fredy. I just changed my name so that people won’t think i’m a guy. so yeah.
Once again a spot-on portrayal of a genuine Aqua´s feelings, Scott.
As I think I´ve stated before, my former Scorpio woman definitely lost me when she started tro treat me as just another one of her male friends and I needed and deserved so much more. Whether her behavior was intentional or not, I don´t know for sure, but, among other factors, most likely she was just trying to play tough on me..
Whatever, big disappointment she was, now we haven´t seen each other for almost 2 months, haven´t even spoken properly for over a month..maybe she´ll come back a month or two from now, let´s see if I´m interested in replying then.
Right now I´m just in love with the way we ignore each other.
Call it fixed signs pride or something, I just always need someone to hate on
So, in hindsight, follow every word Scott has advised you to..your jealousy and distance won´t get you anywhere. No one dictates our actions better than ourselves.
Peace and love, happy holidays
Jenny that is really interesting, i think some aquas might get jealous but they hide it well, No matter how hard you try, they are REALLY good at this shit. self control is an aqua quality indeed
Ok, it’s strange, but one or two of my Aqua friends confessed that they get jealous easily!
I thought Aqua is all about light and breezy…hm…hm..interesting..
Lia,
Stop trying to restrain yourself and jump on him! Being quite and focused does not get you what you want. Jump! What is holding you back? Is it really because you think he might not be ready since his last relationship? If you wait too long, he will move on. We aqua guys need a little push. If he shows up at your desk it is because he wants to be near you, so acknowledge that! How do you show a guy you like him when you are ignoring him? Does not make sense…
Again, scorps act so brave and confident, but for some reason after ready a few of these posts, there is a common theme…”making him jealous and acting like you don’t care.” Is that working? It seems to me it is not. Both myself and Rick have stated OVER and OVER again to be honest…I challenge you scorpio woman! I REPEAT “do not try to make him jealous!” We SEE RIGHT THROUGH it and walk away emotionally/physically, because we can’t fathom why you would want to hurt us (NOT oh my, she might pick someone else besides me, so i better act), when we would never want to hurt you. This whole “acting like you don’t care” personality won’t work either…we will not chase you, we will wonder why you are trying to hurt us again. Is this what you want? Us aqua guys being into you because you hurt us through jealousy and distancing? Not going to happen, which is why I think a lot of you are posting in frusteration because you think, being distanct with an aqua will get us curious in you. We get curious in you when you do unusual things and hobbies and have hidden aspects to your personality. These hidden sides to you are about what you love/hate/desire etc…NOT whether you are into us or not..see the difference? We are attracted to closed pages of YOUR personality NOT you trying to pretend you don’t like us. For all those posts saying ignore the aqua and they will come around. That won’t work…however do something weird and be involved in something cool, then we will be attracted again.
Sorry for the rampage, but aqua’s are pretty simple, what you see is what you get, maybe you think we are complicated, but we are not. It’s really easy girls…honesty, being brave, no games and there you go..the aqua will be smitten.
Don’t forget to give us attention too! We want to know you can care about us and be nurturing. Scorpio woman are too busy trying to be all cool and distant, but what they really should do is be who they really are..nice and loving.
hey guys,
i came across this thread couple of days ago and it was really helpul, but sadly i didnt come across it earlier before screwing things up.
i am a scorpio with aquarius rising and i`ve been on and off with my aqua for 2 years and i was the one to blame most of the time but somehow he always got back.
and somehow things were never the same,the more mistakes i do the more cautious and distant he gets but he always got back around afterall.sometimes he is really sweet,sometimes he is not and to be honest i always played hard to get role though i am crazy about him
recently we were in good grace but he didnt take any move so out of frustration i made it clear to him that i started dating someone,he didnt talk since i started dating and recently when i tried to talk to him (to be more specific chat with him) he was cold,distant and literally treated me like am nobody
i know that was a stupid move i made and i don’t know if i really lost him this time or is there any chance i can make it up to him.
i don’t actually know what am i supposed to do and desperately need your help guys.
I do touch him a lot actually and I think everyone else around us sees the sparks flying between us except for him and I. I just don’t want to seem so obvious about it but i cannot help myself. If he is beside me I touch his arms or his shoulder or his hand, we laugh and make jokes….its all the time….up until yesterday, I kept noticing he was always walking over to my desk and I was kind of in my quiet/self-reflective/i’mtrying-to-focus-attitude but I wasn’t deliberately trying to ignore him or give him the cold shoulder I was restraining from trying to jump on top of him…lol. I don’t know if he knows that I LIKE him, I kind of get this feeling he is waiting for me to say something, I’m just nervous about his reaction.
I’m a loner, alright.
I’m so tired of being alone. Day after day, year after year, never speaking to another soul. Four walls, this computer screen, and the dialysis clinic. And it’s Christmas. And my mother is very sick, and very depressed about our “aloneness” and whatnot. Life seems empty and impossible. I know it isn’t, and that things can change… or that they should, can… I don’t know.
I don’t want to say I haven’t seen it, because I’m very grateful for what we have, but… there has to be more than this. Or rather, I want to believe that there’s more than this. Maybe there isn’t. There wasn’t for the rest of my family, so why should I be any different?
Man, I’m negative tonight. Sorry about that.
saya, im so sorry about your mother. i seriously wish her all the best. it really seems like you care about the important things in life, and a girl like you deserves better. i dont know if theres more to life, because personally i havent fealt it either, and my heart has been through a lot these past 3 years and its surreal to not have ne1 to talk to during these times. i feel like i understand what ur going through nd if you want ne support, advice, or jus wanna talk about nothing i can give u some sort of contact info. jus lemme no
yeah. Scott is right on the touching part.
Now, I didn’t know about being blunt, but I’ll try it and tell everyone how it worked out.
(:
Lia,
I just read your post and I say go for it! Take the risk! He probably feels the same, but is being respectful of you. I know when I like a girl, I tend to give her a lot of attention. I try to be around her a lot and be near her.
It’s up to you. If your fear of rejection is that strong, start slowly and say innocent things, with hidden meanings. Definitely say something in relation to him making you feel certain ways. OR just be blunt (which ALL aqua’s appreciate) and say, “I feel a strong sexual attraction when I’m around you.” Make it into a joke if it makes you feel better. Either way, he won’t judge you, so you shouldn’t feel insecure, he will just probably start seeing you in a more intimate way, which is what you want right?
The best way, I think anyway is through touching. Start touching his arm, back and shoulder while talking/laughing with him. This is a definite sign. You said that he touched your waist. Do you touch him? How do you flirt with him, besides looking from afar and winking? Does he know you like him in any way for him to make a move?
Oh, Saya. I’m so sorry to hear that. Scorpios get like that sometime … because we are loners and sometimes it’s hard to reach out and establish contact regularly.
I’m used to melancholy just being a part of my emotional makeup. I try to funnel it into something creative.
Work & projects don’t help me because they are not personal, … and inherently I need personal stimulation and fulfillment.
Feel better, love.
This new year, I’m going to focus on love beyond romance. Interacting with Aquas is really teaching me to consider elevating friendship higher than lovers. As a Scorpio, I tend to value lovers most.
I think there is something I”m meant to learn about intimate platonic bonds from Aquas…
I’m a Scorpio with an Aqua moon. I’m always attracted to Aquas, Cappys, and Geminis. I hear that Caps are a good match, but Aquas and Geminis? Not sure about that, though the attraction is definitely there on my end.
Kind of depressed lately. I shouldn’t be, with work, and a ton of projects on my plate. Just so…. yearning, you know? Lonely. Starved for contact.
Scorpio Rising people, for what I have known, usually are the people that you meet and you’re like: WOW! MY SOULMATE!
or when you meet you’re all: EEW! I HATE THIS PERSON!
just as radical as the sign scorpio itself.
Add that to an aquarius personality, and VOILA!
I’m impressed to find so many people that have leo moon.
curious.
usually for these to work, the aquarius needs a water sign, such as scorpio or cancer for their moon. Then on the other hand, the scorpio woman, usually as earth or air sign for THEIR moon. Such as capricorn, or gemini.
hope this helps ppl!
I want to hear more about you and your spicy relationships.
this has been a boring post section recently. :S
just wanted to let you guys know… better late than never… the scorpio year ahead post is up!!
Ty,
Moon is in Leo, Venus and Mars is in Cap
. In fact , this one has only sun and True Node in Aqua . The rest are in Cap and Jupiter is in Cancer!
Jenny what’s their moon sign….the moon is how the person show their emotions.
scott:
“I should of known not to get involved with someone who was already in a relationship.”
Just taking a wild stab here, but it sounds like she wants whoever she can’t have.
“We were together just fine, she shared all her feelings and really opened up to me. We connected both emotionally and sexually…then just tonight, after dinner, she dumped me…”
She might also have been freaked out by the intimacy.
Sometimes I get that way myself with people, to the extent that I’m always putting up a kind of false front, even with those I’m close to. Sorry about the whole situation. I hope it turns out for the best.
Hi,
I wonder an Aqua with a Scorp rising , how do they show that they like you romantically ?
Okay so i have been reading a lot of these comments as I am in a weird predicament myself.
I have never been in a serious relationship, was always focused on school/and or my job at that point in time, all of my friends have moved on with their lives, married, engaged or in a serious relationship.
I was talking to this Virgo guy for a little more than a year and I thought we had great chemistry…..but he is way too hot and cold for me, he acts interested than he would pull away and I am too old for games. So I sort of cut him off, but NOW I am completely enamoured with this Aquarius guy that I work with. He is SO funny, charming, sweet and very good looking . The problem is is that he just got out of a long-term relationship and I don’t know if he is ready for another relationship.
We have AMAZING chemistry, when he stands beside me, I literally get a tingle down the back of my spine….. we have been flirting with each other constantly for months, there are the long gazes across the room, winks, and once he put his hands on my waist and I thought I was going to go into convulsions. I am not sure if I should just go with the flow of things and wait until he is ready, or let the whole idea go, he is a really great guy and I would love to get to know him better, but I do have a STRONG fear of rejection.
I am a Scorpio, with Sagittarius rising, and a Leo moon.
the apple of my eye is an Aqua man with a Taurus rising, and he also has a Leo moon.
Any advice?
i won’t copy bouncers comments, because It’s off topic.
BUT.
i’m back with my aquarius.
SOOO gOOD.
(continued)
It is just a ‘pride’ thing…for me
@ scott
i don’t think is a normal scorp behavior as other already mentioned unless they still had strong feelings for each other… even that wouldn’t be enough for me.
As for me, i just don’t give my heart to every Tom, Dick, and Harry, but when I love I love hard to point of an obsession
(which is bad); therefor, i constantly need to be assured that my boyfriend feels same.
So, if i have strong feelings for someone and they really hurt me, i mourn like crazy for a while …and i want to understand what went wrong and go over every little detail to sort off find where things went bad. Then i move on.
I never, ever love someone twice because once a person loses my trust it is really hard to regain it.
The only reason i would get back with my ex is if i am planning something malicious.
So, my first part is seduction…once i get his attention i will make him want me but hard to get ( play some ganes a little)
Then then when dating, i will make an extra effort to make things look way better than they were, make him feel loved and all that.
Once i know that he has totally fallen for me, then out of the blue i dumb him or do something that would destroy his ego for the rest of his life.
God, revenge is sweeter than honey…( i know i am a bad scorp..)
So, Scott,she is probably trying to settle some unfinished business and wanted to move you out of the way. She will probably comes back-who knows- because when we connect with someone sexually- hence emotionally- it is hard for us to just drop the ball and walk away.
There’s only one man I’d go back to — the Leo. He was the love of my life.
Is this man that for her? I wouldn’t be caught dead in the embrace of any other ex-boyfriend.
Anyway sorry Scott…she may well realize later that she’s made a mistake. But then, it could be too late.
Sorry about your pain. Unrequited love sucks!
Listen to sad songs until you’ve overdosed on them and then you’ll feel better
(that’s what I do!)
COR
I think she was probably never was finish with her “ex” especially if it was so easy for her to go back* to him.
Sorry to hear Scott, and no this is not a normal scorpio woman thing. When I’m finish with a relationship it’s extremely hard for me to caught feeling for that person again. I have never been friends with an ex, except for my daughter’s father and it’s only because of my daughter I ease up and told him we could be friends. Normally when I know a relationship is truely over with me it’s because I have no trust in that person. TRUST IS VERY IMPORTANT TO SCORPIOS.
I think she was probably never was finish with her “ex” especially if it was so easy for her to go bad to him.
You seem like a really nice Aqua….I wish the Aqua I was talking to was emotionally connected to me…sigh. You can do better. She’s a bitch sorry to say. I don’t know any Scorpios that would be emotionally and sexually connect with some and just drop them like that. I bet you she would probably be calling you soon if she confused or things are not going going well with her ex.
Don’t be sad…..
Bad news
My scorp just told me tonight that she is going back to her boyfriend. I’m super upset and don’t understand what happened?? We were together just fine, she shared all her feelings and really opened up to me. We connected both emotionally and sexually…then just tonight, after dinner, she dumped me…
This aqua is super sad. Is this a normal scorpio woman thing? To go back to an ex relationship? It was all about us for awhile now she’s back with the other guy. I should of known not to get involved with someone who was already in a relationship. Is there anyway I can get her back? She did say that she didn’t want to hurt me further, but her feelings were still with her ex and she had to go back to him.
sad
Whoa, this thread has really advanced since last I checked.
Scott: Buckets, you say?
In my mind, placing the call, or sending the email, is a big deal, and the aqua in my life should know that.
**laughs**
Yeah, I know.
But…
Are you saying that, because he was a dick to me, he may have actually liked me?
Synthia: I’m feeling the transformation/depression, too. Sorry about the death in your family. Sending you some good vibes.
KATE COULD YOU COPY AND PASTE BOUNCERS COMMENTS ONTO THIS PAGE PLEASE?
Thanks.
PSA
Kate me too. He’s one of my contacts.
wow, all this aquas really drive us insane.
my favorite aqua is on yahoo answers, horoscope section, his name is Bouncer.
the funniest dude with the funniest answers you can think of.
anyone else know him?
http://www.scribd.com/doc/4114/Astrology-Stars,
check out this site that explain quite correct how Aqua men in love.
Chulley,
I think that what Jenny said very true about many Aqua.
Speaking from my as Aqua and many my male and female Aqua friends’s experiences, when we were not serious, we could be a master at play-game, got fun and walked away from “our victims” without feeling guilty at all.
We were quite evil because we thought that person who was not strong enough to stand for themself in relationship is deserved to treat like that.
And we knew that our victims were confusing that we love them or not but we just let them be confused and we still acted in the Aquarius “innocent” reputation.
I’ve never met you but I can imagine that you’re a VERY SWEET girl who WILL do ANYTHING to PLEASE the people around you!
Honestly, I don’t understand why you’ve a very low self-esteem? Have you ever wondered that this relationship has got you down? You’re obviously want more than he could offer at the moment (and in the future probably) but you did settled down for something much less and you can’t have what you’re looking for so you’re starting to feel guilty with the way you’re treating yourself now. One good proof is that you constantly are looking for “signs” to confirm that he’ll “commit” to you one day.
The man has been honest with you about what his needs and his wants from the beginning and you did everything to please him then why would he want to leave you? You think he’s testing you? Well, my dear, Aqua will always be testing people around them; it’s a fun habit for them! And of course, you’re offering him everything he can not even dream to get with other girls so it isn’t too much to say that he’s even very grateful to you. I think you should be grateful to him as well as he distanced himself from you from time to time (although it’s very much a part of his personality) because partly he can see right through you about what you actually need ,my dear! He’s giving you time to reflect and understand the situation clearly .Most importantly, YOURSELF because if you don’t know yourself, you’ll get hurt deeply and you’ll hurt the others around you. Therefore, please consider to have sometimes away from him and understand clearly yourself. To understand what motivate you to stay with him, why you’re playing games to get his reaction (you’ll lose if you do, I can guarantee because Aqua can be a MASTER at games if they care since they’ve observed everyone around them from the very beginning!)
Take care,
also i got all emotional and weird yet he STILL wants to hook up with me. i don’t understand. he literally could have ignored me and never spoken to me again. we haven’t known each other long enough for him to feel some kind of loyalty towards me so i wonder if he has some sort of feelings towards me.
hey all thanks for repsonding. the thing is HE responded to MY post where i did say that i wanted something that could turn into long term. i did settle for the friends with benefits. he is honest…for the most part. i just wonder if he was mad about me breaking it off in the first place and is playing games now. one minute he’s very sweet but as of lately i feel like i annoy him. does anyone know if aquarius men will stay with women so they wont hurt their feelings? he’s on messanger right now and i know i shouldn’t message him but i want to so badly. every time i talk to him lately i feel like he’s testing me.
Chulley I agree with Jenny,
You knew what you was looking for as said went for a long term relationship and you settle for the friends with benefits. Aqua guys from what I know rather honesty, you should have told him what how you felt, or what you wanted from the get go.
Ok Rose I’ll try…..I’m stepping away from the phone….lol
Actually , it isn’t hard to understand the Aqua man you involved with! I’m afraid that he’s already stated very clearly that :
a) TOO BUSY for a relationship, i.e.no expectations PLEASE!
b) Friends with Benefits , i.e. no expectations PLEASE!
You tried to state how you wanted to keep it purely sexual and how you don’t want to attach deeply but the truth is that you didn’t do it for YOURSELF , you do it because “I tried to keep it light because i thought that was what he wanted ” . Unfortunately, this is going to backfire at you in the future because you’re trying to deceive not only him but yourself that you don’t want any thing more than purely sexual but you already are too deep in to get out now! It’s like a defence mechanism, at first, it was just used “in the name of love” – a sacrifice for love or so you think yet this is the start of subtle emotional manipulation. Please don’t think that I’m saying you’re playing games any thing , I’m just afraid that you’re unconsciously doing yourself harm by trying to conform to other expectations while yourself did not do it unconditionally but did it in denial .It’s though understandable because after all, we’re just human and that means there are moments , we’re not strong.However, I beg you to think about the situation you’re in carefully.
Moreover, please count in your post how MANY TIMES you said IT’S OVER to him yet you still come back , you even asked if he’s horny or not! It’ll eventually make him think that you’re just playing games and using EMPTY THREATS!
Once again, my apologies for any harms I caused.Good luck and take care!
Ty,
Don’t do it, girl!
Whenever you feel like calling him, post on here!
or just re-read my post
I have a feeling you’ll be pleasantly surprised with the outcome.
hi everyone, i read every single post on here and it has given me a lot of insight. i am not a scorpio but i am a cancer and i feel a common bond with other water signs. i’m not saying we’re the same but i just feel where they’re coming from. i have been in love with one aquarius which never went any where except now we are best friends. i am now in a relationship(or whatever)with another aquarius.
i am going to give the briefest possible summary that i can.
so i posted an ad on craigslist for a relationship that was definitely not a booty call. i made it clear in the post that i wanted something that might turn into a long term relationship. my new aqua answered my ad and we agreed to chat online through yahoo. so we chat and at first the conversation is dead and i thought he was shy. so i bring the conversation to physical things and he responds immediately. we talk for a couple hours and then the next day we talk pretty much all day about sexual stuff. we agree to meet that night after i finish everything we have to do. so he picks me up and takes me to his house and we have a very akward conversation that kind of picks up. i can tell he is very shy with women. so anyway, i wasn’t going to sleep with him but i did want to see what he was about. so i made a move on him because he said during our messaging earlier that he prefers the girl makes the first move. so i made it and he just kind of sat there so i wasn’t sure if he liked me or not. so i asked him if he was into me or what and he said he was…well that night we get a little frisky and he tells me to slow down because i am going too fast for him. so we end up a little weird. so i text him once and i text him back and then don’t hear from him for a week. just when i thought it was over, i get a text from him apologizing for disapearing and that’s why he never get’s laid or dates. i told him it was okay but then he didn’t respond to my text so i flat out asked him if he was interested in me or not. he said he was but he didn’t have time for a relationship and it wouldn’t be fair to me. so i thanked him for his honesty and thought i would never hear from him again. WRONG! a couple of hours later he texts me again and says that he really enjoyed my company and would like to do other “fun” things but just doesn’t have the time for a relationship. i repsonded with an “okay i’m not looking for marriage” kind of thing. so he says he would like to try a “friend with benefits” thing but he hasn’t had much luck in the past but we can try and as long as i don’t expect anything he was cool with the whole thing.
okay. so we meet up again that night and have a pretty good time but no sex again. which i thought was weird since he was so for the sex part without the commitment. one weird thing he would do is kiss my chin and smile at me. it felt very intimate and not what he would do with someone you are just f buddies with. so the next week, he barely contacts me at all. i looked him up on facebook and tried to add him as a friend, he never added me. i started to feel like he wasn’t into me. so i texted him and asked him if he wanted to meet up that weekend and he said that he couldn’t because he was PROBABLY going to work late and was PROBABLY going to sleep as soon as he got home. so MAYBE we could get together the next day. i hate probablies and maybes. so i wrote him an email(i would have called him but he hates the phone and we spoke only once before during the whole month we were dating) and basically told him that i thought he was great but i felt like he didn’t really want to know me and that i felt like a whore everytime we hooked up. so the next day he texts me and apologizes for making me feel that way and we chat a little bit. so because i am dumb, i make an effort to continue to be his friend because i really do like him a lot. he barely texts me back and i get really pissed and tell him that i will never talk to him again. then i wrote him an email weeks later telling him that i had developed feelings for him and that i couldn’t go on with it being the way that it was and told him that i would never contact him again, i was being crazy i know this.
so i noticed he was messenger a lot and i really wanted to speak to him so i messaged him and asked him if he was horny and he said he was. due to a few circumstances, we couldn’t meet up for a couple of days but exchanged really hot text messeges for the days that we couldn’t get together. so the day we planned to get together he was running late and was trying to bail. i got kind of mad and didn’t return his text messages so he calls me and apologizes for being too tired to hang out. he said he wanted to hang out anyway that night and we did and had a really great time. he had changed a little too in his demanor towards me. he was actually interested in having a conversation with me. it was weird to say the least. i tried to keep it light because i thought that was what he wanted. so i text him a couple of days later and he seems weird. i don’t know, something just seemed wrong. we had a couple of conversations but everytime i turned it to sex, he would either stop talking to me or change the subject. i wasn’t sure if he wanted to have a real conversation or what…i just didn’t want to get too attached and the only way for me to do that is to keep it purely sexual. so anyway we had plans to meet this friday and he said he would “let me know” about this friday when he dropped me off after meeting up that last time. so friday comes and i text him because i hadn’t heard from him in a few days and i wasn’t sure what was up. he doesn’t text me back until the next day saying he was so so so so sorry he left his phone at home and then got home late and wasn’t able to let me know that he couldn’t hang out. he said he would make it up to me next time. so i try to hang out with him that very day and he says he’s sick. he wants to talk about how sick he is and have a conversation with me but as soon as i bring up sex, he stops texting me back. so i try to get him to meet with me on the NEXT day and he says he’ll let me know. i wait all day with no text from him. then i text him that evening and ask how he is. he texts me back a couple of hours later saying he just got back from playing to soccer games back to back and that he’s very sore and has a headache. so i didn’t even ask if he wanted to get together. he wont talk about anything sex related then either.
so today i see him on messenger and we talk for a little while about some issues i am having with school and we talk a little about his soccer team. it was an okay conversation i guess. i prefer talking to people in person or at least over the phone. so my phone is about to die and i have to sign off of messenger. i send him a text when i sign off and he says it’s not problem. my phone dies anyway and i have to wait until i get home to hook up my phone and text him back. so i tell him my phone died and he says “i see”. so we have a little bit of a dirty conversation but not really much of one. he pretty much asked me to describe what i wanted to do with him. then he tells me that he’s been dozing off and needs to go to bed. which is a suprise cuz usually when he’s done talking to me, he just stops texting without warning.
so here is my question: can anyone tell me if he is just leading me on? or maybe he isn’t sexually attracted to me anymore? i don’t get him at all. i very much feel that something is up with him right now and i want to ask him so badly why he is acting weird but i don’t want to scare him. can anyone give me some insight? thanks.
chulley
p.s. i know this is really long and i do apologize…
I consider a True Scorpio(Oct 25)…..cool. I would like to know what that really means though…..I going to go check the sites out and comment about it later. Thanx for the info Paro.
i found this interesting info. which might also add to the other explains why ppl in the same sign might seem different. for a while, i was interested in knowing the difference btwn the october scorps and the november scorps. i found out that…
The difference is not only between October Scorpio and November Scorpio but even between November Scorpios themselves . The reason is that they fall in different Decans . Each Decan lasts for 10 Days :
1st Decan (October 23rd – October 31st) : Scorpio decan …people who are born in this decan are considered “True Scorpios”.
2nd Decan (November 1st – November 10th) : Pisces Decan…people born in this decan have some Pisces traits besides Scorpio ones.
3rd Decan : (November 11th – November 21st) : Cancer Decan…people born in this decan have some Cancer traits besides Scorpio ones.
Here’s a link for more informantion :
http://www.novareinna.com/constellation/scorpiodecans.html
another link for other signs and the decans:
http://www.astralaspects.biz/shopscr681
I like your post to explain the way lots of Aqua girls are. They have thoughts about every thing and too many, and they love to share.
I didnt really read what Aqua girl posted coz i am not interesting to know at this moment (maybe in future i will) but i didnt feel annoyed about that at all.
What in your birthchart makes you seem to be understanding, at least logically?
Oh I think Aqua Girl was just being the typical Aquarius.
With them one thought leads to a divergent thought and then another and then another … and then they just want to share their revelations with the universe.
It happens.
Rose your comment is so inspiring I feel like calling my Aqua right now, but I’m scared of the out come. The last time we spoke was great and I don’t want to call and know it would probably be a whole other week or month to speak to him again. I’m tired of my up and down feelings
That’s great to here Kate, I haven’t been calling my Aqua so I guess I have another 3 weeks to see if your theory works….lol.
Also I don’t know why they think Scorpios are all about sex, the ones I know including myself would rather be with their partner that they love or care about.
Kate!
I agree w/you!
Back in June or July or something, when I heard that my Aqua was dating someone, I backed off. (Not like I was all over him to begin with, but literally just backed off completely. I gave myself a month….I MADE myself. It was almost fun b/c it was like a game. I allowed myself to send him an email after a month, just asking about work stuff (we work in the same field) and he was THRILLED to hear from me and all of a sudden wanted to make lunch plans w/me….get drinks. etc….
IT’S SO TRUE.
I’m actually gonna do it again now, since meeting his Capricorn at his show and since I feel like we got super close this past 2 mos. With him coming out for my birthday, etc….I feel like he may feel uncomfortable with the “so close so fast” since he has a gf. I feel weird and I feel I should lay low now.
It’s been a week. But I know he’ll come around. He knows how I feel about him and he continues to want to be around me and stay in touch.
Take that advice ladies. Just lay low. They aint goin anywhere. theyre already “gone” if you think about it. What’s a little laying low gonna do? Just make you look better.
btw, I love jennys post with all of the zodiac signs in love.
i could NEVER sleep w someone I don’t love.
It’s not me.
AND i have scorpio venus as well as my scorpio sun.
btw, I’m fredy FREDY FREDY FREDY.
but i’m changing my name, because I’m afraid people think I’m an aquarius man and NOT, a scorpio woman.
from now on. . . I’m Kate.
Just so everyone knows.
well, i finally go my aquarius to give me more attention. I was two months without talking to him, and now he’s all pet naming me and coming close to me again. LOL.
well, It wasn’t that hard. all scorpio women. take two months off from you aqua guy, and he’ll be all over you again.
Allrighty then. :}
I was thinking the same thing scott….
But anyway the I could never sleep with someone that didn’t mean anything to me. I hope the Aquarius part isn’t true but I could see some parts being true.
So, to get back to the topic Aqua and Scorpio, i would say that in my opinion, the best perfomer in zodiac is Scorpio, then Taurus, and after that is Capricon and Leo.
haha!
i second scott; i was beginning to wonder where this thread was heading…
no offence aquagirl ^_^
okay..I’m not complaining, but aqua girl..do you work for some sort of company that promotes people/books/videos and such? You seem to put up quite a bit of information that does not really pertain to scorp/aqua relations, which is what this forum seems to be about. It really is a bit too much no? It’s a free world, but can we get back on topic..like more information on scorpio women? Should I expect information on Jo Jo the psychic next?
On that note..
Do check out The below is a truly awesome and endearing book. The part about the nurse with 1 inch sores/welts and the guy who was grey and at deaths door are. amazing. Ann Wigmore was . fantastic.
http://www.chidiet.com/whysuffer.pdf
David Wolfe son of two medical doctors, studied Chemical and Mechanical Engineering at university with some time during that spent at Oxford or Cambridge University in England is now , his goal 2 be world’s best nutritionist. Fully on point with Ann.
Victoria Boutenko (Russian who was herself at deaths door had few yers to liv I think, was suicidal too and healed all her family too, hubby arthritis (who now like Gabriel Cousens does 700 pushups in a row when in his prime could do 60-70ish, holy mackereddoodle whilst I’m at it , Tim Van Orden has heavenly videos that I lust after of Californian pink skies and pine terrain etc., going up fresh mountains, trainig beeeeeeeeelow his lactate threshold so doesn’t hav aches set in the next day which according to his theory it’s becoz the lactic acid is a ph4 and when the body goes to ph4 these self decomposing organisms kick in which would ordinarily decompose a body.. he does it explain it and it isn’t wack, it is jjjoooooolLLLly interesting.. AND HE HAS BEEN RUNNING FOR 2 YRS AT AGE 40 NOW after being ill for 5 yrs and seriously not knowing what to do like decision time he had to find an answer bcoz he was seriously ill couldn’t work either , was depresed in his 20s adn30s worked in computing and NOW IS BEATING WORLD SKYSCRAPER SPRINTING RUNNER UPPERS UP SKYSCRAPERS AND BEST MOUNTAIN ENDURANCE ATHELTES IN THE COUUUNTRAAAYY (sorry I think English people speak with a farmer Cornish is it or Bristol accent when they’re excited). kid juvenile diabetes at 9 and daughter asthma – they had come over from Russia, became succesful then minced around the US supermarkets saying yeesss kiddees all this food is heeeaalthy thinking it had been proven..) (excellent (such adorable findings involving chimps, green Recommended Daily Allowance compared to RDAs on all nutrients by FDA U.S. food drug administration and amazing statistics on organic vs non organic and absolutely fascinating reasons why) work on green smoothies. Also interview with gr88 points not coveed in her her green smoothie book – http://www.naturalnews.com/022792.html)green smoothies more palatable option. if u can’t afford a vitamix wud suggest what this old couple who now 87 working in a library in U.S still with husband who had such amazing bone density after having this juice in the evenings bcoz decades before as a 7th day adventist and couldn’t eat meat or sth but certainly wasn’t able to drink milk due to a personal inability for some reason I forget now had to find a calcium substitue. They settled on greens (eheheeeexcellent choice) and had a juice of collard greens in evening with fresh or tinned if didnt at often times have pineapple.
“Dr. Hazel Parcells (1889-1996) contracted tuberculosis in the 1930s and was diagnosed as terminal. Near death, she turned to her body for wisdom and nursed herseld back to full health by changing her diet. Spurred by the miraculous results she achieved, she embarked on an extraordinary career spent on original research into “kitchen chemistry”, nature’s self-correcting mechanisms and the underlying causes of the health problems of our time. Along the way, Parcells earned a doctorate in nutrition and advanced degrees in chiropractic, naturopathy, homeopathy and comparative religions; set up the first school of nutrition in higher education; and improved the lives of thousands through her Parcell School of Scientific Nutrition.” – she went to an armys best medical centre in Pennsylvania was it and cudn’t be helped. she went back home without help and felt she desired something green. She got through spinach by the sack load. This regenerated her heart and lungs and she had been in a bad way. NB. Do post or email someone like David Wolfe to check b4 u put something into use if some1 is sick. Just 2 b on safer side. and make up ur mind / understand why they recommend it.
tHERE is a watershed graph showing % of diet that is plant based, not just based but I mean 100% is fully plant. The top two were sth like Laos and I forgot the other one. With another bar showing % deaths heart disease and cancer. It has all the countries on it. 100% plant with 0% deaths were this Laos and other.. Reverse were U.S. and Hungary similar story but up the other end. with counties in the middle suffering middle % and all variations b/w corresponding.
aNBywahys hceck David Wolfe out on you tube for his sheer energy.. there’s a reason for that.. Ann ended up sleeping 4-5 hrs a night on blended food by end of her life. Also depression goes,.amazingly. replaced by .. amazingness.
She cud just incorporate some of these things once she’s stronger. Also Johanna Budwig’s book is fascinating. S he felt she had found the cancer cure and was censored by I forget who. She was german.. combining cottage cheese and flax oil (amazing) created loads of spare electrons which happarently was amazing.
Oooh ooh ooh I’m super excited.. sorry.. check out also old blue eyes at the end of the link of the great page below.. eheh
http://www.markusrothkranz.com/about_markus.html
The above also helps humongously with elevated to the extreme moods as well.
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AquaGirl
Aquarius Sun, Merc, Mars, Pisces Rising, Moon Virgo, Venus Capricorn. I feel this explains myself more (i.e. I hope this isn’t all procrastination! heh heh). Ooh 12th house (hidden/subconscious) Sun, Merc, Mars, 7th house (relys) Moon, and coupla others. There endeth my knowledge on astrology unfort
Lk forward to learning more I guess.
ooh Chcekc out Markus Rothkranz’s amazing story. He was sort of a young genius designer, then did stunts and worked I think as an architect was it? He’s now inspired by Walt Disney and puts on rawfood massive rock shows a bit like Cirque Du Soleil I think. WELL almost. ?. I’m not sure.. but I think they do hav big special effects anyway. Praps not the sublime of Cirque Du Soleil! hehe. His story at least is really lovely to read.. very impressive what he was doing in his early teens! hehe. I don’t thiink I’m confusing him with som 1 else. Hm there’s an even better description about the number of models he was building in his teens somewhr else..
“At age 9 Markus gave a speech on exponential evolution. At 13 he built a 180 sq ft scale model of the entire Walt Disney World Magic Kingdom. By 15 he was making movies with car stunts & explosions. At 16 he won an automotive design contest. By 17 he was in advanced electronics and hypothetical physics. By 18 he copied a famous masters oil painting stroke for stroke in only a few days. By 19 he was working with architectural firms. By 23 he was doing Hollywood FX design work on films like Total Recall, Die Hard, Red Planet. In 1994 he wrote and directed his own 2 million dollar worldwide motion picture, doing much of his own cinematography and personally built over 200 miniature models. By 46 he proved anti-aging and disease eradication and is now set for his greatest undertaking ever- the World Health Project -healing the world and awakening the planet to a new way of living in body,mind and spirit. Fueled by undying love, spiritual magic and the passion of a true Leo, Markus is about to give the world a show it will never forget.”
Um. and on that note check out David Wolfe to keep your energy (and energy bodies’ / power/ / magnetism levels) up!
“Do check out The below is a truly awesome and endearing book. The part about the nurse with 1 inch sores/welts and the guy who was grey and at deaths door are. amazing. Ann Wigmore was . fantastic.
http://www.chidiet.com/whysuffer.pdf
David Wolfe son of two medical doctors, studied Chemical and Mechanical Engineering at university with some time during that spent at Oxford or Cambridge University in England is now , his goal 2 be world’s best nutritionist. Fully on point with Ann.”
ROFL Sacrilege
LOL Um, this is potentially true.
I think as long as love or fiery love is involved that’ll work. THEY JUSt don’t like a lack.
“For the Scorpio woman, sex is treated as if it were a job to be done, nothing more or less. She does not have to love a man to sleep with him; there is no real tenderness or affection expressed during the sexual act.”
Sacrilege!!!! That is absolutely fraud! Not true at all. Evil!
“Both male and female grow to hate any lover who wants them more than they want the lover. Remember, treat an Aquarian badly, disappoint him, break appointments, keep your emotions hidden – they will be captivated.”
Um, this is potentially true.
lol Rose
Ugh I know. I hate Capricorns.
Jenny — I don’t find that funny — it’s insightful…. I believe those on the dark end of their sign’s spectrum truly do exhibit that behavior.
One thing though — Capricorn is the best sexual performer in the zodiac??? Um, I beg to differ. That cannot be true.
I’d put Leo first for performance then Scorp. But Scorp first when it comes to “emosex.” I made that word up, heh heh.
I just read this article and it’s incredibly funny
Don’t take it personally then it will be 
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The Hidden Faults and Secret Vices of Your Lovers
Aries – The Egomaniac
There is a tremendous burst of power and love is at its peak when the affair is new, this tends to diminish the further the affair progresses. In the beginning he can be the ideal lover, but at the end there is resentment and hate. There can be no tests of his love or demands from the loved one. He is the master and the game must be played by his rules. When an Aries female’s lover tries to take the upper hand, she will dismiss him as difficult and overbearing. She will go from one man to another, comparing and testing them to decide which one she can handle with the greatest ease. Her satisfaction depends on how much the man is capable of giving her and rarely considers her own contribution to the affair. Faithfulness is not a concept she understands.
Taurus – The Insensitive Bully
The Taurus man will always choose someone inferior to himself who is willing to serve him in some way – a kind of servant to wait on him, to be useful in helping him advance his career. Many choose not to fall in love but rather have their freedom to pursue their career. They are practical in love above all else. The Taurus female only has marriage in mind. She charmingly and quietly beguiles and seduces a man into marriage and then proceeds to strip him bare of all his worldly goods, abandoning him the moment his pockets are empty. She will use her earthly sexual powers which can be considerable to make a good marriage, repeating the process as often as necessary to satisfy her greed. Taurians hate to talk about love, most of all when a verbal commitment is expected of them. They can never avow their love with a full heart, always fearing that they will be victimized. Taurus cannot bring himself to tell his loved one how much he cares. He is a clumsy lover, knowing he can not be tender. Taurus will deliberately avoid a delicate emotional situation lest his awkwardness and his inability to deal with it become apparent.
Gemini – The Divine Discontent
When Gemini falls in love, he is overwhelmed with feelings of indecision and confusion. Love is always viewed in the abstract. This idea of love enables them to avoid clutter of physical and emotional ties; preferring to carry on an affair through letters or telephone than in physical fact. A typical affair may begin through a brief journey or meeting – an encounter that requires very little emotional responsibility. It can be kept alive through correspondence which may last for years. This allows them to remain uncommitted and free for Gemini prizes freedom. They can be impatient in the sexual act and would rather be voyeurs rather than participants. No single partner can meet their needs and they can carry on more than one affair at a time. Their pleasure in love is mental rather than physical and thus they welcome the secret affair where meetings are difficult and mental torment is intense.
Cancer – The Oedipal Complainer
The male Cancer falls in love readily and becomes involved emotionally. He tends to dramatize his love affairs and can even create and intense emotional attachment to someone whose affection for him is either slight or nonexistent. Cancer is extremely jealous and possessive always believing his lover is faithless. This is a direct threat to his masculinity, reverting to helplessness and impotence. It takes little to reassure him and once his self-confidence returns he will be caught up again in complete devotion and the cycle begins again. The female Cancer who can be as jealous as her counterpart is capable of handling more than one lover, but being possessive, she must own them all. They are like playthings to her, to be manipulated and moved about like toy soldiers. She will drain the purse of each and every lover. They are complainers and never stop crying and pleading for money and gifts like spoiled children. They shop constantly filling their closets with clothes they never wear, accumulating lovers whose emotional commitments they collect but rarely reciprocate. Their appetite for food is similar and they will eat gluttonously all day. They confuse love with an emotional hunger for attention and sensual satisfaction.
Leo – The Prima Donna
Leo is very dramatic about love and wants the whole world to love as ardently as he does, for he is always in love. Love enables Leo and makes him generous and enthusiastic. But he must keep his lover in the dependent position and will smolder if he is not adored. Leo women will browbeat or cruelly abuse their lovers to get total obedience. To Leo love is a great ideal, to be dramatized and honored. He will occasionally employ deviate, degrading sexual practices as a sign that the lover is no longer loved, that the affair is over. He will expect the lover to become disgusted and to leave him; he will not take the initiative to end the affair on his own. Leo women use the same device. Leo hates open argument and will not lower himself to fight. An unwanted lover is simply dismissed. Leo males will attract women as if they are sirens while the females will control and disdainfully reign over their men. It takes Leo a long time to recover from a serious love affair; in fact he will try to avoid this kind of love so that he cannot become vulnerable to another’s power. When he has committed himself fully and generously, as he will, and then he loses, he will become aloof and distant until his confidence is regained. Leo believes he is the only one who knows how to love and thus he feels he deserves all the attention he can get.
Virgo – The Censor
When Virgo falls in love it is purely for sex. The lover must be able to satisfy Virgo’s considerable sexual needs. Each new image arouses sexual desire, but so long as you can remain sexually attractive to Virgo, you will retain his love. The slower you are in yielding your gifts, the longer you can keep the affair alive. Nothing is more unattractive to him than easy surrender, which stamps you as cheap and worthless. Virgo can be either chaste or promiscuous, one extreme or the other. There are many spinsters, one-man women, and confirmed bachelors in this sign, but there are also the chasers who frequent bars or pickup joints in the search of a one-night stand. This type can be quite degenerate in his sexual appetites. Despite this, Virgo ranks lowest on the scale of sexual prowess. He is not romantic except as the chase itself is romantic. Sex is something to be done as quickly and efficiently as possible. When Virgo says he loves you and behaves in a jealous manner, do not be flattered. This usually simply means that you are serving some useful role for them and are considered a piece of their property. Anyone who tries to lure you away is depriving Virgo of a useful tool – no more. For both male and female Virgos, true love is not involved; they are never tender or sympathetic unless there is something they cannot get without showing affection.
Libra – The Narcissist
Librans work hard to keep lovers coming and going. At first they will give you constant attention until you are completely involved but soon the demands of keeping up the love affair will become too much for them and you will become part of the background. Librans will never relinquish their lovers completely, for they may be needed again. The primary function of a lover is to amuse, satisfy, admire, and exalt Libra, and if you are easily won, the excitement is blunted. If Libra is rejected, he becomes completely demoralized; he cannot believe that anyone could weary of him, though he does nothing to deserve love. Yet even when sorrowful, Libra will immediately seek to dispel the blow by filling the environment with new people – or will revive his original charm until you surrender. In failure, he is without pride, and nothing will compel him to look within himself for any failing. Librans are very competitive and will often scheme to humiliate their loved ones. It is a shock to learn that Libra can be spiteful, for he seems so blandly unaware of his offenses to others. Librans have a fascination with sex and require a great deal of stimulation to become aroused. The sexual act itself can be a nuisance and though all sorts of methods may be employed to arouse and be aroused, there is often little personal interest or involvement. Because Libras gives so little real emotional commitment to a lover, it is not surprising that they like to talk about their affairs. By comparing and weighing the attitudes of themselves and their lovers, they can remain uninvolved and even dissipate whatever interest they may have had in the loved one. Libra likes orderly endings to love affairs. This is to their advantage because, they may need to call on the deserted lover at a later date.
Scorpio – The Sex-Obsessed Demoralizer
A Scorpio male is too practical about human relationships to fall deeply in love; his real love is power and making his reputation secure through wealth and position. Whatever is left over will be given to a lover. Both male and females are always discontented in love and complain constantly about the loved one, usually they are not loved sufficiently. A Scorpio often feels that his lover is weak and inattentive, and unable to appease Scorpio’s voracious appetite. Scorpio does not hesitate to tell the world about his lover’s weaknesses, but if the lover is unwise enough to expose Scorpio’s inadequacies, he would be making a costly mistake. For a love affair to run smoothly, Scorpio’s loved one must be submissive with no life of his or her own; the lover must allow himself to be absorbed body and soul. But no matter how much is given, the lover will always be treated ungratefully. Scorpio has no interest in his partner’s responses or satisfactions, only in his own, for Scorpio is the most selfish sexual sign. His famous sexual appetite is like his eating habits – greedy and intense. He cannot be distracted from his own pleasure during the sex act, otherwise he will fail to achieve climax. This points up the fact that Scorpio is really weak and lacks sexual strength. This may be because they give so much thought to their sexual obsessions that their energy is dissipated by the time the real thing comes along. For the Scorpio woman, sex is treated as if it were a job to be done, nothing more or less. She does not have to love a man to sleep with him; there is no real tenderness or affection expressed during the sexual act. The extreme sexual attractiveness that Scorpios have is powerful, they are physically as well as mentally magnetic. Both male and female love to quarrel, which is an important part of lovemaking. Fighting seems to stimulate them, the atmosphere they create seems to make things exciting for them. Scorpios resent needing others to satisfy them, and this results in hostility and anger, a passion to degrade or demoralize the loved one.
Sagittarius – The Don Juan
Sagittarians fall in love at first sight and idolize the image of their loved one. From then on, they are making love to an ideal, rather than a real person. Even when they are in love, they can easily fall in love with another, for there is always some new feature to attract them. They are incorrigible flirts and each new conquest reinforces their behavior – but they never know when to stop. They collect lovers indiscriminately, often becoming involved on impulse with worthless people. They are unreliable lovers, most of their energy is devoted to courting a new lover, while keeping the rest dangling on a thin thread. Their light, tentative touch simply reflects their emotional shallowness, although it is attractive to many people. The fear of intense lovers who might trap them has taught Sagittarians to use the device of treating the lover as an idol, so that they can maintain a distance and prevent close involvement. Because of their Don Juan mania to conquer all, they rarely become completely committed in a pure, deep love affair. Sagittarius is too shallow, irresponsible, and romantic to be truly emotional. But he cannot tolerate inconstancy in others; he is conceited enough to believe that a lover will continue to love him forever, though the lover may be neglected or even forgotten. Sagittarius is not cruel but foolish. They cannot endure an intense sexual relationship, preferring to sample here and there. The sexual act is not as important as the courtship; in fact, they have many lovers to hide the fact that sexually they are second rate. Sagittarians never grow up.
Capricorn – The Honor Seeker
Capricorn does care a great deal about love, which is often a source of inspiration to him. Capricorn is probably the best sexual performer of the zodiac, though his quiet manner and desire for privacy often hides this considerable talent from view. Both males and females seek a mate who is capable of fulfilling their voracious sexual appetites, which occupy much of their attention. Capricorn males select their lovers with great care; they are not flirts in any sense of the word and do not like to waste time in searching for a lover. They know by instinct when they have found the right partner. The sexual act is often a kind of ritual for them, not simply the fulfillment of a need or a form of release. He expects and is capable of quality lovemaking; seeking to achieve total satisfaction for both himself and his partner through his innate desire for the highest form of sexual love. Because they take time in finding the suitable lover, they remain faithful and rarely end an affair or marriage. They have much to give a lover; silly, romantic, gestures bore them. If they are deceived or abandoned, they will usually turn their energy to their career and become very difficult to deal with on a personal level. They can be contemptuous of anyone who refuses or mistreats their love. If they do not find the right sexual partner or mate, they care for no one who is not useful in furthering their ambitions. The female Capricorn is the most unfortunate woman of the zodiac. She too seeks to be exalted in love, but because she tends to select men whose ambitions she must support, she is never truly satisfied. She is more generous than her male counterpart, but is rarely lucky in love. If unattached, she is usually involved in her own ambitions. She can be cold and scheming, using her sexual power to seduce men and get control of them. As both male and female are masters of lovemaking, so are they masters at hating. One of their favorite ways to show hate is to curse people.
Aquarius – The Fame Freak
One cannot expect a smoothly running love affair with an Aquarian, who will become bored with a lover as quickly as he falls in love. Everything is done in extremes. Relationships will start off with a bang, and you will be given undivided attention until the excitement wears off. At that point you will be dropped without ceremony if the initial feeling can never be revived. You will be treated like a stranger as soon as the affair is over unless you are clever enough to transform the relationship into a friendship. The male makes a better friend than a lover. The female is domineering and likes to run the affair, making all the rules. She can be a heartless virago, pressuring the man into submission until not a shred of his self-respect is left. If he manages to escape her, she will be prideless and masochistic in pursuing him until he returns. Perversely, she will find the lover more precious if he does not want her. Aquarians concentrate on one lover at a time until they become tired. They do not like to take the responsibility for ending an affair but if the lover doesn’t get the hint, they will provoke a quarrel or create an impossible situation so that the lover will have to leave. Both male and female grow to hate any lover who wants them more than they want the lover. Remember, treat an Aquarian badly, disappoint him, break appointments, keep your emotions hidden – they will be captivated.
Pisces – The Spiritual Panhandler
Pisceans need the constant reassurance of love. They become hurt and dejected if those around them fail to make frequent loving gestures. They get love mixed up with affection – and affection is what they really crave. Fuss over them, and their gratitude can be embarrassingly servile and effusive. Do not be too flattered when you are singled out by a Piscean, for he will cling to whomever is nearest to him. Pisceans long for love, hunger for friends, and will set about claiming you for their own. It is not necessarily you they want, however; it is the romantic atmosphere of love that sets their emotional craving into action. When they do find someone to love, they will demand enough attention to discourage even the most patient admirer. They will pretend they are not worthy of your love to elicit reassurance, but this is play-acting, an illusion they conjure up. Piscean men choose women who have money or a social position, someone who will support them in their profession. They do not mind a domineering woman, in fact, she suits them. They find security in a strong woman; demanding lovers and nagging wives give them the constant attention they need. They are the original milquetoasts. They can be lied to or deceived but will continue to go on loving an unfaithful woman; it makes her all the more precious if she is desired by other men. This is a narcissistic kind of love. Pisces men are not exciting sexually, they are very passive, almost female in the act. Sex is not important to them, for they do not often have enough energy to perform. They dissipate what energy they have in emotional experiences. Pisceans are often drinkers and many have become drug addicts which gives them a route into their fantasy world. The females are just as clinging as the men, even more so. Their methods are subtle, quiet, and unassuming; they will send out a smokescreen to hide the fact that they are leeches, exploiting their lovers. They need lovers or husbands who will assume full responsibility in caring for them, so that they can be free to drift through their aimless lives. The Pisces woman does not necessarily care for the man she pursues, but she considers it a threat to her femininity if a man passes her up or eludes her attention. Pisces woman must prove they are desirable. Once they win, they will slide back into their emotional swamp, frightened at what may be expected of them, unable to maintain the charade. Pisces woman do not see what is wrong with their own faithlessness.
Scorpioland.ning.com is great!! Thanks for that Synthia.
Rose,
thats funny that we mostly said the same thing. i didnt have time to read everything people said but yea… I like the chase but im not sure why they arent reciprocating the way scorpio girls want them too. maybe it has to do with looks. i know i dont go for the slutty, drama filled partiers. lol. i would much rather date a cute book worm that i know wont be chillin with drunk guys all the time.
I met a scorpio girl the other night at a show i played on friday and she added me on myspace on saturday. we got talking over aim and we made a date THAT day she added me. it was just last night with her and im not gonna lie when i say it was awesome. the exact girl i want. ahhhh gotta love those scorpio women.
haha sorry i had to get it out.
I find it interesting that most, if not all, of the Aqua guys on here said the same thing!
Hmm…wish I knew that 9 mos ago. lol
Hey Jared,
Thanks for your insight!
Sadly, I think quite a few of us HAVE let them know we are interested, and they just aren’t reciprocating the way we want them to.
hey im an 22 year old aquarius male and i have to agree that i’m very attracted to scorpios. its true that girls often find me hard to read but im very picky about the ones i would like to date. i like long term relationships and wouldnt get into ones that i forsee not being long and meaningfull.
Its also true that i dont like being shackled by certain aspects of a relationship such as “a girl wanting me to call her all the time just to check in”. If i like her, i will definatly call without her having to ask me. Or… “not being able to do something because of her”. If i go out with people, dont get jealous because i would NEVER cheat! although it IS good to know that you are a little jealous sometimes for the sake of us wanting to know u really care. Although i am very passionate and loving of the girls i date.
The advice i have about girls wanting to date an Aquarius is LET THEM KNOW THAT YOUR INTRESTED or he may never acknowledge you. Give us our space and dont show signs of a long term relationship or a commitment early on unless you are sure we want one, or it is likey that we will bounce. lol. i’ve done that twice within the last couple months.
i like being an aquarious and most of the descriptions i have read about us are true. not all tho.
Dear Synthia,
I wish I had some advice!! Good Luck
Hey Aqua Girl —
I had bee concerned about hanging up because respect for women is probably one of my highest values. Now, this guy is a gentleman, so I’m willing to cut him some slack because he likely did feel powerless …he was trying to give me advice about my career and I rejected it, telling him he didn’t know what he was talking about.
Part of that was because it’s really important for me to be self-sufficient. As for vulnerability …it’s funny you mention that. I only show my vulnerability in certain romantic moments. In that conversation he was actually urging me to be more vulnerable, saying “vulnerability shows character.”
I thought that was sweet of him to say. … but as I’m going through some tough things in my life now…I’m not interested in showing too much vulnerabilty or weakness. To me, that’s not the Scorpio way. I mean we are emotional …and as I mentioned I’m actually dealing with deep melancholy right now…but I’m a scrapper and even in those moments there is an inherent strength that I display.
So, he’s just going to have to deal (or not) with this tough exterior.
As for the magic…. I meant it when I said I’m moving on. We did have magic and we were in sync and that’s great…but he’s with someone and you and I know he’s not going to leave… so I no longer am operating under delusions.
I’m actually feeling better and better as I grow more set in that decision. In the future, once the romantic feelings have completely died, perhaps we’ll be friends.
@ Synthia I’m not sure why it bothers you that he hung up. It’s probably the only bit of control he has – when dealing with a scorpio who normally are the ones with all the control. That or he was just too emotional and it was out of almost grief because he loves you so much that he hung up. Oh I’ve just read your post, okay well anyway .. I think u should trust in the magic more just be as magnificent as you can be without showing too much neediness or vulnerability.. vulnerability but not cringeworthy .. asuredness as I’m sure you do have and if it’s meant to be, though do try if you do really want him and a bit of straight up honesty he may well respond to, without cringeworthyness, just honest.. then he’ll come back to you. I am convinced that aquarians would much rather be with a scorpio,,, .
Ooh well only great to hear for people that would care but I found out yesterday after thinking the chart was quite slightly different that Donna is
Sun Pisces, Scorpio Rising, Mercury Aquarius, Moon Sagittarius, Mars Capricorn, Venus Aries. (: She was compared to chess champion Bobby Fischer. Also out thur on Google.
Her chart makes even more sense to me now .. there was such a deep switched on part to her that always seemed sort of hidden or not seen so much in amongst her jokey but wonderful and full of interesting and needed out there qualities persona. I’d say it’s partially from the fully awake scorpio (rising).
I know Nancy Ann Tappe who sees colors similar to Donna, certainly they both see life colors the same, once worked with an astrologer tdw her life colors and it matched up marvellously. I’ve always wanted to read that work as Nancy’s book and life story was amazing. She saw little people on the lawn with her psychic grandmother which her grandfather couldn’t see and she had a being called Golden Eagle that used to talk when her grandfo was around but not when grandmother as the grandmother would say you daint (some sorta old scottish american dialetc) need both tae cry I only chastised one of ye. Woah.
Tho in light of reading yesterday on Donna’s wonderful dancer daughter’s site Titanya Dahlin called What The Bleep Is Going On I’m so glad to see that actually she once started seeing b/w the worlds and saw people of all shapes and sizes walk down the street and pets but I think they were made of light. which is so funny bcoz when I met her, she is a blue red life color (marilyn monroe was red) , she seemed so otherworldly focussed. Lovely and wise, but somehow that too. Still she is an amazing artist so not that I’m one to know or judge!
She isn’t an astrologer, but it seems to be cool anyway.
I guess there is so much more to the world than we can see.
It’s amazing.
Young physics student, Canadian Adam Dreamhealer is also interesting. (:
By all means look it up.
Who’s Donna Eden and what does she do?
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Barbara is Sun Pisces, Aquarius Rising, Mercury Pisces, Moon Pisces, Venus in Pisces, Mars in Sagittarius.
Donna’s books are f-an-t-as-tic- for nervous breakdowns or emotional health of any sort. She has bought a woman out of forgetting everything in a mental hospital in 45 minutes by holding her temple points. The books are amazing .. everyone should know about these techniques.
I also love her second book tho have only read some of it. Fascinating what she says about how clients always wanted to see her in a certain week of her cycle. Bcoz in that week she is way more psychic, far too caring, etc. That married with me doing all this work in a super passionate way during the same week.. so fascinating to see what we women do during the week before our periods I think it is.
Tho alos hadn’t seen Terese De Wolf (rawdownunder on you tube – other fantastic method for happiness tho Donna talks about trying raw food in the 60s in her second book I think it is – she was off the chart on any normal behaviuor had allergies to fruits vegetables everythin, m.s. as a teen, heart attack at 27, loads of other stuff where the polynesians stuck her in the sand to get rid of toxins when she was very young and v. unwell she was like finally some people with I guess it was ancient wisdom who know what they’re doing.. she had way more weird things going on with her . suffice to say, well not actually as she didnt have the fruit etc. allergies at this point but nevertheless she felt awful even tho loved the idea of raw. Natch wud think it was detox anyway.. wil hav to bring that up to her I think in May next year.) So Terese had read (and her enthusiasm on raw hasmatched mine, so nice to see and feel Im not ht e only one almost tripping out on the wonderfulness of it all – mental, emotional, physical amazing sense of well being after a one month cleansing reaction of a cold 2 lots of 10 dyas in a row which given my history would make sense.. then feeling fantastic and needing less sleep with ginormous amounts of creative energy — ann wigmore only slept 4 hours and under the radar in his early 80s Staten Island New York nutritionist Fred Bisci raw foodist and PHD nutritinoist last 50 years also only sleeps 4-5 hrs. He believes longevity doesnt seem to increase but degenereative illneses and physical health does. Thats all ive been able to find out so far.
But Terese read about a woman I forget her name she mentionsi t on one of her videos where apparently all these coral reef type things sth like that let out their spores (sorta) on the 19th of every month in line with the moon and the tides. Which I thought was kind of beautiful tho eeeeeevvvvven more so after reading some of the beeeoooooooooooutiful Gift of Unkonwn Things by Lyall Watson a biologist etc. etc. etc. etc. where he talks about all these squid and crab and conches that leap one foot forward and then out comes an eloquent eye that looks at the person… which given my love of cancer star signs, crabs and how they show divine love (Neville Goddard) story.. just leaves me in heaven. But Lyall’s story about the squid was great, beautiful, and the colour of their eyes.
And that women Terese’s woman if it’s right should ovulate on the 19th.
Check out Jude Currivan on you tube people!! hehehe.
Donna is a pisces btw. Aren’t all psychics!? Jude Currivan, Tony Stockwell, Barbara Brennan .. there are more but I forget right noow.
I would seriously consider looking at Donna Eden’s videos on you tube and buying her book.
AquaGirl
Hey Rose — yeah, that’s had been my philosophy in handling this bond — keeping my emotions under wraps and just riding the spontaneity of the relationship. I’ve been an ace at wrangling him …but I”m tired and as a Scorpio if things aren’t escalating fast enough for me I get angry… and well, there’s been too much turbulence lately.
All this attaching, detaching, charming, leaving — that’s too unstable for me over the long run. I need lots of constant, progressively devoted attention, follow up and emotional investment.
As for the b-day, I never told him specifically my birthday, but he’s seen my chart. I don’t really care about that though… I can’t get over the hang up. I conduct myself with class and I’m not sure how he got the impression he could hang up on me. Now, granted he might be thinking…you weren’t saying anything so I thought you had an attitude and I hung up. This is a grown man with a PhD… I have never seen him behave like this.
And to tender an apology and not follow up with thorough communication to mend the rift. I know he thinks all is well ..and has said “We’ll move on.” That doesn’t work for me. No, MF you move on.
So thanks for the “go girl,” Rose. because I don’t want this to work out. It’s not good for my emotional health. I’ve felt so much better since I decided that I’m severing the bond. I do cry when I think about him — because I’m very private and allowed him to get closer to me than anyone in a long time. We’ve shared and confided so much and it feels a physical part of my body is being torn away. I generally like keeping my walls up… but with him I had no walls or boundaries …and I made myself too vulnerable.
The test will be when he calls in the coming weeks (and he will) and wants to see me… I’ll have to stick to my stance to detach from him.
Anyway, enough about me. Like I said earlier Rose I think Aquas can see unconventional beauty….and man do they love Caps. With the nervousness and being closed off … he probably is intrigued by what’s beneath that facade.
Anyway, looks like you came off pretty well and might have been a bit intimidating for her if she kept stealing glances.
Great that he seemed bored …
Synthia!
So glad you’re back and so sorry for all the depression you’re going through. I can imagine how it must be. Us Scorps are very intense, and when we invest to much emotion in something only to have it not work out, it is devastating. I’ve had to take antidepressants a few times in my life when I feel most people would just shrug and move on!
Part of me wants to give you a “GO GIRL!” for deciding to let your Aqua go, and the other part of me is quite sad…..and wants to believe and always have hope. (I am always at war with myself!)
I cannot believe he didnt remember your birthday. Or did he, and just chose to ignore it? Wow. I cannot even imagine an Aqua blowing up like that. They are always so calm and “psshhh, whatever” about everything and always seem to want to mend relationships. When they do get mad, they always seem to just walk away and not look back, rather than erupt like that! Obviously his Scorpio moon! that’s so interesting.
Why must they stay with the Caps? Do they want a life doomed with boredom??
So sorry. I hope you can find another Aqua to discuss with us. hahahaha.
OH! I MET HIS CAPRICORN!!! After he so nicely came out for drinks for my birthday and gave me a pumpkin, I thought it would be nice if I finally went to see his band play. I knew she’d be there, and I went ALONE. He introduced us, quite awkwardly, and I shook her hand confidently and she gave me a quiet and curious “Nice to meet you too”. The fact that she was super short which required me to LOOK DOWN at her made it even more awesome. She is short, dumpy, awkward, nervous looking thing and would not stop looking over at me while he was on stage. she spent most of the set talking his best friends ear off as he looked bored. haha it was amazing. After the show I told Aqua I had to run to meet some friends and was super cheerful and confident the whole time. It went well. But…..he is still with her so it didnt go that well. hahaha
He texted me the next morning thanking me for coming and that he was sorry we couldnt “hang out more”. (whatever, i was the one who left! haha)
Aqualuvr and Ty, I have been reading you guys’ posts and I empathize SO MUCH. I feel that generally, with these guys that play the aloof game, we do need to let them go.
Or at least just train ourselves to be cool with how they are and try hard not to take it personally. This is why the stars say we are incompatible matches. UNLESS we can learn from them. We are too intense, they arent. We can maybe benefit from adapting some of their aloofness (is that even a word? lol)
Try not to let our emotions get the best of us. They are not bad people. They don’t even REALIZE what they are doing to us. And if they do, they dont UNDERSTAND it because their emotions just do not work that way. Did you ever see or hear of someone flip out over something that you yourself would NEVER flip out over? You think theyre a little bit crazy, right? You don’t feel for them because you do not understand how their mind is working.
For some, yes, you do need to let them go, depending on the circumstance, but some of us just need to…..let it be……
We Scorpios love to “End” things in an obvious manner. Blow ups, fights, impulsive deleting from facebook;).
I am trying very hard to be like this, and I think Im doing alright.
aqualuvr. I so understand you. be careful with the sagg rising. the aquarius will be caught up in that image and think she’s all about it, when she’s really a cap. That what happens with me. I have gemini rising, so as an air sign, aquarius seem to love me like honey. As soon as he gets to her capricorn, he’ll probably be scared and leave. that ALSO happens with me. The only one that didn’t leave was one with a cancer moon (also water).
I think as long as you give some time. he’ll come back. even though it may take longer than you think. you just have to be very honest, sincere AND frank when he DOES.
xoxoxo and kudos to alll!!!!!!!
BTW that Thanx Rutu and Jenny(I like what you said….nice)
Also My Rising is Sagittarius which make me blunt and honest, I tell like is it is; my moon is Gemini it make me more detached (like staying to myself, being at home typical scorpion thing, but I don’t like being alone for a long time i gets depressing), it also helps me to adapt to different setting even though the Scorpio in me is always analyzing(people alway think I am shy but I like to listen to what going on in my environment ….
My Venus and Mars are Virgo which makes me extremely picking when it comes to friends and relationships(I alway pick wrong BTW….lol).
@ Jenny
Yes, i know what u mean about the playful bossy bit… that is how i am… and i tend to like to give my opinion, even when it is not wanted, i often get in fights with my sister (who is a capricorn with sagittarius rising) because of this….
i dont believe you were over-reacting, i have ended relationships for the same reasons, and i would not be able to handle a guy hanging up on me because he is mad… if he doesnt have the balls to fight with me, or atleast stay on and talk it out, there are going to be MAJOR problems…. i know i cannot stand a guy like that, because i believe every relationship needs a good shake up to see if it will be able to handle the full deal…. that is where the communication part comes in…. to me that is saying, “f’ck u” and throwing his problems in your face….
What was his problem w/ u asking him about his moon? that i cannot even begin to imagine is offensive…. (is it really that offensive?) lol, i guess, i wouldnt continue that relationship, but huzzah to u if you do! you will need alot of patience and a grand reserve of it at that! lol….
@ Rick
good luck at finding your woman, and try not to get too frustrated w/ our species… we do tend to like to be fickle sometimes, even the mature ones…
Wow…this is sad…it seems like all of us Scorpio women are going through similar situations.
I hate liars and I kinda feel betrayed by him…..I actually been there for him. He stay at my place many times…..I hurt now that I know he truth.
Hey guys!!!
Happy birthday all my fellow Scorpios.
Rose — hey sweetie, I’ve missed you too.
So much upheaval in my life right not. You’d think with the Sun in Scorp this would be our best time, right?! But so much transformation. I can’t take it, been so depressed dealing with all these volatile emotions.
Anyway, Rose so sorry the Aqua didn’t show up to your party. AT least you got a pumpkin. My Aqua didn’t even acknowledge me on my b-day. I’m soo done.
And no, he’s not ever leaving his Cap either, so I’ve realized this bond is too intense and needs to be broken off.
I’m not even going to be friends. The feelings are soo deep and painful to not consummate and I’m finding I thrive better completely single or completely in a relationship.
Being in between … and wondering what the relationship is, where it’s going to go, when I’m going to see him, etc … just is too traumatic for me. I swear I’ve been crying all week…especially since we had a big fight last week — he told me “You don’t listen to anyone ..because you think you know everything and you want to dominate everybody!” What?!!! Um, I’m a Scorpio with Capricorn rising…. of course I’m a bit bossy, assertive, and like giving advice — I mean isn’t that cute, lol, I am flirty and playful about it. He used to like that edge … he once said to me “What I like about you is that you’re so competitive.” And now I’m domineering?! Geesh. It’s really just playful bravado.
And then, when I was stunned because he was yelling at me — and aquas rarely yell — I didn’t respond … I was silent due to shock — and then he hung up. WTF?
So, that put me in a dilemma because I don’t let men disrespect me. I have ended male friendships and romances over disrespectful actions …because that is not something women should tolerate.
Three hours later he emailed an apology after I left a msg for him to never ever f’kin call me again.
All this magic we had … and now this big explosion …(I love explosions and conflict don’t get me wrong, but the hanging up is just beyond the limit.) IN fact, that action makes it easier for me to back away… I mean, am I overreacting? What kind of guy hangs up when he’s angry?
Interesting that the blow-up came after I was playfully asking if he had a scorpio moon (I needed confirmation)… he got really defensive, like apparently it’s a secret that he has my sun sign on his moon, then he blurted out “Of course I have a Scorpio Moon, Synthia!” Geesh, is the subject really that touchy?
But I think he’s been reading a bunch of stuff I’ve written on my blog and the web and he probably thinks I have some psycho astrological plot to capture him (which I did!) … that’s why I hate posting all this stuff that you can’t go back and change. (and rose that’s why I had to take your chart with the cappie down).
Anyway, I miss you guys too. Hey, if you wanna hang out, I’m lonely in Scorpioland.ning.com
P.S. Rose, I have no skill in doing a horary chart. I was completely lost. Sawwy.
hmm, very warm and kind advices Jenny, thanks! sincerely
I don´t think I´ll be able to mold my personality that much, as I´ve always embraced hate (in short term doses) as a healing process, but I can definitely try to adopt that Jesus forgiving attitude here and there! People even called me Jesus all the time when I had long hair, so why not give it a shot? It might be part of my “fate”
You seem like a very positive person, that´s wonderful, I always try to look on the bright side of things but the selfish side of my persona tends to cloud my days with negative thoughts..
Oh well, live and learn, that´s what we´re here for!
I do understand your view , Rick and trust me, I don’t expect you to be single forever and end up …(ok, the picture you presents is not quite what I have in mind when I’m old! LOL! I want to move around the world and help people.Then I practise mediatation when I’m too old to move!
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What I’m saying is that do not be frustrated, do not play games and stay away from those who do because as you said , we’re just human, there is a not so good side of every one of us that can emerge at any moment , hence you might end up playing along with them and think that you can do better (the ego thing?) , yet the truth is that the two players will forvever play the game they set for each other and “true passion” and “true love” will die in the end.Even they end up together, they will find ways to blame the other when the couple faces a crisis because the foundation of their love is “weak” and “troubled”.Trust lost from beginning and love without trust is nothing more than a dangerous game that can drain all your emotion and leave you dry with no hope!
When we born, we does not born with immediate kindness inside us.It’s something that we can develop with practice (practice makes perfect! lol!).Similarly, to have the beautiful love that you dream , you just need to know your self , a beautiful person who just want to love and be loved (Am I right?) and behave according to the standard that you set.No need to get angry when someone treats you unfairly, that’s their loss.In fact , I pity them. Forgive and forget.Focus on your beautiful self and use that positive energy to attract other beautiful energy
Best wishes,
Jenny & Rose, thank u for your positive outlook on things but as I´ve stated here before, I´m not that obsessed or even actively seeking a potential soul mate all the time..it´s cyclical really! right now, my state of mind doesn´t even compel me to search for anyone, too busy with other things.
But honestly, from my recent past experience, I don´t necessarily agree that I should boost my self esteem to be able to find someone naturally.
I realized that when I just didn´t care about seeking someone, no one would come to me at all lol..people feed off other people´s energy, when they sense you´re way too focused on yourself, they don´t even attempt to reach you on a sentimental level..
I think that selfless attitude towards life that Jenny was talking about, to give inconditionally and not expect nothing in return is kinda utopian you know? it´s a beautiful and inspiring theory, but ultimately doomed to fail if you don´t have the purest of hearts..and I sure as hell don´t
Believe me, i´ve been there, done that, and, unlike Rose, for me it´s totally unacceptable to be single forever..I don´t end up an old, solitary man like Mr. Burns from the Simpsons ahahah
Opinions differ a lot in these kind of matters..I think you got my point, I´m not that desperate, just frustrated.
At the end of the day we all know that their is a strong, very strong attraction between Aquas and Scorps. BUT! One thing that both signs have to remeber.
SCorpios, (Esp women).
If you give Aqua men space, not hound them all the time, and be patient with them, THEY WILL BE THE MOST SPARKLING, CHARMING, ADVENTUROUS LOVERS YOU HAVE EVER EXPERIENCED. – Give them time and give them space! and they will come back and talk for AGES with you! So let them bring some new news back to the table.
Aquarians (The MEn)
Do me a favour and make up your mind what u want to do! Dont take every thing the scorp lady says to heart, she cant help being messed up in the head! she wants to trust some one,,, let it be you!
THEY LIKE ADMIRATION../. SO GIVE IT… in the usual aquraian way of, and watch she will be hooked… FACE IT WHEN AQUA MEN AND SCORP WOMEN MEET… YOUR BOSTH HOOKED AND YOU AINT GOIN NO WHERE!!!
EXPECT THE TRAIN WREK BUT ENJOY THE RIDE!
Yes , me too even you would ignore me! Lol! Don’t be so gloomy! Life is beautiful and needs to be explored more so don’t corner yourself
come on, Ty. u r not tallking to urself, i am listening to u.
Why do I feel like I’m talking to myself on this board???
Rose I agree with you…..I think I going to be single as well. My trust level have drop even more.
I agree with Jenny, Rick.
You are so young to be so actively seeking. It’s not wrong. It’s lovely and refreshing, but you have so much time.
I dunno, maybe that’s just me. I’ve always been the type to just let love come to me. It’s too tiring to look for guys. lol
At my rate, I’ll be single forever. Oddly enough, that doesn’t even bother me. lol
Rick,
I sincerely think you just have to stop looking and concentrated on yourself first. Once you let go of negative energy and let your mind be a pure river that can not be disturbed by external conditions, you’ll be happy without the need of any outside companion. This is when you can truly feel love and spread love around the world.There are many kinds of love in the world. No need to run around those who use games to manipulate others.Love to me is compassion and I have no wish to hurt any one.Life is a journey to improve one self and hopefully to help others around you.
Best wishes,
Absolutely Rose! I´ve not become Scorpio-phobic at all hehehe, I still think u´re one of the most fascinating creatures one can ever encounter
I just wish I could finally meet a true Scorpio WOMAN, not immature, undecided chicks..the potential was definitely there in young Scorps I´ve met but they ended up lacking everything else to develop serious relationships..and the same obviously applies to many other signs..
It´s really frustrating to be 25 years old and still unable to attract real, adult women..I guess I´m in that weird half-life crisis where you start to see yourself as too childish and irresponsible for older women to like you, but at the same time sick and tired of taking chances with younger girls who don´t teach you that much in order to progress as a human being…
If anyone feels the same, feel free to vent..
Now I know why noone replied to my question.Lol!
well… we just broke up because we never had time… its not like we fought or something… he pissed at me b/c my sister called him and chewed him out! i had NOTHING to do w/ it, and i didnt even know until after the fact! grrr…. he’s so frustrating….. T.T but i luv him…. .><.
Rick,
the universe keeps pushing me toward Aquas too haha.
Not all Scorps are the same. Inherently, yes, but not totally. If the universe wants you to keep meeting them, then go with it.
I have a new crush at work. I wonder when his birthday is….hmmmmmm
Jenny,
I had someone do my chart on here once but I’d be interested in seeing another if you want. my bday is 10/29/81
@ Scott
Apparently, we really are the genuine emotive aqua embassadors out here
@Aqualuver
it´s perfectly understandable that he doesn´t want to remain friends with you..it really is a basic principle of any man/woman out there with a little pride in themselves..but speaking as an Aqua, we do not tend to harvest hate towards someone for too long but if things are fresh, there´s no way we want to see/talk or even relate closely to that person anytime soon..
With my now absent Scorpio lady, I´m actually adopting the very same principle of not wanting to see her for a long time..no idea if I´ll manage to do it but so far, so good…there´s been very little communication between us.
bahh love´s a bitch, that´s for sure..and I keep meeting Scorpio ladies in my university all the time! the universe keeps pushing me towards one lol…if only I wasn´t so damn selective…
Aqualuver I understand what your going through. I had enough myself. I haven’t spoken to mines since my b-day. He didn’t even call to see how my b-day went. I did not even get to see him. My ex, yes, my daughter’s father saw how pissed I was and called him….. I didn’t even know he was going to call him. He said he spoke to him and ask if he just want to be friends with me and Mr Aqua told him he see me as more….he like me . My ex told him should call to see how I was doing. (about a week to a week and a half ago)
He hasn’t call of course and I’m done calling him. I feel it’s a slap it the face. I never had someone treat me like this before that keep telling me they miss me when we speak and how much they liked me. I don’t get.
I get along with Aquarians and I love their personality esp his. I love it mostly when we are just alone. I miss that so much from him. But I think I have to let him go.
yeah, just watch out for the hitting part… cuz usually, for me anyways… thats how i get to touch them…. lol… all of my bf’s have told me that they didnt think a women actually ‘hit’ on them when hitting on them…. lol
Hi Rose, if you give me your birthday, I can briefly do your chart for you ?
scott,
i think you hit the nail right on the head, and you barely know my situation hahaha
(theres a slew of posts up there. i got laid off from my job this summer and this place was my outlet lol)
so frustrating is right!
after that whole situation, I promised myself to always stay true and never play games. Even if that may lead to things not working out, at least I know I was honest and no “what if?s”
how do you know if a scorpio likes you??
at FIRST, you will probably have no idea until you are in an intimate setting with them. I never show it around others. But if you can get out to a bar with her, maybe…and sneak away from friends to a dark corner…she still won’t tell you if she’s not sure if you like her yet. But you will know. Scorpio’s have a lot of pride. They won’t act like they like a guy in front of people, at least in the conventional way. Get her alone, if possible, in a “sexy” setting, and she will flirt like crazy, smile a lot, laugh at everything you say, and find ways to touch you. You will know. If you guys are closer and are already friends, she may outright tell you. I personally am very blunt, and tell it like it is….but I also have a Leo moon…or ascendant??? I cant remember! synthia did my chart on here once. but anyway….yea…that’s all I got.
lol
P.S. Synthia where are you? Do you still read these? I miss you!
Rose..when he said he wanted to be single, he was just sending “feel’rs” out to you because we aqua’s get messed up by scorps (it’s the only sign that we can’t figure out!
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We know you have your walls up and are afaid to open up, so when he said he wanted to be single, he wasn’t lying, he just was hoping you would jump in there and tell you him how you feel. He probably said that because he felt you wanted to be single, so he said he wanted to be single and you said you wanted to be single, then he agreed that he wanted to be single and then you said, ya single is the way to be..and so on and so on….get my point? All the while, noboday really saying how they felt…”I want you bad!.”
Scorps are so filled with secrecy. It’s kinda like a hollywood movie where the 2 people never get together because of misunderstandings and them protecting themselves.
Ahhh scorpio woman…so frusterating, but soooo amazing!
p.s scorpio’s need to take more risks too..go for it!
p.s.s. Rose..one little question…right to the point. How can we tell if scorpio woman likes us? I know it’s been answered before…but a refresher course with more deets? Give it up secret scorpio women! Fess up!
I dunno. I mean, I get that Aquas love friends and want to be everyone’s friend etc….. but I still feel like it’s totally weird to be friends with a girl you are sexually and physically attracted to. It just can’t be….
attraction doesn’t just go away.
yeah, so i have a ?…. so we broke up, about two weeks ago, but we keep talking, like over the internet and stuff, but he says he doesnt want to be my friend, but from what u all said, aquas keep wanting to be friends… this confuses me… he treats me different from all of his other ex’s…. i’m really confused, because i cannot get him out of my head, or my heart…
i’m just wondering if maybe he is just as frustrated as i am at our whole situation, and maybe even still likes me…. i dont know…. help?
The post 580 analyze about how Aquas handle the emotion so impecable and correct.
Well Scott,
I must say he wasnt so innocent either. He kept trying to convince himself that he would stay single this time around (since he never is) and he wouldnt have a new girl lined up after he broke off with his ex. he kept saying he wanted to be single, so i went along with it. ooooh i wanna be single too! is that what you wanna hear? then ill say it and act how i think you want me to act! If he had made it clear he was gonna continue to serial date, i woulda made myself more available. before i knew it, he immediately had a new gf after his relationship ended.
its so sad. ive just never had a guy want to be “friends” and then REALLY do it. lol
Scott, I can feel you.My moon is in Scorpio too though my Mars is in Aquarius so I’ve a very contradicting natures.One moment , I’m so intimate, the next I’m so detached.It doesn’t help when I also have a Sagittarius risin which makes me too friendly and smiley.I joke too much and are not afraid of telling silly stories.I’m not even sure that I know my true characters.Sometimes, I want intimacy and romance, other times I just feel bored with the person besides me and want to break it off with them.Pressure just keep building up whenever I’m in a realationship. That’s why I think I’m fit to be alone for the rest of my life because I’ll hurt people in relationship with me while I still can’t get a hang of my nature…
Yeah, games are bad.Just love and live the way you want
Rose..i’m afraid it is too late
I hate to say this, because it might hurt, but you are now in the friend world. He will be more relaxed with you, funny and really charming (all things attractive) BUT not wanting anything more. In fact, you might get confused because he is so wonderful with you now. The reason is there is no more tension in him (nervousness) being around you, because his feelings have changed. He is going to be really easy going with you now…don’t be fooled, his feelings have changed and you are now a “buddy.”
You can’t get him to leave the cap girl…we hate to hurt people’s feelings. I know when a girl makes it clear she doesn’t want to be with me, I move on.
I think you might of royally confused him and he slowly got rid of his feelings long ago (we detach slowly while the other person is playing their games with us, so by the time we decide to move on, you’re not aware and still play with us, so it pushes us to cut off the emotions quicker).
The only way to “maybe” get him back is to remove yourself from him completely, let him be in this relationship. Should his relationship end, then come back and start over with a more honest approach.
Damn scorpio women!
we love you so much, but you mess with us sooo bad! Ahhh if only scorpio woman would just stop with the games, then aqua and scorp could be an awesome-hot couple!
p.s Rick..my moon is in scorpio..hahaha. I guess we’re the only emotional aqua guys here?
YES LISTEN TO SCOTT! I liked my Aqua so I thought that making him jealous and acting like I didnt want to date anyone would make him want me! I played games and you know whaT? he went looking for someone else and now he’s with her and I am in the friend zone. He used to like me…a lot. I shoulda kept my damn mouth shut.
I still dont get the friends thing? Is this typical? He seems to keep me around….
Are there any tactics I can employ to get him to leave this damn Capricorn girl????!!!! ahhhhh!!!!
I met her Sat night btw. at his band’s show. SO not cute.
hahaha.
Hi guys ,
I hope you can help me with this . I’m a Scorpio girl who broke up with a Libra a year ago and I intended to be single for the rest of my life ( nothing to do with my ex , he was nice but we were not compatible so I broke up with him and we’re still very good friend)
Lately, I met this Aqua guy, he was very cold at first.In fact, I talked with other guys ( a Cap and other Aqua) very easily.What suprised me most was that the two Aqua guys are totally different.One is very friendly and humble , he even seem to be quite sensitive and has some tendencies of a Libra(Aqua 1) while the other is a bit cold and “eccentric” , he also used some very mean jokes (Aqua 2) to others and he even called me ” crazy woman” jokingly .Then one day, suddenly he became friendly a bit towards me , he even asked me many personal questions and waited for me to cook my dinner( 3 hours!) then helped me with things and even invited me to visit his house sometimes( I thought he was just joking last time).He told me that he has pictures of the house and he’d like to show me sometimes, my curiousity got the best of me so I asked him to show me and he did.He laughed at me when I didn’t look around his room for I thought it was impolite to scan other stuff without permission then he showed me his drawings.They are very “unique” sketches that would normally scare other girls but I wasn’t , I even felt that he can become a very talented scientist in the future so he was very excited and told me that he used to show these to his friends (girls) and they always ran away! I then cut the conversation short to return to the kitchen and he still followed me there, we then talked all night till I told him that I needed to go to bed, he commented sacarsticly about how I needed to “walk up very late tomorrow yet when to bed early”…During our conversation , we had many crazy ideas and he always suggested that we should do together and then somehow it led to engagement , he said we even could try that, I interrupted him and said that we are friends ,and he seemed a bit quieter and murmured something like can’t we be more, I asked him to repeat because I was busy with my cooking but he refused to .Later he also said something like he enjoyed his time with me more than I did with him something and I had to assure him that it was not the case.There is one more thing , I wore my “lucky” ring on my ring finger so my friends thought I’m engaged and I never bothered to explain because I just want to remain single and the ring didn’t fit any other fingers ! It becomes a shield for me from any man ‘s attention though Any one who asked me about it , I’ll just smile and say that I can’t tell them.xP
My question is that does he have some special feeling for me? I just want to know so that I can treat him right , not hurt his feeling because I really treasure frienship, in fact I want to be friends with all people in the world ( blame my Mars in Aquarius! LOL!).He’s very nice , may be one day we can try some thing but not at this stage because I need to learn more myself and others around me…
Thanks!
Wow Scott, fabulous description of a male Aquarius way of reacting to romance! couldn´t have put it better myself.
I wonder if u also have a water rising sign, you really do behave a lot like me
“Here is how we show we like you: we treat everyone else like a buddy, all smiles and laughter, very relaxed, but with you…we are more quite, nervous, sometimes aloof and standoffish because we know our “charm” doesn’t work on you scorps. We try different things to get you laughing and interested…although not conventional” <- precisely, you just snatched the words right outta my fingers! That´s exactly how I behave, or used to when I was around my Scorp chick..
Looking back, I think she lost me when she started treating me once again as just another one of her male friends..appearing kinda indifferent and unaffected by my presence, it was probably just another test but whatever, I don´t have the patience to put up with those bullshit mood swings of her..either a woman´s with me and I mean perfectly synched, or she loses me after a while..
I can also relate to the constant craving for attention, but ONLY from girls i´m interested in..every other girl who doesn´t mean a thing to me tends to annoy me right from the beginning when becoming irritating.
Nice to know there are Aqua dudes out there so similar to me, makes me feel less misunderstood hehe
wow, thanks everyone. it’s i guess just used as a mechanism against other things, i guess.
(the whole lying thing).
well, otherwise, i guess i should give him attention, as you say. i might just be left behind if not.
xoxoxoxo
Hmmm…I don’t understand this lying thing. I’m an aquarian male and do not tend to lie. This contradicts everything. I am more upfront with how I am and expect others to be the same. I don’t like mind games and lying is playing mind games. Really, I wish that woman would be more direct, like me. The best way to get an aquarian male..shhhh here it is…
Just say it like it is! TELL US YOU LIKE US! All this stuff about ignoring us ONLY works in the beginning to get us to notice you..THAT’S ALL! Stop ignoring us and take us down! We will respond. Scorpio woman are sooooo amazing and wonderful, but need to be more direct. For all their bravado, they need to take the risk. You know we like you, you sense it..so just go for it!
Here is how we show we like you: we treat everyone else like a buddy, all smiles and laughter, very relaxed, but with you…we are more quite, nervous, sometimes aloof and standoffish because we know our “charm” doesn’t work on you scorps. We try different things to get you laughing and interested…although not conventional. If we are everyone else’s buddy, and more calm around you..we like you because we are scared too! The most important thing to remember is……..Do not try to make us jealous! Scorpio woman love to do this..but we will be hurt (you will know because we will hide) and then….FORGET YOU. You will then become one of the “buddies” we joke with. We cannot deal with you trying to make us jealous, it hurts us, but we are masters of hiding it. The only thing you will gain is losing us.
One more thing: we are like sponges for attention. Give it to us in buckets, we will not run, like i said ignoring only works in the beginning. Show us you love us because we need the attention fix, after all can’t you see us trying to get attention from our “buddies?” We need some from you too, so don’t hold back, we will give up. We don’t like to chase for too long.
Hope that helps..ignore the lying part, this goes against our code.
I can’t really speak for other Aquarians but for me, I’m finding a friend in a lover, not a lover in a friend. Sounds strange? I can’t explain it for myself either.
The mere idea of having sex with different people kinda excites me yet the drive to do it isn’t even there. Maybe its an Aquarian thing but no matter how exciting the sex between a Scorpio and Aquarius can be, if the mood to have sex isn’t there, don’t even bother forcing him/her to do it.
As to why we lie, it depends on what kind of lies we lie. It can be minor or major. I cannot fully explain why we lie but what I can agree is that we do manipulate certain things by not telling the entire truth.
Heck, I would definitely lie to my Scorpio partner as to why am I late. Once, I did mention to my Scorpio bestie that “I don’t wait for people. People wait for me.” since I have trouble managing time, the fact that I don’t like to wait for others and that I have this “heck care” attitude. Kinda rude I admit but we always compensate in some ways.
I don’t know if this comment helps in answering your question why we lie and somehow, I doubt it helped.
discover VERY recently, that the aquarians I deal with, lied to me. all three of them. Aquarians aren’t known to be liars, I know that. and maybe that’s why I’m so disappointed. I’m like a lie detecting machine. if someone lies, I’ll just say: “hey, I know you’re lying.” because I do know.
Why did they lie?
Hi Freddy,
I do not speak for all Aquas but i am telling you some my experience maybe explains to you why three of Aquas i involved lied to you.
I am femal Aqua and had few gfs they all are Aquas too. In a relationship we got serious, we didn’t lie but many times we lied coz we was only looking for a pure sexual relationships with men (at a time) then. We named it as 4F (friendship, fun, fuck and free). Very often, we got together and went out together and did fishing game. We got so much fun with men and walked away when we bored.
I am a Scorpio woman (October 28, same as Julia Roberts) and I’ve always felt attracted to the more unconventionally handsome, rather goofy and intelligent blokes.
I recently had dinner with a friend, and he brought along his friend who recently moved to the area, turns out he is an Aquarius…never have I met a more irreverent and hilariously intelligent person.
I think I may have fallen madly in love with that
man…its either that or a strong, compelling desire to murder him in his sleep. Either way, I think he might be in trouble, hee.
Maybe she was being pursued by Bruce Willis.
Could someone tell me what this aquarius married to (trying to get the comment published here!) jULIA rOBERTS I STHINKING HERE? wHERE is a scorpio’s mind at when their eyes look like this?
Thanks.
Second picture down with part red hair.
aboutjulia dot com /site/
Ooh love this. the stars in action..
youtube.com/watch?v=5cGvqs-jf_w
Libra Will, Cancer Tom, Scorpio Scarlett, Aqua Justin, Scorpio Julia etc. etc. hehe.
aH finally read thru this thread. God I love the scorpios (95% of the posts)even here eheh.
I am aquarius (pisces rising, merc, mars aqua, moon virg, venus cap.)and know every friend, co worker and celebrity’s planets and how they so match em. And even in appearance. Hence. I love cancer’s eyes and energy. Scorpios are hooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooot to me. They’re motto is we have though and I think that all fits in with my huge love of beauty and design. They are absolutely electric and tat’s without all the power. WHhich I always think scorpio is the one and only most amazing sign there is. tHOUGH, I do love cancers too. Which is all so strange to mebecause I would think given my chart I wouldn’t. Anyway. UNFOrtunately I’m destined to be out of the love game I think as I dont have a sizzling career. The other annoying thing is I keep loving people from afara. Which is so swful I know but true.
Anyway. Peace and Love to you all.
i discover VERY recently, that the aquarians I deal with, lied to me. all three of them. Aquarians aren’t known to be liars, I know that. and maybe that’s why I’m so disappointed. I’m like a lie detecting machine. if someone lies, I’ll just say: “hey, I know you’re lying.” because I do know.
Why did they lie?
bahh, maybe I really don´t fit into the conventional Aqua prototype but any girl I´m interested in can definitely count on me to show up whenever I´m invited..there has to be interest!
I´m probably more of a Cancer (my rising sign) with an Aquarius disguise lol, but I can´t really understand and relate to that bullshit aloofness of most Aquas
Girls like to be mistreated every now and then, that´s the lesson I´ve learned over the past years and that´s what´s probably happening with most of the Aqua dudes you Scorps keep describing…It´s not only about the zodiac, bottom line, if men keep treating ´em like princesses, it won´t work in the long term. This is a fact that should apply to 90% of women ranging from ages 19 to 30 out there, go ahead and prove me wrong!
And this is coming from a very romantic, caring and anti-macho person like me! I know I can never get away from my true colors but I´ll definitely stop being so gentle from now on, too many disappointments ain´t worth the romanticism..sad but true
aww rose. i feel for you. the pumpkin idea was sweet though.
i wish he would gimme a pumpkin. or at least another kiss.
ahahahaha oh my god fredy! i know what you mean!
i invited my Aqua to my birthday party last wknd and allllll week long, he kept mentioning that he was coming. i took it with a grain of salt but still didnt understand how he would be so adamant about coming-so i thought maybe he actually would this time!
Alas, he didnt. lol.
BUT i had a more intimate gathering at a bar on my actual bday which he showed up to! he surprised me and even gave me a little pumpkin as a gift!
they are SO unpredictable.
apparently, he had “girlfriend issues” the night of my party.
He always has girlfriend issues. he continues to date the SAME type of girl over and over, and have the same exact issues.
i just dont understand why he wont just date someone different, who isnt like those girls….who he can actually have FUN with. LIKE ME!!!
*sigh*
P.S Happy Belated and soon-to-be Birthdays, fellow Scorpios!
i know what you mean. i planned a party. i even invited people i disliked, just so he would come, and he ended up not comming because his best friend didn’t. i ended up with some arses for a couple of hours at my house. all crushed by his action.
never count on an aqua to come somewhere.
they just don’t.
Hey guys, I will try and make this short… I am a Scorp female and in love with a Aqua. I have also read these are the worst signs for each other but I don’t let that get to me or make my judgements. When we first met there was instant attraction at first sight from both of us, how do I know this… found out after we have been together he told me. Also told me he couldn’t wait till he saw me again the next day after we met. Make a long story short we have been on/off for the past 10 months now. Problem one is we had alot of mis-understandings of each other from the start and also let people from the outside and their comments get to us. We would bump heads quite often and argue from time to time. He would get upset and be like that is it and it is over, some time would pass and he would always come back. He has told me that he has never made love to anyone like the way we have with anyone else, he tells me he loves me and wishes things were different from the begining and wishes we would have not fought with each other. When he is upset or mad at me he swears he will never be with me or ever be my boyfriend again… Yet some time passes we don’t speak and he always comes back around. He tells me he misses me and can’t stay away from me. What I really want to know is if he really loves me, he knows how I feel about him and knows I care for him alot. Bottom line is am I wasting time with him… I really want to be with him and for things to work out.
Check this website, maybe can help you out to reason Aqua men. Good luck!
http://songsdomain.tripod.com/relationships/index.html
http://songsdomain.tripod.com/aquarius/page7.html
hey everyone!
for the past few days i have been reading up about scorpio and aquarius connections. i feel so ridiculous for doing it, but its so interesting to me! my friends were the ones who got me hooked. they called me up to let me know that they read in seventeen magazine about aquarius’ being the worst match for scorpios. ofcourse the guy i have been interested in for the last few months is an aquarius. hes so confusing, but so intriguing, i cant help but fall for him! i need help with understanding him, though.
here is my story:
our relationship began with him bluntly telling me that i was beautiful and a sweetheart. he shared that he wanted to hang out with me, but was too busy with work and sports to be able to. i told him id love to hang out whenever hed get the chance to breathe between activities.
we started talking more and had the most random conversations, but i loved it. he’d always word things the way i thought them, but didnt know how to make them make sense. i just loved our discussions so much. we started talking every night and he became VERY open about some things. he told me so much about himself and asked me very personal questions to get to know me better as well. at one point, he randomly threw out how serious he is when he promises things and how trustworthy he is. i definitely began falling for him.
we tried hanging out a few times after that. i invited him to a party, and he brought two of his friends, but things didnt work out and we were only able to hang out for an hour or so. i was just glad that he had made an effort to be there.
then i tried asking him to hang out the following weekend, but he had work so that didnt work out. we were still talking every night and here and there during the day, but ofcourse i wanted more time with him. then we both needed to study for a test, so he offered to come over and ofcourse i wanted him to! he told me to remind him about it though, because he had a bad memory (even though it wouldve been the following day) i spent hours cleaning the house and getting ready for him to come over, and he ended up not coming because it was too late by the time i had called him to see where he was. this irritated me so much because i felt like i was putting so much work into it, and he wasnt caring at all. the following day, we were supposed to hang out and when i asked him if it was still happening, he told me he would but he had plans with someone else. that night i found out through one of our mutual friends that that someone else was a girl from another school he’d be asking out.
this killed me. i felt so crushed because i was so sure that he was interested in me. i dont understand why he put himself out there in the first place if he wasnt. can any aqua males explain this to me?
so for now, im backing off from him, as hard as it is. i have such strong feelings for him but im not sure what to do.
oh, and to finish the story..he asked the girl out and she agreed, until the following morning when she ‘realized it wasnt a good idea.’ i only know all of this through our mutual friend. he doesnt even know i know about his interest in this other girl. he also told our mutual friend that im not his type (what is then, if he called me beautiful and sweet — an ugly and heartless person?) i dont understand him.
i havent asked him to hang out for 3 weeks or so. i catch him glancing at me often, but it may be a coincidence, who knows? i over think too often.
i was thinking of asking him to hang out this weekend, but im not positive thatd be a good idea. should i wait longer?
comments, opinions, ideas..all are appreciated
plz excuse my spelling; my english is still quite bad
hi,
i am a female scorpio today is my 21st birthday actually, yay!
reading the pist here has helped me learn a lot about my behaviour that is sooo similar to all the female scorps here and my aqua guy.
i am a bit confused because it seems that an aqua has to be friends with someone first to develop a relationship, hmmm…
i met my aqua online and we talked here and there but this August he happened to be in the same town as i was in, so he called and asked if i wanted to do something at 12 am. i agreed, met him, it was great.
he is average looking, i usually like good looking men, but his sence of humor and his intelligence just knocked me off my feet. It was the best night ever, we talked like we had known each other forever. Walked, talked, laughed, and all was well.
I usually don’t like to be touched because i know that just a touch on any part of my skin from the person i like and i am totally turned on then i want sex. Of couse we did touch and kissed and ended up in bed together.
After that, we have been talking, texting, and chatting almost everyday except when he is on his aloof phase, which drives me absolutely crazy.
he tells me i am special and that he hearts me. So i asked him why he said he hearts me (i thought i was pretty odd since we had met only once). I am terrified of commitment first off…as soon as a guy tells me they feelings for me, then i drop them to find someone else; i don’t know why i do it.
Anyway, he told me i hearts me because i was sweet, caring, generous, pretty, that there was a great chemistry between us, amazing sex, thta he had a great time with me, so he wants more…
so i would like to know what aqua guys think about sex on a first date ( i ddn’t know it was a date, but he told me it was…) and if they like someone can they wait for them…?
we live in the same state 35 mins away but right now i am in another state til’ mid January when i get to see him again.
what do you think?
hmm….I wasn’t aware of alot of Aquarius/Scorpio pairings until recently, though I do know a Scorpio guy and a Aquarius girl are very close to each other. I’m not sure about Aqua guys and Scorpio girls but looks like it became a huge trend in the celebrity world. I think the pairing could work, so I don’t know why astrological sites dismiss it. Auqarius and Scorpio in my opinion are pretty intellectual/deep signs in the horoscope and yet they have different ways of approaching the world. There must first be trust and interesting things to discuss and help build a friendship. The flirty stuff may come very fast or probably over a few years until attraction starts. Overall, I’m optimistic about it.
I am a Aquarian guy, I am in relationship with a scorpio girl who is clingy, but strangly I do not mind but actually prefer it. Any explanation for this? and yes Aquarian guys do fall for scorpio girls alot.
Heard from him…..all is well
I’m having a Halloween/Birthday party tomorrow and my Aqua is coming!
Let’s hope he doesnt bring the Capricorn ho! haha
That will surely ruin my party!
I’d love to hear some more costumes from you guys!
Scorps and Aquas!
Hi again fredy
That´s ok (about the hi5 thing), I totally understand your desire for privacy, mine´s private as well but I´m way less selective than you are hehe
You think it´s a shame I won´t forgive her? well, I never said I wouldn´t lol..I just said that´s something I can´t tolerate, and I´ve been fooled enough times in the past to have my reasons.
We still talk to each other every now and then, but c´mon, how sure can you be that´s she´s only lying to keep her secrets to herself? Besides, I´ve already gained that special place in her life, so she told me numerous times..what else am I supposed to do in order to earn her complete trust and sincerity? bahh, any reasonable mature person can realize it´s like beating a dead horse.
I´m starting to become kinda skeptical regarding the astrological way of perceiving one´s intentions..I know it should always be interpreted only as a guideline, but in this case, for instance, she probably thinks and acts very differently from you or the so-called conventional Scorpio modus operandi.
I´ll stand my ground, that´s all.
About the halloween question, I think I´ll just put some make up on, probably mess my hair up and go out as a freaky Robert Smith (from The Cure) impersonator
hey rick, no thanks for the hi5. i have mine private with 50 friends, and it’s not now that i’m going to change it (true scorpio here). but thanks anyway, it shows that you are an open and honest person, and that’s very good. It’s a shame you won’t forgive her. I think you should. she only lies to keep her secrets to herself. after you gain a very special place in her life, she’ll tell you the truth about nearly everythingg.
rutu, can i ask you a question hun? well, the aquarius I know the other day was hitting on me, but then five minutes later he posted a picture hugging this other girls waist at the pool side.
lately he’s been quite reserved, compared to his usual openness.
is he going through a time of indecision, or is he doing that to make me jealous, because he knows i’m prone to it? well, thanks.
and now i’m wondering.
ALL AQUAS!!! WHAT ARE YOU BEING FOR HALLOWEEN?
i wan to know what your eccentric minds are going to dress as.
Thanx Aqualuver….. I call his* home phone today no answer and his cellphone is messed up…..sigh. I tried…..
and Rutu you are right but it’s very difficult sometimes. As I said hopefully he’ll call and I will tell him how this is makng me feel.
Thanx Aqualuver….. I call him home phone today to no answer and his cellphone is messed up…..sigh.
and Rutu you are right but it’s very difficult sometimes. As I said hopefully he’ll call and I will tell him how this is makng me feel.
Aqualuver
I can understand this and if you have read earlier posts you can see this behaviour is quite common. My suggestion to you is that you need to convey your feelings to him. He is not aware of what you are going through. And given the fact that scorpio women can really hide her feelings just adds even more difficulty. Have you read “mini”s post. I thinks you should do the same she did. Tell him what you want. Its not always easy to understand other peoples needs. And I think he will appreciate your straightforwardness. Be open. Tell him calmly what you want, what you need and how does it feels to you when you dont get it. You have my best wishes. And I am here to help in a way I can. Fine.
i had a bad day, and when he did not answer my stupid call… i kinda freaked out….. gah… i hate my stupid emotions……….. *pouts*
me either ty… i know how u feel…i have never cried over a guy before, and i’ve already cried for my aqua twice…. i havent talked to him in a week, and my birthday is in three weeks… i hope he calls me… *sigh* i hope he calls you! happy early birthday!
Aqualuver I know how you feel….I been talking to my Aqua guy for 4 months now….my B-day Is the 25 of Oct and I haven’t heard from him in 10 days. If I don’t hear from him on the 24 or on my b-day I call a quits. He’s starting to hurt my feeling and I’m not the type of person to just break down for anyone.
oh, and just so you know, most scorpion girls are kinda secretive… we dont like to be very open about ourselves…. u aqua guys gotta give us some time, just like we try… we do try, i do atleast, to give you guys some time…. its pretty frustrating…..
and if you know u want something, go for it, because if you dont, u will look back and see that it is gone, and u will spend the rest of your life regretting it… >< yep….
okay, so i’m dying here! i’m a scor girl in luv w/ a aqua boy! we have been dating for like a month now, and i’m soooo frustrated! he never answers my calls, and then when he does, hes sooooo evasive! then when we do get together, he always has to have other people with us, then he ignors me most of the time, an flirts with other girls! it drives me nuts…. i dont know, i’m so confused about him….
hmm, não és a primeira pessoa que me diz isso..olha até a “minha” escorpiona diz que adorava visitar os Estados Unidos mas viver aí, no way mesmo lol..eu ainda assim sou aventureiro o suficiente pra arriscar hehe..quanto a ti, tens sempre Coimbra à tua espera, que é uma cidade divinal!
Ok, sorry everybody else for our encrypted portuguese chat lol, I wish I could follow your advice fredy, and go after the unknown pleasures of the future with a Scorpio but well..she´s the one who has to realize the damage, not me..I´ve always been sweet to her, but I sure as hell won´t be naive to the point of hurting mysell even more..I know she´ll regret her attitude one day, let´s see if we´re both still available to each other then..
P.S. hey fredy -> http://midnite-rambler.hi5.com add me if u want to keep practicing your portuguese
até para mais, Rick, estou farta dos States. É tudo uma illusão.
a vida de cá vives como rei, mas é tudo uma farça.
Era preciso explicarte a pormenor o que estou a dizer, mas é bom saber que falas assim tão bem Ingles.
Aqua, go for the Scorpio, I know it. I’m a scorpio, and I keep on feeling guilty towards my Aqua. xoxoxo
ahahahahaha, mundo pequeno hein fredy? esta é que não tava nada à espera, brutal
It´s my second language really hehe..and lucky you for leaving to the States! ah one day I´ll do that, I really don´t think I belong here..
hope u understood this! lol, even though I never lived abroad, I always felt a fascination towards languages and well..having subtitled movies and shows, instead of dubbed ones here in Portugal, helps a lot to develop your english from an early age
well, back to the romantic topic, yeah I know she likes me, the main issue now is trust..how can I trust her when she lies to me? she´s got something to fear that´s for sure..what is it?
rick. you must be kidding me. i’m portuguese too.
where did you learn english so well?
i left portugal 4 years ago.
back in the us.
look, she likes you. any scorpio that’s subtle just doesn’t want the whole world to know.
P.S. I’m from coimbra
http://www.ehow.com/tips_14549.html, check this out, maybe can help you guys out when you fall for Aqua men.
If what you want most from another person is to be the center of their universe, the chance you don’t get it from Aqua guys is quite very very high. Aqua sign is the social life one.
Quite a weird situation Rose.. I think there´s definitely some semi-hidden feelings from him towards you, as if the story is yet to be written! Myself, as an Aquarius, would NEVER get that close to a female friend if things were perfect in my relationship..It may look optimistic for you, nevertheless I would advise u to keep playing along but never to set your hopes too high..
Back to my pool of suspicions, she outright lied Rose..yeah sad but true..
I elegantly asked her if she had ever gone for a walk 3 sundays ago to that beautiful spot near Lisbon as she had told me and she replied no, that she was tired and sleepy. And then I asked her who was she supposed to go with (but in a very cool manner) and she told me she was supposed to go with a female friend and her mother…lol..sad really, I know this is a pure lie, I won´t go into details, but I´m 100% sure she was supposed to go with that other guy who I introduced her to, one year ago….she probably did go but also lied to me about that, for all I know!
I know it´s human nature, so many people lie, but how the hell can I trust someone who lies in my face, after telling me she exclusively devotes herself to one guy at a time, when there´s deep feelings involved, telling me to relax and don´t worry about jealousy?
Would any of you do the same not to hurt my feelings? Don´t u think she definitely has something to hide and that she might lie again and again in the future? this is something I cannot tolerate..and to top things, she sent me a text msg last night saying she missed me and it was really nice to spend the afternoon with me…go figure..
Rick,
I don’t necessarily think it is a Scorpio thing, rather than just human nature to tell white lies to spare someone’s feelings. We’ve all done it. Sometimes it’s ALSO because we do like the dude but maybe want to just plain hang out with another dude as a friend and don’t want to make it a big deal.
Did she outright lie or just like through omission?
Um…so the weirdest thing happened today. I was out food shopping in the middle of the day and Aquarius texted me asking if I were working today and if I wanted to meet for a drink.
I couldnt believe it. I know he’s still dating the Capricorn. In fact, they just went away to her family’s this weekend. He didnt mention her ONCE while we had drinks . For 3 hours mind you. He didnt hit on me or anything either. We just had an AWESOME time.
Weird. I mean, Ive said it before and Ill say it again. Some of my friends really believe that he sincerely just wants a friendship.
BUT:
- he knows I’m in love with him
- he has a girlfriend
i dont know. im old-fashioned. its just not typical. but im not complaining!
it put me in a great mood for the rest of the day!
Rose
Or maybe it was that! He just didn´t want to emphasize that particular issue and, since things were in the meantime more or less resolved, he just kept on talking as if nothing bad happened between him and his girlfriend..
Or maybe I´m imagining things too much on your bright side lol, Aquas can be very reserved and mysterious as well.. when they want to that is, only time will tell I guess.
Moving on to my situation..oh well, I had lunch with her today..we chatted about lots of stuff, just in a regular and cool friendly way, I even taught her some German I´ve been learning at my University and then I posed the pertinent question I´ve been dying to ask her for the past few weeks..
Without going into much detail, I was very very disappointed because I know, from very reliable sources, that she lied to me, concerning a meeting with that other dude I told u about some weeks ago..
So my question, and this is probably a personality issue which applies to women in general, regardless of their astrological sign, is:
Is it normal and somewhat forgiving for a Scorp to lie about seeing someone else, in order to protect the one guy she really likes from being hurt?
I know we have no commitment..we never had and if she keeps doing this kind of stuff, we probably never will, but I care for her so much that I desperately need to know if she lied to me because she really wants me and is afraid that I wouldn´t handle the truth very well, or if she lied to me because she´s a confused and undecided piece of immature trash who just wants to keep the leash on me and have me come back anytime she feels like..
God damnit, isn´t there any decent girls anymore? I could go on with my lamentations but please, try to give me an answer…
“likely just another chick in his adoring collection”, Synthia post 470. I like this concept, Synthia, it is so correct to desribe what i ussually did with men, another man in adoring collection.
Rick,
I guess…
I kinda got my hopes up over something last week. We hadn’t spoken in a few weeks and he emailed me asking me what was up…which I thought was cool that he was thinking of me…it was purely friendly, but still, he knows I like him “in that way”.
So I wrote back telling him some cool stuff that had happened and he wrote back with something along the lines of :”Oh that’s awesome, I wish my luck would change. Summer started out good but now it all went downhill” SO I assumed he was talking about the girl…and I wrote back saying something like aww well lets chat about it over drinks or something and he said yea lets get together and talk some more..
we didnt but i saw him at a group get together last night and it was hard to talk one-on-one. he never brought her up but he mentioned something that let me know he was still with her. (he was away that weekend in her hometown-i assume meeting her family
)
SO i guess that is not what was going shitty in his life.
oh well
Hey guys…im a Scorpio not sure about the moon sign although i believe it is a Leo. I am very attracted to this Aquarius man and i believe he is probably a Pisces moon. idk how to go about things since he already knows i have “feelings” for him on account of a friend of mine running her mouth making me seem childish in my opinion. After that event he wanted to talk. In this conversation which was about 25 minutes he apologized if i ever felt like he lead me on…and he basically told me about myself because i wasn’t talking much, i didn’t know what to say. sort of like Ms.Cleo. He told me that i was comfortable around him before and now im back in my shell and he can tell i don’t really trust people that much and i’ve been hurt before. But once some1 has my trust they have all of it and that he knows that once they do something they lose it or something bothers me about them and i keep my distance, he also said he could read body language very well…which seemed to be true. He also told me he didn’t have to be around me for more than 5 minutes to know about how i feel or how i think in a way, also what i’ve been through in the past and what i think about my future. Everything he said was pretty much on point. Before him finding out about how i felt we were pretty good friends but distant, because of his schedule, he is always busy but i know i could talk to him about anything. He made this face like a suspicious face…you know squinting his eyes type of look when he said “your friend also brought something else to my attention which u never told me…” he was referring to me being attracted to him. But aside from my friend who i never told but she just knew i like him she is also a scorpio…aside from that event i always felt like there was no point in telling him how i felt if i knew i wasn’t going to get much out of it because of the hectic and busy lifestyle he has. Now after this conversation we had, im very sad and i feel like i lost someone very close to me and it hurts…i find myself being very defensive like im going to be hurt and he also told me that he knew that about me and that he thinks that i’m trying to fight the feelings i have for him or trying to convince myself not to have feelings for him because i think he will hurt me. But idk what to do now, i don’t think things will ever be the same.
fredy, we´re both from Lisbon, Portugal.
Her hi5 is pretty simple, no vids/songs, but hey I´ve known her for a year and we share a lot of artistic interests, we´re both into metal and alternative/indie rock, weird abstract movies, stuff like that..I´m very picky when it comes to artistic tastes and yeah..she´s my type of girl
Honestly, even if she had some songs up on her profile, I don´t think that would be necessarily representative of the impact I caused on her life hehe, so many other chicks with different zodiac signs can do that..why the Scorps?
I tend to look more at the profile status u know? and as I said before, she´s been leaving some pretty interesting hints there…which, modesty apart, are most likely about me and/or us..
@Rose
What else can u do really? I´ve been following your crusade and, from my viewpoint, Aquas can be very very loyal (I´m extra loyal ´cause of my Dog chinese sign), so to “Angelina Jolie” them is a pretty heroic task. . .
Just continue being his friend I guess..who knows what the future holds? Have faith in fate
Hi, I am a Scorpio female that like an Aquarius guy. I knew him for 4 months now and I feel like giving up. When we first met he always called me and had time for me. But know I guess since he’s know I’m there for him, he changed. He calls me his girlfriend, and I just tell people I’m talking to him and him only. I hardly see him and I can’t keep to him because his cell is messed up and he hardly home.He is always busy. Last week I told him how I felt and he listened. Every time I go around him someone is there. I starting to feel like you know what. I am a very patience person. I know he likes me and I don’t want to give up on him but I can’t take it anymore. I feel like I’m not important to him.
If someone likes you wouldn’t they try to get in contact with you no matter what?
Hi KK,
Welcome to the heartbreaking world of being into an Aquarius man!
BTW, following up from my recent post….
I think I was wrong about the Capricorn being out of the picture
I guess I should just give up….
*Sigh*
Rick, where are you from europe. i use hi5. i’m a scorpio. look at the videos and songs she has up there.if anything matches your impact on her life, she likes you. i’m from europe too.
i’m living in the US.
(scoprio
he’s the aqua, living in europe.
Hi K K…..
No need to thank me….
You have written a wonderful post and thanks for sharing that with us. We will be here to help in a way we can. Keep us updated.
See you later.
Bye!!!
well, I can definitely consider that scenario as a possibility Rose and I had actually thought about it recently, but my actions were fueled by my frustration of feeling treated as just another friend of hers..and I need so much more attention..
) like me..let´s wait and see, if there´s any rewarding justice in the universe, I´ll get what I´ve been craving for so long..
I could live with the fact that she´d never treat me as I dream of but at least I had to be sure that´s she´s exclusively MINE..and I haven´t felt that yet..
I´ll play along, the stars apparently say 2009 will be a fabulous year for single Uranians (from planet Uranus that is
Thanks Rose*
BRAVO, JULIA! I HAVE JUST READ YOUR POST #480, NOONE HAS EVER PUT ME INTO WORDS BETTER! FOR ALL YOU AQUARIAN MEN WHO WERE ASKING HOW US SCORPIO WOMEN ARE, JUST READ JULIA’S POST!
Synthia,
I am new to post, and I see you do chart work. I am really interested in knowing more about this, even though I havent even met my new Aquarian man yet, or even know his birthday. But we have been chatting for a little while on line now, and will meet Friday. He is already telling me he really wants to be with me, and this is just based on pics and talking. I am new to this post thing, I’ve never really participated before. But I am a Scorpio woman on a quest, and I need to know everything. Please tell me if you can help me. Thanks!
KK
PS
Thank you Bright Star Lights for being here!
Hello to all my fellow Scorpio women! And special thanks to RUTU for getting me here. I am a single Scorpio woman who has never been married and will be 50 in 2 weeks. I have been on this quest for about a month, scouring the singles lines, looking for a good Capricorn, Cancer or Pisces, as these are supposed to be good signs for me. Recently, a very attractive Aquarian man started im’img me and we will meet on Friday. So I start reading to see if we will be a good match, and i find nothing but negatives. So I keep searching, because I really like this guy just online and am excited to meet him, but don’t want to continue to only get my heart broken if he is not a good match. My major relationships have been with Gemini’s, which always start out great, but then the twin takes over and it goes south. So after frantically searching website over website, i find love/astrology, and there I read some good news, and RUTU directs me to this post. And I read all the good advice and comments from my fellow Scorpio women and Aquarious men giving of themselves to help us understand. How great is this? I have been obsessed all day reading all of your comments, and now I am sharing mine. This is new to me, but after Rose said about sharing, i just fast forward to the end (I’ll have to catch up another day, still havent read june til present. But one thing I want to share, is thank you from the bottom of my heart for all the good insight and advice. Like COMMUNICATING and SAYING HOW I FEEL. I know this has killed me in the past. And not to take things so personally. And giving Aquarian time and space. Not being so jealous or possessive (which I have gotten better with over the years, but still need to be vigilant with). This was great, hearing all of you women talk and saying, yes that’s me, through and through. I have been a loner most of my life and sometimes think i might go crazy, although I am great socially and everyone loves me, I really truly prefer solitude….but yet love company and long for a good man! And when I fall in love, I fall hard….which is why even though I am excited about the new man, am afraid of getting hurt again. That’s why it was so important for me to read all of this, and to know I am not alone in my quest for love, and have the support here to do things a little differently this time. Like wearing something sexy and staring him down on the first date. And talking about sports and the debate and world affairs, and when he says he wants me badly, to just be a little aloof, and not fall all over him (being a good scorpio and the emotional creature that I am). To play a little hard to get, but not too hard, just to keep him wanting more. And most importantly to tell him how I feel. Be honest and straightforward about everything, no games. Sometimes I think as a Scorpio woman I do that by instinct, without even thinking. And yes, in my younger years, I used to throw and kick and scream (and can still throw a tantrum now and then, but nothing violent these days, thank god!)
I just want to learn from my mistakes now, and move forward and have a good relationship, and thanks to reading all of your posts here, I think I might have a chance with the new guy. And after all, if Julia Roberts and Demi Moore can do it, so can I!!!!
SPECIAL THANKS TO RUTU, ROSE, AND K
Rick,
It’s not hard at all with Scorps. In fact, we wonder why guys make such a big deal over things and over-think things and we wish everything could be more black and white.
ok…well maybe just me. but i wouldnt be surprised if your girl liked you a lot (in that way) and is confused by YOUR actions.
loll Rose, I know I tend to rationalize everything way beyond my own desires, don´t all Aquas do? we´re geniuses after all muhahahaha
I know she likes me..but how sure can I be that she feels for me romantically? maybe it´s just that very special friendship type of feelings..
And I don´t want that!! I´m sick to death of being the same old girls´ favourite buddy..awww so sweet and bla bla bla..I want a girlfriend that truly fulfills me..
I´m aware this comes across as an impatient and almost desperate attitude towards love, but it´s just the state I´m in right now, and this lady´s pretty much responsible for turning me into a believer again lol
Oh well, obviously I agreed to have lunch with her, it´s gonna happen this friday and I´ll handle things very carefully when I see her..no kissing and/or mellow movements of course..just little hints here and there and a couple of inevitable pertinent questions.
I want this to work, but dammit, is it always this hard with Scorps? How many more tests do I have to pass?
Sorry Kat but i can’t stop laughing if reading your post. I , am Aqua (female), acted like that, too, with men (at the same time) i liked but wasnt sure that i love him or not?
When i had a whim to do something for being bored, i asked one of guys i liked to go up to mountain to look up stars too but it didnt mean anything more than friendship (and sometime under some circumstance it can be friend-sex).
Quite often i was supprised that a guy “interpreted” my action as love.
I agreed with what Rick said that you have a pretty hard task at hand..
RICK!
PLEASE!
she likes you! stop thinking too much and just ask her to lunch!
One step at a time, my friend.
: )
Hello Kat
Sadly, that´s a typical aloof and detached Aqua behavior..he really seems to fit the stereotype..I don´t know if he´s been hurt in the past, thus creating this shield of protection but you have a pretty hard task at hand..
Personally, I do not fit into that category, I´m definitely jealous, I just don´t like to admit it or show it too much..it may well be his case but it´s hard to tell..he doesn´t seem as sentimental as I am, judging from what u told us.
I say keep the flame alive and try to confront him face to face with your doubts if u feel it´s really necessary..aqua males don´t tend to lie about feelings..if they want something or someone, they just don´t give up easily..
Which brings me to my case once again, it´s been 2 and a half weeks without seeing my Scorp girl, and 1 week without any sort of communication..obviously these kind of affairs don´t die fast and as much as I try to abstract myself with other things (and girls), I still miss her..and the interesting thing is that she keeps leaving subliminal hints on her hi5 account (more popular here in Europe than myspace), stuff like “and all that could have been” on her status..I´m pretty sure it´s about me but damn, she´s as stubborn as I am!
OK, I try to reply with equally suggestive topics but we still don´t confront each other directly..
My question to all you enigmatic Scorpio ladies out there is..what the heck should I do? lol
Honestly, I´ve been testing her, as I´ve previously stated, to see if she invites me to go out but now I´m afraid she´s thinking I was just another impatient dude who was never really sure about my feelings for her..
**Update**
I´ve just sent her a txt msg, only asking if she´s okay and she replied just now, saying she´s fine and wondering when we would go out for lunch! ahahaha, interesting huh?
Any ideas about this girl´s state of mind?
its 5am and i still cant get sum sleep.
we didnt have any plans on friday n he asked me out. it was 1am… it was the first time we got together cuz we were just cyber ‘friends’.
he took me to the mountains to see the stars and the city at nite [im such a romantic scorpio] so when he took me there ii was like… oh my god.
we talked, we laughed… we had such a great time just talkin about our lifes, our families, n then he kissed me.
i kissed him back, n we started to make out, he was holdin my hand, kissin my forehead, holdin me so close to him…
we did that till 6am.
when he was about to leave, he hugged me n he kissed me under the rain, [yea it was raining] n its funny because all that things, the kiss under the rain, the trip to the mountains just to c the city at nite, n everythin, happened the same nite i met this guy, n ive always wanted to do that wit someone special… n after a couple of hrs… i just felt like he was becomin someone special.
so we talked today, or yesterday [its already monday] and he said, i want to see you again, and i asked him when he was free and he said ”tonight” so we got together and wen he saw me he kissed me and he hugged me, we drove to the same place and he was holdin my hand the whole time.
when we got there he was kissing me and when i was in his arms he made me feel protected, it was so nice to be with him… and then he told me he was a virgin.
i told him about some experiences i had with guys, really bad ones. and he said, you need good guys in your life, and i wana be that guy…
and then i was giving him an example of guys that i do trust [like my real friends] and guys that are willing to pretend to be nice just to get in a girls pants. so i started to talk about this really cool guy whos my friend. and all of the sudden this guy said: give him a shot, he sounds like a nice guy.
I was shocked.
I was like… what the… i got so confused, and he was like ”kat, look at me, i wana be there for you, i want u to count on me, if u ever need anything, just give me a buzz”
and he kissed me.
im so confused right now. its almost 6am n im still over thinking about this. im such an scorpio girl.
oh and when we were on our way back, he was like, i kissed my friend last nite, but it didnt mean anything and i was like oh so u kiss any girl? and he was like no i dont. and i said, well wat would u say if ur girlfriend kisses another guy just cuz shes really close to him? and he was like, kat im not the jealous type, [and for me, if a guy doesnt get jealous at all, its because he doesnt care]
so is this guy likes me or what?
help, please.
MAJA
MAJA
MAJA!!!!!!!!!!!!
mine makes fun of me all the time. he makes fun of me becuase of my interests. he used to give me stupid pet names. now ever since i told him to stop, he doesn’t say them anymore.
is that good?
i hope.
some days he doesn’t enforce the conversation to keep going. . .
but other times he does.
Good news! I took the advice on this thread and told my scorp woman about my feelings last week. She at first was distant and did not acknowledge my feelings, which was a huge disappointment. I expected her to never speak to me again, but she called me on the weekend and we went out! Total surprise, I guess she got scared. So we hooked up and so far things are good. She broke up with her boyfriend a couple of weeks ago, which is why I finally confessed (safer that way). I am waiting for her to back off again, but I am giving her a lot of attention as per this thread advice so hopefully she will stick around a bit with me.
Rose: yes i really like her a lot! No games, I’m in for the long haul.
So very sorry to read about your loss Synthia..my condolences.
I also think I deserve much much better, thank u for your kind words of encouragement
Big kiss
Hi Synthia….
I can understand how it feels not to have one of your loved ones around. Family is very important for me. My father died when I was just 3 years old. But time heals. Wish you all the support.
Take care.
— Rutu
so sorry synthia. my heart goes out to you right now.
and no worries! i had completely forgotten you were supposed to do that prediction thing for me (sorry, forgot what it was called)….but whenever you feel like it… for fun
Hi Everyone. There was a death in my family so I’ve been out of sorts.
Just wanted to stop in and say to Rose — I haven’t forgotten, life is just really all-consuming right now! Forgive me.
Also, I really hope the Cappy is gone. That would be so good for you.
And to Rick — sorry to hear how things turned out. You are a really sweet guy and I hope you find love.
OK, guys. Hope to be back to my old self soon.
See you later
FREDY
FREDY
FREDY
thats good.very good thing. .its waaay better than mine. he only responds but doesnt enforce the conversation to keep going. but ur dude…him talking a lot once u start means hes been waiting for you the whole time and just scared Or not sure that u wanna talk to him.
does yours make fun of you in anyway???
MAJA
MAJA
MAJA
OMG
i talk to mine and he responds. i think it’s just so that i don’t feel bad. idk. but after i start talking, he talks ALOT. what do you think it is???
Howdy again
Well, just to let u know that my romance with my confusing Scorpio chick is most likely over..as Synthia wisely suggested, i withdrew, continued to test her to see if she would invite me over for some regular chit chat for instance, and predictably nothing.
Ok, i say f*ck it..and f*ck her! Honestly, I´ve been fooled enough times in the past to endure this kind of treatment..it´s sad but in the back of my mind I´ve adopted this hit or miss attitude..I´ve been single for three years, sometimes I get sick of it, other times I just don´t care, it evolved into a never ending cycle..
I´ve done everything she allowed me to, in order to prove my feelings and deep affection for her..and as you´re aware from my previous posts, this is no recent short-lived flame..I´ve been patient, as patient can be, and what did I gain from it? absolutely f*ckin´nothing..
and it´s curious Synthia, dealing with 2 fixed and stubborn signs, I also thought that “fighting” with her over sometimes insignificant subjects would be some kind of a turn on for both us, ´cause personally I get easily bored arguing with submissive people, who tend to kneel down quicker than usual ahaha..but guess what..the last few times we spoke to each other, we were in this verbal soft war of words, and apparently she doesn´t seem to “love” me more for it lol.
Just so you understand better, I haven´t seen her in a week, we trade text msgs very casually (now it´s been 3 days without communication), and the little princess seems to have lost her interest in me after everything she told me last month lol..very funny indeed, serves me as a lesson not to trust anyone so dearly in the future.
Well, not much left to say, I´ll leave the lines of communication open, just like a good and naive Aqua boy should, and I learned never to say never over the years..but if anything should happen in the near future between the two of us..oh boy, she´ll have to work very hard and almost brainwash me lol
i think the cappy might be out of the picture!
good for you
yea i pretty much am way ahead of you. i know a lot more than most would at my age. im just good at reading ppl and idk..ive already done wat i had to do. im just going to enjoy my wonderful life.
Maja,
Well, you don’t have to “give up”. Just don’t be so focused on him. To some, that may be “giving up” but it’s just simply being more passive. When I said “come on to him”, I meant maybe tell him how you feel? Or have you already done this? If you have, just sit back, I suppose. There’s nothing more you can really do except be his friend if you can handle it…and if you cant, then cut your losses. If you have not told him, maybe consider it? You really have nothing to lose and you are so young…why not?
This is not so much of an Aquarius/Scorpio advice situation as it is just a simple guy/girl advice situation. More of a seventeen magazine advice column kind of thing….no offense. I didnt mean that in a bad way.
Why not analyze his Aquarian traits?
and your Scorp traits?
and how they work and don’t work?
marion,
um i already knew that….
us scorpios so like to over think things if you have a connection you do ……if he is not in to you…….no connection
give it up not going to work
Rose,
haha i feel the same way about me knowing wat i know now i wish i knew when i was 14…but things happen for a reason.
i think he still likes me but i also think he doesnt want to tell me until i hit 17 to actually start somethingg.
oh dnt get me wrong. i concentarte on my school stuff first cuz i know it will effect my future….this guy is the least of my worries…yet i do still have feelings for him. & im a girl who doesnt give up on something i thats right in front of me.
lol yea i figuard that. He does have some a record of some sort like probaton & etc. so i see where i may want to set a limit. yea im just waiting it out. & i am just being his friend.
um wat do u mean come on to him exactly? lol
I haven’t talked to mine for about 3 weeks and he emailed me today asking me what was going on in my life!
I didn’t even “purposely” do it. I just kind of happened to be busy and didn’t realize that 3 weeks had gone by. I guess I always just feel like I am going to see him at some point and I never push things.
Maja,
Girl, If I only knew then what I know now…
*Sigh* I am 10 years older than you, and I’m STILL young, and I STILL have so much to learn. That is all I’m gonna say. I look back on my life when I was your age and I wished I didn’t stress about guys as much as I did.
This guy probably likes you. He could be IN LOVE with you for all we know. But you know what? IT DOESN’T MATTER. Study a lot and worry about your studies. Get into a good college and focus on your career. Then worry about guys. Now is the time for you to have fun.
I say be as flirty as you can. Come on to him, but not too hard. Don’t be slutty. Just be honest. You have nothing to lose at this point
So he probably is creeped out that it would be statutory rape if he dated/”hooked up” with you. Just wait it out then. Or don’t. Try to be his friend, maybe? Aquarius guys love being friends with a girl first, anyway.
Good luck, girl. You’ll be fine!
I wish I was still 17. There would be so much I would change!
fredy…niether does mine. but i talk to him..& he responds…does yours?
Hmm could u explain the two points of,complete free friendship & behaviour?Do u mean where as like how often it would change.. or..when hes around his friends..then another moment around me?.
Oh wow. where do i begin with my story. i’m gona try to narrow it down a little bit since im a very detailed person..& well it would take me forever to tell everything. Ok ive known him for 3 years.but that doesnt mean i know his life inside & out,for he isnt “too” openly with his life at home persay.but i do know his interest & stuff. With that said i was 14 & he was 17..i hope your getting the gist of this after just saying that.if we were closer in age, we would have simply been together till this moment.He told me that he will not date a girl more than 2 years younger than him.The problem i seem to be struggling with is if he still likes me or even more like he did 2/3 years ago….[he just finished h.s this past year,so i dnt see him at all now]….i can always tell when a guy likes me but with him its a “little” mind bottling cuz he told me last year that he supposely didnt like me
like he did before…BUT with that said, how come a couple months later on in the year he STILL looks me in the eye like the very first time we met. If u ask me actions speak LOUDER than words. & i also remember walking in the hallway & i catch him looking at me cuz once i turned to him he looked away fast…& he’s literally thinking i didnt seem him.
Now if the only thing stopping us from being together is the age..i am riding & standing on the hope of us to officially be together. he says when im 17 it isnt bad…& guess wat…ill be 17 on nov. 21st.
a little helpful info…im a scorpio. but i do not believe in wat astrology says about aquas & scorpios compatability..i ignore it.
how are you people.
my aquarius doesn’t talk to me.
insane.
Hmm…..
May be his behaviour towards you will change. He will stare you when you are not looking. And look in your eyes. There will be more silent smiles than giggles between you two. It will appear like he wants to say something but cann’t say it. A sort of awkwardness instead of complete free friendship. Though it depends. Its your call. If you have been observing him closely then you should be able to tell. Don’t expect anything verbal or obvious. Don’t try to make him jealous. Play cool. Push him at times.
What’s your story by the way?
Anyone like to answer my question how u can tell a aqua guy may like you?
synthia,
i have been back to look at the charts repeatedly since you did them (and your analyzation) So interesting…I love it. I cannot believe how accurate they both are (aside from minor things) It blows my mind.
Ive never heard of a horary. It sounds interesting. Something new for me to google. Hey, knock yourself out if youd like…but just for fun and i promise i wont get mad
Wow I can totally see how your horary made you mad! Jeez! but like you said, maybe it is true??
I’m curious….how often do you and the Aqua get together? And when you do, what kinds of activities do you do?? Im really curious to learn a little more about your friendship dynamic with him.
lol to “that cap woman-i mean, the wife”
HAHAHAHHAHA
I say we need a more professional reader in here! lOl.
And that you guys must trust yourselves to analyze your own charts — that’s where the real revelations come. I learn a lot about myself analyzing my chart.
Plus, it’s really fun.
Someone else might give an aspect in your chart a really general reading or ignore it altogether– but because you know your situation you can really see how that aspect is truly playing out. It will yield a-ha moments.
I think charts are never wrong. I think the vision and the revelation can require special sensitivity and interpretation on occasions when stuff seems wrong.
All that said, I’m not even certain clues can show up in your natal chart about this. Rose, this seems like more a horary question. To me it’s more predictive astrology.
I’ve been dabbling in horary for myself, but I’d be hesitant for anyone to trust me for a horary reading.
I’ll do it for fun, but you should be very cautious.
I had someone do a horary for me and I really, really, really disagreed (maybe because it didn’t turn out in my favor. LOL. I’mstill hoping to prove her wrong).
She suggested the wife may leave but that his significantor (the planet repping him in the horary chart) was in a fixed sign and was not motivated to leave and be with me — even if the wife leaves. WTF.
I was pissed off, to say the least. But she of course looks right for now.
She did suggest he didn’t seem to have strong emotional ties to that cap woman…um, I mean the wife.
I think later I’ll do a horary for you just for fun. But remember it’s just for fun. I’ll use a question you put up above and use the time I noticed the question to do the chart (that’s 4 p.m. my time — chicago time)
As for natal, I guess his natal chart reveals enough of his personality for you to strategize… I’ll look at it, but as I said you should look too … I think everyone is the master of their own readings.
lately i’ve been into analyzing other signs as well.
we should all move and start a new thread or something!
Ok so I have dated 2 guys since the Aquarius dude and they have not worked out. One was even another Aquarius. We didnt really date so much as hang out a couple of times….I felt a weird attraction to him, but he seems to not be interested. Or at least he is being typically aloof, but I dont care about this one as much! he can keep being aloof for all i care. The Libra/Scorp ended up being a MESS and an ASSHOLE. I literally cut him off with my Scorp stinger and I’m pretty sure he wont be back around. I just couldnt tolerate his flakiness anymore and i told him what was up. and you know what? he didnt even put up a fight. he simply said “ok”. wow. and here i thought he was someone i should be more compatible with. told myself to take a break from pining over the orig Aqua and have some fun and give another dude a chance. ha! look what that turned into!
i know i cant have my Aqua…..for he is still dating the “safe girl”. i do wonder, based on the charts Synthia was so nice to do, how i should play it from here. im not saying i should “act” in any way….but we all obviously have different sides to our personality. i really wonder how i should act around him from here on out….should i lay back and do nothing? should i keep nudging him here and there to stay on his mind?
i guess only synthia can truly answer this question since she did my chart and analyzation. lol
what say thee, miss synthia?
why may an aqua guy like to make a scorpio female wonder,guess about wat he is thinking?…
Pretty interesting points you raised there Synthia, especially the paradoxal relationship father/son..subconsciously i might tend to become more like my dad, as years go by, despite loathing so many characteristics he always had..
Actually, he used to be a role model of organization and family stability in the past to me, but as i “emancipated” throughout the years, i realized there´s a lot of things i´d do differently from him..and i never really related too well with Capricorn male friends either, there was this sense of inevitable friction sooner or later..
“Everyone has a PERSONALITY that grinds their chart through nuances and allows us to shape our astrological energies to our lives in ways that best suit our needs” <- great sentence, it basically sums up the need for belief in ourselves and in our destiny..i have a huge fascination towards astrology but there are so many other factors (such as education, tragic events in our lives, etc) shaping up our individual personalities, that you can´t always explain everything through it..
But i do understand the healthy obsession in analyzing other and yourself through this science..over the last problematic 3 years of my life, i tend to do that way more often than i should lol..
Oh well, let´s see what the future holds! one thing for sure, if my romance with this Scorp girl turns out to be a complete flop, i won´t give up on Scorps in the future, as they´re easily the most intelligent, challenging and intriguing women i´ve ever met
On one hand, I’m happy we won’t be losing you to a Cappie; on the other hand I’m baffled you are not attracted to them at all, given your 7th house and moon.
Here’s how one site describes what a person with Capricorn on the 7th House looks for in a mate:
“You tend to attract and well may prefer a partner some others might label as “emotionally cold.” With you, your marriage is somewhat like a ‘business partnership,’ meaning you want to get involved only if you believe a union will stand the test of time. You want and need a practical, levelheaded and down-to-earth mate who will work hard at doing their part to assure you get what you “contracted” for. ”
Sounds like Cap to me … but a little bland…so I’m GLAD your Aqua Sun is overriding that and going for the spice!
Well, my moon is in Cancer …my mom’s sun sign … and let me just say If I never related to another cancer I’d be just fine. :0) Parents!
But yeah, all your Cap influence in your chart is uber interesting. So, you rebelled against tradition and structure with your dad and yet your chart suggests you want it in many ways — in deep emotional ways. You’ve got some thinking to do!
I have a Cap Ascendent and grew up loathing my Cap dad…and what do you know … the older I get the more I exhibit his traits when leading others — in projects and stuff I’m a drill sargeant, practically. Add in the Scorpio intensity and you might not wanna work with me.
Your Venus in Pisces would also draw you to Pisces (in addition to describing your romantic persona) .. but that particular pisces was unfulfilling, huh? You are an enigma.
Well, maybe not. Everyone has a PERSONALITY that grinds their chart through nuances and allows us to shape our astrological energies to our lives in ways that best suit our needs.
Aquas and Scorps both love the “friction” you state and I personally as a Scorp love opposition. I once read somewhere that some Scorps loves conflict so much that if none exists they’ll create it just to feel comfortable. That is so me! If I war with you, I love you and want to give you a kiss!
So, I definitely understand that opposites attract … with the suns in this case.
Be sure to give us more insight when you figure out your own chart.
Hmmmm..well, first of all thanks a lot for taking your precious time analyzing my chart dear Synthia!
I´d never been analyzed to that extent by someone who actually understands these kind of readings and i must say i´m pretty floored about all the Earth/Capricorn influences..
Being very spiritual, I believe in Karma and that everything happens for a reason, so it´s very fascinating to learn that i have so many Cappie aspects in my chart, ´cause my father is a capricorn! and we never got along very well, lots of fighting over the typical disciplined/organized thinking of the Caps vs. the aloofness/chaotic aquarian style..
And to make things worse, i´ve NEVER been deeply attracted to a Cap girl, i can only remember a brief sexual encounter with an older one, some years ago, and another 30 somethings former work colleague who hit on me very hard but i elegantly backed away lol…
Nothing relevant with Capricorn muchachas, my longest relationship was with a Pisces, things were way too wonderful and disney-like, and in the end it needed a little more friction i guess..apart from that, i´ve had Geminis, Taurus, Aquarius (horrible experiences with 2 aquas), and now the ongoing saga with Scorpios!
Pretty weird to look back and digest all of this…as i´ve said before, the universe keeps pushing me to Scorps, i only seem to meet/be interested in Scorpio girls for the last 2 and a half years..go figure lol
I´ll try to get her birth time for you to inspect as well Synthia, all i know is that she has a Leo rising..
@ Rose
If only i was born in the States..i could thank you personally!
I really do think bad timing is what´s ruining our potential good relationship, but it´s the second time in less than a year that we´ve been REALLY interested in each other! this rarely happens with me..
The maturity (or lack of it) level does count as well..today is Sunday, and she told me when we met 2 days ago, that she was going on an art visit to a beautiful place nearby Lisbon, i didn´t even bother to ask who was she going with, the same way she didn´t even ask me if i wanted to go lol..and i´m pretty sure she´s out there right now with that other Saggitarius smart ass…He might just be a friend, but it´s definitely suspicious and i have my reasons to get jealous because i know for sure they´ve flirted in the past..
Ok, whatever, i´m sitting here talking to you and that makes me feel much better, i feel understood
THIS IS THE MOST HELPFULL SITE I VISTED! RUTU AND Onewordspoken AND SYNTHIA YOU HELPED ME SO MUCH THINKS TO THE REST OF YOU TOO FOR YOUR STORIES!
Wow, Rick. I see nothing in your chart that would suggest you’re attracted to Scorpios. Maybe she has something in Aquarius that’s drawing you pretty strongly.
We’ve been up in arms about Cappies… and well it looks like we could eventually lose you to one of them. Not only do you have a Moon in Capricorn but you have Capricorn on your 7th House… those are two really strong indications for the types of women you’d like to romance.
I wonder if your girl has Capricorn in play somewhere? From your description of her personality, it doesn’t sound like it.
Not that this deals with attraction, but you also have Mercury in Capricorn. Wow. You’re very grounded for an Aqua — and apparently very open to emotion….
You are so watery! Not only is your asc cancer, but so is your true node. Ahh. You’ll be a great, devoted husband. And your Venus (love tendencies) and Mars (sexual attraction/behavior) are both in Pisces, very romantic, sensitive, and into bonds that somehow spiritually resonate with you.
With your Pisces Mars no wonder you initially apologized for kissing and being too physical with her! A Pisces Mars is not aggressive at all, very gentle …. and to think I was saying “hunt! hunt! hunt!”
Hmm. I’m dying to see what’s in her chart to support this attraction. Maybe it’s just the Scorp-Aqua sun energy that seems to be strong enough in itself sometimes!
You have no PERSONAL planets in Scorpio and no planets in House 8, which is ruled by Scorpio. I’m stumped.
Rick,
When you say you “can disconnect from people just like that”…i find that so odd coming from an aquarius! I always thought Scorps were like that. Hence, the “sting”. Aquarius are so much more open, friendly, and trusting…i feel….when compared to scorps at least. I always saw them as more the type to leave the lines of communication open..
I feel that the problem does not hav eot necessarily do with her age, but most probably her maturity level, or maybe even the timing in her life right now. You both seem to want “something” but she’s unsure what that is and you seem sure. You are on different wavelengths right now, I feel. That’s not to say it will always be that way, but it is for right now….
Synthia, I totally agree with you about the seeing someone once a week and be fine with it. That’s my ideal relationship. lol. well, maybe a little more than that (depending on my “needs” lol
This maybe help who want to understand Scorpios. Enjoy, he he ha ha!!!!!!!!!!!!
(Souce: http://www.ehow.com/tips_14546_3.html)
We seem to entertain and indulge in a world of secrecy and mystery, even though it may not be intentional. For the ladies, it may be something about our dress, the way we frown when we smile, the way we look in our sunglasses or even our new red lipstick.
For the men, it may be the way they can wear a white T-shirt, look at you like no one else has, or have a conversation that lasts 5 minutes, but is deeper than any conversation you’ve had in the last 5 years. It’s natural, it’s sexy and it’s unusual. We know it. It’s where we get our confidence.
I find that the most common reaction to a Scorpio woman is intrigue and then fear. We are timid underneath and do not want to be hurt. Like the Leo, we want to be recognized and enjoyed, but on an entirely deeper level.
The way we test you is to inject a little fear through our sharp wit, constructive criticism and even adoration. We want to know who is strong enough to withstand our needs and respect us for more than just the sign we represent. So a public, masculine embrace that goes on forever tells us more than when you buy us a drink and ask us home after.
Insecurity comes in many forms and with the Scorpio, it runs deep. We are eternal, analytical and inquisitive. By speaking to you (the fact we have spoken to you first, means we have noticed you), we start our probing and gather your reaction.
It may seem rather obsessive, but we analyze this detail; days, even months after meeting with you. Maybe while not speaking to you in this time. First impressions count. We remember a lot. We hear a love ballad like you will never hear it. We like surprise, but we also like consistency. We love games, of the harmless variety. We love to bounce off people, naturally. We love it if you can keep up, even if you don’t understand.
Some days we don’t want to greet the world, it takes a lot of energy out of us to be ourselves and be enjoyed. Always call if you are going to come over. If you have a friend that likes to hermit without giving a reason, they could be a Scorpio. We just need a little sanctuary to recharge and process all that data.
Most of us love astrology and will have all our close friends tell us their date of birth… not to get you a birthday card.. but to get a second opinion on what’s going on underneath, and what the future may hold.
We crave predicting outcomes and may role play in our heads.. it’s a rehearsal. It’s all a part of protecting who we are and preserving those we love. We know what we can be like when we are hot tempered, persecuted and blamed.
We are misunderstood and complex… but it can all be resolved with good communication, space, time and that love we crave, but may not show.
When a Scorpio loves you, it may be love of the tough variety and then the purest love you can imagine. Our life is a journey that is filled with selfishness in trying to grow, discover who we are and where we fit. But it’s all for the benefit of being the best friend, lover, mother, father, sister and brother we can be to you. We apologize (more sincerely than the spoken word), we forgive (but love the grudge, since we never forget), we are jealous (that we have not grown to be like you or liked by you, yet), we change our coats regularly and we compete to the last breath. We really love you, but we are trying to love what you love about us.
I wouldn´t call the text messages exactly superficial, but they´re definitely a pretext just to keep in touch..i get the sense she wants to keep the flame alive and keep me interested, but as i said i´m mature enough not to become the Scorpio princess´ little puppy lol..I want serious invitations to go out and have fun, for instance!
I´ll give you my birth data Synthia, she does care about astrology as well but i´m pretty sure she isn´t aware of this blog, so why not?
Ricardo, 8 Feb. 1983, 14:30h
Lisbon, Portugal
From what i remember checking a while ago on astro.com, i think i have a moon in..capricorn ahahah, such a boring sign i must agree
but my need for affection and commitment definitely comes from my Cancer ascendant..oh and the fact of not having a girlfriend for 3 years now lol..
Many thanks in advance Synthia!
The Scorpio and Aqua natures of withdrawing and detaching are so similar that it’s hard to navigate union I’m finding.
I think you plan is solid based on how she responded to your going abroad.
I didn’t know she was 21. Scorps can mature faster than others but I’m not certain that’s old enough for a serious relationship. Anything’s possible when there’s this level of chemistry though.
I actually don’t mind just seeing a mate once a week, but the frivolous texts would be repulsive. When she’s a mature Scorpio she will not do that. I don’t do superficial connections period. Rick, do you have a water moon?
Is that why you are so willing to attach and have a profound relationship? I do agree with your earlier observation that your Cancer rising has a lot to do with your desire to commit.
So sweet. Good luck.
Yup, date around, that´s precisely what i´ll do, thanks for the tip
You know, according to the Scorpio woman usual way of commiting to someone, i was prepared for a LOT of hard work and build up of trust/emotions..when she told me, after i returned from a one week trip abroad, that she was anxiously longing for my arrival and that i was the most marvellous person she ever met..oh well, you get the picture..
Obviously expectations were set higher than ever by then, and now she seems to still be interested in keeping in touch but there´s a lot of things missing, and i just find it f*cking pathetic to try to develop a serious relationship by meeting once a week, trading some kisses here and there and some text messages about pointless random things..
Bahh, the bottom line is disappointment, she´s 21 years-old after all, maybe she really is too immature for my kind of ideal relationship..
I won´t give up immediately, I know she´s been tired from work and school projects, but she has to be the one interested in meeting me, i´ve proved more than once my feelings for her..
And if all goes wrong and i find out she still dates the other dude..well, kinda like the Scorpio sting, she will not only lose a potential good lover but also the “most marvellous person she´s ever known”…i can disconnect from people just as simply as that, and she would really deserve it if that happened.
Rick, that’s horrible. You’ve been very patient and I’m terribly sorry. It might be time to withdraw a bit and let her realize the agony of missing you. Sometimes Scorpios don’t know the value of something until it’s gone.
I recommend you date around. But I hope this will only be a temporary strategy that eventually leads her back to you.
rick, she might be just busy, or maybe really isn’t ready.
one thing is for sure.
never give up on a scorpio, or else u won’t get them.
good luck.
just a quick correction, the other guy i was talking about was a former work colleague of mine, and it was me who introduced him to her, hence the irony
Hello again everybody
Interesting to read about regret here, “my” Scorp girl just might be feeling the same thing one or two years from now, ´cause if she doesn´t make up her mind in the following months i´m certainly not going to be played for a fool and be the eternal puppy wagging my tail in excitement for her..
Pretty harsh and impatient words i know, but i do have my reasons, i seriously suspect she´s kinda undecided between me and this other guy, who ironically enough was introduced to me by her when i met her last year..
I´ve done some research through myspace and found out some potentially suspicious comments traded between the two of them in the beginning of this summer, and i´m pretty sure she´s still seeing him nowadays..the most disappointing thing is that i had a very sincere and deeply honest conversation with her last week, and told her face to face that i didn´t want to pressure her at all and that, no matter the distance (we basically see each other once a week now, and trade SMS every 2 days), i´d always be there for her..
She then told me i was also special for her, but she needs to be prepared for a serious relationship and i totally understood that, so we hugged and agreed to let time flow slowly..
I might be acting a little paranoid about all this other guy involved thing, but believe me, i do have my reasons..i´m gonna test her from now on, see if she really wants to be with me, because i´m still the one who invites her to hang out..the oh-so-responsible lady seems to only take the iniative to text me every 2 to 3 days..no time for anything else apparently..
Ok, as u can see i´m pretty pissed, it´s damn frustrating investing in the same person for the second time in a year, only to get almost the same results..
Maybe time will fix things but right now i couldn´t give a flying f*ck if she started to ignore me for good..probably won´t happen but we´ll see.
Sorry about the long breakdown, i just needed to let things out
ROSE
ROSE
ROSE
i played w him too long. 3 years. he has a girl now. how i regret it too. I like him more each day. I have capricorn moon. btw.
CAN ANYONE HELP?
I’m the scorpio, he’s the aqua. w a cancer moon.
Thanks Synthia! Thought she did routine checks and would’ve seen my post ..obviously not lol
Actual Julia, you comments about your flirtatiousness, hving lots of male friends, and rational approach to relationships is good to hear.
I think my interest in this Aqua is completely irrational and at this hour I feel completely done with it.
SEveral things, including your post, just let me know that this relationship is impractical for my needs. And to him, I’m likely just another chick in his adoring collection.
I’ve quite familiar with Jeff’s Seduction Central site and blog. I used to be a member before I deleted my profile because my views were too unconventional over there and I was tired of being censored/criticized. Convention bores me.
Speaking of boring:
With Cappies, everything’s relative. My dad was a Cappie and I’m a Cap Ascendent so I know they have a wide spectrum of behavior just like everyone else.
Cap energy is quite serious and repressed and often cold– until they get older. Of course people are patchquilts of all their personal planets so any Cappie has the potential to regal with other aspects– we all know that’s true with any sun sign.
Sienna MIller’s so-called unpredictability is definetely a function of her Aqua Moon to her to the other extreme. Capricorns by nature hate sponataneity. They like planning for things and no surprises. She is hardly a typical Capricorn. The Cap/Aqua sun-moon combo is quite difficult to live with. An internal struggle.
As for Brad and Angie, we’re just focused on Angie because she really knows how to work her ultra womanly Cancer Ascendent (magnified EVEN MORE by a conjunct Cancer Jupiter which likes things BIG and a conjunct romantic Cancer Venus which renders her sultry) all that with her fiery, take-no-prisoners Aries Moon yields major Alpha feminine impact. And she’s got thefts skills!
Much respect.
http://seductioncentral.ning.com/forum/topic/show?id=797208%3ATopic%3A27242, Check this out, Seductioncentral on Aquarius men.
Sorry, Synthia, for my post makes you sad.
I am social butterfly (party animal) and extrem flirtatiuos, have a lot of friends and many of them are men. I also have the rational approach to relationship. I din’t think that my ex-Scorpio was wrong in his nature, he just was wrong for me. I didn’t need that -deep -love he gave me and i didn’t have what he wanted.
When i am interesting in a guy, i need a frienship first then casual sex and i need him give me a lot of time and space to analyze that relationship before i make myself seriuos.
When we had arguments, i pulled away, party up with my friends and came back when i was over it. He reacted it badly madly and too much dramas which i hated but he seemed to love it (i guest!).
BTW, not all Capricon are boring, up to their rising and moon sign. For example, British movie star Sienna Miller, her sun sign is Capricon but her rising or moon (i don’t remember) is in Aquarius that why she is playful, unpredictable and very spontanous.
Some one here mentioned about Angie and Brad Pitt: Angie is Gemini, Brad is Sagi, it is oppsite match and Gemini and Sagi are Mutable star sign.
Fredy!
Yes, listen to Rutu. I played games for way too long with my Aqua (with a Cancer moon too!) and instead of being jealous, he took it all at face value and got another girlfriend! Boy, do I regret doing that now!
What do you have to lose? I feel like us Scorps are bubbling with emotion but we are SO SCARED to show it, in fear of letting it ALL out and looking psycho. I say as long as you control your feelings and not get TOO intense on him, its ok. Why not just try being completely honest with him? Albeit the “i love you and want to be with you forever!” type of jabber.
Just take that and tone it down. You can never regret being honest, can you?
K– did you try emailing Aurora at brightstarlights@gmail.com?
HI Aurora, can you do a personal compatibility reading for me pls.?
Fredy if you like him go for it girl !!
he posted a pic of himelf w some girl i don’t know and stopped sending me kisses and calling me pet name.
well, oh well.
he told me : “I LOVE YOU” 2 months ago.
I didn’t say anything. I didn’t know what to say.
it’s not normal for an aqua 2 say that though.
he has cancer moon.
I have cap moon.
Fredy!
What’s the story? How can you be so sure that he gave up on you. Maybe he was waiting for signals form you which came too late. So could be thinking that he looked desperate. Why don’t you take few initiatives to declare your interest in him after all he did that for few years while you ignored him.
Ah, Julila. Your post makes me said. A scorpio is “too much” to settle down with? That is the story of my life.
http://www.astro.com/cgi/ade.cgi?, sign up and fill up infs to find out your rising and moon sign.
Interesting to read what ppl here comments about Aqua, it is so true.
I am (female) Aqua, my rising star sign is in Aries, my moon is in Capricon, no water sign at all. I had relationship with the sexy Scorpio male. But i left him for my Virgo hubby. Until now i still think that Scorpios are most interesting ppl in zodiac but settle down with them, for me, it is too much. I like Virgo and Cap, even compared with Scorpio, they are boring, but their calmness makes me feel comfortable.
i’m a girl btw.
scorp.
he’s an aqua (obv.) !!!
i live far far far from him. i mean ocean between. . .
it’s really insane.
i know he loved me intensely for 3 years.
but he never really let me know, he would just flirt, and i take flirts for offense. now i think he gave up on me. i like him now.
insane, intense. omgosh.
HI Aurora, can you do a personal compatibility reading pls.?
I was thinking how bizarre how us Scorpios are or have been in relationship with Leos and didn’t work out, like right now -in this period of time ..and now are really into Aquas!
Am all the way in London dealing with near enough the same situation…can you imagine the whole world!
Hmm there must be “something going on” in our planetaries…that’s causing these sudden attraction to Aquas…’cause i’ve never been or met any before only until recently and Now i meet Aquas All the Time!!
Ooops so sorry Synthia didn’t even know!! Anyway he shoud be proud to see your creative writing talent.
Just seen the latest on your blog…many thanks again for doing that, i shall post comments on there regarding.
Synthia!…wow he has a wife!…ahha naughty girl;)
Your Aqua is not taken permanently…well, unless they suddenly divorce!
Lmao @ psycho and Missionary position!!
My Leo is not too conventional when it comes to sex, but it’s SO predictable -that’s what i can’t stand! He loves sex (if he gets it) and he’s into “doggy”.
Rose lol Facebook is great isn’t it! Especially when i want to do my lil’ investigation on a certain somebody;D I always check to see what their date of birth is…(lol i know sad!) but some don’t put theirs up!
Yup currently with a Leo right now, and i think am lusting after an Aqua.
With Leo i think it’s the “real” thing…and Aqua hmm Maybe for fun and friendship -what more can i have or ask for really…’cause he is a lovely guy, i just don’t know for now.
I’ll see how it goes but it’s been going on for SO long it’s really bugging me, especially him turning up here the other day with a Leo girl (that has the same bday as my partner!), eventually i think i’ll just get sick of it!
Us Scorps are good at “Reborn & Reform” ..or something like that lol
With Leo he’s loyal and would do anything for me if it comes down to it. But it’s the Physical side of things, the Respect and the lack of Communication is the main issues.
And i’m starting to think/feel that we don’t have much in common at all…he’s turned into a boring grandad over the years!
I’m confused, not sure what to do about this so-called relationship.
Do i stick to what i know or do i jeopardise Everything for the sake of “following my heart”.
Yes. As an Aqua he loves astrology and anything weird and mysterious.
He said “Why would you think I wouldn’t believe in that?” It intrigues him.
oh no synthia, don’t do that! Let’s not cause any trouble now. You dont have to do the Cap one if you dont want to. Just a fun thought. I dont know her birth place or time though, just the date.
He knows that you do this though, that you study astrology, doesnt he?
Yep, Rose… that was me. I’d cage that Leo up again in a hot second if I had the opportunity. Do I like the Aqua more? Is he more exciting? Yes!!!!!! But let’s face it. My Aqua is taken… permanently.
What’s trippy is, the synastry with your aqua and the synastry with K’s aqua had a lot of oppositions.
My synastry with the Aqua I like had just two oppositions, that I considered fairly negligible. Other than that — lots of blue lines.
But girls, as I just said on K’s synastry — there is a thin line between love and hate and opposition and conjunction.
On a chart, the clashes that look like death to a relationship, but really be the fire stoking them. REality can put a twist on things.
I mean, the charts say Aquas and Scorps are horrible mates. Can’t prove that by this board can we?
Keep that in mind, as we see the red lines on the charts. I say play the hand anyway and see how the cards fall.
Leos… yeah, they can be traditional. I think it was missionary position every night (sorry if that’s graphic). But that worked for me (and my Cap ascendent). I guess the hotness came from him being so darn authoritative and in charge. (I love dominant men. )
Plus he was really attentive and passionate. I was his adoring audience. He loved my emotional intensity and my devotion. He ate up all that attention. An Aqua … please … after getting a fourth of that attention he would vanish to reclaim his independence.
Rose, if I do the Cap’s chart with your Aqua… I can cross off the birth data so it won’t be clear who the chart belongs too.
As you can see, I can’t post my synastry because I think my Aqua visits my new blog. I hope he doesn’t come over here!!! (thanks for mentioning brightstarlights by name, K!!!!) He will think I’m psycho if he sees his bizness all in here. ha ha.
He’s probably wondering where the hell did I meet all these Scorps in love with Aquas. He probably thinks all those chart interpretations are about him!!!
Is that why I haven’t heard from him today?
If he sees one for cap and aqua, I know he’ll think it’s about his wife and him. Oh dear.
I have been super busy with work but I loved Synthia’s chart reading…and K, I really enjoyed reading yours as well. I have so much to say but no time! ahhh!
K, you say you are dating a Leo right now?
that’s funny, I broke off an engagement to a Leo this past winter and that’s when I started my “crush” on an Aquarius. I had been working with the Aquarius for some time but it didnt really come out full force til I was single.
It was boring and conventional for me too. I think it was Synthia who said her relationship with a Leo was passionate! Was that you, Synthia? I begged to differ. He was so boring…and the Aqua….the complete opposite. He makes me feel like a giddy little kid.
I will comment some more on the charts when I get some time.
Synthia, I should have you do a compatibility chart for my Aqua and the “enemy” capricorn girl! haha
I dont know if I’d have you “post” it though. maybe you can do one secretly through email.
I know her birth date. thank you facebook!
Working late tonight and stressed! Talk soon!
HI Aurora, can you do a personal compatibility reading pls.?
Yes definitely, i need to be more confident in making decisions in future.
It’s such a long story with Leo (08/08/80). We kinda have got to a point in our relationship that we are just staying together for the sake of it to be honest (i know, quite sad!). We argue constantly, a lot have been said back ‘n forth that it’s made me question what we have… I feel like the Respect has gone between us and find it difficult to communicate with him on a level -he can be so immature, childlike. Respect is such a big thing in a relationship but when we have these heated slanging matches…the respect bit by bit. The “fire” we once had is gone, the intimacy has definitely fizzled out for me unfortunately -been celibate for the last year or so. It’s like we are more “friends” than lovers! We’ve got way tooo comfortable with one another to a point that now it’s tooo conventional and boring. I really miss having fun! I feel like i’ve aged so much since being with Leo. He has a heart of gold but also has a very bad temper and his mouth i can’t stand especially in public.
When i first met Aqua (4 long years ago), me and Leo has literally just started dating (i know, should’ve got out of it then!) but it was SO complicated at the time and still is.
I’ve never blatantly made one move at Aqua for him to think that i liked him…no way that’s not me especially when he and I both know that i’m with Leo. It’s funny ’cause they weren’t That good mates before only until recently.
It’d be interesting to see our chart together, THANKS Synthia!
Well, try to see what your own intuition is saying. It knows better than me.
I wouldn’t mention her though. I’d just say it’s nice to see him. But my motivation would be to try to lure him into me.
Yours seems to be to “show that it didn’t get to me” which seems disingenious … and would have you sending mixed signals.
K, I imagine he’s pretty conflicted …you are dating his friend. He’s being lured in by his friend’s girl. It’s a tough predicament. IF he goes for you, he’ll feel like crap.
Do you love this Leo? What are you looking for with the Aqua? Do you want some sideline entertainment just for kicks? Sounds like you need to deal with your own wants and needs first. Maybe not email him until you do.
It’s OK if you just want him to be an “extra.” Who am I to judge. I believe some people need a variety of relationships for fulfillment.
Keep in mind he might think you’re gaming him since you’re dating his friend. I’ll try to look at your two charts together so at least you’ll have ammunition to mull over.
*Note. I cannot emphasize how important it is to follow your own intuition. Life is best when one is one’s own advisor.
I was thinking of texting him something like this
” Was nice to see you ‘n your friend -sorry it was so brief, shame you couldn’t stay longer anyway hope you’re cool see you later! ”
Synthia, what d’you think…does it sound off key??
I mean how is it coming across -if You were an Aqua ‘n get a text like that…what would you make out of it??
My point is to show that it didn’t get to me -him bringing this girl over. And that i’m still a friend!
Shall i send it? Is it a good idea or not? x
Rose, I put your charts up.
http://astrosynthia.blogspot.com/
LOL gosh that was simple ..>>feels rather silly now
Thanks again Synthia!
K-
At the end of the post where it says 0 comments – click on that.
1. You will go to a page with a box to add a comment.
2. THEN YOU HAVE TO, BENEATH THAT, enter the squiggly word verification,
3. then CHECK THE CIRCLE BESIDE NAME/URL and enter your name
4. and then click publish your comment.
It will definitely show up.
It’s 0020 now in London…got an early start tomorrow…really not looking forward to work yuk *sighs* C’est la Vie x
Synthia, i wonder if he sees this girl as “more than a friend” type ’cause afterall he gave her his keys to look after -really thought that was SO random but he must obviously like her you know……..hoping not:(
Oh btw do I have to fill out that form at the bottom ’cause i haven’t done that, i’ve written my comment then clicked on publish your comment (mind you i’ve edited my post like a billion times -hence Mars in Virgo?..idk!) LOLx
Aurora must be proud…i think it’s great this thread, i wouldn’t have come across certain people, things definitely !!
Synnnthiaaa………I’ve clicked on Comments but still wont let me post
Am doing something wrong???
I’m so surprised Aurora hasn’t kicked us all out of here and locked this nearly 500-post thread. LOL.
We’d be so homeless.
K– when I said above that friendships have liberal boundaries with Aquas …i’m suggesting that once they have someone as a friend they can easily participate in interactions that mimick other types of bonding: sexual, romantic, familial … and still think of them as friends.
OK. I changed the settings. You should be able to click comments and then post a comment….
Hi Synthia,
I’m trying to post a comment but it wont let me ..lol
How d’you do it??
Don’t worry about the other data, K.
I worked with what I had.
In brief: You have an Aqua ascendent which will bond well with his sun and Venus. His Aquarius sun is also in your very personal first house. That’s good too.
Your moons seem like they might be incompatible and pose difficulties in relating emotionally too each other.
Anyway, go here to read my summary and see your actual natal chart. Let me know what sounds like you and what doesn’t so I’ll learn.
Yay, that was fun! Stop by and see you guys. Please comment:
http://astrosynthia.blogspot.com/
K- what’s his birth data too ….. date, place…
I know you don’t have his time.
I am also looking forward to your post, Synthia.
And K, cool down girl.
Looking forward to your post =)
And she was quite sweet…
Am thinking now, i wonder what her Rising is…
I wish i knew what HIS Rising sign is!! Just thinking 1 day i might just casually ask what time he was born LOL. -gosh am obsessed, really don’t wanna be like this over this guy !!
Thanks Synthia.
I don’t think she’s intellectually smart, she was very quiet and only spoke when she’s asked something…maybe she’s just shy as it was the first time meeting me idk ’cause she’s already met my bfriend (they share the same bday!) but having only met her once it’s quite difficult. She’s pretty though i must say.
Oh and Synthia what did you mean by
” but with Aquas that can lead to so much, friendships have very liberal boundary lines with Aquas. “
Yeh that’s true why the f*ck (lol sorry) was she holding his keys for?? I was thinking unless he gave it to her…
Oh no got carried away and posted my info. here!
D’you think it’ll be okay…
Synthia bless you that was enlightening -you should start considering on charging!:D I think it’s a very interesting hobby to take on. Most people i speak with regarding astrology tends to shy away from it…and looks at me like i’m kinda crazy for believing in it.
DoB 10th Nov’83
Time 1300
CoB London
I would love to hear More of your insights!x
I’m an Aquarius, I’ve been with my boyfriend whose a Scorpio for 3 and a half years… He drives me crazy!! But we COULD make it work if we wanted to… but that would mean me having to change becoz HE WONT!! In the meantime… I fancy another Scorpio male… this isn’t good but I’m allowed to fancy + flirt but I will NEVER cheat!! Scorpio’s are so predictable + jelous but they mean well. They will never cheat or hurt you they are the most loyal people ever!! But I think I’ve had enough after 3 and a half years… I really don’t know! x
K–
I’m not a professional. I’m just going on my passion for astrology (I’ve only been studying it since this spring).
Leo and Aqua are opposite signs, showing similiaraties but different modes of execution. The theory is they won’t get along. But people say that about Scorps and Aqua.
From my personal experience. I find that all fixed signs have an intense attraction to each other. I personally gravitate toward Scorps, Leos, Aquas and Tauruses. Love them!
Possibly because there IS so much tension and clashing.
A Leo girl is going to be a formidable opponent for you. They have strong presence and the power and bravado to intrigue an Aqua I would think. But I don’t think an Aqua can give them enough constant attention and worship … so I’m not sure how long lasting this will be …but it could potentially be a fiery match. She’s got fire sun and moon, he’s got air sun and moon. Will he comprehend her fire? It probably will intrigue him. I dunno know. Hard to say without looking at whole chart combinations.
So, how smart is she? I know her Venus is in an air sign (the witty, clever Gemini) but do you get the impression she can capture him intellectually. Aquas need that mental stimulation above all else.
I don’t like that she was holding his keys. She’s in control and marking territory. That’s what we Scorps like to do. And he’s letting her do that!
She might as well just grab his balls in public. (ok, maybe I overdramatize)
I know she says they are just friends, but with Aquas that can lead to so much, friendships have very liberal boundary lines with Aquas.
Whatever you do don’t be intimidated around her.
I’m glad you felt comfortable praising him to her (just don’t praise her to him).
The awkwardness between you and him — that sucks, but could indicate there’s more there than meets the eye. Unspoken bonds are as unnerving obvious ones. I hate that you are with his friend…. I’m sure he’s thinking a bond with you is impossible bcuz of it.
***If you guys (Rose & K) want me to look at your charts, I’ll try. Like I said, I’m not a professional …but I’d love to practice with you guys for fun and enlightentment. I’ll tell you what I can. My email is synthiarose@prodigy.net
Send the birth data (time, date, city of birth)
Rose, at least with him having a water moon in Cancer, he’ll be sensitive and emotional — that will counter some of the legendary Aqua aloofness he may be showing outside.
His Cancer emotions will make him want a stable, dependable love life.
Do you know if he has any planets in Scorpio? Do you have any in Aquarius?
Very interesting stuff here.
After a long break of not listening to the stars, I’m drawn back into them, once again
I’m an aquarius currently captivated by a Scorpio girl, yes captivated, she’s so very interesting to me. And she has been a good omen, regardless where our friendship goes or ends. But anyway, that’s what lead me to this page.. trying to get some insight on this magnetic attraction.
I don’t completely think astrology will answer my questions but, it’s served as a good guide as far. And all the post here will definitely bring me back to read more, later. Though, I don’t know too much about my own alignment, other than I’m an aqua.
Where do I go, what do I need to know, to find out the more my other “aux” signs: moon, ect..
Thanks Synthia. Once it was just me & him in the livingroom and he wasn’t talking much at all…he was just really quiet it was kinda weird ’cause I thought this would’ve been a perfect opportunity to talk to me, i don’t know i think he’s kinda shy?
This girl that he was with yesterday, her Sun is Leo, Moon in Sagittarius, Venus in Virgo and Mars in Gemini…what does this mean Synthia, will she get on better with him than me? Also yesterday She was holding his car keys ?..am probably being silly ‘n looking into things too much but i’ve now found myself analysing her (eurgh)
My dude has a Cancer Moon. what does that mean??
Scott, whatever you do, make sure you really like this Scorp because I acted THE EXACT SAME WAY…down to having a boyfriend and everything….but once I acted like I was MAYYYBE kinda attracted to him, he acted weird and started dating someone else. (Well, we DID work together with a very strict anti-dating rule at our job but still…)
You Aquas tend to want what you can’t have. (I guess it is human nature, actually)
Just make sure you really like her and aren’t just in it for the game!
I find it very interesting that many Aquas who are feeling this magnetic attraction to Scorps have Scorpio Moons.
My aqua does, so does Scott, and so did OneWordSpoken who was in this thread earlier.
Very strong factor.
Scott — I understand.
Just please don’t end it all and pull away. That’s your Scorpio Moon/emotions talking.
Scorpios like to end things even if it’s self-destructive or painful. With pain, they are like moths to fire and they love endings and living as martyrs with drastic choices.
But I’m going to ask you can this bond bring the two of you anything positive? If so, can you preserve that, isolate the lustful feelings and try to preserve whatever else is there.
I know it’s hard. I’m in the same situation with the Aqua I adore. It’s hard that he’s with someone and It’s so painful for me I’m ready to check out. But I’m confident I can mature enough to accept a really transcendent friendship with him.
I’m trying. I’m trying.
Not having him affects me in an almost physical and VOLATILE way. He engenders reactions in me that are volatile when he’s here, volatile when he’s not. I feel I just want to cut him from my heart so I can feel nothing.
It’s so hard!! I am there with you and sympathize.
Basically, I guess the question is are you only open to a romantic relationship with her?
Sometimes I want to say… If I can’t have you, screw you!
But I know how you Aquas love your friends.
So, Will a close friendship do? Can you guys start going out as friends … to lunch, etc.
K — Your guy has Sun, Moon, and Venus in AIR signs. Whoa. He’s really going to be emotionally clueless about relating to a watery Scorpio. I’m glad he has a Mars in Scorpio… Mars governs actions/behavior/sex. He likely feels sexual attraction to you. A Libra moon is really indecisive though. Ugh. He is probably so clueless about what to do concerning you.
My mom has a Libra moon and without meaning to comes off as somewhat callous.
Anyway having his Mars conjunct your Sun is good…but I know you want to be more than sex to him.
Wait. Since you have Venus (sign of love, arts, beauty) in Libra, with his Moon (emotions) in Libra there should be a lot of harmony between you guys and you should love being around each other.
I would think he’d be emotionally drawn to you… I don’t know if it’d be romantic per se. But there should be a strong tender, loving bond of some sort.
I love that idea Synthia ..Scorpio tattoo:D Territorial U darm right!!
Synthia, thanks for the insight…sigh..ya, i’m jealous. I totally keep it hidden, but sometimes I might leak a comment or two..hahah. After I make small comments, she seems indifferent. At times, she is quite cold with me, but then after awhile (usually on a Monday, after the weekend has past and I have not seen her) she is soooo loving and warm. My moon is in scorpio…so there ya go..jealous.
I would love to confess my feelings, but I fear that she would just freak out and hide even more because she is a very moral person, although I do feel she is conflicted. As well, I would hate to reveal because it makes me so vulnerable, whereas I just like to make things breezy around her. All I really do is try to make her laugh all the time
It makes my head spin really. I find myself analyzing every move/word she says and wondering what it all means.
I am thinking of cutting off all ties, and having no contact because I really have no idea how to proceed?? I read earlier that you have to be patient with a scorpio? I really just go through the day longing for her to give me “that look” and smile.
Good to know that she might be feeling the same ache and not just of wrote me off because I distanced myself. What you said really depicted my scorpio woman as far as trust/walls, letting go etc. Very good insight, thank you.
Oh yeh sorry forgot to mention her birthday is on the SAME DAY as my Bfriend! I know, i was like omg this is weird!…or is it
His Moon is Libra, Venus in Aquarius and Mars in SCORPIO
My Moon is Capricorn (i think), Venus in Libra and Mars in Virgo
I know this is very limited but that’s all i know for now so if anyome can provide any insights, i would truly appreciate it -think i need cheering up…xx
And she’s a pretty Leo ..am feelin’ kinda jealous:( -should i be…
Hi guys hope you’re all well. I know it’s been awhile but basically today that aqua guy i like came over with a girl!! I was like WOTTT…then i felt sick ’cause i started thinking so he doesn’t like me afterall so i got it all wrong between us?? I actually asked the girl in a casual joking way “so are you two going out!” and she said “no we’re just good friends!” and i was like in my mind yuk…am just feelin’ kinda let down ? Basically i’m in a relationship with his friend, i knw i knw it’s terrible, but i can’t help the strong attraction or whatever it is (i think lol) we have or I have ? So i don’t know what to make out of this now…Am thinking just FORGET HIM now ’cause he’s obviously interested in someone else, Mooooooove on girl!! Whilst we were all sitting down in the lounge, i felt really awkward, i didn’t know what to do with myself, so i was just blabbing on (puts on a mask) being all jolly ‘n laughing but deep down i was GUTTED. I’m feeling quite upset now…i don’t think this is normal but i hid it quite well earlier, i was even complimenting him to her…wtf is wrong with me!? I honestly sensed that he felt awkward too…it’s like he couldn’t look at me in the eye!? I mean what the hell was he thinking bringing her over…did he want an approval or something?? I just don’t know guys. I just want to be able to read his mind lol.
She could careless about that other guy. She’s doing that to make a play for you.
And since YOU’RE JEALOUS!!! it’s working. ha ha!
So, how is it you, an aqua, got jealous? What type of Moon do you have?
Ah, Scott. That sounds so sweet.
I think you should pull her aside privately and confess that you want her, tell her you’re sorry that she’s attached and that’s it’s bad timing, but ask her what chance is there that the two of you could merge.
As a Scorpio, I love confessions. Hearing someone’s secret feelings for me would win me over. I’d have a hard time leaving a boyfriend though…
As far as hot/cold. Yes!!! I almost ended my friendship completely with my last night. Then, after midnight, I cried and ached for him. It’s crazy.
All I can say is being open emotionally is hard… I can only do it for brief periods then I have to put my walls back up (go cold) until emotions subside and I feel comfortable leaping over the walls to flirt again.
I don’t attach to many people…but when I do…It’s painful I tell you… so scary to take down the protective shield and let someone in to know me….
oh..i forgot to mention. Her way of flirting with this other guy is very extroverted. I mean not hiding it at all. Very loud and giggly. With me, it’s more subtle. Long stares/glances, whispers in my ear, light casual touches, statements of desire and lust etc.
Hi,
I just spent some time ready the posts and I must say, they are very informative. I am an aqua male and have fallen for a scorpio woman. The funny thing is, she is sooo not my type, but just one day, standing beside her I was hooked. The chemistry was intense! So I truly believe what everyone is saying about the attraction between aqua’s and scorps.
Anyway, I am desperate to get some scorpio woman insight..I mean desperate! LOL! Basically this woman is in relationship, however kept this a secret for quite sometime (I was already hooked by the time she told me) until just last week. For weeks she gave me a ton of attention and would flirt with me many times. I panicked a bit because I know she is in a relationship and distanced myself (confused about what is right/wrong, but drawn to her), although always remained very pleasant and nice towards her. Since then, she has backed off COMPLETELY, yet every now and then flirts and teases me.
Now she is heavily flirting with some other guy infront of me all the time! It’s over the top! I am jealous, but will NEVER show it..but backed off completely and into ignore zone towards her…it was just too much.
Basically, she is back and forth with me. She at times, tries to make me “okay” with her flirting with the other guy, by showing she is into me, but then becomes cold and ignores me. Oh ya, throw in that she is in a relationship with another guy for a very long time.
Question is: do scorpio woman go hot/cold all the time. When she senses she has lost me, she comes back to me and when I go chasing her, she leaves..agh!
definitely, marion.
and aquarius men do as well. That is why this combination never gets anywhere. We both want a challenge so its a push-pull situation with stubbornness on both ends. It ends up just fizzling out!!!
Supposedly our best match is Pisces. My best girl friend is a Pisces. We always say we should just go gay together. lol. maybe I will.
me thinks us scorp gals enjoy a challenge…….lol
another bad match I notice for us Scorpios are Libras. I was involved with a Libra about 8 yrs ago and talk about SHADY.
Now I’ve been hanging out with a Libra/Scorpio cusp but he definitely exhibits more Libra tendencies.
This guy basically CAME BACK to me after 3 yrs, while I am aloof the whole time because…well….after my Aqua situation I’m just about worn out…lol….and they STILL get weird and shady. You dont even have to be clingy! they just scare themselves!
sorry. going through a typical cynical female phase. lol
Have not been posting for quite some time but have enjoyed reading everyones posts. still smitten with my aqua guy but he is in texas and iam in canada……suddenly i am surrounded by leos…..another bad match lol….help
oh rose, ai ai ai. same here
hi!
havent been around for awhile. i see so many posts I’d like to come back and read. But for now, I just came here to say that I met this other guy over the weekend. He wasnt that great looking or particularly interesting or funny…..but I just felt this……force……drawing me to him. I was fascinated by him and could not stop staring. We would both lock eyes for uncomfortably long periods of time. I was immediately smitten. It had only been about an hour since I met him!
he is a coworker of a friend and I met him at a birthday party over the weekend. I feel that we were both MADLY attracted to one another but nothing could really transpire.
Anyway. I later find him on facebook and realize (by his posted birthday) that he is an AQUARIUS!
THAT’s why!
ugh. another aqua.
Marie..
What to say.. Are you sure that it’s flirting?
It can be that he is sooo social and outgoing that you might be mistaking it for flirting. It could be some harmless friendliness that he is so used to that it will take some time to change. First of all I don’t think if he even knows that his this behaviour is bothering you. If you can convey your message to him properly. And he understands the point. Then if he is really in love with you, I think he will curb his nature. The way I did once I realised that my gf had problem with that.
Try it. But tell him properly. But I don’t know where does your relationship with him stand.
Saya…
Hmmmmm…. Interesting. why don’t you share some more with us on that? We would love to hear. Not to mention I personally do get attracted to scorpios too. Quite a lot. But havn’t had a relationship with one yet.
Fine. Bye for now.
rutu: Thanks so much for the insight.
I know this about him (and I think it’s safe to say I’ve moved on, though we still have regular contact) but it’s nice to hear that someone else thinks so too.
I’m surrounded by Aquas! Every damn time I feel myself getting flirty with someone, they turn out to be an Aqua. It’s so weird.
hello people.
i would like to know what to do about a transatlantic aqua scorp relation.
he likes me, or at least LIKED. idk what to do. he said he loves me (not aqua typical), but he’s a big flirt.
help w him please
xoxoxo
Saya!
I agree with what you did. Showed him his place. Had someone done that to him earlier he would have been in better shape by now. You know sometimes we just get used to the things and being a FIXED sign its not easy to change. It takes time. He has ego which needes to be caressed. we all need it but not in the fake and childish manner he has chosen for himself.
I am not like this and know quite few aquas who are not like this. But then there was a phase like that for me also. I am boiling inside with ideas or things I need to talk about. And earlier I used to do it with other people who were not even that close to me. but now I keep my thoughts to myself. and dont discuss it until I find the other person worth the trust. And someone who can take my thought without getting freaked out and is open minded enough to put their thoughts without getting judgmental.
Hope it helps.
Also, rutu: I think you’re right.
I didn’t let him win.
But should I have? I’ve (not at first, but now) seen the other girls, and guys, he talks to, and their comments to him, and it’s more than a little sickening the way they flatter him. I’ve come to think maybe he gets off on having a fawning entourage of ‘yes’ creatures.
Then again, I was being competitive. Mostly because I was excited to have an interesting partner to argue with. I thought he would appriciate that too. I guess he’s had better.
Thank you, rutu. Those are kind words. That first experience was a long time ago, and the Aqua girl and I were both very young. I was probably as much to blame as she was for the demise of our friendship. It wasn’t her responsibility to take me out for a good time. I’d only hoped, as my friend, she would want to, and not just… well, it felt very much like I was being used. But who knows?
The second experience…
The Aqua guy, who is a bit older than myself and in a similar profession, is a dick. He’s very quick, talented–charming when he wants to be. But he’s a dick, plain and simple. Scorpios want who they want, when they want them. But maybe this isn’t an association I should be cultivating in the first place, no matter how clever and charming he originally seemed. And the bottom line is, he ditched me, so to speak. Maybe it’s my pride speaking now, as well as my bruised self esteem. That Scorpioness that calls for a fitting kind of revenge–a chance to turn my nose up at him similarly. Or show him what he’s lost.
It’s infantile and a waste of time, but there it is.
Scorpioinlove, I agree strongly with Synthia: drop this one like a hot rock. A man who doesn’t insist on walking you to the bus stop in a strange neighborhood, no matter what you say against it, is a jerk.
I’d still like some more insight about Aquas. Why are we so attracted to them?
Hey Feefee!
Aruro does the charts.
Hey arura please do it for me also.
My date of birth. 5th feb 1986, time 5.40 pm.
Thanks.
Hi there
I came across this site a couple of days ago and have been reading the posts with much interest! I am a scorpio female who has just started a relationship with an aquarius male – we’re about a month in. Would love to get some feedback if you’re interested in hearing some things?
But firstly, I would love to know all about my birth chart and what is my ascendant etc. Is anyone able to work this out or point me in the right direction? In case anyone can do this I was born on the 8th November 1983 at around 12:15pm.
Cheers for any help and keep the posts coming!
xx
Howdy again!
Just stopping by to make a “quick” recap of what happened during the last couple of days..
So i offered her deep red roses, she really really loved it, said it was the first time anyone ever gave her flowers and that she had been longing for that occasion for quite some time
The rest of the night flowed really nicely, we ended up kissing and hugging enthusiastically, she thanked me for the marvellous night but…she also reminded me again not to forget what she told me at the beggining of the month..the no serious relationships talk..
I keep wondering if she´s really really talking the truth or just secretly using a defense mechanism in order to protect yourself from getting hurt..or hurting my feelings..really hard to tell, i´m usually quite good at figuring people´s intentions out but the scorpios..oh well, they leave me clueless..
Anyway, yesterday she invited me to go to the zoo with her and a female friend, i went along, lots of fun and i could definitely tell she wanted to be with me, especially because i´m leaving on vacation today for a week..
And that´s pretty much it, i´ll keep being patient as i´ve said before but any insight or “guesses” about my Scorpio true feelings would be much appreciated..
OK. I’m mad that he didn’t walk you to the bus stop, considering it was so late.
Also, I’m mad he didn’t come to your place instead of compelling you to take the bus to see him.
Not cool.
I can’t give any insight until I get over these transgressions.
Will be back later.
Hi, I’m also a scorpio girl interested in Aqua guy.
I’m so confused by him and I don’t know what to do. Would anyone help me out here? I’d really appreciate…
So I’ve known this Aqua for about a month and we have hung out a few times so far. Whenever we met, we always had a great conversation for couple hours on different topics, and I could tell he was really attracted to me physically and intellectually.
Recently, he has invited me to his house for the first time, and I went – He cooked for me and afterwards we watched a movie (not romantic at all – and he kept his distance very well from me during the movie). Then when the movie was done, it was little after 11pm, suddenly he wanted me to leave his house. He didn’t literally ask, but he initiated the idea, and by being scorpio, I sensed it right away. He asked me if I wanted him to walk me to the bust station, but I said no (although it was unfamiliar neighborhood) beacuse I knew he didn’t mean it.
Then that night around 3am, he sends me a text saying thank you for coming over, and that he had a great time. I didn’t answer because first, I woke up by his sms, and second, I felt disrespected…
What is going on? I’m so hurt. I feel like he “used” me to spend his free time because he had nothing else to do. And he did mention at somepoint that he sometimes gets lonely at his house because his roommate has been away for a while.
I don’t understand. I thought he was sincerely interested in me and wanted to build some friendship with me…
what’s your insight?
hi Saya!!
I must say you are a fantastic girl. Brave and intelligent. I am an aqua but i will not bat for those other two aquas who ended up hurting you. I understand that its mostly because we are so much into ourselves that it takes time to realise other person’s needs. but if i personally realise how much my company or compassion can mean to someone I will make every effort to be there for that person. The problem could be that they might be too immature to realise that. We personally always stay miles away from emotions and think that the other people are the same way. but they are not. See I have gone through my share of mistakes when i hurted others without realising it. But I have learned now.
I think may be your approach to him could have been the problem. I guess you hurted his ego. I am not saying you need to stroke it and give him compliments that he doesn’t deserve. But don’t make it look like you both are completing. You are cooperating and sharing knowledge. You are helping each other. Say like thanks if he said something that helped you. And if he has some brain he will do the same.
Finally as I think you should take all the pride in yourself for being the wonderful and responsible person you are.
I will try to help you.
Fine. Take care. Bye.
I have been “hanging out” with a Libra/Scorpio cusp (exactly 6 days older than me) and we are having a good time….but……that electricity; that excitement that I feel when I’m with the Aquarius is just not there. This is a guy that I used to be head over heels in love with 3 years ago. I thought that was as good as it was gonna get, that tingly feeling inside. That was just until I met Aqua! I’m sorry.I’m still gonna stick my my boring-ass Cappies comment. lol it’s true. how is this relationship even still going? it’s been 3 mos. I’m literally waiting. lol
I’m a Scorpio female, mid-twenties, never been on a date, never been kissed.
I have no friends, and no relatives. I work online, from home, and take care of my mother, who’s very sick, and can’t be left alone. I didn’t attend school growing up. My family was on government assistance, and everyone but my mother has passed away after long battles with terminal illness. The only friends I’ve ever had offline were a pisces girl, and an aqua girl (funny, because she was a swimmer) who I met through an archaeological volunteer program I was briefly associated with when I was fourteen. The three of us became abnormally close, to the point that it was almost a three-way lesbian relationship, with me being pulled back and forth between the other two. The Aqua girl had firey red hair, and a temper. The Pisces girl was nordic blond and bipolar. I was the brunette, and the peace maker. The relationship lasted one year, and that was a year full of constant battles and empassioned (I mean that it was very sexual without actually being physical) making up.
My relationship with the Aqua girl, especially, is one that I have thought about a great deal, off and on, over the years. We were magnetically drawn to each other, and so intimate, so fast. In our own little world that no one else understood, really. She was terribly temperamental, selfish, volatile, but also brilliant. In the end, it was a combination of both girls, who came from rather cushy situations, and who were both in school, with other friends, and eventually boyfriends, not understanding my responsibilities at home, and the real life crisis I was going through at the time. Life got more and more serious for me, harder and harder it seemed, with each passing year. I nursed several loved ones until their deaths under horrible financial circumstances. Whatever shot I had at getting an education came and went. I’m still insecure about that… and frustrated, because I know I’m an intelligent, capable human being, who’s never going to get a chance at the job I want.
As I said, things emploded. I saw the Aqua girl one more time, a year later. She came and picked me up and we went skinny dipping at a lake she was familliar with. I was frustrated, because she’d been traveling, and going out with friends; things I desperately needed in my situation. Just one night away from what was going on at home, one evening where I could have felt normal for a moment, and talked to other people my age, would have been life saving. Instead, as always, she kept me, and our time together, to herself. I suppose she was also keeping her other acquaintances to herself, and didn’t want to be seen with the broke creature that I was.
She blew up when I confronted her with my thoughts. I’ve never been one to take the high road; why waste time? She blew up, and we stopped talking. And I disappeared completely. Eventually, I made friends online, but… you know how that is. It’s text on a screen. I’m grateful for the contact, don’t get me wrong. But… you know.
So now I’m crushing on an Aqua male, a little older than myself, working in the industry I’d like to break into. Though I’m attracted to him, all I want at the moment is friendship. Just friendship, banter, intellectual stimulation, with someone who shares my ideas about the world. We’ve emailed back and forth several times, and seemed to hit it off (but I made the first move). Yes, I’m painfully aware of how pathetic this sounds. Remember that I work from home and can’t leave my house for more than an hour at a time. And I have no idea how to pick up guys. I don’t even know if I want to, despite feeling very sexually frustrated. In my mind, it can’t go anywhere, so why start something?
Anyway.
I think I insulted him. Without getting into details, he talked about himself. Alot. I’m not a good ego-stroker. I give compliments, but I’m not going to gush and melt. He’s charming, intelligent, and totally exciting, but also so very vain, vain, vain. That aside, we were getting on well, but then BAM. I teased him about something and he took offense. I guess, sort of like rutu’s girl. We continued going back and forth for awhile, but the warmth was gone. We were suddenly more adversarial. Then, suddenly, I kind of topped his info on something, which I guess he’d assumed he was more knowledgeable in…
And he just stopped. Total radio silence. No response, for a month now.
I don’t know what’s made me more depressed. That he doesn’t see that we’d be great friends, with so much to learn and gain from each another (I was on the verge of giving him my cell), if he’d just pull his head out of his self-satisfied bubble. Or that he’s got the job, education, and connections, and I’ve got… sass. And it’s never going to be any different.
I really just want some good vibes, if anyone’s got them.
Any opinions on how to deal with those nutty Aqua males would also be appreciated.
Thanks.
*sigh* I really want to “Jolie” my Aqua.
how do I do it??????!!!!
I guess I’ll have to just continue being his “friend” and going on “friend” dates with him.
Oh, how I wish there were a way…
okey dokey! I shall follow your wise advices, Scorpio ladies, and most likely settle for some unusual and deep, passionate coloured flowers
Thank u all, i´ll report back in a couple of days!
P.S. -> Rose, obviously u couldn´t reveal your true name. After all, you wouldn´t be a genuine Scorpio without some mistery uhuhuhu
Just between you and me (don´t tell anyone lol) my name´s not really Richard….well, it is but in another language hehehe
I’m not just saying that b/c my “name” is Rose!
It’s not even my real name.
muah hah hah hah
I’d personally go with tulips.
Rick,
Yes, I am with Synthia on that one. Rich and saturated colors. Roses may be cliche but I’d recommend them anyway
LOL
“Boring ass Cappies?!” Bwahahahaha!
Oh, my dear little sister Scorpio. You are so cute.
* Something in a deep saturated color .. the closer to maroon/burgundy the better. Not bright, but rich and saturated.
* Not anything cliche. Choose something unsusual that shows you put thought into it.
* The card must suggest a meaning between the flower choice and how you feel about her.
That’s what would make me happy. Tokens mean little without some deep meaning/connection behind for Scorpios.
@ Arch
oh and btw i´m a Dog and she´s a Tiger in chinese astrology (good match, so i read).
Obviously i wasn´t referring to your long lasting marriage, that´s a pretty astonishing achievement!
And concerning your question, i don´t think i´ll ever have the patience of an ox but i do believe in life changing experiences through relationships, my thirst for knowledge and self improvement has gained a whole new perspective since i decided to “hunt down” this scorpio woman..so in that sense i definitely think i´m evolving in the patience department
@ Rose & Synthia
thank u so much once again for your wise/kind words, they really do comfort my anxiety
Can any of you please tell me the absolute best kind of flowers to offer her? the heartbreaking, irresistible type of flowers for a Scorpio hehe, i´m planning a little aquarian surprise for the end of this week
Synthia,
Ok well yea. I guess you and I are in the same boat. You just seem more “ok” with it than I am. I’d love to ask Angelina just what she did to steal Brad. lol. I feel like you have more of a chance than I do though. I guess you can see it both ways. Yes, yours is married but mine is still in the honeymoon/infatuation first 3 mos stage. lol…..
we shouldnt have to settle for being their Stefanies! I’m sick of all the couples that are together for the sake of just being married or in a relationship; for the companionship and security. I’d rather stay single than settle. I won’t settle for nothing less than EXPLOSIVE chemistry. My aqua, on the other hand, is the exact opposite. They have their stable, boring-ass Cappies (lol) to keep them in line and then they have us for the excitement.
why cant they just be with us?! *sigh*
Hey Arch, I dont think Rick was referring to you. He was referring to the unstable Aquas that Synthia and I are involved with.
I LOVE your insight in your last post. Could be a total coincidence. But are there really coincidences in life? Or maybe because lots of people have sex on Valentine’s day. LOL.
ahhhhhhhhhh. something to ponder, eh?
Ive also been all over the internet looking for compatibility readings for Sun AND Moon signs, now that I know ours, but no real luck.
And isn’t it a tad bit intriguing that if you were to calculate the time it takes from conception to birth of a scorpio. It puts their time of conception at or about the time of Aquarius(however this is not factoring in all variables). So yes it possibly could just be “natural” attraction between the two.
And thus offering yet another meaning to the “water bearer”.
It also gives a whole new meaning to the “water bearer” as well.
Since scorpios are indeed a “fixed” water sign.
To Rick,
“dodgy” huh? I would say 15 yrs is not too “dodgy” friend. patience is key and……………very essential with scorp women. I kinda know what i’m talking about here. Question then becomes… do you truly have the patience of an ox?
Rose.
My chinese sign is Water Ox.
Um, Rose, what is it about my repeated declarations that “I want to Angelina Jolie him” do you not understand? :0)
LOL.
I want him. Want to take him. Don’t get me wrong.
I’m just not going to throw myself at him or make sexual plays for him…. obviously his “condition” is contracted and delicate so I want to have class, despite my ultimate desires.
Given that “condition” I’m simply saying I’m willing to consider what might be the most reasonable option — being his Stefanie.
@ Rick.. Don’t be stymied by time. Like wine, fine things take time to develop. So savor it.
And don’t worry about her not calling or texting. I personally don’t pursue guys. I lure them. That’s it. It’s not that I’m oldfashioned. I’m very much counter-culture.
But I believe in Nature. And I like the biological rush of the hunt and being hunted. I’m sure she might as well.
Rick,
Time IS the answer. Glad you’re hanging in there and not getting discouraged. Your Scorp sounds like me. lol. She likes you, and I’m SURE your patience is not going unnoticed. I’m sure it is very much appreciated. That’s very considerate of her to text you when she’s noticed she hasnt been in contact to let you know shes still there. It shows she’s always thinking about you and her distance has nothing to do with you. I think you got yourself a good Scorp, there. Trust me, if she was needy and up your a** all the time, you wouldn’t want her! lol
Ahh, those intentions…what ARE their intentions? Trying to figure that one out myself.
Arch,
I know someone who was born on the Libra/Scorpio cusp as well. To me he exhibits both characteristics. Actually, he sometimes reminds me of the Aqua guy, personality-wise. The laid back lightheartedness and the positive “it’ll be ok” attitude. That must be the Libra in him. lol.
I’d love to hear a situation you may be/have been in, Arch, so we can maybe enlighten….and vice versa.
cheers!
Hello again
I find it rather curious that most Scorpio girls here are dealing with kinda “dodgy” men, who really fit into the (un)conventional free spirited ways of a true aquarian..men who really appear to be commitment-phobiac.
And i´m saying this because my story is the complete opposite, i don´t know if it´s my Cancer rising which gives me more sensitive and needy characteristics, but I´m the one actually wanting a commitment, chasing my precious scorpio woman and sometimes getting pretty desperate trying to decipher her true intentions..
Things keep flowing, she keeps saying whenever we meet and do something out of the ordinary that she´ll treasure those special moments forever, ´cause they make her feel free and laugh/smile without restraints or fear, but then..when i don´t take the initiative to text her she isn´t, except for a few times, the one to do it and simply letting me know she´s still alive lol..
I´m being pretty patient this time around, that´s why I´m giving her space and not texting her constantly, which also works as some kind of test to see if she comes back to me but the bottom line is i´m afraid i might not be man enough for her, i know she has deep feelings for me but apparenty there´s something missing..
Oh well, i´ll keep playing my natural sweetheart part and hope for the best..maybe time really is the answer, i won´t give up, that´s for sure
To Rose.
No i do not. Nor do i really wish to have any.
As far as being unconventional? I don’t think people really understand how true that statement is.
I will say this this though. Of the five women i’ve been with my whole life, all have been scorpios. I didn’t choose it that way either. Even my daughter(though she’s a Libra, birthday however is October 22). Now just imagine if we had lived in New Zealand.
And with the mention of New Zealand(Where the lady i was with before i met my wife), get this…….. her birthday was on October 23. Both my step mother and sister are scorpios as well. My actual parents were both capricorns. One of them the day after Christmas, the other on Martin Luther King Jrs. birthday.
And would it surprise you that my career field involves electricity?
LOL. I’m not kidding.
OH! I accomplished quite a bit today!
I found out our moon signs.
I am a Scorpio with Moon in Sag
&
Aquarius with Moon in Cancer
Arch,
Do you have a lot of platonic relationships with women?
Synthia,
I really admire the fact that you’re so comfortable being *just* his friend. Especially with no intention of “stealing” him away from his Capricorn wife. (at least i think hehe)
I wish I could be like that. I love being friends with him and surprisingly its not difficult to “control” myself and not pounce on him lol. Esp when thats all we used to do was make out whenever we were alone and not at work. ; ) Its not torturing me to the point that I cannot stand being around him. just a little bittersweet.
I hung out with him today for lunch. (He called me) It was a beautiful day here in NYC and we had lunch in the park, ice cream, and then some beers at a pub…had a great time. I definitely have intentions of “stealing him away” from his Cap. I’m not gonna lie. We all know this. lol He didnt mention her much. just the usual casual mentioning when he is telling a story and it somehow involved him being with her and whatnot. But he didnt really talk about her. More like a “so the other day *cap* and i were at this bar that she works at sometimes and i saw *famous person* there and etc…” I just wish I knew his intentions. I think knowing his true intentions (which he may not even know!) will help me decide whether or not it would be more beneficial to cut ties completely, even as just friends. I STILL don’t understand why this girl gets to come out on top.
And Synthia, just like I think your situation is unusual too. Call me old-fashioned, but why would a guy be so close to another woman when he is married??? ya know? I guess it is more understandable if the duo NEVER had anything romantic/sexual in the past, but it still is unusual. And SUPER unusual if you did have tension or anything happen in the past, like my Aqua and I.
Anyway, I am very proud that I didnt bring anything up and I didnt hit on him! i totally acted like his “bro” haha. I will not feed his ego!
OH! get this! his ex gf (not the one before the Cap, but before that girl-yes, quite a serial dater) was a Scorpio! he didnt let on whether that was a good or a bad thing though.
Iiiiinteresting…..
I’m an aquarius male(Sun sign) with both a moon and ascending sign in leo. I’ve been married now to a scorpio female for 15 yrs. I could rattle off the experiences i’ve had, however i will not. You can only make a true conclusion of your own when you’ve experienced it yourself.
And yes we are verrry sexual(referring to aquarian men). Just not openly.
Well, you know Aquas are ruled not only by Uranus but also Saturn, the ruler of Cap.
Maybe that has something to do with it.
Also, much like Scorps offering a balance of emotion, intensity and drama….Caps seem to offer the unstable Aqua a tantalizing balance of a different sort. Stability. Order. And the practical anchor for their crazy ideas.
We have identified the enemy! LOL.
(Just Kidding!!)
yup. his longtime gf of 3 yrs that he just broke up with was a libra(whom are supposedly good matches for them) and the new rebound(or maybe not) girl is a Cap. BOOOORING.
Every young Cap I’ve ever known has acted like an elderly person. haha.
and paired with a flighty, crazy Aqua???
that’s funny that your Aqua is with a Cap too. I really enjoyed hearing the whole story about him in your previous post. Interesting.
But it also pisses me off even more by adding more fuel to the fire. lol.
I doubt I would get a response here.. but I am an aqua male, very masculine and all.. yadda , yadda…
I just had a little , drop dead, yet sultry looking lady appraoch me out of the blue. She was very bold and direct when she wanted my number..etc… a couple of days pass, I txt her back and not a response… I a going to call her tonight andjust be very direct and ask if she’s playing games or what…
on the capicorn thing, AVOID!!!!! I dated one many years ago we were both young she was so boring and uptight…
I just want to figure out this little scorp.. she even said that aqua’s and scorp’s made a perfect couple.. I laughed when she was on my lap… b ( secretly I wanted to make my face her throne!!! lol), but I found this page….
Things is, I dont play games, not my thing…
alright gone on enough….
Rose. Get out! Is your Aqua with a cap???!!! Mine is too!!!!
What. the. H ELL!!!
ahhh so much great stuff thrown around on here in a few days i havent checked this thread! i want to say so much but right now i have only one thing on my mind.
Can an Aquarius guy REALLY date a Capricorn girl??? without being bored to death???
WTF.
oh Synthia, I watched some Stefanie and Robert clips on YouTube and I was blown away! (and yes I am too young to really remember them but I am familiar : )
Why don’t more of these combinations marry??? it makes me a little bit angry!
Haha Rutu.
Funny! — but totally not my style.
I don’t talk about the wife or any other woman in his life. Don’t care to know his feelings about her or her feelings for me. We talk about IDEAS.
Our bond not about her or any of his other relationships..
**It’s about the cosmic bond that exists between us. **
As I said, every relationship is its own world.
If he’s feeling trapped HE needs to process that.
I’m not a vulture, feeding off others’ wounds.
I’d like to think he could have a great bond with her and a great bond with me too… and then at some point he’d just have to choose which is best for his life now.
And if his choice is that I’m this special friend, I’m comfortable and awed by that …because our chemistry is awesome.
He makes decisions slow and steady. This could take a while.
And let me tell you something else about me — I’d do the scorpio image before I’d ever do the “belongs to synthia”tattoo lol because it’s all about subtlety and mystery.
People forget that the zeal of relating to someone is deciphering the hints. That’s why I never talk about the nature of our relationship. I’d rather have us both intuit it.
I might express wonder in this thread about what we are to each other…but with him, I don’t break it down to such obvious discussion. Not a fan of that at all.
And in keeping with my need for subtlety, I don’t need to crowd anyone’s space and demand possession. I mark my space and keep it moving. Freedom is important to me too. It’s just that my ego requires territory clearly marked.
Anyway, sounds scary with the Taurus. You’ve got a lot of living to do…
Synthia!!
Well let me tell you about myself. So far I just had one relationship and was dead serious about it. She was tauraus. It lasted for 3.5 years though I had realised that there are alot of differences in our nature after a year. I still continued in the relationship as I loved her and was sort of fixed on her. We did quarrel a lot but I was still VERY loyal to her.
Before this relationship began I use to be super friendly with girls. And it was so platonic that I would not differentiate if the friend is guy or a girl. They were all just friends. Then when the relationship began she being a tauraus was pretty possessive. She at times held my hand so tight while strolling that after some time when I would look at my palm, it used to be almost white. She told me clearly that she didnt like me being so close to other girls. I took it seriously. And from then onwards I always maintened my distance with other girls whether she was present or not. Even at times when I was mad at her I didnt let my anger out by flirting with someone else. I might have been attracted to few girls physically but it DIDN’T matter as I was in a relationship and loyalty is of upmost importance. So I would control all the urges. (By this time I was not in love with her.) Its was not about how much I loved or didn’t love her but it was about the promise of loyalty I had given her. It was my ego or self set high standards or nobality. Whatever it was I decided the right way to aproach this problem is to first break up with her so that I can free myself. And that’s what I did. Thought it took some time.
Now the thing is his nobality or responsible behaviour will come across as a barrier and will stop him from acting on urges. The thing which made me break up with her was the thought that I am not with the right person who understands my needs and everyday struggle with emotions was pissing me off.
She had her impact on me. Like she did make me more responsible and somewhat less eccentric. Once I realised this behaviour it became part of my nature. It was somewhere inside me but I needed her or those situations to bring it out. It was like getting in touch with yourself. You are I am sure having this sort of effect on him. Be straight forward and tell him the truth about himself. Help him improve himself I think if he had to back off he should have backed off by now. I think he just don’t know what to do and is feeling traped. Have you ever asked him what his wife thinks about your friendship? That should give his something to chew on and will push him somewhat further in decision making.
And for the tatoo, you should ask him to get “BELONGS TO SYNTHIA” tatoo on his shoulder.
Bye..
P.S. I hope he know if we ever do get together, he’s getting a scorpio tattoo on his shoulder.
Seriously.
Territorial.
OK. Very interesting that you would draw near to that one person you have the cerebral connection with and EXCLUDE all others.
I don’t think this guy does that. Not sure. I mean he even stays in touch with his ex-girlfriends. But wait — you’re talking about intimacy… OK, no I don’t think he shares his intimate thoughts and ideas with too many people and I do think we discuss things he doesn’t discuss with others –stuff like mind-binding personal passions.
What’s he up to? I honestly don’t know. Amusing himself? Collecting a new female admirer to enliven the marriage and his ego? Simple Aquarian fascination? I think he genuinely is drawn to the transformative effect our bond has on both of us. He’s being challenged in new ways and thinking about new things. The other day he said the next time we go out he’s just going to sit and listen to me. LOL. I was awed by that comment. Apparently after he leaves me he’s still thinking about my ideas and has concluded I’m some sort of oracle for him or something.
I think he puts me on a pedestal…but honestly I don’t think he wants to dirty me up in a whirlwind love affair. I am not certain what I represent for him. With him being a Scorp Moon and me being a Scorp Sun, clearly he’s “following” me and learning more about hidden aspects of his identity — this is probably also the reason for the pedestal.
That’s cool. I’m beginning to think we’re just going to be super close friends who likely appear to the rest of the world to be dating. I think we’ll grow as close as two people can get. With his Venus in Capricorn, his marriage is probably a pretty sure deal.
And I do think he’s being loyal to her. We haven’t kissed or done anything physical. We sit/stand close together and feel comfortable in each others personal space but that’s it. I really think we’re just going to do the whole Stefanie and Robert thing I alluded to above.
But whatever happens will undoubtedly be for the best…because I do have serious questions about whether the Aquarian nature would harmonize long term with my personality.
Hi Synthia.
I am not traditionalist either. I just wanted to say that intellectual stimulation is an important part of a relationship with aqua. I have to find my partner not just attractive but interesting also. Find someone who can discuss all sorts of things with me. And if I find someone special like this I will do most of the discussion with her and avoid anybody else. Especially if I sense there are romantic undercurrents to it. As I have high standards of loyalty. I will not allow myself *such* friendship. It’s not platonic. So I am sort of surprised with his behaviour. Such behaviour would have made me feel guilty. He is NOT in live-in relationship. He is MARRIED. Maybe he just cannt resist you or I just don’t know.
what you think he is upto?
All right.Bye.
See Rutu– I’m not sure something’s missing.
I mean I can only dream. LOL.
But seriously, I wish them the best. I ultimately want his happiness. We will continue growing close regardless. Our friendship is precious — I’m just trying to see exactly what the potential is.
I personally believe in polyamory. I know *I* can love multiple people at the same time. And be close — in different ways– to two men at once.
So, I don’t believe that his drawing closer to me represents a lack in his marriage. I’m don’t embrace that school of thought. Each relationship is a world complete in itself.
People need a variety of things from a variety of people. I’m not a traditionalist. I don’t believe in the neat lines of traditional relationships.
So, if we’re meant for some quirky friendship with romantic undercurrents and other undertones — I’m free-minded and unconventional enough to embrace that.
Right now, we just continue to be intrigued by one another’s mindscapes.
*shit. i mean what, not when.
grrr… so much of errors and so much of corrections made. all thanks to my perfectionist streak.
Hi Rose and Synthia!!
I totally agree that friendship is VERY important for aquas. And there is definitly something missing in a relationship if an aqua is not friends with his partner. The true defination of love for an aqua would be that he has to find someone who he can be BEST friends with and also finds her sexually attractive. I would find it very difficult to continue in a relationship if my partner doesn’t understand me or I cann’t discuss everything with her. So if he is seeking this connection outside the relationship then it can imply that this connection is missing in his relationship.
Rose….
I think he sees you as more than friends. And I can tell his relationship with this girl is not on a strong foothold. He has to spend some time with a girl to first understand her then slowly develope friendship and then the relationship should start. Its a slow process. But the RIGHT one.
Aishwarya Rai (scorp) who is married to Abhishek (aqua) have said it publicaly numerous times that she and Abhishek are best friends with each other. And she is MOST comfertable co-staring with him. She had previously dated Salman Khan (capricorn) and Viveik Oberoi (virgo).
ps: when i mean in the first paragraph is that “some people” can be anyone who talked about stef powers and rob wagner’s relationship.
refering to synthia’s most recent post, i just don’t understand why is it some people have all sorts of theories and speculations just because two people are very close to the point of holding hands and being affectionate to one another.
my best friend and i do behave intimately, calling each other ‘dear’ or ‘darling’ kind of thing. in the pics we pose together, we’re pretty close but still, we don’t have any kinds of feelings for one another.
we care for each other, she hears my rubbish, i hear her rubbish. i scold her, she nags at me for being so obsessed with that one particular person and she is so spot on of her opinion that i would be willing to wait for someone, even if its 10 years!
she also understands and tolerates the fact that i’m ‘possessing’ her because when we go out, its always us and hardly a third party because i told her that i feel so left out when there’s a third party, even if the third party is my former classmate. maybe its my pride/ego or the fact that i feel very territorial over someone, even if its a friend.
Oops. The last sentence obviously should say “This is …”
@ Rose — I agree gender could affect a vice-versa situation. I’m a very dominant persence but I still like a man who takes charge. I LOVE dominant men and I definitely need them to pursue me in a relationship (if I have to initiate things with him, then he’s not man enough for me. I’ll try to lure, but that’s it).
So, my not chasing the aqua allows him to be the hunter and doesn’t scare him away. But say this was an aqua girl and a scorp guy set up. If the Scorp played the traditional gender role of hunter that would send the Aqua girl running for her life. Also, Scorpios are pretty intriguing to chase. As a “quarry” I keep myself intriguing, elusive and EXPLOSIVE. It unnerves the Aqua in a good way.
@ Firdaus — Great call! Nicholas and Celia were indeed Aqua and Scorp! Very interesting.
@ Rick. It doesn’t matter if someone is looking for a boyfriend or not. When true love appears it’s a beautiful thing that I would accommodate no matter what. But things have to evolve. And sometimes feelings and trust and intimacy evolve slowly. I personally think you should be true to yourself …don’t pretend you don’t want a romance ….just keep your edge, when she serves you a flirtation serve it right back, & let things simmer.
@ Rose. Rose I think for Aquas friendship can be even higher,purer and more transcendent than love — I mean a really close special friendship.
Look, I haven’t said this on here before. I’ve merely said my Aqua is “taken” — but the reality is …he’s married. That doesn’t stop him from calling me and going out for drinks, emailing me, and letting me know he agrees we have a special connection. Stop what you’re thinking, you moral police — our interactions are pure and incredible. We are in a whole other realm. So don’t even act like we’re having an affair. In some weird way we are hardwired for each other and feel stimulated and ALIVE in each other’s presence.
I’m mature enough to explore this intense, tempting, and unique bond without thinking he’s a stereotypical sleezeball. He’s as unconventional and I am and we are willing to create a bond that’s special for us, even if it patches together elements of other types of relationships to give us what we need.
It’s fine by me if it remains a super erotic frienship. I mean, yeah, I want to “jolie” him as I’ve said. I want him to be MINE, don’t get me wrong. But I want him to be happy. He’s already invested a lot of time in his marriage. He’s ultra responsible and I’m not certain he’ll ever leave. But we dont’ deny our emotional chemistry and we confess things to each other and are getting closer every day.
Recently, I was reading about the really close friendship between Scorp Stefanie Powers and Aqua Robert Wagner. This may be too much before your time, Rose, but as a little kid I watched them star together on Hart and Hart and boy did they have chemistry. That plus the fact that they were friends in real life made many people think they were having an affair. They both insisted they were just friends.
Yesterday, I watched a YouTube video of them in an interview, he reached over and held her hand for the entire interview. It’s clear he adores her. He was frankly treating her like his wife … and somehow I can believe they were just friends. I don’t know how his wife feels about that. And I don’t know how my Aqua’s wife feels about me.
But that actually gave me some insight. I truly believe Aquas can platonically attach in a higher and precious way than most other signs. It’s pretty beautiful. And I wouldn’t reject that connection — (and I’ve heard that Aquas can totally introduce sex to this style of platonic mating and find it very fine, fulfilling and entirely morally appropriate).
Anyway, remember that ancient philosophers used to frown on romance and held platonic friendship in the highest regard. It was seen the source of the greatest personal growth and achievement.
These is definitely an intriguing bond for me to be a part of.
Thank u for your tips Rose! I made a surprise visit to her today, we had coffee, talked for some hours, listened to music together, very cool and relaxing
some intense stares at each other, the mind reading type, but no kissing or caressing whatsoever, just letting things flows as i expected it would happen..
I also feel things are on the right track, and you´re probably spot on about her not setting boyfriends as a top priority Rose, i made a mistake when we first hook up, almost a year ago and i definitely learned to gain some patience with girls, regardless of the sign. I´ll be taking a trip now for some days with friends, perfect time to abstract myself and keep the momentum going with her.
Regarding your question, as an Aqua i don´t think he sees you solely as a friend, there´s something subliminar in there for sure, he´s probably not feeling entirely comfortable with his girl and still has high regards on you..
When i´m deeply in love with someone, i usually oay no special attention to anyone else..i don´t tend to pursue friendships with women..but that´s just me!
Just like me, let things flow and see what happens, it´s for the best i think, no anxiety at all, just chill out
Aquarius guys………I’m trying to figure out of this is strange or typical of Aqua guys-since they are big on “friends” and whatnot.
My mother said she finds it very odd that a guy who is dating someone else would be so gung-ho about being friends with me. And i dont mean a “lets be friends” schpeel. I mean pursuing the friendship. ESPECIALLY since we had an attraction to each other and fooled around a few times and ESPECIALLY when he knows I want to date him! It was enlightening to hear this from her, then again she is very old-fashioned. I’m net letting his attentiveness to our friendship get my hopes up, just taking it with a grain of salt. Is it REALLY possible that he sees me PURELY as a friend? I know that when a guy I am not interested in likes me, I am civil but i dont generally try to maintain a friendship with him as to spare his feelings.
I know Aqua guys LOVE people and pride themselves on their friendships but what my mother said to me definitely made me say “hmmmmmmmmm”
What says you guys???
Rick,
I don’t think your situation is as much a cat and mouse game as it is her just having….well, a life. I do not think she’s testing you. It just seems like having a boyfriend is not her #1 priority-nor SHOULD it be. Just bide your time with other things and she will notice. If you don’t, she will sense it and it will turn her off. Not every woman wants to be adored and spoiled. Treat her well when you are with her, but dont be overly gushy. II’m sure things will work out fine if you just relax. It seems as if its on the right track. Dont worry.
correct me if i’m wrong but wasn’t french president nicolas sarkozy’s ex-wife a scorpio too? not carla bruni but cecila ciganer-albeniz.
mr sarkozy was so head-over-heels with his ex-wife that he made a declaration that has something to do with his love for her before the french presidential elections. or something like that.
unfortunately, they still divorced and from what i read, she’s now married to some other guy and he seems happy with carla bruni now.
speaking of which, is it ridiculous for me to wait for someone for 7 years? i mean, why should i wait for that person despite minimal contact and that i might end up disappointed in the end?
i guess the strong connection i had with that scorpio guy is too intense for me to forget. he made me feel so different and i’ve never felt so in love with him. =X
Hey there again!
Well, the ongoing saga with my gorgeous scorpio friend hasn´t met any significant developments, we still text each other nearly everyday, sometimes it´s me who takes the initiative, sometimes it´s her..she told me yesterday we had to schedule a tennis match lol, something we joked about briefly during our day at the beach so i´m assuming she does want to be with me..
I´m being patient, as patient can be, without setting the bar too high but i gotta admit this cat and mouse game is driving me kinda nuts sometimes, do you think it´s all normal in the scorpio woman way of handling romance?
I forgot to add that she has an ascendant in Leo (mine is in Cancer), which makes her an even more powerful woman i guess, who really appreciates being treated as a queen, spoiled by extravagant gifts and delights
I won´t pressure her at all, i´ll just keep playing my subtle part, but do you honestly think she might be testing me? trying to find out if i´m the right man for her?
Enlighten me please
I would imagine (and have read) that a vice-versa matchup would be pretty intense. However, I feel that taking gender into consideration and the roles each play in a relationship would have to inflict some sort of difference. But then again, does everyone really conform to gender roles as much nowadays? (i.e. who “wears the pants” in the relationship.
I dunno. Just my two cents.
I am having lunch with the Aqua friend of mine (his idea). Should be interesting. But maybe now since all the drama has passed, I can study our interactions more….without romance clouding it.
Possibly. There was an aqua guy on here earlier who had a relatonship with a scorp guy.
But from experience I obviously don’t know.
Ive also wondered if an aqua girl/scorp guy matchup would be as electric. Not sure.
hmmm… i’ve read and re-read the article several times and i agree why am i on such good terms with my scorpio female best friend.
just out of curiousity, what about aquarius guy with cancer moon and scorpio guy? do they have the kind of ‘connection’ just like an aquarian guy and scorpion girl?
hmmm…very very interesting insight you two girls have given me! thank u!
i must say, just to clear things up, that the apologizing move came inbetween other stuff in the text message, namely saying to her that i truly adored the day on the beach and that she could count on me for other sunny days on the beach and everything else she might need! so i think it came across kinda subtle..
anyway, it´s not the first crush i have on a scorpio girl, it seems like the universe keeps pushing me to seriously get connected to a scorpio, weird huh? two distinctively different signs and yet so magnetically attracted..
I love girls who challenge me, i´m definitely not into the easy going, needy ones and but scorpios..omg..they can be so intriguing and mysterious to the point of making me wish she was just a little tiny bit more accessible lol..
hope i didn´t blow it by appearing not too confident in that small apologizing move but i like her so so much that i easily get too desperate to please her!
I think u understand me, i´ve always been very sensitive and this time it´s no exception, but i´ll really really try to lift my ego up high and show some aquarian “arrogance” lol..i´ll let u know of the developments!
Hey Rick,
I thought you were an Aquarius, why are you being so attentive?? haha j/k I think it is wonderful that you are being the way you are. I agree wholeheartedly with Synthia, especially that Scorpio women love affection but ONLY from a guy she likes. I am very much this way. I CRINGE at affection and attention mostly, unless it is from someone I am totally crushing on. Did she seem jumpy at all whenever you touched her? If not then it doesn’t seem to me like you have a problem.
Even the fact that you apologized later on; yes I cringed a bit when I read that but then I tried to put myself in the situation. As with the touching thing, I must say that even that would not turn me off. When I like a guy, they can pretty much do anything and it would be “cute”. I do agree with Synthia in that you should probably cut back on something like that in the future; anything showing insecurity, you know? Scorpios like men who are sure of themselves, not cocky, but confident.
I admit, as a Scorpio, I love a challenge. Not games. But just someone who doesn’t make me his whole life, someone who has other things going on and doesnt NEED me to make him happy. This is because I am the type of person who could fend for myself and has never been dependent or clingy. I want a guy who can be the same way as I am. I see some of my girlfriends who are like that and I just do not understand. funny enough, they are always the ones who get guys without even trying. go figure! : ) im learning little by little that guys do seem to like clingy, needy girls, no matter how much they bluff!
Anyway, it sounds like you are right in the middle of an awesome situation with this Scorpio girl. Don’t worry so much about ruining it! We are always here to help with any questions, but relax and enjoy it!! : )
You’re the man, you can handle taking the initiative consistently. What is it about being the hunter that you don’t understand?
J/k!
As a Scorpio, I love attention and affection — and I don’t accept it from guys I don’t like.
So, unless she recoiled, she liked it too.
Believe me, a Scorpio won’t let a man touch her body if she doesn’t like it. She’ll sooner rip your arm off or tongue-lash you so severely you’ll cry.
When I say be subtle … I mean in your verbal declarations for a committed romance. Physically, if she’s willing to have you as a sex buddy, she’s not unnerved by the escalating the physical part of the relationship …it’s the emotional bond you have to be smooth and careful about forging. But do it, move forward gently with that!
OMG. You apologized! WEAK MOVE! Don’t lose your bravado. Scorpios like bold and strong men secure enough to put themselves out there and brandish affection securlely without the need for it to be returned.
Inside, she could have been quaking in enjoyment.
We keep our exteriors very controlled, like we’re bluffing in a card game, in circumstances we’re still sizing up.
Watch over her, love her, follow your instincts toward her and let her, even if she has to do it passively, build up trust.
You’re not bugging her! Calm down. You’re coming undone. Get your swagger back. Scorpios like a healthy swagger, especially if you can merge it with a truly nice and sincere heart.
So be a great guy, be confident, be protective and loving and give it time.
Thanks a lot for your advices Synthia! subtlety really is the key i guess…
I had a very beautiful day on the beach with her yesterday, just the two of us, and as usual i got carried away by her magnetic power and ended up caressing her most of the time, after a kiss or two..so much for being subtle :\
the thing is, most of the times she doesn´t caress me back, it´s always me who takes the initiative, as if she´s afraid of getting too attached or is simply testing me..i really don´t know..
i´m so afraid i might ruin everything..damn, it´s such a powerful attraction i´m feeling!
I already texted her and apologized for my “excessive” behavior of kissing, hugging, etc, i told her i had to control myself even more from now on..oh well, i´ll just let things flow without bugging her too much and hope for the best!
i think i found one
Sometimes I get freaked out by closeness because the emotion is so strong and I’m scared it won’t last…so investing in it is scary and potentially self-destructive.
I will defintely go AWOL on a guy a love for weeks — it’s not that I don’t cherish him, it’s that I cherish him too much and don’t want to risk getting to attached over something that might disintegrate.
So, Don’t push …but every now and then drop hints that “I’ll always be here for you” “I’ll never betray you or harm” “You can always trust me to look out for you”…”you are precious to me” etc.
Be subtle about it. Don’t overdo it. Believe she’s pick up on it and will grow more secure and open and begin to attach.
Make sure to let her know you value her uniqueness and intelligence and power …and hope she will value you enough to one day be exclusive.
That would totally –overtime– break down my walls (but you might have to get engaged after that
!)
Hi y´all! after reading many of these fascinating stories, i thought i´d share mine -> just like Jim, i´m also an aqua male totally puzzled by the behaviour of this scorpio girl i´ve known for almost a year now..
I met her at my previous part time job and instantly fell for her, sensing a very powerful energy gravitating towards me..I approached her smoothly, invited her out a couple of times and we finally hooked up one night at my place, but without sex..after that i thought we were on the right track, only to find days later, after some distancing of her part, that, in her own words, she got confused and could only relate to me as a friend..
I tried to look on the bright side of things, accepting her explanation as some sort of closure but something just didn´t add up..maybe she got interested in another guy in the meantime?
Fast forwarding a few months, we developed an increasingly stronger friendship and, after moving on to other flirts, all those feelings i had for her when we first met, suddenly came back more intense than ever, culminating in a spectacular night of sex just a week ago..She told me very boldly that she didn´t want any commitments and nights like that could happen again if we treated each other solely as sex buddies..she also told me she really really admired me as person and didn´t want to lose my friendship at all because of this..
But as a sensitive soul I´ve always been, and as someone who´s been single for almost three years, i tend to suffer with these kind of situations ´cause i want so much more!! Considering i also admire and respect her very much for her strong and mysterious scorpio personality, i´ll let things flow now, ´cause it really is better to have intimacy with someone i so kindly cherish than not have anyone at all..
We´ve been texting each other since our wild sexual encounter, and i definitely feel she is much warmer this time around..
So my question for all u scorpio ladies reading this is -> how and what should i do to try and make this a serious relationship? is there any hope in that? or is she just so in love with her single status that she doesn´t want to commit to anyone, even if the attraction is so powerful on many levels?
Sorry for the long text but i really needed to belt this out..scorpios drive me mad lol..but i love it!
Hi Ish!
that was very enlightening! interesting about how you say you dont like manly women. the aqua guy i am friends with(but have a crush on) seems to like manly-looking women who wear the pants in the relationship. i wonder what thats all about????
also, does a women who is aggressive , as in hits on you and tells you she is interested in you, turn you off? just curious.
the aqua guy i am crushing on says he is attracted to me and loves talking to me, we have great chemistry and he seems to be completely fascinated and intrigued by me, but he wont date me. go figure. instead he seems to have a “type”. unattractive, slightly overweight girls who seem to have a matronly look to them. homely. not ugly. not fat, but have the same “look”. friends of mine seem to think i dont fit the mold of his “type”. what do you think about that? i suppose this is not geared toward astrological sign but more bout how he was raised and maybe issues he struggled with because of a broken family and issues with his parents. who knows….
Howdy!
I am an Aquarius man who is with a Scorpio. Alabama born and raised. I am a believer in astrology in certain broad aspects. I choose to just take the information as a whole, big picture instead of set in stone cause your raising and environment play a big role in how you act. I must say that the chaos ya’ll were refering to for us Aquas is true. We’re all the time worried about others and seldom take time for ourselves and our own problems. When we’re alone it catches up to us and its soley depressing sometimes.
My rising is in Aries and my moon is in Sagittarius (if that helps ya’ll out any). I find Scorpios to be incredible! She keeps me interested. I am forever probing and experimenting. She seems to be a great balance for me. Aquas are bad about being in the clouds all the time and Scorpios can reel us back down to Earth. She is focused and knows what she wants which is an A+! I hate indecisiviness, especially in a relationship. I believe to go and get what you want and I respect people who do the same. I also know what you mean about getting jealous in a sense. We were at a party the other day and her ex was there. They walked outside to talk. It drove me crazy. I’m just to curious. It’s not really a jealously thing though cause I trust her. By the way, trust is also like one of the big issues for Aquas. I don’t associate with people I know I can’t trust. Who needs that right?
I noticed the electricity as well. I can stand close to her and I feel her. Also it seems even if we are on opposites sides of the room, sooner or later we will get close (like a magnet). The chemistry in bed is wonderful as well.
I also noticed that Scorpio is almost as probing as us Aquas. She wants to know what makes me tick in a similiar but not all the same way I want to figure her out. Their emotions are deep. Which makes me want to explore their depths. Remember, we are the detectives of astrology.
Coming together was the hardest part. We are both stubborn. Also we are long time friends. I have to know that the other person is interested before I make a move. I’m not scared of being turned down but if they aren’t interested then I could turn a friendship very awkard, ya know? Once I was sure though, it was over. I respect a woman that is a woman and wants me to be the man. Sorry for all the feminists but a manly woman is not attractive to me at all. I want to knwo she can take care of herself and can make her own decisions but I don’t expect her to be forceful.
Anyway, hope that was enlightening.
Later
Ish
anyone do photo analyzing by any chance? haha
my friend just found a picture of me and the aqua guy and i think it is hilarious because it looks like he is in love with me. my friends and i were cracking up b/c i look like i dont give a s**t and he is looking at me longingly.
funny stuff.
on another note, where did Rutu go????
Oops. I meant to say “no earth or grounding FORCES” except for my Ascendant.
Not planets, FORCES.
(obviously the ASC is not a planet …hence my dilemma!
)
Hey Rose,
If you Google you can find tons of stuff on Moon signs (emotions) and Rising signs (our external behavior/style we use to navigate the world).
Yes, you need the time of birth to find rising signs (ascendants) and houses.
Rather than tell me, I think you should go to Astro.com and use their free services to make your chart (I’d love to see it though!). And then practice studying it on your own.
I have grown so much this year by studying my chart. I learn something new every month. For example, in July I was astounded to discover that a lot of the chaos and instability in my life is related, not just to my Sag stellium, but to my having no Earth planets in my chart — no Earth or grounding planets except for my Ascendant.
Learning that empowered me…now I’m consciously making more ties between my air and water (mind/emotions) and my absent Earth (concrete reality/atmosphere/environment/body).
This is stabilizing me already and I know it will help me use my talents to be more accomplished. Before, I couldn’t understand why my talents seemed to not lead me anywhere.
This is beyond what you’ll discover as a beginner. But I’m just saying no one had pointed out to me the absence of Earth (although I learned a lot of other great stuff from people)….sometimes you have to let yourself be drawn to the key info on your chart.
There is no knowledge like the self-discovered kind.
If you do make your chart, post a link here so we can all take a gander and give some casual feedback…
synthia,
do you know a lot about moon signs, rising signs, etc???
i wonder if you could give some info on that. i know that you need to know the person’s time of birth for rising signs, right?
i wish i knew the aqua dude’s birth time. hell, i didnt even know my Leo’s birth time either, and we dated for 3 years.
i do know dates and places of birth, though.
and i can tell you all of my info, obvi
Oh. Don’t do that again!
If you like him and want him to be exclusively yours never betray your desires by claiming you want to be single and don’t want a relationship.
I almost made that mistake with my Aqua but I caught myself. I thought out calling him “buddy” or “friend” and really trying to create this platonic vibe so that he’d feel less suspect
(with him being attached and all).
But then I thought …that’s insincere and would work against my ultimate goal — to steal him! (sorry
)
So, I make an effort never to define circumstances in such a way that it would work against me should anything change.
I make sure I subtly keep all options open …but I don’t desperately go after anything …I’m just watching, laying groundwork, calibrating strategy, and trying to captivate him cerebrally. That’s bringing us closer and closer together.
But as I said above … growing closer is bringing out some traits that might make this bond less desirable that one with a Leo.
Anyway, about the cusps — There are two schools of thought. One that believes you are one or the other period no matter how close you are to the demarcation line. Then, the other school of thought that believes you exhibit characteristics of both signs.
Oct. 29 is NOT near the cusp. You are a Scorpio! Don’t try to go AWOL, girlie!
Your Aqua guy isn’t on the cusp either.
Your Leo WAS on the cusp, so sure, he could have exhibited some Virgo traits. So, if he seemed shyer or more introverted/undemonstrative than a Leo would that could be the Virgo energy. I do think you should study the other planets and aspects of his chart, though. And I have personally gotten along well with Virgos although the bond is yes, very low-energy.
I’ve learned TONS about myself and others by studying beyond the sun sign. Jump in !
hey synthia,
i find that really interesting about your Leo experience. i also wonder what else were in both our charts. i suppose, first of all, that i am ALMOST on the cusp of Libra. Oct 29th. does that matter? His birthday is August 21st so that is TOTALLY on the Virgo cusp. i bet that has a lot to do with that. i really dont know much about astrology. i just love learning about it though! i feel like you are pretty knowledgeable on the topic. let me know what you think! im curious.
BTW the Aqua guy’s bday leans more toward pisces too. Feb 15th. am i right? these details MUST matter. or dont they?
as far as that dude. the aqua.
i have pulled back. in fact, i think i have always BEEN pulled back and that was my problem. he basically TOLD me that the reason he didnt date me was because we worked together and he said “i thought you said you wanted to be single! i thought you were anti-relationship!” so theres my answer. but i felt like saying “DUH i thought thats what you wanted to hear! i thought guys hated clingy girls!” i guess i played TOO hard to get and it backfired.
i can definitely tell you for a FACT that the clinginess/challenge aspect was not an issue in this situation. i probably sounded like the clingiest chick in the world with my posts. but youd be surprised by my actions. i used this thread to let off steam. i never ONCE told him i wanted to date him. i never ONCE chased him. I barely EVER called him. he made most of the advances. if anything. i was the one that was a challenge. this other girl is NOT, from what i hear. and he likes that. he seems like he likes needy girls. it makes him feel special. me-i was too free-spirited for him and he knew he could not have stability with me because i did not want to be tied down. he DID want to be tied down. he CRAVES it. he always needs to be in a relationship- afraid to be alone. he’s told me this in the past and wishes he wasnt like this and that he cant help it. so the only time i was even slightly forward was the day he told me he was seeing a girl and i confessed to being disappointed ….even though i said i didnt want to date anyone seriously, i woulda definitely dated him, proven we moved SLOOOOWLY. which he cannot do. he is a whirlwind romance/rebounding KING. lol.
so im cool with our friendship now. i never contact him, its always him. and its always been like that. its that Scorpio/Aqua magnetism, i tell ya! cant keep away!
im really interested in learning more about the cusp-ers and other aspects in people’s charts playing a role.
like i said, i dont know ANYTHING about that. enlighten me!
: )
It’s amazing
Really? I almost married a Leo — and ALL we had was passion! We didn’t have the intellectual chemistry that I have with an Aqua but we both were passionate and anyone around us could feel the energy we created when we were together.
The thing I liked most about him was his masculinity and natural leadership. I defy all authority and establishments and was way too rebellious when I met him …but he walked into my life, put me under his wing/command and spontaneously created an atmosphere of order and safety for me. I didn’t think anyone could counter a Scorpio’s rebellion — but a Leo can…he will put you in his charge in such a warm, loving — yet firm and commanding –way that you just cherish him.
And the intimacy was Hot. Hot. Hot.
Our Scorpio and Leo natures meant we both brought lots of ego and bravado and a sense of drama to the relationship. So, it was always challenging and edgy.
I wonder what else was in your Leo chart to make him so boring? My Leo is low-key (like a Lio lazing in the jungle) but not boring, per se. I can see how others would interpret that as boring though. But they are loyal!
I haven’t given up on Aquas…I’m just saying I’ve tempered my view of them…
P.S. On your situation…Rose…I still think you should pull back, definitely don’t pursue him & don’t display so much unconditional interest. You’ve basically let him know the ball in his court and that he can have you no question. Not a good look and definitely not a good romantic strategy, my fellow Scorp. Stop that. Embrace your natural strong, self-sufficient air. I’m willing to bet this “homely” girl he’s with is more of a challenge for him. Am I right?
By the way, Aquas seem totally open to unconventional looks. They don’t buy in to society’s one mold for beauty. I think that’s pretty amazing.
yup! passion is just as intense as it is with Aqua. In my experience, sex with Aqua is romantic and soft and sex with a Leo is passionate and animal-like.
hey guys!
been so busy but i thought id check up on everyone! just started a new freelance gig after 2 mos of working from home. Welcome back stress! : )
funny you mention Scorpio/Leo, Synthia. My ex-fiance was a Leo!
We got along VERY well. We never faught, and had good understanding and trust, but there was NO passion. NONE. I kept it going way longer than it should have. I found him BORING, to be honest.
Still talk to the Aqua guy here and there. Havent seen each other since that night though. He’s very enthusiastic about our friendship and it’s going well. So basically he knows he cant have security with me like he can have with this girl. She’s homely looking and overweight but he says they “click”. And we dont click??? hahah! riiiiiiight. he agrees we click as well and have amazing chemistry, has expressed how attracted he is to me, and is still with her. Makes no sense to me…still. I mean, it does because i made it VERY blatantly and obnoxiously clear i wanted to be a free woman and be single, and he obviously needed someone to cling to….plus we still worked together when he met the other girl….we def. couldnt do anything major while we worked together(major company no-no) it makes sense, but i guess the superficial and shallow side of me thinks “well now that he knows i would date him and am upset he is with someone else, why wont he dump her???” *Whine*
anyway. i have more on the Leo/Aque comparisons…be back!
I’ve heard rumors that Arnie has strayed as well.
But POWER COUPLES like these don’t break up over annoyances like sex outside of marriage.
Marriage ideally for this Scorpio is more than sex. IT is a meeting of the minds, of two independent powers, it is a clash of wills that breaks you and heals you simulatneaously.
You can’t get that with just anyone, but I think Leos & Scorps can achieve that. And no tryst can take it away. That’s why Hillary and Bill are still together. And why Arnold and Maria are.
Bill would never leave HIllary because any other woman, no matter how sexy, would simply be LESS.
Yes, soulmates. I would agree.
P.S. For all we know they have an “understanding” about extramarital sex …like Will and Jada…
both signs are very jealous. i could see it being differently if the workloads of “power couples” created a distance between the two where sex with others was solely for physical pleasure. however, from my experience these two signs are extremely loyal and act like soulmates. i have a best friend who is a leo as well. he was a manwhore until he met his wife. they do expect a lot and can feel shallow at times. you are always on a pedestal and can feel like a trophy wife at times. as an overachieving scorpio, my leo ex never made me feel like i didn’t measure up until i put my personal care (hair, make up, attention grabbing outfits) on the back burner for law school. even though i was a business owner and held several degrees and was in the process of earning my juris doctor, i was neglecting my personal appearance. not really because i am a beautiful woman. i turn heads like no other. have a beautiful face and body. what i didn’t like was that he couldn’t understand that i was trying to balance all my roles in life and couldn’t spend two hours doing my make up to go out for three hours a night on the weekends when i really wanted to sleep. leos always want the “beautiful and successful couple” to be on display. it gets tiring. he’s a beautiful person. one of my best friends. he understands me completely. however, he expects sacrifices on my part that he is not willing to take. he would not go out of his way to spend two hours getting ready to attend an event that solely benefits me. the fact is, i wouldn’t want him to. i would want him to do something he enjoys doing or that will benefit him. leo was very selfish. my leo fit his astrological profile to a T. I never wanted to see it because we complimented each other in so many different ways. however, after a while, giving in to a selfish boy gets old. it helped me finally see how much his astrological profile was in fact true.
WOW
Bill and Hill. What a pair…..
Must be very happy together….
Bill having countless afairs outside his marriage and Hillary not far behind him. with her latest being Hot Hot Huma Abedin..(her closest aid) Why wouldn’t be anyone happy in such a marriage…
Looklike soulmates to me….
My new favorte Scorpio pairing is Leo-Scorpio.
Arnold & Maria
Bill & Hillary
…
Marion —
I’m gonna have to agree with you on that.
It’s amazing what a little time and familiarity can breed.
(Plus, I think his Neptune in Scorp cast a spell on me
which is now breaking)
So, here’s what I”m realizing:
1. Aquas are just too silly after a while. As a Scorp with Cap rising, I equate seriousness with maturity. I don’t have time for all these amusements and attempts at being clever, witty and funny. Please. Spare me.
2. They love everything equally. OK. The Aqua I’m getting close to says “wow” at just about every discovery — even mundane ones. It is starting to make me secretly loathe him and discount his judgement.
I used to relish that he found my philosophical insights amazing …. now, I see he would find some idiot’s insights similarly worthy of the wow factor. Are you kidding me? Scorpios can distinguish between greatness and idiocy. Everything is not “wow” to us. We do not praise all things likewise. You know why? IT CHEAPENS LIFE! You have to distinguish, be critical, judgmental. It’s OK if the world at large doesn’t like you because of it. I have extreme likes and dislikes.
But he admonishes “don’t be elitist” “don’t say that” WTF? I will be elitist if I want to! :0)
3. Having been with a Leo prior…think the strong presence of Arnold Schwarzaneggar and Lawrence Fishbourne… I will have to delicately say the masculinity of the Aqua cannot measure up to the manhood of a Leo.
And in some ways, all the jokes make them even more like little boys. As a highly sensual Scorp with lots of Sag fire… um, I’m just not into the the boyishness. Will tangling with me make him more of man? Absolutely. But then …If I create him … will I still want him. (no).
4. Where’s the brilliance? It’s typically one layer deep. And as a Scorp with Sag stellium who mines thoughts down to their deepest core … this is like discovering the Emperor has no clothes. Yes, they are smart and have a quirky intelligence …but they can only take an abstract conversation so far before they get lost and lose the logical thread. The fact that they have so much energy and need to move on the next thought doesn’t really give them the staying power to really distill concepts. It’s so obvious — well, to me since I’m really philosophical — and will run circles around him if necessary.
I’m too smart and mature for this B.S. Getting bored …
Nice to meet you Synthia,
Let me introduce myself: I am an Aquarius, born on the 5th of February. I came across this website a short time ago and found it quite interesting so just wanna share my points of views and help people here understand each other better.
1. I am not staying here and argue with you about Aquarius. It’s an issue about humans. When I think someone who is silly, I am not going to say :”Scorpios are just so silly after a while”, that’s stereotyping. And stereotyping is silly. It’s stupid to just cling to what we believe and refuse to see the true nature of things. Don’t think that no one can call a Scorpio silly, anyone can. Okay, let me tell you a story:
I have a friend who is a scorpio born on 7th of Novemeber. She used to tell me how great a scorpio eyes are and how magentic and intense they are and how people cannot look at them for long etc etc. She went on and on. She said all this stuffs about Aquarius that if she just glares at them, they would be scared and get away. I am an Aquarius, I can look straight to her eyes for a long time and forcing her to look away. She knows that I am smarter than her and stronger than her, proven by real results in life, enough?
Conclusion: There are strong and weak people, your star sign does-not make you strong or weak. It is a matter of will-power and control and steering through any obstacle, smashing them into pieces and rise up. An Aquarius maybe silly, but a Scorpio can be equally silly. We are all smart one moment and silly at another. Sometimes we humiliate ourselves and do not realize that because when other people laugh at us, they laugh behind our back. Seriousness does not equal maturity, maturity is to be humble, learn from others and take responsibility for your actions. It is serious in goals that is mature but I would never call a person who pretends to be dark and keeping a stoic face all the time, even at social situations which make people very uncomfortable mature. That is fake. We are just so much more than our orientation. You know that -and- I know that.
2. “you have to be critical, judgemental..” “cheapens life.” There is only one person that we should be critical at, that’s ourselves. By being critical at ourselves we do not only see what is bad in others but also in ourselves as well, therfore we can also modify and improve ourselves. A person tends to like sth extremely and dislike sth extremely are just incredibly similar. If people ask each other not to like sth extremely , then they should also ask others not to dislike sth extremely.
Most of my best friends are Scorpios and they are wonderful people. They are wonderful people not because they are Scorpios but because they are humble, sincere and out-going and do not belittle other people.
Everyone is different and we sometimes need to learn and sit back and enjoy things, control out critical things a bit cause spitting everything out is extremely stupid.
3. You repeat “and as a sensual scorpio with a lot of sag fire’ a few times in your post, why don’t you just state your opinion as an individual and clearly expressing your ideas about a person without astrology?’Leo. Aquarius, like little boys…”.
Another story I tell you: Another friend of mine was born on the 3rd of Novemeber. Whenever she goes to my house, she always acts so silly, tries to be fun, tries to be “oh oh oh….!!!oh argh argh!!!” People laugh at her secretly. She does not know that. I tell you, she does look like a little girl to me. I observe people carefully and examine them. I don’t make a fool of myself and when I am serious, I am serious. The difference between me and my friend is that: We are 2 different persons and even though I find her to be very silly and extemely childish, she is still my friend and among her good points (she is very nice and generous), there are also bad points. Everyone has strengths, everyone has weaknesses. If we learn how to appreciate our strengths and weaknesses in each other, we go stronger as a group, and as an individual. Depth does not come from “Arg arg I am deep, I stare at you lah blah blah” crap! Depth comes from not revealing yourself, depth comes from understanding . It takes great intelligence to be kind. A fool is a person who thinks that he is greater and wiser and smarter than others and does not know he is such a fool. I have something that you should learn from, and you surely do have something that I have to learn from. But if you think that you are better than me, than it adds to your diadvantage. When I already learn what you are good at and strengthenign myself before going to battle.
3. You said yourself that :”you are too smart and mature..”. No, you are not, cause if you do you would not say it.
4. Sounds like you never enjoy anything in life, do you? Just sounds like, maybe you do, maybe you don’t.
Being too self-awared is not a positive thing anymore.
Do not reply me as I would not answer back. I am sorry. Even though I would love to hear your opinion, I don’t have time to return later. And more importantly, we’d better transform ourselves in our heads rather than posting stuffs here. We all know the answers for our problems. Just dig deeper and find the esssence.
Thanks for reading.
Marion……..
What happened. You just don’t discuss things here the way others do. like Rose, mini.. What happened. make use of this thread. just describe the situation you are in. may be we can help in some way.
Waiting for your reply.
there is not an aquarius guy that is worthy of a scorpio woman
Hey Rutu,
I know I completely lost touch…had been really busy+lazy…will not repeat that in future though…:)…and i hope that even I would be able to help someone out by my experience…and this thread rocks n so does the contributors…so guys cheer up and lets have a healthy discussion….
Hi mini!!
Really you came at the right time. Thanks…
And feels good that things are going good in your case. I actually was wondering why didn’t you put your post to tell what happend… But you did come at the right time. Take care. see you soon.
woahh!!!…looks like m being missed….no new stories so things r gettin hotter here…dont worry m here now with my story…hope that will divert everybody’s mind…m sorry fr nt keeping in touch with this thread….so last time when i was writing i had this problem with my aqua guy as at times he used to be completely lost somehwere…that means no calls no text messaging…(meetings are not possible as it is a long distance relationship)…and i ws getting pretty irrittaed by this behaviour…so then as advised by rutu i had to tell him this in a subtle manner…and being a scorpio woman i dont think i cn rather any scorpio gal cannot ever tell a guy y he ws nt keepin in touch in a subtle manner…so i thought abt it and i thought of sending my guy a text msg…which said “busy busy?”…and believe it or not tht worked…even if tht text msg sound stupid but it worked and since then he has been calling me on his own….also to my surprise he himself started talking about meeting..(like we discussed few months back that we will meet but since his MBA is starting we could not)…but this time unfortunately i can not make it but hopefully we will meet soon…..and he is keepin in touch too…calls pretty often…:)…i reallly hopes that this keeps on working like this…thx rutu..:)
hi rutu,
maybe you can email me and tell me more about this. thanks x
aurora
brightstarlights@gmail.com
Aurora
Would you mind if i advertise this site. I have given link to Becky. Wish she visits us.
Rose Synthia
I have found this site its about aqua men. There is this wonderful woman named Becky she has written this article on aqua men based on her exprience. She is a Gemini. Her bf is an aqua and her ex too was an aqua and her daughter is an aqua too. I liked her article and the comments. I did put few comments there and actually had a showdown other other fellow. Anyway. its a good site so go check it out. Giving you the link. http://www.love-astrology.com/astrology/men/aquarius-men/#comment-1101
Rose…..
you are the person who has opened up so much on this thread. You really discussed your situation and we tried to understand it and find a way out. Others like Marion, K, Synthia havn’t really opened up. So I guess you are the first person who really made the right use of this thread. UNDERSTANDING THIS RELATIONSHIP…
And i am all ears for what more you may want to share.
And my grandmom isn’t Italian. I am Indian. She wakes me up at 6.00am, makes sure that i wake up and then she goes back to sleep and wakes up at 7.00am. All right.
oh and rutu,
i took your post as to mean, “and rose actually didnt bore me for once!”
but i get what you mean……haha
Rutu,
exactly,
i can totally see how i could be misinterpreted as “desperate”. I let off all my steam on these posts as to not come off as crazy to him…hah. i dont give a s***t if I’m not dating anyone. I’d rather not be, to be quite honest with you. I rarely find myself into someone, as I am more of a loner. You hit the nail on the head. ANYONE would get upset and angry if they were in this position.
And as to why i would go from one extreme to another….
He was my FRIEND to begin with. It’s hard not to get all soft on your friend once you see them. I know I should have stood my ground, but halfway through our meeting, I felt I got the closure I needed. If I knew I couldnt handle having a casual friendship with him, I would have cut him off cold turkey. He fascinates me. I fascinate him. Hence what this thread is about!
That’s funny about your grandmother. She sounds like a wonderful woman. Is she Italian by any chance?
I wish waking up at 6:00 am was a Scorpio thing! If I don’t have to work at 9 am, you’re lucky to get me out of bed before noon!!! hahah.
Hey Rose!
I was sure you must have read my statement wrong. Never mind. And I read your all posts irrespective of how long they might be. I find them interesting as I can see how a scorpio girl thinks. I have read that post of yours where you said you are in a scorpio now. Well let’s see how things move further. I don’t want to make any statements and already biase you.
And I guess some have got this impression of yours that you being desperate, which i definitaly don’t agree with. I thought the situation was like you were wondering why this person is not keeping his words. Like few days back he was waiting to be single and now when he is finally single he is not behaving the way he said he will. So it was curiosity on your part. And if at all you were desperate, you were desperate to find why is he behaving the way he is. not desperate after him.
I somewhat agreed with synthia when she said you were swinging between extremes. Like few posts back you were thinking that he is an @$$hole and after meeting him you have wonderful things to say about him and your bond..
well I guess you were not really angry with him when you called him an @..hole but angry with the way he was behaving. Angry with the fact that he ignored you. Well one thing I know about scorpio women i.e. LOVE THEM OR HATE THEM BUT DO NOT IGNORE THEM…..I guess this was his mistake.
I really wanted to reply to your previous posts but just wasnt in the mood and now i forgot what i was going to tell you. And even if i don’t post I am still reading ALL your posts.. ESPECIALLY long ones….
and no scorpio girl is giving me any trouble. I don’t socialise much. I am more into my studies. But my gradmother has come our place and as i have said she is a scorp. She cooks verrrrry well, wakes me up at 6.00am and helps me keep my room clean. And in return i get her favourite movies dvds and music CD’s for her. So no trouble…Bye..
Rose, I can relate to your Aqua. I was this way for years. I don’t seem to be like that anymore, especially now that I’ve forced myself to stay single for more than 4 months. I definitely was in that pattern for a long time though. Never truly loved anyone I was with, but wanted to keep a relationship, didn’t want to be alone, but still wanted my space. I also went through a phase of pushing everyone who was ever close to me almost completely out of my life. I got some kind of weird satisfaction from that somehow. Thankfully I’ve really changed and haven’t pushed anyone really away in years. I never really equated that with being aquarius. Always thought it had more to do with the way I was raised as a child, but I could be wrong after seeing some of the things you’ve said.
hahaha hey Rutu,
You said ” and Rose didnt bore me!”
and i thought, “oh, i bore you too??”
good to see you back. what’s been going on with you? any scorp girls giving you problems?
I have always read that friendships are very important to Aquas. I noticed he deems his friends VERY important. And no, he was never friends with any of his girlfriends first. Every single one of his relationships overlapped each other since he was 17. He said that this one was actually the first one that didnt. he had ONE WEEK in between where he was actually single. hahahah.
so yea, he’s got lots of issues…..which is fine. he acknowledges them.
did you read the post where i said i was into a scorpio guy now??? hahaha GO FIGURE.
i still love this thread.
Rose,
Aquas feel very comfertable with friendship tag. It’s relaxing because it doesnt make heavy emotional demands like a relationship does. I believe an aqua can truely love someone only when he thinks that person really understands him. when he can talk freely to that person and thus friendship is frist and important step before falling in love. I guess he wasnt really that good friends with his ex.
Ok. looking forward to your posts ROSE.
But your reaction to my post left me speechless……
DEAR ROSE!!!
I AM AND HAVE ALWAYS BEEN SUPPORTING YOU………
What did you read in my post..
I was SHOCKED at your reaction…..
I have totally LOVED giving you insight and suggestions and you kept this thread going or it would have stagnated otherwise….
I don’t understand whats going on with Tootsie….
Tootsie, PLEASE stop whatever you have against Rose. Let’s just go back where we were before all this started…
AND ROSE I AM ON YOUR SIDE, PLEASE READ MY POST AGAIN.
Take care. Bye.
Synthia, what’s been going on with your Aqua guy? wasnt the one you were involved with dating someone else? What came of that?
see what I mean?
You. Are. Boring. Get. Over. It. You amuse me with your “stories” lol…ANYWAYZ!!
tootsie,
well, how would you feel if you were me? seriously. i just bothers me when i am misunderstood. jeez tootsie, you remind me of a 13 yr old girl on a playground, bullying people. how old are you anyway? not much older, i assume. dont take it the wrong way, im just trying to guess based on how you compose yourself via text, that’s all.
i am very chilled out. i was really having a great time posting on here until the “bullying” started. thats negative behavior to me. i dont know, just my opinion.
and synthia,
i can tell you are more mature and are just trying to look out for fellow scorpios. i appreciate that. but honestly, can you blame me for feeling slighted? you really didnt know my situation and immediately did what ALL women do to other WOMEN. the typical “hes not that into you! move on honey! you can do better!” ALL of us women, myself included, tend to do this. i really do feel like you did not know my situation well enough, and just jumped straight to that conclusion. and i cant blame you for that either. i mean please, its a message board.
this is not an advice message board. its here so we can understand WHY we do the things we do and why we are attracted to such sun signs that are so CRAZY : )
I love to learn about why and how the aquarian male mind works. not to be judged. im sure you understand.
ANYWAY, its my last day off before my new gig and apparently there is a stabber lose in my neighborhood. hah. (seriously)
i plan to stay in all day. let’s get some new insights up here!
Where is onewordspoken? did he get angry? i cant remember. i loved his insights…
anyway, synthia, in case you did want to know the outcome. i couldnt just grab the camera and leave. haha. i KNOW you are disappointed that i did not listen to your advice, NOR MY OWN
: ) we stayed and talked for 3 hours!! he wouldnt let me leave. he said he loves talking to me!! This made me laugh, thinking about the cosmic connection that we all speak of on this thread.
he basically told me that he knows he has a deep-rooted problem where he needs to be in a relationship at all times. he even admitted to never EVER loving anyone he ever dated! crazy, right? he says he is very cold and doesnt know how things will turn out with this girl.he doesnt feel capable of loving. he even told me this once a long time ago, when he was with his ex, but needed to stay for comfort. he did not want to take me on that ride and ruin the awesome friendship we had, especially when he is at a time in his life when he is pretty much positive that he cannot sustain a relationship. so we are back to being best friends, and im fine with that. i just needed to hear him say that i guess? i am big on closure. haha. and it worked. we are actually going to get together this weekend. its weird how my feelings for him just went away. anyone ever do this?????
Are Aquarian males also prone to this type of relationship pattern??
Oneword, WHERE ARE YOU, MAN???? someone post some stories!!!! not “ZZZZZZZZZZLOL OMG LYKE TOTALLY”. THOSE are boring. hahah.
(Zzzz. LOL.) More like YOU take things seriously…look at how you’ve totally misunderstood Rutu & Synthia’s post, talk about defensive! CHILL OUT punk:D
Rose, don’t be afraid to post more.
I think your openness is really refreshing.
Anything I say to you is out of love for the Scorpio sisterhood. I just want you to be strong and strategize from a position of strength not weakness.
That what I strive to do.
And I want you to be in touch with your true intentions and how you’re playing out those intentions — and not bluff.
waiiiit a minute…synthia, perhaps you didnt really read my posts thoroughly. (i dont blame you, they were long).
you have to understand that it is really hard to grasp someone’s situation from postings on a thread. you dont know the person, and its easy to misunderstand. of course i was insecure. arent we all? but if you really knew the situation you would know that i was NEVER EVER needy with him, nor am i with anyone. i am NEVER in relationships because i am one of those independent people that cant be tied down. my aquarius was basically my best friend for a about a year or so…HE pursued ME and when i finally decided i might like him, it was obviously too late… thats it in a nutshell. i didnt realize how much i felt for him til it was too late.
and thats why he and i still are, friends. its disappointing but id rather have him as what we were than nothing. and ever since our last meeting, hes contacted me every single day.
where did you get DELUSIONAL and going from one extreme to the other? do you know me or my situation? no?
you mean to tell me YOU, yourself, were not NEEDY, AND DELUSIONAL in your situation with an Aqua?
and WHY can EVERYONE ELSE post similar stories and not get judged like you are judging me?
honestly, i came here for what i thought was some AWESOME insight on aquarius/scorpio relationships and i thought it was FUN.
i feel like you guys are taking it all WAY too seriously. let’s try to have fun and stop judging each other…
I dont mean to sound like i am retaliating and being spiteful, but seriously? COME ON! you guys are way too damn serious about this! Let’s just all try to get along and post some more stories and insights. i feel like i have tons more to share, but im now afraid to! it shouldnt be like this!
Rose, honey, Rutu was supporting you.
(I think you’re being a bit delusional, needy, and insecure with your Aquarius which is why I’m not responding to that meeting at all. Talk about going from one extreme to the other. You say one thing and do the complete opposite. But you do you.)
making posts like that and causing tension is exactly what made this thread lose its fire, not my posts. The thread is about Scorpio women and Aquarius Men. That’s what I would post about.
It definitely was more interesting when OTHER people would post, instead of just me.
what makes you think you guys are so “UN-boring”?
wow. you too, rutu?
AND ROSE DIDN’T BORE ME ATLEAST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Well at least I am still here Toostie..
And happy to see new posts and happy to see Rose answer them.
What went wrong … Wonder where all the other active peeps at?? Guess they’ve moved on to a more interesting thread! Unfortunately this Ones lost its fire.
Jim,
Well you know the situation best and if she’s gone cold, just let her be. Chasing is the worst thing you can do. That’s always my motto. “Let it be”.
It’s likely they will come back if you do that. But then again, in my current situation, this guy wont leave ME alone so i can move on and get over him! go figure.
Hang in there and just enjoy your life. Don’t try to ALWAYS be involved with someone. Take time for yourself.
@ Rose
At this point she’s gone pretty cold. I think it’s safe to say it’s over and I’ve moved on. I’m not calling, and she’s not either. The only strange this is that last night we were both downtown. I knew where she was, I’m fairly sure she knew were I was. I saw her group of friends come into the bar I was at and “case” the place three times, each time about 30 minutes apart. These people never go to this place. It’s not their scene at all. She was in the swanky disco across the street, which is their scene. May have nothing to do with me at all, but I just found it really odd.
Anyway… there’s this other scorp girl that I’ll be visiting in about three weeks. Maybe I’ll have a new story at that point.
Maybe they went to scope you out and were going to report to her afterwards. If I really like someone, I tell my friends all about them and they usually become a frequent topic of conversation. Based on the previous scenario with the best female friend, I could have been totally put off by her and my friends could have analyzed the situation differently. They could have seen that she was truly just your friend and that your attention was focused on me (I might have been so focused on the fact that you brought her that I overlooked that you were into me). They may just want to verify you’re not over there with that girl. OR I may have bet them that you were over there with your “best female friend” who is now your girlfriend. They might just be excited to see who’s right. I could see my best guy friend casing the club three times. See if I’d still find you attractive, who you’re there with, and if you’re into the person you’re there with.
HI Rose,
Yes, I do private readings. You can email me at brightstarlights@gmail and we can discuss it. Have a great day.
Aurora
@ jim
i think that’s the best way to handle it, even if they are seeing someone else.
i think you have hope with this girl, but its great that youre not putting all your eggs in one basket. im sure she likes you. i can tell. scorpios are pretty straightforward. you would KNOW if she didnt like you. she probably is just trying to play it cool as to avoid being hurt. just keep in mind not to play games…which i dont think you are, per say….but you were starting to learn toward it, in my opinion.
im playing it the same way. not going out of my way for him, but its obvious he still likes me despite seeing this other girl. he seems to be very keen on being my best friend haha. so ive been playing it cool, letting him do all the texting and emailing….not ignoring him but not going all out either. hes a great friend, if anything. id hate to lose him altogether. im trying out this new guy who is a scorpio. which is hilarious. i bet the aquarius will be trying to get with me as soon as his thing with this girl boils over. let’s just hope im available!
Thanks Rose. I saw her last night for the first time in about two weeks. We were going to meet for lunch, but plans fell through. Then we were going to meet for a drink after she got off work, which she changed to “if you want, come meet me at v bar. I’ll be with the people I work with.” Not exactly what I had in mind, but I made an appearance. Threw her for a loop when I showed up with one of my best female friends. Stayed for one drink then left. I think we’re done. The 20 mins I talked to her were fun and lively though. We flirted some, but it’s not like it was before. Two weeks ago we were all over each other. Now it’s just a kiss on the cheek if you know what I mean. What’s really funny is that I went to a VIP party for a film studio in town and saw one of her best friends all over the other guy I think she’s seeing. That’s Karma for ya.
Anyway… like a typical Aqua I’m keeping my options open. I had been set on giving her the “friends” speech last night, but decided instead to keep things open and play it cool. I’m not going to go out of my way to call, but I’ll take her calls and answer her texts if she sends them. Her daughter is with her dad for the next week so if she’s still interested she’ll come around. If not, I already have other things lined up. Why waste my time on someone who doesn’t want to really be with me when all these other women do?
personally, i don’t bring people i’m scoping out for a long term relationship around my co-workers unless i’m sure we’re on our way to one or in one. doesn’t always work out but at least that’s my mindset. i hardly even bring around people i’m not serious about either. i take work very seriously and don’t like sharing anything with my co-workers that might come around and bite me in the ass later.
i would’ve been thrown off by your best female friend. if it were me, i would have felt like an idiot that you brought her, even if you had introduced her as your best female friend. i’ve invited you to a ‘privileged’ outing with co-workers and you’ve brought your “best female friend.” i would want all your attention focused on me and my co-workers. at this point, i might not even believe that she is your best female friend (solely because i don’t know her). the last thing i would want is for you to bring your “best female friend” around my coworkers only for them to see you six months down the road at some other bar kissing your “best female friend.”
the flirting probably wasn’t like before because the female friend situation had her feeling uncomfortable. i don’t flirt with men if i feel there is no potential in making him mine. how do i know best female friend won’t make her move later tonight and you realize that all this time you’ve really been in love with her?
BrightStarLights,
I read somewhere up in this thread that you can do personal compatibility readings? is that true? If so, I’d love one.
@ jim
your post was interesting…
especially because i cant see what youre complaining about!
it seems like she is interested but doesnt think you are!
stop ignoring her texts and sending her calls to voicemail…
she’ll come around. TRUST ME.
any other scorp girls agree???
agreed! she wants you to initiate. we like to tempt, watch you chase and give in right before you’re ready to give up.
anyway, for the people who are interested in how everything turned out. we had a blast together the other night…this board has helped me understand Aquarius men in SO many ways. It was an outlet for me to express all my emotions. i dont know what i wouldve done otherwise-probably would have poured them all out to him and probably would have lost him! haha.
we sat at the bar for 3 1/2 hours just talking, mostly laughing….mild flirting. he met some girl that he likes but hes keeping his options open and repeatedly mentioned to me how much he loves my company and that im “one of the most awesome girls he’s ever met” i intended on just showing up, grabbing the camera and leaving but he begged me to stay and of course i had to. duh.
i guess i worried for nothing.
we are getting together tomorrow night again. he texted me that night after we hung out saying what a great time he had.
so….its basically going exactly how i want it to be going…
nice, casual relationship. us scorpios just need to not take the Aqua guys’ distancing so seriously. it has NOTHING to do with us!
its so weird how through ALL of this, i never ONCE made the initial contact. (some people should read this before saying something like “stop chasing him, you look desperate!” *ehem-tootsie*)
but oneword and rutu, you guys read my posts thoroughly and knew i never chased him. i probably would have eventually but this board kept me sane. lol
he emails me at least twice a week(and has been for 2 mos). its hard to let the guy go when he wont let ME go, ya know.
but i like how its going now….i think we are gonna be friends (or more) for a long time…..our chemistry is INSANE and we have such a great bond. we never run out of stuff to talk about. the bartender thought we were together!
anyway…..now it’ll be interesting to see how things go with this fellow scorpio guy! im not interested in getting serious (as i just got out of a draining 3 yr relationship/engagement) but im willing to see where it goes!
exciting!
jeez. sorry i was so “boring”, tootsie. what did i ever do to you? i dont know what you have against me.
i thought it was kinda fun.
yesss k we have what it takes we have THE TOOL we don’t disappoint either! See for yourself go on i dare you LOL
Howdy all so IS IT TRU aquas hav a kinky n v. unconventional ways in bed ..ive also read dat it goes beyond a shocking suprise 4a female seeing how “equipped” they r down south:D >>HOPING dis is tru dnt wanna b left disappointed ..hehe;) Kx
SO refreshing to see/read other posts… Sorry but roses posts were/are getting kinda BORING (zzZ) lol.
hmm…so i guess i dont belong so much on here anymore since i now am a Scorpio who likes another Scorpio. lol
id like to post the outcome with the Aquarius last night. not in the mood now. but i think it might be cleansing to do…
I am a scorpion woman who has been dating an aqua man for almost 3 years. He is exactly what is described as the typical aqua man. Silly, handsome in a non conventional way, intelligent, and funny. I am the epitome of the scorpio woman except i am not super jealous, or insecure. I have always been extremely attracted to the personalities of Aqua men and women. I have dated leo , libra, and sagitarious men before only to grow bored within the first year, and eventually leave them. I met my aqua guy in 10th grade creative writing, and it was love at first sight on my part. I never said more than a few sentences to him because i was so self conscious about how i seemed in front of him. Sadly he did not notice me because I wasn’t the best looking girl in high school. ( I hadn’t blossomed yet). I talked to him on and off over the internet but was weary of him since he had a reputation with all of the girls as a heart breaker. Everyone was after him but no one could have him, he didn’t want a gf and had never been close to loving anyone but his family and himself. A few years after hs I ran into him at a place where he worked, and he would follow me around asking me on dates, i’d tell him to call me and give him fake phone numbers. Years later after i left my boyfriend, i ended up asking him to buy me booze ( i was 20) we ended up hanging out and “hooking up” one night after some drinks.. Obviously we scorpions know how to “play” the game, since we are the smoldering temptress at heart. I gave him a kiss that blew his mind, and told him if he wanted to date me he could get in line. Soon after that he started showing up daily, driving across town so he could give me “hugs” and shortly after we were in a serious relationship. He admitted to me around our third moth together, that he had fallen in love with me after the second week we hung out, and he hid it from me because he never felt that way before and he wanted to be sure. I am not going to say the best way to get a man is to play games, but you should always be a little hot and a little cold, keep them guessing, and we are so good at that. Aqua men are terrified of commitment to anyone other than themselves though so keeping him is the hard part. In fact about a year ago, my bf freaked out about moving in with me, we had been together for a year and a half and i wanted more.. our relationship was more like a marriage for the whole time, but he was scared to commit. he ended up breaking it off with me, so i decided to move to Chicago. The week I moved down here, he told me he was moving in because he couldn’t imagine not being with me. We have been happily together ever since, and talking about marriage. You need to let them run, keep in mind you amaze them as much as they amaze you.. it is HARD work to keep an aqua man, especially to keep one doting on you, but it is SO worth it.
love this
Quick update…
Got a text from her last night that I didn’t see until late so I never texted back. It basically said that she was going to bed and wanted to say good night.
Checked myspace and she left me comment saying she’s been spending time with her daughter and missed me. I know for a fact that she’s gone out several times without her daughter, so I call bs, but maybe she just wanted time with her friends.
She called this morning on her way to work. Despite my better judgement I answered. She seemed happy to talk to me. Still no mention of seeing her though. I really don’t understand. It looks like she has plans this weekend but she’s not mentioned them to me.
Is this kind of game normal with scorps? I’m so not used to this. My gut, head and heart are so conflicted. I get a different message from each one of them. lol.
Wow, this thread has been incredibly eye opening and fascinating. I’m an Aqua guy currently compeltely confused by a scorp girl. Here’s a brief rundown.
Introduced to her by a mutual friend while out one night. Ignored her for a bit, talked to her for a bit but “busted her balls” big time. That’s my way of flirting. Didn’t really think anything of it and really thought I’d never talk to her again.
As my friend was leaving she took my phone, but the girls # in and told me to call it. I forgot about this for a couple of days. Couple of days later I have an after-party at my house. Mutual friend shows up, which triggers my memory and I start texting the scorp. We trade texts nonstop for a week and then I go on vacation. She was also on vacation about an hour and a half from where I was staying. I had a big group of people with me. A couple of days in get a phone call from the scorp asking if she and our mutual friend can come visit for a night and spend the next day on the beach. They show up, we have a great time and the scorp and I hook up w/no sex due to there being lots of people in the bedroom.
She leaves the next day but we text nonstop the rest of the week. Set up a date for the day I get back into town. We decide to stay in and watch a movie. She comes over and stays the night, not leaving until 4 pm the next day. We go out for dinner that evening. Saw each other a couple of times that week. We called each other at least once, sometimes several times a day. Our calls, however, are really short and to the point, which is fine by me because I’m not a phone person.
Next week rolls around and she spends every other night at my place. We go on several real dates that were out of this world. She spent the entire following weekend with me, stayed over Thurs – Sun.
Mutual friends tell me that she’s incredibly into me, was not going to sleep with me until she knew it was for real. Needless to say while she was over so much we were having sex.
Last Monday (June 30) he 9 year old daughter came home from a month long vacation. Ex is no longer in the picture.
I’ve seen her only once since then, and this was for a 45 minute lunch date. This has been driving me absolutely insane. We don’t text at this point, but phone calls are regular although short. Still several times a day. I’ve asked several times to go out or for her to come over, but she always has an excuse. At the same time she’s made it painfully obvious that she’s spening a lot of time with her best friend who lives about five blocks away from me.
Today I decided to not answer her calls. She called twice and I sent them both to voicemail. I did call back several hours later and tell her I was having a busy day at work (which I was) and to call me when she had a chance. Haven’t heard from her.
My take is that she’s no longer interested but something doesn’t add up and it’s bugging the hell out of me. My second thought is that she’s found some new guy and doesn’t know how to tell me. My brain tells me to just stop taking her calls an move on. At the same time, I’m drawn into this girl like I’ve not been drawn to someone in a very long time.
A couple of other side notes… we’re both on myspace and I get constant comments from women either flirting or just keeping in touch. She has a very small group of “top friends” and I’m the only guy there. She hasn’t removed that. We don’t really message or comment to each other online. Everything’s been offline so far. Lastly, I have a really large circle of friends and I’m really popular. A lot of my friends are women. I’m VERY single at the moment and I’m beating women off with a stick. I WISH I could get the scorp off my mind and move on to some of these other women, but the desire isn’t there with her always on my freaking mind.
Any thoughts? Comments? I’m thinking that I need to completely cut communication for a few days and see what happens. My gut tells me that if I do this, I’ll never hear from her again.
ugh i am dreading it tonight.
because, like we all know, the CHEMISTRY. damn. so intense.
why would he run away from that????!!!!
Oh, I thought it was an old boyfriend that you’d had a consummated romance with. But this is a bond that was never really given a chance… oh, OK.
As for the camera. Glad you didn’t take offense. As a Scorp, I know it’s hard in the whirlwind of emotion to keep your head straight and strategize properly.
IF you must pick it up, I think you’re idea of NOT STAYING LONG is a very good one.
I was just picking up on mixed signals… I mean you’re asking someone what you should say & how to behave. I’m like if you don’t want to be friends who cares what he thinks.
Follow your intuition. So far it’s telling you not to stay long, so the intuition knows what to do. Follow that, no matter what advice you get.
oh sorry synthia, i just read your comment to me.
i agree with you….but actually, i really DO need the camera. i need it to do the few freelance jobs that i have…i dont have steady work right now and i really cannot afford another one. i truly do not think he sees it as a barter, as ive made it clear that we do not need to hang out, i just NEED the camera by wednesday. i appreciate your opinion, sincerely. but i can tell you for sure that he doesnt see it that way, because its not like that. i really dont even want to see him. i just want the camera back and it to be over. i even suggested him dropping it off at my house but he refused, saying he missed me and “we havent hung out in awhile, lets get a drink and kick it”.
so i think i decided what im going to do. im going to go, but im going to say that i need to leave to meet up with some friends. ill be civil, even somewhat nice lol. and just leave it at that. im fine with that.
and about the past love, i didnt seek it out. im always the type to prefer to stay single. its just weird that this popped up NOW.
he and i never dated. he lived too far away and he was still in college when i was out and neither of us had cars. its not like one of us hurt the other. it just plain didnt work. now we both live in nyc and we’ve been out of college for 6 years now….(well, i have) i dont know. i am gonna give it a shot, not expecting anything though. i just got out of a 3 year long relationship and i really dont want to date anyone seriously. i didnt even want to date the Aqua guy to be honest with you, i just liked him and thought we could have something very casual. im kind of a commitment-phobe. haha. is that typical of scorps? lol
oops. That should be “sometimes feelings AREN’T mutual and it sucks.”
well you know if i go, ill definitely ask him those questions that hes been dreading lol. i noticed he has some sort of weird self-esteem issue, where he goes for (hate to say it at risk of sounding shallow) unattractive, overweight girls…..my roommate had a good point. she said some people who have self-esteem issues tend to steer away from people they see as either their equal or someone intimidating and feel more comfortable with someone who they view as “inferior”. i think this is interesting, but find it hard to grasp as i like men who can challenge me and whom i can learn from….sometimes someone who intimidates me. anything else is boring to me..
anyway, that has nothing to do with sun signs but just a thought.
oneword, im still finding it difficult deciding how to act tonight. i probably just should go with the flow…i mean, is there anything you think i SHOULDNT do? i dont really care as much anymore but i think its human nature to still not want to come off as “that psycho girl” to ANYONE, even if you dont have any desire to pursue a friendship with them.. you know?
P.S. i HATE bowling. lol
OH, I don’t need to harness and catch it. I have a Sag stellium…I’m busy retaining my own independence and finding new things to be passionate about.
He’ll never tire…because he’s all about ideas and so am I, except where he discussing them dispassionately, I discuss them with concentrated spark…and well that leads to a lot of spontaneity and excitement.
As for the sexual joking — that’s quinessentially Scorpio — and it’s still intense. Scorps will stop anyhting to talk about sex… and if you get a shocked reaction from people, all the better.
Sex is like a second language for me. I lost one boyfriend after discussing porn and looking at porn pics with his friends. HE thought I was flirting with them… um, no… I pretty much want to discuss sex in an exhibitionist fashion all the time (although Sag takes some credit for that).
ROSE– I know you asked for Aqua advice…but as a fellow Scorp, I personally don’t think you should go. Get another camera already. Tell, him that’s OK, you have a new camera, he can have that one.
You see, you don’t really want the camera. You want to see him. You’re using the camera as a barter. HE knows that. And he’s avoiding you because he doesn’t want to spend time.
I know that hurts. And I’m sorry. But no, he’s not an azzhole. He’s probably trying to avoid hurting you because he wants to focus on the other girl. Sometimes feelings are mutual and its sucks but it doesn’t mean the uninterested party is evil.
Of course after weeks of feeling harassed for the camera, he’s insisting on meeting you for drinks. That’s just to get it over with. Dont except crumbs from anyone. HE spent a weekend out another girl. As a Scorpio, I know you have tons of self-respect and pride. Girl, please remember who you are. You are better than this. Embrace the hurt, let the bond die, and move on. You are selling yourself cheap and he’s definitely picking up on that.
The worst thing you can do with another fixed sign is give in. The excitment of the scorp-aqua bond, to me, is the whole power vs. power dynamic. You are giving all your power away. I know it’s scary losing love..esp. when you’ve don’t nothing to cause/deserve it. But love is elusive and sometimes that’s how it works.
If you truly, truly want the camera, sned him a box with prepaid postage and have him mail it to you. Let it be an impersonal gesture.
And going back to a past love seems like a bad move too. IT’s like you’re looking for a security blanket. I mean it ended for real reasons that shouldn’t be overlooked. There’s a whole world out there… As a Scorp, I’ve don’t stuff like seeking to rekindle a past love too…but then I woke up. Better to be alone with pride than to sell yourself cheap.
Good luck.
Rose I think you should go.
His lying is a little problematic at best. If he finds a way to squirm out of it again, tell him to mail you the damned camera.
This guy sounds like a real winner. lol.
Whatever his reasons were, he has made his peace with them himself I think. I don’t know if he will share them with you, but if you’re curious you can ask. And be blunt about it. Seeing him squirm a little might make you feel better.
Perhaps he has ignored you because he doesn’t want to have to face the question: “why?” or “Why did you say you had a crush with me, lead me on, and then walk off with some other chick?” Would make for a really long emotional to-do that Im not sure he’d be comfortable with.
However it all turns out you made the right decision it sounds like. I’d be proud.
I doubt a volcano all the time. There is an intensity, but i’ve run into my scorpio buddy a few times, and he was just bored. We could apply the same logic.
State of being is bored. His exterior perhaps showed interest in a tv show. It doesn’t relay the individual. And besides all of that, there is a necessity to feel as if something bigger and grander than ourselves is at work. But that doesn’t imply a complete “volcano” under the surface. And it certainly doesn’t imply ALL scorpio’s to be like that. And to go even further it doesn’t imply they are like that ALL the time.
For instance. My sister enjoys bowling. She actually likes to bowl. And she is a scorpio. Synthia however does not. Now my sister could have hopped on this board and said:
“Hark! Synthia you don’t like bowling? WTF? That doesn’t sound very scorpio. Perhaps your view of bowling is just skewed”
Of course we could all agree to disagree and go about our merry ways. Which I imagine is where this is headed. But to make my point I had a conversation last night with my sister that involved her telling stories and talking about Penis’s to her friends in a subway the other day. Her friends were all embarrassed and she apparently kept up the convo, trying to make it as brash as possible. Laughing, giggling and carrying on. Where is the volcano? Where is this deep, dark introspective side? Self-being says she just wanted to shock her friends. And was having fun doing it. I could recount lots and lots of stories. Perhaps she has other influences in her chart. Perhaps there was something else brewing under the surface. But maybe not. Perhaps she just wanted to have some fun, and embarass her friends. According to some posts in here, you can’t ever know a person. So Im not going to try. Because I already knew that However, I can try to understand the action.
So does that appear light-hearted? If so then let me post my comment again:
“I imagine we are attracted to scorpio’s because they are fun to be with, and at face value seem lighthearted.”
I think face-value sums it up nicely.
As far as a joke pulling my ex-gf out of that no. For two reasons, and you should have picked them up reading the damned post.
1. She needed me to listen at that moment. Not crack jokes. Im not an idiot, nor am I that insensative.
2. I said that I have not met a scorpio that couldn’t be pulled out of an emotional lull with a joke. What happened to make her cry is by no stretch of the imagination an emotional lull.
All aquarius’s enjoy accessing the profound part of their personality. It’s nice meeting someone who can keep up. But mark my words. He will eventually grow towards the lighthearted fun all this hub-bub has been about. It all depends on the other aspects of his chart. But aquarius will eventually be for the people. And even if he stayed in that complete profound way of thinking, you wouldn’t be able to harness it or catch it, as it’s for humanity. At least that is the way most aqua’s see it.
Wow. Lot’s has happened in 2 days…..very funny stuff too.
First of all, Aqua boy is no longer. (he’s alive lol just completely lost all my feelings for him)
AND haha, youll love this. The love of my life is back in the picture after 5 years. we dated briefly but things couldnt work out for certain reasons…..and now we’re BOTH single again. HE’S A SCORPIO. we’ll see what happens. im just happy we can reconnect.
So Aqua is basically a f**** asshole. he bailed on me AGAIN last night! and i know hes definitely with this girl because his friend posted pics of their “weekend getaway”. they are not lovey dovey in the pics but i see her in the background of some. so i know thats for sure. what i dont get is why he wont tell me. i know he got “caught up” with her last night. so i got mad at him. i didnt blow up but im like “i really didnt expect this to turn into a “whose going out of their way to exchange the camera” i figured friends WANT to get together and have a drink, and youd just bring the camera along”
so he swears up and down we’re meeting tonight at a bar by MY place. he also wrote me a page long apology email this morning, still not mentioning he has a gf.
i dont even want to meet him, but somethings telling me i should. i dont like to end anything badly with anyone. not just romantic endeavors. do i look like a fool for forgiving him? ive just been cold so far, and enjoyed watching him kiss my ass. haha.
aquas, how should i treat tonight? he insists on hanging out with me and getting a drink. should i bother?
Yeah, a part of his post makes sense to me as well — the part about the woman at a party who breaks down crying right after. That proves my point … the heart was not light at all that night — despite the exterior. And a party and a few jokes didn’t pull her out of anything.
That’s why one must look deeper. Scorpios always have some intensity, and probably a volcano, lurking under the surface. How this logically supports the lighthearted argument is questionable — it doesn’t!
The state of being is the reality. The exterior is not.
But anyway. The suggestion that one who’s not lighthearted and fun mustn’t be around an Aqua goes against the theory of opposites we’ve been presenting in this thread.
I know one particular Aqua who gravitates toward me precisely because he can access a more profound part of his personality — that he can’t with those who are just into the amusements.
Like i said Oneword.. You make Sense ! MY OPINION
NOONE is “attacking” ANYONE wtf LOL.? We are all free to simply express our own OPINION…hence this site and all the others lol… How it is perceived by some, well that is down to them.
@Tootsie
Hey just scrolled up and caught the rest of your posts!
The scorpio’s i’ve met ARE fun loving and CAN be light hearted.
They can be very deep too. Not sure where the problem is. You can be light hearted and mysterious. *Shrugs*
There is a lot more to a person (even astrologically) than just their sun sign though. So much more can be attributed to other parts of their chart. I don’t think scorpio’s are the only sign to take themselves too seriously. For instance: Aqua’s are one of the most “free spirited”, light-hearted, jokesters amongst the other signs. But even aqua’s will have to sit and involve themselves with periods of self-introspection. They can be deep too. Just on a mental level. Not so much on an emotional one. Does that mean they can’t be deep thinking AND light hearted? Of course not! They can be both. Just not at the same time. Scorpio’s on the other hand seem to be able to. (JUST MY OPINION) They can laugh and carry on, and still be thinking about whatever trouble is going on in their head. (JUST MY OPINON) I once was at a birthday party with my ex-gf and it wasn’t until afterwards that she sat with me in our car on the way home and just cried about something pretty harsh that had happened to her father. I mean it truly effected her. (JUST MY OPINION) But you wouldn’t have known ONE bit by looking at her. An aqua during his little “cave time of life trouble” wouldn’t have even shown up. Is the difference clear?
We should probably get back to helping each other instead of ridiculing.
@ Rose
I hope you get your camera back. And I sincerely hope you just let this guy go. It’s my opinion of course. But i’d say he has had his time. It sounds like your moving more towards this idea too. I’d say it’s probably that wonderful scorpio intuition.
PS – I don’t think you sounded desperate. Just curious as to why this guy would do such a thing. I hope any posts you’ve read have been clear and not too confusing. And most of all I hope it doesn’t leave you with a bad taste in your mouth for aqua’s.
@Rutu
I made a statement based on experience. I don’t care if everyone and their horse thinks you can’t know a person after 27 years ( my oldest sister). I said “from my experience”, so i prefaced it, not my fault if it was mis-understood. I still stand by my statement. Synthia is probably a different kind of scorpio than I’ve met. I hope so. Because if you don’t like fun-loving you have no business being around an aqua.
And rutu, I don’t know how old you are, but let me give you some advice. Don’t ever let anyone tell you what you experienced.
If they want to try to be constructive and add to it, then by all means. But to take away is never an option. Ever. I made statements based on my experiences. And I’ve not met the dark, brooding presence that synthia describes. Frankly….I don’t care. And neither should you. Enjoy the relationships you have built. Scorpio or not.
@ Synthia
You eluded to me not being able to relate to scorpios on a deep level because my sun sign is not “intimate and reflective”
As far as my sign not being able to relate, my moon is in scorpio. Making my ability to feel quite deep. Most astrologers would agree that it’s more so than a sun sign scorpio. I would go get the links to prove it but im feeling lazy.
oh and tootsie, what “hint” are you referring to?
you mean him telling me to my face ” have a crush on you”?
ive read some of your posts, and found some things you mentioned lame (in my opinion) but ive never once sunken to the level of insulting either of you (TOOTSIE and MARION)
i ignored things i may not have agreed with and instead focused more on things i can elaborate on or on some level agreed with…
i thought you were both women in your 30′s. i would have expected more from you.
and i found this thread fascinating, because i didnt know why i was so drawn to this particular guy!
i know aquas find chasing as a turn off. most guys do, no matter what sign. if you read the rest of my post you would see that i said i USED to chase guys when i was a teen. i NEVER once contacted this particular guy. we were best friends and would talk everyday. and when we both got laid off, i never ONCE contacted him in any way (except to get my camera back, obvi)
thats what was weird about the whole situation. it’d be a lot easier to get over a guy who left you alone.
jesus. i didnt think id be attacked for this.
if you even KNEW me, youd know i was the furthest thing from desperate. i have no desire to get married or have children, so im not even in a rush to get into a relationship. i enjoy my single life, and tend to prefer pursuing my career over a guy. it was just a nice sidetrack to my life, thats all. he was fun, we had a blast together, and i had a crush on him, and he had a crush on me
yup desperate is what it is
Rose i agree you should stop chasing after guys it’s coming across quite desperate sorry just TAKE THE HINT AND MOVE ON (i don’t mean that in a bad way) i think aquas finds it a turn off!
I am a scorpio and I can agree with Synthia’s post. I prefer a deep conversation over watching people roll a ball in a aisle. Scorpio have an OCD complex, and I can say I am one. When I work on a project I can get obbessive to the last detail of the film.
i always felt like Scorpios would fret over deep things, and spend hours pondering and obsessing over serious matters.
i am thankful that my only “problems” right now are finding steady work. (thank god i have some to pay the bills) and my issues with this guy.
not too long ago, there were real “problems” and i WISHED i had the time to worry about trivial things. and now i do.
he called me this afternoon to tell me he couldnt meet me AGAIN today because he had band practice. so i suggested afterward and he nervously said “ohhh ummm no. we’re all going out drinking afterward, you know, a band thing.” okkkkk so im like what about tomorrow. and hes like yea i think i can squeeze in some time after work. WOW. he really is trying to avoid me. ive never seen this before unless ive DONE something to someone! jeez. and to think that a little over a month ago we were like best friends. weird.
i just want my damn camera. nice of you to “squeeze” me in. i barely even talk to this guy. i dont know what i couldve done. ive seen this behavior in the past when ive chased guys and made myself look like a fool, but i stopped that after my teens and learned my lesson. now i do the opposite. i dont contact them at all lol
I agree with Synthia’s post. All signs overlap in their traits sometimes. it can be difficult to generalize. making broad generalizations is fine, but i do agree that some people on here were being way too specific, usually based on one or two people they knew. no one should be feeling insulted though! i sure as hell dont feel insulted. none of us know each other!
Oops… That should have been “Ideas change the World.”
Um… Ms. Synthia here.
Wow. This thread has gone from being intriguing to ridiculous.
1. I don’ t know any boring Scorpios, because something’s always simmering underneath the exterior.
2. I can’t speak for all Scorps, but I personally have never “wished” I were “fun” and lighthearted” as someone else just suggested. LOL. LIfe is grand and amazing. So are humans and I take them both very seriously — and that leads to great thrill and depth.
I don’t entertain myself the same “fun” way others do and no I secretly don’t want to either. I always think secretly, wow, they are really missing fulfillment. They think THAT’S fun? Ugh! I see most fun as a cheap substitute for fullfillment.
I remember once a friend invited me to go bowling. I responded. “Why? It’s just rolling a ball down a wooden lane?” I mean really, why the hell would I want to do that?
He thought about it and agreed! But we went and spent most of the time in intense conversation. Thus, it was made very unforgettable.
3. Um, I didn’t get “pissed.” I was simply amazed and shocked. I had been refraining from commenting here for weeks but I couldn’t let that go lest someone visit and get a completely wrong view of Scorpios.
I find it quite hilarious that yet another person has listed relationships as evidence that they know Scorpios. Let me say this: one can be related to someone, date someone, and in fact live in the house with them for years and never ever really know that person. Think about it. (or maybe this is only a secret that really reflective signs can perceive. Most people are not that deep and are content to have a very shallow understanding of other people).
Just because you’re super familiar with them doesn’t mean you know them on a deep level… espeically if your tendencies as a sign limits you because your trend is not toward the intimate and reflective.
4. Also, it wasn’t a “small” statement. Words have ideas behind them and ideas change the word. If something is wrong or uninformed it should be countered. You can’t mischaracterize a whole genre of people by calling them the complete oppposite of what they are. I mean what astrologer (not that experts matter much) has ever summarized Scorps as fun and lighthearted. LOL.
Someone else said they wished Scorps wouldn’t worry about “small, unimportant” things. Where are the Scorps who do this? Maybe I”m just an evolved Scorp, but I fill my mind with interesting and profound questions/topics. The world, as I said, is grand… I would argue there are few small things. If it seems small to you, then that’s on you.
Some of the dating anxiety presented on this thread might suggest trivial preoccupation from some Scorps, but in dating I’ve seen all signs fret like this so no worries — even the Aquas who pretend they don’t. I’ve seen it on various boards. That’s human youth nature. Not a Scorp thing. People eventually grow out of it.
I am a Scorpio with Leo Rising and Gemini Moon.
I am married to Gemini (born 6.11) with Gemini Moon and Pisces Rising.
My son is a Libra (born 10.11)
I have always been attracted to Aquarius people, whether it be love or creative wise. My Mentor was an Aquarius, My Two best Female Friends are Aquarius. I have always attracted them. Now that I am studying Political Science and Film. I have met alot of activists whom fall in the aquarius scope. I prefer them, over other signs, I love air signs. I dated a Leo briefly, But I am too intense and have a need to lead that we bumped heads too much. I dated a cancer, Boring. I dated a Piseces, Clingy. I dated a scorpio, Psycho. LOL I feel better with an air sign.
@Rose
hi there….
Well I agree i have been making excuses for him because perhaps I at times do find these things in my behaviour. I do tend to be distant most of the time.
Let’s see what happens on this sunday or monday..
@ oneword
Hi buddy…
See this Ms.scorpio getting pissed about some small statement. One thing I don’t like about scorpios is their SUPER PRIDE in themselves. Well definitely not all are like this but you can SEE the example… Anyway I have a scorpio friend she has been our neighbour since i was very young. she is elder to me and is like a sister only. My grandmother is also a scorpio. and my uncle too. Also had lots of scorpio friends and classmates.
SOOO Ms. Synthia we do know few things about scorpios.
That’s if aquas can put up with scorps annoying “habits” ! Probably not, aquas can’t handle it/us! Aquas just runs away lol.
I find some scorps so intensely boring and can be quite dull. They definitely need to lighten up a bit and not take minor, unimportant issues/situations so seriously.. They’re so intense man, it’s kinda draining lol. I think pairing up with aquas works well for them.
I think scorps secretely wants or wishes to be more fun and lighthearted and not to be so serious and brooding all the time !
Wow that was enlightening. Lol.
@ oneword
no, i know. in fact, thats how ive felt for a long time, but you and rutu seemed to feel so strongly that i was taking things too literally and analyzing too much, so i heard you out, and i took the advice…and i believe it was very good guidance for me.
i do agree that there is no excuse. its a pet peeve of mine too. i HATE it. however, i totally forgot how i sent him an email after i said that that night would be best for me to get together to get my camera…saying that “if you end up working late and tonight sucks for you, i supposed i could wait til monday.
so…i guess thats why he didnt take our plans so seriously and texted me the next day apologizing and asking “sunday or monday?”
but still, i dunno if its just me, but i would at least text the person saying i couldnt make it, not wait til the next morning.
unless his phone did die, which his coworker vouches for….he was 3 hours late to work the next day!
and a payphone never works b/c seriously, who knows people’s #’s by heart? lol. i sure as hell dont. i dont even know my mother’s cell # by heart.
im not making excuses for him, as you guys know i definitely havent been. YOU were the ones making excuses for him lol.
but logical ones of course! : )
anywho….im very apathetic now….so you probably wont see me on here for awhile…maybe after this sunday when i see him, but i cant help but expect a negative outcome. i think i might just tell him im busy and just need to get the camera and run. i cant even deal with his shit anymore…
thanks again guys…for your insight and care.
i might post about sunday, but maybe not….only if its worth posting about..
@Rose
Perhaps I’m in a wierd aqua mood, and see things differently than you might be needing. But I’d say scrap it. There is NO excuse for not calling. Or contacting you. It’s a pet peeve of mine though. If you say you’re gonna do something you should do it. Period. He knew he was getting drunk, and he could’ve used a payphone, friends phone whatever. I’d keep an eye on him in the back of my mind, but by no means would I wait for him or anything. Skrew that.
@ Synthia
Im not even going to comment. I’ve lost interest in what others think about my opinions. However…I will say that I have 3 sisters that are scorpios. 2 of my closest friends in the world are scorpios. One of them for 21 years. I dated a scorpio woman in a long-term serious capacity for 3 years. I think I can say I know a little bit.
I stand by what I said. Imo I didn’t say enough. But this is all my opinion. Skewed or not.
OOPS. i meant GUYS hahahaha
well heres the thing. it doesnt bother me if i find out he’s seeing a bunch of girls and totally playing the field. in fact, it would make me happy. he SHOULD be doing that, after being in one committed long term relationship after another, after another, after another……what BOTHERS me is if he is IN another committed relationship and won’t see me. which is what i think is going on…why he’s avoiding me etc…it would pain me to think that he couldnt give me a chance during that tiny bit of singledom he had and then all of a sudden, boom! we “cant have anything” cuz he has another girlfriend again. see what i mean?
he could bang every girl he sees and i wouldnt care.
oh…and im pretty sure he doesnt care if i hooked up with other girls. lol we werent ever “together” like that.
Rose,
Well let’s see then what happens on this sunday. Can’t tell what he expects from you on that day.. But you can definitely figure it out when you meet him.
I don’t think anyone can blame you for keeping your options open. But then it should work both ways. How would you like it if he also keeps his options open… You just saw his picture with other girl and got annoyed. What if he comes to know that you hooked with other guys.
by the way, as a general disclaimer. i am out there keeping my options open, obviously. and ive hooked up with a few guys during the entire time ive been crushing on this guy. its just that hes always there in the back of my mind because of….well….whatever the hell it is that makes us Scorpio women go crazy over them! it really is some sort of crazy magnetism.
i cant ask him if hes seeing someone. i mean, maybe i can bring it up if we’re already in conversation. but just out of nowhere, no. its not in my character and he will think it’s weird. he still thinks of me as lighthearted and fun. (when really i am overanalyzing and getting advice from strangers on msg boards lol)
i DEFINITELY cant be specific. i saw the picture of him and the girl via STALKING lol. i cannot admit that.
so, he texted me apologizing, saying “my phone died and i got drunk” whatever. could be true. i was talking to his coworker who is also my friend.(weird long story-we all used to work together. now they work together, and i am still unemployed) and he was complaining that —-(Aqua) was hours late to work and hasnt called. so his phone totally could have died. still. whatever.he was at work late, he couldve emailed.
anyway in his text this morning he said we should meet up sunday. i dont know if he expects me to just grab the camera and leave or wants to get a drink. we’ll see. i just answered with “thats fine. call me then” thats it.
im so sick of this but im trying not to be negative.
They really are nuts, those Aquas
Or Rose you don’t even need to meet him to ask this questions you can just call him and ask them. But just hold on to your hopes till he answers you..All right.
Hi Rose!!
ROSE PLEASE PLEASE LISTEN TO ME…..I totally understand how much frustration his behaviour must be causing you but then on the day you accidently met him did it seemed like he didn’t want you. Just be more patient. Do one thing. DON’T CALL HIM… DON’T TRY TO CONTACT HIM FOR FEW DAYS…. DON’T PRESS HIM TO MEET YOU…. HE IS JUST NOT IN THE RIGHT MOOD…AND ITS GOT NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU (most probably)…..Have you checked if he is avoiding other people too….. He might be avoiding them also…. You can surely do one thing at this time….ASK HIM STRAIGHT WAY IF HE IS SEEING ANY GIRL…..YOU CAN ALSO MENTION THE NAME OF THAT GIRL…ASK IT CASUALLY AND EXPECT THE TRUTH…..AT LEAST DON’T STOP TILL HE HIMSELF TELLS YOU THAT HE IS SEEING SOMEONE ELSE….If he is not seeing someone else he still has you on his mind…
I read your posts and I can clearly see your mood swings. It’s normal I totally understand. But PLEASE give my this advice a try. I can go without calling for several weeks in row if I am not in the mood even to my very best friends. but that doesn’t mean I like them less now. It’s just a phase.
And remember you and him are two different personalities. So don’t draw conclusions according to your logic. I mean say if you do something then it means something but that doesn’t mean if he does the same thing then it would mean the same thing at it was meant for you.
So Dear Rose… I really request you to now just ask him straight way if he is seeing that girl and expect the truth. You can also straight way ask him, after this question if he still means what he said to you months back…But PLEASE do not reach any conclusions before you hear it from him..
That’s a humble request to you. Please act on it. And tell me what happens….I am waiting for your reply…Take care.
One Word —
I can’t believe what I just read … your comments about Scorps seeming lighthearted and fun … and being pulled out of an emotional “lull” with a laugh. And needing to be helped along.
That’s not quientessentially Scorpio at all. Those are such bizarre statements that I wasn’t expecting to hear from you.
You know the dark, brooding guy who’s the daughter’s boyfriend in American Beauty. He typifies how scorpios are to me.
When in good humor of course they seem enthralling yes but one can always sense the undercurrent…
I, personally, very much detest frivolity and when Aquas do that around me I tolerate it…but it would never have any emotional impact on me. And The intense emotions and depressions I feel as a Scorpio are never things I need to escape…because I love studying them and learning the root of them.
Yes our emotions are deep as you acknowledged … so it would be contradictory for jokes to pull us from them.
Also, what Scorpios wants help being pulled out of a “problem” (as you suggest emotional phases are) — they are pretty self-sufficient.
I think you have great insight when it comes to what makes Aquas tick … but with Scorps? I dunno.
I think you’re letting your Aqua lens skew your perception….
Rose
Thats unfortunate about how he treated you. And it’s not right in the least. He should not disrespect your time OR your effort.
I think you did everything right. And you certainly did all you could. This guy apparently is not capable of giving you what you need. Especially at this time in his life. At least this is the way it sounds.
Regardless, he did not even let you know why he was late or didn’t respond to you. Perhaps he had a good reason. Perhaps not. Either way, you did what you could, and no one could ask you to do more.
Don’t grow apathetic though. You sound like a gem of a person, and thats over the interweb. So Im sure in person you are a delight. My suggestion is to go with your instincts on how you are feeling. But don’t do it with anger, or resentment. Those are very negative, and no sense in carrying them around. Or harboring them for that matter.
Get your camera back, and if he has a reason ( a GOOD one) for missing your meeting, then hear him out. But I would say the time for “waiting and expecting” has passed. If he wants more from you, then HE will have to pursue those deep brown eyes.
Thats my two cents.
umm…well i think it’s safe to say that i am just fooling myself and that this Aquarius is trying to send me some OBVIOUS signals that he is not interested.
i told him i needed my camera back tonight for something i needed to do next week, and he is going out of town tomorrow for the whole wknd. he said yea lets meet up tonight. ill call you when i get out of work.
No call.
I texted him asking if he was still working late, and if so i could MAYBE try to squeeze in time tomorrow to meet him, but i couldnt promise.
No answer.
WTF.
I really need to stop kidding myself. i mean why would someone go through THAT great of lengths to avoid someone??????????
JEEZ.
its just so hard to accept b/c he couldnt wait to be single to spend time with me.
now he is, AND we dont work together, and what does he do? go get with someone else. or if that’s not true, what does it even matter? He’s avoiding me like no other person has avoided me in my life.
i just want to get my camera back so i can move on already. im done…
I am meeting up with my Aqua tonight to get my camera back.
I will try the gaze! maybe i already do it and dont know????
i dont know if this is a full on getting drinks kind of thing tonight or if im just picking up my camera. i must admit, i will be a little hurt and sad if he doesnt wanna hang out for a bit. i will feel rejected….
i will do my best to keep my emotions at bay.
oh and rutu, i have dark brown eyes too! haha weird.
Hi Rose!!!
So you wanted to know about intense gazes… Let me share my exprience. I have faced this from 4 scorpios. 2 were friends and 2 teachers.
This girl and I were not introduced to each others as I was new in my class. I use to usually stay with just one another friend. Didn’t have a friend circle. I was into my studies and attended the lectures regularly. She had missed few lectures and wanted a notebook. So she asked my friend for his but he had already given it to someone else so he asked me to give mine to her. And explain her a little of what happened in class. I agreed. She was sitting on the bench and I was standing in front of her and notebook was kept on the desk. All the time that I was explaining to her she looked at the notebook and me. Just looked.. nothing special. Asked few questions and I answered. she took some time to go through the notebook, looking down. Then when done she looked up at me as I was standing before her, had a sort of slight smile on her face and that intense gaze and she just said ” thank you” and asked me if it would be ok for me if she returns my notebook in 2 days. Her pitch was definately changed. I just said Ok. At that time I thought it was nothing deliberate and guessed may be thats what people normally do. But then I began seeing this more often in her behaviour. Suppose we were standing in a group and I was talking to someone else and if she is there she would stare at me with usually a slight smile. And while staring she didn’t blink much. Also she had dark brown eyes and always hilighted them, perhaps used eye liner(i don’t know).
You know Rose its the combined effect of those eyes, her voice and those expressions. But mostly eyes. Just stare constantly as and when you can. She definately knew how uncomfertable I would feel at those gazes initially but she continued. When she stares she had this smile on her face like she is telling me….I know what you feel and you cannt hide it from me… I felt sort of exposed. Hence the discomfort.
Thats the techincal analysis of your gaze.
I am very willing and ready to start a no-contact(on my part) thing with him right now. I haven’t in over a week. Nothing from him either. Now here’s the thing. That day I ran into him at the beach, he was like “hey i still have your camera. let me know when you want it back” So this is tough. i want to take it off his hands but i want HIM to initiate contact. the ball is in his court. i cant do anything more and im sick of asking him to hang out and getting some lame excuse. i felt like saying “well YOU call me and ask me to hang out and then bring it along” I am very ready to leave him alone but I feel like hes thinking “why wont she come get her camera?”
oh, and did anyone read my post a few days about about the “intense gaze”? Im interested in what you others think!
Rose
Personally, I woul dgive myself a time limit…and if he hasn’t committed to you by then…date someone else. Now thats totally my opinion, and I would take it as that. I know it feels like thats being unfair or something, but protect yourself, and your feelings. He KNOW how you feel i’m sure. And he remember the talks you had. If he wants to move on those things then the ball is in his court. I wouldn’t tell him how long you’ve given him or anything, but set a definite day. At that point start looking for someone new. If you don’t find someone new, and the aqua comes back around, then give him the shot. But don’t close off any other chances you have at another relationship for this guy.
Thats my opinion.
P.S. Sometimes having a girl throw herself at you can be kind of fun. Sometimes not. lol. Depends on the mood.
Oneword,
I’m pretty sure it does come across in my demeanor. I’ve thrown myself at him, drunk, a couple of times. Once he tried to resist when he was still with his girlfriend, but he gave in. That was back in April.
And the second time was that time a month ago, when he flat out turned me down in a “oh come on now” way, when i suspected he was seeing someone new. (which was also the same day he admitted he still had a crush on me, prior to me hitting on him)
Rose,
So you want this Aqua to ravish you huh? Interesting. I wonder if that comes across in your demeanor.
Some aqua’s are notorius for insecurity. Not sure they will be all you hoped for etc. Easy going and light hearted intelligent fun is the way to get your guy.
It’s a contradiction for sure. You have to be distant, and yet close enough that he won’t lose sight of you. But here’s the catch. He will EVENTUALLY remember everything you guys talked about. (dating once he’s single etc) It’s going to happen. You can bank on it.
However…how he chooses to act on that is going to be something no one can predict. Not even another aquarius.
@K
I imagine we are attracted to scorpio’s because they are fun to be with, and at face value seem lighthearted. You really don’t start seeing all the “trouble” they always have until they get to know you better. Then out comes the, “You won’t believe what that B**** said to me today” stuff. Scorpio’s seem to constantly be surrounded by the next biggest and best problem in their world.
On the other hand it’s fun helping a scorpio through all of that. Laughing, and making jokes where appropriate. I never met a scorpio that couldn’t be pulled out of her little “Emotional Lull” by a good laugh. Scorpio’s also are deep creatures that have a lot of mysteries to unravel. And aquarius is all about trying to figure it out.
Wonders what keeps their relationship going… and what do aqua guys like about scorpio women like what is it that attracts them to scorps ? I think hes sexy in a dorky goofy kinda way which is a gud thing dorks r cool luv dorks! Nerds r cool too for some reason im really attracted to the “nerdy” types hmm
Hey, I just realized yesterday that before Aqua Ashton married Scorp Demi Moore his other girlfriend — Brittany Murphy– was also a Scorp!
That is soo wild to me. He must REALLY like Scorpio energy.
(I love Brit by the way).
I want to bring up the topic of the “Intense and/or sexy gaze”
Apparently, this is something that everyone thinks Scorpios have. (mostly non-Scorpios-i notice)
I read this and hear this ALL THE TIME.
Now am I crazy, but is this very difficult and awkward to do?
In fact, I don’t think I’ve ever done it, unless I had been dating the guy for quite awhile and I do it as a joke and we end up laughing…
I’d like to learn how to do this to “put them under a spell”. sounds like crap to me but i’m intrigued by anything lol.
In fact, it popped into my mind last weekend when I had my accidental beach date with my Aquarian crush (read my old post about that day if youre not familiar). I had sunglasses on and when he was kinda far away from me I just stared and kinda practiced. But then I took my sunglasses off when he was closer and was TOTALLY gonna try it, but as soon as he caught eyes with me I couldnt do it. It’s weird!
I read what you wrote, Rutu, a few posts back, about needing more Scorpio insight. You see, its easier to give you advice and feedback when you have a particular situation you are trying to analyze. We have particular situations and you have been MORE than helpful with them….but it is very hard to give general Scorpio woman advice, ya know?
Id be happy to answer ANY question you may have, though. I’m just not a good lecturer. lol
My situation is kinda stagnant right now. I don’t know if it’s good or bad. It’s bad because he still isnt making effort to hang out with me and I still suspect this girl is in the picture. See, I feel like that could be the only possible reason for keeping me at bay and not ravaging me as soon as he was single and we didnt work together anymore. (that was his plan lol) SOMETHING must have popped up and put a wedge between he and I.
After we ran into he and his friend on the beach last weekend, we sent a few emails back and forth. We exchanged pictures we took of all of us from that day, etc…talked about how much fun we had. I said. “we should hang out more!” and he said “i had a f**ing blast! We will do it again soon for sure!”
he never follows through with those promises. I’ve gotten the, “we need to hang out” line (and other versions of it) QUITE a few times in the past month or so with no action. Am I being naive? I refuse to ask him to hang. The ball is in his court. I guess I could one day, with attempts to get my camera back that he borrowed. Im just so scared of rejection.
Soree lol i knw im in the wrong thread for this! Kx (admin’s gettin annoyed with me i think sorry again lol ..PEACE!
Also if everyone jus read, listened n educated themselves more especially deep concerns of the planet we live !n if u care enough be aware of ((global warming)) serious guys tornadoes earthquakes typhoons sunami how dyou think this has escalated what is the root of it basically stop ‘efin up the world this poor world cant take much more its happening rite in front of our eyes yet we r stil blind ? Participate, do the littlest things cos it does n will help! If u care Children r the/our future.
U have indeed n we really appreciate ur part in this astrology topic somewhat intruiging… I believe in sharing “knowledge” i luv how i learn new things everyday, life is a learning process n for a 24 yr old i have so much more im anticipating to learn! No1 can take knowledge away 4rm u n 4those that doesnt “share” i think they r somewhat selfish. Thru communicating, knowledge is gained i strongly believe in COMMUNICATION if these people in all parts of da world COMMUNICATED then mayb wars b prevented …
Hi K!
See K I have played my part in introducing aqua nature to you.. Now I wish you or Marion, Rose, mini or Synthia, anyone of you please start explaining Scorpio women to me…See it won’t be fair if you don’t…Right.
Hey K..why not start talking to your aqua about england’s inflation..Anyway give me some insight into your nature….
Soree for overload!..lol mars in virgo tendencies somewhat mild case of OCD:D
U knw how Aquarius is the sign of intellect n communication… Well this A. friend of mine i find hardly really “communicates” with me i think he is still analysing me (lol) if not playin mind games which i dnt mind cos its kinda fun hehe Its been awhile but hey im in no rush i suppose for now lol all i say is best of luck those who attemps to analyse a scorpio female!..lol scorps r unconventional n difficult to fathom. Definitely what u see is not what u get there is SO much more deeply MORE;) Kx
Lol marion!How r u so hows it goin with ur A. guy!Finally got him under ur spell yet lol;) I was wondering if anyone has put into practice any of these helpful insights/advice from this thread ..and has it been a success with ur current quest of “understanding” and or “getting” these electrifying aquas to open up those wonderous eyes make realise that their truest lovefriend is r!ght here, gazing w/ intense penetratively right bck @them(“,)
Lol marion!How r u so hows it goin with ur A. guy!U finally got him under ur spell yet lol;) I was wondering if anyone has put into practice any of these helpful insights/advice from this thread ..and has it been a success “understanding” and or “getting” these electrifying aquas to open up those wonderous eyes make realise that their truest lovefriend is r!ght here, gazing w/ intense penetratively right bck @them(“,)
Lol marion!How r u so hows it lookin with ur A. bloke! Got him under ur spell yet lol;) I was wondering if anyone has put into practice any of these helpful insights/advice from this thread ..and has it been a success with ur current quest of “understanding” and or “getting” these electric aquas to open those wonderous eyes n make realise that their truest lovefriend is right here, gazing w/ intense penetratively right bck @them(“,)
MINI
I suggest you read Rose’s posts. She also thought so convincingly that her aqua friend is seeing someone else and has lost interest in her.,… What happened ?….. It doesn’t seem to be true now. Sort of similar stories isn’t it? Talk to her when she comes back to the post.
Hi mini, Marion and K!!
@mini
I agree with what K said. You are doing what scorpio women tend to do but hate when someone mentions it to them… what is it?….OVER THINKING….. Now think about it. Suppose everything is going nice and well and you think he is interested in you. Then for few days he doesn’t call or instead of calling messages you..So now this will be a small issue to him. May be he wasn’t in mood to talk or may be he wanted to do some other work or may be he thought if he calls the conversation would continue for long time and didn’t have time… In short there are thousand other possibilities than that he has lesser interest in you now. BUT SCORPIO WOMEN JUST TAKE EVERYTHING SO PERSONALLY.. Sorry to say but they are kind of pessimistic at times. They want things THEIR way. And other big problem is they expect other people to understand them the way they are able to understand others. Well not everyone is good at understanding you (SCORPS). Why don’t you go by a simpler and very effective way.. that is….COMMUNICATION.. I am sure he liked it when you talked to him openly. That’s what is needed. And at any point if you feel you have been rude, then just appologize. HE WILL FORGIVE YOU..We don’t hold grudges for such small things..
Now you didn’t like him messaging you and would have preffered if he had called you instead. Have you told this to him???????????? Most probably NO…..NOW HOW WILL HE KNOW…..HE WILL NOT KNOW….. AND WILL REPEAT THE SAME THING AGAIN…. BECAUSE IT’S NOT A BIG DEAL TO HIM( whether to mesage or call)….
@Marion
Hi there…. Talking about cowardly act.. Ya I totally agree acting cowardly sucks. But being cautious doesn’t mean being coward.. Most of the people think that aquarians are commitment phobiac..I will speak for myself which I believe holds true for at least some other aquas. I am not commitment phobiac but I am afraid of being committed to the wrong person. That’s what makes me check and recheck the decisions I make, so that I don’t regret them later.
And you had asked me why my friend got so angry with me that she threw things.. THAT’S BECAUSE I TOLD HER WHAT I THINK SHE WAS..A CYNIC..SHE SORT OF BELIEVED EVERYONE WAS SORT OF CONSPIRING AGAINST HER….It just sucked..I had enough. And by the way she threw my notebook at me. (I was asking her to return it, sort of bad timing..but anyway my notebook survived)
I want deep hard intellectual stimulation on a personal level intact however as of late he hasnt been able to b hittin ma notes or rub my curiousity the right way i jus wanna blow him away ..Kx;)
Scorps r always so suspicious lol (not a bad thing to an extent obviously:D Mini try not to look into it too much when he textd maybe it was easier convenient at the time ..read somewhere that aquas r manipulators and narcissist lol hmm! Im quite suprised ur aqua guy liked being quizzed/analysed on such personal questions about HIMSELF ?! I wish this A friend of mine would open up jus a litttle bit i wanna know what on his mind he seems to think a lot…
acting like a coward totally sucks dont do it whether aquarius or scorpio
I knw what u mean @mini lol i understand totally scorpios often come across a bit aggressive n defensive we dnt mean to at times its jus kinda in our nature and we r so impulsive kinda irrationaly hence mars ruler so its kinda hard 4us 2b all “nicey nicey” tone of voice especially when pissed off at that person, we cant stand cowardly actions too! Also Scorpio must b quite prominent in ur chart i think..:D I hav quite a lot of air & earth in my mine i think im a walking contradiction at times lol
Thanks rutu n K….@ rutu..yeah i think i understand what u r talking abt..its jus tht for a scorpio woman to wrk on it is a lil difficult coz they really dnt kno hw to talk openly as they cn be rude at times and specially in such issues when they r already pissed…like i cn be rude and i wnt even realise tht time..though i might after a while but till then damage has already been done…so i dread tht…like if i ask him then i might sound rude…wil try my level best and keep the things which u hv tld me on my mind….its jus tht the expectations r high or probably nt high but the other person is nt understanding….like fr example wt pissed me off once that he messaged me at midnight saying that he cudnt call as he had friends over and they have just left now…hellllloooo he cud hv jus called for two mins and told me so…y is he messaging me..is it because he is avoding me or he jus doesnt like talking to me or doesnt want to..i quite dnt get tht…also during these 6 months talk wt i hv realised is tht i keep the conversation gng ALWAYS…like if i will nt talk he will nt have any thing to talk abt…its me who is like picking up one thing or the other to talk abt so as to keep the conversation gng…he hardddddllllllyyyyy does that…does that mean he is not interested and probably he dreads talkin to me tht i wil talk fr hrs rather mins….but if this the case he shdnt call me at all….and i dnt even talk tht much like he is 3 hrs ahead of me in terms of time so i always take care of the fact tht he must be tired and sleepy so i do keep asking him like he can hang up whenever he feels sleepy….and once i actually took one open session w/ him where i asked him openly like wt r his likes and dislikes n we talked fr like 4-5 hrs continuously…he really liked it and i thought i ws rude at times during tht talk but he realllly liked it tht i talked rathr asked him so many questions openly….goddd knows whether he is interested or not….leaves me confused…
Hey mini!!
Ya you can say like that. Say, ” I was expecting your call over last few days. And I was sort of dissappointed when you didn’t because it really makes me happy when you call.” Please do mention that it makes you happy. Don’t wait or expect him to pick up hints. Aquas can be bad at understanding emotional needs of other people. So it’s your job to make it clear what exactly makes you happy and what you would want him to do for you. He REALLY wants to see you happy. Once they understand what exactly is expected of him he will put lot of his efforts in making you happy. ONE VERY IMPORTANT THING ABOUT AQUAS MOST PEOPLE DON’T UNDERSTAND IS THAT AS LONG AS YOU OPENLY AND CALMLY DISCUSS YOUR PROBLEM WITH YOUR AQUA THEY WILL DEFINITELY MAKE GREAT EFFORTS TO SOLVE THEM. But more often people just wait for them to pick up hints, which I don’t think they are really good at and thus the problem arises. I have visited other websites and almost all of them had long list of angry women (angry with their aqua of course) , the reason mostly being the distancing act. It’s just SO SIMPLE to solve any problem you might face in this relationship.. Be calm and be straightforward. Tell him clearly what makes you happy and what makes you sad…..Don’t bottle up your problems.. like Scorpio women tend to do… They either bottle up or lash out. Be more moderate. I CAN ASSURE ALL THE SCORPIO WOMEN OR ANY OTHER WOMAN IN RELATIONSHIP WITH AN AQUA THAT YOUR AQUA ABSOLUTLY DOESN’T LIKE TO SEE YOU UNHAPPY ESPECIALLY DUE TO HIM. So AT LEAST you can discuss problems openly now. AND ONE MORE WARNING MINI…..AVOID MAINPULATION….IT’S DISGUSTING TO MOST OF THE AQUAS…THE KEY TO RELATIONSHIP IS DEVELOPE A STRONG UNSHAKABLE TRUST BETWEEN YOU TWO….PLEASE THIS AGAIN AND AGAIN BECAUSE I REALLY MEAN IT VERY STRONGLY….Take care,
Mini, like rutu said above i agree keep it light n casual Straightforward Request:D @Rutu Whats goin on my front?..WELL hmm lookin good i must say!;)hehe SO Britain’s facing inflation which is terrible everythings gone up n soo expensive still kinda affordable i suppose, economy jus adjusts kinda naturally. And Wimbledon has started!which is always good so better weather is here Woohoo err i hope!
Thanks rutu n K….well i try keeping my patience a lot and i put in a lot of efforts too….but at times i jus lose my patience….although i did talk to him tonight and we had good long conversation but then there are times when i really want him to call me and not i calling him….i think i wil try telling him casually like i ws expecting ur cal over the last few days or something….is tht fine or too pressurising…coz its the prob w/ scorpio women they are like ‘i want what i want when i want’ at times…they might maintain a very cool exterior and ry keeping patience but at one point when patience is gone then this situation arises…..anyways thanks a ton…wil try being a lil easy…
HI K!!
Nice to see you back here after a long time.
What’s going on your front?
C u later.
Hey Mini!!
That out of sight out of mind thing was meant for calling regularly. It doesn’t mean that it won’t work. He is showing interest. Calling after 2/3 days. Keep it going like this. Talk to him on his work, future etc. There might be times when he won’t call for some time but that doesn’t mean he is trying to distance you. But it seems like you need constant reassurances from him. If you want him to call you regularly try telling him in the manner i have mentioned above. I think it will give better results. And “Propose”….well I think it will take time.
Meanwhile you can try understand his behaviour. You and him are very different type of people. You both need to learn a lot about each other.
Propose?! Whoa MINI ease up girl lol you don’t wanna scare him away! Aquas apparently has commitment phobia/issues. (To be honest i don’t blame them.. Who wants to be married now a days anyway!) Sounds like you’re getting too intense on this dude..just ease up a little, keep it light and fun, you need to have ALOT of patience! Don’t pressure him into anything. Just have fun with him ! Some Scorps are highly intuitive. Try to suss him out in a nonchalant manne.. If/when you come to a conclusion, decide for yourself if you would still want it to progress into a more fulfilling definitive relationship. In any types of friendship/relationship whatever COMMUNICATION is a must. I know sometimes you might find it hard/uncomfortable expressing yourself. Some scorps always thinks nobody can ever understands them which leaves them feeling quite sad & a bit lonely. Anyway don’t leave yourself all vulnerable n stuff!..lol yuck;) Kx
Thanks rutu…..it seems that he is interested and he do calls me up and msgs me but m not sure as officially nothing has happened i mean no i loves u have been exchanged and he has not proposed as yet…now as u say for aquas ‘out of sight is out of mind’…does that mean its nt gonna wrk out….Also we planned to meet this july but he is just starting his MBA so he wont be able to but he tld me that we might meet in october…now he gives such signals where it seems he is interested and its definitely being more than frens…but again m confused….like yesterday he called after two days and i did not pick up coz i was pissed by his behaviour….although m sure i will talk to him today..but then i dont kno if m wasting my time here….
Edit… In my earlier post i didn’t mean to say ” long distance” just distance.
And just say it straightforward and direct. Don’t expect him to pick up hints from your behaviour. A STRAIGHTFORWARD REQUEST in short.
Hi mini!!
You are one more typical example. I think though on cusp your friend is a typical aqua.. (going by his behaviour) Aquas are aloof and distant and sort of cold (at times). This doesn’t mean that they cannt behave other (normal) way but this is their sort of instinct. and the normal behaviour needs some efforts.
There could be many reasons why he started acting like this Or there could be NO reason at all. He just might not be in mood.
First of all it’s important to know where your relationship is standing. Are you just friends or more than friends. Aquas can be distant even in serious relationships so if you are a friend then….
If you are just a friend then you have nothing to loose. so you can even try speaking to him openly about what’s happening on his side? why has he reduced calling? Again it’s a long distance relationship. Aquas can be ” Out of sight Out of mind ” type if their bonds are not that strong with you. But since he initially did send you flowers and remained in contact regularly, You can just ask him casually about the reason of his behaviour. BUT ASK CASUALLY. Not like he has commited some crime and he is answering your inquiry. And if you need more attention then say like, ” I will be happy if you call me more often or regularly.” Or ” I miss you calling me” Make it a request.
I do?
WOOOT!
Onewordspoken YOU make sense!
Also my guy’s birth date is jan 21…so i believe he is a cusp…so wt shd i consider him as aquarian or capricorn and m scorpio….
Hi there!!! quite an interesting discussion and really helpful too….Now here is my story and I wonder if any one can help me with that…i met an aquarian guy in NYC at a club…i ws drunk n so ws he but we kinda strtd dancing w/ each other and then kissed…that was electric…..i loved it…we exchanged numbers and have been talking to each other for 6 months nw… he is in east and m in west…though distance is long but we do stay in touching calling and texting….now the issue is at one point he became pretty comfortable with me and used to call me cutie, sweetie n stuff even i call him by pet name…he sent me roses too nt red though..:P…but nw suddenly he seems aloof….and that really pisses me off…i try hard to keep the conversation going and he very conveniently calls me when he feels like and stupid me keeps waiting for his call…i jus do not understand this behaviour and since we are not into any relationship i can not even talk to him so openly like why didnt he call me or something…do not kno hw to handle tht coz it really pisses me off and then i feel like not puttin in any efforts…kindly advise…thanks…
HEY ROSE!!!
That’s GREAT. See now your all that worry seems to be unfounded. All of a sudden everything just goes back to normal like nothing happened in between. That’s sort of Healing time. Gathering yourself. Getting over the bad patch.
I think after some time you can start being more flirtatious. After receiving some good signals from him. But I am really happy to hear this.
Take care. Bye.
Well. the weirdest thing happened this sat..
my friends and i went to coney island and we bumped into my Aquarius and his friend (guy friend- whom we are also friends with)
he was SO excited to see me and we spent the whole day with them having beers and going on the beach!
i had SO much fun with him i hardly had any time to analyze. lol. he was in such a good mood and kept saying “this is the best day ever!” we talked a lot and were always sitting next to each other and we even laid next to each other on the beach. he didnt give any clues that he was seeing someone. he had plenty of opps to throw in a ” the girl im seeing…” casually. but he didnt. (who knows what that means) he talked a lot about the things hes been doing and none of them sounded like they included her. we didnt speak of hanging out at all. i just tried to live in the moment and have fun so he’d see me as a fun, non-threatening gal. i mean, he knows i have a crush, so the way i see it, if i knew a guy liked me and i didnt like him in that way, i wouldnt be super friendly to him. but he was being SO friendly and fun, not necessarily flirty but i cant tell. he did rub sand off of my back for me with his shirt…without me asking. and when i posed for a picture for my friend he jumped in and put his face against mine to get in the pic…
all in all it was an amazing day…we brought up old jokes from work and we had our “fake fights” lol. we would pretend to fight over stupid things. like “shut up!” “i hate you!”
immature but fun, nonetheless. we always acted like 8 year olds on a playground, people would say.
then both guys asked us what we were all doing that night and i said i didnt know. he gave me a huge squeeze hug and made one of those noises when u hug someone …kinda like a “grr” noise. ya know? lol…i think both our stubborn streaks kicked in and neither of us asked the other to hang out that night..i guess i was kinda hoping for a text message but of course not. he did mention something about getting together with friends who were visiting from out of town…but still…
so i am just gonna be patient and take it for what it is…
damn water bearers.
@ Marion
They’d get mad because he is an aquarius and does aquarius things. It comes natural for people to love/hate us. I wish I knew the whole secret behind that. But for another day.
@ Rose
Patience young padawn. Patience….
All is not lost. Lots of girls feel like an aqua won’t make contact. If you two were close, give him time. If in that time he starts seeing the other girl, well then consider yourself lucky that he didn’t break your heart by flat out telling you he didn’t want to be with you. (IF thats the case….which i strongly do not believe it is) If in that time, he comes back around because he’s had time to miss you and realizes he’d like you back in his life, he’ll pop up out of nowhere as if nothing had happened at all. And be perplexed that you thought otherwise.
All is not lost.
Scorpios do know how to Party… they can party Hard recreationally!;)
Ugh. i am home right now. i didnt go. i couldnt. concert i went to got out too late and by the time i got into brooklyn from manhattan it was almost 2am. if i went, it wouldve just been to see him and i wouldntve had any fun. plus all my friends were asleep. it just wasnt the right night. now im just afraid if i let him be, he wont even initiate any contact. why do i even bother?
as far as the throwing things issue. yes, i have thrown things. however!
i have only gotten this angry so few times i n my life that i can count them on one hand.
and.
the ONLY person that ever got me that mad was my mother.
and i can tell you that its when someone either accuses you of being the total opposite of something you pride yourself on or they dont believe you about something when you are telling the truth. shes the only one that has ever pushed my buttons to that extreme.
and i did about $500 worth of damage to her house when i had this tyrade. for me it was picture frames, dishes which broke the tile on her kitchen floor. i feel absolutely AWFUL after i do it.
rutu
i have to ask why would someone get so angry with you that they would throw things???????
if i get really, really mad which isnt often instead of throwing things i will retreat and have a good sobbing cry
nope dont throw things but will drive my car hard lol
Hey good but not good enough!
Tell me how mad can you get.
I have heard Scorp women when angry like to break and throw things. My friend threw notebooks at me. (ONCE) What about you.
@ Rose
What about you. What do you like to throw. Some prefer earthenware cups. (Handy.. Can aim properly) What about shoes. (Need some practice but some have mastered the technique)
Tell me more…
What would you like to know? I am loyal, devoted, kind, obsessive at times, if you treat me well i will do the same, generous, great sense of humour, i have empathy for others, i am kind of shy and sometimes keep people at a distance, i can be fierce if wronged, my feelings can get hurt easily but i am getting pretty good at hiding that, i can be somewhat of a perfectionist but working on letting that go, sometimes i feel like i dont fit in anywhere, if i show my true self to someone and they dont run you will have a friend for life, i like to dress nice when i go out but when i am home i like to relax, i love to people watch, i like to keep busy, i love big warm hugs….hope thats enough cant really think of anything else.
Yes indeed i think it puts some aquarius guys off, just act aloof and nonchalant but not too cool or too distand, be a bit friendly and just SMILE (aqua guys loves a good smile especially a sexy one from a scorpio!
Don’t do anything more obvious to indicate flirting.
Yep GO GO GO!!
And look sexy and stare him (the way scorpio women do) so that he melts for you right in front of that girl or at least it reminds him of what was between you two. Such reminders are necessary. STARE HIM.
Rose
I’d go. And wear something bedazzling. And if the other girl is there, please dropkick her. As I think i’d laugh for days if I heard that you did.
Being a scorpio it’s certainly within the realm of possibility. lol
Well, Rutu. I’ll tell you what I am like and what I look for in a guy. I tend to like a guy who is inspiring to me. Very smart. Motivated. Fun and spontaneous. keeps me on my toes. looks arent a big deal. the aqua guy i have a crush on is not good-looking, but i adore him.
i just got out of a long term relationship with a Leo, who was better looking but boring. he got very annoyed easily at little things and was very reserved and quiet. he loved me to death and would have done anything for me. but, i got bored. he had no ambition in life. he was uptight about a lot of things too. it was like i wore the pants in the relationship and i found myself always having to make excuses for him..i hated that. i want someone who i’d want to show off. not necessarily successful and rich or anything. just EXCITING and intellectual, but not pretentious. (like the guy i like now). i LIKE a guy who has a life other than me, basically.
Now my question….should i go to my Aquarius’ show’s afterparty tonight? i wont be able to make it til way late and i told him id TRY to stop by. I dont know if I’m prepared to see him with the girl….should I even bother? i wouldnt go alone, of course, and i would NOT hit on him. Jus try SUPEr hard to keep a lid on my emotions…
AND I AM ACTING GOD LIKE…. HOW?????
HI MARION!!!
Ya I really want to understand Scorpio women. So that I don’t by mistake end up hurting them. The ones I care for.
Tell me MORE PLEEEEEEEEEASE!!
And yes I kind of understand what do you mean when you say ” I want to save someone from themselves at the detriment of myself”. I don’t understand it completely but I can see the point. This girl, let me tell you, always wanted me to NEED her in some way. She really wanted to be NEEDED. Like I cann’t do things without her. Like she wanted to occupy all the space in my head and leave no space for anybody else.
And yes I feel at times the same INSECURITY that your aqua might be feeling. NOT BEING GOOD ENOUGH. I will tell you I am sort of combination of LOW SELF ESTEEM AND HIGH EGO. (FIGURE THAT OUT) I think YOU CAN sense this can you? And you are I guess only person who can bring him out of insecurity. By talking straight forward. Tell me how do you deal with any problem that you both might be facing? Are you direct. IT’S THE BEST WAY. DON’T HIDE..JUST DEVELOPE STRONG TRUST THAT IS SOOO NECESSARY FOR AQUA. (according to me) ABSOLUTE TRUST. KNOWING THAT WHAT I AM SAYING IS NOT GOING TO BE USED AGAINST ME AND IT’S TOTALLY SECURED.
Tell me MORE ABOUT YOU….
MARION PLEASE….
totally showed my true scorio colours….lol
hi to rutu….
gee must give u great pleasure in analysing us scorp women….i do appreciate it but come on u r starting to act god like lol,,,,and if u r not willing then i second guess myself
know one thing about myself is that i dive in with both feet and see how it all shakes out untiil i think otherwise…i know my aqua man wants me but is scared …. he has been burned major before and still paying big bucks for that one and since he has nothing to offer he does not think he is worthy…..i seem to do that to a lot of people…all i can say is that make me ur 1st priotity or not and thats it iam urs. the thing with me is that i always want to save someone from themselves at the detrement of myself….k…analyse that … cheers!
Rose
Tell me more about your typical behaviour. Things which are unique to your nature. Things you absolutely don’t like or like a lot.
I had a friend in school she was scorp. (13 nov) The same one I had mentioned in earlier post. She absolutely knew my likes and dislikes and we were not that close at that time. If she heard a new song i havnt heard she would tell it to me and would also tell if I was going to like it or not. She was really good at it. She could tell how I was going to react on certain things. And even said she was sort of psychic. ( good at anticipating things.) though I didn’t believe her. (IRRATIONAL….)
So just tell me more….
@ Rose
I do behave the way he did. Like saying that we will hang out sometime but not really trying to hang out. It mostly happens when i want to spend time alone. JUST MYSELF. Just thinking about some problem or situation I might be facing, trying to find the solution. To get over the difficulty. MOST aquas do like to spend some time alone. This allows me to concentrate on myself better. Sort of INTROSPECT. Now he doesn’t want to hurt you by saying it directly that he is not in mood to hang out, so he says Yes. but he will find some excuses to avoid hanging out. It’s nothing personal. Most probably he will be doing it with other people also. Be patient. And do not reach any conclusions about his feelings for you until you have solid evidence. You never know. Tell me how good were you about guessing his feelings before? Now when you look back do you notice anything that could have hinted he had crush on you, till he confessed it to you. Don’t be pessimistic. At the very very least he will still be friends with you.
@Rose
The truth is that it IS your decision. An aquarius will typically come back around. And not even explain why he was gone, he’ll do it just like nothing is wrong. Perhaps he noticed…or perhaps he didn’t.
Here’s the truth: You can only be you.
Simple huh? Somehow it escapes people. But there is nothing more frustrating then trying to become something you already are. It makes you question your ego and pride.
Here it is you KNOW you’re good looking (you said so in one of your posts)
You KNOW you’re smart
You KNOW he has or had a crush on you
And yet he seems to dismiss all of it. Gets you wondering what changed? “Is it me? Am I REALLY like how I percieve myself? And if I am why did he all of sudden make this u-turn.”
If you have a large ego or have lots of pride beware. lol.
You seem to me, to be a very intelligent and heartfelt woman. And thats just reading a few of your posts. I’m sure you are a lot of fun to hang out with.
My advice is still the same. Be YOU. Forget his actions or re-actions to you. Be YOU. Give yourself a time-frame that you will wait in, and then stick to it. Make sure you give him ample time to come around. This way you have given yourself closure, and allowed him time to think about stuff.
Everything so far is salvageable. I wish you the very best.
@ Ratu
Good for you bro. Sounds like there would be an awful lot of YOU giving and her taking with an outburst like that over a simple statement. Just my two cents.
I enjoyed reading Onewordspoken’s posts the most. Come back.
Rutu,
i’ve flipped out like that before, but it’s not common for me. now whenever i do, i always cool down eventually and come back to the person and apologize. that is, if the person is a good friend or family member. if they are an acquaintance or stranger, i don’t even bother. but that’s just me. i know its extreme, but i dunno. it sounds kinda f-ed up but i sorta pride myself on it. if someone pisses me off, they piss me off. i cant help it. helps me weed people out. lol. tho i tend to do this only with people who are very close to me. i do it to my mother mostly. lol. some friends of mine and my roommates would be probably not even believe that i would ever act like this. few people have seen this behavior of mine.
Oneword,
damn. i shouldnt have dropped that “lets hang out” bomb huh?
dammit, he said it in almost every email before that. yet, he’d never follow through.
a few weeks ago he emailed me when he was visiting family in florida and ended it with “lets kick it when i get back!” yet never made that attempt to “kick it” lol. and once i texted him saying a bunch of friends (whom he knows) and i were going out and would he like to come and he said he was working late.
why even keep saying we’ll hang out when he may not mean it??? i NEVER say that unless i really want to hang out with the person.
im trying to be patient, but im starting to agree with marion. He’s just not into me. im sure he WAS. and he could probably be again in the future if i play my cards right. thats what i guess im trying to do now. but who knows if ill even want him after all this. lol
Oneword..
I am done with that girl. I gave her all the chance and consideration and that’s it. I am not doing it anymore. I suggest she should stuff some cotton in her ears and wear dark glasses to avoid hearing or seeing anything that hurts her supersensitive ego.
I really want to ask Rose or Marion or Synthia have they ever considered about moderating their extreme behaviour.
Hi oneword..!
I can explain to you what Synthia means. She means to say that normally aquas like cold blooded people who have no emotions what so ever and whichever small amount of emotions you get, you get that by having scorpio or some other water planets on your charts.
Synthia…
I don’t think aquas are cold people. But there are different ways in which emotions can be displayed. Shouting and screaming is not necessarily the only way. Have you ever helped an aqua ? Did they return your favour. If yes.. then is this cold behaviour.
Anyway you are not the only person to think this way. We need to take the blame for not being good with emotions. Look in the eyes perhaps you will see some more emotions.
Rose
Im with Ratu on this one. I would keep myself with the impression he last gave you. Which was that he cared. And yes aquarians have mastered self-control.
Keep it friendly until you have concrete proof he is with this girl. I’d pretend like she doesn’t exist. Ask him random stupid stuff. Keep it light. No heavy stuff. Nor constantly dropping the “lets hang out” thing. Aquarians are very slippery when they answer stuff.
@Ratu
Your situation is a tough one. But in my opinion I would say this: Do you REALLY want to be with a girl that gets offended that easily? We both know you’d try to handle it. But in the end, you’d constantly be walking on eggshells afraid you’d say the wrong thing. When you told her she is thinking too much, sounds to me like that was the truth. I know you’ll come up with justifications. “But she’s been through a whole lot in her life…I could see why she’d think like that”. Pfft. All scorpio’s if you listen to them long enough will start to tell you how hard they’ve got it. There always seems to be that next big challenge awaiting them.
I’d let her go. Find another scorpio not so easily bruised. It’s worth it. They are good people.
@ marion
I wouldn’t stop thinking. Make sure you aren’t trying to control him. Aquarians sense the slightest movement towards manipulation. Our sign is famous for being cold….scorpio signs are famous for wanting to be in control. Even if it means using manipulation. Be careful you are not doing something he thinks or could be presented as controlling. And if you’re not, then he could just be a wascily wabbit. Trying to jump from being too committed. Im afraid I don’t know much about what your situation is. I scrolled up but mus t have missed your post.
@ synthia
Whatever do you mean?
I love my scorpio moon
Hi Rose and Marion!!
Let’s not spin our heads trying to guess what’s on his mind.
See Rose said he had crush on her for quite some time but then she wasn’t able to realise it. So if she couldn’t tell what was on his mind back then, then similarly this time also she will probably not able to guess what’s on his mind. And Marion you yourself said that “you wouldn’t know if an aqua guy loves you unless he tells you.”
So a bit of patience would be nice. And Rose I am finding it difficult to believe that he can change his mind like that. When he said he had crush on you he must have said it when it must be soo overbearing that he cann’t hide it anymore. There is still something in you that he finds attractive.
@marion,
How do you know that your aqua is in you? What are the things you observe. And how do you make him understand that you are into him and serious. Asking for my knowledge…
and also, if he wasnt into me, why would he say that he still had a crush on me… and when i brought up the idea of us casually seeing each other and fooling around he said “that might be fun. yea. im down with that” thats what he said 3 weeks ago . the last time we hung out. when we spent 6 hours together. all day. riding bikes and talking at the park.
however, he didnt follow through and turned me down when i wanted to kiss him.
Marion,
so you read all of my posts and can honestly say he doesnt like me?
well, i appreciate you feedback and honesty. its just really hard to accept that because we never dated. he just had a crush on me for a few mos. without me knowing and when i did i considered him… and thats when all that started.
i just find it hard that he just changed his mind so quickly.
if u r a scorpio that has always let yourself to be held down for the sake of the relationship its really hard to let ur self go….still workin on it…sucks when u r thinking all the time i think thats what makes scorp girls and aqua guys different…and oh so tantalizing at the same time….note to self quit thinking all the time that’s what ur aqua guy wants
right or wrong….look forward to ur feedback
if u r a scorpio that has always been held down its really hard to let ur self go
omg rose,
get a girp he is not into you! I will play devil’s advocate and say about the other girl….that its a play to keep you at at a distance…..i know my aqua guy is totally into me but he has been burned before…..i could tell when we said goodbye on monday….there you go scorpio intuitiveness….lol
oh and i mentioned i watched the link in his email for the new music video his band was in and i said “you look hot when you fake-play your bass!” and he responded with “haha thanks!” and then another sentence or two about how the thought the video came out…
and thats it.
driving.
me.
crazy.
so i just had a little back and forth email chat with my Aquarian and it was just very friendly-nothing more. and thats good, but i want more! and i know hes standoffish because of this girl. it makes me so jealous that we could have TOTALLY had a little fling going on as soon as he became single and we stopped working together. but NO! ugh!
so i emailed him the link to this indian restaurant i used to tell him about but couldnt remember the name, and now i know. we both loved indian food and restaurants and thats what we used to talk about a lot at work…he also sent out a mass email that his band was playing this friday so i wrote that i couldnt make it b/c of something else and that id maybe be able to stop by the afterparty. so he wrote back with a thanks and that he hopes to see me at the afterparty. then he asked me about how my job search was going and if i had talked to so-and-so and thats really it. so i wrote back answering those questions and mentioning i had a funny story about someone we worked with…yadda yadda. and then i said (but prob shouldnt have) “if i dont make it friday we should definitely hang soon!” so-
he responded to that with something again about his job and “that sucks about —–, tell me about it soon.”
and thats it.
i dunno. hes totally avoiding the whole hanging out thing. if he really wanted me, wouldnt he just go after me??? should i just adopt that whole “HE’S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU” motto?
this is mainly the reason why I believe he has his mind and heart set on that other girl. Because, can someone REALLY practice THAT much self control when “trying” hard to stay single. esp when they really like a girl????
can you really have a few heated makeout sessions with a girl and tell her you have a crush on her and then a couple of months later decide you just want to be friends with her?? so weird. is he even trying to be friends with me or just being polite and hoping we phase out??
Hi Onewordspoken!!
Just explain it more for me…( She would have recognized special, when you wrote her.)
I wouldn’t have bothered to say sorry to some other person for something I don’t see as a mistake. But then she is INDEED so special… She is very goooood with her words. She is a lot into poetry.
Anyway it’s time to get over her.
OneWord–
Does your Scorpio Moon give you SOME intensity and SOME emotion — far beyond the average Aquarius? Have you noticed that?
Ratu
I wouldn’t even sweat this girl.
If she was special, then she’d have recognized special, when you wrote her.
I think there should be just a little more time. But I agree that direct questions are usually best. They just can’t be emotionally charged. But that my opinion.
And if you really like aqua’s, rose there are plenty out there. I think. You always hear about taurus, and scorpio’s and gemini’s. Not a whole lot on Aqua’s. Wonder why that is….
Meh. I’d give it a little bit. Maybe when you get your camera back, just ask him if he’s seeing anyone. Or how he is healing. If it’s going alright with him. Approach it like you would if you had ZERO emotional desire. Just friends. Just making sure he is okay. Etc.
But you’ll want to be direct. Ask him if he’s seeing someone, don’t tell him you saw him in a picture. That might not go over so well.
All my opinion.
Hi Rose!!
Well now even I am accepting that may be she won’t reply to me. It’s OK. It’s her loss too. And yes I do agree that we talked just for 3-4 days but we talked a lot and had really good understanding. Anyway let’s stop this subject. ONE MORE LESSON ABOUT SCORPIO WOMEN. ( DO NOT TELL THEM THEY THINK A LOT.)
I wanted some other aquas here to tell me how about straight way asking him if he is seeing this girl in Rose’s case?
What do you think about it Rose?
Leave her alone and write a well written heartfelt apology in a month or two, preferably two. you’ll have to reignite the interest in your conversations, as she might still be a little reluctant once she’s forgiven you. we’re very emotional people but can definitely forgive you once we’ve cooled down and received an honest apology with all the details of how you’ve hurt us and how your behavior was unacceptable and inconsiderate of our feelings. she might tear you a new one after reading your apology. it might be just some pent up emotions but give her time again and she’ll come around.
good luck!
Yes i agree but we would still think of the person now and then and yet maybe even consider talking to them again but then stubborness kicks in..! As we know Scorpios & Aquarius are both FIXED signs.
rutu,
i really hate to say this but it is my true opinion. you talked to her for what? 3-4 days? you dont know her. at all. shes been ignoring you for 3 weeks?
shes not gonna respond. im sorry. i know i sure as hell wouldnt if i were her. thats how scorpio women are. we can cut people off LIKE THAT. even good friends. some things are just unforgiveable to us, even things most other people would find odd. I’ve cut off very good friends of years for one stupid betrayal. if you hit a certain nerve, youre gone.
my situation is still a mess. i miss him like crazy…..his friendship mostly.
THANKS ROSE!!
I am still thinking about your situation. So need some time.
And really thanks for that input. I can understand one can get sensitive about such things but then HOW MUCH…it’s been more than 3 weeks and even the walls of SORRYS from me hasn’t made her reply. It’s like I re-read my every written word so as to understand what exactly happened. But by the way she is MORE THAN WORTH all the trouble. She is just amazing……. She is so beautiful in so many ways.. I don’t mean looks. I havn’t seen her. Anyway.
Take care. Bye for now.
@Rutu
thanks again for helping with your input. I am pretty positive that he is seeing this girl. yet, i dont know how serious and i really dont know if he stopped anything before it could start. all i know is that they were holding hands in a picture that i saw. and it wasnt a pose for the camera. it was a candid shot. that is all i know. he never promised me anything. just admitted his crush on me and we talked of how we could “do what we wanted” when he became single. he could very well have just lost interest when this new girl came along. people change their minds…i just wish there was something i could have done (or still do) to make him re-have a crush on me. haha. he still admitted he did when we hung out (2 days after the pics were taken with that girl-but i didnt know that then) he obviously doesnt know what he wants now and i can only hope this rebound girl doesnt last. not like i want to be his rebound girl but i definitely wanted to continue staying friends and slowly moving onto something more because i am crazy about him.
we are both in the same boat too so i thought he and i would be perfect. we both always got advice from each other about our breakup….and what are the chances this new girl is in the same boat and isnt itching for something he cant give her right now? ya know? i wish i could make him want me but i know i cant. im just going to assume since they were holding hands very lovingly last month, that they are still dating..
as for your situation, i literally laughed out loud when i read this. this is because i think i once SAID THE EXACT SAME THING TO SOMEONE! maybe more than one occasion. We scorpio girls are VERY defensive, especially over something that is true. we KNOW we think too much. we HATE that we do it. (I obviously do-look at my walls of text on here!lol)
i hate to say it but if you did not have a decent bond with this girl already, i think youve lost her. i definitely blow up over people pointing out my faults, especially ones ive heard all my life. i think us scorpio girls would rather someone insult our physical appearance over our personality or our intellect. ive had people insult my looks before and got over it quickly, but i once had some guy say i was “dumb” in high school (which im not, but i was thin and blonde back then and acted ditsy-still had a 3.5 GPA tho) and i guess i believed him and i never forgot it. to this day i definitely have an inferiority complex about not being “smart”
am i rambling? i hope not.
that just is typical scorpio girl behavior. she probably isnt psycho or blow up that easily, but when we do, run for cover!
And Rose don’t start seeing someone till you know for sure that he is serious about this girl. Because we still don’t know the situation between them. Mostly he is just being Friendly with her.
If he is more than friends with her then I am also very angry with him. He said those things to you and must have meant when he said them… Aquas definitely value their promises this what makes me think that he still has YOU on his mind. It would be very wrong and UN-aqualike on his part not to value those words.
Tell me is he noble enough in other aspects of his character, as you have worked with him for 9 months that you can expect him to stand by his words.
Also give me some insight on Scorpio woman’s nature.
There is this one woman I met on line. What to say she is Absolutely captivating. It’s not like I know her much. we just had wonderful chat for about 3-4 days. then she started asking some questions like she wants to probe me. She would just reach her own conclusions from the information i had given. And I just told her that “I think you are thinking too much.” and that’s really made her MAD. She just got so angry with that. She warned me NOT to say that SHE THINKS TOO MUCH….she said, ” DO NOT INSULT ME BY SAYING I PLAY MIND GAMES… NOR TELL ME THAT I THINK TOO MUCH.. I HAVE BEEN HEARING IT EVER SINCE I BEGAN TO SPEAK AND IT MAKES ME VERY ANGRY WHEN SOMEONE SAYS IT TO ME…” These are her exact words. She hasn’t replied to my requests and also didnt contact me. It’s been more than 3 weeks now. She is terribly interesting. I just cann’t stop thinking of her. I don’t want say like I am interested in her or not. It’s like she so wonderful like it hard to keep away from her. I don’t think there is love or anything. but i need to understand her behaviour.
Any help?
Scorpio girl is very sensitive as several people in this thread have said already. She puts up a hard exterior so as not to be hurt, but the truth if she is soft and sweet and wants to let her guard down – but she also wants the man in her life to let his guard down as well and not judge her and listen to her when she wants to shower him with affectionate words; but also to respond in kind.
it’s probably asking a lot, but we hate to play games. And the whole “thinking too much thing” – well, that happens when our guy is not responding to us affectionately enough – we are strategists, so when this happens we are trying to figure out what our next move should be…perhaps we need to be more covert in our actions so we don’t get accused of THINKING TOO MUCH!!!
Hi Rose and Hi Marion!!
I don’t think this is an aqua thing to use someone’s name so often. I mostly don’t do it. Don’t know if i ever did it unconciously. But it could be because he likes you.
I think our situation will be a lot clearer if we could know if he is dating that girl.
another interesting note/detail that may or may not have anything to do with whether he likes me or anything to do with being an aquarius….
He CONSTANTLY is using my name when talking to me. Like “Come on, Rose!”
“Aw Rose I miss you too!”
like that, always using my name when talking to me. as if he likes the sound of it or something. lol.
i NEVER use his name when talking to him. i mean, i would when id have to get his attention or something. we did work together for 9 mos.
i dunno. just a weird tidbit of info. i tried to notice if he did it to others and it didnt seem like he did. just me.
even the last time we hung out and i wanted to fool around he was like “come on, rose.”
i dunno. just weird. is it an Aquarius thing????? i wonder
Marion, what if youre the other girl in my situation?! hahaha
wouldnt that be funny.
you dont by any chance live in nyc?? lol
i am interested in your experienced. i will scroll up and read ; )
ps i have calmed down a lot from my last post thanks for your insight….will definately keep you updated
wow! sounds like my aqua friend….except for the other girl part…..i think….
THere’s no easy answer I’m afraid.
All I can tell you is that you NEVER know. EVER. He could tell you that she came onto him, and he’s been trying to get her to leave him alone, but was too afraid to do that. Or….he could tell you he’s happy with her.
Either way i’m betting you are in for a surprise. And by the way……I think you should say what you wrote above. If and when he tells you he has been seeing her.
The thing with aqua’s is as soon as they think they’ve been figured out, they change things up. Makes it hard to tell you what he’ll do. Hell i’m not even sure what I’ll do from moment to moment. Makes it hard in those interviews where they ask you whay you’d do in a given situation.
Stay tuned is what i’d say. Give yourself a time limit to wait for him, or to hear about this girl. Once you’ve hit that time frame, then move on. But he might surprise you.
hey Rutu!
thanks for your opinion!
see, my problem NOW is that he CAN control his urges when he sees me. lol. he is acting NOW like he should have been when he was taken.
That is what leads me to believe that the girl in those pictures is a new girl he is actually dating and wants to be faithful to. he cant seem to come out and tell me he’s seeing someone tho. he’d rather just play it off as the im-not-ready thing. im SURE he’s at least kissed this new girl. at least.
I am torn. Anyone notice the contradictions they have read about how to “deal” with Aquas? not just on here but everywhere:
on one hand, you should ignore him and spark his interest “i wonder why she hasnt contacted me? hmm i need to study her again!” hence his interest is piqued and he comes running back.
on the other hand, you should always be there and occasionally let it be known you are there. and try to woo him with your intellect, because thats what they like.
now rutu, you say to not see anyone else because he wants to know i am always there? wouldnt that make him stay away more? content in knowing i am ALWAYS gonna be there pining away?
my real problem is how to react in front of him when he finally tells me he has been seeing someone. im sure i will get it out of him somehow(indirectly) when we do get together….even if its just casual drinks when we get together for him to return the camera he borrowed from me.
im just so afraid that, even though ive known about those pictures for 2 weeks, i feel like hearing it straight from him will make it more “final” and my face will turn bright red and that lid on my emotions will shoot off like a cannon and i will freak him out for good. i want to just react with “oh. oh really? i thought you said you were gonna try to stay single?” “well, thats cool, i hope it works out for you. i mean, im not gonna lie. hearing that definitely upsets me, since i thought you and i really liked each other…”
and of course i wouldnt say any of this with a sarcastic, bitchy, huffy, “well fine then!” attitude as it may read. i will do it very sweetly and understanding. hah. this is what i WISH i could do. but i know as soon as he says it im gonna get that lump in my throat like i have to go run and puke. haha
Hi Rose!!!
Well, let me try to analyaze the situation using my logic!
You said he kept mentioning about how you and him should wait till he gets single. But he couldn’t stop himself from kissing you or admitting his crush for you.
My guess is that he still must be feeling guilty about cheating on his girlfriend. He SHOULD HAVE WAITED. And he couldn’t.
Aquas have this strong sense of RIGHT and WRONG things. He knew what he was doing was wrong but couldn’t control his emotions. There must be some struggle going inside him over this. Then he broke-up with his gf. One more break-up… I am sure he had YOU on his mind when he broke-up. But again breaking up isn’t good and he is surely guilty of cheating on his gf. He knows it…..
He told you he should be single for some time.. But what if he cann’t control his urge to kiss you whenever he sees you…..Or be with you…
There is this thing like he knows what to do but cann’t control his emotions and thus there is struggle.. so the better way to control these emotions is to avoid you for some time. Till he gets over all these OVERBEARING emotions like GUILT and ATTRACTION.
My guess for this girl is that she just a way to unwind from the past. Seeing you will remind him of the PAST. Most probably she is just another friend… And I am sure he still remembers all those things he said to you.
You shouldn’t call him to join him for party or anything but instead just tell him there is a party. let him decide…..
Be in contact with him through texts or through a common friend. But keep it casual… And wait. I wouldn’t suggest you to start seeing someone else. beacause he needs to know and WANTS to know you are there…
Ok ROSE!! More details if you provide will be good.
Let’s wait and see.
How can anyone lose interest in a scorpio? *shock* lol. Move away from thinking your passion or looks will win this guy. It’s a strength you carry with other signs. You’ll have to pique his interest intellectually. You’re a scorpio. You’re brainy. Obviously intelligent, and can articulate what you want clearly.
Don’t try jealousy to get him interested either. We aren’t wired like that.
All aquarius will act as if they are not interested sometimes, or are bored, or aren’t listening when you speak. But I bet you he can repeat back to you every word you said. Could probably do it 6 months later. Hell, i’ve even feigned like i’ve forgotten stuff before, just so my GF wouldn’t think I was some sort of memory bank freak. What I’m saying is that we remember stuff. And we watch carefully. Every move, every action. It’s like you’ve been put under a microscope. It really is very calculating. Before you think that you’re alone in that though, lemme bust your ego and say we do that to everyone. Even the local bum down the street. We are very watchful of himan behavior.
Def show him what he missed on your flickr.
Im still thinking give it time. You don’t know what this girl is all about. And as a capricorn….well no offense cappy’s, but you don’t hold a candle to a scorpio. It’s just the truth.
I’d send him a text like once a week. Reminding him you are there. Nothing mushy, just a “hey whats up”. Don’t invite him to do anything or go anywhere, just see what he’s doing.
Whatever your next card is, it’s important. So play it wisely and go with your gut.
My grandfather before he died gave me this advice: “Don’t be afraid to take risks. Because you don’t want to get to the end of your life and wonder what may have happened, if you’d just had the balls to do it. And by the time you have regret, it’s too late”
oops edit last post. end of 1st paragraph: *HEAL the pain not FEEL the pain.
thanks for your insight Oneword. I am afraid that, unfortunately, he is not keeping this girl at bay, but just me because he had lost interest once he met her and hasnt known how to tell me and maybe even keeping me around just in case, since he obviously still does not know what he wants and probably still doesnt want to get too seriously involved with ANYONE. he once said he is very needy and cannot be alone. obviously this girl is his rebound and he needed to jump into it to feel the pain.
it just sucks that it wasnt with me. i dunno. i guess this girl was a clean slate for him, thats all.
and youre right, i dont know what is going on with them, i just saw a picture. just assuming he’s been seeing a lot of her since he’s pulled away from me.
i have to see him eventually to get my camera back. i really dont need it and im sure he’ll contact me eventually to hang out and/or just to give it back. part of me wants to pretend i need it just so i can see him. haha but play it off real cool.
i just dont know how to handle that. i feel like i shouldnt text him anymore cuz i sent the last one about a week or so ago asking him if he wanted to go for a drink but he said he was working late (could be a lie) but “friday will be fun tho!” (i had a party this past friday night. guess what, he didnt show!
but texted me yesterday morning apologizing for not coming..but to make sure i post the pictures on my flickr.
*sigh*
so i just played cool again and said “no worries! there’ll be plenty more.”
soooo….i really think i need to lay off totally.
if anything wait a week and text him or email him saying i need my camera back…
ugh. he makes me crazy and we made plans to hang out so much this summer…..
Oneword, what did you mean when you said you can guarantee he was paying attention? paying attention to what?
ive been super aggressive and intense in the past, and have learned from my mistakes. however, i have never been a clingy girlfriend for some reason. which i think is weird for me being a scorpio. i feel like i have been playing this off very cool this time around though. i still always feel like i can get him with my looks, because thats what i know first attracted him. i know it is shallow but it cant hurt.
ill just make sure i put the best pictures of me on my flickr from the party and let him see what he missed! hahaha
and apparently he doesnt always go for looks, judging by this new possible girl… her facebook says her bday and she is a capricorn. wonder if that makes her special. hmmmmmm….
Hi Rose!
You’re story is not uncommon apparently. Wish I could say differently.
There is a risk you’re going to have to decide if you want to take or not. You’ll have to do either one of two things in my opinion.
Either ignore him completely, and just trust he’ll come back around.
Or, send him a text saying something similar to this: “I know you are hurting right now, I want you to know I still think about you, and would like to see you. But whenever YOU’RE ready we can do that. Hit me back whenever.
Either way it’s a risk. He could be pulling away for a ton of reasons I think. My suggestion is to be very direct.
He may not respond for a while. And you’ll have to adopt his attitude towards those things. Aloofness. Tell yourself you’re gonna give this guy a certain amount of time to respond. Like a month or something. If you don’t see that then start seeing someone else. And if he comes back around, let him know he had his chance, and he missed it. (Is hard I know)
Remember a couple of things….Oh scorpio. If you get jealous of this girl, remember how he has kept you at bay, and managed to avoid sex with someone he has said he has a crush on. So he will probably do the same with her. IF thats even her intent. Who knows the situation behind all that really.
Secondly, He most likely had you in mind when he left his GF. He Knew you would want to be with him, when he finally did. So I doubt he has forgotten about it.
Patience is going to be your only real weapon here. You’ll have to avoid ANY type of clinginess you scorpion you. Aquarius’s love to act like they are not paying attention. But I can guarantee you that he was, and probably more so than you realize.
Keep us posted. And perhaps synthia or Ratu has some more suggestions for you.
Anyhow, my personal problem is a quandary since the person is a subordinate who I am responsible for. Hence, the simple mechanics of a relationship which would work for colleagues and peers don’t work here.
I just kind of stumbled on to this site looking for obviously Aquarius Scorpio compatibility. Most of the times what you want is the real stuff not the confusing rambling sentences which most books and articles just give about compatibility and how the other sign is right or wrong for you.
Though most of the conversations here (i did look through the whole bunch) were interesting in the end, it just isn’t enough. Maybe it is because Scorpio women are so hard to open up. You can actually feel the heat from them and it just is so hard to keep a lid on your emotions. There is this particular person and whenever I see her, i actually can sense my physical being gravitating towards her but at the same time being drawn back by the thought of what would happen if she would just cold shoulder me. You want to touch the magnetic sensuality but still the fear of being drawn into her not being able to escape makes you fritter away your time. Yet, still afraid that just cavorting around might bore her and she will walk away. Thus leading us to continuously go back and forth not knowing what to do. It is just a simple request to all Scorpio women who like Aquarius men – Please, Please, Please just seduce them – make them weak and desperate for you and if the fool just jumps around not knowing what to do – catch hold of him and tell him what you want. Even then if he cannot stay then let the crackpot waste the rest of his life ruing the heavenly pleasures he has forgone.
i think my ongoing saga is SUCH a typical Scorpio Woman/Aquarius Male story!
I worked with him for about 9 mos. We worked RIGHT next to each other and became fast friends. He and I were both attached to other significant others for a greater part of that time and I wasn’t necessarily attracted to him at first sight. (kinda goofy looking!) My boyfriend and I ended up breaking up about 6 mos ago and i moved to nyc. (where i was commuting for work- which is also where Aqua lives.) My new roommates and i ended up throwing a huge party in Feb and he showed up later in the night and we hooked up .(he had been on the outs with his gf but i think they were tech. still together!) that night we hooked up we were drunk but we remembered everything. he basically professed his feelings(crush) for me the entire time and it was SO passionate.(no sex but OH.MY.GOD.) he didnt want to leave. he couldnt stop kissing me and telling me how much he wished we didnt work together and how he loves our friendship and little talks at work and thinks i am gorgeous and “perfect” etc… it was flattering but i had to kick him out and remind him he had a gf and we worked together.
well, from that night on i was hooked. i had been crushing but i wouldnt admit it. it wasnt weird after that. in fact, we became better friends. he tried to keep it platonic, and so did i, at least til he was single. we had many heart-to-hearts, him even coming to me for advice on his gf who he had been trying to break off with (they moved to ny together and lived together). so we basically kept flip-flopping back and forth between friends and “crushes”. mostly friends. but there were a few more times where we ended up making out passionately. he asked me to a concert once, and once we went to a bar for drinks, both ended up in kissing and talking about how we had crushes on each other. i played it very cool this whole time, except for the last night we kissed. i felt like i was too drunk and threw myself at him. even tho he responded and couldnt resist, he kept saying how we needed to stop…at least until he was single. and kept repeating “we’re friends Rose, just friends for now, lets just wait a bit ok?.” with that im-trying-to-convince-myself-and-resist-this-girl tone lol. and i respected that, and i was also VERY verbal about myself being anti-relationship since i had just recently gotten out of a 3 yr long one. i kept repeating that because a. it WAS sorta true and B. i didnt want him to think i was pressuring him into anything serious. i really just thought we could have a super casual little relationship when he became single and SLOWLY just would see where it would go. im not desperate. i just like him so much. so about a month after that he comes to work all sad and eventually tells me he broke up with her and moved out. i felt bad because i know how hard that was since i did it myself too. so i was there for him through that. i knew that in time he’d be ok and maybe we could at least make out hehe. i backed off tho and let him call the shots.
well, basically, since he’s been single, we havent hooked up ONCE. i attributed it to him not being ready and being all emotionally weird because of the breakup. so i continued to just play it cool and assumed he’d come around. but, he hasnt. he continued to be super-friendly with me, even still admitting he has a crush on me and once mentioning he was cool with us casually hanging and fooling around once in awhile. then about 3 weeks ago, an overhaul happened at our job and a shitload of us all got fired, including he and i. he seemed very hesitant to hang out with me after that. he was single and we didnt work together anymore, isnt that what he wanted?! we hung out once right after that and we spent the day riding bikes and having lunch. not fooling around at all. but he had been telling me how his friends were telling him to go out and meet girls and how he just wasnt in the mood since the breakup and how he needed to be alone and learn how to be alone. i enforced that, always telling him he needed to stay single and just play the field (i would be fine with that, if he dated around but also included me ; ) haha) he kept mentioning that so i assumed that when i tried to kiss him when we parted that day, and he politely rejected me, it was because of the mindset he was still in since the breakup. he did also mention to me that he still had a “little crush” on me. well, he ended up getting a new job. im still unemployed, doing freelance here and there. i also just found out a few days ago, that he had hung out with a girl THE DAY BEFORE he and i spent that day together riding bikes, and my friend forwarded me a picture on her myspace page of them sitting next to each other, with her hand on his lap, in that very “we’re dating” way. WTF?! is he THAT needy?, that was a quick rebound! jeez! im very hurt that it wasnt me…why her??? the girl is VERY homely looking and he isnt all over her in the pic, but still. i assumed they were dating. which is weird because he was always like “rose, i need to try so hard to stay single this time, im always jumping into relationships one after the other after the other” and i was like “yes, u need to be single for about a year.” (i was mainly his friend, we had lots of heart-to-hearts and he knew i didnt want to date him so he felt he could tell me things like this) so i am confused. why didnt he tell me about her that day? why did he tell me he still had a crush on me that day and he’d be willing for us to casually see each other and “maybe make out”-he said with a giggle. lol
now i CAN’T admit to him that i saw this pic. he keeps emailing me about his new job and just catching up and keeps mentioning how we need to hang out soon, and i miss you! and i even let him borrow a camera of mine, which he still has. i feel like im losing him. we havent seen each other in 3 weeks and hes slowly contacting me less and less. i fear that it is because of this girl. but i really dont know anything. those pics were taken a month ago almost and he could still be playing the field. the pics just looked so couple-ey! im sure hes embarassed to tell me because of our almost “pact” to not get involved with anyone and focus on being single. it was almost like we planned to be each other’s fake bf or gf when we had those couple urges but not be obligated to each other.
but since we left work, ive missed him so….and i texted him once saying that. and he wrote back “aw i miss you too rose!”
i dont know how to play it now! im trying to let him make all the contact now. theres nothing i can do…
PHEW theres my story. sorry for the novel!
Hi Rose!
@ OneWordSpoken. That was beautiful. It made me want to cry. You have reminded me of myself…reminded me not to sell my passions cheaply by linking them too closely with sex.
C U on the other side!
Hi Rose!
@ OneWordSpoken. That was beautiful. It made me want to cry. You have reminded me of myself…reminded me not to sell my passions cheaply by linking them too closely with sex.
C U on the other side!
Hi. I just found this thread last night and i am fascinated!
but for some reason my post was not posted! anyway. i dont want to type any more unless it will be posted so this is a test post. lol
i am a scorp girl into an aqua guy. both born in 1981.
he’s driving me nuts!
more to come….
Oh and synthia,
One more thing, then I’ll stop posting, becase franky i don’t usually talk this much, and I feel rather guilty taking like 3/4 this page’s realty space on my rambling.
One more thing to add though:
The most wonderful thing about scorpio’s is that once you get past that hard shell, they are soft. But the moment they let you in on that, you’ve become a life mate whether you like it or not.
The scorpio I was with sometimes at night would cry while telling me about something painful. And even nights where no sex was involved she would lay on my shoulder (like i was a warming rock for lizards) and speak softly about how she truly felt about whatever was happening in her life. It was in THOSE moments I became enamored. Because I knew how much trust and love she must have had for me to be so lucky to share that part of herself.
Weeks after I would say something careless, she’d share with me a story of something that had happened to her in the past, and how that simpole statement had hurt her to her very core. Leaving me swearing on the inside I’d never come close to that subject again.
Scorpio’s have an emotional depth like none other I have seen. But not in a cry-your-eyes out temper tantrum way. It’s just the feelings they have are so deep, Im not sure I completely understand them to this day. But I would always tell her she had enough feelings for us both. And that I would let her handle the emotions department if she’d let me handle preparing ahead of time department. (This girl will be later for her own funeral).
Scorpio’s are a present to society that I think has been marred by the “they like sex” thing so much that their true beauty, which is the ability to feel passionately about subjects others would dismiss, has been lost. They are accepting, unless you cross them, and forgiving unless you act unforgivable, and they have another side to them, that is so much worth getting to know, that I’m not sure I can find all the words to describe it.
Synthia,
Honestly some of the best stuff I can remember is how mad she would get. Lol. I would keep the phrase, “That bitch said what!!!???” Handy alot. I found if I wasn’t on her side about most things, then I was immediately seen as an “enemy”. Sometimes it was fun being an “enemy”.
I think tha the whole “scorps are really heavy into sex” thing is a little over played. I think the Passion word throws that into a little spin. Because sex is just sizzzzzzzzle with these two. But it’s really about how deep that passion truly goes thats amazing. How deeply their emotions are connected into everything they do.
And the whole secrative nature scorpio’s put off. There always was something I knew she wasn’t telling me. Like she was keeping it just for herself. But she was smart, and witty. Funny as all hell. And a lot of fun to be around.
On the other hand she seemed to enjoy drama, and ALWAYS had the next greatest problem in her life on the horizon. She always would talk to me about those things, because I would “make her laugh” and I suppose it made her feel good about things.
She admitted I had a way of diffusing her anger. She’d blow up all white smoking hot about a subject, and wonder why it didn’t bother me so much. If she was angry, and I was happy, she’d get pissed. I had to be angry right up there with her. Upset with whomever, and whatever had gotten that scorpio tail a wavering. It got tiring being mad all the time. lol.
What fascinated me about her most was how independent she could be to the outside world. I always felt like I was in some sort of personal bubble, that only she and I shared. Especially when it came down to her anger. When she was upset with me, to our friends she’d be all cordial and kind never letting on her feelings about me at that moment. When they left it would return to the skin-peeling eye glare. But I knew that she loved me when she did things like that. And even though angry, didn’t want others to see it. That anger was meant just for me. And as stupid as it may sound, there was a sense of security in that. The fact that I liked her anger in that way would usually make her more mad, so it was a never-ending cycle lol.
I dated a cancer for a few years. My first true heart-break. And she couldn’t decide on things if her life depended on it. I like a scopio’s ways of knowing what they want, and when they want it.
Also scorpio’s understand stuff without having to be told anything. That aqua “cave time” where we kind of stay to ourselves for a length of time, is generally understood better by scorpio’s. At least in my experience. And once you get over the soul-seething anger they show you when you return, they are usually accepting of it. I miss her actually.
Anger and all….
*sigh* Scorpio’s are a wonderful sign. And can’t really be compared to any other sign. They are so unique that an aquarius will find them almost irresistable due to that very thing. The sex (which most other signs are looking for) follows much afterwards.
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Don’t give up on all aqua’s. We aren’t all the same. And imo given a learning curve, and some time….throw in a little bit of understanding on his part, and some closeness, where he feels more secure…you can make him putty in your hands. Just don’t use your typical Passion (which works on others) to try and do it. Just be funny, and yourself. Think of him as a friend with benefits, and don’t put any pressure on him to put his feelings into words. Don’t try to be anything….nothing more frustrating than trying to be something you already are….and that is wonderful…and irresistable.
Aww. One Word! You mean my Scorpio passion won’t tame an Aqua, redirect him or make him putty in my hands eventually?
Well, I’ve been wasting my bravado then — and you’re right. it’s not working that well
I think I’m probably not going to end up landing this guy in the way that I want. But the sport of it is fun.
One more question, then. Please don’t say something mysterious like Scorps are the most fascinating to Aquas but not for the reasons that others find us fascinating. (!)
What does that mean! Tell me the secret about what Aquas truly find fascinating about us? I’m pretty sure it’s our cerebral depth…which, right, is generally wasted on others who just think about the sex!
But I’m tired of wasting my ideas and great conversations on something that’s going to end up just being platonic.
Rutu,
Did I read earlier that you were interested in dating a scorpio woman?
Synthia, good to see you again.
You’re right in that both signs will have to give mutual concession. You’re wrong in that aquarius will do that for scorpio passion, or for the whirlwind. They aren’t wired like that.
By the phrase “But if you want the ride of your life you have to play by his rules” I meant that aquarius is not going to be able to emotionally do some things naturally that alot of other signs will. If you want to know what he’s thinking you’ll have to ask him and ask him directly. Subtly hinting at it, or suggesting things will not get you anywhere. And so you having to ask is what I mean by a typical “rule”. There are of course exceptions. And one would hope that aquarius’s everywhere are slowly learning to pick up on hints and the like.
I wish you the sincerest luck on your strategy. But being a scorpio you are already the most fascinating Sign in the zodiac to an aquarius. Just not for some of the reasons that other signs find you fascinating.
From my experience scorpio’s have made the some of the best friends, and drinking buddies I’ve ever had. My ex was wonderful too.
wow. I cannot believe this thread exists. I am currently tossing and turning, unable to sleep tonight, over an Aqua guy I’ve been crushing on. (might have to do with the caffeine I consumed throughout the day-but alas, I am awake thinking about him.lol.)I’ll explain our story later.
and yes, I am a Scorpio chick. He and I both born in 1981.
I used to be WAY into astrology, but havent been in years. Something made me get out of bed and check our compatibility. (not like the outcome would necessarily make me give up lol)
Wow. can’t wait to chat some more tomorrow.
The reasons?
I’m sorry. . We have our vision and strongly held beliefs about the experiences we want to have too.
OneSpokenWordsaid “But if you want the ride of your life you have to play by his rules.”
Um… Scorpios, with all their passion and fire, can have the ride of their lives anything they want. We could definitely take Aquas for an out of the world spin.
So, who’s the true force behind this ride? Scorpios don’t play long by any rules.
I think in a pairing like this Aquas have no choice but to give…and hopefully they’ll be seduced by the whirlwind that is Scorpio.
It has to be a mutual concession between these signs. Or else, I personally as a Scorpio would walk away.
My strategy is to understand Aquas and how they operate and to leverage that — not conform to it.
Ante up.
Synthia just explain that better PLEASE…..
What could be the reasons????
As always… interesting stories OneWordSpoken.
Just one caveat … Scorpios won’t just “go along” for the ride with anyone — not even if it’s an intriguing Aqua.
She’d probably just ride off into the sunset.
I totally agree with these comments above. BULL’S EYE……
Just sort of busy now. will comment later.
What would you like to know? The truth is that most aquarians don’t understand themselves all that well. A relationship is a great way to figure oneself out. There is a great deal of self- awareness for aquarians that stems from just curiousity.
Im going to say something very painful. A lot of aquarians when you meet them or see them as a potential partner will eventually test you. A lot. You could be someone he considers life-long, or you could be his current “project”. Which brings me to if he sees you life-long. If he sees you as a potential partner, you have to keep the “project” so to speak going. There has to be a reason for him intellectually to continue seeing you. With Aquarius the head rules. And not the southern head. He wants to be kept fascinated. In all honesty nothing like the secretivness of a scorpio helps that lol. There is a constant, “Whoa, i’d have never guessed!” Scorpio people in general are freaking awesome. And I don’t think there is another sign out there that can handle a scorpio’s anger outbursts, better than the cool-headed aquarius. Even though I frequently heard how frustrated she’d get with me, for diffusing her anger. After a bit of time, the scorpio I was with didn’t bother with the silent treatment, or screaming at me. She just would sit me down, and say, “wtf”. She was after all…..still a scorpio.
I’ll give you a catch-phrase that I think works well with aqua’s. And I say this because we can be unbelievably stubborn. Try to stay away from “You will” statements. Or “You HAVE to” comments. Try this one instead:
“What would make me happy is if you _________”
Make sure this is NOT after you have opened up your soul and bared every emotion known to God and man into his lap.
Aqua’s at their deepest level enjoy making people laugh. They enjoy, helping others, as long as sticky, unpredictable emotions don’t show their head all that often. I can’t even begin to think about how uncomfortable they make me. Meeting girls in my past who, “Cried for the sake of crying”. What? Totally don’t understand that. lol. But that may be just a guy thing.
Perhaps some other aqua’s on here can comment, and help out some of these ladies. I’ve been on like 4 other sites the past few days, and there are some angry women out there with Aqua men in particular. Lol. Whole sites dedicated to what we do, and how to “combat” it. Pfft.
A friendship with an aqua, is easy. No emotional strings. The moment we cross that line, there feels like this pressure. Pressure to be like all the guys you girls swoon over in movies, with all their perfect romantic lines, and ideas. I can’t speak for others but for me, it always sounded so fake coming out of my mouth. So weird. And I always felt like she would pick up on this “fake” feeling, and would think I wasn’t sincere in how I felt. When in reality I was so trying to make her understand how wonderful she was to me.
Im thinking of anything else I can say that will help you guys. It’s a fine line for sure. The problem is going to be when you realize he has allowed you to think you’re in the drivers seat, and really all along he’s been in control. It will piss you off.
But if you want the ride of your life you have to play by his rules. Because to him, the only reality that counts is the one he’s made up. Go along with it sometime just for fun. 
Man im longwinded. Maybe it’s because i’m supposed to be working. lol
Aww. That’s sweet.
Don’t worry about the “wall of text.”
More!
So I ran across this site today and was totally fascinated. First about me: My birthday is 2/18/79 and I have a moon in Scorpio, and an aries rising. Had my chart done a while ago, but totally can’t remember it all. Sue me.
I am totally astonished by some of the hate generated online about aquarians. There is actually a whole website dedicated to how “awful” we are. And yet here is a site with scorpio women who are attracted to us. I find that encouraging. Mostly because aquarius men are just mis-understood. I’d dare say the only person who can come even remotely close to understanding an aquarius is another aquarius.
I had a buddy of mine who was also an aquarius on the capricorn cusp and it was fascinating to watch him “work his magic” with the ladies. I knew every step of the way how his humor and eyes that showed mischief were leading this girl down a path that would have her adoring him. I recognized it because thats what we all do! (they are still together to this day by the way…and she too is a scorpio)
On a personal note, I was in a relationship for 2 years with a scorpio woman. It ended sadly because she had some life issues, that just comepletely shut me out. Friendship wise and all. So i left with all the broken pieces of my heart and suffered silently telling no one the real story, and just saying things did not work out when anyone would ask. So I have some insight.
Scorpio’s and aqua’s will work. But it takes some bassackwards thinking on both parts. Learning to deal with her jealousy, about drove me nuts. I couldn’t talk to girls, or if i looked at one she’d freak. She actually once picked up a steak knife! And although I think she was half-joking…….well i think she was half-joking. lol. And possessive as all hell. I always felt she was asking me questions to “catch” me at something.
She learned quickly enough, that aquarians don’t deal with jealousy like others. And mind games you will lose. I’ll admit i’ve done the sidestep truth thing. When you ask an aquarius a yes or no question make sure you get a “yes” or a “no”. Otherwise we can spin tales so wonderous, that it borders on a novel we came up with. And we can do it on the spot.
And even remember we told you 12 months later. Be very careful playing mind games or thinking you will get the best of Aqua’s. We have an inner ear so to speak that just tells us what you’re up to. But we use it for good too. We can know you’re hurt without you saying anything. We can know you’re depressed and that you’d like to talk about it. We can know you’re upset and decide that laughter is the best gift we can give you. Take it all in stride.
I would say that being with an aqua can be the most wonderful, and gut-wrenching experience you can have. But it can be so rewarding, if you can be patient, avoid head games, indulge him in his head games, and pat his ego from time to time. If you can do that, the dreaded “aqua silence” and random tongue-lashings can turn into whispers in your ears that will make your legs weak, and body tingle.
So much more to write….and yet this is already a wall of text. Sorry for it being so long, or if I rambled off topic.
Marion, I think you should explain in detail the situation you are in. In that way I think we can help better. And also please give me some insight to Scorpio woman’s nature.
Rutu that was a great answer.. seriously, nice job, and I definitely concur.
By the way, for those of you reading I thought you might find this interesting… Apparently not a well known thing about the zodiac signs, but there is thing thing called Antiscia, which means “opposite shadow” in greek, and it refers to zodiac signs that normally are said to not work, but they have an extra connection. Almost like opposite signs a little, but different. If you scroll down on this forum there’s a big explanation of it and everything and all the antiscia couples..
By the way, guess which is the Scorpio antiscia? Aquarius…. lol
So maybe it’s not as big a secret as we thought? But still pretty interesting…
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/008064.html
THE BOTTOM LINE IS BE STRAIGHT FORWARD.
Hi Marian!!
I understand the frustration it must be causing you.
I think you should totally stop manipulating your aqua guy to get what you want. let it be anything… No manipulations.
Aquas totally need to trust people before they open upto them. So manipulation of any sort is a total turn-off. DON’T DO IT. You might be thinking that he is not smart enough to find that manipulation but that’s not the case it’s just that we don’t like creating scene with all the emotional drama so he might not say it openly but that will surely be expressed in his behaviour in some way. I think he doesn’t realise how much he hurts you by being distant. It’s just so much in our nature that it takes some time to change. I think you should sit with him and tell him calmly and sincerely about his distancing act. Don’t be overbearing, don’t be too emotional.. but very sincere. I can very well assure you that if he realises how much hurt he is causing you by remaining distant he will improve. Aquas don’t like hurting people. Especially the ones they really care for. So just try it. let me know. Take care. Bye.
well as a scorpio that never does anything but extremes i have found out in a totally heartbreaking way that aquarians like their distance i knew it all along but kept pushing in all the wrong ways….so viola nada….we might think we are alll great on the astrological stream but please listen to the advice that is given on this thread….i read it but let my always intense emostions get the better of me and struck out ….. a word to the scorpio girl and aquariuius guy
thanks a lot tootsie! i seen him the other night and he just completely blanked me so im guessing he is no longer interested.. i dont know why he said al that stuff to me in the first place then. i did kind of play a mind game with him though because one of my ex’s wants to get back with me and my friend told the scorpio but i dont know if hes bothered…
No problem, glad I somewhat helped… lol
I agree with Tootsie.
And thanks P, that makes a lot of sense.
Lol, sorry i’m amused, not at you Kathrine, because YES it is typical of scorps male to do that! Best thing to do is give him a taste of his own medicine, keep him on his toes, remember that YOU are in control! Try it, you’ll see his reaction, although he will try to hide it and very well at doing that too! Play mind games, (he’ll love it!) that should keep him more interested. Good luck, keep us posted!
hey, i am the opposite way around here im an aquarius girl who is in love with a scorpio guy. it is so confusing he tells me how much he likes me and wants to be with me and asks me to text him but then when i do he doesnt text me back… i dont understand why he would tell me all these nice things and ask to be with me and then just ignore me.. is this typical of a scorpio guy? thanks
p.p.s. lol sorry… Aquarius always wants to keep their emotions and crazy thoughts guarded, because they’re not entirely sure how to compartmentalize and sort them through to understand them, so if we like you, we might also ignore you in a group setting and play it off as nothing… inside we are dying and going crazy (especially with scorpio.. lol)
But in all honesty, just look at something as simple as body language.. are his feet pointed towards you when you two talk? Does he want a personal space barrier or is he ok with you touching him? Does he seem to stand in a way to assert his masculinity around you? etc… it’s all relevant.
p.s. the more we like you, the more we will begin to open up emotionally as well…. it takes A LOT of time, but slowly you will start to get things out of us as long as you are patient and give us space and time to do it at our own pace…
Thanks Synthia… I really appreciate the reply and am actually kind of happy that he (most likely) can’t tell I like him… a sticky situation, I’m not sure I want to get involved in.. lol but anyway..
That is actually a great question…. lol One I’m still trying to figure out myself actually…
I think a way to look at it is we are constantly researching and studying people. So we put them through tests… if you get more and more questions asked to you and we spend a lot of time with you at one point, then go off on our own for awhile, but always come back, then you know we like you. I think it’s basically like the more tests you feel you are being put through, the more we like you… because if you didn’t pass the one “relationship” test we had, then we will drop you as a potential mate… but you can still be our friends. lol I don’t know if any of that makes sense…
Basically, the more questions we ask you, and the more personal they get, the more we like you and want to spend time with you (whether it be as a friend, or more)… but if he asked you a question about marriage more than once, I’d definitely say he was interested, personally.. (read it as another “test” to see if you can handle him or if your views are similar to his..)
Honestly, I’d say try giving him some space or treating him differently.. say, if you ignore him one day, see if he stares at you or looks like he wants to talk to you… OR you can try being direct and staring him down with that infamous stare and flirting strongly with him, and see how he reacts… if he looks ready to jump away, he probably just sees you as a friend. But if he continues the banter, it’s a good sign, I’d say..
I know we are hard to understand, and honestly, I can’t tell myself sometimes if I actually like someone or if it’s just convenient because I know they like me, and hey, they’re alright, I’ll try it for a while… kind of thing. idk lol. Another point is I personally waver with a lot of my decisions, because as said before, aquarians in general are constantly testing things, so if you didn’t pass one test, you might surprise us by passing another one and you could be put back in the running for a potential mate…. It’s a constant struggle, I know… I’m sorry, lol.. I hope that somewhat helps, and good luck!
For example, P. An Aquarius man asked me what type of man I’m attracted to and do I think I’d like to be married. This is the second time he’s asked me this.
What’s the purpose of this? Is he trying to make sure I like him? Or is this one of those impersonal Aqua questions like what did I have for breakfast?
How are we supposed to know? What are some clues we Scorps should pick up on, P, that distinguishes us from the horde of friends?
P- it’s not obvious at all. No matter how many compliments and flirtations.
In the back of our minds there is always doubt. Because we KNOW Aquas love their friends and are nice and charming to all of them.
So no clue. Nada. Just a shred of …wonder
LOL tootsie wow dats exactly wat i think haha but lets not 4get the straightlaced virginal virgos, quirky beauty of aquarius, those dreamy eyes of pisces n da confidence of an aries!
I know K i find Earth sign especially Taurus women attractive than most then i would say Libra then Scorpios and last but not least lovely Leos
No i can’t tell
Question for whoever is willing to answer.. lol. I am an aquarius as previously stated and am dealing with a scorpio now. I wanted to know if Scorpios can usually tell if Aquarians like them, or are they as confused by our friendliness to everyone as well? Because I’m getting a strong vibe that the scorpio likes me, but my aquarius friend who saw us together couldn’t even tell that I liked him… Just curious if it is as obvious as we think it might be or if you can’t really tell if we like you, like most other people can’t as I have read… Thanks for any reply!
To generalise physical appearance i hav a tendency 2wards (Element wise) it wud b a toss between earth & air then water and then fire sign.. men & women but especially women cos we r more beautiful creatures lol;)
Who is the best looking sun sign?
Its come 2me took a while but i got it!..lol so its the sign Opposite My Rising rite ..so apparently im like attracted 2leos hmm but im actually not lol i find leos kinda aggressive n a bit overpowering theyre kinda possessive too n a bit too “into themselves and soo vain n really fussy bout their hair hehe sorry!..altho sayin all that theyre really generous:D SO it really does come down 2certain planet influencing ones Birthchart;) idk lol Kx
Much enlighted luvly jubly:) ..yet stil hav so much id luv 2learn! THANX aurora 4takin tym 2reply!Jus wanna say luvin the site gr8 stuf:) Kx ps. How can i find which sign is in my 7th house..?
hi guys,
first of all, i wanted to thank you all for your very insightful comments. I am learning a lot from you! Secondly, to answer some question.
- The rising sign is also known as the ascendant (they are the same thing) this is the sign on the cusp of your first house and represents you exterior personality to a certain extent. first house is the house of YOU
- the sign opposite the ascendant is the descendant. this is the sign on the cusp of the seventh house. the seventh house is the house of the OTHER, in your life, all kinds of partners including marriage partner. We tend to be very attracted to people whose sun sign is our descendant. example. A Sagittarius rising person would be very attracted to Geminis. There may also be planets in Cancer in the seventh house, and thus they might also be attracted to Cancers
- People can certainly be attracted to people whose sun sign is the same as their Venus or Mars sign, however, in my experience the greatest ***attraction*** to both friends and romantic partners is people who sun sign is your moon sign (or vice versa), ascendant sign or descendant sign (or the co-ruler of the 7th house).
Hope this helps. xx
Aurora
Okay im totally confuse rite now lol ..so is Rising n Ascendant the same thing?..and whats Descendant, how do i find all this?..lol Think im in need of basic astrology lesson:)
Soree got confused w/ the ascendant rising thing lol
I read somewhere on astrologyzine.com “What attracts men” section lol hmm thought Rising n Ascendant is the same thing..?
K- I thought it was your sign opposite your rising sign (aka your ascendant opposite your descendant) that shows what sign a man or woman prefers?
Ex. I’m a Sagittarius Rising, so my ascendant is in Gemini, meaning that I am largely attracted to Geminis..
Howdy martians:D All is well i hope!Jus a quicky ..apparently a mans Moon n Venus sign determines hes preferred “types” of women! And a womans preferred types are her Sun & Mars sign! My mars is in virgo and i HAVE dated a few virgos in the past!..hmm so it is kinda true lol
oh yeh PS weather in england is shit
Err 1word CHILL lol u lot r funny man
As dylan said
don’t think twice its alright
even if he was being sarcastic
ps
I am incredibily spiritual (mystical) and believe everything is everything. So the furthest star must effect my smallest atom. As our conversing effects both of us.
synthia,
Thank you, you stated what i was trying to say better than i could, sometimes ( actually all the time) my mind flows faster than i can physically communicate. I do mean to say that i am fully a believer in astrology, but i know nothing about it or how to persue it. I do not fully no what a “natal” sign means and would love to have a full chart worked on me. How i found this sight was thru a query of searches that started with “what is wrong with me”. I was just trying to respond to rutu, and before that just communicate, bc i have stopped with everyone i know. You all seem incredibly sweet and open and i felt like leaving a response. What you are saying makes complete since, and i do believe in the full moon, for the reasons you stated. I just have a stubborn streak in me that makes me feel free will exist, when in actuallity i believe we are all predetirmend by destiny. Thats why i stated aquas are insane, bc i personally can believe in the paradox, yet the mind won’t let one act in the paradoxel state. Thanks for the response and i would greatly appreciate an education.
Hi Jonny,
I’m very much over 18. LOL. (in my 30s).
I’m also a very serious, introspective and rational person.
I’ve always had a dormant interest in mystical things…but had always been skeptical about pursuing it and especially skeptical/derisive of astrology.
Then last year I noticed my responses to the pull of the Moon. And I thought you know if the moon has an effect on tides and crops, which has been documented, it likely has a pull on humans, which are made mostly of water.
They led me to coordinate some activities to benefit from full and new moons energy.
This year, actually just in the last month, I’ve extended my interest to astrology as a whole. LEt me tell you, I don’t believe in using it to predict the future.
But I am wholeheartedly convinced that the planets and their positions have an effect on people at birth and affects their personality.
Reading about astrology now is making the last 30-plus years of my life crystal clear. I’ve realized looking back that people have acted according to their natal chart whether they knew it or not.
I’ve analyzed past boyfriends, friends, family members and their natal charts have been right on point.
The Universe operates according to laws and it’s efficiency and harmony is unbelievable. Astrology is simply a way of interpreting those laws at work when it comes to human behavior.
I use astrology for awareness and interpretation not really to define me. I do agree with you that young people should seek to self-define first, lest they try to conform to what they think they should be based on the Zodiac.
The first law of the Universe is to simply BE according to your nature.
I’m not surprised that you come here a skeptic but remain intrigued. Getting a glimpse into how the Universe and its energy operates is really uncanny.
No, sun signs don’t tell the whole story, but once you get into advanced astrology …you’ll see people natures corresponds with the thumbprint of their full natal chart, not just their sun.
It just is what it is. Then, you’ll be even less dismissive.
You don’t have to be a believer, because your destiny will unfold the way its meant to anyway.
Astrology has helped me be calm about my destiny unfolding because I now glimpse confirmation into why I’ve made the choices I’ve made, have the passions I have, and love the people I love.
IF something seems to conflict with astrology on the surface, you’d be best to do a deeper study of the natal chart. And you’ll see truth no matter what. I’m convinced.
But I agree astrology isn’t the main force in our lives. (it’s simply the dna of our personality/behavior).
The main force is human will. That trumps biology and astrology, social conditioning, environment and everything else.
Through our own efforts and action we create what we want ….but we can’t escape our true selves, no more than Oedipus could, .. and I believe we’ll always walk in lockstep with our true personal astrology.
P.S. what you wrote about Aquas made great sense. Thanks for expounding.
PS
If you are younger than 18, then just give up and go with the flow. No offense, but you really have no idea. Enjoy it, it will be the last time.
One more time, again and again,
If you are young, 18-25, then you have no idea who this person will be or yourself. It is a great time, but also a consistantly changing time. Remember this about yourself and who you are dealing with. I highly recommend to not try to define anyone or yourself. And this comes from someone that has parents who are still married when they were highschool sweethearts. If you want, and i always recomend, fight the odds. There are always exceptions, and we all want to be that exception, but more common then not, it will not be you. As i said, my best friend is a scorp, and i love him more than any of my siblings. Its weird and i can’t explain it (we have been best friends for over a decade, and when i met him i hated him). Thats life, and you got to love it. Just remember God has a great since of humor.
Rutu,
Sometimes people are just raw, and some people can deal with that, and some can’t. And sometimes this raw person just needs to take themselves out of situations or possibilities that will alienate people, as she did you.
Yo Rutu I feel you man, but like everything, if you focus on one thing (hence astrology) other things get lost. There are thousands of things that go into being a person at a particular moment that it cannot be broken down to a singular philosophy. Jealousy, love, hate, contentment, yearning, are all flowing things like the tides. She might of been seeking “the one” when you were in a state of trying to just meet people and have experiences. As i said to the girls, remember your dealing with a man, you have to realize your dealing with a girl. I hope no women take offense to this, but girls have an ability to romanticize a situation without even a word more so then the average guy. This is not always a constant on either side. I also have this trait, and maybe thats why i have written what i have said. The point is that each individual you meet and interact with is only that individual at that moment. Think about your past and wonder “why did i say that” when you know that was not representing who you were. It is called emotions stirred with experiences, and we are subject to them. No matter what your sign is, we all experience deep, and sometime confusing emotions. Its (cliché alert) called growing up. And we are always growing. This process never ends. I hope noone is taking what i say as a definitive understanding as a aqua male, bc i can only speak for myself, and as i stated, i have no to little understanding of astrology, and refuse to pick my friends or interests by the concept. I believe that the philosophy has a deep truth, but there are far more decisive factors that decide us everyday. We are all individuals, no matter what gravitational pull affected our chemistry when we were in the womb. My belief is that we all have the ability to decide are existence, even if we have a defined starting point. However, most people do tend to stick with what they are comfortable with, and that leads to patterns and repetitions, which allows astrology to be a good guide to predict tendencies in people. But never forget, anyone can be anything at anypoint. Just bc someone has the same sign as hitler doesn’t mean they have the propensity to genocidally kill whomever they find different. The dude was a nut, as we all are, but i guarantee it had nothing to do with the zodiac.
Hi there!!
I wouldn’t agree with Jonny on understanding scorpio women. I don’t understand them. It’s only after reading astrology I am gaining some understanding. Before that i couldn’t have imagined that anybody can be soooo emotional. God, these scorp girls are emotional about everything. EVERYTHING!!
I had a friend when i was in school I am in college now.
Not to mention she was a scorp. With all honesty, she was just a friend to me. I had a circle of 5 friends and she joined in later. Initially everything was normal. We would share jokes, laugh a lot, help each others etc. She used to sit few benches away from me. Then she came to sit on the bench next to mine. I didn’t notice and didn’t bother. I thought it was good to have her there. As weeks passed i realized I was talking more to her than my other friends except for 1 (my best friend). I mean i didn’t realize when she starting misinterpreting my friendly behavior. She would act strangely if i talked to other people more or spent more time with them. Sometimes she would be really quite.. and i could tell that something is wrong. If i asked her she would say she is fine. But really unusually quite. Like I am standing next to a ticking TIME BOMB…
Then some times she would be sarcastic. Asking me explanation of even little things. Which I have long forgotten..
I did end up hurting her. And it was only because i didn’t understand her. It was never intentional. I know better now. So I personally think your aqua guy will need some astrology help to understand you. The main reason being aqua personality is so different from scorp (in emotional department) that understanding is sort of difficult without help. And also scorp don’t reveal emotions directly so it gets even more difficult.. I think if you scorp girls have any issue that bothers you, you should be straight forward and discuss it.
One more time, again,
We do know you better than you know ur self. Think about how many times you speak to someone and they seemed so confused about whats going on in their life and its so clear to you. It is much easier to see around yourself, then in yourself. K, just from what i have read i could tell you anything you need to know about u that u don’t think you know. We all know oursleves, we are just scared to admit it. DURRRR IM INSIGHTFUL
PS
There is nothing sweet about being shy. It is an incredibily lonely existence, but its nice to hear.
And it is nice to speak with someone across the pond. I am a pale irish/scottish guy and i’m very jealous of your weather.
A little background,
I am a 27 yr old A male from ATL, GA. USA, and know very little about astrology or numerology. My bday is 02/07/81, so if this means anything about my “moon” sign, maybe it will help you in ur understanding. I actually use to think all of this was bs, but i have come to find in my life that everything i was sure of is/was wrong and yet i can not keep myself from still making strong judgments about things i do not know. I actually love it. A humbling thing, i don’t know. I am going thru a very transitional time in my life (more so than the usual everyday) and was looking for some understanding. I came across this website and was interested, bc my best friend is a scorp, unfortunately he is a male. I often joke I wish we were gay, or at least one of us was a girl. It would make things a lot easier. We have very little income in on the surface, but i consider him my brother. So, this website intrigued me.
1. Synthia
The psycho part relates to what i have read about Aquas online. Either we are completely intro or outro. I believe this to be a lie. We are both. Just very few of us know how to deal/accept this paradox. So we usually pick one to go with, and deny the other. This will inevitably lead to a split personality, and lack of knowing the line or how to deal with it, which entails us being perceived as aholes or utterly arrogant. I am so confused by it that i have recently decided to stop talking to all people, and let my destiny play itself out without my will forcing it. Hence, psycho.
Forcing it – When i was 18 i really liked this girl who intimidated me. I was bold enough to put myself in the situation to be around her, but nothing else. She eventually started liking me, for the same reasons i think ya’ll like these guys, and started asserting herself. She would even sit on top of me, and in return i would turn my head (and start yawning uncontrollably, which apparently is a nervous twitch i have) but i would not ask her to get off of me. We might be “deep” and “understanding” but we are in all respects very immature when it comes to human interaction. And no matter what understanding we have, we will always be immature, like 3rd grade. So give it a go, and if he sticks around, even nervously, he likes you. If he runs then hes a pus, and you don’t want him.
Emotions – Yes, i don’t understand at all the concept that we do not like emotional women. It shows that your real, and feel what we think we need to hide. Realize Aqua or not your still dealing with a guy. We do not have very good training on how to deal with our own emotions, but we are quite clear and understanding on what they are and why. Especially in other people. Now, if he surrounds himself with a bunch of douche bags, and partakes in their male belittlement of others, than ya he has no understanding, or is to afraid to admit them.
2. – K
Your down bc everything you say is from a very understanding point of view, and what you say is very true about aquas when the others here are not. NO offense to the others. We are a very confusing bunch.
The “destroying you” point – I could have been a little more gentlemanly about it, but it means we are very sexual creatures. The first or even second time we might be very gentle about it, so we don’t scare you. But once we get comfortable, its time for fun. And yes to an aqua a deep friendship is the most important thing to us, but we are still men. ALL OF U PAY ATTENTION, you are still talking about men. ALL MEN ARE PIGS, NO EXCEPTIONS. Read that last part again as needed. I’m sure as women you already know, but you seem to forget. Just give the guy a chance, or two or three. If he doesn’t get comfortable or good, then have the friendship only.
A perfect blossom is a rare thing, you can spend your whole life looking for one and not find it. Yet, it would be a life well spent.
..began (as scorps luv 2do lol) got 2a stage now i think its jus sexual energy built up due 2such strong attraction n powerful chemistry between us (lol) its needing &yearning 2b probed n released b4 it destroys me.Anyway i think id rather prefer b his best girl buddy friend thing lol a gud honest meaningful deep friendship is wat i want!!! DARM im tired fallin asleep dribblin n everythin all on ma keyboard mwahhaha so L8r earthlings:D Kx ps..thought its kinda sweet wen u said u lot r shy guys hehe;)
(yum lurve fruit loops) Jonny!?..soundin kinda rather “fruity” urself hehe And i mean dat in a gud way!
Im “down” wat dyou mean lol hope dats a gud ting !Im 4rm sunny england:D u c me no comprende NEwayzlol was thinkin i doubt men aquas hav fear of emotions think they r actually ful of emotions but fear 2show it *wonders if its an insecurity thing like majority of us!) n i doubt U understand me more than I understand myself i dnt even understand ME!There4 u wudnt understand me,understand?lol;) Pls elaborate more on “he wants to destroy u” bit?lol spooky Also “who cares about us?”..fellow scorpio chicas obviously do!:D Its fun 2b around aquas especially guys lol luv 2flirt;D theyr ful of energy luv their mad ideas theyr jus fun fun 2hav around!I think dats da main attraction 4me wen it cums 2these A men (cant stand boring dull humans) n u can alwayz rely on them.2giv u a helpin hand lol;) When i met dis guy i was intruiged im not easily intruige 2an extent ..knew there was sumthing bout him…so analysation
JOnny! Your thoughts are making me go bananas! You are saying stuff I’ve never read online about Aquarians. More!
More details on the secret psycho part!
And… when you say if you want an Aquarian force it … this goes against traditional advice that you’ll scare him off and send him screaming for freedom. Won’t forcing it ignite his fear/flee instinct?
Aquarians eat up emotions like fruit loops? What? Psychologist!
One more time,
Sorry i meant P instead of K. K is down.
PS – Be prepared bc we are insane. Litterally Psycho’s. We only act normal for the people around us. Most can’t handle the real us, not even ourselves.
Listen ladies, this is flattering, but some of ya’ll just don’t understand. Yes we are very shy, especially to women, and strong women. But it is all of our fantasy to have a strong woman. Every strong A is really an incredibly out going person. You say things that we think, or at least create a situation, and we love confrontation. We feel like idiots afterwards, but we soon learn to say f it. At least i have. 1 Ms. K – We don’t fear emotions, we eat it up like fruit loops, its our natural state. As men we are taught to be dumb and ignorant about them, but we understand u more than u do. And yes, we are weird, no normal hours, life is constant and we don’t want to miss it. Every time you think we’re not paying attention, we know everything that is going on. but we’ll never admit it. It’s our only strength. We’re not aloof, we’re observing you and the universe. It’s all there all the time and we see it all. If u want an A, then force it. He will use the excuse that he respects u, but he wants to destroy u, in a good way. Whatever, have fun. In the end we don’t think anyone will ever understand us, we just want to understand you. Who cares about us? We don’t. And i mean that in a good way.
I feel sum aquarians r misunderstood..peeps wud often think theyr cold n detached, no emotions etc etc..but really (2my perspective lol) theyr actually kind,giving,unselfis,they r humanitarians!..luv theyr intellectuality n eccentricity!Jus hav 2b Really patient lol n get 2knw..takes TIME but worth it 4sure!:) I think theyr friends 2hav 4life!Astrologys cool luv how it provides insights on certain traitsn peoples characteristics..also really helps 2try understand sum1 2an extent.PEACE! Kx..luvin da AIR;)
yeah too much emotion and feeling all at once is like a death sentence to Aquarius… lol, well ok, not exactly, but it’s almost like, “ok I can’t handle this, get me out, I need space…” unless you happen to have or find an aquarius with a water sign somewhere in there… lol
i am so not elusive….i lay it all out there thats the thing that aquarians cant handle
hahaha like psychopaths? interesting… lol
And after rereading some of these comments… I think a main part of the attraction between the two of us (aqua/scorpio) rises from the fact that neither of us show our emotions outwardly…
So while both of us like to probe, we both get instinctual feelings that either a.) we are also being probed/analyzed or b.) we are being watched or admired from afar or c.) both.
And since we both don’t like to show our hidden feelings at the surface of our exterior, we are left with instinct which we need to prove to ourselves is true… So it’s basically a hunt on both ends of finding out- does he like me? he said this one day, then didn’t talk to me, or whatever, and eventually just both sides keep this elusive, curious quality about themselves, so we are both driven to find out! In time through the search, the relationship is developed with intellectual stimulation, a fanning of both our rebellious sides, and a fearful yet noticeable loyalty to each other… and boom, the aqua/scorpio relationship is born… hahaha idk. ok I’m done, haha sorry.
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About the intense gaze — maybe that’s just the Aqua guy I’m cavorting with . He has a Scorpio Moon so maybe that’s where that gaze comes from.
We were sitting at the pub table talking and staring keenly at each other like psychopaths! LOL!
oops.. that wasn’t supposed to be a wink, just the end of the parentheses… hahaha oh well.
to K-
How are male aquarians misunderstood at times? lol, in what way?
.. and yeah, I’m from the US.. haha sorry!
to Synthia-
The Strength + sensitivity is good, at least to me, but maybe just because I’m strongly brought up with a european background and almost expect that. But I think most aquarians are really picky (regardless of if they admit it or not) and hold really high standards, so they’re basically looking for the total package in a relationship… and as long as the Scorpio doesn’t go completely emotional right away and plays the strong, hard-headed character every so often, it should lead to interest..
(Think of gemini and aquarius- they’re supposed to be a great match, why? Because they show interest to aquarius one second, and the next they’re off doing their own thing not paying attention… that kind of unknown feeling leaves an Aquarius to keep analyzing and keep the curiosity going, as long as it’s not there all the time, they need to give something of themselves after a while or Aquarius will just give up and won’t come back… lol)
Regarding the jealousy issue- I’ll make a distinction that it’s not insane jealousy or overwhelming anger or anything, but it’s almost like “Hey, he’s mine, watch it”.. more like territorial I guess.. whereas with somebody like Sag or Gemini- I’d encourage them to go hang out with others as long as they came back eventually. lol
And you really think Aquarians can have intense gazes too? haha I never would have thought that… in what context do you think this occurs?
Oh and about the nurturing side… Scorpio brings me more in tune with my emotional side, and once they have showed and proved to me through actions or statements that they like/love me then I feel more almost like a mother.. hahaha, like I turn more into a nurturing and a person to take care of everyone else (although Aquarius naturally likes to help others, so maybe it’s just that there’s more feeling and attachment behind the humanitarianism…)
This is actually a cool dialogue.. hahaha I’m glad to be able to hear both sides of the coin.
Very interesting, P!
Good to know Aquarians LIKE the contrasting combo of sensitivity and strength in Scorps.
You better not be lying— can a Scorp truly make an Aquarian jealous?! Wow. Was not expecting that.
Yes, both signs are huge students of human behavior. Always watching, analyzing. That’s fun to have in common.
And yes, both can have intense gazes. Love it!
“Confused in a good way” Yep. Feel that all the time. The mind is just doing trampolines reprogramming and sorting schema from wild discussions.
Aw….A scorp brings out your nurturing side?? Man, I hope that’s typical for aquas.
And great, the Aqua feels the whole becoming stronger/smarter sensation too.
I love this forbidden blend.
It’s the best kept astrological secret.
Wow is dis an american site then..im kinda unsure lol Im 4rm london jus wonderin if any1 else is too:D Kx
Gr8 post i totally understand thanks P! Its interestin cos i think/feel exactly da same when im w/ dis aqua guy ! To a conclusion (lol) scorpions & aquarians R gud 2gether!..certainly sounds like they make a gr8 team lol As long as there is communication u knw… They are both so intune w/ 1another its almost like telepathy lol I think in a way scorpio n aquarius r actually very similar!I feel bad how sum aquarians (especially male 1s lol) r misunderstood at times…
Also, what the other two said about aquarius I agreed with… (D and Rutu)… I’ll have to see if I can find something else to help you guys out as well… haha
Alright, well here goes… lol
I personally am Aquarius Sun and Moon, and Sagittarius rising, so I value my freedom A LOT… lol
As Synthia also said, I also gravitate towards strong men.. Weak men are cool, I mean, I’ll be friends with them, but that’s it- unless they can show me that they are strong, capable of doing many things/handy, intellectual, have a passion about something and work at it, and a mixture of other things, they don’t get a second glance as boyfriend potential.
I find that I get along well usually with Pisces- another water sign, but sometimes find that their ability to not discuss things out annoying.. They are almost too dreamy and not able to stand up for themselves enough.
I get along well with Cancer until they start getting emotional… Then I don’t know how to react with them, and it just hinders everything.
Which leads to Scorpio- I honestly don’t even pay attention to people specifically unless they do something that interests me. If there’s something unique about them that makes them stand out, then I pay attention and start analyzing them… And up until this point, I never really looked for the Scorpio or was never really like oh man, check them out- until either they gave me the infamous intense stare, or if I watched them share a story or something, I could almost feel the deep intensity of emotion behind their eyes, and it made me want to find out more about what’s behind their chill exterior.
I also like a challenge, especially in dating, and the fact that they appear (and are) strong, yet still sensitive is really appealing to me. It’s like the typical macho or european man- Somebody who’s willing and able to kick some *ss but still able to come home and be sweet and caring, and then still able to stand up for himself when there’s a disagreement or fight between us.
Going back to Synthia’s point about being able to get lost in unconventional conversations for hours.. that’s another thing that gets me..
I tend to be able to talk freely with a Scorpio (seeing as being around him makes me want to joke and be even more unique and playful, yet still remain honest and true/loyal to him), but when I see that he can sit and talk for hours with other people (regardless of gender) it almost drives me crazy and curious to see what the conversation is about.
Like I would expect him (astrologically speaking) to just be like emotional and sensitively passionate all the time, and to see him be able to talk for hours with people and be loyal to them, yet not warm up and open to others completely at first glance makes me want to find out what is behind that exterior that he knows. He has the analytical aspect as well, I can feel it, as do I, and I want to find out and almost compare notes about what he has learned through life from his analyzing… lol
As a past scorpio boyfriend told me- He said something like, you’ve turned my life upside down, like you’ve made me confused, but in a good way… and I think the same goes for Aquarius…
Scorpio (as it seems) tends to feel everything, and get jealous and clingy, whereas I in normal circumstances with anyone else could care less who my bf would be with (as long as he’s not cheating!), I would completely allow him that freedom and not worry or be clingy about it. But something about me having ties with Scorpio and them even talking with someone else makes me kind of jealous and want to draw them away somehow in a sexy way… Almost like I’m fighting for him, I kinda like the competition.. haha (and the whole being rebellious thing too…. lol)
Also, I feel more in tune to my loving/nurturing side when I’m with him and am not just off in my own world all the time… it is a strange and weird, but functional balance somehow..
Scorpio helps me see and understand things about people and the world, that I possibly wouldn’t have understood on my own. I am able to learn and be smarter and stronger in what I know, and he grounds me back down to earth when my mind is all over the place. Like I can look at him and just understand what he’s thinking, and it kind of rejuvenates me to be able to watch and not see a nervous wreck inside (like gemini or virgo for example) and to see someone strong and confident and able. idk, lol
About the whole sex thing, I can’t say that point about it doesn’t intrigue me as well. lol.. the whole quiet rebellious thing is endearing and makes me more curious about how much of a rebel a scorpio guy could actually be (compared to me or aquarius in general) regarding bedtime or anything else… lol
idk if that was just rambling or if any of it actually made sense, lol, but I hope it helped somebody! haha
P id luv 2here ur views on aquarius men!..bein a fellow aquarian urself its interestin lol Also itd b great if there are male aquas sharin their take on dis thread too! *wonders where rutu is* =) Kx
K- I’d like to know that myself.
We need Aquarius men to answer!
K- was the “So what dyou think these male aquarians thinks/feels wen theyre in scorpio female company..?” directed towards Synthia or me? lol
Synthia brilliant post girl *touch* lol;> Personally agreeable thought it was really precise wonderful use of words, indeed beautifully written! So what dyou think these male aquarians thinks/feels wen theyre in scorpio female company..?
well i can totally tell u how not to act…..if u dont hear from him dont expect to hear from him again they are all soo cold. let them call u
hahaha that was actually a really good answer, and I can completely understand and see that now that you said it… I appreciate the response! Anyone else who’s willing to take a stab at it, feel free, but that was definitely a great response! lol thanks… And I’m glad we aquarius’ help stabilize you scorpios, because I think it is a good balance too. We are loyal once we learn to trust and once we have analyzed a person to our heart’s/mind’s content, and it seems that scorpio is the same way- loyal after probing and after a lot of time and trust.. so it’s a loyal, challenging, balancing, and yet still interesting relationship. Nice points.. thanks!
I can only speak for myself. But I like the opposition and the challenge.
I’m a very strong Scorpio and I detest men I can walk over. I detest weakness period. So, I’ve always gravitated toward fixed signs subconsciously.
I easily fall for Leo and Aquarius — said to be the ultimate worst mates for me.
I like the clash of two powers. It’s extremely vibrant, sexy, and exhilarating.
As for Aquarius, Scorpios are pretty brainy and rebellious, just like them. So, we can get lost in conversations about unconventional things for hours.
The main reason I’ve read that Aquarius won’t work for me is because I’m too emotional and possessive. Well, you know what. Those qualities are on the negative end of my sign. And I’ve always fought to conquer them — and often could not.
Strangely, being with an Aquarius who is anti-emotionalism BALANCES ME. The bond challenges me to be mature and love maturely, to rise above petty jealousy and clingy fears.
This is an antidote for what the weak parts of me … the cure for my tumultous spirals into destabilizing emotions so intense they paralyze me with depression and prevent me from succeeding in many phases of my life.
I live above my emotions with the Aquarius. And that makes me stronger. He brings out my strongest self. The dynamic forces me to be brilliant, mature, not needy, etc. It forces me into my highest Scorpio self.
I’m always proud of myself when I’m with him, able to rival his intellectual enery and be intriguing without delving into my dark side.
The intense Scorpio emotion is then just passion, pure passion about ideas and philosophies (and sex)…now of that self-destructive, crazy emotion that gives Scorps a bad name.
Also since Aquarians are rumored to like strange sex, I also find that intriguing. I can sense their hidden sexual energy.
Great answer…strangely enough I am also that way when it comes to Leo’s and Aquarius’, but what about our need to be so secretive and calculated? They have their stuff with them too that we can be easily annoyed about…so what do u do about that trait of ours that I have a hard time defusing? I know strong self as a Scorpio woman and depending on who I’m with it comes out with grace and ease, but Aquarius men aren’t our ideal mates…how does he deal with u?
So anyone have an idea why the aquarius and scorpio have this connection when astrology typically says it’s a bad match? lol… It seems it’s pretty common for aquarius and scorpio to have that close connection regardless of the vast differences, so just looking for your opinions of what you think keeps the intensity so great between the two… lol
yes I do, Synthia. I will email you.
Aurora
Aurora, do you give personal compatibility readings?
I’m in a really hot psychological dance with an Aquarius who is attached to another woman right now.
We are friends and the fire between us keeps escalating and we mentally stimulate each other, more than ANYONE else in both our lives. We are incredibly in sync. And psychicly connenected.
He’s so noble, and I am too, that we’re both trying to keep this platonic but actually my plan is to Angelina Jolie him because I feel that the Universe has caused our paths to cross for 10 years and now we’re spending hours and hours together.
I just feel like we belong together and that this chemistry is greater than us …like the Universe wants us together and keeps pushing us together — do you know the other night we went out for drinks at a really, really crowded night spot. I arrived 30 minutes after him… but as we walked out together we discovered that in that great big parking lot — we’d parked right beside each other!!!! OMG, I’m sorry, this is soooo much bigger than us. The harmony and tension and stimulation between us is overwhelming.
I can read him very well and he is sooo conflicted because he’s a very loyal person and has been with his other girl for 10 years. But I dont’ think either of us were expecting to fall in love with each other. But I feel we are and I feel it’s mutual.
But of us are very aware of lots of stuff going on beneath the surface of our stares, smiles, touches, and most of all our intellectual conversation — we can’t stop talking to each other. WE can talk for four hours straight and have to force ourselves to part.
I’m a Scorpio with a Cancer Moon. He’s an Aquarius with a Scorpio moon.
I’d like to send you our birthdates and get an idea of how compatibility we are and if it’s worth me turning on my Scorpio pursuit full blast.
Is this possible?
Thanks,
Syn.
P.S. If you can’t do a personal reading, can you tell me more about what the attraction is for the Aquarian guy and what you think is going on mentally when he’s with a Scorp?
really?? you’re posts aren’t showing up? K, I think it was because you switched to Galvanise, but I can’t understand about Rutu’s post. Let me know if this keeps happening.. I love this thread! xx
aurora
Hi!!
Same here. I also submitted a post but it isn’t showing either.
‘K’ it’s ok!! no hard feelings. Can understand ur bad mood. Sorry for ur goldfishes. But look around and find some reason to cheer up. OK, take care.
I submitted a post but its not showing…why is that ?
We cant help da intense stares its natural;) try not 2luk in2 it too much as sum scorpios dnt like 2b probed or analysed (in an obvious manner) sum finds their intensity intimidating lol Scorpios definitely feels overwhelmed chemistry with Aquarius (trus me!) they r sensitive & v. intuitive but they seldom show what theyre really feelin n thinking..Scorps r difficult 2phantom often wearing a mask i think we hide it well especially women!It also depends on other planets influence in their birthchart. Kx
So I’m an aquarius female and just wanted to hear from other scorpios (preferably male, but as long as it’s the same sign, I guess it’s the same thing. lol)… I’m not the only one that feels this chemistry, right? I was in a relationship with a Scorpio before and it was pretty much overwhelmingly the most passionate ever, as in you could basically reach out and touch the passion/tension/chemistry whatever you want to call it. So recently, I met another Scorpio and it was almost instant attraction, or at least they instantly caught my eye and figured they are worth more analyzing… lol. So basically, just wondering, do Scorpios feel the chemistry overwhelmingly too with most Aquas? Or is it just that I feel it because of his intense stares and smoldering passion? lol Thanks for any help!!
Greetings:D Been feelin rather deflated since my last post regarding aqua men being a waste of time lol..obviously they arent al da same (only da 1s ive cum across neway lol) but stil im sure there r few decent 1s rite..! Kx
Rutu.. *mwahh* big Kiss No hard feelings i hope lol;) Kx
Rutu hi..Sorry if i hav offended u n any other aquas!Was in a terrible mood lastnite 2 of my precious goldfish past away so sad:( thought 2bury them in da garden its only fair hopin theyve gone 2a gud place..l8r on dat evenin looked out da window n saw a damn FOX ravishin on bit of land/earth where i had dug, run out “shooed” da animal away thank g it went as i got quite scared!Looked at da ground n found my luvly deceased fish in PIECES everywhere i was horrified then ill!Jus had coffee now n on da mend:(
hi,
Great K !! u think aquas are waste of time, ok so u don’t need any advice then. Bye.
Im not a typical scorpio Anyway people shouldnt put people in boxes based on their starsign *winks* lol..
Rutu, actually dnt mind break ups..as obviously wasnt meant 2b!It empowers me in sum sense i jus move on along, no big, im stil young n beautiful y waste time on a mistake you know lol;) Im stil in learning process, luv 2learn Knowledge is key put it down 2experience therefore no regrets.. Kx
Hey Marion, 4da best dnt change urself 4him.Is he worth it?..Personally i think Not lol these aqua martians r a waste of time n effort.DNT feel u hav 2change urself 4him!Mayb gud as “light” friends or fuk buddies;> jus use n abuse lol (they seem 2like dat) but anything else erm.. i suggest dnt waste ur time as in b careful w/ ur sensitive heart lol seriously y settle 4less wen u can hav MORE:D be Strong (Positive) us Scorpios r a Power House!Gud luk sweetie Kx
hey marion!!
Thanks for ur quick reply. U said u wish to be as unattached as aquas. well don’t be like that. I believe aquas anattached nature and scorpio’s fierce attachment are good complement to each other. He will need a constant reassurance of ur love, but without u being too interveining in his activities, (in the begining at least) Now what do i mean by this. If u constantly call him then sometimes prefer sms over calls. Sms are less interveneing. But u have to show that u care. All right. Take care. BYE
i know going to work on freedom……
rutu…..very interesting…i should let you know that me and my aqua boy have know each other for twenty years and have had different relationships in between always keeps randomly showing up ??????? i think this is fate. I know iam obsessive i wish icould be as unattached Big love…….m..ps iam scorpio rising yikes!!!!!!!!!
hi marion!!
so you what kidnapped him? wow, lucky him!!! well how to be friends with him? remember aquas like their freedom. by freedom i mean independence to take their own decision. Now some sugestive behaviour on ur part is welcomed. some pushing is required. but don’t dominate. don’t make him feel that ur forcing him into doing anything he doesn’t want to do or is not sure about doing. But do push at times. as aquas try to refrain from making commitments.
for developing friendship the sureshot way is communication. talk to him on topics like his career, politics or any new electronic gadget. things which interest him. argue with him, listen to his views and this will form a better bond. communication and intellectual conversations are basic building blocks of friendship. show ur interest in him constantly without being tooo pushy. I am sure u will have plenty of things to talk about each other. give him complements. stroke his ego. I think this should work. Try it.
on a serious note how can i be friends with him without being too crazy?
wowzzzeeerrsss i totally love u people…..i made a big mistake when i pretty well kidnapped him and took him to my place LOL
hey ‘K’! Ok which type i am? i am the decent type. I like to take things slow. Because for a relationship u need more than chemistry. And I totaly hate messy breakups. And i am sure u will also like it that way. I know scorpio women cannt take break ups easily.
start talking to him on lots of things. His career, ambitions ur career etc. this should tell u what type of person he is. (If u havnt evaluated him yet. )don’t rush into bedroom, physical chemistry especially when sizzzzzling, just throws things out of control. if he is serious about u he will expect to be friends with u first, before even admiting he is attracted to u. (forget abot rushing to bedroom) If things just move tooo fast that will make him feel like he is loosing control of the situation and will not like it. he take a step back. so calm down k ! u r in a stable relationship don’t leave it unless u and him, both are sure. just chemistry cann’t save a relationship but understanding can. and as u and him are totally different type of people u have a lot to learn about each other. so just calm down, I mean just for now. and don’t even think about secret f*** budies. It’s just totally wrong. u deserve better. ok, take care.
Ratu u sound sexy ur knowledge is arousing lol *winkwink* Which type R U..
Cheers ratu 4advice hopefully helpful shud find out Eventually lol.I think i jus wanna get sexy w/ him that shud do it after that, mystery over i think lol sorry dont mean that but mayb the only thing between us is Chemistry..Do i really want 2damage stable relationship im in now 4Lust, is it just lust..? I think we cud b really gud friends lol hmm mayb we can b secret f@*k buddies i luv secrets hehe;>
hi!! I was reading the posts and decided to give some help or try giving it. i am an aquarius ( 5th feb). ‘K’ i can understand how confusing an aqua can be to others while we are perfectly logical in our eyes. Try to understand, aqua are analyatical and not driven by emotions so even if he feels attraction for u he will not make a move till he has analysed u, formed an opinion about u and made sure that u are the only person he wants to spend his life with. let me warn u, if u are dealing with a frivolous type of aquarius, be careful. By frivolous i mean who hasn’t decided his aim in life and is not even thinking about settling down, spends most of his time with his friends and is kind of irresponsible. for such an aquaris is still very unstable. if an aqua realises his aim of life or decide on his career path, they become lot more stable. I hope ur aqua comes under this catagory.
Now what are his issues with getting commited? first, he doesnt want just a sex partner he wants a best friend. he wants a caretaker. Aquas absolutely love being mothered, just plain care, innocent and free from sexuality. makes them feel like ur loving unconditionally. they need their freedom. though once they realise just how wonderful ur (scorpio women’s) company is their this attitude will change. but it might take some time or if u think he is tooo much into freedom u can just talk to him straightaway. but all this comes after a relationship is established. other issue could be emotions. aquas don’t understand how to handle emotions. so they mostly suppress their emotions. It doesn’t mean they are not there but just suppressed. so finally they want a girl who is intellegant who they can talk about on lots of issues like politics, mankind etc. she should be beautiful, more than that sexy. and who understands them. gives them some space and is straightforward. (if u have problem, lets talk about it. type)
Now. how to know if he is interested. I think he will stare u when he thinks noone is looking. may be when he is facing ur back. he will pay attention to ur little things. he will smile just slightly if someone mentions u or anything that involves u. he will analyse u to decide and form an opinion about u. but don’t expect for him to show his interest in u. Firstly because aquas are often very insecure to take lead in showing interest. He must see that ur interested and then only he will show interest. I mean he should clearly see that ur interested only that will make him comfertatble enough to show his interest. Secondly. ur his friends partner so he will feel uncomfertable showing interest in u as after all ur with someone else and that someone is his friend. and thus showing interst in u might make him feel like he is backstabing his friend. So just make sure that u while talking to him make him realise that u r not happy in current relationship and his friend is not the person u want to spend ur life with. then this becomes matter of personal choice that is u just chose him over his friend. this should make him comfertable.
Now how do u go about all this. the best and the sureshot way to an aqaus heart is food. I MEAN BRAIN FOOD. Intellectual conversations. Discuss something with him , I am sure he will discuss things to death. Don’t just agree but agrue. Be logical. After all he is looking for a intelligent partner. Communication is the key with aquas. once u get on discussing things with him and suppose he liked it (which i am sure he will) will give u chance to exercise ur special deeeep beautiful and sooo damn irresistable gaze. well he needs to see lots of those gazes to finally reach the conclusion that u r interested in him. I think u can atleast start after all this. And if there is any problem, well will always try to help.
Im not sure about his descendant but i do know his moon is in libra n venus in aquarius, mars in scorpio and My venus is in libra n mars in virgo ..what does this mean?Really wanna/trying 2figure him out but he’s so hard i think im obsessed;> If only i can cast sum sort of spell on him LOL When im around him i act “normal” ish i dont wanna giv anything away yet but at the same time dont want him 2think im not interested..
Us Scorpios must luv a challenge!If it was jus sum any other guy i dont think i wud b so bothered but there is something about this 1 hmm i dont know im jus so attracted 2him lol.. these electric sparks (lol) i sensitively sense/feel between us im not sure if its coming from me or him but trust me definitely something there!My descendant is aquarius (apparently) n moon is in capricorn.. I was thinkin what if he thinks i dont like him so that leaves him unsure ?!
you will not know till he tells you……
How can u tell if aqua guy likes u..?
D jus read ur post its true ure so rite lol He shud jus tel me how he feels but yet i find the mind games n aloofness so sexy cant get him out of my head i wonder if he thinks about me as much lol I wanna press my body unto his.. standing we’d kis so deep passion n lust in our eyes it’d b sensual n so seductive Newoo after he wont know whats hit him he’s gonna wanna propose lol;>
thanks aurora your insight is right on the mark, i will give him his space right now and let him make the first move because i know he will….because i know he totallly enjoyed the last nite we had together. i know what i want right now i want him…..will play
thanks again,
m
dear scorpio women,
most important thing: figure out what YOU want, and remember you are in the drivers seat. also remember that most of all Aquarius men are curious about you, they won’t just walk away unless you really bring the crazy or push them away. so decide where you want to steer things and i would be shocked if he did not follow…
xoxo
aurora
ps. my mom was an aquarius too
Scorp grl Aqua guy
wow, this has been enlightening….i had a relationship with a aqua boy 14 yrs ago gotinto another relationship….marrried and now separated….;..decitsded to give him a call….had wild sex the other nite OMG dont know what to do…..any advice except for staying away….i know that he wants me again but complicated…
i am a scorpio, and am REALLY in love with an aquarius boy. i have been living with aquarians all my life (my mom’s one) but i don’t know how to approach him. he currently lives transatlantic from me, so we only IM and all we do is talk about music (we are music geeks), and i don’t know how to lead the conv. into another way.
i don’t know what to do. i don’t know his moon or ascendant, but i’m a capricorn moon and a gemini ascendant, which makes me talk way too much to him, and i don’t know if he likes that or not because i can’t see him on the other side of the screen. . .
help, please
I am an Aquarius Male!… These are the reasons why we are so hard to read, and what we think…!
Why are we so hard to read! Its because we dont have ONLY one thing on our minds… we have 5, 10 or more at any one time! Initially you WERE hooked!! FACT!! Scorpios want to know that every one fancies them… that they are special, and the chances are that we kept you guessing and NOT TREATING YOU LIKE QUEENS!! We gave you attention making you even more confused but still keeping our alloofness. This caused you to GET REALLY CONFUSED.
The best way to get an aquarian man, is to be really hot, then really cold, and give us a sexy ‘dear’ type look, dont say anything when you stand next to us, we can feel the electricity comming from you. Do the same as what we do to you!
If the aqua man turns off… you turn off… and after a few weeks or months… you will see him running back to you, he will give you one chance, then another, and wait…. he cant get you out of nhis head now… dont go back to him just yet… start it off as really good friends…. but DO NOT BACK OFF THIS TIME… he will get angry and will go out with someone infront of you to get at you… but its not that at all… he knows you get jealous easily… at this point he has gone… to the next interest.
If you dont back off, then become his good buddy, He will want to analyse you and ask you everything about your self in a VERY direct way… dont get offended he is working out if he can trust you.
Let him do what he wants give him a long leash and he will stay by your side FOREVER! HE WILL NEVER CHEAT IF THE LEASH IS LONG ENOUGH… and you will also enjoy the adventure he takes you on.
‘ I read in a book that sums every thing up…. the moment he acts as he is not interested at all, thats when he is close to being hooked!!!!!!’ Trust me im an Aqua male and its happend to me.
wow. i think…….wow, its so true lol.
ima a scorpio girl, and kinda going out with this guy, in a way. idk one min. it seems like he want me so much, then the next…….he is sitting down zoning out, i walk past and he “wakes up” and waves lol.. but the days b 4 that i spent the night at my bff’s house, he is her brother. she fell asleep, and he laid/sat next to me, and thengot up, when he came back he kissed me, put his arms around me, and we watched a movie, there is more but, back to the next day, he looked at me and then danced, i looked at him, and its funny i gave him that “dear” look, and i think it worked, and i didn’t realize that i did it till i read what you wrote, and i hope that the last sentences you wrote is the case, cuz man……he is not the best looking guy out there, and im modeling for small companies. lol, but the point is, that i like him, he said he didn’t at the beginning of the year, but i got the felling he did not to long ago, and then night i stayed over….he showed me and told me. but he said it was my call if this is a one time/night thing or if we were dating…………, he simply said i don’t care, w/e you chose is ok with me. in my head i want him, to go out with him, to be with him. when we are together there is a energy, and every one can feel it, sounds corny but its true lol!
Wow, I must say your comments about brightstarlights.com really impressed me. Since you’re a male Aqurious, I wonder if you could help me resolve my mystery. I’m a scorpio woman and I’m extremely excited about the Aqua man. It’s all happening at work, I noticed him few months ago literally staring at me everytime we pass by each other. On several occasions he tried to start a conversation but I was really not into him. I totally ignored him, never even bothered to say hi to him, and always showed him kind of cold attitude. Until one day everything has changed and I started thinking about him. Now I’m getting opsessed, and can’t stop thinking about him (and I’m in a relationship!). He still looks a lot but haven’t really had a chance to talk to him like I had before. What should I do, this is killing me? I started looking back at him and saying hi just to give him a sign that I’m interested; he still only stares. I wonder if he really likes me and if he will approach me again.
I am an aquarian. I can tell u one thing as you have completely ignored him initially as if he was nothing, so at that point in time he was intrigued by ur denial. So, when u started missing him, u tried to give him signs that u r still interested, so he got the sign that now u r ready. As he now knows that u r ready and interested in him, I think u will have to just wait coz he still stares u, so he wants to take time and know more about ur resolve and interest in him. Suppose if u lose interest in looking at him coz he only stares now, u will think he is not interested and will stop looking, so he will know that ur resolve and commitment for future relationship was not so strong. So if u r still giving him signs for some more time, he will contact u for sure. So plz wait and see.
The strong sexual chemistry between a Scorpio woman and Aqua man really exists….my last Aqua boyfriend was….sizzle…so hot! He was also goofy, a prankster, and never wanted to show how attracted he was to me. I noticed the Hollywood trend as well. I’ve seen quite a few marriages between Aqua men and Scorp women.
Sooo HOT HOT HOT i’m really attracted to him how would i know if he is too..? He is so hard to read! This “thing” has been going on since we met 3 years ago! It frustrates me to be honest don’t know why i’m bothering but i can’t help this strong attraction i feel towards him. Hope i’m not wasting my time is it worth it…
Hey scorgirl That is so true I completely agree. My partner’s friend is an Aquarian and i feel this really strong attraction between us everytime we see each other (when he comes over) I hope it’s not just me feeling it.. I’ve had dreams and everything lol It’s crazy how i’m feeling such strong attraction/force towards him! I’m not naive, i Know when someone isn’t interested, he doesn’t give me that impression.. I find him really hard to read! But how would i really know if he likes me..? Help lol
I am an aquarian man myself and i would like to share my outlook to help u..firstly an aquarion man is shy by nature and sometimes all u have to do is just spend time with him dats all it takes trust me and show him u care by being supportive..in the end u will see it happenin da way u wanted it to be…u have ma word..
i need help myself cause like im havin da same thing goin on with a scorpio gurl..any tips or advice?
I like your advice, but by nature Scorpio women r impatient and we want to know where we stand early on…don’t be confused, we do put time in but we want to see results more often then usual. Unexpectedly in fact…it may have somethin to do with us needing to be reassured most times. Don’t get me wrong we know our own worth, but it’s nothin like our partners compliments, affection, and love reassuring us we’re not in it alone.
As for what you can do…intimacy is key. Not just in making love to her, but overall. You can find intimacy in just about anything she does…if ur paying close attn.
Tip 1: be affectionate (in a personal setting of course…pda for some is out of the question)
Tip 2: include her in decisions…we have a tendency to want it our way just like any man does, so be sure to compromise even when u kno she’ll enjoy it regardless.
Tip 3: Don’t compare her to anyone!! We consider ourselves to be the most unique individuals…making us think u think our wise isn’t a good thing! lol sorry but true.
We’re very complex individuals and it comes from being disappointed more often than we like to be. We have to lower our expectations and make them into realistic ones in order to be successful in relationships…we kno this about ourselves, but we need help doin it. Just like Aquarius men are up in the clouds…so r our expectations of things in life. Having patience, being consistent, and gaining her trust will help her come down to earth slowly but surely.
In the end ur goal is to Love her unconditionally, don’t break her heart, and be ready to explore ur sexual side in detail (lol)….she’ll stay no matter what I guarantee u.
I have been loving an Aquarius male on and off for about 3 years. They are scared of us Scorpio women : ) I think we are too set in our own ways to really give it a try. But the chemistry! Woo Hoo! Couldn’t ask for it to get any hotter.
hmmm… I would start by asking him to tell you all about his job. This is sure to be an unusually fascinating, strange tale even if he has a ‘regular’ career. And of course ask him lots of questions about the job and himself. Then play a little bit hard to get, as all you Scorpio women are so gifted at.. but not too much. Remember, he has several things in common with the Leo man, his opposite, including that he likes to get his ego patted from time to time. That should get him interested!!
im a scorpio who is into an aquarius guy right now and i need to know how to get him. even though i know the relationship will be a trainwreck…
I’m a Scorpio woman who is attracted to air signs because I have Libra Rising, Libra Moon and Venus in Libra. I’m currently involved with a Libra with an Aquarius Moon, so this post makes some sense to me. He’s very brilliant, and very unconventional. Sometimes it drives me crazy, but he never bores me.
I too, am a Scorpio women, and for some reason, have ALWAYS been attracted to Aquarius men. I don’t know what it is.. Im in a relationship with one right now and for the past 10 months have been the best/worst of my life. lol. I know i deserve better, but im just too strongly attracted to him.
I am a Scorpio woman, and have always been into Aquarius men. They are the funniest and sweetest, most sensitive guys around. They have more respect for women than any other sign.
I’m an aquarius with moon in scorpio two fixed signs. I dont like relationships with flakey, wishy washy and weak people. I’m oddly attracted to scorpios but I’ve tried a relationship with a scorpio and it went bad very bad. I am now with a mate who is gemini with a scorpio moon like me it has lasted 15 yrs.